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DiscussionFoundthecure/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:51 PM
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Theyre responding to an argument I never made. I only said "aggressive" seemed like an odd word choice and that "assertive" might fit better. I wasn't making any claim about whether assertive people are also nice. I never even typed the word nice. I commented on the OP's word choice, then got a reply addressing a point I never made. That's why the conversation was disconnected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:43 AM
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.....do you know how conversations work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:20 PM
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was this for me? i dont understand the point youre trying to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:03 PM
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Im not sure aggressive is the correct word choice, assertive maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:40 PM
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you know.......if this were a man posting about women i might have empathy, but when its a women posting about men its more of a self burn. like your in the drivers seat, if the journey and destination sucks that might be more of a reflection of you and what you bring to the table. Your 33 talking about surface level issues around casual sex on reddit, its giving immature latebloomer femcel vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:41 PM
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I think there's a chance you might be misunderstanding them. I never received that memo. As a species, we are biologically wired to value looks and youth, but it's not "just" that at all. That should be incredibly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:57 PM
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Yeah idk, i mean i wouldnt die on this hill, im willing to admit perhapse the landscape truely has shifted that much and im underestimating it. It certainly changed quite a bit, no doubt about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:36 PM
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I mean yeah, I don't think I dismiss that possibility, in fact I called attention to it. But all things considered I think it's unlikely. I don't think I've become less attractive. In fact, I think it's the opposite, I think I'm more attractive than I was in my 20s in every regard. Women occasionally flirt with me even with a wedding ring on my finger so i doubt i would be dead in the water even if the landscape has shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:17 PM
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Obviously we dont really know who were talking to here but ive always gotten the impression many of the women here actually are femcels. I see clues like internet memes terms, or typing like blackpeopletwitter, "all men suck" "all men are trash" sentiments.....idk seems like a cope. i get strong "chad never paid attention to me but idc i never wanted him in the first place!" vibes. Its usually not attractive feminine women saying things like this, its women who frequent redpill/bluepill reddit s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:46 PM
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I feel like if you struggled in your 20s your 30s are probably not going to magically be better. but if you DONT struggle in your 20s id imagine dating in your 30s is a breeze. im 36 but been with my wife since i was like 22 so i have zero 30's dating expirence but i know where im at today vs where i was when i was 20, it would be a cake walk. the only real barriers i ever had were money and time. i was working part time while finishing college and also playing guitar in a touring band so every …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:21 PM
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I understand what you're getting at, but you have to realize the majority of people don't think at the systems level. It's why most of the comments here are some version of "and that's a good thing," "and that's their choice," or even taking offense like the comment above lol. They can't think beyond the individual level. They hear, "So what, you want to FORCE people to get married, have kids, and stay in unhealthy relationships?!" It's just whooshing right over their heads. They're not hearing …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:07 PM
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its a paradox. The ones who put effort in dont stay single long. the ones who suck are on the apps perpetually because nobody wants them because they suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:32 PM
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tbh i doubt making them wait is going to have any impact. Thinking back to my dating expirences, how soon we had sex never changed how i felt about them in either direction. Should it have? probably. but being honest it didnt. I slept with one of my girlfriends on the same day i met her and that relationship was fine; one of the better relationships i had tbh. I dated plenty of girls where we didnt have sex until weeks or even months into the relationship and that never made me think or feel any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:31 PM
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I mean depending on who he is and the metrics you use, its and entirely possible, especially when you scale it to "all men everywhere" If he lives in a western country like the u.s. for example, holds a steady job, decent health, no criminal record, college degree, then yeah hes probably well above global averages on multiple dimensions. $100k+ salaries are pretty normal and most developed countries but being at $100k+ (USD) puts you in the 99th percentile globally. Scaling to ALL MEN EVERYWHERE…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:01 PM
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Hey the waters boiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:23 PM
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I'm basing this off of a thought i had 30 seconds ago but i feel like masculine lesbian women are basically in the same boat as straight women dating men above their looks match. like Ive heard leasbians complain about "fake lesbians"; basically girls who just want to expirement but arent being serious about the relationship and ultimately just end up dating a man. I feel like its the same dynamic of a women whos sleeping with a bunch of hot dudes who wont commit to her. Theres probably no short…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:39 PM
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Don't beat yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:32 PM
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Nah I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:32 PM
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I've never heard of people "peaking" when they reach senior age but ill try to recall this when i get there to make myself feel better. The more common saying is that in the dating marketplace women peak around 25 while men peak a bit later around 35. Men want hot women and kids; be nice, be hot, and give me children. 25 year olds are more likely to be those things. Women want secure stable men, be mature, be financially secure, have your shit together not taking gravity bongs to the face with r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:59 AM
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Sit down and be quiet? idk nobodys asking you to attempt to think or do anything so just continue focusing on yourself or whatever it is you choose to do with your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:13 AM
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It hurt so much when i finally accepted this. Still does. FTR - I have alot of women in my life who care about me thats not whats being referred to here though. My wife cares about me, my mom, my sisters, etc.... but "women" in general do not care about "men" in general. Once you get down to the meat and bones of the conversation youll discover that they care about specific men in their lives and thus only care secondarily about the issues if theyre causing negative affects on said men. but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:43 PM
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Whats the debate? or is the point of this post basically "guys, hypergamy is real and women dont think youre as great as you think you are" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:14 PM
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Man i just love a big beutiful brain and PHD on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:36 PM
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it transcendends homosapiens. its everywhere in the animal kingdom. The female lions/gorillas/giraffes/peacocks etc... do not mate with the scrawny loner males who dont display the correct traits. Where do you think the term alpha comes from? its cringe af in dating context but the actual meaning of the word. Female mate selection preferences are observable in nearly every species on the planet, especially humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:38 PM
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I do.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 11:47 AM
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Im more curious of the long term effects it could have. If men (and some women as well im sure) start having this other option and they take it, over time does this not just further divide men and women? "why am i going to deal with a human when i have my fairy tail girlfriend who has zero negative traits?" I feel like it would ultimately create more resentment and divide between the sexes. We're essentially just giving up on eachother and sprinting off in opposite directions. It would be hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:38 PM
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Yep, there are always guys just watching and waiting from the bushes for a chance to swing the bat. It's pathetic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:38 PM
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agreed fully, this is incredibly obvious to many of us but alot of BP is only just now waking up to it. Women prioritize looks above all else to the point where once you hit a certain threshold nothing else even matters. It would be IDEAL if he were a good person too but as long as hes attractive enough theyre willing to overlook just about anything. Wonder were all the "good" men are though....hmmmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:37 PM
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Thats been my expirence, i consider myself to have been moderately attractive in my younger dating years which got my foot in the door. I have a million hobbies and when i commit to things i commit fully. It seems women like this as it makes us more interesting/multidimentional. This becomes even more true if your hobbies are considered typically "attractive". Ex: playing insturnments or niche physical activities like skateboarding/rock climbing/whitewater kayaking/whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:57 PM
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Kind of interesting that you pitch it and seem to believe you're somehow supposed to. if something is completely nonsensical/illogical to you its perfectly fine to call it what it is, you dont have to force or even pretend to sympathize with something you see as illegitimate. Not only do you not have to do it, you SHOULDN'T do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:16 PM
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Ive been talking about this for awhile now with my wife. I predict for women its going to continue the same tradjectory its been on but probably get worse exponentially faster thanks partially to TRP and other relatively newish things in the dating landscape like the introductions of OF. I know that only a small number of women do OF but i believe the societal acceptance and embrace OF caused a massive paradigm shift in western society thats playing out right now. The laissez faire attitude towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:12 PM
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tbh i cant thing of a single human on this planet that i agree with fully. When im reading someones monolog im usually looking for things that i can map onto my own expirences, its just another data point. so in some long winded monolog i might disagree with 75% of it. some dude going on venting about his frusterations with women like okay bro, but somewhere in the meat of it theres likely a handful of point that ill be like "oh yeah, i know exactly what youre describing ive seen that too." We'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:48 PM
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Metroid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM
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I went to chicago pride with a group of friends, im not gay but went to day drink and party (it was a blast) but i was catcalled all day long guys were trying to get me to come with them. Lots of rejections but my self esteem was at like an alltime high by the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:47 AM
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I mean this is also simp behavior. guys who proclaim to be femanists and trash on men or even masculinity in general is pretty much the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:58 PM
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I know right? itd be funny if it werent funny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:15 PM
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Because men love women more than women love men. Men want to be fathers and husbands more than women want to be mothers and wifes. We're wired differently. When they say "men are trash" "id rather be single" etc.... I 100% fully believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:26 PM
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Theres plenty of mainsteam ones even you just likely havent heard of them if this and other mainstream social media channels are where you primarily engage with RP content. You should check out Jeff St James, hes a LPC and he discusses RP all the time. But even he is victim to what i describe above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:33 PM
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True unless the listener is being intentionally obtuse/bad faith then that goes out the window. And with these kinds of discussions this is the case far more often than not. IMO in these situations its best to not engage with bad faith but rather sharpen your point and have the conversation elsewhere. Strong logic will prevail in the end for persistance alone, emotional appeals are dead on arrival.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:42 PM
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Yeah Im aware of spain and mexico and of course people of high status will have certain reasons to keep their name but for the vast majority of western society its the norm. im not royalty, hispanic, nor from spain so those hold zero relevance to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:37 PM
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Im in the southern U.S. and its cultural norm that the woman takes the mans last name as well as the kids. Pretty sure that is and has been true of most western societies. only recently have people started shifting away from that for situations like you describe but the overwelming majority still do it. My personal opinion on it, i dont think its a huge deal either way but personally i choose to follow said practice, my wife and kids have my last name. My sisters have the last names of their hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:19 PM
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I think people sometimes jump to the most extreme version of this dynamic anytime this gets brought up which isn’t really representative of what most age gap relationships actually look like. There’s a bit of a mismatch in how this gets framed. When people say “older men dating younger women,” it often gets interpreted as 35+ going after 18–20, which most people would agree is pretty weird. But in reality, what I see more often is something like 35–45 men with women in their mid-to-late 20s or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:45 PM
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....yeah i think youre right. There are marred men with dead bedrooms yeah.... anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:04 PM
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I thought this was obvious but its clear from the responses over the last few years its absolutly not. People are so quick to say "RP dudes are just sexless virgins/kids whatever" but alot of us are not. Im 35, married, have kids, never been an incel inmy life or even close to it, i was "the relationship guy" out of my friend group through all of grade school. It resonates with us because its out observed reality, the complete opposite of how your average guy sees modern femanism. That differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:34 PM
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I used to see it all. the. time. but this was like 10+ years ago during PEAK femanism in the u.s. plus i was very active in the music scene at the time so all my friends and people i knew were hyper left leaning and many were what you would call "performantive males" and like hard fucking core about it too. I had friends who were not trans who would wear dresses because they said they "felt cool" but it was all for tumbler clout. such a bizare and cringy point in time. I no longer speak to any o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:31 PM
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They don't even contradict each other though. Woman says: "Nah everything's chill really, im having a good time. " Man says: "I'm not having a good time, Men are held to highest standards of all time while women the lowest" these two comments reconcile in my mind. If anything the top comment might even be proving this guys point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:33 PM
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It doesn't exist, but also it does exist but its not a big deal because men do it to and when men do it its actually worse so it cancels out....but also it doesn't exist at all so.......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:24 PM
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I've never heard this but it is true (but not realistic) I mean women have 100% monopoly on deciding all life that is brought into this world and men have 0% say on that. hypothetically speaking of course women could just choose to abort all of civilization. Maybe thats what they mean? again ive never actually heard this saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:52 PM
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I feel like the 20 year old dating a 30 year old example is one of the more extreme. But what about say a 35-38 year old dating a 25-28 year old? Does that change anything or is it still just creepy. FTR i also think that 30+ year olds dating 18-20 year olds is creepy and inappropriate But realistically i feel like the 35 year old divorced dad picking up mid/late 20s girls at the bar probably the more common scenario and I also think its different from dating someone whos still likely in school.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:49 PM
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There's a reason feminism didn't exist throughout all of history until AFTER the industrial revolution and technology boom. People ignore the strongest signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:30 PM
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Bro....I was neutrally explaining a viewpoint you asked about, not stating my beliefs. The fact you instantly twisted it into "men reinforcing stereotypes to keep each other down" shows you’re more interested in gotchas than honest conversation. Pathetic.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:55 PM
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Well many RP would agree current state IS 100% mens fault because we allow it. Its a chicken or the egg situation. so many red pillers would say "men stop simping, be accountable, know your worth, stop giving underserving women anything." I think Myron Gaines even has a book now called "Why women deserve less" and its about this exact topic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:33 PM
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Being bi as a man meaning 'dick in anything' isn't biphobia, it's pattern noticing. You're swapping disgust/disapproval for fear. By that same logic finding pedos repulsive is just a phobia too? interesting how that works.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:47 PM
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Your argument is circular. Calling it a "subculture detached from the dominant culture" only works if you assume the dominant culture is automatically correct. What if the dominant culture is problematic and the subculture is simply noticing patterns that everyone else gets punished for saying out loud? If that happens to be the case then said subculture wouldn't be "detached from reality" it means its ahead of it. I’m not claiming that’s true for TRP/PPD. I’m just saying your logic only holds i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:57 PM
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I have extremely high empathy for women in dating but next to zero sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:05 PM
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Feminists/leftists are against this though. They vote against it anyways. I've been a strong believer in capital punishment, the current system is a fucking joke. Prison is not for "rehabilitation" its to remove filth from the public and I'm fine with doing that as cheaply as absolutely possible. Prison needs to be a miserable experience for violent offenders, systemically. Not just relying on prisoners to do the dirty work. People argue it has no place in a civil society but I'm of the opinion …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:58 AM
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Are you implying that women ONLY accept money from people they're in love with and committed to? If they're having sex they are attracted. if anything you don't need to be attracted to the other person at all if all you're doing is extracting money/resources. Having sex you have to be at least moderately attracted to the other person. If you meant men will have sex with women they're not interested in committing to then yes 100%; which is identical for accepting money. she'll take your money but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:35 AM
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I think they're both equally neutral. They're really only bad if one person is being dishonest in order to obtain said thing, but if you're not misleading the other person i dont think there's anything wrong with relationships based solely on sex or money or resources whatever. Not my cup of tea, i wouldn't be caught dead in a relationship like that, but there's nothing inherently wrong with them. People get together for all kinds of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:22 PM
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At the end of the day younger women will go for older men and vice versa until the cows come home. Be mad or feel however you want but its not going to change; if anything i think we're likely going to see more and more of this over time as a side affect to other social trends. There are a lot of relationship dynamics that i personally believe to be gross or morally wrong but the good news is neither of us have to be in one of these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:12 PM
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The only real reason women date older is $$$$ < What if i told you for many women that's literally all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:07 PM
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Ah yes. The collective blame approach. This worked really well against the _________ and __________ so im certain that's the answer to this test as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:52 PM
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Way to kill the mood with rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:58 PM
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there are roughly quarter million more male doctors in the U.S. than female and the picture becomes much more stark when you break it down by specialty. Men make up the overwhelming majority (like 85%-90%) of surgical and procedure heavy fields like neurosurgery, cardiothoracic surgery, emergency medicine, and general surgery. The fields where women make up the majority are pediatrics, OBG/YN, and dermatology by a margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:44 PM
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And yet.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:50 PM
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Why do men constantly complain about the ‘male loneliness epidemic’? < we dont thats attributed to us by the news and women making fun of us. Men talk about our mental health and how to be better men. Man vs Bear argument. < your post indicates you missed the point of this thought exorcise entirely. the point being its irrational for any human to pick a bear over a human because a bear is much more likely to hurt or kill you than an average man. women picking the bear highlights how they view me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:22 PM
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People are allow to be annoyed, especially if theyre being accosted. I'm annoyed by basically everyone in my vicinity because I'm a grouchy old man and these people aren't even talking to me/wanting something from me. That's just part of human to human communication, some people will be annoyed to even have to look at you, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:59 PM
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exactly, there are roughly quarter million more male doctors than female and the picture becomes much more stark when you break it down by specialty. Men make up the overwhelming majority (like 85%-90%) of surgical and procedure heavy fields like neurosurgery, cardiothoracic surgery, emergency medicine, and general surgery. The fields where women make up the majority are pediatrics, OBG/YN, and dermatology by a margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:29 AM
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Yes. same for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:32 PM
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Then 30 minutes later on his own post says: "A lot of guys who claim to have this extensive history don’t really know much about sex I’m sorry" dude is a low IQ clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:58 PM
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"As someone who has a high body count".....hm interesting you would say that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:55 PM
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that sounds nice until you stress test it. Would you date a 35 year old man who reads CP hentai books or whatever theyre called? Just because he's reading stories doesnt mean he wants to live it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:57 PM
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Im married for almost 10 years and out of the dating world for like 16. I did notice a pattern though, well after i stopped dating, i didn't notice it at the time but thinking back it hit me. I wasn't a "player" or anything like that, but i was always dating someone, pretty much all through grade school. I was very interested in women like most guys are and so i was always pursuing or dating. These were usually long term (relatively speaking for middle/high school of course, talking like 1-3 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:06 PM
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Nursing is a support role for doctors and surgeons which are still majority male jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:50 PM
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if balls arent an insult go tell a stranger they look like balls and see how they react.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 05:45 PM
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Who cares, its irrelevant, i don't need to know. Look. i know how to catch fish. It doesnt mean i know everything about what fish do or think or even why it bit my lure. but i understand them well enough to know the steps to take for the result i want. I learned how to do that by going out to the lake, over and over and over again, trying different thing, observing what worked and what didnt. You don't need to know the reason, just the pattern. It's hardly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:20 PM
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Ah the old classic "women tries to lock down a tuba chad and gets burned" a tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:27 PM
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Bingo - and there's decades of momentum behind this. the data trends are already there, look at the number of single middle aged women on SSRI's today vs any other time. i predict the future for men will be feast or famine. guys who are above average will have increasingly more options. For women its only going to continue to get more and more competitive. Neither of those two things are hypothetical, they're already happening today and i see no indication they're going to reverse or even slow d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:20 PM
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Right, id love to see the results of women being asked "should husbands obey their wives" i have a strong suspicion i already know the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:06 PM
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Bout to make the single mother social pariah radioactive if word gets out.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 02:28 PM
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Right, id rather liquidate all my assets and hide them then let the system do what it wants with me. put me in jail, whatever, ill take my money to the grave on principle alone.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 02:26 PM
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ok but......Margot Robbie and Sydney Sweeney are 100% mid......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:46 PM
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"ever ridden in a hellcat?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:09 PM
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Your bad faith tactic of "that never happened and if it did its not what it looks like" would maybe work if there weren't multiple women directly below your comment in this same thread saying "of course we lie, guys make it such a big deal we have to lie about it" gaslighting doesn't work so well in a group setting....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:02 PM
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“I don’t hate gay people, I just think the lifestyle is harmful and I don’t want you ruining your life.” or “We still love you, we just don’t support gay marriage because it’s not what’s best for society.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:37 AM
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absolutely. Benevolent Racism - "Black people are naturally more resilient because of everything they’ve been through." Benevolent homophobia - "gay men make the best friends for women because they're basically like one of the girls." Benevolent transphobia - "Trans people are incredibly brave and inspiring just for living their truth." Edit: maybe the clearest example is affirmative action, its institutional benevolent racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:37 PM
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"Benevolent misogyny" seems to really be tripping people up. Its real, its a real word, op didnt make it up. here is the chatgpt answer for those too lazy: “Benevolent sexism” is a real term from social psychology. It was popularized by psychologists Peter Glick and Susan Fiske in the 1990s as part of their Ambivalent Sexism Theory. The idea is that some attitudes toward women seem positive on the surface but still reinforce traditional gender roles. Examples would be things like: “Women should …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:22 PM
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everywhere. all around us tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:16 PM
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What are you on about? women have told you height doesnt matter, just be yourself, and if your still alone its because you probably suck and deserve it because your a man. whats so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:43 PM
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It's very peculiar to me but it sounds like you've made it work for your relationship and that's all that matters. Thanks for the honest reply and best of luck to you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:30 PM
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Does your husband know you don't enjoy sex? I'm curious because for me, and i think most men tbh, the feeling of being desired is important in a relationship and sex is one of the few ways we get to experience that. I would have zero desire to have sex with anyone if i knew they did not want it, full stop. Lack of desire for me kills all desire across the board. I can work with having different sex drives but if my partner is like "I do not like having sex, if we do it its only for you" thats no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:05 PM
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I am obsessed with whatever the opposite of the women in this comment section are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:48 AM
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women mature faster then men = "Absolutely they do, this is true! This is biology!" women stop maturing sooner than men = ".......wtf is your problem buddy."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:13 PM
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attraction is much more than just physical especially for long term committed relationships. My wife could be a paraplegic burn victim without a face but shes still my wife and the mother of my children, the thought of ever leaving her is painful. if someones physical appearance changes and youre like "eh i could probably walk away from this person" id say that you probably should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:03 PM
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Probably just throw them in jail for neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:44 PM
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this is like a long winded version of asking a man "how would YOU like being catcalled" to which the answer is "we would love it"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:09 PM
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I agree, the window shift has been massive, voting is the only "move" the majority have and the only one that really makes sense at this point.
/r/MensRights23/02/26 06:59 PM
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Its just virtue signaling. Think of it like asking someone to tell you something negative about themselves in a job interview. You're not getting a real answer you're getting what they think you want to hear. "my biggest weakness is that i care too much" ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:39 PM
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Don't worry, this is precisely why TRP persists and continues to grow. This question will come up again and again like other RP talking points, it will persist until its answered or acknowledged; gaslighting and attempts to hand waive it away are 100% ineffective because to many its observed reality. You can tell someone a million times that the sky is green but if it doesn't map to their observed reality you're never going to fully convince them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:17 PM
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I do most of the cooking for my family. I dont enjoy cooking, its a chore to me. but i enjoy the active of providing a service to my family so for that reason im more than happy to do it. Cleaning and work is the same, were a single income family, my wife is a SAHM, i would never in a million years say i "enjoy going to work" but im happy to provide for my family so i dont view it as some "burden im forced to carry", im happy to do it and i want to do it because its beneficial to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:57 PM
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You're definition is too squishy. Where do you draw the line? At what point am i eating nutrients to simply survive vs bulking so my swoll chad arms can land 304's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:08 PM
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I mean that was always my demeanor in relationships and it worked for me. I'll initiate/chase a bit but if im not feeling effort reciprocated pretty much immediately I'm out, got other stuff/people to spend my time on. Nothing is a bigger turn off to me than perusing someone who isn't equally interested in me. I think this is very healthy for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:03 PM
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Agree, but we live in a misandrist enabling society so it shifts the base line.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:47 PM
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Its actually really easy as long as you arent overt about your intentions. They dont listen to respond with facts they listen to try and understand your intent for asking becuase your intent is what will dictate the response you recieve. I realized and tested this on r/askafemanist you really can steer the replies you get based on how you frame the question. im talking like polar opposite responses for the same issue, just viewed from a different angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:32 PM
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"Gear" is the equivalent to plastic surgery on women. nearly all men will say they dont like it but seems like they actually do when its done subtly. It's the same with roids, if you can tell a dude is shooting up at the gym everyday that's a probably going to be a hard pass for most, but if he just looks like he's in really good shape then its fine. Not dissimilar to the Jason Momoa having a killer "dad bod" thing. Men have plastic surgery blindness women have muscle blindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:28 PM
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Counter point though, op never claimed it wouldn't be difficult he said its easier now than ever which is probably true. Ugly mug dude back in the 70s/80s didn't have the same options as a guy in 2026. Hell go back even further and ugly mug might not even ever have an opportunity to even swing the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:38 PM
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tbh bluntly honest, and i fully acknowledge how this can be perceived, I dont believe the majority of people are even capable of having good faith conversations around these topics. A lot of these topics are very personal and many people build their entire identities around them being true so in order to even have a remotely productive conversation they have to be able to come to terms with the fact that "TRP/Feminism, while likely true in many ways; may actually be incorrect and/or a net negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:19 PM
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