FormingStar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Rejection due to a lack of attraction cannot be negotiated or renegotiated even if you become a high-value male	Fundamentals	FormingStar	/r/seduction	31/12/21 10:53 AM

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9	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. I have been with a friend who picked up two women in the middle of the road while we were both driving. He had a flower in this car so he offered it and the women agreed to pull up and exchange numbers. His trick: he was confident, clear with his message (no sign of hesitation or mumbling) and made the approach somehow funny.	/r/seduction	24/08/25 10:59 AM
5	This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniable Later on, these middle-age women will tell you that beauty is beauty regardless of age. What these women don't understand is that no matter how hard you they try to coerce and brainwash men into thinking that having a vagina is enough, deep down men still prefer a young, fertile, beautiful wife/girlfriend with no emotional baggage that a they can build a family with. As men, we should look at these women intent (in a meta way) rather than listening/reading to what they say in a literal sense. Th…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/23 02:30 PM
3	The breakup gambit Besides learning whatever you can learn from the breakup without overthinking it, another way to interpret breakup, which for me relives some of the pain, is to think of it this way: if my ex-girlfriend was high-value and I managed to convince her to stay with me for a while then I must be valuable enough for other women as well and I won't have any issues finding a better one. This is basically the opposite mindset of thinking she broke up with me then I must be not good.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/22 07:21 AM
2	Here’s How To Tweak Your Personal Image To Get What You Want Out Of Life That's sort of my general feeling as well, thanks for sharing your answer. Of course with distance family members, you kinda brush aside their remarks or sometimes agree and amplify, but the more they do, the more you distance yourself from them or at least make it clear privately that casting negative remarks onto you is not appreciated.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/22 06:20 PM
3	Here’s How To Tweak Your Personal Image To Get What You Want Out Of Life Any advice for handling people who are unable to accept the new persona of you because they used to know you from before, like close family members or friends?	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/22 09:58 AM
2	The Importance of Frame This exact thing happened to me recently. Creating a safe environment for her to discuss anything is what led my now ex-girlfriend open up about not being virgin (we are both middle-eastern). Fast forward a month later (at that time, I was not at my home country) we had the best sex ever continually at my own whim and convenience. A month later, I discovered that I was her rebound. Her ex fiancé reached out to her recently asking for a chance to give their relationship a second chance, and it tu…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/22 11:03 AM
2	The Importance of Frame Can you give some concrete examples about "Make her feel like she is in a romance novel"? I think this is a very nuanced spectrum where on one side your girl might be thinking that you're doing too much for her (blue-pilled ) and on the other side the fantasies are too extreme and not fun.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/22 06:35 AM
1	Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all ! One way I found to ease the pressure when approaching, is asking women at the gym to film me with my phone while I do a certain exercise, for example "hey, how are you doing? Would you mind if I ask you for a favor: could you please film me while I do an exercise?" and not a single woman said no, if the women is cute and I notice IOIs, I come back later and ask her for her number.	/r/seduction	14/04/22 09:22 PM
2	What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going? Hip hop dancing: it is an easy way for socializing if you don't like to hangout in bars or clubs and it teaches you how to be more confident.	/r/seduction	25/03/22 06:09 AM
7	Why Am I Getting Shit Tested? To some extent, I do agree with this post, but when there is competition and a woman has options in the queue, then shit tests are a quick way for her to evaluate you as a potential partner. If you're a high value male and it clearly shows, then no woman will risk shit-testing you because she definitely knows that you can easily attract other women.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/22 06:22 AM
0	The Best Dating Advice I've Ever Received Also lower your standards a little bit, generally woman date up while men date down. If you're at the same level in the scale of attractiveness, then she most likely thinks that she deserves better. This is how it is currently.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 07:02 AM
7	Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelity If you want to get any answers from a woman, do no ask her, just watch her behaviour and let her be as comfortable as she could be around you, in due time she will jokingly spill everything.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/22 06:45 AM
1	Ghosting is a bitch move In a world where people behave like adults and have mature conversations, confront and solve their problems whenever they arise, yes ghosting would seem like such a silly thing to do and would be a big red flag, since that reveals the level of investment your SO has put into the relationship which is very low. But in today's world, where women's ego are ballooning, why would I waste my time on someone who is not willing to reciprocate the level of energy I'm putting into them?	/r/seduction	09/02/22 07:08 AM
1	I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change. Women want what they can't find have. It's a repeating cycle for them. If they know they have locked-in a man they liked, they lose that thrill of chasing. So whether you are in relationship or not, you need to put yourself first and be selfish, ALWAYS. She will notice that your life is not revolving around her and your purpose is much bigger than having a gf/wife and start chasing you, assuming there is a bit of attraction in the first place. Good luck buddy!	/r/seduction	03/02/22 07:48 AM
1	The Marriage Manifesto: How To Keep The Power In LTRs and Marriage Solid advice, but it is only effective when you're truly an alpha and your body language signals abundance mindset 100% of the time. Or maybe when your partner is average, otherwise I'm quite convinced that most females nowadays believe they can get a better man, especially when their friends and family reinforce that idea of "you deserve better". Personally I'm quite apt at ignoring or handling shit tests and escalating when necessary but the hardest part for me is when she refuses to comply or…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/22 07:53 AM
3	Learning to run through Hell I just want to emphasize one point before someone generalizes that all women are like OP's wife: the OP's story describes what would happen if you surrender your power and life to a woman, so don't ever do it. The shifting of power in favor of men is one of the core principles of TRP, but what OP did in the beginning of his relationship is exactly the opposite of that. This is the lesson to be remembered from his story.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/22 06:54 AM
3	On fanboism, destroying your idols and growing out of the fanboi into a man I remember this sentence that I read in the Red Pill Handbook that every man on his journey to become better should seek to eventually become his own mentor and no longer needing RP advice. That will be your indicator that you successfully transitioned away from your blue-pilled mindset.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/22 07:45 AM
4	Rejection due to a lack of attraction cannot be negotiated or renegotiated even if you become a high-value male This is a brilliant comment however for your approach to work, you need to remove that woman from your mind completely, like if you post a story/picture, it shouldn't be done with the aim to impress her or get her attention. Just have fun, demonstrate value, show some social proof and eventually she might come back, but again she shouldn't be your goal. Your goal is to level up and get better women.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 02:22 PM