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| 1 | She's cheating and doesn't know I know.I think a combination of the suggestions is in your best interest; have your lawyer ready to go with filing asap… but pause. when you speak to her, whether it’s you initiating or it all blows up before then, do not mention divorce. Wait and see what she says and the reactions, let her think you have only just found out recently and that you aren’t so far ahead mentally 👍 if there’s any chance of reconciliation that preserves it. if you don’t want to reconcile that still keeps your powder dry unt… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How to manage the post birth control storm? Is it really over? (Venting, seeking hope)I wasn’t talking about my personal experience. I was talking about women in general. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 5 | How to manage the post birth control storm? Is it really over? (Venting, seeking hope)(Woman) Just here to add, this is absolutely nothing to do with birth control. That’s just a red herring, it doesn’t affect the vast majority of women to that degree. The change of hormones coming on or off it is not really that significant, they were the same hormones we have in our cycles, just without them adding up to a fertile cycle. So forget that part, this is something else completely. Being generous… maybe the reality of actually trying to have kids with you made her feel more serious a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Want a divorce but want to keep the last name of the husbandTwo things; If you have kids it actually seems remarkably stupid to choose to go back to having a different name to them. I would never do that. Everyone forgets… what are “maiden names”? The name of some other dude. If women accept changing their name to yours, once she’s worn it for a while, her dads name is no more inherently hers either | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Want a divorce but want to keep the last name of the husbandYes, this is your space. But this dude is asking the wrong people why women might keep the name. Some of you guys might know, but if he really wants the proper answer then maybe some women can give theirs 🤷♀️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/26 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Divorce I do not want.Sometimes once the fire is out, it just won’t catch again. It’s good and commendable that you have been doing the work and understanding your part in it and the things you need to change in relationships going forward. It’s just a hard truth that sometimes it’s just too late to fix it | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Social media has destroyed everything in this worldI’m reading both subreddits at the moment. It’s kindof laughable how many parallels there are 👍 Women who make their own individual divorce about the “problems” with all men = blinkered misandrists. Men who make their own individual divorce about the “problems” with all women = blinkered misogynists. 👌 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/26 11:06 PM |
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