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Most men I know have no issue working with and hiring women.........In my line of work, I have actually noticed women tend to be more competent, and tend to be preferred (work with company quality manage systems as an auditor, appraiser, consultant so work with alot of white collar managers, many of them women, who are overseeing quality management systems).. I am for 100% equality in the work environment and in society. No matter what someone's gender, sex, race, etc is, they should be treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:13 PM
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So if a male employer fires you because he no longer feels safe as a male around you.....I'm sure you will respect it because discrimination is ok with you. And I don't agree with men telling women to choose better as long as there is no prejudice involved based on legally protected traits and people are of legal age. I have women in my life who have dated "bad boys" of all types and others who have dated and married traditional nice guys or nerds. As long as they weren't going for minors and as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:33 PM
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Then you should be ok with men refusing to hire women because they are worried about potential false allegations from a woman (I know a guy who had a woman actually convicted of a false allegation due to text evidence)......Because in your opinion, it is ok to be prejudiced due to "safety". Better to be safe as men in business and simply not risk a false accusation from a woman......Despite the fact the majority of women do not make false accusations against men. Men and women shouldn't be the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:26 PM
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Discrimination against men based on the idea that they are dangerous potential criminals on the basis of sex/gender is discrimination I don't agree with. Women should not be stereotyping men as rapists, sexual assaulters, etc on the basis of their gender/sex. All men should be viewed as innocent law abiding individuals unless a man himself has been convicted in a court of law. I've never sexually assaulted or raped a woman. I actually refused sex from two women who were legally too drunk to lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:16 PM
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I dont care who women choose as long as it is legally consensual and there isn't discrimination factored into it (for example, a woman saying she doesn't date black men - thats racist and not acceptable). "Better" is subjective. My wife is perfect for me. Others dont like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:59 PM
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Your viewpoint is what supported lynching of innocent black men during Jim Crow........The idea we cannot trust the justice system and that black men must be guilty of something (usually rape) based on prejudicial views so just hang them..... Very disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:42 PM
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Until someone is proven guilty in a court of law, they are innocent. If I accuse you of being a pedophile or accuse you of falsely accusing me of a sex crime, it doesn't make it true. Those allegations would need to be proven in a court of law. Until then you should not be viewed in prejudiced ways as if guilty. Same with men as a whole. Until the majority of men are proven guilty in a court of law for rape.....let's defer to innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:27 PM
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Nope, just want to stamp out prejudice. Don't defend hate based prejudice. Not a good look. If more men used similar prejudicial logic to deny women jobs due to some stereotype not proven in a court of law about the danger they allegedly present, women would be upset about it. Look at the treatment Mike Pence got over the Pence rule where he would not conduct business alone with a woman in a room
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:25 PM
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Many racists would make the argument you make to defend discrimination against minorities based on the actions of a small minority of minority race individuals. The majority should not be punished for the illegal actions of a small minority. You defend hate based prejudice with such views.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:17 PM
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The victims who had legitimate claims in the eyes of the law got justice. They were put behind bars. Society did not let men guilty of rape get away with it. They were found guilty to be stuck behind bars. Society did not legally defend rape culture. When allegations were proven correct, the men justifiably were punished
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:15 PM
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Defending illegal violence. Arguing one should be raped in prison is upholding the very rape culture you should be against. Reported for violating website rules. Both men were put behind bars by the legal system. Justice worked. We defend innocent until proven guilty and they were proven guilty to be stuck there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:13 PM
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Epstein died in a cell....so he got what he had coming to him.....Weinstein is also currently in prison. The legal system worked for both. The legal system works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:06 PM
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The majority of women do not make false accusations against men (as proven in a court of law )...They do happen (a guy I know had a woman get sentenced with it when text evidence came out she made it up) but the truth is the majority of women are not convicted of it in a court of law. Women are statistically more likely to make false rape claims than men though. According to your logic, just to be careful , men would be justified following the Mike Pence rule and not doing any business alone wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:59 PM
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Evidence provided doesn't provide proof that the majority of the male population as a whole engages in such criminal behavior and there aren't convictions in a court of law to uphold the 1/3 women being victims of those crimes .....sooo again , we should not be prejudiced against men as a whole Black male youths, according to some government statistics, disproportionately commit more crimes than other races. However the factual majority of black male youths are law abiding good people. So it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:55 PM
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Until we have hard data proven in a court of law that the majority of men rape, men shouldn't be discriminated against. We don't have the hard data proven in a court of law that this is an issue like some people think it is and until we have hard facts, we shouldn't be basing societal views on it. There are many examples where we reject prejudice based on lack of objective evidence proven in court. Look at the backlash against legally valid vaccinations and bullshit such as vaccines cause autism…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:38 PM
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But the vast majority of men do not commit crimes. Black male youths are statistically more likely to commit violent crimes than other races. Being prejudiced towards a black male youth still isn't justified because the majority of black male youths are law abiding good people. Vast majority of people are good law abiding people and should not be discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:32 PM
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Again the poor examples. Locking your car or house to protect against thieves is not singling people out based on race, gender, sex, etc. That is fine because you aren't discriminating based on protected characteristics people cannot help. And as long as you treat all strangers equally, no matter the gender, sex, race, fine. The prejudice part where men are being discriminated against compared to others is wrong as it's discrimination based on gender/sex I guess the whole "judge people by the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:26 PM
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There is no proof in a court of law that 1/3s of women have been SA'd or raped so the legitimacy of such a claim cannot be supported. We have to go with the evidence at hand used in line with the ideal of innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Until 1/3s of men are convicted of such crimes, all allegations without objective evidence supporting them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:22 PM
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The peanut allergy example doesn't really work. Poor example. You shouldn't discriminate against all men for the actions of one. I have a relative who was robbed and shot by a black teenager back in the early 90s....Based on your argument that we should be prejudiced against men for the actions of a minority of men, being logically consistent, he would be justified being racist to all black people simply due to the actions of one black teenager........ That kind of prejudiced viewpoint has no pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:04 PM
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But unless we have the hard data (convictions in court), we shouldn't be viewing people in a prejudiced manner based on their gender/sex, race, etc......Many women are unfortunately viewing men in prejudiced manners that harms them socially and emotionally without the hard data to back it up when they push the "rape culture" false stereotype or view men in a paranoid way at a bar. We have had politicians refer to Mexicans as rapists, which is not proven as a real statistical issue in a court of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:51 PM
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Reported for breaking sub rules and your user account has been screenshotted as proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:32 PM
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It is also traumatic for people to be falsely accused or to be falsely labeled as a sexual threat, and to be denied opportunities in life and the better reputation because people act on things that cannot be proven in a court of law. Think about all the black men in the past who were falsely believed to be rapists/sexual predators, and suffered for it based on those stereotypes. The vast majority of black men did not commit any crimes to earn such labels (vast majority were killed before they ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:27 PM
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We cant make society wide decisions unless we have enough factual convictions in a court of law to justify said decisions. If you dont have hard facts supported by legal decisions to justify your behavior, what you are doing is engaging in non justified prejudice, which is wrong in so many other areas of life. If a minority does me wrong, but it is not proven in a court of law, or it is proven correct in a court of law but the facts prove that the vast majority of minorities do not commit crimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:22 PM
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Legally, unless proven in a court of law, such events did not legally happen. If I were to accuse you of being a pedophile, my accusation simply doesnt make it true. If i was to accuse you of having punched me in the face and stolen my wallet, my accusation simply doesn't make it true. I have to prove in a court of law that it happened. If not, no matter what I think, you are an innocent person. We cant base things on hearsay. Only facts and legal debate and legal decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:16 PM
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Unless proven guilty in a court of law, these are not true. Innocent until proven guilty in this country is a difficult concept for people like you to understand but again............unless proven guilty in a court of law, we cannot say such things have happened legally to make decisions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:13 PM
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Again, the FACTS not feelings show the vast statistical majority of men do not commit crimes against women. People get rightfully accused of being prejudiced when they cross the street to avoid walking on the same sidewalk as a minority, when they speed up to avoid being near a minority, when they refuse to hire a minority, when they report a minority to the police for engaging in normal behavior, etc because such behavior is not justified when the statistical majority of minorities do not engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:10 PM
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The statistical vast majority of men (proven factually as again, innocent until proven guilty in a court of law) don't commit any crimes against women nor do they present a real threat to women. Women are simply being prejudiced in thinking so when the facts don't align with their feelings. It's wrong to racially stereotype people as more dangerous when the vast majority of minorities do not commit crimes. It should be the same with men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:01 PM
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A teacher pulled that kind of shit on me in middle school.I was luckily able to reduce the bullying somewhat because I fought back on it. Her husband was a known flirt with other women (both taught in the district ) and so when she gave me shit in 6th grade, I had enough sense to tell her that "you don't need to be mean because your husband hates your fat mean self and likes other women." I was going to get a detention for it but I let my parents know about her biased behavior and how what promp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:46 AM
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Some women on here are all about legal consent and respecting women's agency to make their own decisions until it's a man finding a good foreign woman who legally consents to sex with him. Then it's "we need to protect weak foreign women from evil American men" (aka a sort of belittling white knightism)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:01 AM
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As someone who has seen Sausage Party, M&Ms are experiencing a Holocaust on a daily basis in my house....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:03 PM
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Depends on where a man is willing to go seeing we are so globally connected now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:50 AM
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People have a right to face their accuser in a court of law and cross examination is a great tactic to ensure someone isn't lying. If someone is truly guilty, the accusers accusations have to be proven in a court of law beyond a reasonable doubt (preferably with physical evidence to meet their reasonable doubt threshold) so an accuser should be pushed to defend why they have decided to drag a presumed innocent person (because not yet proven guilty) into a court of law, stealing their personal fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:05 AM
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I never said men treat their friends like shit. Is reading comprehension something you struggle with? "Many men treat other men they aren't friends/bros with like garbage so women are just getting some equality" My quote from above comment. Many men do treat men they are not friends with like shit in ways in many environments. I used to work construction and unless a guy was friends with you.....there was a lot of shit talking and rudeness (basically shit testing) of employees on the job site. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:27 PM
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Yep. I taught English in Ulan-Ude (Buryatia) and St Petersburg for some time while living with my wife over there to sponsor her visa to come here. While American women would often ignore me.....women considered me pretty attractive over there, particularly in Buryatia. My wife's friends (she's Buryat and some of her friends are) all favored white guys with dad bodies. Same with her Chinese friends and Ukrainian friends who married American men . Basically being a college educated religious dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:18 PM
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I treat men and women with a great deal of niceness. I wouldn't survive in the work I do if not. I have to brown nose/flatter/etc so many people in business to get work as a quality consultant and auditor/appraiser. It's what keeps me getting brought back as companies know they will pass working with me because I go out of my way to provide extra prep so they pass audits and appraisals. Also have a big friend circle and happily married Im just pointing out the hypocrisy we see and the truth that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:14 PM
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No one is owed niceness. All someone is owed is that each individual follows all applicable laws and respects the basic legal rights of each other. Niceness is very subjective and someone owing someone niceness dependent on their notion of niceness can mean a lack of niceness for the person told to act "nice." For example, the nice thing for a woman to do for many men would be to be 100% honest with a guy she turns down and give him the straight truth as to why she won't date him. Instead of gho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:57 AM
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Nope. I believe people are free to make their own choices. Just pointing out the hypocrisy. As someone who married a more traditional woman from a non Western country......beauty standards do change based on region in the world so there are a lot more variables. My wife and many of her friends from Eastern Siberia, China, etc never went for the muscular alpha dude common in the West. I have a dad body but she loves it and one of her friends and her sister both married guys with dad bodies. The f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:48 AM
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It is feminists and many modern women who claim they want to be free from traditional patriarchy (seen as oppressive, which can also involve traditional notions of beauty standards aka no fat shaming etc) and basically be treated as equals. Society is expected to treat them as equals when it comes to the workplace, schools, and many other areas. I fully support this. The hypocrisy is when such women pick and choose what they want and try to benefit off of traditional patriarchal ideals they alle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:41 AM
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Yep. I am friends with women from Siberia Russia, Ukraine, China, Vietnam, etc who all married more traditional American "nice guys" and all of them are shocked that the guys they are with had trouble finding a good American woman to marry in their late teens/early 20s in the US.........Thing is many American women have had it so good for so long, and can get away with some toxic behavior for so long, that they are able to mature much later in life, and do the fun "fuck around and drink around" …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:08 PM
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Russia but a South Eastern Siberian region of Russia called Buryatia a couple hours north of Mongolia. I lived there for a little over a year teaching English. Women there are far less toxic than many American women I've met when it comes to gender relations. Many men just don't realize how good they have it there which is a reason why she and friends of hers have married more traditional Western guys who lack the negative aspects of traditional guys in her country (domestic abuse is much more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:48 PM
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An idea is gutting the welfare state combined with heavy restrictions on birth control (only for those who are married) with the idea that women will have to be choosier about finding a decent man, and less likely to fuck around with multiple men in uncommitted relationships because she no longer can rely on the tax dollars of men she coldly turns down to fund her lifestyle (men disproportionately fund social/welfare services so there are many men being turned down by women who claim to fight fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:16 PM
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Thing is we have limited people's freedom and autonomy in other areas for the greater good. It is no longer legal for a male business owner to refuse to hire a woman simply due to her gender/sex. It is no longer legal for a male business owner to deny a pay raise to a woman simply on account of gender/sex. A male boss can no longer fire a woman simply because she got pregnant due to laws restricting his personal freedom for the greater good. It is a male business owner's body who has created sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:37 PM
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The person you are responding to honestly just may be operating from a racist state of mind which is why legally consensual relationships between western men and largely non white foreign women is so triggering for them. Anyone who is that against western men dating and marrying foreign women from the non Western world are really operating under many racist beliefs, ranging from the idea that women in these countries are "helpless victims " (racism of low expectations/racism that denies full age…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:45 AM
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Never paid for a woman lol. From someone who calls themselves Chads favorite hole.....we can already tell the kind of person you probably are. Glad to see elements of society are working to check your sinful behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:57 AM
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Alot do. I received some backlash from Western women and men when I married my wife from a small city in Siberia who was studying here on a visa.....same people who would pump and dump people would criticize myself and other men opting out and marrying young to women from non Western countries due to our more conservative values.....said we were exploitative for marrying women from non Western countries and labeled "passport bros" and other negative shit....when really we were simply looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:51 AM
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Im fully accepting of the unfairness but it is hypocritical for said women to complain about men going abroad and using advantages/privileges to their own benefit when said women complaining about them in the US refuse to check their own privilege. The hypocrisy of privilege American women complaining about American passport bros, while getting to sleep around in the US due to their privilege, is pure hypocrisy. You are either for equality or you accept unfairness. I'm fully ok with the idea lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:32 AM
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^^^<sup>Just</sup> trolling behavior and an inability to understand the ideas of privilege because when it comes down to it, you honestly are too privileged and blinded to see reality. Sex is considered a healthy behavior that has many benefits for people and can be linked to happier longer lives. People having an easier opportunity to get it, which are usually women, are privileged in that sense. Many men have reported health issues when they can't get the sex they want. Women tend to sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:42 PM
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And many women in the US have a power dynamic over men. Look at your average dating website and access to sex and relationships. Women get way more opportunities than men when it comes to whether or not they can swipe on someone. The legal system also tends to favor women in the US so there is a power imbalance there. Until women check their privilege in the US, I don't blame men for using privilege they have elsewhere to mitigate the unfairness they suffer from here as long as everything is leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:41 PM
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Yep. The Gender equality paradox. The more equal a society becomes, the less likely women are to enter STEM. https://thewire.in/women/women-wont-study-stem-just-because-they-live-in-a-more-gender-equal-country
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:25 PM
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If he had a friend group that included women......he had to be a decent enough person to them to become even friends.....so it's the shallowness factor that led to no romantic relationships. All is not fair in love and war unfortunately. Why people need to play the entire legal dating market (national and international) to their own advantage if given an unfair lot in life. The women he hung out with used their power in the dating market to deny him opportunities and cause him pain because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:31 PM
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As long as you don't fight to make such relationships illegal......I can respect your lack of logical consistency when it comes to issues of consent and agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:09 PM
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Either you respect the agency of a legally adult woman to make her own consensual choices and stand as a strong woman who knows what's best for her life or you don't. Many women are hypocritical when it comes to shit like this. They are all pro "strong women making consensual choices" when it comes to rejecting men they feel are not on their level (and have no issue with women exploiting the power advantages they have in Western dating) but when it comes to such women making such an independent …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:47 PM
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Which proves you are hypocritical when it comes to consent and not logically consistent with the idea of it with adults. If it is wrong for a guy to act salty because a legally adult woman does not consent to being with him ....then being 100% consistent and respectful of consent.....it's wrong to take away agency from a legally adult woman who consents to dating a man much older than her. You either think women are strong independent people capable of agency and consent or not Sounds like you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:32 PM
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Yep, agree. Just like men are entitled to find love legally wherever they can find it, whether it be in a consensual legal age gap relationship (funny how women attack legally consensual choices about that on here and make the women out to be "victims" with no agency and the men "predators" despite all laws being followed) or a consensual relationship with a foreign woman (another example of how many women on here truly dont respect legally consensual relationships as women are often presented a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:48 PM
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Both genders are honestly quite toxic. Men attack women who don't give them what they feel is a legitimate answer for turning down a date/sex/romantic relationship. The entitlement is real there. Women have a right to attack men for feeling entitled to honesty, niceness, sex, dating, etc from a woman. As long as the woman is following all laws, she is completely within her rights to be a bitch or lie and act fake nice to avoid an interaction she doesn't want. I've never had too much of an issue …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:45 PM
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Your viewpoint is just another example of the evil depths someone will go to justify the evil murder of an innocent human life just because they don't want themselves or other people to exercise personal responsibility. We don't allow people to get away with killing someone if they get behind the wheel and carelessly hit someone with their vehicle. We don't allow someone to get away with killing someone if they accidentally shoot them. A lack of personal responsibility does not allow someone to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:40 PM
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Why I also wear a condom, pull out and plan sexual activities around my wife's biological schedule. Certain times of the month, it's basically impossible to get pregnant. All it takes is self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:37 AM
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You do have reproductive autonomy. One can easily prevent getting pregnant by not having sex or practicing safe sex (use the birth control pill method or other methods preferably along with the man using methods such as condoms - my wife and I have used a combination of pulling out while wearing a condom while she has been on birth control and engaging in sex during less fertile times of the month and have never had a pregnancy scare in over a decade - follow those solutions and be a responsible…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:10 PM
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Yep........I have seen numerous comments/posts in this board saying women are justified in discriminating against men by viewing them all as potential predators and overexaggerating the dangers of "Rape culture" (when the statistics of court convictions for rape dont align with the rape culture myth - court convictions should be the only metric that count as innocent until proven guilty in a court of law should be the deciding factor of whether or not someone did something criminal - something m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:34 PM
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I don't agree with it morally either but you cannot deny factual history that it's a motivation for violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:05 PM
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As an American guy who married a woman from Siberia Russia (met her in university here in the US) who taught English over there for a while in the past and knows many women from there.....as an American guy who wanted to find a more traditional minded house wife who wanted to get married younger (we married at 23 which is considered old in her region of Siberia by many)........I always tell American guys there are definitely a wealth of good women out there in other countries who respond to trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:30 PM
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Historically, minorities can very much be a problem for everyone else if they feel slighted enough to do something about it. The Nazis in Germany were a minority political party that had like ~35% support (around there) when Hitler did a coup to seize power. Those people felt screwed and seized power. “A child that is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." - African proverb. We see this with school shooters, incel violence, and other people who use violence because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:26 PM
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Depends on where they are from in the world. My wife is from a remote Siberian region of Russia where her and others in her social circle were basically forced to do farm work and take on other important responsibilities at a much earlier age (like 7). By the time she was 12-13 she was helping kill cows, plant and harvest potatoes, beets, bread, etc, had to basically cook for the entire family and help raise her baby brother, had to clean the whole house and maintain good academic grades. She ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:28 PM
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What cool people do is realize no one is entitled to sex, a relationship, friendship, etc and realize that it's ok to break things off if it's not working out for their own best individual interest. Women aren't entitled to friendships. Men aren't entitled to sex. We have gone away from traditional bonds and entitlements to one another to embrace greater ideals of individual rights soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:54 AM
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The problem is many women tend to sell out their male friends when they get a serious romantic partner so I learned the hard lesson to not really invest in female companionship unless necessary for my work/career and getting along with said woman can advance my career. I was friends with multiple women in university (undergrad and graduate school) who I had zero issues being just friends with. One of them was just like "one of the guys" in being tomboy type who liked to go out mostly with dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:35 AM
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We see evidence of it in this very thread when a feminist attacked a man and stated he "pressured a woman into sex" by simply stating that a relationship with him requires consensual sex early on or else he will not pursue a relationship. Basically not giving a woman what she wants (relationship without sex early on) was called out as a problematic behavior.......The idea that a man should have no expectations of sex but women should have men obligated to be with them. Basically she attacked the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:26 PM
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According to feminists, a guy who doesn't give a woman whatever she wants because he has "privilege" is being a sexist piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:51 AM
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I've known multiple women from the 18-23 age group who married men in their 30s and older due to the bigger dad body fetish they had and the fact they wanted an older man who does not look like a boy who can be the domineering provider. I taught English in Russia (Siberia) for some time and it was very common to see younger women dating older men because of those reasons. And these women were clearly having a lot of sex as they had multiple kids early on in the marriages and really dressed up ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:40 AM
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I really couldn't put weight on at all in my teens and early to mid 20s and always looked younger than I was (I got carded numerous times to buy things in my 20s because people didn't think I was 18......). Once I aged a bit more and put on more weight in my late 20s, I became more attractive and now in my 30s, notice more attention. My wife who I married when I was 25 said I looked young but now says I look more manly and says her attraction has grown for me (she is a year older than me) becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:31 AM
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Having had women I was friends with pretty much ghost their guy friends when they got into a serious relationship with a guy (whereas I never had that issue with any of my guy friends).......that is another factor as well. I was friends with women in college who were "one of the guys" in the sense they would go out to sporting events with guys in a small group, go to bars, go to concerts , etc. One of them was like the only woman in my group of 4 guy friends. Once she got a serious boyfriend, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:57 PM
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Women probably are more likely to die because they are weaker on average but if you look at the textbook definition of violence, men are more likely to suffer acts of textbook violence. I had an abusive ex who slapped me repeatedly, hit me with a cooking pan, and other shit when she had her bi polar rages. I never swung back because I know my 5 foot 9 190 lb self would have wrecked her 120lb 5 foot 1 self......I was still the victim of textbook domestic violence though all I got was a bruise fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:41 PM
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Or just go abroad where an overweight American who is a 2/10 automatically can become an 8/10 or more with certain people and get legally consensual relationships........... The market is rigged against many men in the US but there exists opportunity abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:55 PM
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Another reason why a guy has to be careful when choosing to be honest with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:05 AM
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I don't know. Her family's business connections helped him expand alot in business and increase his own income quite a bit (her family includes an evangelical pastor with business connections (I went to their church before and people have money )and her parents own a housing/home flipping business which is shit he also does so he was able to join with them). They have a great house and multiple children which he very much wanted (told me his number one goal in life was fathering many children wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:41 PM
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People who are entitled and jealous often forget/exclude the things Chad didn't get, which makes relationships truly worth it. There are certain sexual acts I know my wife doesn't like based on experience so we do other acts. And while she did things in the past she since regrets, she does way more for me than any ex. I have had a caregiver when I had surgery which put me on the couch for about two weeks and somewhat limited for a month . I've had someone to financially help contribute to gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:38 PM
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Apparently people need to stay "young and dumb" forever. Both myself and my wife did things we didn't sexually enjoy during that phase and have a much better relationship because we both know what we like and don't like and what to provide for each other. It's weird as hell to obsess about past sex lives. I can understand if a guy or woman is getting zero action being upset but if someone tries anal or something and hates it .......ridiculous to say they owe it to someone else......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:05 PM
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Depends. I am good friends with a woman who is home schooled Christian. She made her guy wait like three years as she wanted to wait until marriage. She told me she believes a woman should give herself freely/sexually to a good Christian man in marriage and had her church husband wait that long. They had multiple kids within only a couple years of marriage and want many more (they want 5-7) so not exactly a lack of sex life there. She just believed in more traditional views (a good Christian man…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:00 PM
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Was attempting sarcasm. Not meant to insult!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:12 PM
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According to some, you would be labeled a manipulative asshole...... I never was too organized and let my wife (when I was dating her) understand I'm a bit of a slob. Figured she needed to know everything she was getting into.......and what to expect ....it's worked out well for 10 years so far
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:08 PM
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You are afraid to hold a privileged class in the American dating market, women, responsible and don't want to admit it . Deadbeat dads are only possible because American women who have an abundant amount of choices in the US make the wrong choice. I've never met a single irresponsible women in the US who didn't have a better guy available in her life. Many just don't go for the traditionally good options because our society bails people out for their dating fuckups too much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:27 AM
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Women have the choice on whether or not to bring the kid into this country in most cases (even if illegal in one state, a woman can travel elsewhere). Women often have more options presented to them as sex partners so they have a much better opportunity to weed out men who won't stick around (and should be blamed more for choosing wrongly as most women have a nice responsible guy available that they often don't choose first in the US because our culture has destroyed traditional values and inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:17 AM
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And instead we got the subjugation of men. Men disproportionately fund the welfare state and women disproportionately benefit. Women have been freed from traditional responsibilities to men but men still owe traditional monetary responsibilities as a collective through disproportionate funding of public benefits programs. I say if women are not expected to uphold traditional obligations then men should be off the hook too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:01 AM
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Nothing pretty much. We have seen how women talk about guys who realize their market value on the dating market is weak in the US and instead go for consensual relationships with women from less toxic foreign cultures. Such women trash such men for "being exploitative" and abusing "power imbalances" to minimize and belittle legal adults for making consensual dating choices when the same logic can be applied to attack women in the US who have the dating market stacked in their favor (average woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:54 AM
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Should be 50% for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:45 PM
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Depends on the morality of the guy. I adhere to alot of traditional Christian/Catholic morals where a man and woman have traditional obligations to one another and practices such as divorce are a significant sin (I want to see no fault divorce eradicated). Such morals are dying in our society but I would never consider leaving my wife simply because she gets older. She has fulfilled to the best of her ability (and works to improve daily) her traditional responsibilities to myself as the male hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:52 AM
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Because government and the modern welfare state will help provide them with stability funded disproportionately by men through taxation which allows women to make much more shallow choices than they did years ago. Despite the rhetoric of "I'm a strong independent feminist woman", many feminist women rely on a welfare state funded more so by men than women. These women want men to still provide traditional financial support but don't want to uphold what would be their own traditional duties. Roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:30 AM
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I don't know. My wife is very submissive to me in many areas and as someone who has more of a dom personality, I love it. I wouldn't want my wife challenging me on many things in my daily life. I already deal with challenging issues working as an auditor where I often have to deal with crap from clients and have to argue them all day as to why certain things need to be done. When I'm done working, I enjoy my wife doing what I say for the most part without argument and a peaceful home. She loves …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:18 AM
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Some women definitely do. We see it with women getting resources from sugar daddy's and rich celebs /athletes in general knowing that if they have a child with such men, they are financially set for life in many cases. We don't see such women turning down the huge pay days or basing these dating decisions purely on love. My wife loved me but has stated that sex and romantic commitment came from the fact that I was a responsible hard worker who could take care of her and provide for her loyalty, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:41 PM
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Survival from when we were paleolithic people where physical strength often meant improved odds for survival. Women needed to keep physically stronger men providing them with attention, resources and protection because they couldn't do shit like kill a mammoth or fight off rival tribes as well as men. We now see many women still wanting traditional benefits (protection from men funded by the welfare state and child support , going for men who represent traditional manly values such as strength, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:30 PM
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Yep. It's his problem but many women view it as a problem if a man decides to cut off a friendship that doesn't work for him. Way I see it, no one is entitled to a friendship or a romantic relationship from someone. We see many women complaining about how men feel too entitled to date them but then bitch about how men won't remain friends, which is another complaint grounded in a sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:27 PM
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Go on if you are so enlightened beyond two word spam trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:41 PM
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Yep. I know a dude who is an overweight short amateur wrestler who works at a factory as a side job between amateur fights. Dude is probably no taller than 5 foot 8/5 foot 9, is around 300 lbs and lives in a small apartment. And looks very unkempt/rough. But he has a very magnetic personality , particularly with his wrestling stage persona, and is able to attract women with that while being funny as shit and a "teddy bear" to girls. Dude could be a comedian if he wasn't wrestling (his wrestling …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:20 PM
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Eh, it was much easier to get a house in the early 2000s (2000-2007) and I know multiple trades people who started home construction and remodeling businesses during that time who got big enough to survive the 2008 collapse with profitable businesses (while also keeping their houses). Many people I know who currently own houses acquired one from 2000-2010 (some people I know escaped 2008 crisis healthy and acquired cheap foreclosed houses) when it was much easier to do so. Much easier to have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:55 PM
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Absolutely true. I have also noticed that many of these women who claim to truly want male friends are often lying about it, which is why I don't think any guy should waste his time becoming very good friends with a woman unless absolutely necessary for career reasons (use her to get ahead like she will use you) as deep down, most women just want to use guys. I was ok being very good friends, and nothing more, with some women in high school and college. I tried to be the progressive man who is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:20 PM
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