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Education. However I was in a steady relationship so I really didn't have to choose. And no regrets focusing on my education, it got me where I am atm, not my relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:38 AM
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My bf doesn't care if I watch porn or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:09 PM
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I enjoy it, both physically and mentally. With some guys, like my current bf, it feels really good. With some guys it feels good but not that amazing. And I also know that some of my friends aren't that into it. I've had some partners and never really wondered what other men feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:12 PM
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Not really. The only thing is that I prefer to date guys with similar traits, smart, enthusiastic about their career, fun. So far had no problems finding an amazing ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:47 AM
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Do people actually call guys ugly to reject them? Instead of just saying that they aren't interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:37 AM
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Okay you do you I guess. Have fun trying your method.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:52 PM
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Sure hot and interesting people may do that. But in my eyes mind games like that make the person just really unattractive. So I don't see why bother. There are other hot and interesting people you don't have to spend your time doing stupid shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:50 PM
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Why would I? I have too much respect for myself and people I socialise with to play some stupid mind games. And do you know what "be my guest" even means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:45 PM
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Yeah, girls. If you wanna be with someone so immature that plays games like that, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:38 PM
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If you'd do that to me I'd be more than happy to be without you. Sure, for some people with lower self-esteem or something that could work as a way to coerce her. For me that'd just show me your true colours and make me want to have nothing to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:28 PM
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All cool. Yeah that's the thing I hate most about this sub. Everyone makes broad généralisations of the opposite sex and forget that people are individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:32 PM
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Then they can only blame themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:43 PM
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I want people I'm dealing with to understand that when I say no it truly means no. Not maybe or convince me or anything else but no. If they don't get that I don't want them in my life. Yes, there are girls playing stupid games but I don't see why adult people would like to partake in these Edited a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:08 PM
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Some play these stupid games, absolutely. But it doesn't make OP sound any less arrogant while he claims women as whole do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:54 PM
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I want to be equal partners with my bf. Of course there are things he's better at and there's things I'm better at and that's perfectly okay. We help each other in things that we excell and figure out stuff we don't know how to do together. We are partners and in it together. I don't want to walk over him and neither does he want to put me between a fist and a stove
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:13 PM
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That's cool and you do you. My take is that if a girl plays games like that, she's exactly like that, a girl. People shouldn't waste time on people who aren't mature enough to know what they want and be straight about it. Like when starting to date my bf we were both up front about our goals and wishes and surprise surprise, no stupid games and time wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:20 PM
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I know we don't represent all women. But people here also need to remember that not all women are those who play stupid games. Like I said, I don't know if it's a cultural thing or something but I don't know anyone irl who acts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:58 PM
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Thank god my bf understands that when I say no I truly and actually mean no. Not maybe, not change my mind, nothing else but no. I don't know if it's a cultural thing or something but I know for a fact that neither I nor any of my friends play these games you're so sure women play. If I say no when getting to know a guy and he doesn't respect it, it's done. Period
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:45 AM
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It's just the same stupid mentality he has in his post. "Women play hard to get and I know this for a fact. I'm absolutely correct." "It's spelled gray with an a you illiterate fool. Learn to spell. #america"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:41 AM
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Ah Thank you! I don't understand the whole mentality. The only thing I care about is whether my bf has been safe, is monogamous with me, and that we have all in all healthy relationships. The n count means absolute nothing for me and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:33 PM
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I don't like it. If he doesn't trust me, he shouldn't be with me. Ofc it's nice to know that if I get a stalker or something he'd help me, but I don't want him to be guarding me against my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:01 PM
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None like that in my dating history
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:46 PM
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Meh if he's a good guy who treats me well sure. If he's an asshole then no. His profession wouldn't be an issue to me as such
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:46 PM
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I personally want kids at some point. Reasons why not yet: It's really hard to be in an academic career when you're a younger woman. You're constantly questioned whether you are going to have kids and pressured about it. Additionally I want to be in a good position careerwise when I do have kids. Second, even though I'm from Europe and we get amazing state aid for kids and families, I still want to have a good financial situation when having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:44 AM
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I care cause I truly believe that majority of the men complaining here aren't terrible people and just need someone to lead them to the right path. It's difficult to change your thought patterns but not impossible. And I want to help always if I can For those truly assholey guys, I just don't want to rise to their level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:46 PM
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I think it's stupid and pretty much don't want to have anything to do with a guy who thinks so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:33 PM
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I just want to help people get some other points of view from their normal echo chamber. Plus debating with people is interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:59 PM
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European here, prostitution is pretty legal or at least not illegal in many places here. Don't really agree with your hypothesis here. Even though prostitution is legal, not all men who see sex as a "need" use these services. Some see prostitutes as a second class citizens and don't want to pay for something they think they should receive for free. And tbh if my bf was with me solely for sex or I'd take advantage of him and use sex as a incentive, something would be really wrong in our relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:52 PM
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Well I bring a lot to the table. I can ask my bf why he thinks I'm worthy of his time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:52 AM
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Yeah? And I wouldn't date a woman like that either. I don't see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:31 PM
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Oh good I was getting worried!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:18 PM
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Maybe but I'm going with his definition in my answer so. I guess you need to have the conversation about this with OP instead of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:46 PM
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Well I feel that if you work as a team you can also be better at your job. I personally don't compete with others than me and luckily my work place encourages that kind of approach Edited to add: sorry for the misunderstanding. Now that I read your comment I kinda see what you meant 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:43 PM
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You can do that also without bringing others down by just being the best you you can be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:40 PM
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Yeah sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:37 PM
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I'm not that familiar with the pills tbh, I just based my comment on the OP definition of how men would act
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:14 PM
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Well I'm à lawyer so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:05 PM
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True. But I also need to be able to live with myself and be okay with my decisions. That's why using people isn't my cup of tea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:50 PM
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You can get to the top also by respecting others. At least so far it has paid me well in life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:48 PM
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Yeah but it's also a bit shitty in my opinion to just see people as means to an end and not see their value as people with feelings and rights
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:45 PM
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Yeah I get that! I'm just basing my opinion what OP described in his post :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:43 PM
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Yeah but on the cheating, lying, using people to get what you want aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:33 PM
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I'd personally either stop having sex with men or find an anomaly of a man who doesn't follow rp and is a decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:28 PM
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Oh wow I guess I've just been really lucky with my partners. Haven't had a situation like that too often. But then, communication is the key and with some random hookup there isn't too much communication. Hope you find a guy with whom you click and who is also interested in your enjoyment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:49 AM
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Oh dear I guess you didn't understand that I was being sarcastic :/ Op, I stand behind what I said! I hope you all the best and truly believe that having a low income isn't a deal breaker. u/HeartofDestiny it was fun, but I'm not interested in debating my personal experiences of whom I get attracted with you any further
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:22 PM
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Okay so cool of you to tell me why I'm dating my bf! Had no idea it was one of those reasons 🙄 but how could a superficial dumdum woman like me know anything :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:07 PM
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For me, it doesn't matter how much my bf earns. More often I've been in a situation where men have a problem if women earn more than they do. If you are insecure about it, maybe date within your economic level? I don't think that it's necessary though. I don't date to be financially supported but because I enjoy his company and he makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:35 PM
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Okay cool well now I know you're so fixed on your opinion there's no point to even continue discussing this with you. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:27 PM
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I don't know why you keep dragging this. It doesn't need to be dependent of age or health like low testosterone. People are just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:24 PM
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Oh cool I love learning new stuff! You know there's this quirk online that not all here are native English speakers. Crazy huh? Low sex drive can be caused by low testosterone, but I'm just saying that people have different drives and it's not a rule that men have to have higher drive than women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:21 PM
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Yeah I probably do cause I'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:04 PM
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Or people differ in this? Way to make general sweeps about health issues solely based on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:49 AM
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Well in my personal experience and based on my friends' experiences, not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:28 PM
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Yeah he was trying to be fun and sarcastic. Tried
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:39 PM
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Well it happens at bars too. Basically if there's alcohol, there may be problems like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:12 PM
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That's good. You should trust her if there isn't reasons not to. Well, where I'm from bars are just for drinking and sitting. If I want to dance, it's a club thing. What's so bad about it? And what's preventing drunk men being ass hats at bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:04 PM
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I get it. It's your first relationship so it can be scary. But speaking about this could really help you. You could tell her about your insecurities. In my experience, open conversation is the key in any relationship. It's totally okay for you to feel insecure and scared even. Just don't hold it against her and shut her out. Talk with her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:54 AM
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I'm so happy you understand! Like, who'd like being grobed by drunk men when you wanna have a good time with your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:50 AM
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Dude if she's a woman she's pretty much vulnerable where ever she goes. That's part of the fun of being a woman. Yay! And I'm pretty sure she's aware of what guys may do. And for the drinking. You said that she doesn't drink much. Or that she isn't a cheating type. You say you trust her but these comments give me an impression that you're really insecure about your relationship and scared that she'll dump you for some other guy. If so you need to talk to her and think about your relationship. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:35 AM
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Don't really have an answer to your question, but saying that men have higher sex drive than women is a bit problematic. I've been in relationships where I had higher sex drive than my then bf. It really depends on the person, not about their sex or gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:44 AM
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Then that's a you problem. I don't like it either but I don't feel that I should limit what I do just because guys like that. If some girl flirted with my bf or anything like that, I'd just laugh at it with my bf. I trust him and expect the same from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:53 AM
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I personally go to clubs cause that's pretty much the only place where I can go dancing with my friends. And if my bf would prohibit me from going... I dunno. We'd have a serious discussion about boundaries and trust
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:47 AM
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