Forsoul Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What's a good cologne or scent that women compliment you on?		Forsoul	/r/seduction	27/04/15 02:06 AM
0	She had brown eyes, I prefer blue		Forsoul	/r/seduction	12/11/15 10:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Did I end things too early with a girl because of lack of physical attraction? Physical attraction is essential to a romantic relationship, otherwise you are just friends. You are right to not waste her time.	/r/seduction	04/04/26 03:51 AM
6	Approached someone at a club When starting out it helps to go in without trying to close. The goal is to be able to strike up a conversation and find someone interesting. Greet them, have some back and forth, then say it was nice meeting, then go back to whatever you were doing before. Just get used to this, then start trying to close. Hell, you might meet someone that doesn't want you to leave, or they swing back around to talk to you again later. I find it easier if you just talk to other random people there to, not just …	/r/seduction	06/03/26 05:55 PM
24	Fuck buddy acting crazy North Carolina. He’s gonna have to change zip codes to dodge this one	/r/seduction	23/12/21 03:16 PM
2	Fwb left me for ex Sorry to hear man, seems like you were getting feelings too. Which isn’t bad, but this situation had red flags of doom on it to begin with. People fresh out of relationships that aren’t mature are usually looking for a rebound, a distraction, or to make the ex jealous. A mature person knows they are a time bomb of irrational decisions at this stage and typically removes themselves from dating for a bit. Now if you want a quick smash with the former, this is an awesome opening to date them and ha…	/r/seduction	12/07/21 12:17 AM
1	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION I’m a chatty drunk and it keeps conversations rolling. I’ll talk about the damn wood the table is made out of. But when sober I lock up because there’s a little voice in my head that says “don’t say that”. Try thinking what drunk you would say, like playing a game of Eye-Spy. “Hey those are cool shoes, where’d you get them?”, “Wow have you ever seen a cloud like that?”, “Do you think this table is oak or maple, smells like oak to me, what’s your favorite smelling tree?” I know this seems like wo…	/r/seduction	08/07/21 07:35 PM
25	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Monday doesn’t work for me.. but I am free Tuesday	/r/seduction	08/07/21 07:20 PM
2	Kindergarten teacher finds Legos are good for cognitive development in young children and bans boys from playing with them in order to "close the gender gap" Media taking shit out of context. I can see that. It was only for one month to facilitate girls using what is perceived as a boys toy. That sounds totally reasonable compared to the original article. Settle down guys, fact check, or we come off just as bad as the Feminazis.	/r/MensRights	18/04/17 06:13 PM
5	Girl repeatedly tells me we're not going back to hers or having sex on the first night,we do. How i played the situation to get back to hers. I wish I had your skill. I've had too many disappointing stories where it got back to the bedroom, everything feeling implied that it was leading to sex, then we start fooling around and she drops the "but no sex" bomb. Maybe I'm unlucky and it was too quick with each one. The ones it happened with are the more reserved types. Or maybe I'm in denial. Back when it happened I'd just respond with "ok.." Or "I know". It felt like giving up but I also didn't want to jump into a rape scenario. Guess I…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/17 05:30 AM
2	The Exception to the Rule Agreed. Had a major signal misread once. I could have blown it out of proportion with apologies or whatnot. Instead I just changed back to the subject we were on and acted like it never happened. She didn't run off and things were good.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/17 05:04 AM
15	I'm not your sugar daddy. (x-post r/Tinder) What is Ryan Gosling - 1"???? EDIT: One Google search later and I find Ryan Gosling is 6'0". Google offered to tell me, without my asking, that Brad Pitt is 5'11". It's an older model but that'd work for me.	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/12/16 01:37 AM
1	Wow, I knew I used to be bluepill, but I didn't realize it was that bad. There is hope for you recovering bluepillers Glad to see this post. Your physical progress shots really rung with me. I'm currently at step A physically. Been waiting for the motivation to get back in the gym after an injury. Today I find out my old workout partner and very recent ex is now seeing a new guy, some jabroni she had been texting all along. Not going to dump my complications here. But your post helped me realize that I don't need her to motivate me to work out, I have it within myself. I want to look good for me and feel good. …	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/16 12:15 AM
1	I killed the romance in my relationship Not sure if you are completely infertile? My buddy had one nut removed but the other still works. He boasts about it like he's some war hero; gets mad pussy.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 04:59 PM
7	What is she thinking when she asks if I hook up a lot? Sounds like a shit test. Be fun, don't give an exact answer. Something like, "Speaking of, my Thursday date fell through, should I pencil you in for a 7 o'clock ;)" It is best to be seen as desirable by other females. If there is ever an answer to these types of questions, it always leans towards YES and never towards NO.	/r/seduction	07/02/16 09:31 PM
7	[LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her. More Yaki wisdom please! This pill is a lot more fun to swallow in bloken engrish	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/16 06:57 AM
5	[LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her. I think what you're saying goes hand-in-hand with the saying "The sign of a healthy relationship is no sign of it on Facebook." When things are good it doesn't need to be stated. When you are stating it to the world or the person you are with its for your benefit, your own reassurance, not theirs.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/16 06:45 AM
9	How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person? Hard learned truth here: I used to look at the game as being even, how you've described it, existing ideally where both parties want in and put effort forth. Sadly women will lose interest or stop communicating, etc. All the shit they say about the "game" in these threads is true, not the way you and I wish it was... When she backs away like you described, you punish here by doing the same. Reasoning: #1 You are taking time for yourself, that's what a strong man whom women want does. Plus its go…	/r/seduction	18/01/16 02:54 AM
4	How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person? Fantastic analogy	/r/seduction	18/01/16 02:41 AM
8	Which attractive qualities in women are very underrated? Can confirm. My therapist says all relationships that last have core value similarities, all others are doomed to fail somewhere down the line. And he's old and watched it happen thousands of times	/r/seduction	12/01/16 10:37 PM
4	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. All my opinion, but its from hard earned experience: Your dreams, that's a brain going thru withdrawals trying to fulfill a desire its not finding in your current life. Its looking backwards because you haven't replaced that feeling with someone/something else yet. Your brain has needs to be met. Where are you getting your current intimacy/affection from? I've found that, as men, avoiding that with friends and family makes us force ourselves into shitty relationships to get it. To avoid that sce…	/r/seduction	12/01/16 04:31 PM
3	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. I got over my first gf of 4 years by finding someone I considered "better" for me. That new one went to shit and now I'm obsessed with her.. On a positive note I'm completely baffled now that I wasted 2 years being hung up on my first gf. We are nothing alike, no real hobbies in common, and she's a lifesucking, controlling, smothering, hobag. I know the new ex is nothing special either, but I think brains just get addicted to what happened in the past and go thru constant withdrawals when they c…	/r/seduction	12/01/16 03:58 PM
4	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. If she couldn't muster the cajones to breakup in person or in a call, she isn't worth your time. I've never been more insulted when it happened to me. Sorry about the heartbreak.	/r/seduction	12/01/16 03:43 PM
4	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. I think as Valentine's Day approaches we assess the seriousness of our relationships more. It leads to more breakups this time of year	/r/seduction	12/01/16 03:34 PM
2	On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Porn Fantasies To straight up answer your question, I'd say NO, you don't change her mind after that long ass time. Her mind changed from wanting an AF to a BB. She will want you if you are a BB. Here's my little story. I reconnected with a college ex from 7 years ago just this year. It didn't end well back then. We've both grown a lot and admitted our mistakes. Bad shit happened too, but I don't perceive her as that person she was anymore but see her in a new adult light. So yes people change/grow-up after a …	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 06:07 AM
2	Meeting People 101 Increasing SOCIAL PROOF is the best life hack for attracting women. My favorite experience: had a fantastic evening last year during hockey play offs. Showed up at the bar, loudly and robustly say hi to my coworkers at a big table, everyone laughs. Sit at the bar, greet some locals I made friends with along with the bartender making some personal chitchat, everyone laughs. I exchange some kino with the hot girl at bar talking about the game. She melts in my hands, clearly aware I know everyone h…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 01:45 AM
7	Meeting People 101 I know this struggle all to well, moved to a new town after college. I put myself out there talking to many people at work, the bar, community activities, etc. Keep in mind I'm a huge introvert, but I saw having nearby friends as a vital NEED and forced myself to do this. Definitely join new activities/take that invitation to go out when its offered. Its about making connections and new ones only happen in new places. Its been a little over a year now and I am well known by this small community,…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 01:10 AM
2	Go out alone. I have to say the best night I had happened on accident. Went out of town to see a buddy, got there, he wouldn't pick up his phone, apparently he was passed out drunk. With no way to get ahold of the only person I knew in town and not knowing where he lived I went solo. I went to the bar knowing one of two things would happen: either I find a chick and go to her place or I walk to the hotel down the street at the end of the night. That forced pressure was just what I needed. Met a ton of people …	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/15 04:50 AM
5	Personal Thank You to Seddit! Started my Seddit journey about a year ago. It gave me confidence I didn't know I had. Sadly I dove at the first few girls I got, stopped listening to Seddit and wound up right where I started... I've taken falls and doubted you guys, but I come back and find I need to trust that you are making me the best version of me. A me that loves myself and takes care of myself and doesn't lose myself in women. Its rough but so worth it. Love your post and hoping that through all these stumbles I will see…	/r/seduction	27/04/15 02:15 AM
3	How do I deal with rejection? So much this. I started putting myself out there and making my intentions clear and it yields results, rather than wishy washing thru "friendships". Telling them you find them attractive in some way in that first conversation definitely sends that message across, escalating to some kind of activity/meal to do together just the two of you that you both like. The nice thing is if it doesn't work out in that first interaction or two, that chick just saved you an assload of your time by rejecting yo…	/r/seduction	21/04/15 04:30 AM
6	How to stop negative self-talk & start improving your social skills Had a little breakthrough today I'm especially proud of: I woke up late for work and as I was walking in the door my inner voice said, "Today is going to suck..." I immediately recognized this as a destructive cue and forced myself to think the opposite, "Today is going to be a great day, I'm going to make sure of that!" This very much follows your idea of twist that negative thought into something positive with a proclamation of the action you will take. In the long run it was great. I got a to…	/r/seduction	07/02/15 07:27 AM
2	At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me? My ex gave me that same line. A few days later she was dating some other guy. Single my ass. No respect.	/r/seduction	15/04/14 01:27 AM