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It's crazy man. Nothing turns me off a girl more than neediness and being clingy.. ugh
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:04 PM
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I don't agree with that fully tbh. A lot of people on this subreddit and PUA's have always said to just do something cool and invite the girl along to see your cool life etc. So I dunno.. you could be right though
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:42 PM
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I'm feeling the same lately, dude. It's fucking shit.. Lost my job a while back so I'm basically doing nothing except game, I feel like i'm waiting on texts back from girls and it's so unhealthy and needy. I also need some advice..
/r/seduction27/06/17 07:52 PM
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Got out of a 3 year relationship 3 months and have been having a good few one night stands, but this girl is extremely cool and we vibe well together, so a relationship is not off the cards for me. I would enjoy some form of a relationship with her but I will take it as it comes and see how it develops.
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:04 AM
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Wow man thanks so much for this I really needed this response.
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:40 AM
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Great stuff, thanks guys!
/r/seduction26/06/17 04:55 PM
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no way dude
/r/seduction26/06/17 04:19 PM
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value right here! thanks so much dude! Really appreciate this
/r/seduction25/06/17 10:01 PM
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cheers! Any way I can move this forward?
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:50 PM
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no just give up now man
/r/seduction20/06/17 12:40 AM
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I'm not here to try and get you back into this subreddit, but... you know that deep down you want that warm hole. You want an awesome girlfriend that can help you grow while you help her grow. You want to experience awesome shit on this journey to becoming a sexworthy man. Deep down you know it's true, you just aren't going to admit it to yourself and it will weigh on you.... But if I'm wrong, I really do wish you success and happiness!
/r/seduction07/06/17 01:34 AM
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Wait a week and then text her again, ask her to come for drinks. If she flakes again just next her. If a girl likes a guy she will find a way to meet up with him no matter what.
/r/seduction05/06/17 05:18 PM
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real talk
/r/seduction03/06/17 11:30 AM
1

then he should get something he likes the smell of.. not go to a fucking subreddit ahaha
/r/seduction31/05/17 02:35 PM
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nah dude you've some shit to learn
/r/seduction31/05/17 01:55 AM
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If you think cologne determines your success with women then you're probably already fucked
/r/seduction31/05/17 01:21 AM
5

''This place sucks, let's grab a drink at mine''
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:10 PM
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You are 20 years old, why do you have to tell your parents where you go every time? I'm 20 and live with my parents too but I just say 'bye I'm heading out' It shouldn't be a shock that you are going outside man.
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:27 AM
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Ya I do this shit a good bit, it's really fun watching them jump through your hoops.
/r/seduction25/05/17 01:22 AM
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Sometimes I like to pick up chicks while im taking a shit
/r/seduction25/05/17 01:18 AM
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Lots of stuff man, little 0.01% things that all add up. Here's a great video about it with tons of value for you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuYL5wkQX5Y
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:49 PM
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Sounds like a poison drip to me! Happened me too, man its nasty. Just completely drains all your positive energy and turns you into a chode. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years because I noticed what was happening... Fuck that
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:22 PM
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Honestly dude I'd suggest staying away from reddit for a while. Just go out and take action, you will learn a thousand times faster through your own experiences and you'll actually be doing shit! Just go out as much as possible, talk to everyone, build a massive social circle, work on your diet and health etc. Have fun!!
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:11 PM
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To bounce off what panda_bro said, you dont want to be her fucking ''text buddy''. You arent another guy she gets validation from through text. You set the date, now what will texting accomplish ? A few value-giving texts throughout the week will be enough and then another funny text on the day of the date. I always think ''would Russell Brand be sitting at home texting a girl all day?''
/r/seduction24/05/17 06:47 PM
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''No worries. Another time.'' Then wait a couple of days or even a week to text her again. A lot of guys get very butthurt when a girl flakes on them but shit happens. They text the girls too much and it comes off so needy and the girl will get repulsed. So I reccommend just waiting. Best case scenario she will actually text you first but if she doesnt, just text something like, ''Free tomorrow for drinks?'' If she flakes again, wait 1 more week and ask again. If she continues to flake then just…
/r/seduction24/05/17 04:20 PM
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Abundance, man. If you were seeing 20 other girls you wouldn't give 2 shits about this chick. And weirdly enough, she would sense that non-neediness from you and would most likely get attracted to you. I'd suggest go out and pimp it for a few months and have a lot of girls in your life. Your whole perspective on women and life will change. Best of luck dude
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:27 PM
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Yeah I fucked up somewhere in the texting for sure man. All reference experience anyway :)
/r/seduction22/05/17 01:16 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man I appreciate it. I'm only recently out of a long term relationship so I'm still playing catch up with myself but you are 100% correct here!
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:09 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man I appreciate it. I'm only recently out of a long term relationship so I'm still playing catch up with myself but you are 100% correct here!
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:09 PM
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Amazing. Thanks dude!
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:25 PM
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It seems a bit confusing let me clarify. David is my friend. He has guy friends that know this girl and they are guys she's talking about. They are chodes. I know im a cool guy but Im just wondering why she would say that she's texting them....
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:11 PM
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You absolute legend man! Cheers for sharing the story. I'm gonna do it bro
/r/seduction19/05/17 01:44 AM
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I hope so
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:49 PM
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Not asking any permission my dude, just curious if anyone else was in this situation
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:49 PM
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Cheers dude. Recently back in the game and I'm slightly jaded haha
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:49 PM
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It doesnt matter at all I'm just curious
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:46 PM
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this guy has sex with a lot of girls i dont think he cares about this one tbh but you could be right
/r/seduction18/05/17 01:57 AM
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I was going to do it anyway but just wanted some other guys thoughts hahaha im gonna do it man
/r/seduction18/05/17 01:56 AM
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I agree you can never truly get rid of all approach anxiety. These pills help me out more than I can describe. I have ADD and quite bad anxiety in normal situations and these have been the best things I ever got. Hopefully someone gets some value out of them too!
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:11 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/1499141440108083/ Join this group if you're looking to improve your Tinder/Texting game. Some cool guys on there that help eachother.
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:47 AM
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Man you can either complain about it or work on it. If you want to be more 'fun' why not take up a hobby? Why not take improv classes? There are tons of ways to be fun you just need to take some initiative! Don't feel bad about yourself either, you have nothing to lose but lots of experience to gain! Take action
/r/seduction25/04/17 11:25 PM
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Put it this way... if a random person came up to you and was boring would you want to stay and talk with them?? It's the same with girls. You also have to be congruent to how you are feeling in that moment though, don't force the fun either.
/r/seduction25/04/17 11:12 PM
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You can send your screenshots of conversations with girls into this group and get some help with things you're unsure of. It's only started but people will be joining soon. Gotta get the ball rolling first. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1499141440108083/
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:53 PM
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Ask your co-workers out for a few beers at a bar or club and see how they are approaching women. Don't be afraid to ask successful guys how they do it. I learn from talking to guys who are better than me, and my friends that aren't great with girls would ask me. And everyone starts somewhere my dude, some guys don't get into any of this until the are 30 or even 40. Take action and go get 'em!
/r/seduction25/04/17 02:25 AM
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You're saying it's wrong for people on here to say ''You place girls too high! You gotta enjoy the hobbies for their own sakes!'' Then compare it to fitness. Fitness isn't about lifting the heavy weights, its nutrition among many other factors, just like game. Yes you should be enjoying life and hobbies, if you are a man on your purpose girls will naturally feel that off your vibe and will love that! It just sounds like you are way too tryhard and frankly butthurt about not getting results with …
/r/seduction25/04/17 01:01 AM
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If she's a cool, high quality girl then of course she's talking to other guys!
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:26 PM
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I can already tell what level of game you're at. ''I'd like you to let me kiss you'' - as if you're trying to take something from her. I hope you realise girls LIKE kissing and they're not just kissing you for your pleasure. Man up and don't be a scrub and just go for the kiss. Do not ask for a kiss. If she wants to kiss you just go for it. Good luck though
/r/seduction14/04/17 05:32 PM
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If a girl says ''I am not having sex with you tonight'' and without you bringing it up, it's a good sign! It means that she's thinking about having sex with you and will most likely have sex with you if you continue leading and don't fuck up. Good stuff brother!
/r/seduction13/04/17 02:21 PM
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Hey man have you ever been to Dublin? some great places for game and the girls are very hot. I know lots of college bars and clubs that mostly only college girls go to. Hit me up if you feel like it! Good luck
/r/seduction13/04/17 12:26 PM
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Keep approaching girls and keep going out on dates with girls. Get tons of reference experience and you'll have no problems. Go out for a good 6 months (2-5 nights a week) and get as many makeouts, numbers etc. as you can. You'll soon be able to know where you were going wrong in the past and calibrate accordingly. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:54 AM
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I've been struggling with this lately too man. Dropped out off college this year, 20 years old, most of my friends are in college and have college friends. I feel a bit ''out of the loop'' so to speak. I'm trying to put myself more out there with my friends and ask them to invite me on their college nights out and make friends with their friends. Its a start.
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:24 AM
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I think some guys get too bogged down by all the technical talk, Logistics etc... I think if you've already had a few dates with her you should just try have fun with her and test it out for yourself! No 2 girls are the same so if the girl enjoys texting a lot then you can do that, or if she prefers minimal texting then roll with that. Test the waters and see how you get on. Good luck dude!
/r/seduction12/04/17 11:44 PM
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Tinder should not be used to have multiple conversations from the comfort of your own bed! Give value and convey a bit of your personality then your next goal is to get a date. That's it. So go for a number ASAP then text her phone and set up a date. Happy banging
/r/seduction12/04/17 10:53 PM
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Man the fuck up bro
/r/seduction12/04/17 09:51 PM
2

Shit just happens man. Nightclub numbers are always gonna be flakey by nature. You should just mass approach and try pull that same night to avoid flakes. Girls' emotional states change constantly and even if she tells you that she wants to fuck you that night, the next day she might not even reply to any of your texts... It's a tough game
/r/seduction12/04/17 07:02 PM
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Don't message her until Sunday or even wait until Monday. Give her a value-driven text and not something like ''how are u?'' Something funny that also reminds her of the date you have together.
/r/seduction12/04/17 01:00 AM
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Thanks so much for the reply man! Gonna be tough breaking it off but I gotta just bite the bullet aye.
/r/seduction12/04/17 12:42 AM
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Get their phone numbers instead. Snapchat is meaningless to a girl and will happily hand their username out to most people that ask them. If she has your number in her phone you're not just another random dude off snapchat.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:43 PM
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not really , no
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:26 PM
2

Isolate her from the group. You can do this by just simply taking her hand and leading her somewhere else. If you have already established rapport and escalated physically then this will be easy. If she's willing to move away from the group with just you, then you've got a clear indicator to kiss her.
/r/seduction11/04/17 10:13 PM
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