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I met my husband at 27 even though I’m extremely shy and a complete shut-in. Keep working on your goals
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 02:35 PM
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I’ve never heard of it but it looks good, I’ll have to check it out
/r/RedPillWives02/08/24 03:21 PM
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Here are some great books I’ve collected over the years! Femininity: Fascinating Womanhood, How to Be Lovely (The Audrey Hepburn Way of Life) Marriage: The Empowered Wife, For Women Only, The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work Homemaking: Home Comforts (The Art & Science of Keeping House), How to Keep House While Drowing, The Little Book of Hygge
/r/RedPillWives31/07/24 09:30 PM
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Wow thanks! I didn’t even know Spotify had audiobooks or content exclusive to premium members lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/23 07:40 PM
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Continue being a good woman to him and work on your self-esteem. I recommend the book “6 Pillars of Self-Esteem” by Nathaniel Brandon or books by David D. Burns.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 09:50 PM
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It’s disgusting
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 11:58 PM
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Check out It Takes Two for a cooperative game
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 03:30 PM
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This is true in my experience!! My fiancé is the only guy I’ve been with that doesn’t watch it and he wants me every day and constantly calls me beautiful. I don’t feel any insecurity with him
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 02:42 AM
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Same. There’s always r/trueoffmychest
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 06:08 AM
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I’m cold all the time so I have to wear something that covers my arms and legs lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 01:51 AM
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None of these generalizations are true for every man. There are good ones out there
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 08:14 PM
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I like to put on blush and some eyeshadow to feel more feminine. And wear comfy but sexy clothes like yoga pants
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/22 03:35 AM
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I wonder how I can navigate this in my relationship. My hubby earns more than me but he has a lot of debt payments, a mortgage, and other bills. I am very thrifty (and happy this way) and have a ton of extra money after each paycheck. I want to help with bills and stuff so I’ve been sending him all my extra cash but I think it’s making him feel like less of a man.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 08:21 PM
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Sleeping in separate beds? Becoming normalized. But sexting with other women? Hell no!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 06:19 AM
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It only goes to day 12. I’m guessing they never finished?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 09:34 AM
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I was with a guy for 4 years. Our relationship was great on paper but he never saw me as the one he wanted to marry. I could sense that and broke up with him eventually. I’m now with the man of my dreams who is 100% committed to me. Even though I was comfortable with the first guy, it was so worth it to go out of my comfort zone to find someone perfect for me and who views me the same way.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/22 06:54 PM
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Same here. I’ve tried the RPW approach in several of my relationships. If he’s a LVM, he’ll take advantage and you’ll become resentful. I’m with a HVM man now and he treats me like a queen. So I treat him just as well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/22 05:46 PM
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I will say, I recently left a man who would get drunk and blame me for when I would get upset about his drunken behavior. No regrets here. I got my peace back
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 08:49 PM
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That’s not assertiveness, it’s straight up abuse
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 05:06 PM
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It’s just ridiculous. Women are people, not incubators!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:44 PM
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No. Can you explain why you ask that?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 10:34 PM
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Wow thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 10:26 PM
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I’ve grown my hair out but I have a long face so it makes my face look longer lol. I’m trying to find a happy medium. Also fat goes to my thighs first unfortunately. Thank you for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 09:31 PM
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Why are these degenerates being upvoted, Jesus Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:32 AM
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None tbh
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 02:06 PM
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Sounds exhausting for little benefit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:26 AM
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I’ve loved this stew recipe for many years. You can add other things if you like. I like to add mushrooms, sometimes broccoli. It smells sooo good while it’s cooking and is full of flavor. I like to serve on rice :) https://www.budgetbytes.com/slow-cooker-rosemary-garlic-beef-stew-slow-cooker/
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 09:23 PM
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Yep, my ex told me early on he didn’t even really like sex and would rather cuddle. I thought he was just saying that so I’d let my guard down. Lo and behold, he meant it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 09:56 PM
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You should probably move on
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 09:54 PM
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If y’all are together and happy and he doesn’t cheat on you, I don’t think it matters what his sexuality is
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 04:15 PM
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Oof you dodged a bullet. Nice job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:04 PM
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I’ve been practicing STFU for years but I end up resentful because nothing improves. How do I do it correctly?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 01:39 PM
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Love her. Mostly watch her for inspiration
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/22 12:23 AM
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This year I bought presents for his mom and sister and nephew because they always give us presents but he can’t be bothered. I left his grandmother’s gift up to him and told him so because I couldn’t go to her Christmas gathering. Then the day of, he says to me: “We forgot to get grandma something!” And I’m like WE didn’t forget anything; it’s you who forgot. I’m tired of managing everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:25 PM
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That’s why I stopped making guy friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:04 PM
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I’m 27 and beginning to freak out a little. I have a lot of low self-esteem/confidence issues I realize are holding me back and I’m looking for a therapist and trying to make myself get out there.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 07:53 PM
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I’m on vacation next week :D
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 06:27 AM
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And she still gets rejected 😔
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 11:13 PM
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If a guy is crazy about you he will want to marry you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 09:11 PM
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She’s mine as well
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 04:26 PM
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By avoiding RP men. I think there’s a big difference between a quality traditional man you meet irl and a man who is into redpill on the Internet
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 04:44 PM
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I’m also like this. I’m a quiet person by nature so when I DO talk, it’s usually because something bothers me enough to complain. So I was wondering “how can I say more neutral or positive things?” And I still haven’t figured that out because I’m bad at being social and all I can think of is commenting on the weather or a tv show lol :p But I did start reading more books on positivity and stoicism and it has shifted me to at least think more positively so I’m less likely to say random negative c…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 11:17 PM
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Why are you referring to yourself in the third person?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/21 03:45 PM
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Is this your blog and you’re pretending to be a woman? I can tell by your comment history you know.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/21 02:30 PM
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It seems fine to me. Maybe he got tired or busy
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 01:51 PM
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Find a recipe on Allrecipes and just follow the steps. Sometimes the recipe has a video you can follow. Those are helpful in case you don’t know how to do something. Before cooking, glance over the steps. If you don’t know how to do something (ex. Chop cabbage, cook chicken, etc,) look it up on YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 02:24 PM
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He’s so addicted to porn that he’s desensitized to sex. If you keep letting him watch it while you have sex, eventually he’ll NEED the porn to get off with you. I wouldn’t recommend continuing that practice unless you really don’t mind
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 02:34 PM
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The Simple Sophisticate
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 01:24 PM
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So he’s scared if you enter into a relationship that you’ll eventually leave out of frustration…but you’re frustrated now!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 02:05 PM
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Thanks girl
/r/RedPillWives19/09/21 12:44 AM
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You can follow all the RPW advice in the book but if your guy is a LVM, you’re wasting your time.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/21 12:29 AM
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Check out Dr Dray on YouTube. She’s a dermatologist and has videos on just about any skin question you might have. She also recommends proven skincare products.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 02:41 PM
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I listened to some episodes of Suzanne Venker but she kind of has a self-righteous attitude that grates on me a little
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 03:21 PM
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I also love WFH. I have social anxiety so being at the office would always add a layer of stress. Now I have so much free time without a commute. I also don’t have to buy as many new clothes or gas and I’m not tempted to buy an expensive lunch at the office.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/21 01:22 PM
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I think it’s because women have a vision of the perfect life and they want to achieve that. They want the perfect husband, home, children, etc. And if they notice something’s flaws, they want to change it. I think one reason women do this is because they’re unhappy or feel incomplete and they think if they can perfect things in their life they will be happy (speaking from my own experience here). Seeing other people’s “perfect” lives on social media constantly doesn’t help either because women c…
/r/RedPillWives08/09/21 02:10 PM
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Nice :) I love it too, though I haven’t finished ROW yet
/r/RedPillWives30/08/21 11:54 PM
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Have you read the Stormlight Archive series?
/r/RedPillWives30/08/21 11:13 PM
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Reading Atomic Habits
/r/RedPillWives30/08/21 09:34 PM
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THANK YOU. Men always expecting someone else to deal with their issues instead of working on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:15 PM
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You’re right but the thing is, both subs have redpill in the name and people who hate on RPW aren’t gonna come here and actually read what it’s about. They’re just gonna think we agree with TRP
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 12:42 PM
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Because it’s associated with male redpill
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 12:39 PM
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The Feminine Fancy, Mrs. Midwest, Cynthia L, and That Feminine Housewife are some that I watch regularly
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 01:16 PM
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I love her vlogs too. They’re really inspirational
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 01:15 PM
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Oh god lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 10:33 PM
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Haha idk, but I recognized the title and some of the wording so I had to prove to myself I’m not imagining things and found the original post archived :p I looked at this person’s post history and the comments don’t make sense so maybe it’s a bot or something…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 10:28 PM
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He bought some brownies as a surprise and had me close my eyes and he put one in my hand. I think it’d be cool to make this a regular post, it’ll help us all practice gratitude and make it a habit :)
/r/RedPillWives11/08/21 09:11 PM
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This is a word-for-word repost from August of last year but it’s helpful so eh
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 09:01 PM
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I struggle with this
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 05:39 PM
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I wouldn’t call it “love-bombing” but he is very enthusiastic about messaging you and is happy to be getting positive responses. At least he’s putting effort into it. The “wet myself” and initial porn comment is weird imo…(I personally wouldn’t like that at all) But if you’re enjoying the conversation, nothing wrong with keeping it going. Listen to your gut!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 07:25 PM
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I love finance and make more money in the relationship, so it’s not for us
/r/RedPillWives30/06/21 01:30 PM
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We usually go for holidays to see family but we just felt like going this weekend
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 07:10 PM
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We’re spending the weekend in our hometown
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 02:13 PM
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I have the same problem. Though I’m the breadwinner in my relationship I still long for a more RP dynamic. But when I put the effort in to do the RP stuff like cleaning and looking pretty and it doesn’t get noticed it’s like “man, I’m doing all this work for nothing” and give up lol.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/21 01:19 PM
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I’d recommend Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping Home by Cheryl Mendelson
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:57 PM
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The posts are still archived on theredarchive.com. Find r/redpillwives in the list of subreddits and then search by post name or username. It is unfortunate that they’re no longer here though
/r/RedPillWives11/06/21 01:21 PM
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Even though he no longer says “why can’t you look like her” he still sends those pictures because he’s thinking it, and is hoping to indirectly influence you to be more like them. Do you know the subreddit r/instagramreality? Maybe you should send him some pics from there so he understands how edited all of those Instagram photos are. Also, he married you for you; not because you’re an Instagram model! Maybe tell him how it makes you feel and that it hurts your feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 06:35 PM
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Nice :)
/r/RedPillWives04/06/21 03:58 PM
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I’ve read it. It was interesting but there weren’t many actionable tips.
/r/RedPillWives04/06/21 12:55 PM
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Thinner Leaner Stronger is good. I also recommend Strong Curves by Bret Contreras
/r/RedPillWives01/06/21 12:17 PM
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There’s no way to choose where the fat comes off of your body. Where fat is stored is (mostly) genetic. So if you’re running on the treadmill, there’s no guarantee that the fat is going to come off your legs specifically. The best thing to do if you want to lose fat is overall weight loss. I also recommend this article, it has great advice on which exercises build glutes but not thighs. https://www.t-nation.com/training/dispelling-the-glute-myth
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/21 12:47 PM
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I’m mostly asking how to change my own thoughts around the habit, not how to change the habit itself. But thinking about the good things is a good point, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 09:34 PM
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True 😬
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 09:32 PM
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It’s just the habit itself I’m asking about. And yeah I realize it’s not a big deal and isn’t worth bringing up with him, so I’d like to change my perspective so I can live more carefree if that makes sense lol. Thank you for the tips.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 08:14 PM
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Good ideas :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 06:39 PM
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It would hurt his self-esteem if you told him you’ve been attracted to other people but not him, so you probably shouldn’t mention it. Are you on medication/birth control? Some of those can kill your sex drive.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 04:18 PM
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I never really “taught” myself to cook. Recipes are usually so easy to follow. So I just follow the recipe exactly and the food turns out good. I’d suggest think of a simple meal that you enjoy and google the recipe. Read through it beforehand and google anything you don’t understand (for example: how to mince garlic, how to cook ground beef, etc.). Allrecipes has a lot of good recipes and the popular ones usually have a video to follow along.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 08:57 PM
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I think thigh hair does tend to be thinner and grow slower than lower leg hair. Personally, I only shave my upper leg hair every 2 weeks because it’s so hard to notice
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/21 02:29 PM
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I’ve thought about getting one of those. Might try it out :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 03:16 AM
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It definitely is a pretty look :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 11:16 PM
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Thanks, I will give these a try!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 11:15 PM
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While hormonal birth control didn’t affect my mood, I did need to stop taking it due to hypertension. Now we only use condoms and I feel as if our sex life has gotten worse because my SO hates wearing a condom and would rather not have sex at all (lol). Which cycle tracking app do you use and how long have you used it? I may need to look into something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 07:18 PM
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When my SO begins to tell me something I already know, I usually try not to say "I know" because he feels important when I listen to him and give my full attention. However, it also depends on the situation! If it's something about himself you already know it might be more flattering to say "I remember you telling me that" than "Yes I know."
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/17 04:26 PM
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It doesn't sound like he's open to work on your relationship if he dismisses all of your ideas like that...It kind of sounds like he's trying to "check out" of the relationship. I'm not good with advice though, so hopefully someone else has some good advice for you. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 11:05 PM
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A friend convinced me last week to donate plasma. If you have a center near you, it's a good option. The center here lets you go twice a week and earn from a range of 25-60 dollars for every donation. I was scared my first time, but it only hurt for a second and then I could just casually look at my phone for 45 minutes. I really recommend it!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 04:31 PM
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I am ISFJ and my SO is ENFP. We do have a hard time understanding where the other is coming from a lot, but we're learning with time. It's hard to establish relationships for me because I'm shy and a little boring, which is what my type is known for, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:07 AM
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My partner and I are both atheist. I've always held traditional values because my mom did in her marriage. She stayed home and kept her family happy. I wouldn't say my lack of religion helps or hinders anything because RP values are a way of life in themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:03 AM
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I'm a lot like you. I spent my free time on a computer from age 8 to graduation and never had any friends lol. Once I got to college a lot changed though. I met people in anime club and the cafeteria. This helped to develop my social skills but I admit they're still lacking. College is good because you're forced to do projects with others or you fail. Sometimes you just have to force yourself to talk and the more you do, the better it gets. I recommend going out in public. Even if you bring a la…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 12:59 PM
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When I moved in with my boyfriend, I brought my colorful shower curtain and asked if I could put it in the back bedroom. He surprisingly told me to switch his blue one in the front with my colorful curtain because he likes colorful things. For the kitchen/living room area, we're trying to go for a brown and earthy theme. He is into the zen/buddhism things and I like that most of the decorations and objects he collects are brown, so I can match them with other brown items.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 06:22 PM
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I'm in a similar situation to yours. My boyfriend told me before we got together that he didn't really like sex. I am a skinny and attractive woman, but it is rare that he gets in the mood for more than a quickie if that. Since we're a playful couple, I offer long back rubs on days that we have sex. He enjoys back rubs so he's more willing to make a trade. This might sound weird but it keeps us both content.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 03:46 AM
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