| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | “Strict Parent” vs “Fun Parent” | ForsakenGround2994 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/22 05:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Custody delusion among men is strong!I fought and got 50/50. It was rough 15 years. Daughter is off to college now and the drama is over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | What shoukd be the daycare pick up policy for sick child?That’s insane. Find a new daycare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Temp Restraining order requests were denied by the judge... and the she moved back in with me.Like a boss🙌 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/23 05:42 PM |
| 2 | What to do with the children?Can you out them in sports? Will definitely occupy your weekends and then some. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 04:52 PM |
| 4 | first time with a woman after separating.Nice | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Last Alimony PaymentPut in the notes “buy yourself something nice” | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | We just bought a house and wife wants to divorce, what should I doJust rip the band aid and get it over with. It will be an expensive lesson but I’m assuming your young, so you will recover. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 9 | When to report affair to their HR?Let it go bro ,especially because you have kids. In the end, you want your ex to be successful for the sake of your children. The sooner you get over this women the better. You are divorcing, hopefully you are getting good 50/50 or good time with your children. After that, as long as kids are safe that’s all you can hope for. Your ex is going to be free to bring around whomever she wants weather that’s a Bangladesh IT guy or a couple of hard pipe hitting black guys. The sooner you get over that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Pulled The TriggerThat more stable career is going to be helpful for you when you get custody and the child support she is going to have to pay for being crazy. Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | What to look out for when hiring a lawyer?Get a lady attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How did you get past your exes new partner being around your kid or kids?Not petty but normal. Do your best to get to know him, be cordial, and pray that he is a decent role model. Unfortunately in these situations you can’t control the other party so hope she chooses a decent partner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How hard do you push for 50/50 when it’s not the default?Fight really hard. If you want to be a parent you need it in writing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/22 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Lessons LearnedI learned what a relationship shouldn’t look like. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/22 01:10 AM |
| 5 | I feel like I always get the end of the stick with parenting timeMy advice is lose the fight but win the war. That war being having 50-50 time in the first place. Sounds like she has the resources to make your life hell. When I first started my 50/50 journey 13 years ago I fought everything. Every time she didn’t bring my daughter I would report it. Cops would come take a report. I would miss work, fight about custody, and nothing would change. Then she would do it again and again and no matter how much I report it nothing changes. What lawyers don’t tell you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | 50/50 Custody and Child supportCA here. Have 50/50. Same as comments before depending on the salary difference determines child support. She was at min wage and I believe my wage was double at the time and my payments were very small. Not until my salary was triple did I get into the few hundred a month. She also started making more as well. It gets really crappy when they claim short term disability, then I think you are on the hook for more. As for what they spend it on, I just consider it gone and a fee for me making an in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 4 | TakersYeah man we all want to work it out but as soon as it’s clear things aren’t going back make sure you file and have a court order. Doings things without the court only leads to problems. Be on your best behavior or don’t text or raise your voice. Always and I mean always be cool in private and public. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 7 | How to Move OnYou are not alone. It will get easier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/22 01:37 AM |
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