Foreverseeking47 Archive

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1	how to stop letting money psych you out? Two things. Yes you should get your money situation in order. For you and your enjoyment of life. But it has nothing to do with women. It helps to be able to do things and not being limited by money but I've seen times and times again men who had nothing absolutely slay with women because they are attractive in other ways. Hell, I've even had a woman wanting to pay for most things for me even if I have my own money. You can just take almost any woman on a walk and get some coffee or ice cream an…	/r/seduction	28/07/26 04:19 PM
2	What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man? Closer to the real answer than many responses here	/r/seduction	26/07/26 06:23 PM
3	If looks are all that matter People are here on this sub to supposedly get better but they refuse to actually acknowledge information that refute their pessimistic view of the game of life in all aspects. They secretly hope that looks are not all that matters but will still believe deep down that it does and not do anything to start countering those beliefs with actual life experiences.	/r/seduction	21/07/26 12:45 AM
1	Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25? I'm fascinated by how many guys give this advice time and tiem again yet you see so many jacked good looking guys who, while being able to get initial attention, don't go anywere with women because they're either insecure, immature, bland and boring as fuck. The answer will always have to lean more towards solid inner game for long term results and well being.	/r/seduction	20/07/26 01:32 PM
1	First date may have saw me out on a different date Sure	/r/seduction	19/07/26 03:09 PM
1	First date may have saw me out on a different date It depends on the girl. Some of them would be turned off and some of them would get more curious. What matters is are you attractive to her or not? By having this type of questions to yourself you aren't setting yourself up to act	/r/seduction	19/07/26 03:01 PM
1	First date may have saw me out on a different date I don't know why you are thinking about this. First, you said it yourself that what you're worried about could be all made up. You just had a good time with a girl with no expectations of anything yet and then went on a other date as it is your right to do so. Just enjoy the times you have with the girls you meet and get close to and if you like one more and you see her more and she tells you explicitly that she wants to develop things further with you, then you start having more redponsability …	/r/seduction	19/07/26 02:03 PM
1	Hey, i got a dm from a girl on reddit claiming she is a junior from same college, and is very straight forward like asked for my thoughts for bdsm and all. You're right that ideally we don't isooate specific situations here but it seems like half the posts are exactly this	/r/seduction	21/06/26 09:15 AM
1	It's not that women like "bad boys", they just like men who fuck well Enjoy the moment and do whatever the fuck you want (within her boundaries of course). 90% of enjoyment in sex for women is being with someone who is completely immersed in the moment with her. A man being all up in his head is the opposite of what a woman needs to have fun. Technique is just icing on the cake.	/r/seduction	31/05/26 01:23 PM
2	My BF wants to introduce toys into our sex life? MODS you need to ban that user.	/r/seduction	29/05/26 10:41 AM
1	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Bro these things happen but perhaps you are making the wrong conclusion. It happened many times to me that I did exactly what you did but to a man and had the exact same reaction because he was just an asshole. Some people are assholes, men or women. I don't wanna say that the type of women you talk about don't exist because that would both be false and invalidating your experience. That said, it's absolutely a minority that behave like that. All the men I met, good looking or not, whp were soci…	/r/seduction	29/05/26 12:10 AM
1	Is ‘rizz’ really just the absence of overthinking? I don't know why you were downvoted as your comment is a bit similsr to the top one; it might just sound a bit more woo-woo. Anyway, fully agree!	/r/seduction	28/05/26 11:20 AM
-8	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Bro this reads like something that you just regurgutated from the internet. I live in a big city in North America and it's nothing like that in real life. People, women included, mostly want a fun and genuine connection. If no one can offer that, they might go for what they think they want. There is a serious lack of carefree and fun men to interact with for them (not saying women are perfect) so they will, again, go for what they think they want or claim high that they want these things simply …	/r/seduction	27/05/26 11:02 PM
1	Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy? There are others who will. Just move on without missing a step. I have seen in myself and so many others that we don't reliably know what really makes a woman want to have sex with you. Sometimes it's looks alone but that won't last or create a satisfying experience for you both. Sometimes it's mostly in your behavior. People say they want certain things and they might genuinely believe that. That is the case with women who supposedly want xyz; just get to them and show them something different …	/r/seduction	24/05/26 02:16 PM
3	Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy? Well how does being jacked help with carrying a fun conversation with a woman? I used a lot of energy in the past to be in tiptop physical shape for my sports but appearance wise mostly for women and the only thing that it might have helped with a tiny bit more immediate attention but it never helped me interact with them in anyway. You can be jacked, tall, handsome and still not feel good and like you deserve being in the situation and have a meek presence and you WILL be overlooked most of the…	/r/seduction	24/05/26 12:22 PM
4	Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy? Aa far as your appearance goes you should just take basic care of yourself because you value yourself. Hit the gym or play some sports you enjoy, eat well and sleep well. Do all these to make yourself feel good that's it, not because you think it will bring you the life you want with women because you'll be chasing your tail forever. I'm not gonna give you practical tips on how to approach because you're a human and you'll need someone to tell what to do in every step of the way if all you're lo…	/r/seduction	24/05/26 12:07 PM
2	Is cold approach worth it as an average looking guy? Good thing to do for many reasons but not even close to being enough for what OP wants to achieve.	/r/seduction	24/05/26 11:49 AM
0	Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main course Don't you think it could be because people in spring/summer are far more likely to want to go out and meet people and hook up? I've certainly seen this every year here in Montreal. Also, at some point, you could have subconsciously decided that you look better when you are lean and you like that look more on you and that made you act subtly different. I'm not disagreeing with you, just exploeing other possibilities.	/r/seduction	20/05/26 01:01 AM
2	31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again. I was waiting unti lthe end of your comment to find the key in your advice. So many guys just approach approach approach without really knowing what they're doing and they just dig a hole for themselves because who in their right mind would keep doing what doesn't work and not feel a bit discouraged. The point of hiring really good coaches and applying what you learn is actually good advice here. It's not necessary but you have to get the right knowledge somewhere otherwise you're gonna crash an…	/r/seduction	26/04/26 11:17 AM
5	How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally? I'm not saying she's lying, I'm saying that you have no way to know about the truth since it's a number women feel usually shameful about sharing. I'm also not sure it's because there is something inherently shameful about having a high body count as a woman or if it is because men are the ones who make them feel like they have to lie because they are seen as less than or impure if they have a higher body count than men desire. The less judgmental you are about this stuff, the more women will sh…	/r/seduction	03/04/26 10:55 AM
-1	How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally? Guys should just forget about this stuff and focus on themselves entirely. I mean, who cares? It's not like you're ever gonna be guaranteed to know the truth about a woman's body count so why even worry about it? We should all just focus on being the best version of ourselves and go after what we want. Your question just exposes insecurity because a secure man doesn't even think about this shit.	/r/seduction	03/04/26 10:01 AM
0	10 truths about modern dating you need to know 100%	/r/seduction	02/04/26 09:19 AM
9	Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process? Some questions are valid, and some are just being asked to waste your own time. This is not the type of knowledge you should seek to get better at this. This only makes you better at overthinking things and not taking action. Get to the point you feel good about yourself, talk to people like you belong everywhere you go and get very clear on what you want and you will get better at this. Above all, stop thinking for nothing.	/r/seduction	01/04/26 09:41 AM
3	I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6s That's a very good answer compared to most that are in this thread. The thing about being comfortable around them being very important is a 100% true.	/r/seduction	31/03/26 03:43 PM
1	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? This thread is insane to me. Fucking women you are not attracted to is pitiful behavior. Not saying you should only aim for super hot women but you should be attracted to them at least a little bit.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 01:18 PM
1	Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like? Yeah also a lot of men live in sexual scarcity. Give them a very hot woman who is for some reason interested in them and the sex becomes this super exciting thing whereas a man with options could perhaps enjoy sex with them but will generally need more than just a hot body to feel satisfied about the experience.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 12:54 AM
3	Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like? Perhaps that's a difference between the sexual perspective of the average man vs the one of the average woman. A hot body could be enough of a turn on to make the average man have a lot of fun while the experience of the average woman could be subpar and lacking in crucial other aspects.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 12:32 AM
6	Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like? This is very true. My experience showed me exactly that and I used to fall to that type of thinking after I had a bitter ending to an adventure I had with an extremely hot woman. She was fun, could be very sweet but was overall a headache and had a boat load of issues. I had some unfinished business with her after she decided to call it quits and that made me a bit bitter; t was easier to tell myself that 10's were horrible people to make me feel better instead of facing the disappointment head …	/r/seduction	30/03/26 12:27 AM
1	Advice for a loner? You seem self-aware, smart and you articulate. All of this is good but people value having fun over most other things. My advice would be to first take pride in what I've already accomplished but also acknowledge deeply how otger parts of my life have been neglected and make it an absolute priority to deal with. You HAVE to move as I don't think commiting to regular trips to the city is realistic. In the meantime you can still take advantage of the few times you can interact with humans in gener…	/r/seduction	29/03/26 10:43 AM
4	how do you go about when a girl is down to sleep with you but doesn't want to come off as easy You have to make it fun enough that it's a no brainer for her to go for it. Also, generally valuing your own time is important here because it will be very clear in the way you come across that you won't waste your time and that if she's not cooperating you're out. Some women just need to see that you won't judge her so your own view of sexuality matters here; some men wanna fuck a lot of women but hold very negative and judgemental views of women enjoying their sexual freedom. It just has to be…	/r/seduction	29/03/26 10:34 AM
8	10 small yet important lessons an extremely toxic relationship taught me Can't have discussions now lol sorry it's true with 16 years old you have to keep it very short to keep their attention. Weird because your horrible post was not a short read. Never mind all that, just read u/-ConstantProgress- comment, it's accurate and straight to the point.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 02:11 AM
15	10 small yet important lessons an extremely toxic relationship taught me Oh I am but just because I love getting more and more out of life everyday. I was in a rush but I have some time now. Your post just sounds like it was written by an 18 years old who had one experience with a chick who has loads of mental issues. You acknowledge the fact that the relationship was extremely toxic yet you make points as to how it is with women in general. I might be wrong but I'm just not sure I follow. Related to your points, yes women want a man who has options since an they wan…	/r/seduction	28/03/26 01:36 AM
115	10 small yet important lessons an extremely toxic relationship taught me Jesus Christ... I agree with some points but others are so bad it makes me mad to think of my future daughter who's gonna deal with guys who think like you.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 12:42 AM
8	How do I get over my fear of women? 28M You're in a good spot. It means you're alive and it's important to you. That said, you have to internalize the fact that as long as you let that fear dictate how you act and have power over you, you won't be able to show up in a way that makes these women want to keep interacting with you. The best version of yourself might still feel some fear but he acts anyway and doesn't let anything outside of his own authority dictate how he is supposed to act. What I think you should do is to slowly get m…	/r/seduction	21/03/26 12:31 PM
1	thoughts / experiences on Dublin and Ireland in general? Do you live there or you plan on travelling there?	/r/seduction	20/03/26 11:29 PM
7	You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No Girls Exactly, ultimately it's way easier for guys to go to the gym than to start talking to girls so if they can bypass it why not? The thing is, as you implied, it doesn't do shit at making you better at getting you want with women. I mean I get it I've been there and still not completely comfortable going through the whole process but it should be made very clear to everyone here that the most important thing to get better at this is to talk to women and learn to get more and more comfortable doing…	/r/seduction	20/03/26 12:40 PM
1	Seek out more rejection! I don't think that guys who struggle really need this advice. While it is very true and crucial that we should not take rejection personally and that it should absolutely not affect our stride in any way, just seeking rejections is utterly useless if you don't know what you're doing wrong or right. Again, I agree also on the fact that doing nothing on your couch will not lead to results of any kind, I don't think that the only other alternative is to shoot your shot left and right as a learning …	/r/seduction	18/03/26 08:45 PM
4	Why does it feel like when I’m tipsy my confidence is through the roof? And how can I get into this state of mind while sober? As others have said, it lowers your inhibitions and in some cases makes them disappear. I've had the same experience on either alcohol or on very small doses of psychedelics many times, to then slowly being able to more and more have it sober. I'm not completely there yet but it's a process as you'll learn. How does lowered inhibitions looks in action is you being completely present to the moment and outward oriented instead of being all up in your mind. When you are tipsy, you don't think about…	/r/seduction	14/03/26 11:35 AM
5	How to not be boring Bro that's on you there are plenty of things to talk about. You can tease her by asking her if she's like all girls working out only their lower body, talk about the guy grunting like crazy, the way she impresses you with the weight she's lifting and how you're scared of her because she's too strong, the music that is very good or that sucks at the gym and how that could relate to her own taste, whatever. Just think further than your own bubble and be actually present and you'll find plenty of t…	/r/seduction	12/03/26 09:38 PM
3	How to not be boring Just get into your body, stay in a fun state and notice how they make you feel. Be present, play and joke around, touch them lightly at first on their arms, lower back and if the vibe is right move to their hands, outer thighs and stuff like that. You let your body lead, you want to touch her and she wants to be touched by you if you are both genuinely enjoying each other's presence. You don't need to get in a specific mindset, if you are healthy and present and you ACTUALLY like her, you will w…	/r/seduction	12/03/26 06:26 PM
3	How to not be boring Talk about anything you notice in the environment that you find amusing or endearing. If you are truly present, there are at least 10 things around you can talk about that isn't about her looks. You probably do that with others you have no attraction towards so just learn to stay present when you get in interactions with women you find attractive.	/r/seduction	12/03/26 06:21 PM
1	How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexuality Exactly. Like I said some people use it as ane scape so it does the opposite of what we're looking for. I know that's what I did for a long time and my solution was to do even more sports and it definitely didn't change anything in that regard.	/r/seduction	08/03/26 02:00 AM
2	How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexuality There you go, what healed you is crying out the pain not the running itself. You touched a very good point by saying not to distract yourself with music, porn or whatvlever. I play sports and ran and worked out an INSANE amount and all of this without any music and distraction and it has never been enough for me to heal because I was still running away from the pain. It also depends on the relationship you have with those activities; some people use them as an escape so it does the exact opposit…	/r/seduction	07/03/26 03:33 PM
2	How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexuality Bro this is way too simplistic to make any sense. If just running deeply heals you from trauma it just means it wasn't that deep and you were able to translate that powerful awareness of the present moment to other situations. I tried everything and the only thing that actually helped me was to directly deal with my shit by goimg towards it instead of running away. That said, let's say you run without music and it's some kind of meditation for you where you allow yourself to feel how you feel an…	/r/seduction	07/03/26 02:48 PM
7	Complacement while in a casual relationship Women of all consenting ages want sex just as much as you. They just want to protect themselves from the backlash that comes from men like you who shame them by seeing them as sluts if they have sex early on. You want sex with women but you talk about them this way if they also do, it doesn't make any sense and won't help you at all to have satisfying relationships of all kinds with them.	/r/seduction	07/03/26 01:59 PM
1	How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexuality You are way closer to where you wanna go by meditating the right way than by exercising. Don't get me wrong, running or any type of exercise is amazing for your overall health; what it won't ever do though is heal you from the emotional shit that you want to adress that propelled you to write this post.	/r/seduction	07/03/26 12:14 PM
3	How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexuality Not even close to being enough. Running is amazing for you and so is doing any other type of exercise. It's still just a tool to assist the whole body and mind system to work as efficiently as possible during hard times. No way will it heal this man's trauma which is deep rooted. He needs to feel all the emotions related to this topic and be gentle with himself along the way. Feeling bad about feeling bad instead of allowing yourself to feel all the crap so it can then be let go of is what's kee…	/r/seduction	07/03/26 12:12 PM
8	How much does not giving a fuck play a part? Completely irrelevant. You have a limited amount of energy and attention, use them wisely.	/r/seduction	02/03/26 02:09 AM
1	Ball Uptop: Just went 1/2 @ the grocer Bro I'm sure the slang is optional for you. I mean, to be taken seriously as an adult you should speak and write as one. Not hating though just an unsolicited but important advice. I can see from some part of this post that you know how to talk properly.	/r/seduction	26/02/26 05:50 PM
1	rant about affirmations / you all should watch neville goddard What is designed to work is the thing that will bring you conviction that you what you desire is yours be it affirmations, SATS, mental diet, revision or any other. A technique isn't in and of itself designed to work 100% of the time and again, Neville said so. Some people, including myself at some point, are at war within themselves and simply mindlessly repeating words over and over again isn't always enough to convince them that they are safe and that their desires are within reach. It also t…	/r/seduction	22/02/26 04:50 PM
2	Is getting my ex back "masculine" You said it yourself, she was obsessed and drama ensued, why would you want that as if you are the only one who did wrong? Also, she is publicly saying she feels nothing for her boyfriend. Why would you want that? Even if she felt something for you, she would do something fucked up like this, it would just look different. Plenty of other women, just learn from what happened and make better decisions next time!	/r/seduction	22/02/26 11:49 AM
0	rant about affirmations / you all should watch neville goddard I tried to do it many times the way you describe and it didn't work for me. The only thing that worked for me was doing two things simultaneously: what I said in ny first comment about really the natural feelings I would get if I had the thing I desired along with allowing what is in my 3d to run its course. If you are walking around with a bomb ready to explode from all the shit you have accumulated from the past and hacen't been able to deal with in an effective way, realistically, you want to…	/r/seduction	22/02/26 11:37 AM
3	rant about affirmations / you all should watch neville goddard Affirmations don't work for everyone. Neville's point is that in order to create a new specific reality you have to get to a point where you can build inside of yourself the specific feelings and sensations you would have if the things you desire were already yours. If that's by doing affirmations, great. Most people have to try a bunch of different shit before they get to the point where they can begin to shift their reality. Affirmations never worked for me. What did work was to relax as much …	/r/seduction	22/02/26 05:51 AM
1	What is your opinion on Blackpill/Looks Matter #1 I very much agree with your unique way of telling it how it is lol. The focus should always be on yourself and the girls you like. We tend to care so much about irrelevant shit that we don't put our attention and time, which are really our most precious resources, into enjoying our life and moving forward.	/r/seduction	21/02/26 11:43 AM
14	High maintenance girl during a low point in life? What to do when your pick up worked… Just do what you can and be fun to be around. Don't try to give her what you don't have. You are not what you possess so show her what you are about and if it's not enough for her fuck it. The expectations she has for what a man should have should have no influence on what you think you are worth so don't let anything that happens with her mean shit to you.	/r/seduction	19/02/26 11:31 PM
1	Telling the difference between your coworker being into you vs friendly? What are the subtle tells? Good for you that you know that you won't pursue anything because you care about keeping this job. To answer your question, I don't think you should care about that. This is a sign that you are looking for permission to act on what you want and want to be sure that you won't be rejected or look like a fool if you risk going for it. You are interested, take some risk, have fun and escalate a little by being a bit more daring with you touch and see how she reacts. At one point, it juste becomes th…	/r/seduction	18/02/26 09:50 AM
35	What would make a girl want to see you again even after sex was bad on first time? Their time with you felt overall pleasurable and they wanna see you again. They know that first times are not perfect and don't expect you to be; they are not discarding any guy that isn't their personal sex god from the get go. Ideally, it just gets better over time and that happens when you focus on having a very good time and providing one over trying to be perfect sexually every time.	/r/seduction	17/02/26 05:03 PM
1	Good 2nd date plans after strong 1st date? What the fuck does that have to do with anything?	/r/seduction	16/02/26 08:47 PM
2	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps The world isn't fair and it should be otherwise blablabla. Men aren't entitled to any woman's attention and unconditional kindness. Yes people should all behave with decency but that's all we should expect. The issue is guys try to do something that is obviously outside the norm and expect everything to be easy and fair while it is clearly very hard to do and should be expected to come with some friction from others. As men, we should just accept that a big part of our success comes from a confi…	/r/seduction	15/02/26 05:33 PM
2	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps Perhaps I am too quick to put others in a box. Yes, sure, I think that at some point you can see if one really wants to learn or is just trying to find more and more refined excuses as I once did. That said, you made me consider the fact that I should probably be a bit more empathetic and give people some chance to show their determination to learn f I am to give some kind of advice.	/r/seduction	14/02/26 01:17 PM
3	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps I'll also add that guys need to understand that they often tie their self-worth to the results they get while approaching and that is a huge mistake and not helpful at all when you are tge learning stage. It also leads to fallacious conclusions	/r/seduction	14/02/26 11:55 AM
2	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps I understand what you are saying but I and others have tried many times to listen to guys who have this specific excuse and to talk it out. Most of the times you find that the excuse is actually just part of a pattern they have to find a reason to not do the uncomfortable to grow because they are simply scared. You can get all the theory and the reassurance you want on your side, at some point you just have to jump in the water.	/r/seduction	14/02/26 11:53 AM
7	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps It's just a matter of guys avoiding feeling uncomfortable by trying something that isobjectively hard, putting way too much importance on the results and tying that to their sense of self-worth. It's honestly the most laughable reason why someone would refrain from approaching.	/r/seduction	14/02/26 11:34 AM
7	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps I'm not dismissing his whole being. I'm dismissing his excuse. The fact is he's scared of approaching women and getting rejected and don't wanna deal with that discomfort so it's easier for him to tell himself that in 2026 it's very hard to approach because things can go wrong. Things going seriously wrong account for an extremely small number of approaches. Honestly, nothing will if he doesn't insist and is not disrespectful.	/r/seduction	14/02/26 11:32 AM
38	how to meet girls in 2026 without apps I don't get what can go wrong that is so bad that some guys can't fathom the idea of approaching. It just sounds like excuses to me.	/r/seduction	14/02/26 10:36 AM
1	How to get a girlfriend? I don't get the downvotes. This is actually not too bad of an advice. OP is stuck in some very negative narrative in his mind and needs to change the story he tells himself about himself more than anything.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 12:18 PM
8	Daygame Fashion Guide Bro this might be a nice post on fashion itself but you can wear whatever the fuck you want as long as you don't look completely out of place. You can wear sweatpants or cargos or chinos if that's your style and convey the energy of a man she will be attracted to on the spot. I appreciate the effort and the quality of your post but I think putting these kinds of limits onto oneself is not helping at all and putting the emphasis on the wrong thing. I think what's important is that you find clothe…	/r/seduction	03/02/26 08:45 PM
5	36M i don't know what to do That's again victim mentality talking. You don't know everything, how these guys function in their subconscious mind and how they talk to themselves which is a lot more important than a lot of guys on here seem to think.	/r/seduction	01/02/26 10:49 PM
7	36M i don't know what to do I don't think that the help you need will be found here man. You need to get out of that bullshit mental narrative you have in your mind in any way and accept everything you are and have at this momrnt in time. That comes with feeling a the hurt you can feel from having missed the past 15 years of not having experienced what you wished you had. Only then you will be able to actually make changes from a place of love instead of doing it because you need to fix your perceived broken self. Truth is…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 04:49 PM
1	Pulled last night but keep thinking about the rejections It definitely is possible to turn it around but that should be when you are able to detach your worth from the results you get in a specific interaction; once you already have momentum which you do not have at the moment. I just thought of another thing that could be helpful that I heard from different people. Treat this as a video game. You are a character that can die and be revived all of the time and the results you got before dying has no bearing on what can happen in the future. Find a way…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 02:24 PM
5	Pulled last night but keep thinking about the rejections Yes but it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it since a lot of women might just not notice you for some reason but get very warm when you interact with them in a fun way. It's important to remove your ego from all of this; you are just one person in a huge and very stimulating environment. Also, try new things with women, just have fun and talk some shit and banter, nothing is all that serious and you could be very surprised about the effect that kind of attitude has on people. Last thing, just move…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 02:01 PM
33	Pulled last night but keep thinking about the rejections The main thing here is that you can't take rejection personally. Anyone will get rejected if they use a numbers game approach. The men I know who have a very good success rate just know who will be more receptive to their approach and will never just approach random girls. I'm not saying that so you stop approaching, I'm saying that because you use an inevitability to make yourself feel bad instead of just assuming this is the default and practicing your skills without attaching your worth to th…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 01:33 PM
1	I feel like day gaming is not even worth it? Field report This is refreshing to see. Personally I like talking to everyone, but I'm tired of seeing this advice on here because it's not every guy's desire to do so but it is every guy's desire om here to want to get closer to one or multiple women or at all get the skills to do so reliably. I think you are doing a good thing by staying true to yourself in that aspect. That said, you absolutely need to make a girl feel really good around you when you interact with her and show her your value above your lo…	/r/seduction	30/01/26 09:21 PM
2	Anyone has experience with dating men hater women ? I never understood these generalization. I was seeing a woman who hated men deeply and while her being extremely hot made me enjoy sex a bit more she was definitely not great in bed.	/r/seduction	27/01/26 02:28 PM
27	Do natty bodybuilders have the ideal physique? I think that guys are thinking about the most irrelevant shit most of the time and wasting the most precious resource that they have : their attention. Get as fit as you can and get as best as you can in whatever aspect of life you value and that's it. Enjoy your life and feel good about yourself just because; not because you have this or that thing that society deems valuable. I could go off for a long time in this direction because most posts I see here are from guys who are not doing the only…	/r/seduction	27/01/26 06:53 AM
1	How do you keep busy? They're not a waste of time in general bro and that applies to you since you are on this subreddit; it means it is important to you.	/r/seduction	26/01/26 06:39 PM
2	How do you keep busy? You are blaming the fact that you are not busier as the reason why you are needy instead of looking for the real reasom why you are and instead of doing the real inner work and taking the real actions that will lead to you being less needy. That is very general since what you need to do will be different than what another man needs to do.	/r/seduction	26/01/26 02:19 PM
4	what was your best life experience as an adult man? I saw you had been downvoted and I just had to upvote because it actually can be quite amazing. Here's to other fun trips!	/r/seduction	26/01/26 05:15 AM
2	What the fuck is wrong with me? At that time, if she was attracted to you there is a good chance that she stops since it isn't as fun as it was in her mind before. It's all about perception; she looks at you and or talk to you and makes up an image in her mind of you that she might or might not like. If she finds herself attracted to you for whatever reason and then you interact with her and look all inhibited and flustered as if she is giving you a special gift, she starts to feel that you aren't the guy she thought you were;…	/r/seduction	29/12/25 09:31 PM
3	What the fuck is wrong with me? I think it's really good that are doing something for your trauma which is a huge part of why you are acting the way you are. There is nothing inhrerently wrong with you; you just learned to think and act in a way that doesn't serve you. Just notice how many guys on here feel exactly like you do, it's very common. Along with the trauma release stuff, I would try to slowly put myself in situations that I find uncomfortable and slowly start to feel comfortable in these situations. Don't judge your…	/r/seduction	29/12/25 08:46 PM
1	Did I ask out too soon? Wait I'm confused, did you text her that or only planning to?	/r/seduction	20/12/25 08:55 PM
7	you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashed Guys can't get through their head that they don't own women. You're not even in a relationship with her and you are focused on so many of the wrong things. It's not your girlfriend so who cares what she does. You should be talking to other women while she is away and keep talking to her when she gets back as she has done absolutely nothing wrong; her trip was planned before you even met you. The premise of this post only talks about the insecurity you have more than anything that has to do about…	/r/seduction	13/12/25 01:12 PM
3	Best way to not put women on a pedestal? progressively overloading the weight of the woman in your mind lmao thanks for the laugh dude!	/r/seduction	06/12/25 01:12 AM
4	Genuine confusion and frustration about giving “fuck boy energy” Great advice. Especially the part about not asking permission to flirt and the wearing a personality that others can't bend; you are your own leader and don't need anyone to give you the right to be your best self.	/r/seduction	28/11/25 08:22 PM
5	They consider me attractive but I don't flirt Learn to push your own buttons, what makes you feel good and light. You can't do that reliably though if you have some shit in your psyche that makes you feel not good enough. At some point in your past, you internalized that you weren't good enough for some reason and built the tendency to compare yourself negatively to other men. You have to deal with that first. When you're in a situation where you feel that way, don't runaway, don't try to make things work because you have a very heavy weigh…	/r/seduction	28/11/25 08:06 PM
3	Is 4-inch length and 4-inch girth enough? He said girth not diameter 😂	/r/seduction	25/11/25 10:56 PM
1	These 4 things determine 80-90% of attraction This is the biggest thing. YOU decide whether these things apply to you or not.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 02:10 PM
1	These 4 things determine 80-90% of attraction My experience and observation tend to make me believe otherwise. The issue is that most men are incredibly dull and socially inept when it comes to interacting with women. Some of them are even that way in their own mind and with people they're close to while others become that way when interacting with women they find attractive. Many things are valuable in an interaction and looks is not one of them after about 30 seconds. Of course when you play the same game as anyone else you will lose to o…	/r/seduction	24/11/25 12:06 PM
1	These 4 things determine 80-90% of attraction It is not true that the overwhelming majority doesn't meet the looks THRESHOLD. The majority might not be incredibly good-looking but most men can be decent looking by just taking care of themselves. How you act in front of her will definitely have an impact on whether or not she's attracted as long as you look decent. You won't attract just anyone but you never know the girls who might like you even smif she doesn't give you signs initially.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 10:58 AM
24	Lots of female friends, funny, tall and some say good-looking but still, just turned 27 and no serious relationship, what to do? Do you feel sexual inside? And if so, do you convey this feeling to women by the way you look at them? Do you say what's on your mind without thinking most of the time or do you filter what to say from a perspective of keeping a certain reputation and saving face? Women have to know you view them in a sexual way for them to want to be with you in that way. It's a good thing that you already know how to be friends without them and that you have all these empathetic qualities. That said, these are…	/r/seduction	23/11/25 07:38 PM
2	I will solve your problems with women in one sentence Man, it is very unclear what your point is in any part of this interaction. Enjoy your day!	/r/seduction	23/11/25 02:13 PM
2	I will solve your problems with women in one sentence I agree that women aren't as picky as guys here think but it doesn't really have any correlation to what you're saying. A woman trusting you is obviously a good thing, but that fact in and of itself is not worth much in the context of attraction. Gay men can be very trustworthy in the eyes of women, that doesn't directly lead to any sexual desire. How you take care of yourself, your appearance, your social skills, your ability to make women feel all kinds of emotions, your confidence level, your…	/r/seduction	23/11/25 01:39 PM
2	These 4 things determine 80-90% of attraction It is very obvious why a girl would or would not be attracted to you after a second of seeing you. That said, you can generate that attraction 2 seconds later simply by how you behave. The thing that makes them be attracted to height or facial features is the fact that you stand out in some way and that it is almost guaranteed in her mind that you are desirable to lots of women. Women want to be with someone who is cool, secure and who people love in general. Who is most likely to be those thing…	/r/seduction	23/11/25 01:13 PM
12	I will solve your problems with women in one sentence I'm almost a 100% sure you can put a little bit more effort when making a post. Not to mention how false your sentence is considering that it is insanely incomplete. A woman can trust you and not want to fuck and or date you so this sentence alone absolutely does not solve anyone's issues they have with women.	/r/seduction	23/11/25 01:02 PM
1	Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s? Your last paragraph contains very important pieces of truth!!	/r/seduction	18/11/25 08:47 PM
3	A trick I used to teach my students I understand your point of you man and I was one to adopt such strategy to feel less insecure around girls. What I'm saying is that if you want a sustainable way to feel even with girls it or like you're the shit and you value yourself deeply, your strategy is a very short-term one and will not give you the kind of satisfaction you can get from developing real self-esteem. I get where you're coming from though and more than it is possible to convey with a keyboard and a screen.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:02 PM
14	A trick I used to teach my students What a load of bullshit. Look, I understand that lots of guys, myself included at some point in my life, need to stop putting women on a pedestal. How you do that though is not by bringing another down in your mind but by bringing yourself up. You have feeligns for a girl and feel some type of way, cool, just accept it, value yourself so much that you know that whatever feeling you have is something you can handle and that it doesn't have to dictate anything about how you live your life and move…	/r/seduction	17/11/25 08:53 PM
4	Spent so many years by myself I've become a loner/quiet guy You say you are pretty chatty on one on one and small groups so that means you can do it. In reality, there is no difference; your brain just thinks it is different since there are more people therefore more opportunities to be judged negatively. Understand also that what makes you see this in a negative way comes back to how we evolved over time. Being judged negatively is akin to be kicked out of the tribe which then leads to very high probability of death. This is ultimately what most fear we…	/r/seduction	15/11/25 06:09 PM
2	How do you “just do it?” It's a skill you get better at slowly. Understand that thinking is your enemy in this case. You want to beq thinking when you try to figure out practical solutions in your everyday life or when you are brainstorming for something. You absolutely don't want to be thinking when you are at any point during an interaction with someone, and that includes before you approach them. You just go in, focused, completely locked in your body and what it's doing in the moment, devoid of all thoughts about yo…	/r/seduction	14/11/25 11:52 AM
11	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? I think that ''going on dates'' part has different levels. OP probably doesn't want to go on dates that last a long time and in which the girl has the clear behavior and expectations of someone who doesn't want to get physical on the first dates. I think he can still be open to go on walks and/or coffee/drinks short dates with women he met by approaching and just socializing just to talk a little bit and be honest about what he wants; if the woman is on the same page, he can then escalate then a…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 12:54 PM
2	I miss being “girl crazy” and being very horny. My libido and interest in women is almost non existent at 22. This speaks to me brother I experienced exactly this and I still do a lot. I almost always follow the school of thoughts that say that this kind of issue almost has a psychological/emotional explanation. Yes you should lay off the porn, but to me, excessive consumption of porn is more of a symptom for many guys than the direct source of their issues. You talked about being rejected a lot and having bad experiences with women; I'm almost certain this is where your issue comes from. Some guys are …	/r/seduction	07/11/25 10:41 AM
4	Taking a break from this The other guy is right that in the end, no one cares about your excuses. I mean, if you have some people you love, they obviously care about YOU, but everyone in your life and those who aren't yet will always prefer to see you winning than losing and having a bunch of excuses and using your past as to why you can't be winning. Women, even or I could say especially the ones who are intelligent, empathetic and kind will always choose the guys who bring results in many aspects of their lives above …	/r/seduction	02/11/25 12:10 PM
2	Why it is hard for short guys in dating Doesn't have to be. But it sure will be if you wear your shortness as an armor and bring it in all your interactions. Get to the point where you're so secure in yourself that you genuinely believe that women would be dumb to disqualify you based on that trait. It shouldn't even cross your mind ever, especially not in any interaction you're having as it literally has absolutely no bearing on how it will be for you with anyone no matter how hot or valuable they may seem.	/r/seduction	30/10/25 02:37 PM
12	So honestly, wtf I assume she is under 25 or close to it. In my experience, there are A LOT of women who have an unquenchable thirst for validation and they use their sexuality to get it. Yes most of them are having sex at least occasionally but a lot of them are stuck on their phones and what they can get out of it can sometimes be sufficient to satisfy their needs for that validation. I met a few women like that. From your post, that's my first thought.	/r/seduction	23/10/25 10:15 PM
2	Starting to prefer only going for those who make it easy for me I get exactly where you are coming from, trust me I do. But the fact is that you are in prison and will stay there as long as you don't challenge whatever beliefs you have. Your beliefs are reflected in reality. All these things are true for you but the world is limitless in possibilities so you, in fact, decide whether these propositions apply to you or not. I'm not saying that just to spill useless positive bullshit. There are countless of examples of guys who don't fit the description of what…	/r/seduction	23/10/25 08:49 PM
3	Frequency or necessity of "relief/release" men require, versus women? Bro there are as many levels of sex drive as there are people in this world. Also, a sex drive can vary a lot in an individual's life. Some people have it lower when they're stressed, for others it's the opposite. Some people need to feel desired by a specific person to even start needing any sexual activity. One thing though, when women are not on any hormonal birth control, they are usually hornier during their ovulation phase and sometimes during their period. But even that can't be generaliz…	/r/seduction	21/10/25 10:11 PM
10	What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman? Women look at hands in general. When she says she likes your hands unsollicited, she's into you. As weird as it can sound for us guys lol	/r/seduction	21/10/25 07:43 PM
8	How to Get Hotter Girls I agree that it's easier to have confidence when you have a 6 pack. But if you have guys who have that yet they struggle to get results, we can't be satisfied with that answer, it is incomplete. That's why I talked about the belief that you are on the same level of the girl is what will ultimately bring results. The thing is, social conditioning is incredibly strong so you see most people just accept that a fit body, money, perfect jawline and all that stuff is what gets you results. But to reit…	/r/seduction	20/10/25 11:27 PM
23	How to Get Hotter Girls While this is important, it doesn't get to the most important thing for a man to have : the solid belief that he is on the same level or above as those girls. The way it's gonna come across is that the man who believes he is on top will naturally be relaxed, funny, uninhibited and socially dominant. You see guys who are very handsome and fit get turned down even if they caught a woman's eye simply because they are insecure and it shows in their way of expressing themselves and how they move in a…	/r/seduction	20/10/25 07:39 PM
1	Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me? They like you for sure. It's just that, in my experience, the ones who REALLY like you do things consistently that who might like you but not as much have some reserve as to what they want to do to and with you. I'm just speaking generally though I am aware that some women are just not into some specific acts. Then again, these same women might do the very things they thought they were not into when they meet a specific men who makes them feel some kind of way.	/r/seduction	14/10/25 06:48 PM
2	Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me? Or they don't like you like that. Never met a woman who genuinely liked me who didn't want to give head often, and most of them as much as they could.	/r/seduction	14/10/25 05:39 PM
7	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? Also, again, if it's not forced, just being direct in your touch and words is something that most guys would appreciate a lot. If you're horny just touching him and saying things such : "I've been thinking about having you inside of me all day" or "I want you in my mouth right now" will never not have a positive effect unless the guy is a eunuch.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 01:31 PM
42	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? I think the most important thing is to GENUINELY be attracted to the guy and want him. At this point you can just say anything be it sexy, kind, that shows your attraction or appreciation of the guy. You can be very pleasant to be around and show him that you trust his decisions. Also anything that makes him understand that you find him incredibly hot and you would let him do "anything" to you is also most of time very appreciated. It's not rocket science. Don't give him reasons to feel insecure…	/r/seduction	27/09/25 01:29 PM
36	Seduction/Sex novels that helps you understand the mind of women? "My secret garden" by Nancy Friday is a collection of women's sexual fantasies. Interesting read.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 10:20 PM
7	How do you realize is time to stop chasing a girl I agree with pretty much everything you said. In the end, the choice is yours and it comes with a great sense of agency when you stop thinking the girl needs to act a certain way for you to feel okay. That said, getting a "fuck yes" is something most guys here never even got to experience, hence the kinds of questions and posts we often see here.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 11:37 PM
1	She loved me madly, now she rejects me... What should I do? You have an idealized perception of girls and love man. I think some romanticism of the thing is beautiful but you have to stay grounded. Don't think too much about her actions. She might have very well been deeply attached and in love with you and whatever happened hurt her and that is her way of coping and it has nothing to do with you. Also, you live far from each other so there is no point. Think about yourself and what you do, accept how you feel and don't stay in contact with her. Don't tr…	/r/seduction	31/07/25 01:23 PM
2	Can a woman abstain for engaging in physical intimacy with a guy if she thinks he is a player ? I admit I have fallen victim to that type of thinking. It is profoundly depressing and leads to a dating and sexual life of resentment and drought.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 03:50 PM
28	How can you tell if a girl is single before approaching her? Don't wait for anything before going after what you want. That's a good rule to follow.	/r/seduction	12/04/25 03:47 PM
1	Are athletes 6ft+ usually packing??? They have bigger erections than THEY would have if they had worse circulatory systems but not bigger than the next guy because of that. They could still very well have a micro penis that gets very hard while another man with poor circulatory systems could have an 8 inch dick that doesn't get very hard.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 01:20 PM
4	Sex anxiety is real how do i get over it? You are having good sex according to her. What about according to you? While I understand perfectly how you feel, sex is supposed to be a fun thing. As soon as you get more anxiety from it than pleasure, you need to do some introspection. You have objectively the kind of situation that many men wish they had. You get compliments from your girl unprompted and you still get insecure. It's a 100% sure that you would find a way to get insecure if she told you nothing too. So I would focus on underst…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 12:41 PM
2	How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media? Take your time. You say you're at peace but be sure to have healed from it and to not bring any baggage into your next dating phase. Girls aren't going anywhere so don't put too much pressure on yourself. Also, in my opinion, the most important thing to focus on to get better with women is to make sure you feel as good about yourself as you can; to be in a high self-esteem state of mind. How you get there is up to you. All the best.	/r/seduction	09/04/25 01:00 AM
8	How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media? Is it feminine to post your whole life all the time 10x a day? Perhaps. Is it feminine to post a couple of things to showcase things that are important or cool to you and market yourself in a way? Absolutely not. Is it feminine to worry about it being feminine or not? I would say it is. Just do whatever you want brother.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 10:12 PM
2	CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man Well I wouldn't base any hard evaluation of your worth on a single women who is in your words "crazy and on drugs/anti-depressants". May be she just liked the boldness of him shouting at her so she comes talk to him and she PERCEIVED your approach as weak and/or that you lacked the qualities that she is aroused by. Again, that is just her perception which is based on a single approach and nothing else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 04:36 PM
7	CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man Bro, I don't know or much else of the situation but I'm pretty sure the slight difference in physical attractiveness isn't what caused the difference in reaction from her. It makes no sense if you only have 1% difference. There might be something you are overlooking. There has to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 04:02 PM
1	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? Were you living on another planet and just got here? Men are horny and lots of them have no standards. I see it might upset you that it is rhat easy for women to get sex but understand that, while they like it as much as we do, they want it wrapped up with a nice bow. What I mean by that is everyone would fuck non-stop if what you are worrying about was relevant. Most guys are not attractive to women. And I don't necessarily talk about looks. They just have no idea what a woman finds attractive;…	/r/seduction	08/04/25 11:21 AM
2	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? LOL as the other guy said great counterpoint. I'va had my days on an adult broadcasting website where I would make a little show. The amount of gay men who wanted to come at my house just to suck me off was insane.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 11:16 AM
9	How to create sexual tension/make women desire you if you’re 5’7” You stimulate her and create tension the same way a tall man does. Your height shouldn't even register in your mind and you should think of yourself as a king. Not necessarily in an arrogant way but standing firm and assertive as the great man you can be despite your height that YOU consider a hindrance. I don't have an answer to your question but I know for a fact that a reframe about your height is of dire need to you.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 10:45 PM
5	Why Women really Prefer Tall Men or it's just a myth? In the end you're always gonna find evidence of what you believe deep down. Of course some traits can be more attractive than others. Being tall helps in the sense that you can get notice faster and it can sometimes awaken primal desires in women who first and foremost want to feel safe. That being said, there are many ways for them to feel safe with a man. Also, being tall is attractive also since we are conditioned socially to equate some traits with attractiveness so in a sense, tall men have…	/r/seduction	06/04/25 12:29 AM
42	Do yall think you can date 10's If there is a chance for a guy to be with a girl who is very attractive to most people, that guy can't have the luxury of entertaining the kind of thoughts you are having. I mean, I get it, I've had those thoughts for a long time and still do, but this is the reality. By any means necessary, you need to get to the point of full belief in yourself and that you are on the same level as this woman you fancy. There is no other way, unless you wanna get in a relationship with a woman who uses you or …	/r/seduction	03/04/25 12:32 PM
1	I think I need to give up on dating Well if you wanna give up that's fine and within your rights. Something tells me that you don't really want that though since you write here and probably hope for some things people will say that will facilitate a breakthrough for you. Either you really give up and develop other important aspects lf yourself and try to find peace with that reality or you be honest with yourself and accept that if you could have anything you wanted, that would include a woman or experiences with many women. So yo…	/r/seduction	02/04/25 02:58 PM
4	Impact of AI generated images on Online Dating Definitely agree with this. I mean, there is still a lot of life to be had that can come from the internet but I noticed that people in general crave what humans really need: real social interactions. My focus is not so much on approaching lots of women but more on just being social wherever I go and even that is going against the culture especially in young people. When the initiation of the approach is well calibrated, it seems to be very appreciated most of time and they also seem pleasantly …	/r/seduction	02/04/25 11:24 AM
143	Don't miss out on your next girlfriend The brain is a powerful tool that can bring us the life that we desire to the smallest detail. That exact tool is also equally powerful the other way around and want to keep us safe therefore it can sometimes seem impossible to act the way we know is good for us. It's a matter of getting out of our own way and understanding that there aren't any real danger in going out there and taking social risks. Could not agree more!	/r/seduction	01/04/25 11:48 PM
2	The Real Battle Every Man Must Fight I agree that the fight is internal most of the time. But this post makes it seem too dense and heavy. The way is to relax, let go and to view all of this as not a big deal and as this very light and fun thing you can enjoy.	/r/seduction	01/04/25 11:06 AM
5	How to adopt the bad boy persona You don't need that. What you need is to become comfortable in situations you currently are not. That way, you can express yourself freely. Developing enough self-esteem to feel like you "deserve" to be in front of a woman you find attractive and not have in the back of your mind that she could do better or any thoughts that stem from low self-esteem.	/r/seduction	31/03/25 01:15 PM
3	Why am I so afraid of intimacy and sex? I felt what he felt. I didn't have low T at all and I tested every hormones I needed to have a full view of everything relevant to the issue I had. Sexual anxiety can co-exist with normal hormone levels.	/r/seduction	31/03/25 02:11 AM
6	Fundamentalist Thinking: Cardiovascular Strength Cardio is cardio. Being good with women is being good with women. Being healthy is obviously way better than or pretty much every aspect of life and that includes being with women. I was never what I would consider good with women but I'm working on it actively and it's getting better. That said, I'm VERY fit compared to the vast majority of young men and that includes my cardiovascular health. All the men I know personally who are very good women are less fit than me, like way less. I don't thi…	/r/seduction	30/03/25 11:34 PM
1	Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive women Mind sharing some examples of the crazy stuff you can do that can get your positive attention?	/r/seduction	30/03/25 09:06 PM
1	Weed for social skills You do you man. I have to say I don't think it's good to rely on a substance to be able to do something as natural as being social which is what you need first to get your foot in the door. Alcohol, weed or any thing that you get to the point of needing to be comfortable doing isn't ideal. You have this ability within you. For some reason, weed removes the inhibitions you have that prevent you from talking to strangers. But again, all of this is still inside of you. As to how to get there withou…	/r/seduction	30/03/25 02:53 AM
2	Books I can read to improve my confidence and seduction game especially with women... Agree with people who tell you that reading books won't do shit unless you actually go out to talk to women. That includes getting rejected and not taking it personally and do it again. Or take it personally because you know you could have done better therefore you learn the lesson and do something else the next times you try. Books can be helpful only if they supplement actions that move you forward in the aspect of life that is important to you. Since you're talking about confidence, if I had …	/r/seduction	27/03/25 10:51 PM
3	Ex(22F) needs my Help You have enough time brother. Don't let your mind fool you. You have to move forward though. Figure out what type of thoughts are completely useless for you to indulge in and let them go. Easier said than done but focus on things that serve you daily and let go of the things that weigh you down. Also, you can go against culture. You said 95% of marriages are arranged (is that really true though?). Why can't you imagine yourself be part of the 5% or more of marriages that are not arranged? You go…	/r/seduction	27/03/25 05:19 PM
41	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? I would ask myself if I am introverted because it is just who I am when I'm completely comfortable in my environment no matter what happens and who is there or if it's just a coping mechanism developed earlier in life to protect you for some reason. It might not apply to you but I noticed that a lot of "introverted" people were actually just scared of social interactions and/or have poor social skills and/or they're actually just shy. All that said, you need to offer some type of value for peopl…	/r/seduction	27/03/25 04:52 PM
1	Saw a comment on here and it literally fits my problem perfectly. Need help asap Too much pressure is put on yourself; It has to be light and enjoyable. You have to take risks and be willing to not get the outcome that you want though. Your instincts tell you to do the things that will lead to what you want in the end. It's a matter of getting out of your own way to let yourself shine. Usually, if it's a girl who is clearly feeling you, it will work; it won't work with everyone though and that you have to accept. Don't be too hard on yourself though; the behaviors you exhibi…	/r/seduction	27/03/25 04:39 PM
37	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? Keep balance, stay relaxed and let go. Very abstracted advice but among the best nonetheless.	/r/seduction	27/03/25 01:05 PM
3	Women have become the bane of my existence "Midnight sunset in palm springs on a mild summers day" for "black" made me crack up 😂	/r/seduction	27/03/25 12:25 PM
3	Ex(22F) needs my Help Look, I don't know your story at all but I'll leave this here since your situation is as common as there are people and you can do as you please. I know you wanna get back together with her but just remember why you guys broke up. If you are the one who initiated it remember why you did it; the reason will show itself again in the future. Guaranteed. If she is the one who broke up with you, you should not try to get back with her. She is special to you for many reasons I'm sure and one of them i…	/r/seduction	26/03/25 09:48 PM
1	Machiavellian tactic (for aesthetically challenged folks) I mean I'm not only talking about the gym or hobbies or whatever. What is most important in learning seduction is to actually learn to talk to women while also working on yourself for YOU. I didn't want to point fingers or anything. I just feel like men should focus on getting to the point where they value themselves and feel good about themselves and put themselves in the position of the "chooser" and to completely gloss over women who just don't want you instead of trying to manipulate them in…	/r/seduction	11/03/25 09:42 PM
1	She sat right next to me even though there were other free seats left and right , did she wanted me to approach her ? Bro it's not like there were other people that she could sit next to. Or were there? I mean if you were the only ones sitting down and there were plenty of seats and she chose the one next to you it might mean she was open to talk. That said, this is such a superficial detail you should just figure out what you want and when you see something that fits just go after it and let the chips fall where they man. Try to get in a relaxed state of mind as much as possible and as far as possible from ove…	/r/seduction	11/03/25 03:36 PM
8	Machiavellian tactic (for aesthetically challenged folks) That's so much energy being pointed away from real development of the self. But to each their own I guess!	/r/seduction	11/03/25 11:44 AM
4	How much of your "league" do you feel comfortable approaching. Second the you can't think about yourself at all. That brings you in your head and out of the present moment which is crucial to attract women or even to have a pleasant interaction with anyone.	/r/seduction	09/03/25 02:08 AM
1	How to fake Confidence? I understand that it must be tough feeling the way you do. That said, I would be careful to not identify with the persona of an "ashtmatic person". Yes your body is experiencing symptoms of asthma. I would simply reframe it that way. I believe your whole attachment to it and all the fear surrounding it could make your symptoms worse especially when you believe they would cause a huge problem such as when you engage in anything sexual. Regarding the white trash belief. First, you are in my opinio…	/r/seduction	04/03/25 12:55 PM
1	How to fake Confidence? Second the psycho cybernetics. Great book if you can apply what is presented. Also, a book that is helping me a lot these past few weeks is "Letting Go" by David R. Hawkins. Since OP is struggling with feelings of low sel-worth and very limiting negative beliefs. I believe it could help him a lot. A very short way to summarize it would be that the only way out of a feeling or a problem is through.	/r/seduction	04/03/25 12:45 PM
1	The Mentality Of A Pimp There are lots of good things in this post that lots of people can learn and be inspired about. But bro...This post is way too long and overwhelming. You don't have to listen to me but my feedback would be to break down this post in 2 or 3 different ones where you put similar points in each one to elaborate and take your points across. There is too much to the point where it's impossible to want to read it willingly. That said, I like the fact that you have a lot of points on the inner self stuf…	/r/seduction	23/02/25 01:12 AM
4	What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you" Agreed that there are lots of reasons why a girl would say that. The internet would have you think that every girl who is attracted to you should sleep with whenever you want or else you are being played. That said, what matters is what you want. What she wants should be respected as in you never force yourself on her but it should not really be taken into consideration when deciding if you should keep seeing her or not. It's easy to get into a situation where you are a bit frustrated because yo…	/r/seduction	20/02/25 02:53 AM
1	Low bodycount headache Dude you have 6 whole years ahead of you until you reach 28. Lots of things can and will happen until then. Being 22 years is such a blessing. You are as young as you'll ever be. Make the best of it.	/r/seduction	19/02/25 12:19 AM
1	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is Just to add to that point. Your initial comment was about shorter men inciting women to feel undesirable when it is not the case. It is unclear to from experience and observation that the height itself is what causes that or if how the short guy feels about the height and how he acts in general is what causes those feelings in women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 04:18 PM
1	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is Well my daily experience doesn't reflect at all that I'm that attractive guy that women want to get with at first glance. Some of them might look at me a bit but it doesn't necessarily mean anything. These girls got to know me a bit and something in my behavior and how they perceive me flicked that switch for them. It's not what they saw initially. And what I mean is that for some reason when I attracted them I was in a "feeling good enough" state of mind and it worked in my favor. But once thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 04:16 PM
1	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is Look I'm not a ladies man by any means but my experience as a 5'7 man has shown me that the reason I am not said ladies man is because of what'a going on in my mind (negative thoughts and beliefs about myself). I've had plenty of women be VERY attracted to me in my life and some of them would be considered hot by any man with functioning balls. I'm not ugly at all but not that handsome neither. I've seen plenty of shorter than average or bang on average height men do well with women and they all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 12:59 PM
1	For guys, why do you want a woman? Would you say that one should also make a list of wants and don't wants for women when they simply are looking to have sex and get that kind of experience?	/r/seduction	10/02/25 05:39 PM
1	Good spots for night game in MTL Well there is the Igloofest until saturday. It's a winter event (outside) with eletronik music with lots of people between 18-35 last time I went. The best time to be in Mtl though is during spring or summer for sure. If you want indoors let me know I'll get back to you with cool suggestions.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 01:51 AM
1	Good spots for night game in MTL Depends how old you are	/r/seduction	05/02/25 01:46 AM
1	Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about? Thanks for your answer. Learning to love myself and be completely comfortable in my own skin is the work I'm currently doing. It seems as though results are either very easy to get or almost impossible and they is very little in between as a man. Like you either embody the traits of an attractive without a doubt or you don't and that's what women respond to. Also, I noticed a lot of it is an "energy" thing. Like how I feel about myself predicts how much attention I'll get from women most of the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 01:46 PM
1	Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about? I agree that this is definitely the position you want to be in. I've experienced being pursued a couple of times by total luck and when it went further I reverted back to my weak persona that I'm used to and I saw any attraction they had completely go away. It was at first way more satisfying than the other way and it even seemed more satisfying for the women themselves; like they had finally met the right energy in a man that is so rare. As I said, it was because of luck and not any doing on my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 12:52 PM
1	Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never Works I agree with your comment. I'm still curious if you could expand on your last sentence that would be cool	/r/seduction	23/01/25 10:02 PM
3	Did i miss the train? I really want to chime kn because this is sad to think that way at 17. Brother, I am no expert at all but what I do know is that, while valid to normal to have in a world where everyone compares themselves to others, your thoughts are absolutely ridiculous and won't get you anywhere. I don't know the statistics but I think it is the norm for men to be virgins right after high school. MANY MANY MANY men were virgins after high school and went on absolute tears with women in their lives after that…	/r/seduction	20/01/25 01:48 PM
2	How to overcome anxiety (confidence 101) Never thought about it that way. To think about all the things you fear and are insecure about and make them worse in your mind so you process all the feelings related. Crazy how scary that feels when you spent years running away from those feelings. It feels like a heroic endeavor to process all these things when you spent more than a decade resisting uncomfortable feelings and creating a whole story about who you think you are. From what I can gather about what you say, it doesn't have to be t…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 05:56 PM
3	How to overcome anxiety (confidence 101) Great post as always. Would you say intellectualizing and making up stories and giving meaning about a situation is also a way to avoid feeling an uncomfortable feeling? Also, when would you say is a good time to do so, to intellectualize? Or is there, in your opinion, never a good time to intellectualize anything since it means you step out of the present moment when you do so? Since our last conversation, I feel like it is easy to feel a feeling of an uncomfortable situation that happened rece…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 01:43 PM
2	Did you ever get seduced by a women? And ls there a male personality type that gets more seduced than others? That's a good question. I guess your mindset once adopted for a long time become pretty much who you are. Which would be encouraging for those who are looking to adopt more advantageous personnality traits.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 08:20 PM
2	Is she into me? Well just go for it dude you got this. I know how it is but it's just one girl. Objectively and logically you are better off trying and knowing where you stand so you can either enjoy her and your time together or move on to girls who will give you everything that you desire.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 02:28 PM
3	Is she into me? I'm no expert but if you are planning on staying at that job I would be very careful and only go the indirect route. You don't want to risk both of your jobs or make it awkward for a long time for any of you. You also don't want to start having a bad reputation at work. Spend time with her, tease her playfully and be on top of your mental health/physical shape. Get to know her organically and at some point you can invite her for drinks after work if you feel like you can do that again organicall…	/r/seduction	24/12/24 12:21 PM
1	Did you ever get seduced by a women? And ls there a male personality type that gets more seduced than others? What do you mean by physcally dominant? And in your opinion, is being a "nice giu" more of a mindset or something you just are?	/r/seduction	21/12/24 02:20 PM
4	How do I seduce my barber? You had to do him like that 🤣	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:43 AM
2	Why do I get attracted to the worst girls to be attracted to? I don't really think it's about "hotter" women. Probably just about women who are not into him. He could be attractive to some hot girl while not being attractive to a less hot one. That said, the thing you said about protecting himself from heartbreak and future hurt is definitely a big reason why some guys only focus on women who are not interested in them from the get go.	/r/seduction	16/12/24 12:26 PM
2	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? David X?	/r/seduction	14/12/24 10:47 PM
6	How can I boost my chances when trying to attract "my type" and where can I find women like this? I don't know where you live but I don't see a lot of women with this description lol	/r/seduction	12/12/24 04:20 PM
3	Inexperienced with females (24M) What are you doing on this sub if that is your advice? I get that for some people at some point in their lives a stretch of celibacy can help but I think that men should still learn to talk to women in a way that is seductive and to build experience whenever they have opportunities that present themselves. We can always work on all important aspects of our lives and that includes learning how to be your best and most attractive self. That would also mean learning how to be relaxed in most situat…	/r/seduction	05/12/24 05:27 PM
1	A girl that I'm interested in sees me as just a friend. I'm having trouble with the thoughts that I'm not gonna find a girl as good/hot as the previous one I fucked but who lost interest since I was playing too much. How do you get over that mindset and get on with one where you know you can have a girl as hot as the last one if that girl was "out of your league" and the only girl that hot you got with? Like if it isn't a common occurence for you, how would you drill that mindset into your brain? I keep having the thought of her having sex with other…	/r/seduction	04/12/24 07:22 PM
1	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Wouldn't you say that this apply more when they want to find a provider? Or do you think that it applies to women when they just consider you for a casual relationship?	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:50 AM
2	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? I feel like guys (myself included) have the tendency to stay attached to a lost cause because they fear they won't get a woman as good as the one they had (as hot, smart, intelligent or whatever quality you value). I struggle with it but it's important to know that your thoughts in this case are utter bullshit and you WILL find another girl you like more if you do what you need to do (work on your having a stromg mindset, staying in good shape, meeting enough new people, etc.) What are your thou…	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:40 AM
10	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? I don't get the downvotes. He's just saying to not start hating women based on what people on subs like this one say about them. It's easy to start hating women if you have no results but don't go out there to make your own experiences.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 02:02 PM
0	The Shift Never happened to anyone ever.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 05:05 PM
7	How do we pick up a girl for a threesome ? What u/blinkb28 said. Or you can go to bars and both look open to meet people. Look approachable and friendly and try having fun without too much expectations. I think the same seduction principles for men who want to seduce women apply for a couple who want to seduce for a threesome. I think you should also hint very soon in the interaction that you both find the woman very attractive and that you don't JUST want to talk with her. The other one I can think about is to advertise as a couple on o…	/r/seduction	29/11/24 01:29 PM
7	One night stand turned into confusing future Agreed. Also, if a chick already cancels once and then tells you they want to see you again, make sure you set a clear date and not let her tell you she'll let tou know whether it will be one day or another because she has all the power in this case.	/r/seduction	28/11/24 12:45 PM
1	Can’t dance, and won’t do it Ok don't then	/r/seduction	28/11/24 02:32 AM
2	What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dude Nobosy said anything about race lol	/r/seduction	27/11/24 11:09 AM
1	How to enjoy this stuff? Reading all your answers here. Don't stop being here you're helping me and I'm hoping a lot of other people. This kind of work that you're proposing is the deep stuff that most of us need to do to have what we want with women. The results of this work is a "game" that fits your real self.	/r/seduction	25/11/24 11:42 PM
3	Should I reach out or try to move on? Move on brother. You say you wished you had just enjoyed your time with and that you were not needy but the fact is you like her and probably have feelings for her. I think you were genuine and honest about your real needs and I don't think that makes you needy. You wanted something deeper with her and the fact is she didn't and the reason why doesn't matter. You WILL find someone you like as much as her and the sooner you move on the sooner it'll happen. Look forward. "He would puts his hand to…	/r/seduction	24/11/24 05:27 PM
2	Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here? About your last sentence. Don't you think that some guys are encountering only women that don't like them because they just don't have the traits that are attractive to women? Even if they project their voice well and are very interesting as people, don't you think that some guys just don't have those traits despite their communication skills?	/r/seduction	23/11/24 01:04 PM
1	Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laid You must be very good looking lol	/r/seduction	16/11/24 12:03 AM
1	What kind of personality in man is attractive to woman? Do we have to be a rude person? So I'm guessing from your comment you don't believe in the concept of leagues based on looks? I (29, 5'7, bald) had a thing with a hot 5'8 blond with a perfect body (literally). It fizzled out and it was the only thing that I had with a woman that hot and I'm wondering if that sort of thing can become my usual if I get in a certain state of mind or if it was just a once in a lifetime thing. What do you think?	/r/seduction	13/11/24 08:05 PM
1	What kind of personality in man is attractive to woman? Do we have to be a rude person? You're talking about a person who already has their foot in the door of a specific woman or group of women's interest and attraction. Let's say you want a woman you consider your personal 10 in looks (since that's all you know about them initially). How would you convey the fact that you have communication skills, charisma and value to offer if most if not all of them don't even look your way and only want a man more attractive physically than you are? And what do you think about looks in genera…	/r/seduction	13/11/24 04:30 PM
1	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating Hey man! A bit late to comment on this so I hope you're gonna see this. I have a bit lf a pessimistic attitude towards myself regarding my dating and sex life. I'm 29 and feel like if I don't learn how to talk to women and treat them how they love to be treated, I'm just never gonna change my situation. Other people would say I'm well calibrated socially but a bit reserved. I'm fit and try to look my best but I'm full of excuses as to how I can't be attractice to the women I want and why I'm nev…	/r/seduction	07/11/24 01:33 PM
1	Why is it so hard to hook up with single women? What do you mean in your last paragraph?	/r/seduction	22/10/24 11:56 AM
3	Reminder: end game requires inner frame, which requires real work This is amazing man. It speaks to me on such a deep level. I've been fighting myself and my circumstances for as long as I can remember and through the years I tried to model what I thought was the ideal perfect man for what I thought was one collective mind of women. The truth is, it doesn't exist. Your emphasis on feeling good and being that man regardless of outside circumstances constitutes what we call inner game here. Fuck these limiting beliefs, fuck the thoughts that prevent us from bein…	/r/seduction	15/10/24 02:14 PM
1	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? Hey man! I have a shitload of back hairs. Did you have a lot and successfully got rid of them?	/r/seduction	14/10/24 02:32 PM
1	how to break into the top percentile of women? Also, could you make a list of nerd/weak behaviors and a list of attractive qualities and behaviors that men embody?	/r/seduction	14/10/24 01:12 AM
1	how to break into the top percentile of women? I'm a 6-7 in looks depending kn who you ask, very fit but 5'7 and bald. Get called handsome semi-regularly even though I don't go out much. Do you think that, given certain shortcomings that I have that are perceived in the dating game, I should act entitled right away to hot women if I want to get them? Or should I take a bit of a slower approach where they get to know my other qualities that make me charming?	/r/seduction	14/10/24 01:09 AM
3	Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issues That's so obvious to me too. Why would she give access to her phone knowing full well what he could find on there if she didn't want to him to find exactly that lol	/r/seduction	13/10/24 01:20 PM
0	Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issues Any other comment than the ones that say to move on and find another girl is wrong. You don't want someone who can lie so easily and already seems like a manipulator even as a fwb. The fact that she might be hot, that the sex could be very good or that you just have some light fun with her is not enough to excuse her behavior and you should have some self-respect. Just tell her you're not gonna continue anything with her and wish her well.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 11:47 AM
0	Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issues Wtf man... You're talking as if he should consider being in a relationship with her. First, he just met her. Second, he knows nothing about her except the fact that she's a big fat liar. Also, why would she lie like that and then give access to her phone to an almost complete stranger knowing very well what he could find if he is a bit curious. He should tell her he's not gonna talj to her anymore and just move on without a second thought. Even a fwb type of relationship would be detrimental to …	/r/seduction	13/10/24 11:09 AM
8	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating I'm glad that you saw this a cuck mentality and that you're not going in this rabbit hole of woo is me type of thinking that a lot pf guys who struggle on here have the tendency to go towards.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 03:09 AM
3	Are same day lays possible in 2024? Are you very physically attractive or something? You seem like you live in a completely different world than most of us. Would you attribute that mostly to game or do you have the kind of looks that make everything easier? I don't want to take the credit of your skills away from you, I'm just genuinely curious.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 01:16 AM
2	How to text for a hookup? That was a joke lol	/r/seduction	10/10/24 04:59 PM
1	How to text for a hookup? I did that, I don't have a rooftop. She was disappointed and left...	/r/seduction	10/10/24 11:20 AM
1	Best advice I can give (less than 20 words) Thank you for your answer. You are one of the guys on here whose comments I try to read often while taking consistent action. If you don't mind answering, I have another question for you. You said to keep moving towards sex. How would you reconcile that statement with the fact that you also want to respect women's boundaries when they just might not be comfortable yet enough to push things forwards with you? While knowing that they like you and are attracted to you, just not ready yet.	/r/seduction	08/10/24 11:07 AM
1	Best advice I can give (less than 20 words) What do you mean by believe you are god? Do you mean it in the way that you are the shit or the prize? Or more in a way to reinforce the belief that you create a 100% of your reality?	/r/seduction	08/10/24 01:49 AM
6	Let me tell you about Existentialism… I think that this post wins the award of the most useless post of the most useless posts of reddit across all subs. Congrats, it's gonna be hard to beat!	/r/seduction	02/10/24 12:30 PM
8	Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. You need help man. I just see your comment and your username and I don't need to know more about you to figure that out.	/r/seduction	29/09/24 01:36 PM
1	What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere? I agree with that with a little nuance. I don't think that you optimize your results if you focus solely on making it fun. I think that one of your priorities as a guy is to cultivate an awareness of the sexual feelings in your body when you talk to a girl and try to inject the conversation with that energy and body language while talking very subtly about sex or not at all unless she does. That said, another priority should be to get to the point where you absolutely don't give a fuck if anythi…	/r/seduction	29/09/24 12:02 PM
2	How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent? That is actually a very accurate comment. I'm actually at the point where I'm starting not to equate my self-worth with my ability to get women and I'm starting to feel way better than I did. This will, in time, makes me act in a more carefree and attractive way while staying genuine!	/r/seduction	27/09/24 09:30 PM
6	Don't let others dictate your reality - Holding Frame and passing shit tests with an A* Bro, I have to be honest with you. I resonate with every single comment you post. I used to try to intellectualize everything and grind my way to acting attractive. As time goes by, I understand that the only way to achieve great results is by calming the fuck down as much as you can and letting go. I'm going through most of your comments right now and what you say makes so much sense and feels much less arduous. I have a question for you. Do you think that calming down and relaxing tension appl…	/r/seduction	27/09/24 12:25 PM
1	How to keep your spirit up in a hostile environment Would you say that learning to relax without pressure is still beneficial when comes the time to learn to relax under pressure?	/r/seduction	26/09/24 07:58 PM
1	Do this if she doesn't respond! Move on to another one she's not serious about you	/r/seduction	20/09/24 01:04 PM
2	Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔 I was talking about in real life. She doesn't get random IG dm's though. I agree that on tinder she gets unlimited amounts of matches. That said, we tend to think as guys that women value this as much as we do. Of course they like the attention but any cute woman knows that a large percentage of men would have sex with her. This in itself reduces the value they put over the desire of men to have sex with them. What is rarer for women which doesn't happen to my sister and neither does it to OP, i…	/r/seduction	16/09/24 12:43 PM
3	Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔 I think that guys who say that every girl gets hit on is just repeating bullshit they see on here. My sister is cute (not hot) but a very beautiful face and ok body and she gets hit on occasionally but nothing crazy so I don't doubt a lot of girls are ans feel invisible to men. To OP, be friendly, feminine and approachable and don't be scared of shooting your shot while caring as less as you can about the results. All the best to you!	/r/seduction	15/09/24 08:59 PM
8	What does it mean when she says “she doesn’t see me as a hoe” That's too much caring what she thinks about you. Just do you and do what your instincts tell you to do. Back off if she's uncomfortable and try later. Do you feel like a sexual person? If so, you should learn to express it unapologetically yet while caring about her comfort state and that should be your priority.	/r/seduction	14/09/24 01:29 AM
3	Has your views changed since learning game Great answer man. We often think we are so far behind our desired reality (in this case, trying hard and praying to be hot shit). Most of the time, all we have to do is to decide we are and let our actions slowly begin to show us and the world that we are what we desire to be.	/r/seduction	11/09/24 10:12 AM
1	[VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack Abs How is that ridiculous? A lot of the components of your identity are things you believe about yourself because of your past history and experiences that shape who you are today. Some of them are useful but others do not serve you. It isn't a matter of becoming someone you are not. It might be more something like uncovering the unnecessary layers that have accumulated around the full expression of yourself which then prevent you from experiencing life as fully as you can. Choosing your identity t…	/r/seduction	09/09/24 07:48 PM
1	Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20) From Montreal too. There is a nice museum there and the buildings are very old and nice to look at. If you're into these things it could be a good genuine excuse to be there. Also the site is beautiful so could be a good place to relax!	/r/seduction	31/08/24 09:24 PM
16	How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guy I agree lol so many losers trying to discourage OP. From experience, you jusy have to be at the right place at the right time, be comfortable in your own skin and behave in a man to woman way. You don't have to be the best across all aspects of life to even get a chance of sex. What is the point of this sub if people just tell you to lower your standards to the point where you only fuck whales and trolls and never get any hope of getting better?	/r/seduction	26/08/24 01:29 AM
2	To guys that are struggling to get over your ex It must suck man! Wish you strength and perseverance. Stay strong for your kids they are important and they need a vulnerable but strong father. And above all, don't resent the mother just leave her and show your kids that there's so much that life has to offer even in hard times. Unsollicited perspective but still that's the seed I'm sowing today!	/r/seduction	16/05/20 07:44 PM
2	How do I close the date with the kiss? Unless she's still figuring out if she likes you, she will 100% of the time look at your lips if she wants to kiss so that's a sure sign!	/r/seduction	12/05/20 11:12 PM