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| 1 | Is it a green flag if a girl doesn’t get on her phone and pays for her Uber to a date?I mean, I don’t think if getting on the phone as a red flag. But I do think that her taking an Uber there is a green flag. I think her not getting on her phone says more about her interest in you than it says whether or not she’s a great person. You were enough to keep her interested in the moment. That’s great! But if you weren’t or she’s permanently attached to her phone that day for work or something, then I wouldn’t say that that’s a red flag either. Mb a neutral flag. I’d say that it’s a gr… | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the reason woman reject youNah, lots of short men have plenty of Rizz. Look at Danny Devito. Sure, he’s got money, but that’s never what women love about him. He’s charming, funny, sensitive, etc. Focus on the things you can fix, money & kindness, & Rizz. The rest, leave the women who demand a 6’5” guy alone, they aren’t worth anyone’s time…let alone yours. A lot of those women cave on the height thing. Also, you can work on the money thing, but it’s not a deal breaker usually unless you aren’t even getting by. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Just met a championIt has nothing to do with being woke, I’ve hated lying pretty much my whole life. If the guy is actually gay and just sleeping with women as an exception, then that’s no big deal. But if, as ppl have posited, he’s a lying liar…then he’s a piece of dirt. If someone lied to me to get in my pants, then I absolutely would be mad about it and feel used. I’d feel that I’d slept with that person under a false pretense about their very being. Now, I don’t know about what’s happening in this specific cas… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Just met a championSure it is, just not being a dirt bag. & it is not a white lie to a) make women think that gay men aren’t so gay. & B) feel safe around you. & C) to reiterate, it’s not a white lie. It’s a lie to benefit yourself at the expense of trust and truth. I’ve seduced a few people & been seduced in turn, & at no point did any of us need to lie. White lie or otherwise. This guy needs to step up his game if he’s relying on a crutch like that. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:02 PM |
| 3 | I naturally dont have intetest intl girls. What to do to develop attractionYou could be Ace, you could just be at an age where that hasn’t happened for you yet, you could be gay, you could be demi-sexual. You could just be nervous. You are you, and that’s good enough. Don’t pressure yourself to do anything. Be yourself. Like what and who you like. You can be the old guy with model trains and lots of cars if you want. It’s YOUR life! No one else’s. Find a way to live it in a manner that you find fulfilling that doesn’t harm anyone. Also, how old are you? | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 10:46 PM |
| -9 | Just met a championIt’s morally wrong tho. If ur bi, then just say that. If ur actually straight, then lying is awful. I don’t like this in either case. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?Definitely don’t go grabbing their arms. Especially if they’re grinding. Let em do their thing & if they look back, then you can offer a hand. Let them put it where they want or not at all. After the set, or during a quiet moment, compliment their outfit or dancing, unless you have no positive feelings about those, no need to ever lie. Also, what is your goal? If it’s just to get laid, then does the few points on a subjective scale make a difference? If ur looking for more, then I can’t imagine … | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?Not at all true. You’re dismissing the very concept of love ❤️ n exchange for a cynical world view that devalues the emotional content of a person’s life. All this talk about value as though the number of 🐔 in a 🐱 means anything all. It doesn’t. I’ve dated women at both ends of the spectrum & neither was incapable of forming a meaningful loving relationship. Which, along with shared interests, goals, etc is what Actually Matters! All this body count stuff is insane. If you both have high body co… | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached?Plenty of fairly “masc” women are plenty hot. “Death by Snu Snu!” & all that. 💪💋☠️ | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S.Yes. Femininity is not a factor for me at all except insomuch as it can carry with it positive traits that anyone, male or female, could have. I enjoy competence, bravery, intelligence, kindness, tact, empathy, etc in anyone I meet. Idgaf if those traits are feminine or masculine. Personally, I like a woman who has some stereotypical masculine traits sometimes too, such as assertiveness, strength, speed, etc as well. I’d generally file those things under competence & bravery though. Idc abt gend… | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S.Wanting to date the “most feminine woman you can” is also a loser attitude. | /r/seduction | 17/01/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | This shit is so addictiveI get that you like it, & that’s fine I guess, but I don’t think it compares to the positive feeling you will hopefully one day get from falling in love. Like, when you care enough for someone that their looks stop mattering it’s kind of a big deal. My partner could take on pretty much any form & id still be into em bc it’s their mind I care abt. If you never have that, then that’s fine, but I promise it’s better than chasing something that you don’t want. I never took it that far, but at the ag… | /r/seduction | 24/10/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Question about this girl I slept with and am intoIt may just be that Monday-Fri doesn’t usually work for her for dates. I would suggest something casual & completely non-sexual in an environment with lots of foot traffic. I would suggest a specific time & place but also in the same message suggest that those can be moved depending on her schedule. Even if she’d been just using you for sex, then she’d mb want that again eventually. I doubt that is the case, but if it is, then there are plenty of worse fates. Still, I wouldn’t give up, but I als… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginPart of it might be your values, attitude, approach, or confidence. Part of the reason it was easier to speak with women after getting a girlfriend was because there were no longer any real stakes other than maybe leading them on. That’s sort of helpful. Not being confident because you are great, but rather because whether she loves you or hates you it’ll all be ok. I guess what I’m getting at is unearned confidence. You have to work for it. It doesn’t come naturally. At this point I can talk to… | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Yes. The vast majority of my relationships & hookups were friends or friends of friends. These days, you can also use Tinder for that, but it’s not necessary. I’ve had women straight up proposition me at work. Just be a good person, provide positive utility & genuine care, & the rest can come naturally. I’m not saying that other approaches can’t work, & I’m certain that this would not have worked for me if my friendships had been disingenuous or at least seemed disingenuous…but the best advice I… | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 05:56 AM |
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