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Naur, you’re just very weak at articulating complete points
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:16 AM
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You constantly move goalposts from bears, burnt out men, relationship subreddits, men who don’t do much around the house and so on. It’s never an admission of your lack of valid claims, just switching lanes hoping something sticks and I’ll say the bad meanie feminists opress the poor men via reddit. As I said there is only one side championing for mental health for all genders whether you admit it or not. And that’s the end of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:51 PM
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I really don’t care to blame any imaginary man on a subreddit, sorry for bursting your bubble. You on the other hand seem very keen on moving goalposts for some imaginary women. I ain’t going to ruin your fun anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:42 PM
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Prove you right how? Because the point is a stranger man in unknown circumstances is feared?? Oh wow such hate I can come and say ‘legit any relationship advice subreddit says women never leave a relationship without a secondary option’ and it would hold as much water as your claim-none.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:28 PM
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I didn’t say the men vs bear discourse didn’t exist, I said it’s baseless victimisation to take something about the lack of physical safety women encounter and make it about yourself. If I’d like to score some victims point for myself I’d say how some men were like ‘yeah choose the bear you’ll get killed’ but I have the capacity to not take it as some personal afront or say they would actually want women to die. They don’t tell a man to get over stress lmfao, this is another weird fantasy but we…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:10 PM
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Why would you want to let a man as so much say that he hates women?? Wtf??? Straight up weird dude. Yes they do. Stop with the baseless victimisation. They definetly do say that. Literally the feminism subreddit was my pipeline to that kind of discourse. It’s not strawmanning when ppd is full of this shit. I get it, certain men want a space to air their grievances towards women with no decorum. But don’t try and gaslight us, own up to this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:49 PM
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A man struggles with dating and he’ll get told to decenter women from his life, get a support system/social circle and invest in his hobbies. A man says he doesn’t like feminists saying horrible things about men and everyone will be like yeah maybe that was bad. A man says he’s stressed from work and we’ll be like yea capitalism fucks us all over as a system. But sometimes I forget this is ppd and women are wrong by default
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:38 PM
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Yeah because the right is famous for taking mental health seriously in general and not just telling others to man up and pull themselves by the bootstraps. If it’s one side that champions for not fitting men into rigid boxes and access to mental health services it’s the left one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:16 PM
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No, my point was that men that can’t accept women can have sex then dip have ulterior motives and insecurities. Also for your theory to be right you’d have to first find out whether men I slept with subscribed to rp or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:48 PM
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Did I say I thought they wanted to be my bf? The point is I didn’t care to catch up or shag twice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:03 PM
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All four of them reached out to me on ig at different times with the pretext of catching up or getting to know eachother better. Didn’t care to get into more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:00 PM
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Yeah I had one night stands. My thought process wasn’t that the guy is a loser, my thought process was that I just wanted to sexually decompress after a stressful event and nothing more. Also I didn’t want them to stay around, that’s why it’s a ONE night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:54 PM
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If my man would be the type to fall for a submissive SAHM type he wouldn’t be with me in the first place. So the question boils down to ‘would you be threatened by a woman that’s the opposite of your bf’s type?’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:49 PM
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thank god dems ditched the ‘when they go low we go high’ bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:36 AM
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Nah, you’re the one that started claiming that women can’t possibly view some men as ONS material. My point is guy like yourself claim that in order to protect their own feelings of inadequacy in a culture that tells you women get attached after having some three mins of rubbing under the sheets. Luckly other dudes are not afraid to admit why some men are so adamant to accept women can just fuck and dip afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:55 AM
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No, I’m saying men that deny women are capable of seeing some men as only ONS have an intrinsic fear of being disposable or take that as a blow to their ego. Source-I have guy friends that are actually honest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:43 AM
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I wouldn’t actually expect you to be honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:34 AM
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This must be some intrinsic fear rp man have to not be viewed as disposable because ONS are not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:54 AM
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Some exchnges are entertaining. Some are funny to watch. Some are like trainwrecks you just can’t help from looking at. And a minor percentage are probably productive in any meaningful way. Probably if I were younger I’d be more prone to shift my perspective. But I’m not and I mainly consider I found the stuff that works for me. So the answer to your question depends on the age of the women who respond to this topic. edit: i don’t care for the guy doing the voiceovers in the video you linked but…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:27 PM
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Look buddy, I have experience with men in real life. This is how I know men are not such shitty crratures as you try to make them seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:22 PM
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Guess I’m in luck since the cool tall attractive dudes that had the vibe I met so far liked women that were doing their own thing. One of them keeps telling me that pretty frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, you should be happy he doesn’t decide to come and practice where you are👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:11 PM
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Oop, someone’s butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:07 PM
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Errr no. I do what I want because I am a fully fledged adult and I won’t compromise the things I want for a man that’s incompatible with me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:55 PM
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As a western woman dating a Japanese man, your comment is so full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:53 PM
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Is this even a serious questions? They are not interesting enough on their own to gain a stable audience so they rely on stunts like these. There is a certain type of man that consumes this content, they know how to get that type of man to stick around for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:07 PM
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someone never looked on a map to see russia is located on two continents i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:50 PM
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I don’t see competing as bending to whatever a group of men would like. Which is what this post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:46 PM
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Why do I have to compete? It’s up to a man to decide what he wants in a partner, I don’t have to be the one that convinces him of that. The premise of the post is dubious at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:23 PM
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Sure it hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:19 AM
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wait until you find out women overseas are just as grossed out by some man 30 years older that smiles at them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:10 AM
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Another good example that it’s also young people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:40 PM
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When you make claims about the phisilogy of an organ-yeah it does. Or else you’re just pulling things out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:40 PM
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at this point y’all just want others to be as miserable as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:16 PM
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Do you also go on dates with them? And just because they are getting action doesn’t mean those girls get attached to them or stop looking for other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:45 PM
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And you know they don’t give any sort of insinuation of implication how? It’s irrational to think all these women just get attached to dudes out of the blue. I’ve seen plenty of times how men like to act all tough in front of their friends and just lie about their flings and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:39 PM
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Depends where you look. Do you think older women are the ones that call Billie Eillish bf a creep on twitter? Or her teen fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:33 PM
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How is it relevant that you feel the so called Chads are not deceptive? You don’t have any kind of romantic experience with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:31 PM
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i can think of some recent performers that just sang. dancing while singing seems to be expected only from the women that perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:14 PM
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she might be no whitney but she can sing and has great stage presence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:08 PM
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i don’t think men always run on logic. But I know most of them are aware of what type of deal they get into with an OF girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:55 PM
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the lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:54 PM
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He willingly gives his money without making any kind of background research about these women. Also they know there’s a high chance that hot girl ain’t gonna be evicted in the next days like she claims, but they still want to throw their money to keep in contact with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:41 PM
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Do you think the majority don’t know they are paying for women that are conventionally out of their league and that wouldn’t interact with them if the financial incencitive was off the table? They do-they just profit from the leverage money gives them in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:36 PM
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A scam is when a man willingly gives money to a woman to see some puss appearantly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:29 PM
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Lol I love how you use the same tactics to strip any kind of agency from the dudes that purchase OF content.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:25 PM
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I don’t care about that. Only if he is the type of guy that sleeps with sex workers but has no respect for them-that would disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:00 PM
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Not really. But I’ll also pass on the doomerism since there’s nothing more masturbatory than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:02 PM
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It’s not masturbatory to say it’s objective lots of people face the same struggles yet their outcomes are different because they make different choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:49 AM
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I don’t personally consider it useless. Your friends or partners started as strangers at some point too. Empathy can drive us to help strangers that are in a tough spot when they need it. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:21 AM
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It’s just assesing an objective reality-there are ways to go trough tough times and not end up bitter and jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:19 AM
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Empathy is not useless-it helped me build social connections for example. But just like you highlighted in your second pragraph-doomers and angry people are not the ones that appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:14 AM
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I think a good chunk of people can actually do it-because I don’t see myself as being special or having some special knowledge others don’t have access to. I make the active choices to not live a bitter life and get rewarded for that. Very simple to follow that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:12 AM
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he toned down the random capitalised words but i’m 100% sure it’s him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:46 AM
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Or we just see that we went trough some tough shit yet we didn’t end up as bitter. So extending empathy to people that have such shitty views (especially of women) seems pretty useless in the grand scheme of things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:43 AM
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I didn’t have ideal circumstances. Far from that actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:43 AM
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My field of work is social media and marketing so I have to stay updated with the things that are popular online. Since dating/incels/pills generate a lot of discussion online I ended up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:25 AM
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Why do the redpillers think their truth is universal? Because I’ve lived my life by a few simple principles that would probably be labeled bluepill and in the end it proved to be the right choice since I didn’t end up with astronomical levels of bitterness. And the dude you replied to seems to be a balanced person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:09 AM
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The level of projection going on in your comment is incredible even for ppd. She said the men settle for less so your whole point about men having bigger leverage or more options goes out the window if you actually read the comment you’re responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:47 AM
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she’s…athletic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:42 AM
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A lot of people fall for the dichotomy that someone can be hot or an interesting/good person. You see it a lot here with dudes that think women should go for men that are not super attractive because they wouldn’t cheat (big lol for that) or treat a woman better. Judging people as a whole rather than just fitting them into one of the two boxes is a much better strategy ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:42 AM
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we don’t even see the men she’s reffering to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:13 AM
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And we are saying the analogies are dumb. Deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:43 AM
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The point of the thread is that people that take care of their looks will keep them. I’m sorry some of y’all can’t take a minute to read a post instead of just dumping your bitterness for the sake of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:29 AM
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Would be interesting to see the scientific sources for these claims and not just your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:20 AM
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If I think he is attractive with a good personality I won’t care that he is a virgin. My only problem would be if the fact he’s a virgin turned him into a bitter man who has certain views about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:50 PM
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Those are money that would go to your kid no matter if you were married or not. Spoiler for the men that didn’t get the memo-kids are a cost. Since the vast majority of cases are settled with joint custody obviously we can call it the default here and in many other places
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:58 AM
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That still doesn’t mean you aren’t gaslighting a woman by telling her requiring a paternity test is not a direct accusation. No matter how minute you consider it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:59 PM
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You obviously think there is a possibility the kid isn’t yours if you check for it. And the mom is free to evaluate for herself if you checking for that means you are worthy of her trust in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:38 PM
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It’s such obvious bullshit but these people have a weird parasocial relationship with MJ. They don’t want to put two and two together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:50 AM
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You understand virtually nothing from this exchange. If you neglect your kids by law and you are against a stepdad taking paternal responsability over them, the mom has the means to issue a paternal responsability ORDER and the court can judge if the stepdad having responsability is in the best interest of the kid. Stop changing the initial scenario-this is where we started. We started from you saying there’s no way for a stepdad to have responsability if the bio dad doesn’t approve. Which is fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:01 AM
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You stop because it’s embarassing. Ask a man that neglects the financial needs of his kids what happens if the mom takes legal actions against him. As I said, you have no command of these terms. The text literally says A PARENT OR LEGAL GUARDIAN-because a legal guardian can be someone that’s not a parent. Damn son
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:38 AM
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I can’t believe you willingly enter a discussion like this yet have no command of what terms like guradian refer to🤦🏽‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:11 AM
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It’s not an atempt to cancel him, it’s more of a think piece about the unhinged portion of his fanbase.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:35 AM
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A barrier that is imaginary and often used against the mom by scorned dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:13 AM
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Literally among the first results if you google parental neglect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:11 AM
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Just like someone else said divorce means taking responsability for your actions and ending a miserable situation. Most women are contempt with not remarrying and just having their lives center around kids in peace. The projections about what these women feel are just that-peojections.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:08 AM
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California
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:15 PM
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It’s the default. Accusations that aren’t backed up by proof don’t hold in the majority of courts. All the excuses are getting predictable at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:12 PM
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My feelings are fine, no need to be concerned. I just don’t have a low bar for what counts as sarcasm. It does take away the agency men have in these situations. Also grossly underestimates that being a stepdad is a choice. Rape…well I’m sure I don’t have to explain that one. Kids and teens are gonna act in certain ways no matter which dad is around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:09 PM
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Drop the sarcasm. The analogy is bad because not all families are a lion’s den and there are ways to get say in how to raise the kid. This line of thinking removes agency from men for their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:01 PM
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It’s not a lions den, it’s a family which dynamic he has seen before willingly getting involved
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:58 PM
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Why is he a dumbass just because he made a choice willingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:55 PM
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Women end up remarrying at lower rates and being financially worse after a divorce-this is not a decision someone makes because they are bored. This is a decision women make despite them loosing on a lot of things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:38 PM
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Thank God someone finally mentioned this-50/50 is the default today. If you didn’t get that, there’s something fishy going on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:34 PM
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Neglect is also a condition to attack someone’s paternal rights-if you can’t fullfill your paternal responsabilities you are at risk of losing them. The court doesn’t terminate the bio’s dad rights but they have grounds to award the step dad paternal responsabilities because it is considered in the best interest of the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:23 PM
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It’s not wild. If you can prove they are neglectful or abusive you have a case for that. Just because it’s not happening left and right it doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:04 PM
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Nah, the law specifically says paternal responsability also encompasses authority as a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:03 PM
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Parents are not ‘switched’ lol. If you demonstrate involvement in a kid’s life and show the biological parent was neglectful, you can order to have their paternal rights terminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:53 PM
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I think it’s called a paternal responsability order when the biological dad doesn’t consent to the step dad having legal responsability. There are ways to solve the issue if that’s your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:37 PM
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Apply for paternal responsability then. My step dad legally adopted me any my brother when he married our mom. The procedure is simpler now from what I’ve read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:30 PM
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Sheesh you really think people that are celebrities and are used to people commenting about every fart they take break up because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:15 PM
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I didn’t say that. Just that it’s delusional to think they broke up because of online comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:55 PM
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That just proves she didn’t care what twitter had to say about their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:48 PM
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As someone that was raised by a ‘non biological’ dad, this take is pretty delusional because almost all kids have a rebellion phase. Just because you are a bio dad doesn’t mean your kid won’t question your authority at some point, especially during the teenage years. For example my friends that were raised by their bio dads told them ‘I wish you were never my father’ which doesn’t sound that flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:45 PM
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Hm, I’m sure it’s a grift to an extent. But I also think it’s very easy to lose the plot when you built an echo chamber like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:38 PM
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yeah i’m sure their relationship was ruined because of twitter lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:35 PM
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Lol I didn’t say men shouldn’t fight for their paternal kids or whatever your last paragraph is. But emasculation and women not wanting to pay alimony is a cheap cop out for men in this discussion. There’s a way lower percentage of SAHD over SAHM. The solution is very simple when you bear that fact in mind-there are way less men that are in a disadvantaged financial position because they sacrificed a career over staying at home with their family. Just because a man or a woman earns less than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:32 PM
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They got exposed multiple times as a fraud yet they still have a platform that is very profitable just because they constantly say misogynystic things that their audience eats up. My point is not to have their platform taken away; my point is that it’s disingenous to claim men can’t criticise women or they will be banned by social media platforms. Men obviously can say all kinds of things about women online without having their freedom of speech limited like some people claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:23 PM
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What deflection? Just google red pill channels and see the insulting stuff they post about women. FreshnFit faces no consequences and misogyny is their whole career at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:37 PM
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Who was convincted from his list of clients? I’m not deflecting since y’all are hell bent to bring Cardi B up in every discussion, it’s laughable at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:36 PM
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I already adressed this. If you think what she did was so scandalous wait til you hear how men go to a pedophile’s island and sleep with minors and don’t even get a slap on the wrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:44 PM
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It wouldn’t be any outrage, stop with the victim narrative. Men constantly sau very insulting stuff about women online and they face no consequences. I’ll check her out to see for myself what content she makes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:38 PM
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Of course she has more influence than him, she actually has some entertaining talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:36 PM
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Name? I want to analyse her content to see if she is as misandric as rp guys are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:29 PM
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Just as Tate is seen as empowering to many. Stop coming up with the most predictable arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:27 PM
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Just like I said, hoogle how many men actually fight for the custody of their kids. Alimony is calculated by standard of living. It’s not a gendered thing and the formula is easy to google. Richer people that set a higher standard of living pay more alimony duh. The point was, again, that alimony is not gendered and is paid only if the spouse receiving it has no financial means to support themselves after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:42 AM
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Statistical facts that men like him can’t interpret. Because if they would see the majority of men don’t even want to fight for the custody of kids, that the only divorces ending up in alimony are one where a spouse stayed at home (Kelly Clarkson is a famous example of a woman paying alimony because of that), that women are statistically worse financially after a divorce and remarry at a lower rate and that a bunch of men don’t even pay for custody (yet they whine online how women use those mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:13 AM
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Then why are other dudes allowed to spew the same toxic rethoric if his ban was REALLY about that? Don’t even get me started on what some male celebrities got scott free doing-cardi b at least went on trial for her claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:22 AM
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He was posting that crap for YEARS before he got banned. Even if we change the goalpost and somehow pretend it’s not socially acceptable for a man to run his mouth about owning women (which plenty of rp dudes do online unbanned btw), you still can’t find the female equivalent that was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:12 AM
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I was the one who told him that. Half the comments said the same thing as me-not hypocritical if you are low count yourself. The other comments cooked his ass because they saw his comment history and identified he is trolling. Rookie mistake on his part
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:55 AM
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If you start calling people that don’t have a low n count all sorts of insults, guess what-it’s insulting. Very easy concept to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:44 AM
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Who said it’s an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:16 AM
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I’ve been on twox a few times and their general opinion is that if you’re a low n count man seeking a low n count woman it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:13 AM
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No it doesn’t. But like I pointed out, men forget insulting others means they will get a response
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:10 AM
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If he expressed it in a decent manner without insulting women that don’t meet his preference-no, hell doesn’t break loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:08 AM
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So where is the proof it’s socially acceptable and pushed by big influencers? Does Kim Kardashian preach about training husbands? You’re just finding obscure docs with low ratings and try to parade that as proof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:45 PM
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gotta appreciate your effort to find some obscure doc with a 4,6 imdb rating. doesn’t meet any of the two criteria tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:40 PM
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You missed the part where you have to prove it’s socially acceptable and pushed by a big woman influencer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:22 PM
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Society hates on masculine men-but y’all never bring proof for statements like these. Nobody ever stopped or discouraged people from going to the gym or being assertive. We literally live in a society where people’s worth is mainly determined by their productivity so this victim narrative that ‘masculine men are hated on’ is bogus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:13 PM
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Y’all lost the plot. There is no socially acceptable guide on how to train your husband-there’s no woman influencer talking about men like that. Stop the mental gymnastics and actually analyse some of the stuff y’all say here because it’s detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:07 PM
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Firstly, decenter the idea of a role model. There are good traits and lessons some people can give you-but that doesn’t mean you have to pedestalize them for that. Learn to develop a good filter so you can pick up what you should learn from others. Look at the men in your community before looking for some e daddy-fathers, uncles, teachers, coaches. Get out the house and bond with other guys. There are a lot of people around you that could tell you the same exact shit that dude on a screen did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:58 PM
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then they shouldn’t engage in casual sex and stop blaming their actions on a group of women. simple solution
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:05 AM
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If you really think it’s just simps or women over 30 laughing at the situation I have news to tell you. But I don’t want to keep you from writing the same exact comment 20 times in this thread. Hope you are at least compensated for your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:03 AM
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‘men do casual sex because women do it’ is the most chronically online take encountered on ppd. and that’s a really high bar to reach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:11 AM
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If younger him was dating someone else, maybe it would have touched a chord with his fanbase. But his current 50 yo form getting into PR relationships-nah, the internet is mainly clowning him and making memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:03 AM
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We’re determined to make it our hill because the majority of men don’t get why dressing up or makeup is so fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:59 AM
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Every women growing up maybe liked him in his Titanic days. But those are long gone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:31 AM
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Lmao literally everything I know about Macron is because media shits on his marriage constantly. Also Madonna faces a lot of bs for not acting her age. Men want to play the victim when it comes to age gap relationships so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:19 AM
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I don’t think corporations have such high ideological aspirations, I think they just struggle to adapt to a market that is more divided than ever. Taking the skeleton of an established story is easy-the insertions of tokenism and capturing the ‘liberal’ audience is where they struggle. Lots of people on the left call out pinkwashing and tokenism-but corporations are slow to get it right because they don’t prioritise the core or message, they prioritise profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:37 PM
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So for example a franchise/series that was succesful in the past is given a fresh spin that is more in tune with the diversity of our current times in an atempt to generate profit? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:07 PM
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Women want a man that’s better than them at some things. Obviously women end up being better than their partners in other areas-that doesn’t mean they are dating a superior man, that means a man and a woman come with different strengths in a relationship. Nothing contradictory about it, it’s actually painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:23 PM
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Then what is the problem with some movies or tv shows featuring the type of man you described? Just like another user already pointed out before me, there’s a ton of entertainment out there that centers conventional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:10 PM
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You can watch plenty of TV shows and movies without men being sexist dopes. People like you seem to have a problem that entertainment is no longer men-centric and there are multiple tropes of men being featured in mainstream culture (which is actually a good thing because we can see the complexity of men being portayed). No one prevents men from being better. We live in a culture where we are constantly reminded we have to hustle, grind and do everything we have to be succesful. Being financiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:14 PM
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This is like saying ‘all women have a history of dating a man that manipulated her. So she should write something like don’t be manipulative because it’s an uncommon trait among men these days’. When the truth is that a guy that writes a bio like that is obviously one watching red pill gurus online. Nice of him to advertise something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:30 AM
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If it’s something so obvious then why does he have to mention it? It’s kind of clear already what group of men uses language like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:50 AM
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i did that for my step dad too but it was literally a comment made as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:41 AM
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i like how you’re not even disagreeing that you’re off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 PM
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the fact is y’all say stuff that isn’t even relevant to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:19 PM
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i’ve never came across any tiktok that portrayed a young boy like that. at this point this just becomes a tired trope some people support here. also my kids are free to sue me if i ever do embarassing stuff like training them to be submissive wives/husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:18 PM
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what happened to understanding context?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:13 PM
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yeah. i don’t like the situations you listed either. i didt feel like mentioning them since your original commemt was about men engaging in certain dating strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:04 PM
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i don’t care for the two scenarios you listed BUT (and that’s a big but) I draw the line at men that come on the internet and talk shit about women that don’t fit their dating preferences or choices. Literally the majority of passport bros I’ve seen online just throw endless insults at western women and even have specific dogwhistles about certain races of women. this is where the outrage comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:48 PM
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lol everyone is gonna talk shit about the case you linked-not on a larger scale because the boy and the grandma are two randos compared to dicaprio. also lots of people commented on how incredibly creepy is that macron was 15 and close to her kids age when they met. their relationship is constantly mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:32 PM
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madonna is constantly mocked for not acting her age and dating younger dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:30 PM
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You forgot the most important detail-is he a good husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:40 PM
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You didn’t prove that. For the majority of people the worst times of their lives are when they are old and sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:23 AM
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It’s rarely a move people intentionally make tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:22 AM
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Or maybe you should take into account the socioeconomical background when you intepret statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:03 AM
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Or maybe you should take into account the socioeconomical background when you intepret statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:01 AM
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Maybe he should have tought about his own ‘wellbeing’ when he nutted without a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:30 AM
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Everything you are saying is just some hypothetical scenario that is heavily idealised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:11 AM
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You don’t see him complaining because he just chose to ignore the huge responsability he brought on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:11 AM
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So you support ‘equality’ but don’t think a father is equally responsible to support his OWN child? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:37 AM
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The argument is pretty weak. Just because you ‘made’ it doesn’t mean all the bad times are behind you-there’s still lots of bad situations you’ll go trough because this is how life goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:59 PM
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The amount of women that put the effort to make themselves actually look different with makeup is low. The amount of women that do it on a daily basis is even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:47 PM
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If she’s younger how could she have possibly been with him during his low points? She was probably not even of legal age to date him during those times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:31 PM
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that’s sus but unfortunately there are black people out there acting like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:33 PM
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that’s textbook misogyny. women are not some foreign species and questiong whether women can love or not speaks volumes on the men that say stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:29 PM
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I don’t have to worry about something I already prepared
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:45 PM
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you’re more concerned about my future retirement than i am. i hope you’ll get this hint😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:40 PM
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we get it-you can type playground insults. reply only if you have some actual point to make because your shtick got boring really fast
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:36 PM
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maybe you’ll use that time to think of an actual response instead of cheap deflections
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:07 PM
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You have no actual refutation to my last point. You’re just trying to deflect from your lack of arguments. I’ll send you a postcard when I retire btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:50 PM
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Then prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:46 PM
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Your critical thinking skills are on a break. There are lower paying jobs such like teaching or journalism-doesn’t mean those aren’t respectable careers that society needs. But guess what, boys don’t go for these two and choose other options that pay better. That was the point and the statistics about women being favoured are parroted without any deeper analysis or introspection by individuals that just want to push an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:33 PM
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You’re sure you are replying to my comment? Because that’s like…not even tangential to my last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:20 PM
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Female applicants are not favoured. There are a lot of degrees that men don’t even go for because they see trades and blue collar jobs as more economically viable options for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:06 PM
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Everyone has an equal opportunity to work these jobs-the ones that are qualified end up working them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:59 PM
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Sorry, people asking questions in bad faith don’t qualify to tell others what ‘actual’ equality is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:55 PM
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because women already have economical access to other lower paying jobs. other obvious questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:38 PM
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She didn’t violate any law just because she got pregnant. But it’s always funny how y’all care so much about people that mind their bussiness and don’t put the gun to another man’s head to accept their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:59 AM
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no matter what you think about what she can or can’t do, she’s being upfront about her situation and what she wants. it’s irrelevant whether you think that hinders the quality of women on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:41 AM
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get someone that likes to eat pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:36 AM
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the passport bros keep whining about western women constantly despite living their best life or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:35 AM
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No. You have to be better at some things. Bring something to the table. It honestly speaks volumes that y’all actually believe that the majority of women demand a man that’s overall better-because those men don’t even exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:46 PM
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Any man that talks about complete submission or wholy dominating a woman is a good fit for a small percentage of women. For the average women, someone with that approach to relationships brings a lot of headaches and is not an overall better person than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:36 PM
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these dudes don’t understand proximity and relatability play a huge part in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:20 PM
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no. because his approach to a relationship is gross and would cause a lot of emotional distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:02 PM
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this is one refreshing take to read here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:56 PM
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ummm you believe it’s an all woman thing instead of facing the reality-it’s a her thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:35 PM
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let’s be serious, how can a woman respect you if you’re bad at one of the most important things in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:27 PM
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Lol men and women both choose in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:33 PM
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Obviously for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:22 PM
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yes, don’t follow cookie cutter advice from a guy that capitalizes random letters on the internet. choose what is best for your situation, that’s very sensible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:12 PM
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The percentage of people that spends their whole life with their highschool sweetheart is very low. Women go trough break-ups, divorces, meet men that seem good on paper but don’t have longterm goals that align with theirs and so on. Dating is not as easy as just picking a guy from a catalogue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:10 PM
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we=women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:09 PM
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but the point is that when it comes to our dating life we are given hard choices
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:56 PM
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I think you are right. They don’t want just to mind their bussiness, they want to be seen and be validated that they had a win over modern society and western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:39 PM
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You propose a delusional, hysterical solution that limits the options of other people (both men and women). Socially enforced monogamy is bullshit and people have always found ways to by pass that. Putting a veil on human nature and then pretending there is no diversity in our sexual behaviours is dettached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:35 PM
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And how should women acknowledge the growing number of lonely men in your opinion? Because obviously we’ll express that we feel bad for anyone that goes trough a tough situation or deals with depression-until they start ranting about some sexual communist utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:30 PM
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The rates of men and women cheating are almost equal. I know y’all like to peddle the narrative that women are passive and tolerate cheating but the truth is both sexes engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:28 PM
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Or maybe they don’t step up enforcement because society is not as progressive as you seem to believe on this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:46 PM
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it’s not like you can google revenge porn stats and convictions and get countless results about there being way more people that report being victims than the people that are charged for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:35 PM
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two can play this game buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:21 PM
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way more than the men that actual suffer any consequence for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:15 PM
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how many people that leak the nudes of others actually get charged? it’s not dishonest to compare the two
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:55 PM
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i haven’t read a pro-deepfake argument that wasn’t coomer c0pe so far and i doubt i will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:54 PM
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It’s terrifying how y’all see him as having no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:44 PM
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don’t forget their only defense-those are not real men/they are low t/they are soyboys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:17 PM
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did you forget where we are? i’m pretty sure men here have meltdowns because average women don’t stay in their supposed leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:14 PM
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guys just like to assume what happens at every girl’s nights at the club. the best thing i did was finding an extrovert to have a relationship with that understands people that like to dance or have fun ar the club are not automatic cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:18 AM
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I don’t agree. Also I think a big factor is that I saw my mom being an extremely supportive partner to my step dad-from illness to the traumatic loss of parents or financial problems, they stuck together. I have a theory that the women that actually do this in real life grew up in a specific family dynamic and with an emotionless dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:36 PM
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Yeah. My point was that even with a gender balance that is far from equal these guys still managed to have dates. Also had quite a lot asian girls in my year, the majority were really pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:05 PM
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that statement is pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:52 AM
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a lot of them get decent fillers and don’t look so puffy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:48 AM
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you only feel he had botox before? because that’s textbook pillow face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:40 AM
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how is what I said not aligned with feminism? people can chose to express the same idea using different words, not our problem if you don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:29 PM
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the point of feminism is that financial independence is the key to not get stuck without options down the road and not let anyone have an upper hand on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:50 PM
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i think everyone is entitled to a degree of privacy and unless there’s some serious suspicion it feels weird to be put on the spot like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:19 PM
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the point is that if you are a pornstar you burn out quickly. you start thinking you won’t have to do things you don’t want but you end up doing them just so you can get work at some point. it’s a shitty industry and there is no structure that protects the workers from studios. add to all of that problems with substance abuse or social backlash and it genuinely gets someone into a dark place. i went on a few dates with a dude that used to do porn-the talks were very insightful but it was obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:10 PM
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nah, some men are genuinely cool to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:06 PM
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i got the tarte face tape concealer and mini foundation a while ago in a mini bag. felt like a throwback to when these products were everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:32 AM
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the things i got were reasonably good and it was nice to have some mini products to take on trips or vacations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:29 AM
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How do you know I don’t call out women too? Just because I showed you are a very hypocritical commenter doesn’t mean other women are not capable of it. Take some accountability for the shit you say instead of deflecting and pointing fingers at others. The call is coming from inside the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:46 AM
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Please, you mention being Hispanic and being treated like an inferior race and then call bw every racially charged name in the book. I don’t care if the post is about me or not, you made it on a public debate forum. It’s always amusing to see the hipocrisy of certain groups-reminds me why standing up for them is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:08 AM
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I just skimmed trough the comments and saw you commenting some rancid shit about black women-put that clown wig on and don’t let the door hit you on your way out bro. Wow how comes if you look a bit into the passport bros you always come by some boofonery like the one you exhibit in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:26 AM
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Lol no one divorces because they are bored. They divorce because that marriage is unsalvagable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:01 AM
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Wow, so passport bros find american women so off putting that they have to announce it everywhere online but american women can’t do the same? Holy mother of hipocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:48 AM
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idk man, some average women might have a nasty atittude but that doesn’t mean they want to shit in your bed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:14 PM
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you forget the dudes here that think the average woman is constantly approached. there was a dude here that claimed any female 6 can get on a yacht party or some nba player will fly her to his location-i remember because it was probably the most deluded comment about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:55 PM
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Doesn’t have to be purge week to see how inconsistent y’all are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:27 PM
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maybe that was just your situation. not all people that deal with suicidal ideation think and act the same btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:06 PM
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nature is healing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:47 PM
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so you pick and choose what is a fake me too moment? peak ppd moment right here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:39 PM
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Who rubbished claims of sexual assault here? The gender ratio here heavily favours men. You just did what you claim women here do while throwing insults. Please don’t act holier than thou, you’re far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:28 PM
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You’re part of the same vile team if this is your stance. You take the moral stances of some randos and then generalise it to the entire gender. Truly useless if you really want to battle double standards in any effective way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:18 PM
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I’m not gonna debate people on what they chose to do in their personal lives since it’s pretty pointless. I engage in discussing certain points but I doubt I could change your perspective on the matter with just one debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:33 PM
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There’s no woke mob. It’s people on the left that actually push for men breaking gender stereotypes. I remember one Rogan interview where he stated a man taking paternal leave is weak-and this is the general sentiment promoted by the right, that a man has to fit in a very rigid box or else he’s not a true man. And this is how we end up with perpetuating dumb stereotypes about the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:20 PM
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It’s up to the individual to decide what they want to pursue or not. Thank God it’s 2023 and we have that freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:18 PM
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I truly can’t wait to hear your strategy to make the social majors appealing to boys. Because I work with a foundation that tutors kids coming from poor socioeconomic backgrounds and we usually present boys and girls with the same options-there’s no boy that is enthusiastic to pursue gender studies or enviornmental policies even after we have a talk about how great it would be to be open to new perspectives. They don’t see those as economically viable alternatives or as exciting alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:14 PM
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I truly don’t care what type of relationship you chose to pursue in your private life. Women are not bored by monogamy, they are bored by lack of effort and sexual chemistry (just like men are-we’re human after all). If women are boring nagging aging pussies-you have to take a look at men because their image in time is not more appealing or flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:10 PM
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You act like there’s not a significant percentage of men that go into trades and get high paying jobs from that. Also there’s not a lot of men applying for female dominated college major. Should dudes that didn’t even apply be accepted lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:05 PM
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Baby boy no defamation case ends in imprisonement. Use your brain to google how the law works before initiating topics about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:56 PM
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I said there is an explanation for cheating, I didn’t say it was justified. Yeah you can be happy-but not sexually excited. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:55 PM
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The conversation is had. But the majority of men choose to lead with the sex and relationship angle and push for limiting others liberties. Which is obviously something the majority of us will never get on board with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:55 PM
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Affirmative action is a thing in certain fields with a skewed gender ratio. There’s no affirmative action in social or gender studies and a lot of the edge in the degree department is because women go for majors that are oriented in the sociological sphere. We listen to men that ask for a helping hand. But you know, they have to actually make a point and not hurl insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:53 PM
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Lol I read those sources before since men here always think they should get away from being responsible for their sex lives. Spoiler-sex doesn’t work like that and if you don’t work to keep yourself attractive to your partner don’t whine about the outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:50 PM
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Bruh who gets imprisoned for defamation? The point is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:42 PM
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Yes, the man’s effort is the problem in the cases that don’t involve medical problems. Long term exclusivity doesn’t mean the men should just slack and stop being sexually exciting. This is why women feel stultified and there are easy and obvious fixes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:42 PM
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No, the problem for the dude that made the original comment is that women do what men have done for ages-being able to make choices on what path they pursue in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:38 PM
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how is she walking scott free when she lost the process and owes depp 15m or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:36 PM
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actual proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:33 PM
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how it’s not officially or enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:21 PM
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that’s already possible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:17 PM
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Get with a woman that wants a 50/50 relationship if you don’t want to provide. It’s that simple but men like to act like they have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:16 PM
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People aren’t static. Looking at long term is a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:12 PM
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So just because he is slacking now means he wasn’t the best option when she picked him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:04 PM
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Do you really think a woman in a sexless marriage wouldn’t have sex with a man that makes the effort to be sexually exciting to her? In all these cases the men are pitied by default and women’s needs are never a priority. I presented viable paths. I don’t see how your comment is relevant either, guess we have that in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:55 PM
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men never want relationships apparantly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:30 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ i said like 5 times here what qualifies as an incel for me. other people did too. this is simply ridiculous at this point. forever alone ain’t equal to an incel by default like twoXchromosomes is to the word woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:29 PM
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men have two x chromosomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:23 PM
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actual incel spaces. it might be helpful to identify them since they might have the word ‘incel’ in the title. that’s usually a good clue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:19 PM
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in what universe my point is a regurgitation of your point🤦🏽‍♀️?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:17 PM
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No one ‘decides’ to have a sexless marriage. Attraction is not a decision for the majority of people that ain’t ASPD. I can use your argument to counter your points-tolerating misogynistic behaviour is a decision so you can actively fight it and make your workplace a safer place. Tolerating retroactive jealousy is a choice so instead you can help your prtner grow out of it since a relationship is supposed to help you evolve as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:13 PM
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Why do you assume I didn’t discuss with people that enforce boundaries like these before calling them irrational?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:05 PM
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So certain boundaries can’t be called out for what they actually are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:00 PM
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yes, we aren’t on the same side because i can see how all the scenarios you laid out are also loses for women. you can’t because you can’t think beyond your own outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:58 PM
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Do you think a sexless marriage ain’t a shitty deal for women? Or that women want to be in competition with coworkers that have misogynistic views? Or that they want to suffer from your retroactive jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:51 PM
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Lol, it’s like the vast majority of couples have this thing about not fucking other people. I didn’t know monogamy now extends to talking to other people. I just said men should be bothered if they have reasonable doubt. But without reasonable doubt, that’s just controlling behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:45 PM
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for the fifth time-not by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:37 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️ no, they are not incels because they don’t have the perspective of an incel. there’s like four people here telling you there’s a difference and you keep pushing for this. it’s a useless conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:32 PM
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yeah, it’s weird to complain that if you are better at something then people are going to expect you to do that certain thing. everyone uses their strongest attributes to contribute to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:30 PM
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Please understand the term incel has certain implications everyone knows about. Choosing to identify yourself with that certain word and then pulling the ‘don’t judge me for associating with rancid misogynists’ is peak cognitive dissonance dude. I knew virgin dudes. But guess what, they don’t use problematic labels to identify themselves with. And no one shuns them because they’re chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:26 PM
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please at least go and see for yourself what goes on in the incel spaces. if you come back after that and you still choose to die on this hill, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:21 PM
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Because people talk. If you don’t differentiate the intent behind someone’s actions you’re gonna end up having a stroke just because your wife talked to a cashier that was a man. And if you don’t trust your partner to honour your relationship and conduct herself in a respectful way you’re gonna assume the dude she gave directions to is the actual dad of your kids. That’s why we draw lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:19 PM
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then why are they labeling themselves as incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:05 PM
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yeah, the dudes that post on incel forums about enslaving women (excuse me, foids) and all that crap are decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:00 PM
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So you changed a benign action with cheating? Lol. My uncle was a very traditional black man. We butted heads a lot but he told me something once that I remember to this day-a good protector knows when he has to protect others from himself. This is how I define rational justification-unless you have an actual reason to be concerned there is cheating going on or you know the other man has a shady character, making a scene just because your gf talked to another dude doesn’t mean you are being a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:55 PM
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If there’s no rational reason for him not liking his gf talking to another dude, that has to be called out. Being protective doesn’t mean you are free to act in irrational ways without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:47 PM
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You don’t even know who these people are since he never mentioned their names. But one day PPD claims we shouldn’t judge age gap relationships and make assumptions and the next day y’all switch at 180 degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:44 PM
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I wish to have the confidence of some people that consider they know what random ass people are actually thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:37 PM
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to me there is a difference between a guy that’s a virgin and one that’s an incel. so i’d advise guys that are virgins but don’t share the toxic incel mentality to detach themselves from the term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:32 PM
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How do you know she’s not sexually attracted to that? She has her pick of the litter, she has financial security, she’s winning in every possible category. Yes they run in the same circles-they can meet in an exclusivist place or on some tropical island or at a private party-you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:19 PM
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And how does that deny they were both in the same social circle? Wealth gives you access to other wealthy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:11 PM
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So she married someone that’s in her circle? Surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:48 PM
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It’s not a logical start. Forcing people to do something is the opposite of rational. The market is not deregulated and implementing some sort of dating communism is pretty deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:33 PM
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yup, i’d self delete too in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:34 AM
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i can guarantee you banning dating apps won’t make those men more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:14 AM
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Lol I don’t date traditional men and never encountered behaviour like that. Who are you dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:48 AM
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Yes you did. Also your hostility and the sheer stupidity of your previous comments is hilarious. Thank God we’re slowly moving forward from this being the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:25 AM
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I agree it shouldn’t exist at all obviously. But it’s not that common and single moms ain’t the root of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:10 AM
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They forget how cheating was and still is generally seen as acceptable if men practice it by a large percent of people that have ‘traditional’ values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:07 AM
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I think that pressure is toxic in a lot of cases because it forces people into very rigid boxes. There was a Rogan interview where he kept claiming real men don’t support paternal leave-just an example out of the many of social pressure negatively impacting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:02 AM
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Show me somethin' natural like ass with some stretch marks-Kendrick Lamar, modern philosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:51 AM
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Nah, most of the things he listed are fairly recent and feminism influencing the culture is responsible for split custody being the default in the vast majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:39 AM
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I had like three school shooters in my neighbourhood, this is a fantastic point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:37 AM
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nah, early 2010s were peak for anti-feminist compilations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:32 AM
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you wrote such a toughtful comment that’s gonna unfortunately fall on dead ears
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:26 AM
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You’re inconsistent. Why do people like you spew traditional rethoric but want modern benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:24 AM
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keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 AM
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If it was so important then why doesn’t it make it in the history books?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:11 AM
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You’re making zero sense in this reply. Don’t complain about men not geting custody or all the things you listed since that’s ‘not toxic’. The rest of your comment is that men get arrested or fired for looking at a woman-but none of y’all bring any proof this actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:10 AM
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You’re missing the point that toxic masculinity refers to a set of beliefs that men are not free to act in any other way that’s not alligned to the traditional model of masculinity. So of course the man doesn’t get the custody of kids since that is traditionally viewed as the job of the mother. Also I can just search on tiktok and I’ll get more than thousands videos of men talking about post wall women in very bitter terms-and then you wonder why the response of society is to side eye the men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:52 PM
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There’s no man that actually gets what toxic masculinity refers to that doesn’t see how it’s an explanation for why all the issues you listed are perpetuated in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:42 PM
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that’s a reach at best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:38 PM
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I meant that both genders engage in escapism trough media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:29 PM
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because it’s some sort of escapism that both genders engage with. also 50 shades had a huge marketing push because people started to read it because it was cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:20 PM
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You’re comparing Newton and Einstein to some shady studies that don’t take into account how many people divorce because they were childfree by choice or due to infertility. If it’s such a bad source, why cite it in an atempt to make a point? I’m not seriously debating you because this post is just a long rambling that has clear gaps in it. I’m just having fun with what sources y’all come up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:18 PM
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One of your other sources is from 2011. The other is some sort of article that tries to make an argument about ‘bussines’ marriages. Good stuff right here man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:57 PM
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did anyone manage to read past the point where this dude claimed his source is a heavily produced reality tv show?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:48 PM
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I forgot where I saw some guy that tried to argue that ‘we should wait for the side of the policemen, even if it looks bad’. But I agree they won’t rally for black cops as hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:25 PM
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this has big ‘i’m 17 and my first gf dumped me’ energy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:22 PM
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girlbosses stay winning💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:21 PM
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yeah, 50 shades is a soap opera in print. also started as a twilight fanfiction or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:19 PM
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those were mostly teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:16 PM
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nothing surprising about it. the plan is to lay low for a while and then come back and act like nothing ever happened
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:58 PM
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Those are rookie numbers, you have to pump them up! The statistics for 2021 claim that 20% of men are sexless and if I remember correctly women had a similar or even higher rate of being sexless. Yet you don’t see us starting movements online for the sexless women or say they should get state mandated bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:53 PM
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Is a grifter the best example for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:34 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:10 PM
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Because you made multiple statements. I don’t want to write some long ass reply referring to all of them and to get a deflecting answer in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:07 PM
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Where do I start?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:04 PM
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Just because you call those things objective doesn’t mean they actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:02 PM
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Sounds like the mantra you apply for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:00 PM
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The more you speak it’s onvious you don’t understand Chads don’t have to get action from bars with low female clientele.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:57 PM
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nevermind, i saw other comments of yours and there’s a good explanation why the only women engaging with you would be hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:56 PM
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You’re clearly overrating how attractive those dudes are. Stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:52 PM
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sorry, you downvoting doesn’t increase how believable your claims are. most of us are calling you on your shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:43 PM
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bruh, you’ve got men here claiming women shouldn’t vote and that the society is collapsing because of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:41 PM
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wait until you see how hateful the majority of men are here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:38 PM
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I’m not following what you said because it’s bullshit and people already called you out for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:32 PM
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He is a 9/10 and the best he could get was a 1/10 to be interested in him? Then that’s far from a 9/10 dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:17 PM
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you’ve never been around an attractive man in this case. they don’t need to go to the 2 when the bar is closing, some chick already had her eyes on him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:12 PM
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this is the only correct conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:32 PM
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It is. Because dudes mainly comment here how women are being exploitative and selfish and looking for ‘orbiters’ when they do this. While I don’t agree with going that far, I think the truth is in the middle since OP used these messages to call her an incel here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:31 PM
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The context matters, hence why I said your analogy fails. But I get it, you want some sort of gotcha moment. Still makes no sense to frame it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:13 PM
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No, I obviously know what you were going for. I just think it fails since he reached out to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:07 PM
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So ‘true love’ is a man that has an affair and blows your money without your consent. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:51 PM
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I don’t think it’s an incel point to say that someone that’s interested in you would have a hard time being just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:38 PM
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Your reply makes no sense in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:37 PM
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I never said there was a relationship, I just said she wants different things out of one than you do. Friend that was romantically interested in you. Then you expose her to ppd. Yeah, really shows that’s a great friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:45 AM
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also you can be friends with people you don’t share hobbies or interests with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:39 AM
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Oh wow, it was a solid month!!! She’s not an ‘unhinged shit’ woman tho, just one that has different things she would like in a relationship. You proposed her with going out for ramen when the decent thing would be to just let her be (also I’m not even going to point out the hipocrisy of exposing her here and calling her misandric and other bs buzzwords when you intentionally reached out to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:33 AM
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Dudes here rip apart on women that say they want to be friends with men that were romantically interested in them. And there’s a point to be made since you wanted to have a platonic relationship but she wasn’t fully over from seeing you in that way, hence why she started talking about relationships. Also it’s funny how a mod posts rants here and then claims ‘I’m not about that toxicity I swear!’. You’re obviously about attention since you aired your shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:21 AM
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My bf goes on trips without me with his friends and I do the same. I get everyone having their own boundaries, I don’t get why people like you act like theirs are the standard for a relationship when it’s just having more of a controlling personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:15 AM
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So let me get is straight-you come here ranting about a 40yo that’s your fwb, she caught feelings, you said you won’t give what she wants. Then you pull the ‘platonic friendship’ card (which men on ppd shit on when it’s a woman doing that but I’m not expecting consistency). She even said she loves men but she doesn’t like certain behaviours men display. And she won’t settle for those. Wow, that becomes a punishable offense on PPD out of all the places in the world. Was her rant weird? Sure. Shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:53 AM
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or maybe those friends shouldn’t come over anymore if they can’t act respectfully towards the owner of the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:32 AM
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she’s literally in her house, at her pool. swimsuits are normal and everybody wears them at the beach or at the pool. the family doesn’t give a fuck about respecting her right to do normal things in her own house
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:30 AM
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not everybody is this controlling when they enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:24 AM
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It’s not leftist being puritanical, it’s all these movements started by men that get infested with misogynistic discourse about manipulating women and painting us in very broad strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:15 AM
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Nah, I’ve seen how efortless is for my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:06 PM
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Probably pretty fast. I’m extroverted and my family has great genes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:54 PM
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kinda crazy to see how different two siblings can be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:23 PM
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read that comment a few times, there’s a chance you’ll get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:07 PM
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The point is you claim you found a woman in a few days that ‘offered you everything your ex wife did’. That’s the funny part. It’s ambiguous you said ‘married since 2013’ which can imply you two are still married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:00 PM
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you said in a comment ‘married since 2013’, that s a bit ambigous also just because you got another woman doesn t mean you were over it. ‘hey kids don t be sad mom split with me, i just replaced her with a random woman,’ lmfao men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:44 PM
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because you claim to have been married for ten years and have kids, duh. that woman stuck with your ass and reproduced with you, as much as you want to trick us into believing you would replace her, there is no human that gets over that by next monday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:31 PM
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men lying on the internet to seem tougher than they are-such an uncommon phenomenon. also just because you found another woman to go out with doesn’t mean you got over your wife or you ‘replaced’ her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:26 PM
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if i were 15 and impressionable i would believe men when they say they would get over their wives in a few days. But I’m not that impressionable anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:18 PM
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In the current years there are even more girls that go for CS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:24 AM
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it’s PPD. men never act bad. and if they act bad, it’s obviously your fault because you chose them. the accountable gender in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:52 AM
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I gave the example of a uni with a gender ratio that skews heavily in the favour of men. 9 years ago there were very few girls going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:42 AM
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Go on facebook. Search for an article about the shooting of Megan by Tory Lanez See all the misogynists that have no problem commenting shit from their very own accounts Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:57 AM
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Your first sentence is utter bullshit. Check what comments men leave on social media from their profiles that have their name and pictures-y’all don’t need to hIde iN a DarK ReceSs to talk shit about women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:46 AM
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I said you can go out and see the people that get laid. How is that the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:35 AM
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i didn’t troll, your post is just poor. just like your biology knowledge from what can be seen from these comments
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:03 PM
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Time for y’all to listen to Keep ya head up in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:56 PM
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Great many? No way. The majority of my uni colleagues had dates, girlfriends and hookups and we were studying CS-which is not the conventional girl magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:48 PM
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You just have to get out on a friday night and see it’s indeed a great city to date and meet people. Your former dating problems are not universal for nyc men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:34 PM
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or maybe because women are free to pursue other romantic relationships in their lives, it’s not an agenda ffs. it’s funny how men are these little creatures with little agency or capacity for critical thinking and they fall into the traps of these evil women. wake up, being a stepdad is an active choice made by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:49 PM
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You did. I entered mid comversations because your claims started to be extra bogus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:50 AM
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where did i state i am a feminist? you’re just assuming things instead of googling basic biology. also google basic data interpretation skills since the graphs you posted and your premise aren’t compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:34 AM
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Only refutation-those men are bottom of the barrel hurrr durrr Checks to see the men that do this-eh, for sure not bottom of the barrel. But I don’t expect men on ppd to admit to something that puts their gender in an unfavourable light
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:08 AM
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The fertility cliff is something men also face. Plenty of couples that have problems conceiving go trough all that pain because of men and their decreased quality of sperm as they age. Pray to God you’ll be able to understand basic biology without being blinded by your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:42 PM
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The age for sperm donors is set at 35 in the majority of clinics. 45 is really pushing it. It’s not ‘bad science’ just because you don’t like the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:27 PM
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wow, purity culture really fucks people up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:51 PM
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And what makes him an authority on women? Nothing. The fact you provide the quote of a man that was whining in the 1990s about women proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:16 PM
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Poor dude was born too early to have an alpha podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:05 PM
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or maybe the message is that if a woman doesn’t like you she’ll say no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:17 PM
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come on, why use Ashley as an example if that wasn’t about me? also no shit it’s a debate forum, people will share their perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:05 PM
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It does-because I won’t tell him to call off his wedding just because he chose a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:58 PM
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my brother is a functional adult, he can make his own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:48 PM
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don’t forget these dudes have a weird fetish for the word ‘accountability’. but they never really prove they understand what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:42 PM
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Follow your own advice. FDS might be the low hanging fruit but the way y’all just try to twist their words sometimes should be studied
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:32 PM
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please show me where these gals had sex without commitment or on a first date. just because they are choosing abstinence for a longer while doesn’t mean they were banging left and right smh🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:22 PM
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Show me those women are the same that engaged in casual sex before that. Because I see their comments too, and these girls have those rules because they literally are against hook up culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 PM
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If it’s a bad situation for MONTHS you leave. But men on ppd like to highly exaggerate these scenarios because irl, that woman ain’t sticking around that long without fucking. If you’re not attractive enough to sleep with, in 99% of cases she’ll just drop you and look for another dude. She ain’t wasting months out of her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:04 PM
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And that assumption never materialised into being his actual partner. Time to move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:52 PM
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I was never his partner, why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:47 PM
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Second part is irrelevant. I didn’t want to have sex with him, so what’s the loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:45 PM
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No one is owed sex, the notion of witholding something other people are not owed is ridiculous. Yeah, we’re done. People that can’t come up with their own analogies ain’t the best partners to have a debate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:44 PM
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I didn’t downvote you either. I don’t have to do the work for you to find an equal example. Also someone can’t ‘withold’ sex in a relationship. I’m not entitled to my bf fucking me every chance I want without taking into consideration his wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:36 PM
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yep, words lose all meaning when men fight to explain why not shagging them on a first date is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:32 PM
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A woman not having sex with you on a first basic date ain’t mistreatment bro. Might want to think about that when you want to find an equal example. I have plenty of downvotes on my comments, should I assume they were automatically from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:28 PM
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I engaged with your exaggerated example already (because men here can’t come up with something equal in this discussion). It’d be nice if you wouldn’t assume what I would do or say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:16 PM
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I’d tell my daughter to be self aware. Just as I would tell my son to not expect women to jump his bones just because he paid for a latte and made small talk for two hours on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:12 PM
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The example is exaggerated but for the sake of engaging I will-was there something about the other girl that made him be more emotionally engaging? If you can’t stop and objectively evaluate yourself you’ll always end up blaming others for not handling you shit on a platter just because you think you deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:07 PM
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those men ain’t even looking your way because they ain’t in your pool sweetheart. keep on snorting that copium
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:03 PM
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because they can’t think beyond their needs. did you have a ONS with a guy you met at a concert once? well obviously you should fuck them after a first date that was a coffee and a walk in a park, there’s no other way or god forbid you changed or matured as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:00 PM
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what are your arguments besides envy for women that get male attention and weak generalisations? none
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:57 PM
1

sorry, i forgot you’re exactly the type of person I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:54 PM
1

these dudes are like a 5 ft girl that cries she wasn’t scouted by a modeling agency
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:30 PM
2

The majority of people is able to form relationships with the opposite sex. You got your answer. Also you can have an interesting talk with your parents or grandparents about the dating dynamics from their time, you’ll be surprised to see every generation faced their challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:16 PM
1

I forgot attractive men are shitty by default on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:13 PM
3

I can find you 100 people that claim the Earth is flat and that would seem like they are a lot. Doesn’t make them right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:58 PM
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Everyone is alone? No, plenty of people are in relationships. Your post has only one point which you haven’t proved so far. It’s the typical women bad we see five times on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:54 PM
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If you think a woman has nothing to bring to the table, then don’t approach her. It’s that simple and it doesn’t contradict what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:48 PM
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I have a lot of men friends and I agree with you that these type of friendships don’t need to be normalised but there are people out there that think men-women friendships are weird/fake/the man always wants to fuck the woman and so on. Some people are even opposed of their partners having friends of the opposite gender because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:38 PM
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i can only guess what the tought process of someone commenting shit like that is. but it reminds me of a convo i had with my 19 yo cousin where i said having a long relationship means you accept the quirks of your partner and she was so surprised that’s a thing. so my money is on those women lacking actual experience with a proper relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:00 PM
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You’re bringing up a lot of excuses for these simps when the truth is they are adult men that can manage their money how they see fit, they’re not victims. But sure, you ‘hate’ them. It’s irrelevant to sex work being an industry and people engaging consensually in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:53 AM
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why didn’t you ask those women directly? i doubt asking here will turn out to be productive since we’re like 5 women here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:50 AM
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The women accept the money for a job they are delivering. Your personal feelings about how pthetic or not sex work is are irrelevant. But the infantilisation of grown ass men that choose to blow their money on naked women is always funny to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:47 AM
1

so men don’t have agency over their own money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:19 AM
1

Sorry dude, you’re not convincing me a man that’s delusional enough to think legalising prostitution will have any significant impact on dating ain’t whining. Be real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:18 AM
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Bruh reread your last few comments a couple of times. You’re backtracking and clearly biased on this issue because the men that opt out are ‘learning to be happy single’ while the women are obviously toxic (your own words in case you forgot already).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:17 AM
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Minding his bussiness whining about half the population? Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:02 AM
1

If someone truly steps out of the dating game, you won’t find them whining for the 373848th about the women/men they don’t want to engage with. They would just go mind their bussiness without constantly reminding others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:52 AM
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When you hold those behative views about half of the population you can’t claim it’s a ‘good’ thing. Be for real, any person that’s sane can see where the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:28 AM
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have you ever visited a mgtow forum? because they whine non stop how modern women are trash/obese/single moms/cat ladies and so on. don’t be disingenous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:25 AM
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I can answer that for you-envy because women get the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:18 AM
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They’re obviously single because they’re not settling for men with barely tolerable attitudes. Also it’s funny how they live in the heads of men life you rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:55 AM
1

Nah. There’s always a dude just like you with less baggage and a tolerable personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:48 AM
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Yeah, those matches would stick around for sure once they’re exposed to what you think. Men forget they have to be likeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:44 AM
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Have you ever talked with men from The Netherlands? Prostitution is legal there, they still hve the same dating problems and woes as americans. Also a lot of people would prefer the monetary or genetic ties to a dude that has that outlook on women and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:34 AM
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Bruh if you really think you have no baggage I have bad news for you-baggage isn’t acquired only by having failed relationships, it’s also acquired by jaded dudes that have no experience and think prostitution means women won’t have a hold on the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:20 AM
1

we really have to make people list ages because this sounds like highschool shenanigans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:53 AM
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Listed the ‘issues’ multiple times already. You can google what evidence they have on him. People will continue to clown delusional passport bros and you ain’t stopping them. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:39 PM
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You linked a twitter thread that basically says approach women in social settings designated for meeting new people. Also there was no mention of legal punishments. Your projections are getting tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:31 PM
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No prosecutor holds you without evidence for God’s sake. They even realesed a few transcripts to the press. Bruh touch grass already. Just like the other dude that said he is average and doesn’t struggle getting women, these dudes around me aren’t rich tall Chads. But they are likeable and tolerable, two traits which some men severely lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:29 PM
2

also she never mentioned legal consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:23 PM
2

Bruh I am mainly surrounded by average men that don’t sweat about obese single mothers because guess what? they get average women. So you’re just telling on yourself here. You go and beta bux for a wife and then air it out online for everyone to see while bitching about those women back home? And you’re surprised people will comment on your bullshit? The audacity lmao The Tate brothers are literally investigated for human trafficking and bragged they moved to Romania because of high corruption, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:19 PM
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It’s a big deal when that dude makes it his whole personality because it’s cringe. No dude that actually has the potential in our dating market to do a decent job has to move to another continent just to pay some local to throw some ass in his direction. Med school is a life goal. College is a life goal. Pulling no women and then moving across the globe is a goal, but people are allowed to laugh at the bitterness and delusions of these dudes. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:03 PM
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It’s not irrelevant since you want to come here and convince us of a non-existent point. Go wherever you want, just don’t try and bullshit us about passport bros and the modern dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:56 PM
1

you’re on ppd, we operate only with extremes here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:50 PM
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Lol the women in those videos next to the dude are fat. You’re not convincing anyone that passport bros are not leftovers in the west for various reasons (not just looks). I dated Irish and Italian dudes so far. Guess there are still foreign men that want american women afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:48 PM
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you’re right. also if you are attractive like the dude in the video, obese women ain’t a problem unless you dig them specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:41 PM
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you showed us a 5 seconds video of a couple and expect us to believe your projections about them. i could say she’s an american women that got away from obese and lazy american men and got herself a fine dude from another continent. see how we can all make up bullshit stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:38 PM
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yeah, that dude was for sure a passport bro that bitches on reddit that modern women are obese
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:34 PM
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Imagine equating people signaling you’re being an asshole to totalitarianism. It really shows y’all can’t handle half of what you dish and it’s very funny to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:55 PM
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I’m not saying people don’t stick with old things or that the scenario you described doesnt happen, but there really is nothing to gain for a mentally unstable person that is caught in that situation. This is why OP sounds like some 13 yo writing wattpad vampire dramas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:49 PM
2

Are we forgeting the ‘dump’ part in ‘pump and dump’?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:42 PM
1

sweetie it would have been really simple to come up with an argument. if you actually had one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:32 PM
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your comments scream ‘i can’t support my claims so i deflect’
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:18 PM
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uptight for asking for some proof? the bar is low
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:15 PM
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sorry to break it to you but that dude in the first video was joking. it’s a thing people do sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:03 PM
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not a fact. you could bring some actual proof if that were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:57 PM
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Or maybe men should learn that their words have consequences, especially if they broadcast those words for everyone to see them. You’re the prime example of ‘freedom of speech for me but not for thee!’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:45 PM
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sorry, i doubt there’s no veiled complaint if you truly believed men are shamed for their sexual urges
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:35 PM
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What kind of wattpad fiction is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:58 PM
5

why are you basing your worldview from a post written by an edgelord on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:52 PM
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Those women get nothing useful from the men that manipulate them for sex. But what can I say, your logic is something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:49 PM
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who shames men for that? there are industries worth billions that revolve around the sexual urges of men. what more do yall want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:44 PM
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I don’t think they were better in their 20s, I think it’s a characteristic of the generation they come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 PM
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What ages are these dudes? I’m almost 28 and the guys in my generation that I’ve dated are very capable of being functional adults that cook, clean, take out the trash, manage tasks and so on. In fact I never lived with a man that I had to order around to do basic maintenance stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:37 PM
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Do y’all even think before writing stuff like that? You really don’t see the problem in using emotionally volatile people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:32 PM
2

12.8% of people live in areas that are considered food desert and their access to food that is healthy and nutritious is limited. instead they have access to processed foods that are poor in nutrients and more addictive so breaking the cycle of bad nutrition becomes even harder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:30 PM
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that’s barely scratching the surface of the issue-the food is shit. and the poorer you are, the only economical access you have is to shit food
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:10 PM
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Do you actually think people don’t know all the health risks influenced by fat? Or they don’t know what foods are bad? Or that fat is generally regarded as unattractive since you don’t see fatties in romance movies? Guess what, still doesn’t work because people are fatter than ever and you think there is some sort of ‘messaging’ issue
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:58 PM
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if fatshaming worked we wouldn’t have around 70% of overweight people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:33 PM
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it’s no PR tactic, they had an open marriage for years. his reputation was damaged just because people are close minded when it comes to issues like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:56 PM
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i have no questions about what two grown ass famous adults do with their marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:04 PM
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also they stated a bunch of times they have an open marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:58 PM
2

i doubt the same men make the two contrarian claims
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:16 PM
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Plenty of average men get signals or get approached at least once. For God’s sake, I have a CS degree and half of the boys in my classes were pretty well adjusted and dated just like any regular person and the other half never made an effort to even be arpund women or be tolerable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:57 PM
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neither do i, it’s clear you have no counter argument. have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:54 PM
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And my original comment was about that being a bs point since feminists are more open to approach the men they are actually attracted to than any other group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:46 PM
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I just told you they complain the women that approached them are not attractive for them. Never make the mistake to believe what ppd men tell you the first time, the full truth eventually comes out after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:39 PM
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Lmao you forgot what your original comment was. I was sure the whole argument about ‘convenient gender roles’ was some bullshit and you just backtracked from it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:37 PM
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bruh, ppd is full of NORMAL men. let’s not pretend otherwise. i just told you what the tought process of a woman that dm’s a guy is. but sure, men always know better eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:32 PM
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in more cases, men. because the incencitives are different. for the sixth time. labeling this as a convenient gender roles means you would want women to approach men that don’t spark their interest, which is literally dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:29 PM
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I’ve seen enough reports from guys on ppd that were honest enough to admit they were approached by women or had women that expressed their interest, they just didn’t think those women were attractive enough. Almost no one who goes on a night out in nyc has spreadsheets with them and hunts for some young middle class man. Or analyzes their ig profile and decides ‘yeah, i’ll message him because he is middle class’ lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:26 PM
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I said both initiate and gave the clarification women don’t have the same treshold for initiating. It’s not quantum physics to interpret that sentence correctly dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:23 PM
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Young men are not outnumbered where I live. Social norma about dating are more flexible than in other places. If the majority of men would get out the house, they would experience women expressing interest in them at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:19 PM
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depends what the social norms are. i live in nyc, not that uncommon to be the first to write to a guy on OLD, compliment his shirt at a concert or write your telephone number on a napkin. the dude that argued with me is eastern european, no shit women there don’t approach as often as the ones here do since the dating climate is different. i wouldn’t expect someone living in a traditional community in the states to share my experiences either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:06 PM
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can’t believe i said multiple times women don’t desire to initiate as often as men do because our attraction tresholds differ and you interpreted it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:09 AM
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Everything to do with location since gender dynamics are different in nyc compared to where you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:36 AM
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yeah, i’m delusional for talking to a eastern european and expecting him to relate to us dating experiences. i’ll give you that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:28 AM
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Then look at the individuals in your group. We have such great access to see the actions and words of great individuals, you don’t have to necessarly get themnto identify with you to gain access to that because we have the internet. If that doesn’t suit your style, then look at the men in your community and the men that come from the same culture as you. It’s literally that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:57 AM
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I said it in a comment to another user-I’ll be convinced of his innocence when the trial starts and we see the case they built against him. Until then, a video of two girls saying things with no actual proof doesn’t reach my standard for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:48 AM
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They bring no actual proof what they are saying it’s true. It’s just word of mouth. Also it’s not like they are saying something that would endanger their lives for god’s sake. In the original statement their organised crime comitee said they followed them for months to build a case. This is why waiting for the actual trial instead of choosing sides based on youtube videos is the only rational thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:42 AM
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Says that Romania and the US are two different countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:39 AM
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seems like they did just that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:22 AM
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yeah there is one-the trial comes and we see the proof they have against him. until that it’s a game of saving face and he said, she said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:08 AM
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Now watch the vice documentry if you are so invested in it. Or wait for his trial when more proof will come to surface. It’s crazy y’all can’t think why some dudes that were very internet famous wouldn’t try to save their face and reputation by planting stunts like these. Damn if young men could grow a dose of healthy skepticism towards their e daddies Also-y’all always demand ‘solid proof’ this dude did something but two girlies saying things in a video is good enough because it fits your innoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:06 AM
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just like the others said, that’s herd mentality. also means the majority of men have a poor filter if they can’t see the good and succesful men (and there is an abundance of that) and choose facets of them that could help them develop as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:03 AM
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both. i’ve said it like three times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 AM
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move on to the next dude
/r/AllPillDebate22/01/23 09:28 PM
1

Escalation on a date is a two sided game, no one is the sole initiator of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:50 PM
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BRUH💀💀 Women in the US initiate when they desire a guy, which is generally a healthy baseline to approach strangers. The cold approach/numbers game/initiating just because a person breathes in your vicinity is a poor strategy. So comparing how often men do that is pretty useless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:26 PM
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which part of europe? because social norms differ from one place to another. as i said, women don’t play the same numbers game of approaching any man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:12 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:50 PM
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You don’t see it as a norm because you expect women to play the same numbers game like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:46 PM
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You’re not ‘supposed’ to do anything. Women take initiative (when they are interested in a guy obviously) and split bills on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:33 PM
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any actual example of that? i don’t have high expectations because most of the examples are always bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:06 PM
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the funniest response to this is ‘women underrate the attractiveness of men, those guys with gfs are not average for sure!!’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:57 PM
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There’s a BIG difference between treating a stranger man with caution because you’ll never be able to phisically dominate him and treating all men like ‘rapists and criminals’. Idk why people take advice that’s tailored for women that meet men trough OLD for example on how they should look out for themselves in that sort of situation and jump to ‘oh you’re treating him like a rapist/criminal!’. No, this is a game where women can’t really win. Be trusting and sth bad happens? Obviously your fault…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:50 PM
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depends on what topic you are looking for said guidance. everyone will agree gender roles should be dismantled and individuals should pick what suits their needs better for example. but not everybody agrees on wether sex work is ‘empowering’ or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:29 PM
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so what you are saying is being a reasonable person gets you the same treatment from others? crazy conclusion /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:18 PM
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ofc it’s ‘all over the place’ since there are more branches of feminism and they don’t necessarly see eye to eye on certain issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:14 PM
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You’re kinda supporting her point when you say the women approaching you willingly admit to you they have daddy issues lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:03 PM
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i’m not against people trying. i’m against them trying in dumb and alienating ways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:43 PM
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you didn’t even bother to read the post, you’re not the one that should be talking about ‘not knowing the contextes’ lmao. you just want to ride for this dude that uses random men from the internet as a substitute for a personality at the expense of his wife and his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:25 PM
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Why do you act like knowing how a man should act or how a fair marriage looks like is such a foreign or abstract concept for people? It’s common sense that wanting a woman to obey you and your kids seeing that shit is unhealthy. She never signed up for this kind of job. Since you like job analogies so much you should think you were hired on a certain position and now your cranky boss demands you do shit you never signed up for. That’s what those dudes try to pull on their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:16 PM
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The way in which you chose to ‘destroy’ it matters. That’s the point. He can leave his wife and go do whatever the fuck he wants, but by trying to apply the alpha theories to his marriage he is actively hurting his wife and giving his kids a shit example on how a man acts. That’s why he or any man should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:05 PM
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he literally says he wants to punish her for going to a work function and you come up with these mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:57 PM
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it’s not about melissa mccarthy not being rated a 10. but there are some men here that claim that celebrities that are obviously conventionally attractive and have a very curated image are not attractive or look average. that’s the fishy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:34 PM
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It’s not shocking that you don’t offer any actual examples of you helping men. I know what to expect from your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:27 PM
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I’ll never stop doing what I want just because a hypothetical man in the future wouldn’t like it. You got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:43 AM
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No, the bar is not in hell for everyone. That phrase is mostly reserved for women that settle for shitty deals in a relationship or are easily impressed by stuff that is the minimum in a healthy relationship. Doesn’t mean all of us would swoon that a guy made sure his partner consented to sex or accept some dude that leaves skid marks on the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:24 PM
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who is the first dude? i’m asking for a science project👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:34 PM
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yeah. i really don’t think speaking at some conference with 300 people in a hotel lobby has the same impact as having a platform of millions of people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:37 PM
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then do some digging. or pay for your own billboard. this is one of the smallest things to get worked up about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:36 PM
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does this donna woman have millions of feminists following her on any social media platform?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:29 PM
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yeah, they always have to start with common sense and then turn up with the shit takes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:24 PM
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it’s not patronizing at all. it’s a freaking billboard, you can always pay for space to put your own messages on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:20 PM
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that’s a hard one. i’d suggest an open relationship in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:09 PM
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some concealer for the eyebags, eat some chocolate to get your mood up, go out and dance and then blow your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:42 PM
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they obviously won’t stop a hookup with him and not every woman has some bionic eye that can exactly measure every penis. idk why some men like to put down others like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:40 PM
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and men seem to not learn to eat less even with the public insults. probably the strategy is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:33 PM
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Anybody should be listened to. But I want to see proof before I believe something. Simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:07 AM
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That sounds like a case for being discriminated as a work prospect. But not libel or doxxing. Good luck to your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:30 AM
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The internet is clebrating that the dude playing in marvel movies who was dating an almost 40 yo when he was 19 possibly cheated on her. They’ve been calling her groomer for MONTHS at this point. What obscene misandry indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:20 AM
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i understand very well what this is. like i said, following those channels makes you have the same line of thinking about women and relationships and other buzzwords like masculinity. that’s the point sweet summer child. you’re just trying to make some sort of paperbag test and you’re failing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:22 AM
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Nah, those are some tehnicalities. Just because a guy doesn’t go to the gym but follows all the redpill channels and influencers doesn’t mean he’s not a ‘real’ one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:18 PM
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I never specifically said that. Also redpill is more than the ‘core tenets’, it’s about consuming and alligning yourself with certain sets of ideas and content. But I get why y’all try and save some face by bringing up technicalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:03 PM
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Did I say all men here are redpilled? You can find examples here too, but it’s very funny how y’all act like a redpiller must have all those characteristics. Redpill is also a way of seeing relationships and women, not going to the gym doesn’t revoke your member card
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:39 PM
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so hard to understand redpill when the line of thinking is like two clicks away from everyone that wants to read about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:31 PM
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I’ve seen attornies take the dumbest cases for money. The story we got is vague and has big holes, that’s why I’m asking what’s the substantial claim against the hiring person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:26 PM
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the ‘no true redpiller’ card, been a while since i’ve seen this played on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:19 PM
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I didn’t ask for the name of company or this dude’s name. I just asked if he has actual proof he wasn’t hired on the basis of that group. Otherwise a lawyer is just smiling to himself that he’ll get an easy bag. If nobody gave his adress on the group those women can’t be accused of doxxing and libel has to be proven to have caused direct damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:20 PM
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That was one famous example of a woman getting screwed over by divorce. Men admit willingly they don t care about the career or money of their spouse, so it shouldn’t surprise you their actions come with consequences in case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:44 PM
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kelly clarkson is paying her husband 115k in alimony and 45k in child support monthly. guess someone should have told her women can not lose anything in a divorce. or maybe the point is that marrying someone with a lesser social economic status means you’re gonna be the one that pays regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:15 PM
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How does he know for sure he wasn’t hired because of that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:55 PM
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How was the philosophy around 2006 when it was early 2010s when people started talking about it? Jeez y’all funny. Literally the late 2010s and the beginning of the 2010s were very anti feminist since cringe compilations of sjw and feminists were watched by millions on youtube. Get your timelines straight next time you atempt to argue something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:21 PM
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Listen and believe was not in 2006. The phrase was coined in 2014. Do you happen to live in a BC timeline?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:33 PM
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yep, i want proof all these groups are a coordinated effort by feminists. and that the majority of their members identify as feminists. also i’d like to see proof men lost their jobs because a woman commented online about a bad date they had with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:20 PM
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Duke lacrosse was in 2006. You didn’t disprove anything, i just asked about the original goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:19 PM
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You stop it and ask how would a guy lose his job or whatever hysterical claim y’all make here just because a woman said they had a bad date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:08 PM
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I was in college around that, ‘listen and believe’ was NOT a legal demand, it was just about personal behaviour. No one’s getting thrown out of college for an accusation stop the cap. Also I asked you two specific questions, answer them if you actually can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:53 PM
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Where is the proof this is some sort of feminist initiative? Do you genuinely think women needed feminism to ask feedback about the dudes they want to date? I keep seeing statements that these dudes are going to lose their job because of a bad date review and I want to see actual proof or justification for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:19 PM
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You literally can see they were not being petty or vindictive in the screenshot attached to this post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:01 PM
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Did y’all intentionally skip the part where I said it works on a subset of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:37 AM
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Proof their ‘lives are ruined over one bad date’?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:33 AM
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Depends why the date was bad, that’s the point. Was it bad because y’all didn’t click? You’re right. Was it bad because of other reasons? That’s where these groups can be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:31 AM
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Nothing, but they just like to attach feminism to everything. It’s their most beloved boogey man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:29 AM
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Then use the word submissive not sub, you’re using the terms in a confusing ways because they mean different things for people that are familiar with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:45 AM
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Sub women are far from the majority tho. That’s a niche community and a switch dude might also not be into women that are only subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:56 AM
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Sweetheart, I’ve used PLENTY of terms to say I’m refering to some men. What more could I possibly do? People with maladaptive behaviour patterns ain’t that rare since there’s a good chunk of household that encourage those types of dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:30 AM
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Can y’all argue a point without throwing the usual buzzwords?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:21 AM
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Some men hurl those insults at women. But you’re trying to deny there are people that are drawn on to potential partners that are unavailable? I fear the one in denial is you since you don’t understand we’re influenced by a lot of things when our brain figures out what they like in a partner. There are dudes that have these patterns because they were influenced by their up bringing. How anyone can deny that is beyond me but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:18 AM
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Just like your friend down below that can’t accept other men think in different ways, you’re not adding anything to the conversation. Sure, that’s your challenge. Other men are up to other things. Shouldn’t be that hard to accept different people look for different things. Or that there are people that are turned on by potential partners that are unavailable or out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:05 AM
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because we just removed probably half of the women that have conservative values? yeah. but the point is to hang in the circles with likeminded people, that’s how you’re going to be succesful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:02 AM
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Nope, you have the classic rethoric of calling any man that doesn’t act like you think they should simp. Now you pulled the ‘friendzone’ card because that’s next in line of bullshit assumptions. I read your last reply and I obviously disagree with it. I’ll stop reading your replies if all you have to add to the conversation is kindergarden insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:01 AM
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Considering the fact that the conventionally attractive bi men are now pull women consistently,, I think the problem is how conventionally hot they are. Not the fact they got dommed or whatever you try to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:54 AM
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when your dating people is reduced to half and they you have to substract the women that are left that are coupled up or are not into men-yeah, that sounds harder to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:45 AM
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If he’s hot and interesting to them? That won’t be a problem for the women that are not homophobic. Google what percentage of women identifies with more lgbtq friendly values if you want hard numbers, i’d say it’s around 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:42 AM
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You’re probably pushing 40 if you don’t see the same behaviour with women. There’s a reason Hasan doesn’t publicly talk about his dating life, the point is to keep the fantasy going for the women that have the same parasocial relationship with him. I’m not saying being 40 is a problem, but you’re obviously removed from a huge part of internet culture. Those same women retract their support for the celebrity, but I’m sure you’ll claim that never happens because it doesn’t support your narrative. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:39 AM
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Lol, the point is that they doubt his sexuality, not his number of partners of promiscuity. Straight people wanting to date straight people is kinda natural, I say this as a woman that slept with orher women or nb people in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:31 AM
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Don’t care what he consensually did before meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:23 AM
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How is it rare for women to have meltdowns when their fave celebs get a girlfriend? If you date Harry Styles, you might wanna close that ig account because it’s gonna get crazy in the comments. From hate comments to death threats, you’ll find THOUSANDS of examples there. But you allegedely think it’s so rare lmao I’d rather believe my dating experiences and what men directly tell me instead of someone on ppd that thinks evopsych should determine how ALL men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:17 AM
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You’re not adressing the fact women display the same type of behaviour with celebrities. The point of preselection working in men is the fact they interpret it as a challenge. I heard it multiple times from dudes, but I know men on ppd tend to have this syndrome where only their worldview can exist under the sun. Guess what, just like I said there are men that like to chase and be kept on their toes when it comes to dating. That’s why this sort of advice is succesful if you try to get with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:00 AM
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that looks like something i’ve eaten in greece
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:47 AM
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That was just one example of a context in which a man is not bothered by pre selection. I literally said in my first comment not all people act the same. The korean pop idols never reveal their reationship status because their fans send death threats and have meltdowns over it. Guess which gender I’m refering to (hint: is the one you think doesn’t act like that with celebrities).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:35 AM
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Trips are usually something people flex. But the point is that the expensive wedding is the spectacle that hundreds of people are going to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:56 PM
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preach. they’ll make all these rules, talk about them online and break them if a girl is hot. human nature at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:51 PM
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Because in this type of culture your value as a man is to provide. If all the men can put food on the table for their families and get a roof over their head, that becomes the default. So in order to be more valuable, you have to provide more than the dudes around you. An extravagant wedding, shoes, purses, jewellries, whatever material thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:50 PM
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I didn’t say you can’t manage your money with your wife as you wish. I just said it’s not surprising this is happening in a culture where men are the sole providers. In fact my arab friends have the same observations about marriage in their native countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:45 PM
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Yeah, that’s why dudes will slip in your dms after they see a photo of you and your bf and open up with some shit like ‘you could do much better’. They seem very turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:38 PM
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Divorce laws in the us are also more lax than the men that parrot ‘divorce rape’ online want to make them seem. Common custody is the norm. There’s also men getting alimony. I generally support people to stick to their financial possibilities and not splurge on shit. But I can’t really wrap my head around the fact that people don’t see that treating marriage as a bargain ends up in scenarios where the bar will go higher for the sole provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:35 PM
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Divorce laws serve their purpose. The men in your country are actually pushing against traditional expectations of masculinity to fully provide in order to get a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:20 PM
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If this kind of approach to marriage was succesful we wouldn’t have strayed from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:06 PM
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i’m not saying you’re not right, but that scenario is highly unrealistic today in our western society. my grandparents were married at 17, still cheated on eachother and divorced. those ages are too young for the majority of people to make huge decisions like wether or not to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:56 PM
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she’s probably part of the 0.5% of 16 years old that wish to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:50 PM
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‘none of that stuff works on men’-duh it works on a subset of men obviously. the problem is y’all don’t understand not all men act like you or your friends or the other dudes in your circle. there are men out there that like toxicity, start drama for the sake of it, have jealousy and are extremely possessive. i could go on and on but y’all get the point. is this advice i follow in my dating life? no. do i think it doesn’t work because ’men are just not like that’? hell nah, plenty of damaged peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:24 PM
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don’t know what kind of porn they watch but normalising human parts doesn’t mean you’ll be a sexual deviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:41 PM
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Gather some evidence if I can and then divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:38 PM
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have you ever been to a beach in europe? nobody gives a shit that kids see some nipples, they have a less purist approach to the human body
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:32 PM
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‘no sex until marriage’ means that teens and young adults will find other inventive ways to have fun without piv.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:30 PM
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They call the men that date highschoolers that phrase. I do remember people from my generation that had depression or issues with anxiety but they didn’t have the means to broadcast it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:28 PM
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Nah. I know dudes that have younger gfs, still call a man that gets involved with a highschooler ‘kids that were left behind’. I’d clown a slut if she took advantage of a man tho, I’m on that train.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:02 PM
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so…people clown you because your behaviour is out of the way the majority chooses to conduct themselves? absolutely unheard of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:51 PM
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Not following the ‘modest’ dresscode is a way of expressing yourself for these people. Just because cloting for men is generally pretty boring compared to women’s clothing doesn’t mean those men are not doing things to express themselves as adults that want to loog good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:46 PM
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people don’t like to follow restrictions all their lives without having no say in that. more news at 7
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:40 PM
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Highschoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:39 PM
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Damn you’re just writing these pharagraps to argue some imaginary tangent. You can’t claim women had a choice in a civillised society when they were heavily shamed for having sex outside marriage (and that doesn’t mean just cheating). That choice always came with the double standard attached to it and heavy social implications. Also there was no emphasis on female pleasure and orgasm so thank you sexual emancipation for that. Hence literally all women benefitted from sex outside of marriage not …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:48 AM
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scroll a bit down and the same users says that if she doesn’t have sex with her husband for a few days she asks herself if there might be a problem with her. it’s in her second comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:13 AM
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literally the first comment chain mentions that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:08 AM
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Then give those men these hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:28 PM
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no. just because there are RARE cases of oaternity fraud that doesn’t mean men cheating allows them to still claim loyalty. you try to conflate the two in a weird attempt to peove you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:27 PM
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It’s not a matter of what is more detrimental, it’s a matter of men doing these weird mental gymnastics to justify their behaviours and still call it lOyAltY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:17 PM
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you just proved you are solipsistic because you define loyalty by what fits the selfish desires of a man, not the desires of his partner. so that loyalty can go in the trash can
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:13 PM
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That might be one very good reason. One of my theories is that making someone fear you is a quick way to earn their so called respect. And these people would rather take the short route than figure out other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:10 PM
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got it, you’re trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:08 PM
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That’s just male solipsism, cheating is cheating. Hirting the feelings of your wife doesn’t mean you are loyal to her just because you came home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:03 PM
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Those men can’t imagine gaining the respect of others in any other way. Kinda sad if you think about it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:01 PM
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then why there are still more male cheaters than women? whoever cleaned that pool gene did a bad job
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:59 PM
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wow, one account where a man tried to be honest about it and still made it about women in the end. baby steps i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:58 PM
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Serious question-where is the proof that many egalitarian marriages are sexless? Or that being in a marriage or relationship that is not egalitarian leads to more sex than vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:56 PM
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lifelong loyalty is not specific to one gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:53 PM
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drifting apart in a relationship is not a lack of principles. it happens regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:40 PM
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guys are capable of it too, they just never admit to it on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:01 PM
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Some men with options wife up what other people call ‘sluts’ because individuals that have a high sociosexuality seek that in a partner. Your original point doesn’t relate to my comment and barely has a tangent with this post that says a man is allowed to cheat just because he didn’t get play in his younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:34 PM
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Sorry, you’re talking about some other things that are off topic. Men with options don’t wife only virgins and sexual emancipation means a woman is free to choose how to sexually conduct herself (and that doesn’t mean having dozens of partners, she can choose to have 4 and no ‘man with options’ is having a heart attack over that). That wasn’t the case in the past, there was no choice. Please stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:56 PM
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He is an edaddy and I remember one guy that came from a very unstable background, dad and older brother involved in a gang, other youth organisations would have labeled him as an ‘unfavourable’ prospect. But guess what few months of talks centered around his situation and his world view does? He tells me all the online psychology and 12 rules of life is just shit you’ve hear before from people around you but didn’t want to give them the credit for it. And that is the point of it all-to get a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:49 PM
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It deffinetly was needed then. We’ve come to be more accepting over all of women allowing men into her bed that are not her future husband. There’s no scarlet letter anymore for women that excercise their options. That’s what this discussion is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:17 PM
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i work with boys and girls coming from broken families and therapy for those boys is way more efficient than any marc aurelius meditation or jordan peterson or gym. you want them to be independent and pick up the good from their enviornment, not worship some e daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:03 PM
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Because our society discriminates cheaters, duh. #normalisecheating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:19 PM
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Maybe for the obvious reason that if you sleep around while being single you don’t hurt the feelings of your boyfriend/husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:13 PM
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Of course you’re gonna be stigmatized for having an affair by the majority of people. It doesn’t matter if it’s a woman, man or something else, society generally doesn’t like cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:09 PM
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Literally who is stopping those middle aged men? Why do you think this kind of sexual emancipation was needed just for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:05 PM
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The problem with your logic is that you equate a man showing interest with ‘traditional masculinity’. I like men getting me flowers. I also bake them cookies or surprise them with a random little gift. That’s called showing mutual interest. If he initiates a date because he heard me talking about a new restaurant, I’ll also get him tickets to a concert or something like that to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:54 AM
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a pick me is a woman willing to put down other women so she can be appealing to men. that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:00 AM
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lol i don’t think i’ve seen a red pill creator as attractive as hasan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:45 AM
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key word-supposed. hmmmmm funny isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:38 AM
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what can i say, i like it when everyone wins something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:54 PM
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no, chad should pay a tax whenever he fucks a woman and we’ll make a fund to get state mandated fembots for incels. it’s a win
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:48 PM
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I’ve seen that video before. Most of it is just pissing in the wind that there isn’t only one main archetype of man being portrayed in media. The rest is placing a lot of expectations on movies that are mostly churned out for profit so they don’t have super deep storylines or character development.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:05 PM
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is this why there are like 7373 male super hero movies every year?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:51 PM
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Sex is fun. Exploring different partners is also fun if you are the type of person that wants some variety before settling down. I had a long relationship that lasted until I was 22 and I ended it because I wanted to see what’s out there. I got that out of my system so I count it as a positive thing. It also gave me a confidence boost. Not all the men I’ve slept with were great in bed but none were bad or disastrous. There was always reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:33 PM
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You’re watching too many tv shows my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:24 PM
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Again, you are misunderstanding the saying to try and support your point. The men that mantain the infrastructure of society are paid to do that, just like I’m paid for my job. I wouldn’t say I’m needed by men collectively because of that. Stop being obtuse. Men or women can live just fine because in the modern society we have the means to support ourselves, that’s the big point you keep missing on purpose. I didn’t say it’s wrong to WANT a partner. But you or a woman or an enby or a kittenself …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:21 AM
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for like the millionth time, women not needing men doesn’t mean what you think it does. in fact no human should need another human regardless of gender in order to live a fullfilling life or be desperate for a relationship. that phrase concerns relationships and as we can see around us it’s not a laughable narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:54 AM
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The original point was that a pick-me is a woman that parrots point of views just to gather validation from men and put other women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:11 PM
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Because that’s just c*pe at the end of the day. Every human wants to feel wanted or desired, there’s a dose of external validation we all crave and seeing others get it is an isolating experience. You can think you’re the prize, but when no one is showing interest for you it’s hard to rationally justify you are an actual catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:00 PM
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Don’t forget that they never mention divorce rates are higher for higher age gaps. It’s almost like they always pick and choose what arguments are convenient for them and ignore the facts that don’t support their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:09 PM
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Nah, the bitterness comes from dudes that make random assumptions about people they’ll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:25 PM
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I get you care about him a lot and you see his qualities BUT (and this is a big but) think if you really want to start a family with someone that brushes off this issue and helds the belief you’re gonna hop to another dick or leave him in time of needs. I read your replies and it’s obvious he wants to dodge the problem, not handle it. I hope you make the best decision for yourself and don’t waste your time, that’s a precious resource you can’t get back.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:53 PM
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I think it’s obvious two partners have to keep on being sexually attractive to eachother. Flirting, teasing, romantic dinners, special lingerie, planning something kinky-these are a few ways to keep your partner interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:22 PM
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And how does that deny that the other dude is making efforts to spend time with her and get her gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:35 PM
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Nah, the more time passes men usually forget they have to also keep themselves sexually attractive. That also seems the case of this dude that puts more energy into being attractive to other women then to his own wife. Prime example of fuck around and find out here. Also that other dude makes active efforts to spend time with her and gift her flowers, you can’t say men don’t make any kind of effort in the ‘hang and bang’ phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:10 AM
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I disagree. If you were born into a wealthy circle, you quickly see no one is actually marrying a barista or a broke girl. Image and keeping up appearances is always important and there are plenty of hot and attractive women that also come from a wealthy background.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:17 AM
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Do you realise the number of above average guys ain’t high enough that every woman ends up dating one? Do you realise an ‘average’ dude can have other things going on for him that make him very attractive? Or that some women can simply find him attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:43 AM
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or maybe he just ain’t putting any effort into seducing her like that dude does. is she supposed to feel attracted by default to a man that feels she ‘offered everything she had to’?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:18 AM
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where was his respect for her? the most pathetic thing is not being able to catch what you throw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:52 AM
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Deflect what? You’re not making any points or contributing in any way to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:44 AM
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It would sit well with me because I understand my flaws (I’m flat chested actually) are not really the most appealing to a lot of people. But because I treat others with decency people treat me with kindness and don’t point out that stuff. What a crazy concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:38 PM
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Depends on what kind of risks you are talking about I guess. I think it’s good to have that dose of nervousness about something risky going wrong, that means you’re aware of the possibilities of things turning out bad so you can prepare some sort of plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:56 PM
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Then don’t get into a deal like that if you think it’s terrible? These guys are not forced at gunpoint to have an open relationship, most of the time it’s their idea too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:54 PM
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I’m monogamous myself but I’ve seen people with succesful open relationships. Women might have more choice but not a lot of women want to exercise every choice they have. That’s why as you get a bit older you become more selective. The women I met that were in open relationships didn’t just fuck whatever guy made a move on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:43 PM
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you’re not differentiating between the normal base anxiety that can help you avoid risky situations and the full blown disorder. ofc there’s nothing beneficial in having that kind of crippling anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:27 PM
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Plenty of men today have good and loving women in their lives. Probably the fact they don’t have the narcissistic tendencies to mention the word ‘submission’ ten times a day helps a great deal with that. The second paragraph is among the funniest lies I’ve read here. It’s peak comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:01 PM
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I don’t think marriage itself is so bad, I think the bad part is thinking monogamous marriage is the solution for everyone. I agree with the rest of the comment about how we would thrive more living communally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:37 PM
1

That was not my point but hating someone by default for their profession does sound very healthy and balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:47 AM
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Boomer’s humour is mainly about hating your wife/loosing your freedom once you get married and other tropes like that. There’s always a boomer at a wedding going to the groom and making some sort of statement like that. So I am convinced their marriages and relationships weren’t as great as some people on ppd want to believe. I don’t know how we could reach an equilibrum tbf. I just think some people adapt better than others to the current climate and the ones that don’t have a tendency to roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:42 AM
0

I responded to what you said, you’re just being very repetitive. I truly don’t care how you chose to respond to racist women, that’s not the gotcha you think it is. People want to play this convenient game where they don’t practice body acceptance or racial positivity yet cry when someone calls them short or points they have thin lips and eat unseasoned chicken. Their ideas have been attacked PLENTY of times yet they still choose to speak dumb shit. Not everyone is supposed to just overlook thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:59 AM
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Where is the hate buddy? I get her videos pushed on my fyp and they are literally RESPONSES to men (in the majority of time) saying dumb things or calling her ugly/fat/whatever. Why don’t you defend her from the hate if that’s your main concern? She’s a Polynesian woman (since you like to bring race into this discourse), why don’t you protect her from the men that mock her for the features of her ancestors? The point of your post is something not all people will agree with. People get the conseq…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:40 AM
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Comparing her to a dude that got arrested for heinous shit is very dramatic. As I said, she makes responses to hypocritical tiktoks made by men. If that bothers you that much to call her a ‘terrible person’, that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:28 AM
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You don’t really know the soul of some internet stranger. She just throws it back to hypocritical men via tiktok responses, it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:21 AM
1

Drew’s bf is fine as fuck. Try another excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:12 AM
0

It’s not dehumanization. This is the mentality lots of men pass to eachother. It’s just acknowledging the fact that some men don’t break out of the shitty and arrogant mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:05 AM
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the ‘developmentally kneecapped’ is such a bs c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:24 AM
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Or maybe y’all just romanticise how loving and submissive those wives were. I saw so many examples of couples from that time that were far from being loving that I can’t understand why people hang on to this fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:11 AM
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Guess some of y’all didn’t get the memo people are allowed to have their opinions on what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:06 AM
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apprantly if you’re a woman you can’t change your mind over time or want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:43 PM
1

Eh, how could men play the victim if you’d admit there is a consensus on what represents an inappropiate age gap? You just ignore the fact the majority of people agree on the fact that two adults can be with eachother past a certain point without it being a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:47 PM
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No, there is a general consesnsus that 25+ or whenever you are out of college and have a job you are quite well equipped to deal with other adults. It’s not a grey area for a LOT of people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:28 PM
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That’s why porn studios that charge for subscriptions have appeared. Free porn means you can never be sure of the origin and how the workers were treated during the making of. The largest OF pages are managed by agencies because one person doesn’t have the physical time to answer to thousands of requests and messages. It’s not pink washing, it’s pure logistics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:27 PM
1

His baggage is his lack of actual social experience and this mentality that people that actually experienced normal interactions between the sexes are ‘damaged’. Baggage isn’t acquired just by being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:04 PM
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There are wildly accepted limits on what a concerning age gap is and you already know that. But you’re just trying to make a point that this discussion is very confusing when in reality there’s a general consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:03 PM
1

So…one example out of the millions of users onlyfans have? Do you think people do sex work just under a capitalist system? Because as hard as it is for you to imagine that, there is a good chunk of people that want to use their sex appeal to make a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:01 PM
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A 2,5 years age gap is barely noticeable since those people are from the same generationa and you talk about age gaps that are closer to 10 years (20s and 30s respectively). I read what you said about your ex gf that left you for a drug dealer and I understand where your issues come from. I just find it really perplexing how you don’t see your own baggage that’s a red flag for a lot of good women and start pointing fingers at others. You’re not really in the position to do that buddy. The player…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:59 PM
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We have a sex worker here on ppd and I value her input more than what a purist has to say about the legitimacy of sex work. If your concern would actually be human trafficking than you would agree onlyfans is a pretty reasonable option. But your actual concern is the fact we don’t all share your definitions of morality and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:49 PM
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You’re presenting no proof that those aren’t the same men. The culture is having a discourse about relationships dynamics. Just like there was and is a discourse about gold diggers or other types of predatory behaviour. It negates any meaning when you try to play the victim card for your gender instead of engaging with something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:45 PM
1

I think it was will smith that said growing up without internet means you could be stupid without the whole world seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:33 PM
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No, it plays a big part in how the other side is supposed to respond. Because men talk about the predatory behaviour of women all the time but want to play the victims when age gaps are discussed. Very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:32 PM
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Enough men subscribe and propagate these ideas that it started this sort of conversation. If the percentage was negligible then it wouldn’t gain the momentum it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:16 PM
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Maybe they wouldn’t raise moral panic if there wouldn’t be a constant influx of men online talking about molding a young woman, how women get imprinted by their partners and other bullshit like that. It started with these men making claims like that because age gap wasn’t a discourse online before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:05 PM
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Obviously the immoral part was an older woman exploring her sexuality and not being a cat lady. And people shame those situations when there are some concerning details. As I said, men started this conversation themselves by saying all kind of weird shit online and now are surprised other people react to that. But I don’t expect any actual self awareness from the gender that doesn’t see how they designed this discourse about age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:56 PM
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‘look at the people that have that kind of success you want and see what they do’-i think it was one of my aunties
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:44 PM
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Did you exclude the 18-20 year old people from this conversation? Because that’s the most controversial part and people don’t generally care if the younger adult is established in some ways and has a bit of life experience. It’s funny you justify the case of an older woman as a ‘practical concern’ just to fit your narrative. There is also some moral judgement going on since a 35 yo divorced woman (+/- kids in this equation) is condemned to a life of cats and boxed wine by a big chunk of our soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:43 PM
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Nah, it’s rare and also judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:33 PM
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And do you think it has never happened in the history of dating for a man to be told that he shouldn’t be with an older woman because of fertility/family plans/getting to play the field and so on? Also I looked at comments sections were age gaps are debated. It’s mostly teenagers that think it’s icky and that’s sort of natural if you think they don’t have the actual life experience to see how these things work. Liberals/progressives get the ick when the age gap involves a woman or man that’s too…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:18 PM
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Firstly society shames women exploring their sexuality more than it does men, that’s why we have saying anout locks and keys and stupid analogies about cars and owners. Secondly people side eye couples were the woman is the older one more heavily than they do when the man is older. Just because there is some discourse online about men dating younger women (which a category of men started because of the shit they say online for everyone else to see) doesn’t mean the pradigm changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:05 PM
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society cares much more about the first scenario than the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:56 PM
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we already have the madonna-whore complex, someone should come up with a name for the same phenomenon that concerns men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:23 PM
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The average gap is 2.5 years in a couple. Also good women have a lot of options and don’t have to settle for damaged or inexperienced men. They can get much better than the 30 yo that was a pussy repellent up to that point. Also the majority of men stop caring how promiscous a woman was or is if she’s hot enough. I don’t need to hear the standard speech, I’ve seen it enough times around me and people that are highly sociosexual end up with eachother usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:11 PM
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Have you actually talked with sex workers or you are just pulling stuff out your ass? Because a good portion does that willingly. Amd they don’t give a shit if they lose dignity in the eyes of purists btw, so that’s a moot point. Any shitti job means you’re temporary selling yourself into slavery but I don’t see people like you advocating for ending retail jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:47 PM
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Except sex work is a transaction between two consenting individuals. Try coming up with an actual counter example next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:40 PM
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I already did toots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:37 PM
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Your claim is that people normalise something that has existed literally since the beginning of humanity? what a great point dude, you’re really good at reading between those lines
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:35 PM
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give him a break, he’s been trying for an hour to prove a non-existent point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:31 PM
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the dumbest argument y’all have is that people don’t care when 18 yo do porn. they do, that’s why people talk about not starting onlyfans or entering in contracts with porn production companies at such a young age. the joke is creating imaginary scenarios and then getting mad at them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:27 PM
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dementia might play a part in that shift of narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:17 PM
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The default is shared custody if the dad actually makes a minimum effort, alimony is paid only if you get a spouse that doesn’t work, child support is paid in the interest of the kids and prenups protect half of my wealth. So yeah I would get married. But I also have enough self awareness to realise people don’t divorce out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:47 PM
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You act like women are either untouched or baby mommas to drug dealers. Wake up to reality, good women don’t want the damaged goods and frustrated dudes that missed out on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:42 AM
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The good girls I’ve seen in that situation have some really strict upbringing. Very sheltered and parents that never let them experience life at the same pace their peers did. So once they are on their own they unfortunately end up in situations like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:12 AM
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I could give you an uncharitable response since the two examples you used are also uncharitable and borderline caricatures. How are you gonna get an untouched female, snoop around highschool gates? Creep on college campuses? Because all the girls and young women there are for sure waiting for some socially inexperienced 30yo man that’s jaded and bitter because he never prioritised forming relationships. As I said in another comment, what a sensational catch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:10 AM
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Plenty of dudes in their 20s date, have relationships and even marry. If he didn’t have enough social calibration to get one in his 20s that’s just his problem and he should stop throwing judgements at other people. He should look at his own baggage first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:18 AM
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So the guy that ‘worked’ in his 20s doesn’t have baggage? Why didn’t he also give the healthiest and most energetic years of his life to a woman? What a score to get some guy that spent 10 years alone and is bitter and built a lot of frustration due to that! Also who starts to ‘fade’ in their 30s? Not even white people do that if they use spf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:36 AM
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Depends to which degree people are flawed. The post specifically refers to people that are more fucked up than the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:11 AM
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When I read comments like yours I really wonder if y’all are seriously thinking like this. bEsT yEarS lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:09 AM
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The majority of the ‘pure girl/bad guy’ stories I see here come from people that tell highschool stories about their crushes getting with jocks or dudes that had more confidence to approach women. I even went trough something like this. I wouldn’t use teenagers to make a point that women like bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:09 PM
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Do the people that ask these questions or believe women like bAd gUyS ever look at what type of women like them? Because in my experience individuals with questionable morals are a match for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:42 PM
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that’s not the issue. i’ve had some pretty insightful talks with close friends that happen to be into this, they just life variety
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:26 PM
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people can be multi dimensional and enjoy different things in different circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:38 PM
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He was talking about some data OkCupid released about men getting the most responses in their 50s. He didn’t mention the responses were from women around their age. That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:19 PM
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And if you look at who desires men in their 50s the answer will be women close to his age, not 18 yo. This happens when you just take graphs from OLD services but don’t interpret them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:27 AM
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I understand your point about not liking hypocritical people. But wanting a man to signal his interest doesn’t mean a woman won’t reciprocate or that he has to be the only one doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:24 AM
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And you can chose to not date that woman instead of coming up with theories on how her preferences are contradictory to being strong and independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:44 AM
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Basically this. Pursuing someone means you are going to signal you are interested in them in some ways. What the people that rant against this don’t realise it’s that this is not necessarly some feminine/masculine battle, it’s just two people showing they are into eachother. I just made some banana bread for the guy I’m seeing because he told me he liked it, by their logic I just stopped being a ‘strong, independent woman’ because of that and performed some gendered act or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:27 AM
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if he gets convicted his message will always be associated with a human trafficker so if i were you or a fan of his i’d be really pissed he fumbled it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:14 AM
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how are these girls gonna film you that fast tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:08 AM
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you’re the only one triggered here fam. your anecdote implies something, of course people will comment on that in a debate forum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:21 PM
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i was also talking about women IRL. it’s not my problem the truth might sting sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:32 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of men being hyped up around me, but I know on ppd all positive examples are denied or ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:38 PM
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Your problem if your friends don’t hype you up. Don’t know what armies you’re refering to since not every woman is an ig model.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:14 PM
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The reality is that blue pill is whatever a red piller doesn’t like. There’s no defined blue pill so it’s easy to come up with whatever suits your arguent and say ‘checkmate’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:59 AM
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The company doesn’t care about me but I have a lot of professional relationships that have turned into solid friendships. So at the end of the day my social circle greatly benefited from having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:22 PM
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I doubt it’s that great if you come up with takes like these
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:22 PM
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I really wonder if people that make arguments like yours ever experienced a day where they felt damn good about themselves. That’s the majority of bikini pics you see on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:22 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:18 PM
2

no it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:04 PM
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You said it yourself dude was in Korea because he is a model, not your typical jaded american man. And Korea has the lowest birthrate in the world-there’s a lot of gender animosity going on because of feminism even the president got involved. So I don’t really think your example fits the passport bro in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:14 PM
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How does that prove he ‘fleed the west’ and they didn’t just organically meet? Also feminisn is common in South Korea so no proof she isn’t very close to what a western woman acts and thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:31 PM
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the thing is that the kind of makeup you see in videos is noticeable in real life. you see the texture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:10 PM
5

There are other treatments besides pills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:37 PM
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acne can be treated, why are you being so dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:30 PM
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How do you know that guy fleed from the west because he didn’t like western women? Or that he is some type of passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:18 PM
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so if this dude gets convicted it’s also gonna be propaganda for you? i find it amazing how people like you don’t have even an ounce of skepticism against a man that admitted some very questionable stuff ON HIS OWN.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:28 AM
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Women also get banned, I know I did for something that was a personal attack I guess. I’d argue there are users that post only about how women are whores (or western women). But I don’t think we’re gonna see eye to eye too soon on this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:27 AM
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you can’t google on your own what those 3 charges are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:15 AM
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what’s the difference between microdosechamp and all the guys here that talk like women have only negative traits? or the guys that say all western women are fat and masculine and men should be passport bros? or that all women are gonna divorce rape you once they sense a chad is around? as i said, for one microdosechamp i find 5 guys woth reverse talking points that overdosed on freshnfit edit: also my fav is abaxeron which has been around here for years probably and is still as delusional as ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:09 AM
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the matrix=accountability for illegal actions apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:05 AM
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And there aren’t even more petty, passive aggressive red pill comments that are extremely quickly to make things personal but aren’t unhinged enough to outright be banned? It’s not possible for your scenario to be real since the number of active members don’t support that. Lilith basically has two talking points and they’re just uncomfortable for men to hear, that’s all. If she’s toxic for being repetitive I guess the bar is really that low for what qualifies as ‘manhating’ for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:00 AM
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Be for real, as I said the ratio of women here is much lower than the ratio of men. For every one woman like you describe there’s 5 comments from dudes I see that are pretty unhinged. So how it’s such a manhating space when the hating is done mostly be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:48 AM
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seems like your only definition for western is mainly white
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:48 AM
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what manhating? the sub is probably 75% men that talk about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:22 AM
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weren’t you the dude that whined feminism ruined a generation of women or whatever? and now you say ‘we should strongly consider why women don’t deserve voting rights’. funny how y’all always show your colours
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:20 AM
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how do you know these women have bfs/husbands and are not single?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:16 AM
1

The post asks about the vetting period. Taking pics/vids usually happen when there’s a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:55 AM
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maybe because he wants to be sure the porn he’s watching is ethically made and the actual creator consented to the material getting on the platform. pornhub and other porn sites had big problems with that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:26 AM
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I didn’t argue against development. But because I’m someone that’s an outlier, I can attest that it’s not as black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think it’s that confusing. I always called my aunt my second mom since she was around so much and me and my brother always saw her as having equal authority as our actual mom. The thing is that there are so many examples around you of hetero couples and families that you quickly learn they are not the ones that live a different reality, it’s actually you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:55 PM
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That kid will get plenty of chances to see displays of love derived from a sexual relationship. My dad died when I was a few months, I still saw that from my close relatives or cartoons that depict families for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:39 PM
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You two sweet summer children ended up here during purge week when people are allowed to shitpost whatever they feel like. Come back in a few days and things will be back to normal (or as normal as things can be in a place like ppd to be fair).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:04 PM
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the dude that keeps posting about fembots is going to have an aneurysm reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:27 PM
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Do you think the guys that would be the demographic for robots know what a vagina feels like? The ‘indistinguishable’ part is irrelevant. I do agree with you that anyone that can actually attract a man or woman wouldn’t get a piece of steel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:28 PM
1

Does she have any north european ancestry?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:46 PM
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there are also women in the ukranian army, make them the exception too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:09 PM
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They’re not responsible for the imaginary implications you see. I commend them for even commenting because the other comments are just headache inducing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:54 PM
0

I haven’t seen one woman say ukrainian women are less priviliged on that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:48 PM
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challenge for ppd men: stop seeing one comment made by a woman and assume that’s how all the women think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:27 PM
1

That’s true, I avoid toddler men at all costs. I still care to teach other women there’s much better men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:33 PM
7

Women with melanin also age fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:31 PM
2

happy new year ppd i wish for your new years resolutions to make it past january. i believe in you all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:20 PM
0

Yeah, it’s hard watching other women put up with that. I think it’s a mix of seeing this dynamic with your parents and thinking that man is the best that’s out there. Also in my experience age is a factor too. I think younger guys are brought up to be more independent. I’m 27 and the men I see around my age generally don’t act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:17 PM
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That’s why the trick is to get a man that wasn’t raised by his mom to be absent in the household. I didn’t have this problem because the two exes I lived with viewed cooking/cleaning/managing bills and expenses/fixing stuff as basic activities you do as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:02 PM
1

Yes. My problem is the hipocrisy, not porn per se
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:58 AM
1

Let’s not forget men will bring any tired excuse to avoid pulling their weight in a house they also live
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:58 AM
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Tinder or dating apps are an assymetrical ground to begin with since it’s roughly 1/3 women and 2/3 men. So the numbers aren’t that surprising when you actually think about the ratio of men and women that use OLD. I don’t understand why men want to downplay how important safety is for some women in dating. Thers some of us that had really shitty experiences but they still want to keep on meeting men and giving them chances. So taking precautions (which if we’re being fair, is more common among w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:39 PM
5

you don’t get it, you approaching her was the best part of her day. rejecting you and then starting to walk faster was maybe the highlight of her week. keep going king
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:23 PM
2

what have you tried so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:03 PM
2

or maybe her situation is very specific and you’re downplaying her problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:01 PM
2

congrats on reaching a ppd milestone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:52 PM
2

don’t cut your hair. it will seem like a good idea and you’ll be happy for 10 minutes until you see how good people with longer hair look and you’re gonna agressively google how to grow yours back in 2 months with tricks from an asian lady from youtube jk, go for it if you’re the type that likes to experiment with your look
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:19 PM
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You think men don’t have complaints about women they have relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:15 PM
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Women do take precautions-sharing location while oit on a first date, taking a picture of the license plate of a date’s car, meeting in public for the first time, checking the socials of a guy and so on. These are more helpful than a video call. Also I don’t really understand why the 13 notifications are relevant. Not finding someone to connect to is stingy, especially when it seems like you have options. It’s a different type of frustration and men think they are allowed to invalidate it. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:13 PM
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They also marry them. I’m not saying there is a universal standard of beauty, there are multiple. The IG baddie is undeniably one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:46 PM
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It’s not something they say. But it’s the kind of women a lot of men entertain and throw stupid amounts of money at. Watch what they do, not what they (don’t) say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:42 PM
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The conclusion is still dumb. Women are free to chose if they want a relationship that relies more on traditional gender roles or one that breaks free from that. No one is stopping men from doing the same. So choose the women that would suit your needs and preferences, it’s not rocket science. edit: also lets not forget how men love to bitch about career women and how entitled they are. and then they cry about alimony or being expected to be the provider or paying on dates and so on. so men seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:26 PM
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Sure, except you didn’t expose anyone for capping about what they wrote in the comments. You feel that’s what their doing and that’s a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:18 PM
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that’s a dumb conclusion. equality means there is an equality of opportunity. just because you find a man that wants a more traditional relationship doesn’t mean you turned off the equality jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:11 PM
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how does it relate to what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:06 PM
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I thought women agreed we’re free to choose what’s best for us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:54 PM
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the feminine/masculine energy is just the rebranding of traditional gender roles on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:50 PM
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I don’t tolerate disrespect. That can take many shapes but to give you one example that will be relevant to our background since I’m mixed, I don’t let men bully me or act in a hypermasculine or thug way. Helps me have a pretty peaceful dating life so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:52 PM
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Even you said it yourself you acted after observing the dynamics surrounding you. That’s literally what I’m saying-everyone looks at their enviornment and draws their own conclusions. It’s really pathetic to expect your opposite gender parent to do that. I think you’re misunderstanding me on what I mean when I say parents teach you common decency. They teach you how to be a decent person in society so you fit in with the other people. What’s below the surface level is yours to figure out because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:43 PM
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it’s alpha as fuck to have beef with an 18 yo autistic girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah for god’s sake, that’s something you have to figure out on your own. Your parents teach you how to treat other people with basic respect, they’re not responsible to teach you how to text tinder matches or interact with your crushes. There’s a generational gap first of all, what worked for them might not work for you. And there is also a difference in personal taste, since your mom can’t know what kind of girls you like. I don’t fault my father for not teaching me how to interact with men ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:11 PM
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i have his lil song stuck in my head ever since i heard it, i love richarlison
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:03 PM
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I didn’t sort it by themselves, I just think it’s pointless to discuss it even further. You obviously know why the data from 1965 is going to skew the results one way, I think you deliberately chose that range of reference to have results that suit your narrative. The other option would have been you being oblivious to a mistake like that, which I’m fairly sure you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:05 PM
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You know, the word ‘slavery’ isn’t even mentioned in the video and that woman talks about the current dynamics in a heterosexual marriage. Also you keep bringing Simone up, she had some good ideas that were applicable for the times she lived in and she was also punished for the morally wrong things she did. Appeal to the ideas, not the person. Because plenty of non-pedophiles agreed with her, how are you going to refute them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:51 PM
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Mostly to talk about dating from my perspective. Have some fun in the daily chat too. Exposing would mean you bring some proof to the table, not automatically throw buzz words around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:44 PM
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i’ve never seen this question asked before, congrats for being totally original
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:42 PM
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Gatekeep what? I don’t understand why you’re here since you obviously think women gather here to gaslight. It was a simple question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:38 PM
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they’re cheaper and addictive! bubble wraps for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:37 PM
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1965*. Doesn’t help the major flaw you don’t address about your graph. Not weird at all you started bringing up pedophiles. Those hormone levels are crazy if that’s the only analogy you can make when someone tries to have a civilised discussion with you about someone presenting a point in a civilised video.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:36 PM
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that exaplains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:30 PM
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It’s really apathy, saying the men that are arrogant or dismissive of you do that because they follow thinking patterns they don’t want to break is not misandric. Which is different from simply asauming he’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:29 PM
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i admire women for the cool stuff i see them doing everyday, they’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:27 PM
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I’ll check my grammar and try do be better at typing on my phone. Also yeah, I checked your little graphs. Looked at the 1956 and found the major flaw with it. Great job on choosing the colours tho. I actually watched the video and she doesn’t blame all men of being toddler husbands. She actually gives actionable advice on how not to end with one. I would highly suggest you do so before just throwing shit around and when your hysteria hormones are a bit lower than now, you might grow to apprecia…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:16 PM
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what’s poppin ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah, for six more hours everyday eyeroll. Maybe a man will actually take a mental break from his work if he lands a helping hand to his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:54 PM
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I didn’t say it’s against this sub rules. I just said you are sour because of it and you proved me once again since you think a woman talking about toddler husbands should check her hysteria hormones checked. You know, with aging there’s a lot of knowledge you gain. I deffinetly look to the advice of someone that actually had time to experience relationships and think about what worked and what didn’t work. Congrats on not being a toddler husband I guess. The rest of your comment is concerning t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:52 PM
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how is ‘aging’ support to be a refutation to her claims? also you don’t seem to be the target audience, maybe that’s why you’re so sour
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:26 PM
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Complaining that women also work and are expected to do daily chores around the house? Also if you believe in your typical couple where both partners works a man works SIX MORE HOURS EVERYDAY you gotta be fucking joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:24 PM
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I’m sure no one can find rational explanations like antidepressants or mental health services never being as available as they are now. Guess who has less stigma about adressing their mental health? Guess which gender actually goes to the doctor if they have a physical or mental problem? Women obviously. It must be some wild theory about women being very unhappy because the past was obviously so much better. Also if a woman is not happy all the time (guess what, life happens and there are relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:08 PM
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a world in which people use synonyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:58 PM
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It’s dumb to think just because she said no means she has the energy to actually perform the whole task. Jesus you act like you’ve never seen a hangover or alcohol sick person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:48 PM
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As I said, let her feel better so she can actually have energy to clean the mess. How do you claim to live in the adult world and lack basic logic like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:43 PM
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I live in the adult world, that’s how I know people like you should be avoided at all costs. If someone throws up after too much alcohol you let them rest, they’re obviously dehydrated. If you want to enforce consequences/accountability while they are in that state is because you’re hungry for a power trip
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:35 PM
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Yeah, it’s ridiculous to kick out a drunk human. Stop excusing shit behaviour. You can hold them accountable after they feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:26 PM
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Do you actually think someone that throws up because they’re so drunk is really capable of cleaning that mess? Ridiculous claim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:17 PM
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I don’t let degenerate behaviour to fly with the men in my life. I think that’s how persistent change starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:13 PM
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He is not getting shat on, he got a wake up call. Plenty of realistic perspectives here, the thing is that some truths are not the most pleasant to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:07 PM
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can’t really believe there are people that actually believe this, sounds like a creepypasta made by an angsty 17 yo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:52 PM
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disagree, i see average dudes having girlfriends daily and they are looks matched. so they didn’t even have to lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:40 PM
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I really try not to let these comments get to me since I know these spaces are full of weirdos and I willingly come here. But sometimes the stupidity of some claims is too high not to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:20 PM
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serious question-why does someone like you even hang around here? you already know what women will do and can read the intentions of strangers trough a screen, it seems pointless to waste your time here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:56 AM
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Yes. I can’t stand men that consume porn and bitch about sex workers or don’t have basic respect for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:38 AM
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Or maybe they just see the kind of content men make about women. That’s the explanation for any kind of ‘hatred’ towards men in 99% of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:33 AM
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How do you know she doesn’t understand the hate towards women? Also what she said isn’t really hate towards men, it’s just apathy. Which I fully understand since she clearly mentioned she does that when a man is arrogant or dismissive towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:31 AM
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Maybe my son will be bright enough to realise the generation gap means his mom never used tinder to date or have an instagram. And that the ‘garbage’ advice is common decency and decorum parents teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:55 AM
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5 idiots make an association and we should start panicking about it? also the majority of fat chicks i know don’t care if you call them fat, they’re pretty proud about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:36 AM
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Height: i’m 5’4, be taller than that income: stable. I make around 80K a year so I’d like someone that keeps up with my kind of lifestyle. race: i don’t really have a preference. my most succesful relationship was someone that had a very different background from mine. as long as our views align you’re good body type: not fat or overweight. house: i already have my own house so i don’t care if he’s a homeowner or not kids: i have some health problems that make pregnancy dangerous and there’s a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:32 AM
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Whenever I read shit like this I wonder if having a son would be worth it. Since you try and do your best for him but he’ll end up years later on an internet forum moaning that you didn’t give him the tutorial on how to be a fuckboy. That’s stuff everyone figures out by themselves once they interact with the gender they are attracted to. Stop blaming your dating shortcoming on your mothers, nothing more weak or insecure than shifting blame or putting these imaginary expectations on the shoulders…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:05 AM
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You made a different claim in yoir original comment. Still, the women that are most attractive in the west would ditch you or any other dude in a minute if some of the biggest kstars winked in their direction. Be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:43 PM
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sure, it’s soooo hard to find women that are into talented handsome famous dudes. the billions they generate are as fictional as the majority of women you claim laughs at the idea kdudes are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:12 AM
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cool story i guess but i only watch what men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:49 AM
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or we just know from experience men will talk a big game but drop the rules if you are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:44 PM
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