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The way I understood your comment was that you said that if a guy doesn't start off with dinner dates, that sets the tone of the relationship (no dinner dates). This confused me and made me ask whether a woman not getting physical with you in the first date also sets the tone for the relationship (no touching/kissing). I disagree with the latter and feel it is logically consistent to therefore disagree with the former as people I imagine people get progressively more affectionate over the course…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:33 PM
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First dates set the tone for the rest of the relationship, men are lazy, and sexual novelty that they're so into wears off quickly. No dinner dates initially means no dinner dates forever, that's what it means I'm asking this genuinely since I lack experience in dating as a man, couldn't you replace dinner dates with something like hand holding, hugging or kissing on the first date from a woman? Personally I feel that is unfair to her and she should be allowed time to warm up to that but then th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:52 PM
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Im 19 and have never went on a date so this isn't a problem I have ever faced lol. I just saw the sentiment from a lot of guys pushed around the sub and thought up an idea that could help them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:43 PM
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I think we agree more than we disagree tbh. I have had experiences where girls only interacted with me whenever I was putting in the effort and didn't show equal amounts of reciprocation and I imagine would feel bad if a woman I'm dating gated her affection for me behind money. While I have seen women provide their own reasons for wanting the guy to pay and have their own insecurities during dating, I feel it would be best to try and meet in the middle and for both man and woman to alleviate eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:40 PM
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It's just a burden men have to bear. Sometimes life is "unfair" and this is one case. Most hetero women have gendered expectations of men and this is one of them. I mean, guys can die on this hill if they want, but that means being rejected more, even by women who could be great for them. I agree with everything you have said. Looking at it from the perspective of men who dislike the principle itself, I feel like trying to make it work in their favour (such as focusing the date around their own …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:57 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:29 PM
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Bro what 😭😭😭? If the date is about something you like then paying all the expenses shouldn't be a problem since you are inviting her out to do something you enjoy. Of course I don't mean it absolutely like paying for her transport or whatever but surely it is reasonable to pay for your own date idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:27 PM
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Wouldn't it be unreasonable to pay for food x2 when you could just pay x1? I imagine people would probably pay for something they enjoy rather than the food if the date doesn't lead anywhere which is why I suggested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:10 PM
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By contrast, the whole paradigm of "Let's go ice skating for our neat-o date and hold hands, tee hee!" feels much more like a girly girl thing that simply doesn't appeal to me, and I would only do things that way for the woman's sake. Ice skating is just an example lol, another guy mentioned going badminton with a girl so just swap it out for something you actually enjoy. As for the rest of the post, I wrote it with the idea that if the guy wants to avoid being used for dates, this strategy coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:09 PM
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You may have misread my post as I feel I addressed everything you just said lol. The man suggests an activity he enjoys that she also agrees to and then he still pays for all the expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 01:04 PM
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Who would hold hands with a stranger on a first date? Kinda weird. Don't people kiss on first dates 😭? The point is more so that if someone needs to be bribed to spend time with you, they probably weren't interested. If they weren't even that interested, the date itself probably won't be all that enjoyable. If you have to do it often, and it goes nowhere and is often unpleasant, it becoming draining financially, mentally, and emotionally. I'm pretty young and haven't dated yet so maybe I am stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:53 AM
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Yeah that makes sense, while I am not put off by paying for the first date and like being generous to my friends and the less fortunate, I personally find that a woman feeling entitled to me paying for her sucks the joy out of being generous. I'm only 19 and have no dating experience so the post above was something I thought could not only help someone like me but also other men with issues regarding being expected to pay. I guess someone who is strict on egalitariansim probably wouldn't benefit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:25 AM
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Damn 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:03 AM
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just stop dating women who want to be paid for completely on first dates. later down the line when actually dating it makes sense but for a first meet up it really just doesn’t While I personally don't share this view, it seems like alot of guys have the view that if they don't pay they won't get a chance to date at all so I figured that if what they were paying for was worth it in of itself that it would motivate them to proceed with dating without having to be bitter. If the guy is against pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:02 AM
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Maybe, but I imagine that alot of these guys probably just aren't creative enough to find ways to enjoy the date beyond its outcome so providing a solution could help benefit them and any future partners they get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:48 AM
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I imagine that most men complaining about paying for dates likely don't enjoy paying for dinner explicitly and see it as a means to an end. I haven't seen any men saying "Even though she rejected me the food still tasted good so it was worth it" so I imagine they are ambivalent towards dinner dates in of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:45 AM
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IQ surplus take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:28 PM
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Finally, a high iq take on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:29 PM
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No fucking way bro https://preview.redd.it/jfy3a18pfkxg1.jpeg?width=661&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26292aac9ec43f24575f27c7cfc1af9566ee0e3b
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:59 PM
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Realest comment on this site
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:36 PM
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I can't comprehend how someone can be against generalisations against western women but then casually make generalisations against african americans 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:58 PM
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Then go ahead and say that lol, if she knows you two both go to the same uni then you should ask her if she wants to workout together
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:08 PM
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Try to talk to her on the app and lead the convo to meeting up so that you two "coincidentally" find out you go to the same uni gym or whatever. And if that doesn't work then just be bolder next time you see her and say you recognise her from hinge - you two already matched so if she doesn't want to see or interact with you irl you're wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:58 PM
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Wouldn't knowing her irl give you an advantage over her other matches 😭?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:51 PM
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Less crazy then your friend but, my best friend got his current girlfriend from tiktok, she replied to his comments on two separate posts and then they went to dms later (he has no posts on his profile and it turns out she was attracted to his pfp lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:54 PM
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