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Some exchnges are entertaining. Some are funny to watch. Some are like trainwrecks you just can’t help from looking at. And a minor percentage are probably productive in any meaningful way. Probably if I were younger I’d be more prone to shift my perspective. But I’m not and I mainly consider I found the stuff that works for me. So the answer to your question depends on the age of the women who respond to this topic. edit: i don’t care for the guy doing the voiceovers in the video you linked but…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:27 PM
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Look buddy, I have experience with men in real life. This is how I know men are not such shitty crratures as you try to make them seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:22 PM
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Guess I’m in luck since the cool tall attractive dudes that had the vibe I met so far liked women that were doing their own thing. One of them keeps telling me that pretty frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, you should be happy he doesn’t decide to come and practice where you are👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:11 PM
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Oop, someone’s butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:07 PM
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Errr no. I do what I want because I am a fully fledged adult and I won’t compromise the things I want for a man that’s incompatible with me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:55 PM
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As a western woman dating a Japanese man, your comment is so full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:53 PM
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Is this even a serious questions? They are not interesting enough on their own to gain a stable audience so they rely on stunts like these. There is a certain type of man that consumes this content, they know how to get that type of man to stick around for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:07 PM
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someone never looked on a map to see russia is located on two continents i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:50 PM
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I don’t see competing as bending to whatever a group of men would like. Which is what this post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:46 PM
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Why do I have to compete? It’s up to a man to decide what he wants in a partner, I don’t have to be the one that convinces him of that. The premise of the post is dubious at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:23 PM
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Sure it hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:19 AM
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wait until you find out women overseas are just as grossed out by some man 30 years older that smiles at them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:10 AM
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When you make claims about the phisilogy of an organ-yeah it does. Or else you’re just pulling things out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:40 PM
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I don’t care about that. Only if he is the type of guy that sleeps with sex workers but has no respect for them-that would disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:00 PM
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I think a good chunk of people can actually do it-because I don’t see myself as being special or having some special knowledge others don’t have access to. I make the active choices to not live a bitter life and get rewarded for that. Very simple to follow that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:12 AM
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he toned down the random capitalised words but i’m 100% sure it’s him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:46 AM
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Or we just see that we went trough some tough shit yet we didn’t end up as bitter. So extending empathy to people that have such shitty views (especially of women) seems pretty useless in the grand scheme of things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:43 AM
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I didn’t have ideal circumstances. Far from that actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:43 AM
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My field of work is social media and marketing so I have to stay updated with the things that are popular online. Since dating/incels/pills generate a lot of discussion online I ended up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:25 AM
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Why do the redpillers think their truth is universal? Because I’ve lived my life by a few simple principles that would probably be labeled bluepill and in the end it proved to be the right choice since I didn’t end up with astronomical levels of bitterness. And the dude you replied to seems to be a balanced person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:09 AM
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The level of projection going on in your comment is incredible even for ppd. She said the men settle for less so your whole point about men having bigger leverage or more options goes out the window if you actually read the comment you’re responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:47 AM
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she’s…athletic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:42 AM
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A lot of people fall for the dichotomy that someone can be hot or an interesting/good person. You see it a lot here with dudes that think women should go for men that are not super attractive because they wouldn’t cheat (big lol for that) or treat a woman better. Judging people as a whole rather than just fitting them into one of the two boxes is a much better strategy ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:42 AM
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we don’t even see the men she’s reffering to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:13 AM
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And we are saying the analogies are dumb. Deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:43 AM
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The point of the thread is that people that take care of their looks will keep them. I’m sorry some of y’all can’t take a minute to read a post instead of just dumping your bitterness for the sake of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:29 AM
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Would be interesting to see the scientific sources for these claims and not just your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:20 AM
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That still doesn’t mean you aren’t gaslighting a woman by telling her requiring a paternity test is not a direct accusation. No matter how minute you consider it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:59 PM
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You obviously think there is a possibility the kid isn’t yours if you check for it. And the mom is free to evaluate for herself if you checking for that means you are worthy of her trust in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:38 PM
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It’s such obvious bullshit but these people have a weird parasocial relationship with MJ. They don’t want to put two and two together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:50 AM
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It’s not an atempt to cancel him, it’s more of a think piece about the unhinged portion of his fanbase.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:35 AM
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A barrier that is imaginary and often used against the mom by scorned dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:13 AM
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Just like someone else said divorce means taking responsability for your actions and ending a miserable situation. Most women are contempt with not remarrying and just having their lives center around kids in peace. The projections about what these women feel are just that-peojections.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:08 AM
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California
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:15 PM
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It’s the default. Accusations that aren’t backed up by proof don’t hold in the majority of courts. All the excuses are getting predictable at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:12 PM
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My feelings are fine, no need to be concerned. I just don’t have a low bar for what counts as sarcasm. It does take away the agency men have in these situations. Also grossly underestimates that being a stepdad is a choice. Rape…well I’m sure I don’t have to explain that one. Kids and teens are gonna act in certain ways no matter which dad is around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:09 PM
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Drop the sarcasm. The analogy is bad because not all families are a lion’s den and there are ways to get say in how to raise the kid. This line of thinking removes agency from men for their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:01 PM
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It’s not a lions den, it’s a family which dynamic he has seen before willingly getting involved
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:58 PM
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Why is he a dumbass just because he made a choice willingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:55 PM
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Women end up remarrying at lower rates and being financially worse after a divorce-this is not a decision someone makes because they are bored. This is a decision women make despite them loosing on a lot of things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:38 PM
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Thank God someone finally mentioned this-50/50 is the default today. If you didn’t get that, there’s something fishy going on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:34 PM
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It’s not wild. If you can prove they are neglectful or abusive you have a case for that. Just because it’s not happening left and right it doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:04 PM
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Nah, the law specifically says paternal responsability also encompasses authority as a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:03 PM
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Parents are not ‘switched’ lol. If you demonstrate involvement in a kid’s life and show the biological parent was neglectful, you can order to have their paternal rights terminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:53 PM
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I think it’s called a paternal responsability order when the biological dad doesn’t consent to the step dad having legal responsability. There are ways to solve the issue if that’s your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:37 PM
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Apply for paternal responsability then. My step dad legally adopted me any my brother when he married our mom. The procedure is simpler now from what I’ve read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:30 PM
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As someone that was raised by a ‘non biological’ dad, this take is pretty delusional because almost all kids have a rebellion phase. Just because you are a bio dad doesn’t mean your kid won’t question your authority at some point, especially during the teenage years. For example my friends that were raised by their bio dads told them ‘I wish you were never my father’ which doesn’t sound that flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:45 PM
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Lol I didn’t say men shouldn’t fight for their paternal kids or whatever your last paragraph is. But emasculation and women not wanting to pay alimony is a cheap cop out for men in this discussion. There’s a way lower percentage of SAHD over SAHM. The solution is very simple when you bear that fact in mind-there are way less men that are in a disadvantaged financial position because they sacrificed a career over staying at home with their family. Just because a man or a woman earns less than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:32 PM
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It wouldn’t be any outrage, stop with the victim narrative. Men constantly sau very insulting stuff about women online and they face no consequences. I’ll check her out to see for myself what content she makes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:38 PM
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Name? I want to analyse her content to see if she is as misandric as rp guys are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:29 PM
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Just like I said, hoogle how many men actually fight for the custody of their kids. Alimony is calculated by standard of living. It’s not a gendered thing and the formula is easy to google. Richer people that set a higher standard of living pay more alimony duh. The point was, again, that alimony is not gendered and is paid only if the spouse receiving it has no financial means to support themselves after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:42 AM
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Statistical facts that men like him can’t interpret. Because if they would see the majority of men don’t even want to fight for the custody of kids, that the only divorces ending up in alimony are one where a spouse stayed at home (Kelly Clarkson is a famous example of a woman paying alimony because of that), that women are statistically worse financially after a divorce and remarry at a lower rate and that a bunch of men don’t even pay for custody (yet they whine online how women use those mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:13 AM
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Then why are other dudes allowed to spew the same toxic rethoric if his ban was REALLY about that? Don’t even get me started on what some male celebrities got scott free doing-cardi b at least went on trial for her claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:22 AM
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He was posting that crap for YEARS before he got banned. Even if we change the goalpost and somehow pretend it’s not socially acceptable for a man to run his mouth about owning women (which plenty of rp dudes do online unbanned btw), you still can’t find the female equivalent that was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:12 AM
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If you start calling people that don’t have a low n count all sorts of insults, guess what-it’s insulting. Very easy concept to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:44 AM
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Who said it’s an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:16 AM
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I’ve been on twox a few times and their general opinion is that if you’re a low n count man seeking a low n count woman it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:13 AM
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No it doesn’t. But like I pointed out, men forget insulting others means they will get a response
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:10 AM
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If he expressed it in a decent manner without insulting women that don’t meet his preference-no, hell doesn’t break loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:08 AM
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So where is the proof it’s socially acceptable and pushed by big influencers? Does Kim Kardashian preach about training husbands? You’re just finding obscure docs with low ratings and try to parade that as proof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:45 PM
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gotta appreciate your effort to find some obscure doc with a 4,6 imdb rating. doesn’t meet any of the two criteria tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:40 PM
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You missed the part where you have to prove it’s socially acceptable and pushed by a big woman influencer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:22 PM
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Society hates on masculine men-but y’all never bring proof for statements like these. Nobody ever stopped or discouraged people from going to the gym or being assertive. We literally live in a society where people’s worth is mainly determined by their productivity so this victim narrative that ‘masculine men are hated on’ is bogus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:13 PM
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Y’all lost the plot. There is no socially acceptable guide on how to train your husband-there’s no woman influencer talking about men like that. Stop the mental gymnastics and actually analyse some of the stuff y’all say here because it’s detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:07 PM
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Firstly, decenter the idea of a role model. There are good traits and lessons some people can give you-but that doesn’t mean you have to pedestalize them for that. Learn to develop a good filter so you can pick up what you should learn from others. Look at the men in your community before looking for some e daddy-fathers, uncles, teachers, coaches. Get out the house and bond with other guys. There are a lot of people around you that could tell you the same exact shit that dude on a screen did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:58 PM
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then they shouldn’t engage in casual sex and stop blaming their actions on a group of women. simple solution
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:05 AM
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If you really think it’s just simps or women over 30 laughing at the situation I have news to tell you. But I don’t want to keep you from writing the same exact comment 20 times in this thread. Hope you are at least compensated for your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:03 AM
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‘men do casual sex because women do it’ is the most chronically online take encountered on ppd. and that’s a really high bar to reach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:11 AM
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If younger him was dating someone else, maybe it would have touched a chord with his fanbase. But his current 50 yo form getting into PR relationships-nah, the internet is mainly clowning him and making memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:03 AM
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We’re determined to make it our hill because the majority of men don’t get why dressing up or makeup is so fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:59 AM
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Every women growing up maybe liked him in his Titanic days. But those are long gone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:31 AM
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Lmao literally everything I know about Macron is because media shits on his marriage constantly. Also Madonna faces a lot of bs for not acting her age. Men want to play the victim when it comes to age gap relationships so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:19 AM
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I don’t think corporations have such high ideological aspirations, I think they just struggle to adapt to a market that is more divided than ever. Taking the skeleton of an established story is easy-the insertions of tokenism and capturing the ‘liberal’ audience is where they struggle. Lots of people on the left call out pinkwashing and tokenism-but corporations are slow to get it right because they don’t prioritise the core or message, they prioritise profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:37 PM
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So for example a franchise/series that was succesful in the past is given a fresh spin that is more in tune with the diversity of our current times in an atempt to generate profit? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:07 PM
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Women want a man that’s better than them at some things. Obviously women end up being better than their partners in other areas-that doesn’t mean they are dating a superior man, that means a man and a woman come with different strengths in a relationship. Nothing contradictory about it, it’s actually painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:23 PM
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Then what is the problem with some movies or tv shows featuring the type of man you described? Just like another user already pointed out before me, there’s a ton of entertainment out there that centers conventional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:10 PM
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You can watch plenty of TV shows and movies without men being sexist dopes. People like you seem to have a problem that entertainment is no longer men-centric and there are multiple tropes of men being featured in mainstream culture (which is actually a good thing because we can see the complexity of men being portayed). No one prevents men from being better. We live in a culture where we are constantly reminded we have to hustle, grind and do everything we have to be succesful. Being financiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:14 PM
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This is like saying ‘all women have a history of dating a man that manipulated her. So she should write something like don’t be manipulative because it’s an uncommon trait among men these days’. When the truth is that a guy that writes a bio like that is obviously one watching red pill gurus online. Nice of him to advertise something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:30 AM
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If it’s something so obvious then why does he have to mention it? It’s kind of clear already what group of men uses language like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:50 AM
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i like how you’re not even disagreeing that you’re off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 PM
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the fact is y’all say stuff that isn’t even relevant to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:19 PM
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what happened to understanding context?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:13 PM
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You forgot the most important detail-is he a good husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:40 PM
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You don’t see him complaining because he just chose to ignore the huge responsability he brought on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:11 AM
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So you support ‘equality’ but don’t think a father is equally responsible to support his OWN child? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:37 AM
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The argument is pretty weak. Just because you ‘made’ it doesn’t mean all the bad times are behind you-there’s still lots of bad situations you’ll go trough because this is how life goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:59 PM
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The amount of women that put the effort to make themselves actually look different with makeup is low. The amount of women that do it on a daily basis is even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:47 PM
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If she’s younger how could she have possibly been with him during his low points? She was probably not even of legal age to date him during those times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:31 PM
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She didn’t violate any law just because she got pregnant. But it’s always funny how y’all care so much about people that mind their bussiness and don’t put the gun to another man’s head to accept their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:59 AM
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no matter what you think about what she can or can’t do, she’s being upfront about her situation and what she wants. it’s irrelevant whether you think that hinders the quality of women on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:41 AM
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get someone that likes to eat pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:36 AM
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the passport bros keep whining about western women constantly despite living their best life or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:35 AM
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Lol men and women both choose in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:33 PM
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Obviously for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:22 PM
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yes, don’t follow cookie cutter advice from a guy that capitalizes random letters on the internet. choose what is best for your situation, that’s very sensible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:12 PM
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The percentage of people that spends their whole life with their highschool sweetheart is very low. Women go trough break-ups, divorces, meet men that seem good on paper but don’t have longterm goals that align with theirs and so on. Dating is not as easy as just picking a guy from a catalogue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:10 PM
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we=women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:09 PM
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but the point is that when it comes to our dating life we are given hard choices
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:56 PM
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You propose a delusional, hysterical solution that limits the options of other people (both men and women). Socially enforced monogamy is bullshit and people have always found ways to by pass that. Putting a veil on human nature and then pretending there is no diversity in our sexual behaviours is dettached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:35 PM
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And how should women acknowledge the growing number of lonely men in your opinion? Because obviously we’ll express that we feel bad for anyone that goes trough a tough situation or deals with depression-until they start ranting about some sexual communist utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:30 PM
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The rates of men and women cheating are almost equal. I know y’all like to peddle the narrative that women are passive and tolerate cheating but the truth is both sexes engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:28 PM
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It’s terrifying how y’all see him as having no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:44 PM
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did you forget where we are? i’m pretty sure men here have meltdowns because average women don’t stay in their supposed leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:14 PM
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guys just like to assume what happens at every girl’s nights at the club. the best thing i did was finding an extrovert to have a relationship with that understands people that like to dance or have fun ar the club are not automatic cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:18 AM
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that statement is pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:52 AM
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a lot of them get decent fillers and don’t look so puffy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:48 AM
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you only feel he had botox before? because that’s textbook pillow face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:40 AM
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Please, you mention being Hispanic and being treated like an inferior race and then call bw every racially charged name in the book. I don’t care if the post is about me or not, you made it on a public debate forum. It’s always amusing to see the hipocrisy of certain groups-reminds me why standing up for them is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:08 AM
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I just skimmed trough the comments and saw you commenting some rancid shit about black women-put that clown wig on and don’t let the door hit you on your way out bro. Wow how comes if you look a bit into the passport bros you always come by some boofonery like the one you exhibit in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:26 AM
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Lol no one divorces because they are bored. They divorce because that marriage is unsalvagable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:01 AM
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Wow, so passport bros find american women so off putting that they have to announce it everywhere online but american women can’t do the same? Holy mother of hipocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:48 AM
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idk man, some average women might have a nasty atittude but that doesn’t mean they want to shit in your bed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:14 PM
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you forget the dudes here that think the average woman is constantly approached. there was a dude here that claimed any female 6 can get on a yacht party or some nba player will fly her to his location-i remember because it was probably the most deluded comment about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:55 PM
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Doesn’t have to be purge week to see how inconsistent y’all are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:27 PM
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maybe that was just your situation. not all people that deal with suicidal ideation think and act the same btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:06 PM
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nature is healing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:47 PM
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so you pick and choose what is a fake me too moment? peak ppd moment right here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:39 PM
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Who rubbished claims of sexual assault here? The gender ratio here heavily favours men. You just did what you claim women here do while throwing insults. Please don’t act holier than thou, you’re far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:28 PM
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You’re part of the same vile team if this is your stance. You take the moral stances of some randos and then generalise it to the entire gender. Truly useless if you really want to battle double standards in any effective way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:18 PM
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The conversation is had. But the majority of men choose to lead with the sex and relationship angle and push for limiting others liberties. Which is obviously something the majority of us will never get on board with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:55 PM
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Affirmative action is a thing in certain fields with a skewed gender ratio. There’s no affirmative action in social or gender studies and a lot of the edge in the degree department is because women go for majors that are oriented in the sociological sphere. We listen to men that ask for a helping hand. But you know, they have to actually make a point and not hurl insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:53 PM
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Yes, the man’s effort is the problem in the cases that don’t involve medical problems. Long term exclusivity doesn’t mean the men should just slack and stop being sexually exciting. This is why women feel stultified and there are easy and obvious fixes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:42 PM
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No, the problem for the dude that made the original comment is that women do what men have done for ages-being able to make choices on what path they pursue in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:38 PM
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Get with a woman that wants a 50/50 relationship if you don’t want to provide. It’s that simple but men like to act like they have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:16 PM
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So just because he is slacking now means he wasn’t the best option when she picked him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:04 PM
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Do you really think a woman in a sexless marriage wouldn’t have sex with a man that makes the effort to be sexually exciting to her? In all these cases the men are pitied by default and women’s needs are never a priority. I presented viable paths. I don’t see how your comment is relevant either, guess we have that in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:55 PM
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in what universe my point is a regurgitation of your point🤦🏽‍♀️?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:17 PM
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No one ‘decides’ to have a sexless marriage. Attraction is not a decision for the majority of people that ain’t ASPD. I can use your argument to counter your points-tolerating misogynistic behaviour is a decision so you can actively fight it and make your workplace a safer place. Tolerating retroactive jealousy is a choice so instead you can help your prtner grow out of it since a relationship is supposed to help you evolve as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:13 PM
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yes, we aren’t on the same side because i can see how all the scenarios you laid out are also loses for women. you can’t because you can’t think beyond your own outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:58 PM
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Do you think a sexless marriage ain’t a shitty deal for women? Or that women want to be in competition with coworkers that have misogynistic views? Or that they want to suffer from your retroactive jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:51 PM
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yeah, it’s weird to complain that if you are better at something then people are going to expect you to do that certain thing. everyone uses their strongest attributes to contribute to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:30 PM
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Because people talk. If you don’t differentiate the intent behind someone’s actions you’re gonna end up having a stroke just because your wife talked to a cashier that was a man. And if you don’t trust your partner to honour your relationship and conduct herself in a respectful way you’re gonna assume the dude she gave directions to is the actual dad of your kids. That’s why we draw lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:19 PM
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So you changed a benign action with cheating? Lol. My uncle was a very traditional black man. We butted heads a lot but he told me something once that I remember to this day-a good protector knows when he has to protect others from himself. This is how I define rational justification-unless you have an actual reason to be concerned there is cheating going on or you know the other man has a shady character, making a scene just because your gf talked to another dude doesn’t mean you are being a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:55 PM
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If there’s no rational reason for him not liking his gf talking to another dude, that has to be called out. Being protective doesn’t mean you are free to act in irrational ways without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:47 PM
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You don’t even know who these people are since he never mentioned their names. But one day PPD claims we shouldn’t judge age gap relationships and make assumptions and the next day y’all switch at 180 degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:44 PM
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I wish to have the confidence of some people that consider they know what random ass people are actually thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:37 PM
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How do you know she’s not sexually attracted to that? She has her pick of the litter, she has financial security, she’s winning in every possible category. Yes they run in the same circles-they can meet in an exclusivist place or on some tropical island or at a private party-you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:19 PM
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And how does that deny they were both in the same social circle? Wealth gives you access to other wealthy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:11 PM
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So she married someone that’s in her circle? Surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:48 PM
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Lol I don’t date traditional men and never encountered behaviour like that. Who are you dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:48 AM
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Yes you did. Also your hostility and the sheer stupidity of your previous comments is hilarious. Thank God we’re slowly moving forward from this being the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:25 AM
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I agree it shouldn’t exist at all obviously. But it’s not that common and single moms ain’t the root of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:10 AM
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They forget how cheating was and still is generally seen as acceptable if men practice it by a large percent of people that have ‘traditional’ values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:07 AM
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I think that pressure is toxic in a lot of cases because it forces people into very rigid boxes. There was a Rogan interview where he kept claiming real men don’t support paternal leave-just an example out of the many of social pressure negatively impacting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:02 AM
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Show me somethin' natural like ass with some stretch marks-Kendrick Lamar, modern philosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:51 AM
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Nah, most of the things he listed are fairly recent and feminism influencing the culture is responsible for split custody being the default in the vast majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:39 AM
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I had like three school shooters in my neighbourhood, this is a fantastic point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:37 AM
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nah, early 2010s were peak for anti-feminist compilations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:32 AM
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you wrote such a toughtful comment that’s gonna unfortunately fall on dead ears
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:26 AM
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You’re inconsistent. Why do people like you spew traditional rethoric but want modern benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:24 AM
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keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 AM
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If it was so important then why doesn’t it make it in the history books?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:11 AM
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You’re making zero sense in this reply. Don’t complain about men not geting custody or all the things you listed since that’s ‘not toxic’. The rest of your comment is that men get arrested or fired for looking at a woman-but none of y’all bring any proof this actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:10 AM
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You’re missing the point that toxic masculinity refers to a set of beliefs that men are not free to act in any other way that’s not alligned to the traditional model of masculinity. So of course the man doesn’t get the custody of kids since that is traditionally viewed as the job of the mother. Also I can just search on tiktok and I’ll get more than thousands videos of men talking about post wall women in very bitter terms-and then you wonder why the response of society is to side eye the men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:52 PM
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There’s no man that actually gets what toxic masculinity refers to that doesn’t see how it’s an explanation for why all the issues you listed are perpetuated in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:42 PM
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because it’s some sort of escapism that both genders engage with. also 50 shades had a huge marketing push because people started to read it because it was cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:20 PM
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You’re comparing Newton and Einstein to some shady studies that don’t take into account how many people divorce because they were childfree by choice or due to infertility. If it’s such a bad source, why cite it in an atempt to make a point? I’m not seriously debating you because this post is just a long rambling that has clear gaps in it. I’m just having fun with what sources y’all come up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:18 PM
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One of your other sources is from 2011. The other is some sort of article that tries to make an argument about ‘bussines’ marriages. Good stuff right here man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:57 PM
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did anyone manage to read past the point where this dude claimed his source is a heavily produced reality tv show?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:48 PM
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I forgot where I saw some guy that tried to argue that ‘we should wait for the side of the policemen, even if it looks bad’. But I agree they won’t rally for black cops as hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:25 PM
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this has big ‘i’m 17 and my first gf dumped me’ energy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:22 PM
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girlbosses stay winning💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:21 PM
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yeah, 50 shades is a soap opera in print. also started as a twilight fanfiction or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:19 PM
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those were mostly teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:16 PM
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nothing surprising about it. the plan is to lay low for a while and then come back and act like nothing ever happened
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:58 PM
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Those are rookie numbers, you have to pump them up! The statistics for 2021 claim that 20% of men are sexless and if I remember correctly women had a similar or even higher rate of being sexless. Yet you don’t see us starting movements online for the sexless women or say they should get state mandated bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:53 PM
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Is a grifter the best example for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:34 PM
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You’re clearly overrating how attractive those dudes are. Stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:52 PM
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I’m not following what you said because it’s bullshit and people already called you out for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:32 PM
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He is a 9/10 and the best he could get was a 1/10 to be interested in him? Then that’s far from a 9/10 dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:17 PM
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you’ve never been around an attractive man in this case. they don’t need to go to the 2 when the bar is closing, some chick already had her eyes on him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:12 PM
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It is. Because dudes mainly comment here how women are being exploitative and selfish and looking for ‘orbiters’ when they do this. While I don’t agree with going that far, I think the truth is in the middle since OP used these messages to call her an incel here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:31 PM
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So ‘true love’ is a man that has an affair and blows your money without your consent. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:51 PM
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I don’t think it’s an incel point to say that someone that’s interested in you would have a hard time being just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:38 PM
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Your reply makes no sense in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:37 PM
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I never said there was a relationship, I just said she wants different things out of one than you do. Friend that was romantically interested in you. Then you expose her to ppd. Yeah, really shows that’s a great friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:45 AM
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Oh wow, it was a solid month!!! She’s not an ‘unhinged shit’ woman tho, just one that has different things she would like in a relationship. You proposed her with going out for ramen when the decent thing would be to just let her be (also I’m not even going to point out the hipocrisy of exposing her here and calling her misandric and other bs buzzwords when you intentionally reached out to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:33 AM
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Dudes here rip apart on women that say they want to be friends with men that were romantically interested in them. And there’s a point to be made since you wanted to have a platonic relationship but she wasn’t fully over from seeing you in that way, hence why she started talking about relationships. Also it’s funny how a mod posts rants here and then claims ‘I’m not about that toxicity I swear!’. You’re obviously about attention since you aired your shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:21 AM
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So let me get is straight-you come here ranting about a 40yo that’s your fwb, she caught feelings, you said you won’t give what she wants. Then you pull the ‘platonic friendship’ card (which men on ppd shit on when it’s a woman doing that but I’m not expecting consistency). She even said she loves men but she doesn’t like certain behaviours men display. And she won’t settle for those. Wow, that becomes a punishable offense on PPD out of all the places in the world. Was her rant weird? Sure. Shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:53 AM
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It’s not leftist being puritanical, it’s all these movements started by men that get infested with misogynistic discourse about manipulating women and painting us in very broad strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:15 AM
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Nah, I’ve seen how efortless is for my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:06 PM
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Probably pretty fast. I’m extroverted and my family has great genes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:54 PM
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I said you can go out and see the people that get laid. How is that the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:35 AM
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Time for y’all to listen to Keep ya head up in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:56 PM
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Great many? No way. The majority of my uni colleagues had dates, girlfriends and hookups and we were studying CS-which is not the conventional girl magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:48 PM
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You just have to get out on a friday night and see it’s indeed a great city to date and meet people. Your former dating problems are not universal for nyc men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:34 PM
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or maybe because women are free to pursue other romantic relationships in their lives, it’s not an agenda ffs. it’s funny how men are these little creatures with little agency or capacity for critical thinking and they fall into the traps of these evil women. wake up, being a stepdad is an active choice made by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:49 PM
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The age for sperm donors is set at 35 in the majority of clinics. 45 is really pushing it. It’s not ‘bad science’ just because you don’t like the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:27 PM
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wow, purity culture really fucks people up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:51 PM
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And what makes him an authority on women? Nothing. The fact you provide the quote of a man that was whining in the 1990s about women proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:16 PM
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Poor dude was born too early to have an alpha podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:05 PM
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or maybe the message is that if a woman doesn’t like you she’ll say no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:17 PM
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come on, why use Ashley as an example if that wasn’t about me? also no shit it’s a debate forum, people will share their perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:05 PM
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It does-because I won’t tell him to call off his wedding just because he chose a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:58 PM
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my brother is a functional adult, he can make his own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:48 PM
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The majority of people is able to form relationships with the opposite sex. You got your answer. Also you can have an interesting talk with your parents or grandparents about the dating dynamics from their time, you’ll be surprised to see every generation faced their challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:16 PM
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I forgot attractive men are shitty by default on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:13 PM
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I can find you 100 people that claim the Earth is flat and that would seem like they are a lot. Doesn’t make them right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:58 PM
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Everyone is alone? No, plenty of people are in relationships. Your post has only one point which you haven’t proved so far. It’s the typical women bad we see five times on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:54 PM
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If you think a woman has nothing to bring to the table, then don’t approach her. It’s that simple and it doesn’t contradict what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:48 PM
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I have a lot of men friends and I agree with you that these type of friendships don’t need to be normalised but there are people out there that think men-women friendships are weird/fake/the man always wants to fuck the woman and so on. Some people are even opposed of their partners having friends of the opposite gender because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:38 PM
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have you ever visited a mgtow forum? because they whine non stop how modern women are trash/obese/single moms/cat ladies and so on. don’t be disingenous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:25 AM
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I can answer that for you-envy because women get the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:18 AM
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Have you ever talked with men from The Netherlands? Prostitution is legal there, they still hve the same dating problems and woes as americans. Also a lot of people would prefer the monetary or genetic ties to a dude that has that outlook on women and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:34 AM
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Bruh if you really think you have no baggage I have bad news for you-baggage isn’t acquired only by having failed relationships, it’s also acquired by jaded dudes that have no experience and think prostitution means women won’t have a hold on the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:20 AM
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Imagine equating people signaling you’re being an asshole to totalitarianism. It really shows y’all can’t handle half of what you dish and it’s very funny to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:55 PM
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Are we forgeting the ‘dump’ part in ‘pump and dump’?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:42 PM
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your comments scream ‘i can’t support my claims so i deflect’
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:18 PM
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uptight for asking for some proof? the bar is low
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:15 PM
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sorry to break it to you but that dude in the first video was joking. it’s a thing people do sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:03 PM
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not a fact. you could bring some actual proof if that were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:57 PM
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Or maybe men should learn that their words have consequences, especially if they broadcast those words for everyone to see them. You’re the prime example of ‘freedom of speech for me but not for thee!’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:45 PM
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sorry, i doubt there’s no veiled complaint if you truly believed men are shamed for their sexual urges
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:35 PM
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What kind of wattpad fiction is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:58 PM
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why are you basing your worldview from a post written by an edgelord on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:52 PM
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Those women get nothing useful from the men that manipulate them for sex. But what can I say, your logic is something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:49 PM
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who shames men for that? there are industries worth billions that revolve around the sexual urges of men. what more do yall want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:44 PM
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I don’t think they were better in their 20s, I think it’s a characteristic of the generation they come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 PM
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What ages are these dudes? I’m almost 28 and the guys in my generation that I’ve dated are very capable of being functional adults that cook, clean, take out the trash, manage tasks and so on. In fact I never lived with a man that I had to order around to do basic maintenance stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:37 PM
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Do y’all even think before writing stuff like that? You really don’t see the problem in using emotionally volatile people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:32 PM
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12.8% of people live in areas that are considered food desert and their access to food that is healthy and nutritious is limited. instead they have access to processed foods that are poor in nutrients and more addictive so breaking the cycle of bad nutrition becomes even harder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:30 PM
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that’s barely scratching the surface of the issue-the food is shit. and the poorer you are, the only economical access you have is to shit food
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:10 PM
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Do you actually think people don’t know all the health risks influenced by fat? Or they don’t know what foods are bad? Or that fat is generally regarded as unattractive since you don’t see fatties in romance movies? Guess what, still doesn’t work because people are fatter than ever and you think there is some sort of ‘messaging’ issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:58 PM
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if fatshaming worked we wouldn’t have around 70% of overweight people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:33 PM
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move on to the next dude
/r/AllPillDebate22/01/23 09:28 PM
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any actual example of that? i don’t have high expectations because most of the examples are always bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:06 PM
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the funniest response to this is ‘women underrate the attractiveness of men, those guys with gfs are not average for sure!!’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:57 PM
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There’s a BIG difference between treating a stranger man with caution because you’ll never be able to phisically dominate him and treating all men like ‘rapists and criminals’. Idk why people take advice that’s tailored for women that meet men trough OLD for example on how they should look out for themselves in that sort of situation and jump to ‘oh you’re treating him like a rapist/criminal!’. No, this is a game where women can’t really win. Be trusting and sth bad happens? Obviously your fault…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:50 PM
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depends on what topic you are looking for said guidance. everyone will agree gender roles should be dismantled and individuals should pick what suits their needs better for example. but not everybody agrees on wether sex work is ‘empowering’ or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:29 PM
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so what you are saying is being a reasonable person gets you the same treatment from others? crazy conclusion /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:18 PM
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ofc it’s ‘all over the place’ since there are more branches of feminism and they don’t necessarly see eye to eye on certain issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:14 PM
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you didn’t even bother to read the post, you’re not the one that should be talking about ‘not knowing the contextes’ lmao. you just want to ride for this dude that uses random men from the internet as a substitute for a personality at the expense of his wife and his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:25 PM
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Why do you act like knowing how a man should act or how a fair marriage looks like is such a foreign or abstract concept for people? It’s common sense that wanting a woman to obey you and your kids seeing that shit is unhealthy. She never signed up for this kind of job. Since you like job analogies so much you should think you were hired on a certain position and now your cranky boss demands you do shit you never signed up for. That’s what those dudes try to pull on their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:16 PM
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The way in which you chose to ‘destroy’ it matters. That’s the point. He can leave his wife and go do whatever the fuck he wants, but by trying to apply the alpha theories to his marriage he is actively hurting his wife and giving his kids a shit example on how a man acts. That’s why he or any man should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:05 PM
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he literally says he wants to punish her for going to a work function and you come up with these mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:57 PM
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it’s not about melissa mccarthy not being rated a 10. but there are some men here that claim that celebrities that are obviously conventionally attractive and have a very curated image are not attractive or look average. that’s the fishy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:34 PM
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It’s not shocking that you don’t offer any actual examples of you helping men. I know what to expect from your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:27 PM
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I’ll never stop doing what I want just because a hypothetical man in the future wouldn’t like it. You got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:43 AM
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No, the bar is not in hell for everyone. That phrase is mostly reserved for women that settle for shitty deals in a relationship or are easily impressed by stuff that is the minimum in a healthy relationship. Doesn’t mean all of us would swoon that a guy made sure his partner consented to sex or accept some dude that leaves skid marks on the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:24 PM
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who is the first dude? i’m asking for a science project👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:34 PM
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that’s a hard one. i’d suggest an open relationship in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:09 PM
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some concealer for the eyebags, eat some chocolate to get your mood up, go out and dance and then blow your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:42 PM
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they obviously won’t stop a hookup with him and not every woman has some bionic eye that can exactly measure every penis. idk why some men like to put down others like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:40 PM
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and men seem to not learn to eat less even with the public insults. probably the strategy is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:33 PM
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That sounds like a case for being discriminated as a work prospect. But not libel or doxxing. Good luck to your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:30 AM
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The internet is clebrating that the dude playing in marvel movies who was dating an almost 40 yo when he was 19 possibly cheated on her. They’ve been calling her groomer for MONTHS at this point. What obscene misandry indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:20 AM
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I didn’t ask for the name of company or this dude’s name. I just asked if he has actual proof he wasn’t hired on the basis of that group. Otherwise a lawyer is just smiling to himself that he’ll get an easy bag. If nobody gave his adress on the group those women can’t be accused of doxxing and libel has to be proven to have caused direct damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:20 PM
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That was one famous example of a woman getting screwed over by divorce. Men admit willingly they don t care about the career or money of their spouse, so it shouldn’t surprise you their actions come with consequences in case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:44 PM
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kelly clarkson is paying her husband 115k in alimony and 45k in child support monthly. guess someone should have told her women can not lose anything in a divorce. or maybe the point is that marrying someone with a lesser social economic status means you’re gonna be the one that pays regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:15 PM
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How does he know for sure he wasn’t hired because of that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:55 PM
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yep, i want proof all these groups are a coordinated effort by feminists. and that the majority of their members identify as feminists. also i’d like to see proof men lost their jobs because a woman commented online about a bad date they had with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:20 PM
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You stop it and ask how would a guy lose his job or whatever hysterical claim y’all make here just because a woman said they had a bad date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:08 PM
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I was in college around that, ‘listen and believe’ was NOT a legal demand, it was just about personal behaviour. No one’s getting thrown out of college for an accusation stop the cap. Also I asked you two specific questions, answer them if you actually can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:53 PM
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Where is the proof this is some sort of feminist initiative? Do you genuinely think women needed feminism to ask feedback about the dudes they want to date? I keep seeing statements that these dudes are going to lose their job because of a bad date review and I want to see actual proof or justification for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:19 PM
2

Did y’all intentionally skip the part where I said it works on a subset of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:37 AM
9

Proof their ‘lives are ruined over one bad date’?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:33 AM
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Depends why the date was bad, that’s the point. Was it bad because y’all didn’t click? You’re right. Was it bad because of other reasons? That’s where these groups can be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:31 AM
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Nothing, but they just like to attach feminism to everything. It’s their most beloved boogey man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:29 AM
2

Sub women are far from the majority tho. That’s a niche community and a switch dude might also not be into women that are only subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:56 AM
2

Can y’all argue a point without throwing the usual buzzwords?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:21 AM
3

Just like your friend down below that can’t accept other men think in different ways, you’re not adding anything to the conversation. Sure, that’s your challenge. Other men are up to other things. Shouldn’t be that hard to accept different people look for different things. Or that there are people that are turned on by potential partners that are unavailable or out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:05 AM
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because we just removed probably half of the women that have conservative values? yeah. but the point is to hang in the circles with likeminded people, that’s how you’re going to be succesful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:02 AM
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Considering the fact that the conventionally attractive bi men are now pull women consistently,, I think the problem is how conventionally hot they are. Not the fact they got dommed or whatever you try to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:54 AM
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when your dating people is reduced to half and they you have to substract the women that are left that are coupled up or are not into men-yeah, that sounds harder to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:45 AM
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If he’s hot and interesting to them? That won’t be a problem for the women that are not homophobic. Google what percentage of women identifies with more lgbtq friendly values if you want hard numbers, i’d say it’s around 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:42 AM
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Lol, the point is that they doubt his sexuality, not his number of partners of promiscuity. Straight people wanting to date straight people is kinda natural, I say this as a woman that slept with orher women or nb people in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:31 AM
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Don’t care what he consensually did before meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:23 AM
4

How is it rare for women to have meltdowns when their fave celebs get a girlfriend? If you date Harry Styles, you might wanna close that ig account because it’s gonna get crazy in the comments. From hate comments to death threats, you’ll find THOUSANDS of examples there. But you allegedely think it’s so rare lmao I’d rather believe my dating experiences and what men directly tell me instead of someone on ppd that thinks evopsych should determine how ALL men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:17 AM
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You’re not adressing the fact women display the same type of behaviour with celebrities. The point of preselection working in men is the fact they interpret it as a challenge. I heard it multiple times from dudes, but I know men on ppd tend to have this syndrome where only their worldview can exist under the sun. Guess what, just like I said there are men that like to chase and be kept on their toes when it comes to dating. That’s why this sort of advice is succesful if you try to get with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:00 AM
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That was just one example of a context in which a man is not bothered by pre selection. I literally said in my first comment not all people act the same. The korean pop idols never reveal their reationship status because their fans send death threats and have meltdowns over it. Guess which gender I’m refering to (hint: is the one you think doesn’t act like that with celebrities).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:35 AM
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preach. they’ll make all these rules, talk about them online and break them if a girl is hot. human nature at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:51 PM
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Yeah, that’s why dudes will slip in your dms after they see a photo of you and your bf and open up with some shit like ‘you could do much better’. They seem very turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:38 PM
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‘none of that stuff works on men’-duh it works on a subset of men obviously. the problem is y’all don’t understand not all men act like you or your friends or the other dudes in your circle. there are men out there that like toxicity, start drama for the sake of it, have jealousy and are extremely possessive. i could go on and on but y’all get the point. is this advice i follow in my dating life? no. do i think it doesn’t work because ’men are just not like that’? hell nah, plenty of damaged peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:24 PM
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They call the men that date highschoolers that phrase. I do remember people from my generation that had depression or issues with anxiety but they didn’t have the means to broadcast it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:28 PM
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Nah. I know dudes that have younger gfs, still call a man that gets involved with a highschooler ‘kids that were left behind’. I’d clown a slut if she took advantage of a man tho, I’m on that train.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:02 PM
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so…people clown you because your behaviour is out of the way the majority chooses to conduct themselves? absolutely unheard of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:51 PM
1

Highschoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:39 PM
2

Damn you’re just writing these pharagraps to argue some imaginary tangent. You can’t claim women had a choice in a civillised society when they were heavily shamed for having sex outside marriage (and that doesn’t mean just cheating). That choice always came with the double standard attached to it and heavy social implications. Also there was no emphasis on female pleasure and orgasm so thank you sexual emancipation for that. Hence literally all women benefitted from sex outside of marriage not …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:48 AM
3

Then give those men these hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:28 PM
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That might be one very good reason. One of my theories is that making someone fear you is a quick way to earn their so called respect. And these people would rather take the short route than figure out other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:10 PM
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Those men can’t imagine gaining the respect of others in any other way. Kinda sad if you think about it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:01 PM
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Serious question-where is the proof that many egalitarian marriages are sexless? Or that being in a marriage or relationship that is not egalitarian leads to more sex than vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:56 PM
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Some men with options wife up what other people call ‘sluts’ because individuals that have a high sociosexuality seek that in a partner. Your original point doesn’t relate to my comment and barely has a tangent with this post that says a man is allowed to cheat just because he didn’t get play in his younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:34 PM
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Sorry, you’re talking about some other things that are off topic. Men with options don’t wife only virgins and sexual emancipation means a woman is free to choose how to sexually conduct herself (and that doesn’t mean having dozens of partners, she can choose to have 4 and no ‘man with options’ is having a heart attack over that). That wasn’t the case in the past, there was no choice. Please stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:56 PM
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It deffinetly was needed then. We’ve come to be more accepting over all of women allowing men into her bed that are not her future husband. There’s no scarlet letter anymore for women that excercise their options. That’s what this discussion is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:17 PM
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Because our society discriminates cheaters, duh. #normalisecheating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:19 PM
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Maybe for the obvious reason that if you sleep around while being single you don’t hurt the feelings of your boyfriend/husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:13 PM
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Of course you’re gonna be stigmatized for having an affair by the majority of people. It doesn’t matter if it’s a woman, man or something else, society generally doesn’t like cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:09 PM
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Literally who is stopping those middle aged men? Why do you think this kind of sexual emancipation was needed just for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:05 PM
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The problem with your logic is that you equate a man showing interest with ‘traditional masculinity’. I like men getting me flowers. I also bake them cookies or surprise them with a random little gift. That’s called showing mutual interest. If he initiates a date because he heard me talking about a new restaurant, I’ll also get him tickets to a concert or something like that to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:54 AM
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a pick me is a woman willing to put down other women so she can be appealing to men. that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:00 AM
2

lol i don’t think i’ve seen a red pill creator as attractive as hasan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:45 AM
2

key word-supposed. hmmmmm funny isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:38 AM
0

Sex is fun. Exploring different partners is also fun if you are the type of person that wants some variety before settling down. I had a long relationship that lasted until I was 22 and I ended it because I wanted to see what’s out there. I got that out of my system so I count it as a positive thing. It also gave me a confidence boost. Not all the men I’ve slept with were great in bed but none were bad or disastrous. There was always reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:33 PM
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You’re watching too many tv shows my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:24 PM
2

Again, you are misunderstanding the saying to try and support your point. The men that mantain the infrastructure of society are paid to do that, just like I’m paid for my job. I wouldn’t say I’m needed by men collectively because of that. Stop being obtuse. Men or women can live just fine because in the modern society we have the means to support ourselves, that’s the big point you keep missing on purpose. I didn’t say it’s wrong to WANT a partner. But you or a woman or an enby or a kittenself …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:21 AM
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for like the millionth time, women not needing men doesn’t mean what you think it does. in fact no human should need another human regardless of gender in order to live a fullfilling life or be desperate for a relationship. that phrase concerns relationships and as we can see around us it’s not a laughable narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:54 AM
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The original point was that a pick-me is a woman that parrots point of views just to gather validation from men and put other women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:11 PM
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Because that’s just c*pe at the end of the day. Every human wants to feel wanted or desired, there’s a dose of external validation we all crave and seeing others get it is an isolating experience. You can think you’re the prize, but when no one is showing interest for you it’s hard to rationally justify you are an actual catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:00 PM
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Don’t forget that they never mention divorce rates are higher for higher age gaps. It’s almost like they always pick and choose what arguments are convenient for them and ignore the facts that don’t support their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:09 PM
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Nah, the bitterness comes from dudes that make random assumptions about people they’ll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:25 PM
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I get you care about him a lot and you see his qualities BUT (and this is a big but) think if you really want to start a family with someone that brushes off this issue and helds the belief you’re gonna hop to another dick or leave him in time of needs. I read your replies and it’s obvious he wants to dodge the problem, not handle it. I hope you make the best decision for yourself and don’t waste your time, that’s a precious resource you can’t get back.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:53 PM
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I think it’s obvious two partners have to keep on being sexually attractive to eachother. Flirting, teasing, romantic dinners, special lingerie, planning something kinky-these are a few ways to keep your partner interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:22 PM
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And how does that deny that the other dude is making efforts to spend time with her and get her gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:35 PM
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Nah, the more time passes men usually forget they have to also keep themselves sexually attractive. That also seems the case of this dude that puts more energy into being attractive to other women then to his own wife. Prime example of fuck around and find out here. Also that other dude makes active efforts to spend time with her and gift her flowers, you can’t say men don’t make any kind of effort in the ‘hang and bang’ phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:10 AM
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I disagree. If you were born into a wealthy circle, you quickly see no one is actually marrying a barista or a broke girl. Image and keeping up appearances is always important and there are plenty of hot and attractive women that also come from a wealthy background.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:17 AM
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Do you realise the number of above average guys ain’t high enough that every woman ends up dating one? Do you realise an ‘average’ dude can have other things going on for him that make him very attractive? Or that some women can simply find him attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:43 AM
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or maybe he just ain’t putting any effort into seducing her like that dude does. is she supposed to feel attracted by default to a man that feels she ‘offered everything she had to’?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:18 AM
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where was his respect for her? the most pathetic thing is not being able to catch what you throw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:52 AM
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Plenty of men today have good and loving women in their lives. Probably the fact they don’t have the narcissistic tendencies to mention the word ‘submission’ ten times a day helps a great deal with that. The second paragraph is among the funniest lies I’ve read here. It’s peak comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:01 PM
2

I don’t think marriage itself is so bad, I think the bad part is thinking monogamous marriage is the solution for everyone. I agree with the rest of the comment about how we would thrive more living communally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:37 PM
1

That was not my point but hating someone by default for their profession does sound very healthy and balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:47 AM
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Boomer’s humour is mainly about hating your wife/loosing your freedom once you get married and other tropes like that. There’s always a boomer at a wedding going to the groom and making some sort of statement like that. So I am convinced their marriages and relationships weren’t as great as some people on ppd want to believe. I don’t know how we could reach an equilibrum tbf. I just think some people adapt better than others to the current climate and the ones that don’t have a tendency to roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:42 AM
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I responded to what you said, you’re just being very repetitive. I truly don’t care how you chose to respond to racist women, that’s not the gotcha you think it is. People want to play this convenient game where they don’t practice body acceptance or racial positivity yet cry when someone calls them short or points they have thin lips and eat unseasoned chicken. Their ideas have been attacked PLENTY of times yet they still choose to speak dumb shit. Not everyone is supposed to just overlook thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:59 AM
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Where is the hate buddy? I get her videos pushed on my fyp and they are literally RESPONSES to men (in the majority of time) saying dumb things or calling her ugly/fat/whatever. Why don’t you defend her from the hate if that’s your main concern? She’s a Polynesian woman (since you like to bring race into this discourse), why don’t you protect her from the men that mock her for the features of her ancestors? The point of your post is something not all people will agree with. People get the conseq…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:40 AM
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Comparing her to a dude that got arrested for heinous shit is very dramatic. As I said, she makes responses to hypocritical tiktoks made by men. If that bothers you that much to call her a ‘terrible person’, that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:28 AM
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You don’t really know the soul of some internet stranger. She just throws it back to hypocritical men via tiktok responses, it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:21 AM
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Drew’s bf is fine as fuck. Try another excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:12 AM
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It’s not dehumanization. This is the mentality lots of men pass to eachother. It’s just acknowledging the fact that some men don’t break out of the shitty and arrogant mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:05 AM
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the ‘developmentally kneecapped’ is such a bs c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:24 AM
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Or maybe y’all just romanticise how loving and submissive those wives were. I saw so many examples of couples from that time that were far from being loving that I can’t understand why people hang on to this fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:11 AM
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Guess some of y’all didn’t get the memo people are allowed to have their opinions on what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:06 AM
1

I think it was will smith that said growing up without internet means you could be stupid without the whole world seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:33 PM
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Did you exclude the 18-20 year old people from this conversation? Because that’s the most controversial part and people don’t generally care if the younger adult is established in some ways and has a bit of life experience. It’s funny you justify the case of an older woman as a ‘practical concern’ just to fit your narrative. There is also some moral judgement going on since a 35 yo divorced woman (+/- kids in this equation) is condemned to a life of cats and boxed wine by a big chunk of our soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:43 PM
1

Nah, it’s rare and also judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:33 PM
0

And do you think it has never happened in the history of dating for a man to be told that he shouldn’t be with an older woman because of fertility/family plans/getting to play the field and so on? Also I looked at comments sections were age gaps are debated. It’s mostly teenagers that think it’s icky and that’s sort of natural if you think they don’t have the actual life experience to see how these things work. Liberals/progressives get the ick when the age gap involves a woman or man that’s too…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:18 PM
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Firstly society shames women exploring their sexuality more than it does men, that’s why we have saying anout locks and keys and stupid analogies about cars and owners. Secondly people side eye couples were the woman is the older one more heavily than they do when the man is older. Just because there is some discourse online about men dating younger women (which a category of men started because of the shit they say online for everyone else to see) doesn’t mean the pradigm changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:05 PM
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society cares much more about the first scenario than the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:56 PM
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You act like women are either untouched or baby mommas to drug dealers. Wake up to reality, good women don’t want the damaged goods and frustrated dudes that missed out on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:42 AM
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The good girls I’ve seen in that situation have some really strict upbringing. Very sheltered and parents that never let them experience life at the same pace their peers did. So once they are on their own they unfortunately end up in situations like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:12 AM
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I could give you an uncharitable response since the two examples you used are also uncharitable and borderline caricatures. How are you gonna get an untouched female, snoop around highschool gates? Creep on college campuses? Because all the girls and young women there are for sure waiting for some socially inexperienced 30yo man that’s jaded and bitter because he never prioritised forming relationships. As I said in another comment, what a sensational catch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:10 AM
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Plenty of dudes in their 20s date, have relationships and even marry. If he didn’t have enough social calibration to get one in his 20s that’s just his problem and he should stop throwing judgements at other people. He should look at his own baggage first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:18 AM
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So the guy that ‘worked’ in his 20s doesn’t have baggage? Why didn’t he also give the healthiest and most energetic years of his life to a woman? What a score to get some guy that spent 10 years alone and is bitter and built a lot of frustration due to that! Also who starts to ‘fade’ in their 30s? Not even white people do that if they use spf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:36 AM
1

Depends to which degree people are flawed. The post specifically refers to people that are more fucked up than the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:11 AM
2

When I read comments like yours I really wonder if y’all are seriously thinking like this. bEsT yEarS lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:09 AM
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The majority of the ‘pure girl/bad guy’ stories I see here come from people that tell highschool stories about their crushes getting with jocks or dudes that had more confidence to approach women. I even went trough something like this. I wouldn’t use teenagers to make a point that women like bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:09 PM
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Do the people that ask these questions or believe women like bAd gUyS ever look at what type of women like them? Because in my experience individuals with questionable morals are a match for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:42 PM
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He was talking about some data OkCupid released about men getting the most responses in their 50s. He didn’t mention the responses were from women around their age. That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:19 PM
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And if you look at who desires men in their 50s the answer will be women close to his age, not 18 yo. This happens when you just take graphs from OLD services but don’t interpret them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:27 AM
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I understand your point about not liking hypocritical people. But wanting a man to signal his interest doesn’t mean a woman won’t reciprocate or that he has to be the only one doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:24 AM
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And you can chose to not date that woman instead of coming up with theories on how her preferences are contradictory to being strong and independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:44 AM
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Basically this. Pursuing someone means you are going to signal you are interested in them in some ways. What the people that rant against this don’t realise it’s that this is not necessarly some feminine/masculine battle, it’s just two people showing they are into eachother. I just made some banana bread for the guy I’m seeing because he told me he liked it, by their logic I just stopped being a ‘strong, independent woman’ because of that and performed some gendered act or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:27 AM
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I’ve seen plenty of men being hyped up around me, but I know on ppd all positive examples are denied or ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:38 PM
0

Your problem if your friends don’t hype you up. Don’t know what armies you’re refering to since not every woman is an ig model.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:14 PM
1

The reality is that blue pill is whatever a red piller doesn’t like. There’s no defined blue pill so it’s easy to come up with whatever suits your arguent and say ‘checkmate’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:59 AM
1

The company doesn’t care about me but I have a lot of professional relationships that have turned into solid friendships. So at the end of the day my social circle greatly benefited from having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:22 PM
3

I doubt it’s that great if you come up with takes like these
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:22 PM
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I really wonder if people that make arguments like yours ever experienced a day where they felt damn good about themselves. That’s the majority of bikini pics you see on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:22 PM
2

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:18 PM
2

no it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:04 PM
3

You said it yourself dude was in Korea because he is a model, not your typical jaded american man. And Korea has the lowest birthrate in the world-there’s a lot of gender animosity going on because of feminism even the president got involved. So I don’t really think your example fits the passport bro in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:14 PM
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How does that prove he ‘fleed the west’ and they didn’t just organically meet? Also feminisn is common in South Korea so no proof she isn’t very close to what a western woman acts and thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:31 PM
13

the thing is that the kind of makeup you see in videos is noticeable in real life. you see the texture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:10 PM
5

There are other treatments besides pills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:37 PM
9

acne can be treated, why are you being so dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:30 PM
15

How do you know that guy fleed from the west because he didn’t like western women? Or that he is some type of passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:18 PM
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what’s the difference between microdosechamp and all the guys here that talk like women have only negative traits? or the guys that say all western women are fat and masculine and men should be passport bros? or that all women are gonna divorce rape you once they sense a chad is around? as i said, for one microdosechamp i find 5 guys woth reverse talking points that overdosed on freshnfit edit: also my fav is abaxeron which has been around here for years probably and is still as delusional as ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:09 AM
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And there aren’t even more petty, passive aggressive red pill comments that are extremely quickly to make things personal but aren’t unhinged enough to outright be banned? It’s not possible for your scenario to be real since the number of active members don’t support that. Lilith basically has two talking points and they’re just uncomfortable for men to hear, that’s all. If she’s toxic for being repetitive I guess the bar is really that low for what qualifies as ‘manhating’ for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:00 AM
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Be for real, as I said the ratio of women here is much lower than the ratio of men. For every one woman like you describe there’s 5 comments from dudes I see that are pretty unhinged. So how it’s such a manhating space when the hating is done mostly be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:48 AM
1

what manhating? the sub is probably 75% men that talk about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:22 AM
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weren’t you the dude that whined feminism ruined a generation of women or whatever? and now you say ‘we should strongly consider why women don’t deserve voting rights’. funny how y’all always show your colours
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:20 AM
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how do you know these women have bfs/husbands and are not single?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:16 AM
1

The post asks about the vetting period. Taking pics/vids usually happen when there’s a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:55 AM
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maybe because he wants to be sure the porn he’s watching is ethically made and the actual creator consented to the material getting on the platform. pornhub and other porn sites had big problems with that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:26 AM
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That kid will get plenty of chances to see displays of love derived from a sexual relationship. My dad died when I was a few months, I still saw that from my close relatives or cartoons that depict families for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:39 PM
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You two sweet summer children ended up here during purge week when people are allowed to shitpost whatever they feel like. Come back in a few days and things will be back to normal (or as normal as things can be in a place like ppd to be fair).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:04 PM
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the dude that keeps posting about fembots is going to have an aneurysm reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:27 PM
4

Do you think the guys that would be the demographic for robots know what a vagina feels like? The ‘indistinguishable’ part is irrelevant. I do agree with you that anyone that can actually attract a man or woman wouldn’t get a piece of steel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:28 PM
1

Does she have any north european ancestry?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:46 PM
3

there are also women in the ukranian army, make them the exception too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:09 PM
0

I haven’t seen one woman say ukrainian women are less priviliged on that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:48 PM
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challenge for ppd men: stop seeing one comment made by a woman and assume that’s how all the women think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:27 PM
1

That’s true, I avoid toddler men at all costs. I still care to teach other women there’s much better men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:33 PM
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Women with melanin also age fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:31 PM
2

happy new year ppd i wish for your new years resolutions to make it past january. i believe in you all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:20 PM
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Yeah, it’s hard watching other women put up with that. I think it’s a mix of seeing this dynamic with your parents and thinking that man is the best that’s out there. Also in my experience age is a factor too. I think younger guys are brought up to be more independent. I’m 27 and the men I see around my age generally don’t act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:17 PM
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That’s why the trick is to get a man that wasn’t raised by his mom to be absent in the household. I didn’t have this problem because the two exes I lived with viewed cooking/cleaning/managing bills and expenses/fixing stuff as basic activities you do as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:02 PM
1

Yes. My problem is the hipocrisy, not porn per se
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:58 AM
1

Let’s not forget men will bring any tired excuse to avoid pulling their weight in a house they also live
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:58 AM
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Tinder or dating apps are an assymetrical ground to begin with since it’s roughly 1/3 women and 2/3 men. So the numbers aren’t that surprising when you actually think about the ratio of men and women that use OLD. I don’t understand why men want to downplay how important safety is for some women in dating. Thers some of us that had really shitty experiences but they still want to keep on meeting men and giving them chances. So taking precautions (which if we’re being fair, is more common among w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:39 PM
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you don’t get it, you approaching her was the best part of her day. rejecting you and then starting to walk faster was maybe the highlight of her week. keep going king
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:23 PM
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what have you tried so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:03 PM
2

or maybe her situation is very specific and you’re downplaying her problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:01 PM
2

congrats on reaching a ppd milestone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:52 PM
2

don’t cut your hair. it will seem like a good idea and you’ll be happy for 10 minutes until you see how good people with longer hair look and you’re gonna agressively google how to grow yours back in 2 months with tricks from an asian lady from youtube jk, go for it if you’re the type that likes to experiment with your look
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:19 PM
6

You think men don’t have complaints about women they have relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:15 PM
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Women do take precautions-sharing location while oit on a first date, taking a picture of the license plate of a date’s car, meeting in public for the first time, checking the socials of a guy and so on. These are more helpful than a video call. Also I don’t really understand why the 13 notifications are relevant. Not finding someone to connect to is stingy, especially when it seems like you have options. It’s a different type of frustration and men think they are allowed to invalidate it. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:13 PM
5

They also marry them. I’m not saying there is a universal standard of beauty, there are multiple. The IG baddie is undeniably one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:46 PM
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It’s not something they say. But it’s the kind of women a lot of men entertain and throw stupid amounts of money at. Watch what they do, not what they (don’t) say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:42 PM
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The conclusion is still dumb. Women are free to chose if they want a relationship that relies more on traditional gender roles or one that breaks free from that. No one is stopping men from doing the same. So choose the women that would suit your needs and preferences, it’s not rocket science. edit: also lets not forget how men love to bitch about career women and how entitled they are. and then they cry about alimony or being expected to be the provider or paying on dates and so on. so men seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:26 PM
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Sure, except you didn’t expose anyone for capping about what they wrote in the comments. You feel that’s what their doing and that’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:18 PM
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that’s a dumb conclusion. equality means there is an equality of opportunity. just because you find a man that wants a more traditional relationship doesn’t mean you turned off the equality jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:11 PM
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how does it relate to what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:06 PM
2

I thought women agreed we’re free to choose what’s best for us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:54 PM
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the feminine/masculine energy is just the rebranding of traditional gender roles on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:50 PM
1

I don’t tolerate disrespect. That can take many shapes but to give you one example that will be relevant to our background since I’m mixed, I don’t let men bully me or act in a hypermasculine or thug way. Helps me have a pretty peaceful dating life so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:52 PM
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Even you said it yourself you acted after observing the dynamics surrounding you. That’s literally what I’m saying-everyone looks at their enviornment and draws their own conclusions. It’s really pathetic to expect your opposite gender parent to do that. I think you’re misunderstanding me on what I mean when I say parents teach you common decency. They teach you how to be a decent person in society so you fit in with the other people. What’s below the surface level is yours to figure out because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:43 PM
3

it’s alpha as fuck to have beef with an 18 yo autistic girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:12 PM
1

Yeah for god’s sake, that’s something you have to figure out on your own. Your parents teach you how to treat other people with basic respect, they’re not responsible to teach you how to text tinder matches or interact with your crushes. There’s a generational gap first of all, what worked for them might not work for you. And there is also a difference in personal taste, since your mom can’t know what kind of girls you like. I don’t fault my father for not teaching me how to interact with men ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:11 PM
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i have his lil song stuck in my head ever since i heard it, i love richarlison
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:03 PM
1

I didn’t sort it by themselves, I just think it’s pointless to discuss it even further. You obviously know why the data from 1965 is going to skew the results one way, I think you deliberately chose that range of reference to have results that suit your narrative. The other option would have been you being oblivious to a mistake like that, which I’m fairly sure you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:05 PM
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You know, the word ‘slavery’ isn’t even mentioned in the video and that woman talks about the current dynamics in a heterosexual marriage. Also you keep bringing Simone up, she had some good ideas that were applicable for the times she lived in and she was also punished for the morally wrong things she did. Appeal to the ideas, not the person. Because plenty of non-pedophiles agreed with her, how are you going to refute them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:51 PM
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Mostly to talk about dating from my perspective. Have some fun in the daily chat too. Exposing would mean you bring some proof to the table, not automatically throw buzz words around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:44 PM
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i’ve never seen this question asked before, congrats for being totally original
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:42 PM
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Gatekeep what? I don’t understand why you’re here since you obviously think women gather here to gaslight. It was a simple question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:38 PM
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they’re cheaper and addictive! bubble wraps for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:37 PM
1

1965*. Doesn’t help the major flaw you don’t address about your graph. Not weird at all you started bringing up pedophiles. Those hormone levels are crazy if that’s the only analogy you can make when someone tries to have a civilised discussion with you about someone presenting a point in a civilised video.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:36 PM
2

that exaplains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:30 PM
1

It’s really apathy, saying the men that are arrogant or dismissive of you do that because they follow thinking patterns they don’t want to break is not misandric. Which is different from simply asauming he’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:29 PM
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i admire women for the cool stuff i see them doing everyday, they’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:27 PM
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I’ll check my grammar and try do be better at typing on my phone. Also yeah, I checked your little graphs. Looked at the 1956 and found the major flaw with it. Great job on choosing the colours tho. I actually watched the video and she doesn’t blame all men of being toddler husbands. She actually gives actionable advice on how not to end with one. I would highly suggest you do so before just throwing shit around and when your hysteria hormones are a bit lower than now, you might grow to apprecia…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:16 PM
1

what’s poppin ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:57 PM
1

Yeah, for six more hours everyday eyeroll. Maybe a man will actually take a mental break from his work if he lands a helping hand to his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:54 PM
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I didn’t say it’s against this sub rules. I just said you are sour because of it and you proved me once again since you think a woman talking about toddler husbands should check her hysteria hormones checked. You know, with aging there’s a lot of knowledge you gain. I deffinetly look to the advice of someone that actually had time to experience relationships and think about what worked and what didn’t work. Congrats on not being a toddler husband I guess. The rest of your comment is concerning t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:52 PM
1

how is ‘aging’ support to be a refutation to her claims? also you don’t seem to be the target audience, maybe that’s why you’re so sour
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:26 PM
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Complaining that women also work and are expected to do daily chores around the house? Also if you believe in your typical couple where both partners works a man works SIX MORE HOURS EVERYDAY you gotta be fucking joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:24 PM
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I’m sure no one can find rational explanations like antidepressants or mental health services never being as available as they are now. Guess who has less stigma about adressing their mental health? Guess which gender actually goes to the doctor if they have a physical or mental problem? Women obviously. It must be some wild theory about women being very unhappy because the past was obviously so much better. Also if a woman is not happy all the time (guess what, life happens and there are relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:08 PM
2

a world in which people use synonyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:58 PM
3

It’s dumb to think just because she said no means she has the energy to actually perform the whole task. Jesus you act like you’ve never seen a hangover or alcohol sick person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:48 PM
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As I said, let her feel better so she can actually have energy to clean the mess. How do you claim to live in the adult world and lack basic logic like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:43 PM
2

I live in the adult world, that’s how I know people like you should be avoided at all costs. If someone throws up after too much alcohol you let them rest, they’re obviously dehydrated. If you want to enforce consequences/accountability while they are in that state is because you’re hungry for a power trip
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:35 PM
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Yeah, it’s ridiculous to kick out a drunk human. Stop excusing shit behaviour. You can hold them accountable after they feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:26 PM
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Do you actually think someone that throws up because they’re so drunk is really capable of cleaning that mess? Ridiculous claim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:17 PM
1

I don’t let degenerate behaviour to fly with the men in my life. I think that’s how persistent change starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:13 PM
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He is not getting shat on, he got a wake up call. Plenty of realistic perspectives here, the thing is that some truths are not the most pleasant to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:07 PM
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can’t really believe there are people that actually believe this, sounds like a creepypasta made by an angsty 17 yo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:52 PM
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disagree, i see average dudes having girlfriends daily and they are looks matched. so they didn’t even have to lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:40 PM
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I really try not to let these comments get to me since I know these spaces are full of weirdos and I willingly come here. But sometimes the stupidity of some claims is too high not to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:20 PM
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serious question-why does someone like you even hang around here? you already know what women will do and can read the intentions of strangers trough a screen, it seems pointless to waste your time here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:56 AM
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Yes. I can’t stand men that consume porn and bitch about sex workers or don’t have basic respect for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:38 AM
1

Or maybe they just see the kind of content men make about women. That’s the explanation for any kind of ‘hatred’ towards men in 99% of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:33 AM
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How do you know she doesn’t understand the hate towards women? Also what she said isn’t really hate towards men, it’s just apathy. Which I fully understand since she clearly mentioned she does that when a man is arrogant or dismissive towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:31 AM
1

Maybe my son will be bright enough to realise the generation gap means his mom never used tinder to date or have an instagram. And that the ‘garbage’ advice is common decency and decorum parents teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:55 AM
1

5 idiots make an association and we should start panicking about it? also the majority of fat chicks i know don’t care if you call them fat, they’re pretty proud about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:36 AM
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Height: i’m 5’4, be taller than that income: stable. I make around 80K a year so I’d like someone that keeps up with my kind of lifestyle. race: i don’t really have a preference. my most succesful relationship was someone that had a very different background from mine. as long as our views align you’re good body type: not fat or overweight. house: i already have my own house so i don’t care if he’s a homeowner or not kids: i have some health problems that make pregnancy dangerous and there’s a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:32 AM
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Whenever I read shit like this I wonder if having a son would be worth it. Since you try and do your best for him but he’ll end up years later on an internet forum moaning that you didn’t give him the tutorial on how to be a fuckboy. That’s stuff everyone figures out by themselves once they interact with the gender they are attracted to. Stop blaming your dating shortcoming on your mothers, nothing more weak or insecure than shifting blame or putting these imaginary expectations on the shoulders…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:05 AM
1

You made a different claim in yoir original comment. Still, the women that are most attractive in the west would ditch you or any other dude in a minute if some of the biggest kstars winked in their direction. Be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:43 PM
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sure, it’s soooo hard to find women that are into talented handsome famous dudes. the billions they generate are as fictional as the majority of women you claim laughs at the idea kdudes are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:12 AM
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cool story i guess but i only watch what men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:49 AM
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or we just know from experience men will talk a big game but drop the rules if you are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:44 PM
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