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Question For MenFound_Toucan/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:31 PM
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So men are never responsible for their choices and actions, look at you hamstering lmao. Must be so hard to live like that, where you are simply a victim of your surroundings and everyone around you with absolutely no accountability whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:38 AM
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Divorce rape is always a man’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah that’s kind of why it’s a good comparison. In moderation either is fine, the vast majority of people do both. When someone lists either as their primary or only hobby, you’re likely looking at someone with zero personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:32 PM
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Gaming is the “shopping” of male hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:13 PM
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When a guy has hobbies that are NOT just playing video games, that’s always a big plus. Bonus points for useful skills like fishing or carpentry or any creative hobby that he has something to show for like art.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:06 PM
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Height matters. But it’s also one of many factors in attraction. Some women value certain factors over others. When people say height doesn’t matter, they’re saying that it’s not the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:16 PM
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It’s not an excuse. Tall men are objectively more attractive than short men, period. The concept of attraction itself is inherently unfair, as it means some will be more attractive than others. Men are just lied to by media (ironically most of this crap written by other men) with idiotic movies and stories where the ugly loser always gets the girl, and then are surprised when that isn’t reality. I’m just saying why spend all that effort for a relationship with a less attractive guy especially wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:54 PM
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As I’ve said I agree some men get the ...ahem....short end of the stick, so to speak. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:48 PM
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So you agree that women don’t live life on easy mode and are in fact, mistreated by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:46 PM
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Life isn’t fair. Lots of people will be born rich and never work a day in their lives, others will work until they die. I sympathize with short men, it does genuinely close doors both romantically and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:05 PM
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Yes, not-all-this and not-all-that. Generalities are generalities for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:01 PM
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Whether it’s their fault or not isn’t really relevant. I feel sympathy for lots of people who suffer abuse and become twisted as a result of it. But I wouldn’t date those people because I’m a person and not a clinic for broken adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:37 PM
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Just speaking from experience here. Roided up jocks and drunks are out there, but regular athletic guys or guys who work out and are tall are usually more laid back because again, they haven’t needed to be aggressive growing up. Little guys get picked on for years and it makes them twitchy to say the least. There’s definitely some overlap, especially in younger men. Blame it on women if you will, but I have observed it actually comes more from male-on-male school age violence and bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:36 PM
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A lot of short men have such a deep complex about it that they develop a shitty personality. Tall, muscular guys are way more likely to be chill and laid back because no one ever fucks with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:22 PM
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If you really believe men have been the victims In all of history at the hands of women you’re completely delusional, end of story. BTW you’re welcome to live in my house for free, but you have to cook, clean, and succumb to painful sex anytime I please. You aren’t allowed to have a job, your own property or money. I can beat you to death if I want to, but I’m a nice lady so I won’t. I may punish you by starving you or leaving you to sleep outside. Then I’ll go online and cry about how you’re ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:36 PM
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In most traditional and early history marriages, women were considered LITERAL property, slaves of their husbands and often literally sold to a man for life. Wtf are you even talking about. This shit went on for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:04 PM
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A strong relationship is a table with four legs: love, intimacy, friendship and mutual respect. All equally important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 02:37 AM
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The older I get, the more I realize how much marrying the wrong person can ruin someone’s life. And furthermore, don’t get married just to say you did or because you’re getting older. If you’re looking for a life partner, make sure it’s your best friend, and a person with their head on straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:50 AM
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I know both men and women who mooch off of a spouse, and regardless of gender I have no respect for these people. It’s one thing if you have small kids at home and daycare would exceed the income of one parent. Or if the couple agrees that one person can support the other (and actually wants to). But often times what happens is a partner quits or gets fired and conveniently can’t seem to ever hold down a job, while the other toils away trying to keep them afloat. This behavior is disgusting and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:22 AM
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A lot of narcs and sociopaths live what’s called a parasitic lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:49 PM
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It describes a lot of modern people. My best friend has a boyfriend who lives for free in her house and she pays for everything while he refuses to work. This situation hasn’t been uncommon at all for millennial women. The takeaway lesson here isn’t a man vs. woman thing, it’s to realize the importance of vetting a long term partner and to be at peace with having no one at all rather than someone who decreases your quality of life instead of adding to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:05 AM
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There’s a difference between a high value person and a narcissist. A narcissist is inherently low value in terms of a partner for the obvious reason of their extreme selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:59 PM
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Yes. For a man, showing tears and vulnerability would require a tremendous amount of trust. Therefore if a man close to me were to do so I would feel flattered and I think it would deepen our emotional bond. Manly tears are perfectly normal and there’s a reason it’s a meme, btw. Just as a quick aside if a man or woman cries at the drop of a hat to the point where they can’t function as an adult that’s a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:57 PM
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Are you me? Because same, lol. I come here for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:02 PM
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Red pill tactics work best for bagging a woman with borderline personality disorder and then RP men are surprised pikachu that all the women they date turn out to be crazy. Newsflash RP men, well adjusted women with good male role models in their lives won’t put up with your stupid games, only the emotionally damaged ones will. And btw that goes both ways; women who “shit test” and play mind games are screwed up obviously but this tends to only work on men who also have a lot of baggage especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:32 PM
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When I started dating my husband I was: pretty faced, BMI of 22, N count of 0, STEM degree and high paying job, had my own apartment and bought my own car, same friend group for years (mostly happy couples now), practically no debt (just the car since my beater had finally gone to heaven). I’m skilled in cooking since it’s the same thing as my job (chemist), dress/act feminine, and have a lot of traditionally feminine hobbies like knitting and embroidery. I’m also an exceptional musician. Both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:36 PM
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No. Neither party should ever be in contact with an ex. There is no such thing as remaining friends after breaking up IMO. For a clean break both people need to move on with their lives and lean on their platonic friends. Having an ex around while you’re with someone else is disrespectful and invites unnecessary drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:57 PM
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You’re trying to shame all of women for being inferior to men, I figured shaming you for being an inferior man was fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:50 PM
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I noticed that you completely side stepped the question of what you have accomplished personally. Lol. If all you have to be proud of is what other men have accomplished, you’re a loser. Men who are successful have enough self esteem that being born with a penis isn’t the only thing on their list of things to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 09:57 PM
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For me personally? In a unrealistic world I would prefer men not approach me at all, but I’m married and even before then I just didn’t like being approached by strangers. Maybe other women feel differently. My only general advice is that if you say hi to a woman on the street and she’s giving you the cold shoulder or not making eye contact it’s a pretty strong hint to just leave her alone. I think the initial attempt isn’t bad or wrong, it’s usually the guys who don’t respect a no thank you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:05 AM
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So you took “a woman” and somehow got “all women.” Nice reading comprehension. This thread is asking women their experiences and opinion. I gave mine, and I was brutally honest. Take it as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:10 AM
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I’ve had men run up to me and tell me they want to buy me dinner when I was walking through a shopping area, or generally cat call. I had one mentally ill man who grabbed my hand at the grocery store while I was ordering at the deli counter, kissed it and refused to let go, etc. that was not easy to physically remove myself from without causing a scene. When I worked in retail sometimes men asked for my number or used actual pick up lines, which was pretty cringey. I had guys chase me through a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:00 AM
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I’m just not sure why you’re so offended that a woman is saying being accosted in public is inconvenient and unwanted. Also follow up, aren’t you proving that you actually DO care by virtue of reading the responses in a thread that’s a question posed to women about their feelings. Hmmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:53 AM
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I am actually entitled to feel disgust when someone hits on me which is the question posed in this thread. It’s a visceral feeling, doesn’t mean I’m rude or impolite to the person at the time but internally yes I feel disgust in certain cases. I’m not here to lie or sugarcoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:17 AM
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Incels get butthurt when women and blue pillers try to give them false platitudes, but get offended when they hear exactly what they suspect from a woman. Gross men are gross. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:22 AM
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If the man is genuinely disgusting, as in homeless, no hygiene etc. then yes, duh. I’m offended that they are so delusional they think there’s a chance and also, pity them slightly until they inevitably get aggressive even when very politely turned down, the disgust gets cranked up to 100. In general I do not like being cold approached because it puts my guard up. I’ve had extremely attractive men cold approach me while I’m out and I always turned them down too because a man who cold approaches …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:27 PM
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I made an OLD profile once on match.com. I did the free trial, for funsies. Figured since it cost money it might weed out the worst of the crazies. I specifically put in my profile that I was not looking for a casual hookup or fling and that I would take things very slow. I got inundated with messages. In less than a week two of the men I chatted with went from nice guy to literally threatening physical violence because I was making very reasonable requests. (Both driving to a Starbucks to meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:52 AM
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You. I like you. XD Let’s build armies together, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:28 PM
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Relief and I hope that those guys went on to find happiness elsewhere. I’m glad I didn’t try to stick it out with a man I didn’t feel much for or who wasn’t right for me, hoping that someday things would get better. I’ve seen what that looks like in my friends. Those men are not happy knowing they were ultimately settled for. I don’t believe that everyone magically gets a fairytale ending but in my case a lot of those guys who pursued me and got nowhere had nothing objectively that kept them fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:18 PM
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If you need TRP to feel like a man or learn how to be masculine, no one can help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:27 PM
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This is wrong, it assumes any of these guys even have money at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:11 PM
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Looks: Tall, with short well-kept dark hair. Nice jawline/chin, hunters eyes — nice eyes, friendly smile. Good skin. Big strong muscular arms. Personality: has hobbies outside of video games. Has spent a good amount of time developing real life skills, hobbies and/or sports. Ideally has some experience in martial arts. Has a good sense of humor, very kind and easygoing, very patient. Intelligence is extremely important. He is considerate and respectful, but he is not a doormat. He gets along wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:09 AM
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Mmmm sour grapes are delicious. Don’t be jealous honey, maybe you’ll get a nice man someday too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:57 PM
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That’s weird, all could hear was “reeeee!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:32 PM
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Awww. That’s very wholesome. Stay sweet then! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:32 PM
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Hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:25 PM
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Nope, already married Chad. Stay salty!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:13 PM
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I love my Chad husband! <3 I’m so glad he’s a an awesome perfect guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:12 PM
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This is the saddest attempt at insulting that now I’m just embarrassed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:58 AM
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You sound jealous ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:55 AM
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That’s nice. I’m a professional singer, I’m a biochemist, I enjoy archery, martial arts, hiking, sewing, embroidery, knitting, tatting, crochet, drawing, painting, and I’m currently working on two novels which I’m hoping to finish by the end of the year. Oh and I’m a woman. So see, now you’ve met one with hobbies. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:53 AM
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What are your passions, hobbies, and interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:27 AM
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You’re a monster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:00 AM
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Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:53 AM
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These are all things a therapist would say. What you’re looking for is a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:28 AM
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Ding ding ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:16 AM
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Lol, I never paid for dates, the more I offered to help, the more my date insisted on paying. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:11 AM
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The guy who chased me hard at that age is now a raging alcoholic and looks well over 50, has a shit job and begs his girlfriends to pay his phone bills, soooooo nope. No regrets. I’m so thankful I have my husband who was worth waiting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:36 PM
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Plenty of husbands quit their jobs, become alcoholics, abusers or gamblers after marriage, sticking their wives with the bills or destroying them financially. It’s sad when people do these things to their spouses. Marriage is as much a business partnership as it is companionship but most do not realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:36 AM
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I am assuming that if a person stays at home and does nothing, they are a couch creature. For example my best friend supports a loser who doesn’t work but he also doesn’t do any chores or help out. Another friend had a wife who was the same way. If one partner stays home and actually does all the work at home that’s valuable. But if they’re not doing anything at all, they are by definition, a couch creature. So not all stay at home spouses are couch creatures but all married couch creatures are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:23 AM
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It’s more like I think the economic system is failing us and it doesn’t help us to lie to ourselves or live in a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:20 AM
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I agree, it’s a literal dependent! Big responsibility IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:19 AM
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I would never want a man to stay with me just because it’s convenient and not out of love, so that’s a good thing! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:14 AM
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Daycare around here is $1500/month for one child. Most people respond by not having kids, using relatives as childcare, high dual income or downsizing the lifestyle after the second kid and scraping by on one income for a few years. It’s tough out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:47 PM
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That is my feeling as well. To be very comfortable it would require at least 120k at least in my area which is a high COL. I obviously don’t agree with RP but I think we can all agree that wages are far below what they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:43 PM
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That’s great! It’s very mature to recognize when you aren’t ready for or don’t want a relationship or marriage. Good for you. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:38 PM
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