Ok then wait for a woman to ask you out if it’s that important to you??? I mean if I really want to go out with someone I’m not just agreeable to paying, I’m excited to treat them! It might be a bit different for people meeting the first time from dating apps, though, but I still think this is an easy fix?
And apparently queens are so powerful in chess thanks to the upset of a real queen asking if her court saw her as weak as the queen piece, so they made it the most powerful. That’s why I love getting to make use of her when I play