| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Just did a cold approach while grocery shopping. How do I proceed going forward?Nah dog. I thought she was attractive so I shot my shot. Nothing wrong with that. Plus I’ve been making an effort to get myself out there and approach after not doing it for so long. But hey, to each their own | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why tf do I keep getting ghosted?Can you please elaborate a little more? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Are same day lays possible?All comes down to timing, luck and being attractive enough to want to fuck. It’s happened to me before but only on very rare occasions but every time was wild af. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Good job for grabbing your nuts and leaving on your terms. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it a lost cause?This is kinda where I’m at but at the same time I’m afraid if I wait too long she’s gonna forget about me and move on. I also don’t want it to turn into an awkward situation if I happen to run into her again. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t talked to this girl in four days. Is it a lost cause?So basically we have opposite days off from each other. The only time we’d be able to meet up is before she goes to work…which may work out but she’d be on a time crunch due to having to work later in the afternoon. Me personally, I like to have dates with ample amount of time to potentially have fun. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Small issue with planning first date.I mean I guess it couldn’t hurt to meet her before work but again, it feels forced and it’s on a time crunch. But I guess if she really likes me, this wouldn’t really be a problem. But I’ll take the advice and just vibe with her at work. I just don’t want to get friend-zoned. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Small issue with planning first date.I would have to agree it does come off somewhat needy. She took interest in me so we swapped numbers but it just sucks because our schedules don’t match up…I’m obviously not going to continue endlessly texting her if there’s no objective of meeting up. Should I just play it cool with her whenever I do happen to see her? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty setting date with girl I just met (due to conflicting schedules)We’ll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Difficulty setting date with girl I just met (due to conflicting schedules)Well I haven’t even set a definite date yet so we’ll see how she reciprocates. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Difficulty setting date with girl I just met (due to conflicting schedules)Yeah I was gonna say leave the ‘don’t shit where you eat’ comments to yourself but I get where you’re coming from. I work a lot, I don’t get out much, and the majority of women I meet are at work considering I work in a very large building with hundreds of departments. Anyway, I haven’t set a definite date with her just yet besides suggesting we grab a drink when we happen to be free. I’ll get in touch with her and tell her we should at least grab a coffee during the day and go from there. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate text convo with a girl I haven’t talked to in a few days?Idk. I was thinking about just sending a picture of my dog or something | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate text convo with a girl I haven’t talked to in a few days?I know. I tend to overthink stuff like this and I hate it. The problem is I just don’t know what to text her. I don’t want to send her something too boring or way out of the blue that she’s going to interpret because I’ve done both of those things. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t texted her back yet and it’s driving me nuts…Problem is it’s going to be far out (in a week or so). So I’m in a dilemma of whether to text her up until then or only talk to her when I see her and text her every now and then. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How to go about talking to this new girl I work with?That’s kinda what I want to do. Besides, I barely know this girl. She’s bad af, don’t get me wrong. Easily a HB9, close to a 10 in my eyes. But I’m trying to look past that and find out what kind of chick she is. I sure hope she’s cool but she could also be a feminist or a single mommy. So I’m trying to go into it with a state of abundance. I also just recently got over a rather short-lived oneitis episode and I do not want a repeat of that again lol. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?No. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 06:10 AM |
| 18 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?Telling her I’m uncomfortable about it is the most beta thing ever… | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Under what conditions do you cancel a date?This is a good point and something I am being more conscious of. The reality is, and this is especially true among younger girls is that women write their plans in pencil. The further out you schedule a date, the more likely she’ll choose something better or more fun over a date you proposed 3 days out or longer. This is the part that I struggle with. I hate texting and my text game isn’t tight. I stick to “texting for logistics” but again, this can go bad as well because she will get bored and … | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.What if she works that day? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.She wasn’t fake. I spoke to her face to face on FaceTime. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.I will add however that she didn’t unmatch me from tinder. But I don’t even think it’s worth the headache. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.Thanks. Just sucks cause she showed mad interest right off the bat. Those are the ones you sometimes gotta watch out for though… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.The funny thing is once I started to text less (because I was busy) is when she pulled this shit. I’m thinking it’s an immaturity/insecurity issue on her part. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.Pretty sure she blocked me my dude. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:52 AM |
| 9 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.The thing is, is that I wasn’t even having to even fight for equal investment. She clearly wanted to hang out but once I began to set definite plans, she ghosts. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I interpret this?So she’s basically confused | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I meet my crush ‘accidentally’?Stop believing is Disney fairytale bullshit. That’s a good start. Just approach her, get her number and ask her on a date. Stop playing the mental gymnastics. If you carry on with that mentality, somebody else is going to swoop her up in the same exact manner that I mentioned above and you are going to beat yourself up over it because you didn’t go in for the kill. Now go forth and execute. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Very awkward dateWas this a first date? If so, never take a girl out to a movie for a first date. No opportunity to flirt and build rapport. Escalate physically? Sure but it’s going to be awkward. The attitude alone from her would’ve made me leave. Also, if she is upset because she expected you to open the car door for her on a possible first date, you need to run away. These types of women who have high expectations this early on will try and walk all over you and if you let them, you’re fucked. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I call this girl?Maybe not validate her like that right off the bat but yeah, I get the idea. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I call this girl?I agree. Calling sets you apart from the rest of the average dudes out there imo. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I call this girl?Nah it wasn’t to be nice. I can tell when a girl is being nice and when she’s actually into me. Thanks for the input though | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I call this girl?She was probably waiting for me to ask her out lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Should I call this girl?So what would be a good example of what to send? I have built almost no rapport with this woman other than us eye-fucking each other lol. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 07:24 AM |
| 14 | Should I call this girl?Eazy peezy | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 07:16 AM |
| 11 | Should I call this girl?I like the idea of texting, however my text game isn’t that great and I feel I can make a girl more comfortable through a phone call rather than texting. Especially if she doesn’t fully know me that well which she doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Fwb left me for exHer loss. Don’t worry about her/them | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Fwb left me for exSounds like early onset oneitis. Don’t let that pussy grab you by the balls, man. Women come and go. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl goes cold after I try to set up second date.You wanna elaborate on that a little more? | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl goes cold after I try to set up second date.So basically go to the venue expecting her to show up and wait around like a loser? | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl goes cold after I try to set up second date.How did I overreact? | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl goes cold after I try to set up second date.I withdrew because she said “I’ll let you know”. I’ll let you decide what that means. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl goes cold after I try to set up second date.Read the post again | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I need good book recommendationsOn it already my friend. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I need good book recommendationsI hear ya. I just can’t focus on one book at a time and like I stated earlier, I get a variety of different information. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | I need good book recommendationsThat’s not a book. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on women who purposely (or more subtly than others) flaunt their slutty behavior?Big facts. I have no problem with a chick talking about being openly sexual. In fact that would raise my interest even more because let’s face it, we all love to fuck. However the latter is spot on and absolutely garbage. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m done with online datingThat’s just the reality unfortunately. Women will only swipe right if you are in the top 20% or so of men out there. If you are below an 8 at the most, you will get little to no matches. And if you do get a match, 9/10 you will not get a message even if you message first. Right now, I’m gonna take the next several months to a year to level-up and get my shit right and then I’ll see what kind of a difference that makes. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 0 | I’m done with online datingThanks bro | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I’m done with online datingTruth. Sometimes I catch myself blindly swiping and 80-90% of the chicks are cringy as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Should I delete a girl’s number I just got?Cause I like to hear people’s input. Sometimes I agree with it, sometimes I don’t. If I apply it and it works then I continue to apply it and vise versa. I see where you’re coming from and I’m not saying it doesn’t work and I actually do sometimes apply it. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. It seems to work wonders for you though so continue to do what you do 👍🏼 | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:48 AM |
| -1 | Should I delete a girl’s number I just got?Yep, “blew it” with somebody who wasn’t worth my time. On to the next girl who actually displays genuine burning desire. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Should I delete a girl’s number I just got?Guess it works both ways then. You have your way of approaching and I have mine. Bottom line is if a girl wants to fuck you, she’ll find a way to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Should I delete a girl’s number I just got?True, but in this day in age women will completely forget about a guy after 3 days. I at least send a text so she has my number, maybe light flirting then cut the bs and set a date. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Should I delete a girl’s number I just got?1). Nah, still don’t give a FLYING fuck. Just never really actually deleted a number after a chick ghosts so I played around with the idea. 2). Got laid last week. Lol. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | What is dating like in southern california?Dude pretty much nailed it on the head but I’ll just piggy back off what he said. 1) Yes, the larger metropolitan areas have a higher liberal presence (LA, SanFran, etc). If you don’t give a fuck about this then keep her as a plate at most and disregard (but proceed with caution). 2) High SMV is crucial. You have a lot more competition and women have a lot more options. My abundance has increased significantly in the past 8 years I’ve lived in Cali. 3) I’m not sure how prominent it is in your ar… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I consider going on a dopamine fast?Facts bro. I deactivated my social media for a little bit and once I logged in it was the same crap. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | When do you schedule a date after getting the number?If she’s liking your pics, I’d reciprocate, as long as you don’t surpass her. Meaning don’t turn into a simpy orbiter and start liking/commenting on every single post. Or you can go stone face until the day of the date. It’s really up to you. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Girl off bumble - questionFirst off, how old is she? From what you’re describing, she sounds like she’s still in her party years. Also, don’t waste your time with women like this. Maybe a quick smash and dash at the most. I used to simp for women like this back in the day (sad, I know) but now, if I talk to a woman and she doesn’t at least show some degree of genuine burning desire, I next em. Spin more plates and always work on improving yourself. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Effective workout routine for 3 days a weekIf it’s 3 days a week, then go for a full body split. Focus on compound lifts i.e. squat/bench/deadlift. If I were you, I would center each day around a specific lift. For example: -Monday: Squat focus -Wednesday: Bench focus -Friday: Deadlift focus. After your main movements, throw in some assistance exercises for each muscle group. Stick to one movement for each muscle group. Since you are only training 3 days a week, you want to train muscle groups multiple times a week at higher frequencies. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How long does a good physique takeAbout a good couple years of hard, consistent work. Take tren and you can reduce that to about a month or two. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Blocked before 2nd date because I pushed for sex too early? How do I handle this better in the future?If you would’ve pulled some BP crap, she would’ve made you wait longer and probably would’ve ghosted you after the second date anyway to go bang Chad instead. She either: a) didn’t see you as high enough value in her eyes, b) kinda ties into A but probably already had a dude who was bending her over already or c) MAYBE you came off too sexual in her eyes. Whichever scenario it is, be glad she went “poof”. This sounds like a chick that would make you wait 10 dates until sex, only to give you lame… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for psychologists in Southern California?Awesome man, thanks. I’ll check him out. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:56 AM |
| 2 | What are some manipulation tactics you've seen women pull off?-“Why are you dressing provocative?” -“Because it’s girl’s night and I wanna look good for my damn self.” -“Exactly. Look good for your damn self cuz you single now.” | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Any recommendations for psychologists in Southern California?Fuck MGTOW and black pill. If anything, that stuff is gonna make it worse lol | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for psychologists in Southern California?I’m learning and I am fixing myself in the process. I’m still putting in the work and not giving up. However, due to past experiences in my life, some of them being traumatic, it has affected me into my late twenties. I realize that a therapist or a counselor isn’t going to fix my own problems and at the end of the day, I have to put the work in myself. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 06:57 AM |
| 11 | How to build social status when you don’t have any?I’ve been meaning to read this book. I have a lot of books on my reading list but I think I might read this one next. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 17 | How to build social status when you don’t have any?I recently got into powerlifting and absolutely love it. I used to train Muay Thai in my early 20’s but stopped after a while. Martial arts is something I really want to take up again. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 10 | How to build social status when you don’t have any?I’ve been lifting for years. Only recently did I get into competitive powerlifting and had my first meet last month. It’s something I really love doing. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 19 | Red pill is.....depressing?Focus on chasing excellence and putting a dent in the universe. Trust me, I am somewhat in the same boat as you but I realize that at the end of the day, the only person who cares about me is ME. And that’s the best feeling in the world. A woman is only a compliment to your life. Once you have mastered that, women will break rules for you. And if they don’t, fuck em. Next em and continue to spin more plates. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 06:37 AM |
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