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Inner Game Formal-Confidence-91/r/seduction08/07/21 11:05 PM
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Inner Game Formal-Confidence-91/r/seduction19/06/21 12:21 PM
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Oh cool thanks for sharing that!
/r/seduction11/03/25 06:44 PM
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I’m new to Reddit what’s OP? And that’s cool. It’s a community so you should just take what works for you.
/r/seduction11/03/25 06:33 PM
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You might be overthinking this, and that’s actually good news. Most guys feel nervous around women they’re attracted to—it’s completely normal. The key is self-development and shifting your perspective. Right now, you might be too self-conscious. These women aren’t avoiding you—they’re just moving through their day. Instead of waiting for the “perfect” moment, focus on acting despite discomfort. Confidence doesn’t come first—action builds confidence. Book Recommendations: 📖 The Confidence Gap – …
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:07 PM
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“Wisdom, charm, down to earth, great sense of humor, and can provide an experience most others can’t when the doors close ;)” My coach gave me this all credit due:). So variations necessary based on tone of convo
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:00 PM
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Here’s a concise and powerful response for the original poster: ⸻ You’re already ahead of the curve by asking this question. The best approach? Treat this like a self-development journey. Don’t get caught up in the “game vs. looks vs. money” debate—focus on becoming the best version of yourself, and attraction will follow. Here’s what I recommend: Mindset & Confidence (Stoicism) • The Obstacle Is the Way – Ryan Holiday • Meditations – Marcus Aurelius • How to Stop Caring What Others Think – Stoi…
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:49 PM
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Girls of all ages are down. Just for a certain type of guy. Including the cooooooougars grrrrrrr
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:42 PM
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Online just set up your bio on Tinder, hinge and bumble, in a way that screens for that. Also check out feeld. Swinger parties get a few girls who are down to go with you. And you guys can have a lot of fun together If you need any help with this stuff Dm me
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:39 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. I love you guys we are all doing our best. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:08 PM
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Cheers to you my friend. That is the million dollar question😂 I believe it’s all about behavior. Setting an intention and then following it. One way that I found it through is to pay less attention to the thoughts in my head and more attention to doing what I said I’m going to do.
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:59 PM
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Yessir. You got this
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/G01G2HzjpFQ
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:41 PM
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Check out playing fire.com they are pretty good
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:46 AM
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Say none I guess dinner is on you
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:45 AM
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Mindset
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:44 AM
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Yeah they work. It’s all about the application. 10%theory 90% action
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:43 AM
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Go out solo
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:42 AM
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Take a salsa class. You will be surrounded by attractive women. Take a yoga class.
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:31 PM
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It’s a illusion. We always want what we don’t have. This post really helped me out. I’m in a great relationship. But I’m like I want some new pussy. When I’m gettin ho’s I want love. As far as the business thing goes it’s really hard and it’s thought to break patterns. If you thought getting laid was a challenge. Business is really discouraging and rough. Trying to get to that next level but it’s hard
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:58 PM
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That would be awesome
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:12 PM
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Lifting. Meditation and visualization. Building a business
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:25 AM
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Fuck that three months shit. 3-4 texts then move it to phone Phone to date in next 5 days Anything else leads start to go cold
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:22 AM
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If you have abundance in life. Other women, gym, and projects and passions you are working on you won’t even notice.
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:57 PM
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Fucking boss. Time to crush it today. 🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:43 PM
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Nice 🤣
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:50 AM
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After you’ve done step one you should have some feedback. So I guess in one week we can then discover what step two would be for you. By the time that you’ve done 70 approaches and posted seven field reports you will then be able to speak with the group here And read it and talk about specific sticking points because you will have action under your belt If you were already beyond the initial approaching stage let me know exactly what stage you’re at and we can see what it would take to get you t…
/r/seduction19/06/21 05:11 PM
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There are a lot of programs out there : Todd v, rsd, John Anthony, James tusk. Any of these programs will do. Basically all you have to do is follow one and be consistent. Here is a way to start: do 10 approaches a day (don’t worry about if they are good. Just say hello, or compliment them on something whatever.) Do that for 1 week. Post everyday your results. Let me unpack that for you. There are a lot of smart guys on these threads. Things get over complicated. You don’t want to simultaneously…
/r/seduction19/06/21 05:08 PM
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My pleasure. Any questions?
/r/seduction19/06/21 04:31 PM
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I did share it in the initial post. Look again.
/r/seduction19/06/21 04:30 PM
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Thanks for the comment. Your reaction was expected as stated in the post. Can’t you see? Your anger is what’s holding you back. Do you want people to tell you the answer but it’s sitting right in front of you. I don’t have the answer and why would you be resentful of someone if they are Trying to contribute? Everyone’s not going to like you. So many guys are afraid of taking action because they want to be the ultimate people pleaser. Obviously that’s not your problem because you just told me to …
/r/seduction19/06/21 04:27 PM
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You took action. Congratulations. This is all that’s required.
/r/seduction19/06/21 12:22 PM
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Use Game as a hobby. Spend at least a couple hours a night going out and actively approaching. Make sure you hit the gym every day. So if you’re hitting the gym and then you’re going out and doing at least 10 approach is a night that should cover your dating life. You should be able to do at least 10 approaches by 11 PM. Therefore if you’re not able to do this that points to the real issue being approach anxiety and social anxiety. Either way the dope ass work from home job isn’t the problem. I …
/r/seduction19/06/21 11:16 AM
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Lean into the discomfort. Use it as a signal to do something you’re frayed of. Start small and congratulate yourself for every win.
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:09 PM
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Try sending a voice note. Also point out the elephant in the room that it’s kind of off the wall of your contacting them but what the heck
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:08 PM
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Go out solo sometimes
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:07 PM
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What do you mean by external game? Todd V is pretty good
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:06 PM
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Go meet 10 more
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:05 PM
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Have a clear intent. So yes for sure. It’s less about what you say and more how you subcommunicate.
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:04 PM
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Yep take it as a reference experience and rock on. Try transparency and next time let them know you feel a bit nervous make a joke out of it
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:03 PM
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You already are 💪🏽
/r/seduction16/06/21 08:43 PM
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Don’t sweat it. The purpose of beginning game is to develop self love and a thick skin. Hit the gym. Work on your passions. Meet other girls. Love yourself.Love yourself. Repeat 10000000000000x.
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:01 PM
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