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FormulaFriday/r/askMRP19/11/22 04:44 PM
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FormulaFriday/r/askMRP17/02/18 03:40 PM
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FormulaFriday/r/askMRP18/11/22 06:18 AM
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Thank you. Solid post.
/r/RPChristians19/09/24 12:58 AM
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This entire deal is 100% my fault. She was never into me. Imagine you are into sailing, it’s your big hobby that you like so much that you need to manage it from being a distraction at work. You meet a cool, smart chick when you are sailing, who is also so much into sailing that she even just bought her own boat, despite that fact that she has no clue about owning a boat. You go sailing together and it’s fun. You are a young professional, smart and have solid start in a good technical career. Yo…
/r/askMRP22/11/22 05:46 PM
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“It's not "her oak" it's "an oak" and there is a huge difference between the two.” Please elaborate
/r/askMRP22/11/22 05:12 PM
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Lack of confidence has been a struggle my entire life. Any point-outs to good material on that issue is appreciated. If it’s in the sidebar, I missed it. Been doing some of the techniques in Maltz’s Psychocybernetics, but progress is slow
/r/askMRP22/11/22 04:43 PM
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This guy is one of those nuts who talks about himself in the 3d person
/r/askMRP22/11/22 04:40 PM
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You had trouble paying attention in school, retard? ap·pre·hen·sion /ˌaprəˈhenSHən/ noun 1. anxiety or fear that something bad or unpleasant will happen. "he felt sick with apprehension"
/r/askMRP22/11/22 05:54 AM
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I would tell the OP that the smart move, and the honorable move , would be to go have his fun, but keep his dick in his pants so he can have a clear conscience, and not be distracted by strange, because he needs to be her oak during the Main Event that might come at any time. There will be more clarity after.
/r/askMRP21/11/22 12:03 AM
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Indubious, that is an awesome post, thank you. It is synergistic with what is happening in my life right now. Things really started happening when I decided to stop living a lie. I faced up to some hard shit with my family, but got to feel what is like not to be hiding anything or lying to anyone. I want to be a man that does not live a lie or to be ashamed of myself, and hopefully my actions. Totally genuine. It feels awesome to not have any lies hanging over me with the people I care about. I …
/r/askMRP20/11/22 11:56 PM
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Tell me something new.
/r/askMRP20/11/22 11:22 PM
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I would really like to understand that why. Health issue was the knockout punch, but that is a pussy excuse when I see johneyapocalypse https://www.reddit.com/user/johneyapocalypse/
/r/askMRP20/11/22 11:01 PM
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Good assessment. One problem I am having is that I have gone out on the town a few times recently, without her. I learned you can have a awful lot of fun flirting with women, as an older guy who is in good shape. It's a nice niche with little competition. Dealing with "her" after being around women that treat me well, looks different now.
/r/askMRP19/11/22 06:24 PM
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Nobody wants to read the same story we have heard from all the other retards, but you asked for it, suffer now. I married a bitchy woman while suffering with a heavy case of terminal Oneitis, we all know the story. I got fat, and played beta nice guy game thinking that was the cheat code to life. Found MRP after my teenage son asked about girls, and I went searching since I wanted better for him. MRP shook my world to the foundation. Anger phase was my fuel, especially in the gym. The wife, afte…
/r/askMRP19/11/22 05:41 PM
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Good point, I was actually thinking about after action reports only, to prevent the retard from trying to use the internet as a magic 8 ball
/r/askMRP19/11/22 05:38 PM
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how come I can't count cards at the casino?
/r/askMRP19/11/22 05:37 PM
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Edited: To be clear, I have no interest in putting my dick in my woman after another guy has been there. The only way this would work, would be one sided. Knowing the tough bitch my wife is, that is unlikely. Thanks for the feedback. I now see this is really about if I step out or not. I am starting a new thread with a new title if you guys was to follow.
/r/askMRP19/11/22 03:14 PM
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And if a man is aware enough to even ask that question of himself , he might be headed in a better direction.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 03:01 PM
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You are going to be taken for granted by people. Train yourself to be ok with that fact. It will help expose the little covert contacts we fall into. If you do things for your family, and expect gratitude, that’s a covert contact. Do shit because you want to, or because taking the action is the result of a choice you made, and own it. Validation is nice, but she is an elusive bitch not worth chasing.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 12:25 PM
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“Share your problems and anguish at shit in your life but first ask her about her day and wait for her to ask. It's okay to initiate opening up on special circumstances but if you just routinely spew out every thought, it's going to make you look like a sissy because no one wants someone else's psychological sewage at the end of every day” No. Don’t share your real problems with your woman. Do not lean on her for emotional support. She wants to fuck a man that is stronger than her. Sure, you can…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 02:22 PM
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What I have learned is for the marriage to "work", you need to always be the strong man and the leader. If you become a fat but reliable, bring home the paycheck guy, a "good" girl may stay with you because you are her best pragmatic option she "loves" you, but the sex life dies a slow, lingering death. If you get to MRP, lift and get lean, things get better, but the smallest slip back the old supplicating beta ways will be met with the utmost contempt. Better to never get married unless you are…
/r/askMRP03/10/18 01:23 AM
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Do what you want to do for yourself, or don't. Do NOT engage in an argument with your wife or discuss why you think it is "reasonable". Read the sidebar material to understand why.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 12:26 PM
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Good writing son, I'll read your next one.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 01:43 AM
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8/10/18 First OYS Background 47, married 15 years, Wife 53, One 13 year old son. 6 months into MRP, lifting free weights 6x/week, low carb, starting Weight 225lbs, current weight 187, ~14% BF, still cutting. I do a lot with dumbells, the bar is hard on my shoulders (old injuries). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, Rational Male, GSM, Pook, WOTSM, Manipulated man, 48 Laws (started), BPP’s book and podcasts, Daily Stoics. I read Red Pill material every day, tons of old posts on RP and MRP. Started …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/18 08:58 AM
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FR: first "no" Wife has an annoying habit of leaving empty food bowls in the bedroom as she runs out the door for her day. I hate dirty dishes, so I typically just take them down to the kitchen myself. She left a breakfast bowl again, I decided not to take care of it. This was a Thursday. Friday, Sat, Sunday morning, bowl is still there. Sunday morning I bring her some food and tell her "I am placing it next to this bacteria culture you have growing here", and put next to the old dish. She says …
/r/askMRP16/03/18 01:24 PM
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For a noob 6 weeks in, this post is exactly what someone like me needs read and re-read. In spite of working the MRP MAP like my life depends on it, and actually seeing some positive progress, I still fall into old patterns every day. I need to hear this is a long road so STFU and keep pulling.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 12:50 PM
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Good stuff. I have started making light fun of her requests when I get inspired, and it works for me, much better than getting pissed. Also, I had stopped gaming her, because it was unwelcome. Wife basically told me not to hit on her some years ago, she would "let me know when she felt like sex". It it obvious to me now how pathetic that is. I just started doing little bit of "kino", starting small and spread out, as too much too soon feels fake and I mostly get a "stone statue" response.
/r/askMRP07/03/18 11:03 AM
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Thanks for the great reply. A month in MRP now, thought I had passed most of the anger, but a 2nd, bigger wave is hitting now, strong. I am working out with freeweights 6 days a week and have lost 11 pounds, 25 more to go to get my abs back. Reading NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TRM. The anger is horrible and exhausting, but at the same time, feeling rage and pumping iron make for an awesome set. The more I learn about RP, the clearer it is how I fucked this relationship up from day 1. I was clueless a…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 10:53 AM
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Thank for all the great replies. I may be over thinking this, but this is life or death. I am not afraid of her denying sex, she already has. Yes, I spent way too much of my life being a pussy, thinking that being a "nice guy" would get me what I want. I had actively worked to suppress the alpha in me. During the drive home from work three days in to MRP, I screamed at the top of my lungs in anger at God for allowing me to live a lie for so much of my life and only now finding the truth. I activ…
/r/askMRP18/02/18 03:51 AM
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