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| 22 | Things 🤡🤡 say:This is true! Anecdotally, I've only met one heteronormative HVM and the rest have been not heteronormative. It could just be my luck of draw kind of thing tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 111 | Childfree women, have you been able to find HVM partners?Yes, I'm sorry for my poor phrasing. This is a good way to spot LVM. It has helped me see them as being such even if they had appeared otherwise. The best response I've gotten was "Awesome, I got a vasectomy when I turned 18 because it seemed like the most responsible thing to do." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 16 | Fashion & Tech Join Forces To Create A Dress That Signals When People Get Too Close (perfect to keep guys away in general not just for social distancing.)This reminds me of old school hoop skirts. Part of the insane design started out as a way of forcing people to stay out of your personal space. It would be cool to revisit that again with hoops that collapse and expand with like a button push. Sitting down, hoop goes in. Up and about, hoop goes out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 167 | Childfree women, have you been able to find HVM partners?So, there are tons of LV men with and without kids. They could just be avoiding paying child support and not talking about it. A good filter Ive found is saying I will never have kids. Dudes who were totally fine not having kids will suddenly start up 20 questions of 'why not?', 'are you sure?', and 'not even someday?'. If they've shown themselves to be decent otherwise, this has served me very well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 16 | is a guy ranting about pornsickness a red flag?It could go either way. If he's mad that the Kardashians are famous because of money, eh, who cares. If he's mad that she is famous because of a sex tape, he probably has let culture misogyny influence how he perceives the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 21 | Things 🤡🤡 say:I only trust this from bisexual men 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:49 PM |
| 9 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.I 100% agree with all of this. She clearly hasn't realized the depth of the situation. Even people who enjoy being unable to breathe, no caring partner would ever go so far as to choke them out till fucking unconscious, or choke them in a way to actually hurt them. The whole point of wierd sex stuff is that it gives the rush of feeling 'in danger' while knowing you're completely safe. Like a roller coaster, no one would get on if it fell off the rails "just one time". Sex is never an excuse for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 6 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.Even if someone is into something really crazy, it 100% should be mutual. There shouldn't ever be suffering involved. Everyone should be having a great time. And if that's not the case, that's not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 121 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.As truely horrible this is, it's even worse that it's not uncommon for victims of abuse to not realize something is wrong until it's too late. Our brains do a lot to protect us, and sometimes it causes normalizing heinous things. I'm glad she was able to reach the point of questioning this and I hope she seeks help. I've personally seen the aftermath of the process of what happens when the spell it's broken and realization hits. It is often once you are out of danger that you realize how bad it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:23 AM |
| 67 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next daySame! I hope you are doing much better and thriving. It is also worth noting the shit head got absolutely reamed in the comments section. Occasionally, good things happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 88 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayAbsolutely. Wherever there's the whole 'I want to be honest' shit means the dick already knows he's the asshole and is losing the battle of justifying the situation to himself. Editing the situation is just a way to protect their stupid fragile ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 255 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayAs someone who has ADHD I refuse to stand for that kind of shit. Yes I'm going to forget things and yes I'm doing what I can about it. No one should put up with that kind of shit. So glad she got out. Hope he gets ripped to shreds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 444 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayThat's a good catch. He was so wrapped up in his own shit he didn't even think about how she could be feeling. For real good for her for just being done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationI've never had the chance, financially, to live alone and it's what I dream of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Women should not go on hiking dates whether as a first one or as a married couple.Let the guy always be in front of you when hiking, but always within clear line of sight. If they start to slow down call them out. Say you want them ahead. If you meet a creep on the trail let them pass and once you lose sight of them go a different direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 16 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.So, I'm Non-Bianary and grew up with the majority of my friends were dudes. And the only reason they "don't have drama" is because society doesn't seem their drama as drama. Dudes would get mad and swear at each other and backstab, the whole fucking lot. But male aggression is 'normal' and female aggression is " Drama". Also note worthy, female friends are worth growing for. Female friends are worth the effort. Female friends are a gift and everyone should treat them as such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Dating men who are better at academics than youA smart person will recognize that no matter what they know, they are crushed by the infinity of their ignorance. They will value your intelligence for what it is. If they ever devalue the kind of intelligence you poses, diplomas be damned, they are a fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Great pre-date tip for new FDS members: tell your gay male friend or female friend that “knows” how some men can be subtly manipulativeWhat a great message. I'm the universal gay friend to everyone and even in high school I've been telling girls to watch out. I've spent hours cutting through the bullshit and laying out the red flags in a bright angry row. Queer culture has a large amount of inside signaling, and many grew up learning to spot things so they could survive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 4 | I love it when men recognise LVM!Lol perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 7 | I love it when men recognise LVM!The end reminds me of LetterKenny "figure it oout" heh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 5 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristI promise this rambling has a point, please bear with me. In stage combat you have the person "attacking" and the person "defending". The rule is the person who is in control is always the Defender (Def.). They call the shots, make the moves, control the scene, all of it. The Attacker (Atk.) has to follow their lead and do their best to keep up and make it believable. In basically all cases the Attacker should be literally unable to actually hurt the Defender. For example, if Atk. is supposed to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 9 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristAlrighty, if you actually want an answer: Its because the sex part of your brain is the easiest one to build associations with. Your brain has this one pleasurable thing happen, it wants to happen again. But what was there? Anything barely adjacent is at risk. We already have brains that lead us to becoming superstitious and other false positive types; these brain traits are amplified when trying to get something good. As for data, there is data on this. Like a lot. Like how we can convince rats… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:45 AM |
| 14 | Now I understand the men of OLDjust because you give doesn't mean you are entitled to anyone Its not about "being entitled" to anyone. She is saying, that incredible people will want to be with other incredible people. If you have spent your life improving yourself why would you be interested in someone who doesn't work on themselves, but expects someone else to do it for them. You wouldn't. And you shouldn't. But lots of men believe that they are incredible despite never doing anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Now I understand the men of OLDThis is some sage wisdom here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | No "why" to start picking up women.I like the connections I am make with people. Also, sex is fun. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What would you do?Wait till the is a more comfortable distance between you and her before acknowledging that you've seen her, maybe 30ft, and then maybe go to greet at about 15ft. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The Fear Of HumiliationSo, while this is much bigger than just this, I think thw thing about humiliation is that we fear that that means we are something. We make mistakes so we now are less than what we were before. We now somehow deserve the ridicule or shame we feel. We have proven all our worst fears and perceptions of ourselves right, by messing up or having things not go as planned. It's not that that is true, but that's how we feel. Why it feels so much. Because it's no longer about this one incident, it's abou… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I practice flirting/sexting without actually getting myself out there physically?Take chances, make mistakes, get messy. You are gonna be cringe. Your face will turn into a cherry red and you will feel like your eyes are going to pop out of your head. Accept it now, and just be bold. It is the hardest easy thing I can think of is just committing to something that feels ridiculous. Because it is ridiculous. But! It's also a great time. Go for it. That's The best you can do. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | [need advice] Where to get to know women? How to get closer to women? How to hint interest in a relationship?Talk to people in your hobby that you don't usually, get into something new, etc. We all look our best when we are having a good time. Before looking for a girl somewhere, look for a good time somewhere. Then, talk to the girls there. If you did wind up at a party, kick it on the porch or in a corner where it's a little less intense. Then have fun, and people will enjoy you more. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk rejections"Next" Take it as nothing personal and a blessing. You now get to stop worrying about it and wasting time and energy on someone who, for reasons you most likely don't control, is not into you. Now you get to get out there and find someone who is. For the pain, internalize that it doesn't mean something is wrong with you. They are just looking for something else. And that's ok. There are people who are into you that you aren't into, and that's ok. Just keep rolling on. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do strippers and escorts always call clients “baby”?In my experience to make people feel more comfortable and less awkward. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | ExpressionSo, a lot of people are really conditioned to not let certain things out. Depending on where you from and the culture around you, what that is can differ. And tbh, opening up is scary. There is no guarantee you won't be judged. In my personal experience, test the waters with things that are low risk and see how people react. People who reassure or accept those small things will likely be more accepting on a higher level. People who make it a habit to put down or make fun of others for their vuln… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What are some tactics you guys do to display your value to a woman ?Talking about what you are genuinely proud of. Accomplishments that just show "value" aren't nearly as impactful as something you worked hard for. In some cases you can mention the value, like: "It took me saving up to get this expensive part to finish this tool restoration" or whatever. But it's the hard work people tend to be most impressed by. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 8 | Fellow men, how does one become a more interesting and thoughtful/thought provoking person? 🤔Honestly, try to develop higher levels of empathy or sympathy. Doing this will open up to seeing things in new ways which leads to far more insight. It also isn't topic limited. It's a great skill to have and will make your genuinely more thoughtful. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:55 PM |
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