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Marriage/ChildrenFormal_Cauliflower94/r/MensRights30/11/22 04:45 AM
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I’m sorry to hear about that man, we’re here for you
/r/MensRights01/12/22 11:14 PM
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Sorry to hear about that we’re all here for you too
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:34 PM
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And that’s the saving grace for us. Our wives are there for us. And for me my wife and I have gotten even closer and stronger together after these two losses. It actually make me sad for those who become distant after such a loss.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:06 AM
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I’m doing better. Mainly my wife has been a solid and stoic example for me and the kids. For me it still hurts and will always hurt. I’ve been shouldering a lot of the responsibilities. I had to call a funeral home and plan out a cremation, and well… I cried because of that. It’s not going to be easy but I have to embrace the strength I have and rely on those around me
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:58 AM
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Thank you for your understanding
/r/MensRights30/11/22 11:00 PM
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That I understand. But there is the fact that a lot of those question were thrown at me months after the loss and while I’m glad and grateful she survived she also was unconscious for the majority of it( the 1st miscarriage that is) and I was there with her 24/7 witnessing all that happened. Holding her hand as it went limp as they brought in a crash cart. Those moment aren’t forgotten. And while this loss was bad. She was able to be awake and she had less complications. And she has been a great…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:29 PM
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Thank you and I complete understand where you are coming from. After we lost our first we did that and it was good and amazingly we grew stronger and closer together. After we moved states and I changed jobs some old memories still haunted me and I relapsed a bit into depression. I saw a grief therapist and he was great. I am actually going to see him again. It is just hard because personally it’s hard to find someone who is a therapist who went through a similar situation. I know that they don’…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:22 PM
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Thank you all for sending your support. 16+ hrs ago I posted this and just now looked on my phone. Thank you. I wanted to reply to each of you and I also want to extend an idea. We should start a chat room. I don’t know on what. ( discord or something) but something we can use to help each other out. Also I want to update that my wife is back home from the hospital and she is doing remarkably well.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:15 PM
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Thank you. I will if I had it my own way we all would start a group chat or something. But my heart goes out to you too. It’s a pit in are heart that we can’t easily fill
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:08 PM
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Thank you. It’s all I can do for now
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:07 PM
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Thank. I grieve with you brother. For me it was seeing my child smile in an ultrasound. It was like she knew we were looking at her and she wanted to give us a good shot. My son (Ben. The first one I lost) he would always cover his face with his hands. It these little moments that let us know that they are so alive and full of emotion at such an early age of development. If you ever want to talk. I’m here for you
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:06 PM
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Thank you. That’s why it called a band of brothers. We have that code where we always look out and support and lift up those of us that our down.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:03 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:01 PM
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Men don’t have sufficient emotional support that’s why we make up about 80% of suicides. And about 70% of those are related to depression. And more then half are because of grief. It’s an unbalanced system, but if we could change it we should make it zero across all boards
/r/MensRights30/11/22 09:01 PM
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I lost my twin brother 16 weeks in. But it’s funny. I don’t know if you are religious or not but I am. And we’ll i believe he is watching over my two boys and guiding them along telling them “ it’ll be all right I was in this same situation long ago,”
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:58 PM
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Thank you. I’m always open to talk.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:56 PM
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I wouldn’t mind that. Thank you.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:55 PM
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Thank you. Everyday I’m striving to be the best dad I can be for them and the best husband for my wife
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:54 PM
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I understand that pain man. The pain of no one recognizing the fathers side of it all. But we’re here for you as much as you are for us.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:54 PM
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It’s always the big “What if?” That gets us. Thank you for your support
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:52 PM
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It’s hard to put words to a devastating situation, but you being here is the best support I could hope for
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:52 PM
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Thank you for all the sources. I’ll make sure to look them over. It is hard but I know I’m not alone in this
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:51 PM
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