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I mean in all fairness, I don't think anyone could argue that Comedy is an easy career to be successful in no matter what. There are plenty of comedians that I don't find funny, but the time and dedication it takes to pursue that risky route, and to perfect their personal style is definitely a skill. Never found much of Schumer's stuff funny but she's got talent in her performance at least.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:30 PM
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The whole schtick of "look at how horrible of a person I am" is usually an amusing routine to me. So sure acting like an manipulative, whore-ish, entitled woman is pretty funny if you take it how its intended. That said, its all pretty old an unoriginal. The idea of "look at how much I like sex as a WOMAN" in 2017 is retarded. Its not edgy. Its not shocking. So many female comedians use female-reliant humor as a crutch because its meant to subvert those kinds of notions of 'decency'. But it seem…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:19 PM
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100% agree. If there's only one SINGLE thing that someone takes away from TRP. If they ignore literally everything else and consider it a cesspool of "misogyny" For gods sake don't fool yourself into believing in "equal" partnerships. The healthiest relationships are going to have a man leading them. If a woman has to settle for a beta man who hasn't got guts, hasn't got a better career and hasn't got confidence its not going to fucking last. You'll hear plenty of normal guys saying they'd find …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:04 AM
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Its not impossible. Depending on the country, benefits, what he receives, city etc. A mentally ill dude that gets good money from the government but likes to live homeless could get that big feasibly.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:17 PM
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With unlimited access to professionally cooked food every single day of my life not to mention some expensive as hell wine and scotch I'd balloon up like a mother fucker. I mean really, who would want to spend any more time at the gym than what's needed for basic maintenance if money wasn't an issue? 15 hours already sounds pretty excessive imo.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:14 PM
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To me it has nothing to do with sourgrapes. Dan is hilarious and watching his lifestyle is definitely envy-porn of some sort. That said, its about being realistic. Dan is not a self-made man from the looks of things, and I'd warrant that he makes more money of instagram than he has off poker at this point tbh. He is absolutely the play-boy ideal, but he is not a good role model because there's no path to follow. Dan is something of a problem because he represents a near unattainable end-goal tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:08 PM
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Yup. Its just like troll-fishing. These women set four or five rods and just leave them out hoping for a bite her or there and if they get a response they set the hook and the whole song and dance begins again. Its emotionally disingenuous and fucking disgusting to me in all honesty.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:22 PM
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300 grams is overkill. Generally I think getting as much as you can naturally is ideal, and supplements should only be relied on if you simply can't stomach eating as much or if you're starved for time. I eat dirty as fuck meals because they're cheap so I never need to pay for something like mass gainer. Kraft dinner and sausages nets me a meal that's over 2000 calories and something like 70 grams of protein, and I have two more dense meals after that even.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:10 PM
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Great saying. I have no idea whether this kind of thing is really true since its going on 2400 years old, but its words to live by. You only have one body and its only young once. Make use of what you have and see what your full physical capabilities are until they fade away. You may stay in shape while you age with use of TRT or Roids but they expensive and have their own risks.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:42 PM
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Although I like these mantras, I really think its important to advocate individualism above everything else. Detachment is a characteristic that's highly effective at achieving a non-anxious and focused life, but being obsessive is absolutely necessary when it comes to true greatness. The problem is that obsession is an obvious double edged sword. Any great business person and many artists have been varying degrees of obsessed and been ready to sacrifice anything to achieve what they needed. But…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 01:46 PM
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I love how many false equivalences that liberal media will use to try and minimize the threat of radical Islam. You know what else is extremely dangerous based on RAW numbers or per capita death rate? The common cold, flu, alzheimers, cars, probably fucking lightning in all honesty. But the point is that these are all NATURAL phenomenon or essential consequences of modern life. Terrorism is NOT a fucking fact of life, nor does it have to be.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:36 AM
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Then you better get busy finding one. There isn't much purpose in life if you've found nothing you can dedicate time to except leisure.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 07:55 PM
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Seems so fucking strange that his first resort is to cuck himself. There's so many fucking ways to do something different with sex and that's his first choice? Be rougher, tie her down, choke her, slap her, tease her for an hour, leave her in a chair with a vibrator on her clit for fucks sake. If she turns down everything but fucking another man you've got a pretty fucking big hint to take.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 01:02 AM
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The mantra of "fuck your feelings" isn't about ignoring them as I understand it: its about transcending pettiness. There's virtue in being unshakable in ordinary life: to be able to be besought by inconveniences or problems but remain detached. On the other hand, there's nothing noble about not being emotional about the death of family or friends, or about breaking up with what you had thought to be a LTR. Its just a matter of how you apply it. Your emotions are ultimately just the product of yo…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:58 AM
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Money may not buy happiness, but it certainly buys comfort. The crucial part is not to get lost in the details when trying to get to your destination. If you mentally condition yourself to work like a machine then you won't ultimately benefit from the accomplishments that you get. So sure a lucrative degree in computer science, business, neurology, or chemical engineer is useful but if you live on auto-pilot then you're awareness of the present is diminished. The first and biggest part of living…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 03:31 PM
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Sleep is important for the gym and for your mental health. It all ties together and you shouldn't doubt that depression has very real physical counter-agents. Its not just a "feeling" its a disorder so if you feel genuinely depressed consistently try and order your life such that its alleviated as much as possible. I find that meditation helps as well: being able to clear your mind and not get lost in any kind of anxiety during the day or at night before sleep is great.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:30 PM
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Yes I agree. Playing music like violin is different from martial arts, but the principle of large compounds restricting flexibility is often true. I don't think that the typical MMA fighter follows the typical body building routine. They're different exercises with different goals, and I'd very much bet money on them focusing on unusual muscles and VERY even growth in order to maintain looseness. I don't think they're mutually exclusive because tons of fighters lift, but you need to find a speci…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:21 PM
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It's artificial and arbitrary achievement. If you restrict yourself to only playing videogames WITH company that might cut down a lot of time alone. If you're talking about a genuinely well done and manageable videogame that is story-driven then there's merit in trying it out a while. But anything competitive like counter-strike, MOBAs, MMOs, etc are all giant time sinks that give you effectively nothing but digital rewards. Unless you're socializing with friends that live FAR away there's no re…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:18 PM
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Do what makes you happy m8. Mountain biking and skiing will give you fuck large legs and an overall athletic physique so don't sweat it obviously. Anyone that isn't actively participating in sports like that should do weight lifting though. Its just faster, simpler, and easy to track progress in imo.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:17 PM
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When you're building for mass you will necessarily lose mobility and flexibility. I'm a violinist and a weight lifter and I can tell you now that standing upright for an hour and a half with my shoulders in use gets me tired and burning quickly. I have to shake off my ligaments often because of all my working out. If you do martial arts seriously then don't sacrifice your talent for weight lifting. For everyone else, I think weight lifting offers the simplest, fastest, and most effective routine…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:16 PM
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Precisely what I was going to write myself. There is practically no way of getting "too big" if you're natural and not literally a professional trainer with access to professional diet sources. If you're natty you'll never be "shredded" and if you're natty you'll never look like a "ballsack" because 3d delts are one of the classic red flags of roiders. You will NOT get fit by accident, and by the time you're a year in you'll be tired of how much farther there is to go.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:14 PM
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"B-but that's not what I heard in my gender studies class. They said that I should ask for consent before talking to any girl that I don't know! After all, women have it so bad having to tolerate the 'emotional labor' of talking to people."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:31 PM
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Solid stuff. I'm still far from what I would consider alpha, but it's hard for me to imagine reacting to that kind of behavior with anything other than derisive laughter. And woman that acts like a bitch and still feels entitled to attention and money deserves to be mocked openly.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:34 PM
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I find it endlessly amusing that there's all kinds of "privilege" in politics today, and even "thin privilege" despite thiness being EARNED. But somehow there's no such thing as "pretty privilege" ? When do ugly bastard 3/10s get to complain about not being "represented" on the covers of fashion magazines? Or is that finally crossing a line to these idiots?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:18 PM
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I once saw a post here or else where complaining about how some article they had seen accused "shy people" of having an ego: of being too proud (or something along those lines) to compromise themselves. Although I think shyness can be real, I think that most often its an excuse people use to protect their ego. Life moves fast and in the grand scheme of things it seems utterly ridiculous not to make your approaches of whichever cute girl you see at a bus stop or elsewhere. Fuck those retarded fem…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:14 PM
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That's a cute opinion. Let's prepare for light compound movements by doing machine work so that when you're "ready" for compounds you go unnecessarily heavy due to arrogance and then take LONGER to internalize the motions because you've avoided working on it when you were starting out. Brilliant idea. Btw buy my book coming out this summer called "Everyone Who Disagrees With me is a Retard!"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:10 PM
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I don't think the take away here is that "personality isn't attractive" necessarily. Its just the basics of hypergamy and a man that doesn't take care of himself. If you act entitled, if you aren't fit, if you take no effort in your appearance, and your main hobby is videogames, then you're not going to be able to get much attention from your wife. Hell, at least if your hobby is something that's outside there's the offchance that your S.O could think you're socializing getting to know other men…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:13 AM
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Simple point, but I'm curious: how is dancing for fitness? I've been giving some thought to a supplemental hobby and thought that either boxing or active-dancing could act as some pretty decent cardio as well as some basic shoulder and core stuff. Thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:30 PM
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Its called intellectualization I think. There's a long passage in "No More Mr Nice Guy" I think where he explains how common it is for people to pursue and obsess over reading ABOUT the solution to their problems instead of actually engaging with them on a practical level. These people are motivated enough to change, but they're satisfied so quickly and easily by the feeling of making progress instead of actually going through with the gritty reality of what it means. I'm in this boat myself. I'…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:45 AM
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This is a way too undervalued line of thinking. Just consider the following: women are along for the ride. Yes lifting is great and essential, so optimizing your appearance in general. But past that the value of experience is probably the highest among all the others. Social standing / social proof is certainly effective, but you know how you obtain that quality? By being interesting as fuck. If you're able to be a good story teller, and have LOTS of stories to tell then you will make friends. C…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:41 AM
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Jesus. No need to be that hostile dude. Sucks that guys that have everything they need except a personality are in the same place as people that are genetically unlucky, but the guy is here asking for help all the same. to OP Just read the side bar, read some of TRP books, but don't get bogged down in content consumption. regiment your time find a direction and then break down how to achieve it optimally by adopting long term and short term goals with strategies.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:20 AM
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Read the sidebar and find out yourself. You clearly have some esteem issues if you think that your look are at all worth worrying about despite being complimented about them before. Having a good physique helps but isn't imperative when you're naturally good looking. Work on getting out and doing different things to develop some experiences and stories to tell about your experiences. Find things that make you eager to talk about and engage others.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:18 AM
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Its basic side bar stuff. It just helps when you actually work out, are naturally good looking and are confident because of those two things. Getting a match on something like bumble and having her show up is already expressing a fair bit of interest.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 06:32 AM
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How the hell is that even possible? Granted I've never read or written a prenup myself, but as I understand it its like a contract that each partner gets what they earned themself. How the fuck do you just straight up negate a written and consented contract over somone's hurt feelings? That's fucking retarded. I still think any billionaire can waste their money however they want because its not an object to them next to getting high class pussy, but if someone like Elon actually risked that much…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:22 PM
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Ok absolutely then that's what I was curious about. Living life like a slave and not being able to be free to work out is shitty but if you're going to be able to have it pay off whatever. Add some fitness info in your favorites tab and check it out next year or something like that. Retire by your mid forties with a great physique and you'll slay
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:20 PM
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Sure, as a starting point i agree. Getting in the routine is fine. But you have to understand the rudimentary truth that you NEED a routine and diet if you want improvement at the gym. Its not rocket science. All I've done the last few months has been a simple modified Strong Lifts routine. I'm fueled by sausages and KD half the time to save money and do something like 10 different exercises total. But that combo has me at the strongest I've ever been in my life. And only getting stronger still.…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:18 PM
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Idk man, you can get a yearly membership for like 120 dollars at plenty of gyms. If you've got your own place that's fine, but you're leaving out a bench, a rack, and about another couple hundred dollars worth of weights. http://www.ebay.com/bhp/45-lb-weight-plates Right now I'd need SIX of those things + a barbell AND more plates to add on it just for deadlifts. And if I wanted to increase that its yet another 2 plates to buy. Your total easily reaches something closer to 1200$ if you want all …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:49 AM
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I used the same routine thereabout and it went nowhere. I have (or had?) a scar on my back from where the skin was rubbed raw from my carpet when I did sit ups. And it got me nowhere as far as I understand it. Not only that, but doing only push ups will fuck up your physique if you do it for too longer or too intensely. There's a few vids on youtube about that. I'd recommend trying to AT LEAST increase intensity by doing diamond push ups or other variants as well as weight dips/pullups, squats, …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:39 AM
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I got offered a job based on nothing but the way I looked. Out of absolutely no where in a fucking walmart. that's the power of working out. You demonstrate your discipline, your strength, your integrity and MARKET yourself. The "halo principle" is 100% in effect for most people, and if you optimize your looks its as good in a social setting as it is in a professional one. A guy that goes to an interview and weighs a mean 140 lbs at 6' compared to someone who is a lean 200lbs at 6' with the SAME…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:37 AM
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That sort of implies that lifting will necessarily lead to that. I've been working out for 1.5 years so far and just finished my PR of OHP at 140 lbs 5x3 sets. But in terms of ideal physique? Still pretty far I'd say. I think that If I cut down and got leaner I would be noticeably bigger and broader than the average person but by no means anything "bulky" in that sense. It takes a lot of fucking effort or roids to actually get bloated out that way, and if you have a balanced routine you'll never…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:34 AM
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Unless you're an over aggressive cunt (i.e. losing frame easily and fighting over petty shit) then actually having to know juijitsu is almost entirely irrelevant. Its only relevant (as with weight lifting) when you can brag about it honestly. Except when you get the nice benefit of working out being that its visible, and that you get the personal benefit of seeing your goals get exceeded and challenged consistently. Overcoming those odds is fun and well worth it IMO. In any normal fight the guy …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:31 AM
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No need to get all supremecist about it. I've found that I've had just as much comradeship from gym-bros. They're two different things entirely. Doing both is the best of both, and between the two I would go with the one that gives me the strength to actually achieve the things that I like: being able to portage a heavy ass canoe, being able to hike long distances with a heavy pack, being able to landscape, being able to XYVZ. I have no interest in whether or not someone could beat me up if they…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:27 AM
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Body weight is largely useless. If you have the means to work out properly in a gym that's better. The key to it is a progressive overload routine that can be measured. If you aren't keeping logs of your improvement over time and not continually challenging yourself with compound movements or heavier weights on other exercises you WONT get any stronger. Once you're stronger you can work on focusing on whatever you want: whether that's the fuccboi aesthetic of 160lbs 10% bodyfat, or go the strong…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:23 AM
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There's nothing funnier than seeing newbies struggling to curl a 20 or 25 and then rep it out using their shoulder but not realizing what the fuck they're doing. Form is everything.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:20 AM
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People aren't taught proper nutrition or basic physiology in school, and there's a huge war on masculinity and typically masculine behavior now. When I first started I just did random shit that I figure would work. Some OHP, biking, curls, tricep stuff and then left in like 30-45 minutes after my circuit to do it the next day or day after. But no amount of work will lead to improvement without diet to fuel it and without a regimented MEASURED routine to exploit it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:18 AM
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I guess its different for different people. I enjoy it: A) Because I have a lot of friends that I can meant there. Lots of banter in and about things in general, lifting, politics, etc. B) Because I have set goals that I work towards every single day. I see improvement every single work out. C) Because I can listen to plenty of great music and just enjoy that alone D) Because the women are fucking gorgeous. E) The after gym shower of being completely clean and trim. F) Generally people are less …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:16 AM
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Get a new job unless you enjoy the work. Weigh your risk and reward because that sounds like a pretty shitty grind to be honest. If your work isnt reward at all then what the fuck is the point? You're sacrificing physique, socializing, and your own happiness for money? What's the wrap?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:12 AM
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Biceps yes. Abs are redundant. Replace your B squats with pulldowns or pullups. That's all you need. All the big compounds work your core like hell, and triceps are hit by bench and OHP respectively if you do it heavy and with good form.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:10 AM
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I started working out the summer I got a 10 hour factory assembly line job. I could have an entire shift lifting 50 lbs boxes off of skids 6 feet tall going for 2.5 hours straight between 10 minute breaks. Then I get to go home for just enough time to rest my sore feet, eat, gym for like 1.5 hours and home to sleep for 6 hours. THAT was fucking shitty.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:08 AM
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I don't know how long you've been lifting, but I think there are three phases: 1. Not going or not caring if you miss a work out because you aren't disciplined. 2. Solid routine, automatically off kilter when you miss a day or shit goes wrong in your work out 3. Used to your routine so much that missing out in an off week or day in a month is negligible. Once you're used to it there isn't a frantic necessity to never miss any work out because of fear of losing discipline. Forcing yourself to wor…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:06 AM
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Eh. It doesn't matter as long as he gets a prenup. He could easily throw out 500 000 000 dollars just on gifts for women he wants to fuck in still have 90% or more of his total wealth.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:57 AM
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I probably have a more sympathetic view of divorce than others here: I understand that principle of "opportunity cost", that a woman or man may be entitled to a certain amount of compensation for the time they've lost spending that they could have otherwise spent elsewhere. But that would only be in cases where there's some sort of fault, like if Elon cheated or some shit like that. They evidently don't match up well, but they both still have the same shared experiences and the same time wasted.…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:56 AM
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This is a very tangential anecdote, but one which may be inspiring to some that are on the fence: Ever since I started meditating regularly about 2 weeks ago I've found myself having much much more vivid dreams that I can remember much of. This may also coincide with my new routine of getting up by 7:00 and sleeping by 11:00 but either way, I've found that I can sleep more quickly, more deeply, and that these dreams end up being pretty rewarding in a sense. It makes sleep less of a mechanical pr…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 07:53 PM
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It depends on whether you're justing for STR or LTR. There's plenty of scientific evidence out there that suggests that men are far more physical than women. For STR looks is almost everything to a guy's attractiveness, but in LTR there's also evidence that proves that men have a much greater capacity to appreciate no-sexual, or personal characteristics: this is what leads so many men to have stranger turn ons (hair, elbows, feet, etc) as well as seemingly innocuous favorite qualities in their w…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 02:26 PM
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Arnold wasn't natural, the guy is a fucking legend but I'm not going to necessarily use his standards for myself because the dynamic is entirely different.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:06 PM
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For anyone knew to lifting or looking into it. I CANNOT stress enough how important this is. 1. Diet 2. Sleep 3. THEN routine Of course you wont automatically get fit with just a good diet and sleep, but your exercise wont get you anywhere without them. If you adhere to practically any routine (no matter how bad) it will have benefits if its organized with good nutrition. Your muscles simply wont repair, wont grow, and wont have energy in work outs otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:05 PM
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Eh. Doesn't ultimately matter. Although it would be nice if prospective people that could benefit from it weren't turned away, I think that anyone that is going to be receptive to the ideas will be willing to read enough of the sidebar and threads to realize how much of it is true.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:30 AM
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Its sad that people feel needs to ideologically divide themselves anyways. This idiotic tribalism is just social posturing to dig up brownie points and give people meaning. Idgaf if I have liberal friends, conservative friends, gay friends, religious friends, feminists friends, etc. Sure, I have my informed opinions, but people aren't just their opinions: if they have enjoyable personalities then I will enjoy their company regardless of their politics.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:07 AM
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Well that's precisely the thing. Because so much of a woman's sense of attraction is based on a man's success, status, etc, they're things that are necessarily compromised in the process of developing a relationship. Women don't love unconditionally or at least not as commonly in the way men do.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:04 AM
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Idk about as old as 38. But once you have an established professional career, some notches on your belt, house, experience in the world and socially, you're very high value. For most men that's older. But I'm sure early 30s + are riding just as high.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:55 PM
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That is some really fucking pathetic shit. A good 90% of it is just "LOL you're just an insecure, manchild, who can't get pussy" to which OP responds "actually I'm a young guy who has a healthy sex life" only to have them all resort to "LOOK! He's compensating about his sex life he MUST be lying to look manly despite being a loser! After all, who would talk about their sex life like that to brag!" So fucking stupid. Not to mention all the retards who seem to have deluded themselves into believin…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:53 PM
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Its strange how common that response seems to be. Sort of like sink or swim. Of course I was beta as fuck when I was first broken up with, felt pretty depressed and suicidal for a little while. But when I woke up from it I made an extensive list of improvements and projects. The next time I was confronted by my ex she was all of a sudden interested because I was back on my feet and goal-oriented. Men (or at least not betas) don't have the luxury of falling back on "rebound" sex or getting valida…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:47 PM
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Not that I have much experience at all with meditation, but personally I love going to the gym socially. Since I'm almost always there the same time week after week for going on 1.5 years I get to know all the regulars and get the casual banter. Its a fucking great place for masculine behavior and more conservative opinions typically. Friends with a guy who flew south for Trump rallies and share a lot in common. Its a great place to make connections, get tips, get spots, and so on.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:03 PM
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Unless you're watching a documentary you'll ruin any media by speeding it up that much. I wouldn't even watch TV or movies at 125% speed, that's the whole point of pacing and tension.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:21 AM
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To be fair, they're three years younger than her. I think that what he means though is that if she was a guy they'd have all gotten much worse. I think no court would have the guts to blatantly use a double standard for the women and men. But who knows. Either way seems fucked up for those kids, way too young for that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:03 AM
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I really don't think that atheism has anything to do with it, there are as many feel-good religious folk that might have the same mentality. I'm atheist and I wouldn't be ok with it. Its a practical issue more than anything else, although religious people like catholics obviously have actual rules against it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:01 AM
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Its the way of the world. Honestly, I kind of suspect that the reason that so many women are shallow or vapid is precisely because of this easiness. They don't have the necessary drive, ambition, or compulsion to compete that's necessary to develop a truly unique personality. And worse yet they'll have a shit personality reaffirmed constantly because of idiot men who want to flatter them. There's nothing worse than a pretty girl who says that her "hobby" is watching fucking TV.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:58 AM
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Basic fucking decency. Yes, I don't think its much of an issue if they're not around, but the idea that the parents (i.e. THE OWNERS of the house) are expected to just leave because their daughter is fucking around is idiotic. Find somewhere else or keep your legs closed at home.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:38 AM
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Its not particularly smart to consider a lot of TRP thought to be simply sexist and general. The point is that they're trying to develop applicable social psychology: these are obviously going to lead to generalizations based on they general behavior or women because of their biology. Its simply stuff man, there are plenty of studies and real world examples all around you to look at. By your own standards using Meyers Briggs types is a generalization because it implies that people are just victi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:22 AM
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This actually fucking hurt my brain: "I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, without being judged for my choices" Guess that's young women in a nutshell. I really couldn't conceive of something more entitled if you gave me that goal for a whole day. Its like a god damn self-parody. And then she "confesses" that she likes rough sex? Holy shit what a revelation, what a special snowflake she is. The only fucking women that don't like rough sex are A) Damaged goods or B) Automatically thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:15 AM
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That line about firing her if she were his employee is one of the funniest and most savage things I've ever read. Fucking hilarious alpha behavior imo. But the thing that gets me is that she says the him giving her his credit card was the nicest thing any man COULD say. Not even the nicest thing that any guy HAD done. But COULD do. The difference is that she's basically unilaterally confirming that there's nothing better than showering a girl with wealth and giving her absolute freedom to abuse …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 01:21 AM
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I think you should pay less attention to the idea of hypergamy since Kim is a multimillionaire herself, I don't think money specifically is as much of a concern. Frame is definitely a contributor. But my take away is simply this: imagine being so fucking heartless and vapid that you can give up on your spouse within a year when they need you most. I think any person that sincerely loved someone would not abandon them in what is possibly the hardest point in their life. I hate Kanye as much as an…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 01:15 AM
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Jesus this woman is a perfect example of more than just not getting married: "Then he took me to a bookstore and handed me his credit card. "Buy as many books as you want," he said. No man could have said anything sweeter." "I said yes, but then blew him off with a note on my dorm-room door" "I liked older. I liked poetic and rebellious and tortured. I liked a guy who parked his motorcycle beneath my dorm-room window and called my name through the twilight: Romeo in a dark-brown leather jacket" …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:44 PM
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SJWs would say that not using the right "pronouns" is like calling a black person a nigger, but the simple fact is that racism is also not illegal in the states. Regardless of your political beliefs, speech should not be made "illegal" unless its directly implicated in a crime as in "Hey, lets go beat up that faggot".
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 02:41 PM
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This 100%. You can do some extremely degrading shit like rim-jobs as long as you can make her rationalize it as a symbol of love, as "our secret", or as special in any way. Just as a loaded question to start, if you use practically rhetorical questions that she still answers then you circumvent the risk of looking like a passive pussy.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:58 PM
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Right now I'm living between Ontario and Quebec. Hardest winter I've had was -45-->-50 including windchill. Summers still get hot though some how, was a couple weeks in July that were regularly in the mid to upper 30s with very high humidity.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 01:42 PM
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If you don't want to watch the whole thing, then check out the clip about "Self Authoring" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoGdMpdZXzs Sounds like a very good tool in self-improvement to strongly visually, and then write down to organize your own brain. Deal with the past, observe and analyze the present, and make a destination for the future.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 02:20 AM
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You actually missed another one: Overly hot showers have a tendency to damage your hair and wash out natural oils. I find that showering every day should be avoided where possible because of this reason, but if you have cool or cold showers it also helps. I did it for a while but couldn't keep with it. I just wish I knew how cold it had to be to work. I can stand cool showers 5-10 c but when its -40 outside and you crank the cold its fucking brutal.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 01:19 AM
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Its difficult to say what is objectively true here. Saying that lifting is what matters most is potentially as "comforting" as saying game is: it all depends on the person. If fitness was all that mattered I'd be golden, but i think it and game both matter almost equally. That having been said, I think people should be free to argue whatever they want on here, and let everyone else decide whether its worth reading.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 10:02 PM
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In my experience I can also confirm this: dated a total skank who is into the triple digits by now and she bragged constantly about being unable to be tickled. Granted, sometimes that's just an flirtatious invitation, but she really wasn't ticklish at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 09:57 PM
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Just look up "legal tren" or "legal anabolics" I'm guessing that a good 70% or more are scams, but IF one is true and you can find a good source to figure that out, then working out becomes a lot fucking easier. https://www.elitefitness.com/articles/1-t-tren-the-closest-legal-thing-to-the-anabolic-steroid-trenbolone/ Tren is pretty dangerous because apparently it ruins your sleep, your mood, you sweat constantly, your heart races, but it also makes gaining any fat very hard and burns whatever fa…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 02:32 PM
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Most women are as sexual as men: they're just looking for an excuse to let loose.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 03:03 AM
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Honestly, even if it was true that your body made you incapable of working out intensely later in life: there are some crazy ass legal supplements you can take that help a lot. Once you pass a certain age you can take testosterone to help a lot with everything, plus there are weaker strains of shit like tren that legal (as i understand it). There's really no excuse except not having the money to afford it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 02:21 AM
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B-But in my gender studies 101 class I was told that affirmative consent after every single escalation was sexy!? WTF !
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:18 AM
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Any particular type of meditation that you suggest? I had a short routine before where I simply tried to focus on breathing and having my mind blank, but I know there are other types. Its hard to try and guide something so abstract.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 02:24 PM
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Its about immediacy: a person who is charismatic and looks good automatically broadcasts interpersonal "intelligence" as well as the intelligence necessary to live an active lifestyle. Not all forms of intelligence may be equal, but there are different types: it is this type of rationalization that makes women capable of fucking the line-backer neanderthal but dry as a desert over some physics honor student. This is also why women tend to be more liberal. Even IF you are correct, being intellige…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 01:56 PM
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If you're looking for general advice with this I feel a bit obligated: 1) Long hair is fine IMO if you style your shit well and keep it kept then its distinct. 2) Lift like everyone says. I wish I started that young: if you start now i guarantee you that you will look better than 90% of people in college. In terms of physique and strength I'm approaching the upper % but I only started 1.5 years ago. 3) Be thorough with your routine. Diet and sleep are the most important so don't skimp it. Consis…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 04:32 AM
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Hilarious. The Elliot Roger bit especially: if they had watched any of his videos or read any of his manifesto, as I had immediately after the events that took place, they'd see that he is a product not of the 'manosphere' but of extreme deluded narcissism and racial self-hatred. The kid had a lot of mental issues which are pretty fucking obvious based on the reports of his therapist and parents, he grew up rich and felt entitled to anything he wanted in life. In regards to the rest of the artic…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 04:23 AM
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Good job mate. I'd add not only do women like to be objectified, but so do men on occasion. People in general like to be objectified because it validates their value as objects. In all truth, the fact is that a person who's attractive as an object is someone who looks great. If you need to rely on your whole personality, and every other tool possible then you're not as physically attractive. Plus it simplifies things a hell of a lot. Cut to the chase and get laid.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 10:12 PM
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Seems like a reasonable idea to be honest. As I understand it, joining the marines gives you a free ride through college. From there you should decide what you want to major and learn it as much as you can. That or you should figure out whichever career doesn't require that education. Pretty sure that there are real-estate courses you can take within 1-2 years, and if you excel at the job industrially like my father then you can make enough to support a 5 person family by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:01 PM
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Do we really need to have a fucking wank fest over numbers versus letters? The amount of smugness it takes to unilaterally dismiss any knowledge of things outside of STEM as useless to life is off the fucking charts. I have an interest in writing, and I have an interest in teaching about writing. English fulfills that requirement the most. And contrary to popular opinion there are actually a number of other jobs that also require strong reading and writing comprehension abilities. Marketing abil…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:19 PM
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"IllicitEncounters spokesman" I think you should take this with bit of skepticism lol. I don't doubt the reality of hypergamy, but its in this guys best interest to exaggerate or skew it to suit his business.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:10 PM
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I disagree a bit, sleep should be tailored for you personally. I'd argue that: 1) You should wake up with the sun whenever possible - Don't draw your curtains and let the sun wake you up, it becomes almost impossible to sleep in. Add to this the fact that you get the MAXIMUM amount of daylight hours: its good for your psychology. Coming from a Northern climate, I know a lot of people that get seasonal depression because of the winter darkness: being able to make the most of daylight is valuable.…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:02 AM
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This ^ the halo effect is real and strong. This is what makes an attractive guy being aggressive "hot" but a AFC doing it a "creep". That said, I think that the ability to be a great story teller is one of the most valuable skills to have. You get a natural sense of drama, you learn how to use your voice and gestures, you get reasons to go out and get experiences, you get the skill to sort of predict and manipulate your audience. And all of this can potentially leak over to social/professional s…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:46 PM
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I used to think my oneitis was way out of league, later found out she got plowed by some guy somewhere around 250 or more lbs (of fat) who was average to ugly, didn't go to school, etc, etc. All he was is charming. Once I got to know him I learned the guy is super fucking likable, fun charismatic, great story teller. Those are really the qualities you need most.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:23 AM
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This is another reason why lifting is so important. Just today I hit a new PR on deadlifts and got some great advice from some asian-bro named Calvin. Seems like a cool dude. Other regular at the gym was hanging around named Connor so I lent him some chalk. Its really easy for male "bonding" when you hit the gym often and see other people busting their ass just like you. + its good to get spots/advice/ and usually they'll have a similar attitude. Gym bros will usually be: A) Be active B) Energet…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:01 AM
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IMO you should always judge on a bell curve: a 5/10 is the statistical median, and so it should represent the most average girl. Unless you're already slaying an average girl is worth sleeping with and not detrimental to your value. So idk about 4/10s but a 5/10 is worth your time early on.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:56 AM
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Be the best version of yourself and then be prepared when that bitch comes crawling back once she's envious of what you've made of yourself. Be ready to slam the door in her face.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:25 AM
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Absolutely 100% accurate. Though my experience with this personally is fairly small, I can confidently say that the one girl I was with who had these issues cheated on literally every other boyfriend but her first: about 5-6 people the last I checked. She claimed to be close to being engaged/married to a guy and then broke up with him to ride the CC in Europe. Its a huge fucking red flag.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:19 PM
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A real "life for an eye" mentality eh?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:02 PM
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If there weren't so many safety issues I would absolutely love using a motorcycle. I think it'd be fun just to ride around on my own, but not for every day use in my opinion. If you can find a one way road then learn it and gun it for fun I guess, but otherwise Its not worth the insurance and risk.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:53 PM
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Cute fashion = Cute girls. One thing that TRP has changed is an improved sense of standards for myself and, consequently, improved standards for women. Anything that makes a woman more attractive is worth considering: a hot body with no fashion sense is less attractive to me then an average one with a great sense of fashion.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:44 PM
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Not to offend, but I often take these sort of posts as another great TRP lesson on releasing the "inner slut". Unless you've already worked out, have great genetics, or went on gear, I figure that 6 months has given you some pretty decent noob gains that have you "filled out" but really not all that muscular. But as soon as you just have that basic definition and healthiness there's this increase is status and this easy way for women to rationalize sleeping with you. As long as you're that much …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:16 PM
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It all depends, hair cuts have to suit your particular style and face imo. Some people look bad with long hair and no beard, and sometimes they look way better WITH a bear and long hair, etc, etc. Personally I think the idea of having as distinct of a style as possible is appealing and effective. Peacocking is a legit thing, and I'd still rather be different from the other 99 people with the sort of hitler-youth sort of cut going on. It looks good, sure, but not for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:10 PM
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Men earn their status through hard work, but women earn their "womanliness" through puberty. Similarly, men develop their attractiveness over time and effort, but women's attractiveness (to men) is primarily just in basic appearances. All you really have to say is that Men have "game" and the "PUA industry" while women have literally nothing but fashion.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:49 PM
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Looks like she's got a fake ass and probably a couple thousand dollars worth of cosmetic surgery to go with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:20 AM
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Seven. Million. Dollars. That's the equivalent of working a six figure job for FORTY YEARS. And that's for "inappropriate touching". Jesus fucking Christ. I would agree to be non-fatally shot for that much money. She's literally SET for LIFE.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:18 AM
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Don't begin to complain about being naturally handsome and tall. There's really no downside.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:05 AM
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"Girls don't really go for muscle-heads dude. Just be yourself! Just be confident!" Jesus christ. Its amazing that these things seem to constantly be framed as mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:39 AM
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I think its mainly in diet tbh. I've been going at it 1.5 years and hit more plateaus now than before ofc: its really just being able to hit your TDEE with lean good quality nutrition. Only problem is that that kind of food is hard to afford on a budget and hard to cook daily on a tight schedule.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 01:46 PM
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Somewhat off topic, but I really have to emphasize how unbelievably regretful I am for not starting working out sooner. Starting ANY hobby early is very beneficial to your SMV when you're young at school, but holy shit If I hadn't been fed all the bullshit about working out "compensating" I would be 4 years farther than I am today. It really is such a boon to just to get a no bullshit introduction to what attraction really takes. I wish the touchy-feely-ness of our societies approach to boys wou…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:46 AM
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There doesn't seem to be any statistics for transgenderism but I would be very interested to see what the ratio of MtF and FtM is. I definitely expect that there are more MtF because of our society, but there's nothing to really base that off of except perhaps the education system and third wave feminism. Its sort of a chicken and the egg thing: do these massive beta manginas become women because they have so much sexual repression, hatred, and loneliness? Or do they feel all these ways because …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:39 AM
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Its all just cognitive dissonance. I firmly believe there really is a 80/20 or something like a 70/30 divide. The majority of men that are left out have to rationalize their own short coming and so -like women- they justify their own ineptitude as what you find in that FB post.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 09:59 PM
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Although this might be more common to women I think you're somewhat misattributing tribalism to femininity. Women are more often tribalistic, but it isn't necessarily inherent to their gender. Politics is a shit show and not worth getting into aside from knowing the basics of what effects you. Not unless you make it your career anyways.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:05 PM
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Japan has a high bachelor's tax so I hear: fuck over single men and force them into relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 10:02 PM
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Fark. I fucking hate skin car related stuff, seems so tedious and expensive. Just another thing to learn though I guess.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:04 AM
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I both agree and disagree. Leading by example is definitely the best measure for promoting TRP values, but if a friend of mine ever asks for advice on something like marriage I'm not going to hold anything back. Its not about being validated in my beliefs: if i felt a need to be validated it would imply a lack of conviction. Its precisely because I believe this stuff that I want to spread it and improve the lives of men around me. That said, I'm never doing it until the right time because I'm in…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 09:42 PM
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This is why I find it so strange that calling a woman a whore is such a horrible insult: the point is not that they're paid for sex with money but with everything else. The point is that few if any women actually want an equal relationship: they trade their attractiveness for money, for status, and so on, but ultimately they cannot love the way a man loves unless its her children.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:49 PM
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I actually appreciate these posts a fair bit since they usually fall outside the spectrum of TRP as "feminine" but do you seriously wear sunscreen every day? I've worn it maybe a few days of my life and only been burnt once when visiting Mexico in the Summer.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:40 PM
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I think that you might be going a bit far: there are plenty of guys who are boring as well, but few men are. That's why I find it so funny when I've read things on my FB feed along the lines of "As a man you get to do all this cool shit like president, engineers, scientists, doctors. You can be confident, or arrogant, or aggressive and all this stuff! Whereas being a woman is just supposed to be social, and caring, and empathetic!". The problem with this is that being a man is earnered while bei…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:03 PM
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The idea is that that type of relationship has a stilted power-dynamic: the man is much more in control of the woman than she of him, and of course this is somehow a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 02:55 PM
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Sounds like its a fetish for her almost. I mean, when you get to 6'10 is it even fucking attractive? Aside from god damn Shaque there's very very few people that can pull off a normal looking physique. Its just lanky and awkward looking.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 01:22 AM
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Holy fuck that's actually so fucking stupid.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 06:20 PM
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Treat women like objects until they actually voice concern, your default treatment should never be to give them that much attention since giving less will usually not be a turn off: it will lead them to ask for more.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:05 AM
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As someone who's working on an English major it is pretty hilarious to hear all these characters boiled down to TRP archetypes.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:31 PM
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Nothing exemplifies this more than the average (casual) feminist: a girl who'll preach equality until the end of the day but still lust for smelly, sweaty, hairy, muscular man to gorilla fuck her into submission.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 11:49 PM
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The title really says it all, a guy who stands out among carbon-copy abercrombie models will have the best chances as a unique type of person. This also plays into polarization (if you've read Models).
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 11:09 PM
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Good to see it work out for ya, keep hitting the gym though. Women have as much sex drive as men, but they want an excuse to be able to slut it up. Now that you've started you'll hit that easier, a year or two more and you'll absolutely slay.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:47 PM
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It literally doesn't matter. Read studies dude: 5 reps is the best amount for strength gains. IF you have a newbie that benches 3 times a week he will improve fast, but that doesn't change the fact that fewer reps is ordinarily better.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:29 AM
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High testosterone "young males in their physical prime" ? I think its way more to do with society being feminized. The only reason you could say that arab men are more "masculine" than Europeans is that so many governments have made men practically eunuchs. Don't rate women! Don't pee standing up! Don't spread your legs on transit! Don't be sexually aggressive! Don't even TALK to women you don't know!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:00 PM
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How the hell did they find this stuff? Its a fucking invasion of privacy, to make such a stink over private opinions is ridiculous. And anyways, calling women to mostly be ugly entitled cunts is a personal observation, Its overly harsh but it doesn't sound like he was saying that women ARE this way because of their sex. Racism allegations are more concerning, although its also context driven from their personal opinions: whatever you might think of it, I know some people who will call absolute s…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:44 PM
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Only problem with that method is that if you're basing a part of your attractiveness on charisma and other intrinsic qualities you're going to need a certain amount of time to demonstrate those values. Sure, if you're a tall, built, fashionable Abercrombie model then you can pull that off effectively. For the average guy it may be worth trying but not expecting too much results.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:44 PM
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Yes. And no I wouldn't necessarily say "irrational confidence" is creepy because you're assuming that a woman can see through you automatically. I think that most people will be able to see through an act, and so you should always develop natural confidence, but if you project great energy then its always attractive because they'll perhaps wonder WHY you have it. If you're walking around like you've got a third leg and bitches have no idea why or how you do it, they'll maybe just come to that co…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:36 PM
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Out of curiosity, and for anyone one out there, is there entirely different game to have when getting to get back to a girl's place? The place I'm renting from right now is kind of a fucking dump because I'm trying to save money. Not easy to leverage this place as a destination.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:34 PM
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This. The comment section is where most of TRP content is: lots of white knights defending her behavior automatically saying her husband is wrong for spying despite his description. Yes I think that an average woman might cheat on this overweight dude but it makes her no less of a whore. Its worse than cheating though: its adultery.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 03:28 AM
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This. Especially for two whole hours. Judge your own goals and adjust accordingly, you'll need a pretty fucking massive calorie surplus and sleep to recover properly from that kind of workout. Unless you're workout intensity is not too extreme, in which-case progressive overload wont be happening.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 10:52 PM
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I think you'd be surprised how many women actually like a nice looking guy-ass. But the point is more that deadlifts and squats are the greatest leg and back exercises: literally nothing will work those muscles better. If you want the best results quickest they're the route to strength. If you want to complain about widening your hips also at least consider how much broader looking this makes you look in the long run. Yes, if you only want a V-Taper then doing nothing but pullups is decent, but …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 01:34 PM
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Assuming that it's quality time spent? Its possible but doubtful imo. Think of it this way: when you spend your 1000 hours doing a task is it truly your sole, undivided attention? Are your thoughts going elsewhere? Are you checking your phone? Checking social media? Getting frustrated? Problem solving? If you truly spend your focus for an hour a day until you have 1000 hours racked up you will succeed at almost anything. The type of things that you wont succeed at are things that are inherently …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 01:25 PM
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The notion of "You get out what you put in" is perfectly tenable outside the domain of relationships. I agree, it can be outright harmful to go into a relationship with that expectation, but in everything else is true. If you put in 1000 hours of quality work at a hobby you will reap the benefit of that work, and if you put in 10000 hours of listless videogame playing then you will get out that "benefit" as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 09:53 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't necessarily say its a paradigm shift since the generational rift in politics is still apparent. Most younger people vote democrat and most older vote republican. What's the saying? "If you're 18 and not a democrat you have no heart. But if you're 28 and not a republican you have no brain."? I think being a strong, confident, right-wing guy who speaks his mind and approaches easily puts you in the top 80% or more of men. I can't imagine how many republicans there are in my Universi…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 02:02 PM
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Then stop supporting them...? I mean, I understand that it's part of your culture but think that at this point your sisters aren't really even acting as "women" they're acting like petulant children. You shouldn't be responsible for paying off adults until their ovaries shrivel into dust.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 01:58 PM
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One of the most important things for lifting besides eating is good sleep. Reducing stress improves sleep and improving sleep will improve energy, skin, and mood. Definitely add some muscle, I started near where you are and found I got a fair bit more attention after just one year. If you start a program make sure it checks out on the fitness reddit or elsewhere, stronglifts is a good beginner one if you replace your B-day squats with pullups. The nice thing is that if you get fit then you don't…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 01:51 PM
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Can't say I've gotten there myself. Its amazing how slow progress can go unnoticed though. I used to weigh about 145 lbs, Now i'm 50 lbs heavier and most of it muscle but I have yet to really have had any comments on it from any friends lol. But hell, a friend of mine lost about 50 lbs and I hardly noticed or thought to compliment him until much later. Just how things roll. But pile enough improvements on one another and it'll work out.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 01:37 AM
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What a great opportunity though isn't it? "Like, you don't even get to wine and dine me?". Well. Are you worth it?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:44 PM
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Honestly I find it very rare that "talent' is even present in any person. Its almost always just hard work, or working at something at early age. Only savants and genius IQ people have "talent" everyone else puts in the work. I'm also a violinist so I can understand the physical boons which help: long spindly fingers. Take a look at Itzhak Perlman, that bastard has huge fat fingers its amazing that he's so precise and quick. Talent is 99% a farce.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:26 PM
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Yeah. Format better in the future but sounds like you've already experienced a lot of what the sidebar addresses: pre-selection, AWALT, beta-bux, CC, hypergamy, etc. As the man Patrice O'Neil said, and which I definitely agree with doing, "my bitch is the 5th most important thing in my life". Never get attached to something you can't walk out on in 5 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 12:41 AM
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Besides the good advice already posted here I would add a few of my own: 1) DISCPLINE Nothing is more valuable. A disciplined man can commit himself to anyone goal at a time and be able to make steady progress. Cultivate discipline and the ability to maintain strong focus. Notice the kinds of tics endemic to young people: constantly browsing their phone, using videogames or TV, its all OVERSTIMULATION. If you self-subsist using focus and goals you are already FAR ahead of everyone else. 2) Do no…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 12:35 AM
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I'm disgusted at the state of humanities programs. Yes, I know that saying that I'm an English major with interest in Humanities will automatically get flak from virtually any other student, but I was following what I saw taught: do what you're good at and what you're interested in. I have had two good professors in my entire university career. There was two mediocre ones and the rest were sub-par for the most part. So much is touchy feel discussion group BULLSHIT. And SO much of the Western Can…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 12:20 AM
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Not a big issue since I like pissing in a toilet anyways, but there's plenty you can see about this in places like Sweden. Its really a form of emasculation and "equality" when in reality its just more expensive, more impractical, and feminine.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:56 PM
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^ This. ^ Don't waste all your time browsing TRP reddit, but there's plenty to read here on it. Or better yet, listen to a bit of The Black Phillip Podcast. The best thing to do is to not give a fuck. When I was cheated on it devastated me but I swallowed that pain and moved on. Within a few weeks I had a list of over a hundred things to try or work on to improve my life and change things up. When she later heard about all the things I was working on and how I was dating around she got way more …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:54 PM
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Great work man. Keep it up, sounds like your life is already on the way of being better than 90% of people. Play it safe, keep your focus, and make sure you write out and work on your goals one at a time.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:43 PM
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Are you kidding? This is hilarious. Waking up this morning was like Christmas. I didn't think he'd win it honestly, but seeing that he has I thought i was still dreaming. The SJW tears and riots are going to be a-plenty. It'll be great to hear "democrats" and "activists" doing property damage while complaining about the legally elected candidate of their country.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:35 PM
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Because women don't know what they want, like to virtue signal, and can always hamster away an answer. Same reason why most feminists still seem to prefer manly men. Know a women's studies major who writes feminist "fiction" who's boyfriend is a 6'1 jacked dude-bruh that she complains about being emotionally distant etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:33 PM
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Its incredible how low the standards for women are in many regards, and somehow they're still not low enough. Yes, I will readily admit that the FACIAL standards for women are very stringent. You have to have very good hygiene, be pretty, and know your make up. But physically? Fuck all you have to do is not eat a ton and work out 2-3 times a week with light cardio. If you have anything other than a pancake ass and are lower than 25% body fat, chances are you're averagely attractive
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 02:55 AM
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The problem is the way that people frame this discussion: Its absolutely fine to cry in the right circumstances. If you have a friend or relative die then you are expected to cry and its absolutely natural. When someone goes through a nasty break up then people are usually sympathetic. But for fucks sake if you cry over stubbing your toe, over not getting your way, over "stress", over the pathetic life that YOU are responsible for, then its not fucking suitable. Man up and be the captain of your…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:57 AM
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Its in terms of the behavior exhibited, that's all. Its the fact that a woman can easily rationalize an alpha's stalking as something playful and Romantic but not for a beta. Granted, I'd have no problem with some 9/10 stalking me compared to a 4/10, but I'd still perceive it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:28 AM
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50 lbs is a great start. If you're still choosing a career try checking into the tech field: things involved with computer science are in the highest demand. Or just ask a fucking guidance counselor, just get completely informed. Keep up the lifts, remember that you'll need weight lifting to supplement your weight loss because of how it effects your metabolism. Also remember not to be too open with your TRP ideology, its not a publicly acceptable opinion for most.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:26 AM
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Typical virtue signaling. Happens all over my university, even during lectures people will crack "LOL TRUMP" jokes. People don't acknowledge Hillary's flaws whatsoever. There's some popular posts on FB along the lines of "INVESTIGATE 6 TIMES, FOUND INNOCENT 6 TIMES". Only problem is that that finding is utterly bullshit because its based on her "intent". Its a blatant double standard, she deserves to have had charges applied.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 01:17 AM
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Nice and theatrical. But on a serious note, DO listen to your body and know your limits. Its not manly to tear a muscle and then be out of the gym for months.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:13 PM
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Basic cognitive dissonance: when an alpha behaves like a "creep" its endearing because he's so attached, but when a beta does it he's a stalker.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:58 PM
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I think that if he was a high value type of person she would actively want to show him off. It may seem like some type of subconscious insecurity to question women over their reluctance to demonstrate open affection, but I think that that's the easiest way to show whether or not she respects and is proud of you. A person who is PROUD to be with their girlfriend or boyfriend will want to show them off. If you're cousin was worth it then she'd take him around with her. If she'd done it before ther…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:31 PM
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I take it as the nature of men honestly. Testosterone leads to higher levels of aggression, and men are usually more possessive of women, but I've always found that male social groups are rarely like that with one another. I think the issue stems from socialization. Women will make friends with those they find expedient to their goals or hierarchy while guys make friends with whoever they like. If a guy doesn't like another they usually sort it out or part ways but women seem to be different in …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:56 AM
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Bald can work depending on the person. It doesn't help of course but it can be compensated for.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:12 AM
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Whatever you do, make sure that its intrinsically motivated. When you develop strong discipline with which to achieve long term goals there is a good chance that you'll stick in your productive routines. But in order to do that you need to set CLEAR goals with realistic paths and destinations.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:12 AM
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You'd think fat chicks would have that preference, but in today's society even they think they're entitled to something better. Especially with whales like Tes Holiday and idiots forwarding the HIGH TEST meme.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:06 AM
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^ this. ^ Black Phillip podcast has some good wisdom as well. You can come to this conclusion yourself too: would you rather date someone better than you or someone worse? I mean, ideally, you probably would go for the best you can get. Women are just following their instincts the same way that men follow a chick with a thick ass and legs. The side bar is good overall. The rational male and the TRP reading list is pretty decent. I liked Models a fair bit myself. The biggest takeaway you can have…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:00 AM
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Out of curiosity, how old are you? Its bothered me more and more to learn about nero-plasticity and the development of synapses: it worried me that I could rewire my brain for unproductive compulsions or habits while simultaneously making it harder to learn new things.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:34 PM
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Its setting boundaries. If you give a woman a take it or leave it ultimatum that you're too unhappy to continue a relationship unless "X" happens there's no immorality in it. As long as the decision is made honestly and rationally, I see no problem with it: either he leaves his wife because he's unhappy, or they continue with a new type of relationship. Who the fuck wouldn't be envious of being able to do it? I don't blame ya.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 07:41 PM
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Just a side note: I'm not sure you'll want to start a business with the motive of not working 8-5. I haven't run one myself, but from the people I know who have its only more and more work. It will pay big dividends if you do it right but you get out what you put in: if you half ass it then you'll get what you earned.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 02:34 PM
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No idea. It seems like it should be self-evident to anyone on TRP reddit anyways. Most the chicks I've been friends with openly talk about how they hate hanging out with women. Sure there are some that are more interesting, and there are some feminine guys that can be just as bad as a bitchy girl, but for the most part its best to hangout with guys. Honestly, my favorite thing about a night with the mates is ribbing, being able to say whatever you want to one another (no matter how offensive) an…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 02:32 PM
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IMO accepting TRP goes hand in hand with admitting that men are (on average) more interesting. Once you accept that then its obvious why a person would want to hang out with guys more often. There are exceptions to every rule but that's the way it seems to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:23 PM
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You're not alone in the slightest. If you've read the side bar than its pretty self-evident: most men are more interesting than most women because they NEED to develop hobbies, skills, and traits to be attractive. Add to this the fact that most niche occupations like pool, poker, sports, video games, or any of that shit are mainly male activities. I like being around the boys because I know we can talk about a whole range of things and that any arguments or scraps we get into will be fixed in an…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:21 PM
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Eh. Actually seems less of an issue: any ""refugee"" willing to become a pornstar is probably going to be more liberal and thus easier to assimilate into German culture. Only retarded thing is it seems pretty god damn obvious that he's not a "teenager".
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:15 PM
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The idea is that evaluating looks is "shallow" and "objectifying". i.e. for some reason its impossible to talk about how fantastic a woman's tits are while still seeing her as a person. Not that even that matters. It shouldn't' matter whether or not you only see women as a walking pussy. People objectify one another all time: some men are just walking wallets.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:40 PM
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Jesus christ. Is it really considered politically incorrect to call a spade a spade nowadays?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:35 PM
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People say respect your parents because (usually) entails a lot of different things: A) Respect the person who loves you unconditionally B) Respect the person who has gifted you so much without being obligated to C) Respect the person who's guided you thus far and molded you into who you are D) Respect the people look up to. I don't know how typical that is of most families, but, even if I don't aspire to my dad's job, my father is someone I will always respect. Tough bastard has a great look at…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:54 AM
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At 6'8 I would certainly say you're at that "too tall" line unless you've really worked out a lot to fill out. That said, it also automatically puts you at the top 0.01% of genetic quality. That alone is extremely appealing without you having to do anything whatsoever. Experiences change when you get more attractive is not a revelation. Neither is women liking tall guys.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 12:47 AM
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I wouldn't know personally since I've never been a big party guy except a bit in my first year, but I think that the increasingly more competitive economy has led to more school and job focus while in school while it loosens afterwards when people find stability.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:00 PM
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I agree somewhat; most of it is relatively tame. That said, there are a few that are pretty retarded, the woman going out of her way to fuck a bartender post break up or the woman cheating on her boyfriend with a woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 01:11 AM
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It certainly hurts, but anything can be compensated of. If you've read the side bar you've seen the "four pillars": height is one part of appearance as a whole. There's so many ways to improve your SMV that it may as well be somewhat negligible. Unless the girl is already a higher SMV then you I wouldn't expect her to be stand-offish about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:59 AM
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Sometimes I resent myself for not writing as eloquently or as intelligently as I'd like. There are so many authors I look up to. But when I read drivel this idiotic I'm just happy not to be so deluded. You would have to be a functioning retard to have this woman's opinion. That, or be completely ignorant of all political news in the last 4+ months
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:54 AM
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The halo effect is extremely powerful. First crush of mine looks like a 5/10 --> 6/10 now. She has pretty great tits but otherwise very average except for her completely fucked up personality and upbringing. Once you scrutinize women more closely, hold them accountable to a higher standard, and rate on a median then they become less intimidating.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 03:12 PM
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This. The only way to get over it is to realize that, regardless of how supposedly unique she was, she isn't "special". Once you met a dozen more girls you'll have the proper frame to approach the relationship. If you're in the BP mindset it could take you years to get over "the one" but if you play your cards right this shouldn't be overly painful: women manage in in weeks or months, you should be no different (ideally).
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 03:05 PM
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What's TRP response to this situation anyways? I wouldn't be interested in any LTR unless the girl was damn near perfect, so I think if I found her cheating I would have to challenge the guy to some type of fight just for satisfaction. But then again everything I've read here has suggested immediately dropping it, cutting contact, and acting as if she meant nothing. Or at least hopefully never letting her become anything too significant in the first place
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 08:19 PM
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This is a great way to start not giving a fuck, and I think this'll help me maintain frame. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:54 PM
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Nicely done. Come to think of it, when I first broke up with my first gf I seemed to take it really well (because I expected it really). I made a huge list of ways to improve myself and goals to achieve and when I started asking people around and explaining some of them lo and behold she started cheating on her new bf with me. Stoicism and diligent self-improvement really is the best path, but it has to be INTRINSIC self-improvement. Your goals will decay away as surely as your gains if you base…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:49 PM
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Awesome to see. Seems like you couldn't get away with an ad that blunt in North America, but those four things are all you really need.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:44 PM
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You mentioned that you're short to make this seem more attainable, but also said you live 50/50 in Europe and Brazil. How wealthy are you? And is that an issue in a country like Brazil?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:57 PM
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I still often puss out of hitting girls up at the gym or at least acting a bit flirtatious, but its certainly better than in other places. Seems like your idea is on point.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:54 PM
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I passed up the advances of a girl I actually really liked because I thought that since I wasn't ready to be in a LTR with her it would be harmful to "exploit" her attraction to me. I basically cucked myself by whiteknighting... also against myself. Jesus Christ it makes my head hurt.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 02:07 AM
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I understand the importance of minimizing the need for validation because it almost invariably leads to pedestaling among other shitty behaviors. But it seems like the pursuit of validation is such a strong motivator: what do you replace it with? Do try and find a completely intrinsic goal to work towards? Working towards some angsty pretense of "revenge" against women is not a red pill type of mentality but it seems serviceable for the ends it seeks to meet.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 01:59 AM
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The thing I can no longer tolerate is powerlessness and lack of respect. They're like nails on a chalk board, and now its very easy to perceive from others. Whenever you're told to quiet down a bit in a public venue like a restaurant for instance. Finding TRP means seizing power back and attaining your own. Its given me a better direction and a better destination.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 01:43 AM
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Unbelievable, they not only prevented someone from voicing their concern, but also prevented everyone from even hearing it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:13 PM
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Misanthrope here, and yes I have a business being here. The business is to go about changing my misanthropic ways. Solid post, only nit pick would be that I think there are a decent number of the party folk that do end up dissatisfied. However, being a party animal is not casual to being miserable or discontent but its (more often) a symptom. I've known at least one particular "work hard party hard" type of girl, and while I have no idea how she's doing now, she's had extremely tumultuous relati…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:47 AM
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Has a lot less to do with texting and more to do with your other behavior. You said it yourself, you acted beta and so you got treated that way.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:37 AM
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Don't think that's the solution m8. There are plenty of dad-bod dudes that do fine with girls, or skinny fucks, or guys that work out only on weekends. You point out the guy is a linebacker, its probably less to do with his physique and more to do with the fact that he's a fucking line backer. When you should competitiveness and demonstrate high value in a competitive environment then you have proven your status. Women can often be like leaches by clinging to the accomplishments of their men: "m…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:28 AM
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What's it like driving sports cars and visiting exotic destinations? I guess it must not be fun. I mean after all, you wouldn't spout that kind of insulting rhetoric unless you had some knowledge on the matter right? I'd favor the second option too personally, but I haven't been there. I aint going to condemn someone having fun unless I've done it myself to know better.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:21 AM
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As someone who has went to the gym for so long what are your thoughts on routines? Specifically, my ideal physique would resemble something along these lines: http://www.ohlalamag.com/wp-content/gallery-bank/gallery-uploads/o_1a5ssu76nd7216k41tc31qkd1ic2p.JPG. Hit the gym for the last year and a half and am currently at 190 5'11 20% or so bf. Do you think that attaining 1/2/3/4/ is good enough to shift to a hypertrophy routine? I used to do a PPL routine but wanted maximum strength gains before …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:18 AM
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Six is generous. If you consider 5 the median then she's at best that, maybe even lower considering that she's overweight. I always find ratings based on a median produce a natural bellcurve: it helps to level the perceptual playingfield.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 10:41 PM
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This. For god's sake use your fucking gifts man. If you're 6'1, not fat, and even have the confidence to say "I'm fairly good looking" you should go out and SLAY. Charisma and facial looks are more than half the battle in a lot of cases: people like me who are shorter and not as good looking might merit your kind of self-doubt.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:53 PM
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I know this goes without saying but jesus fucking christ... As much as feminists bitch about "male privilege" I can think of no innate privilege as great as being able to sell sex A SINGLE TIME for more money than someone can make in a fucking decade. Its the same thing with strippers, girls go in to pay off medical school bills and later on forget about it because being an "exotic dancer" already pays six figures. And its all simply because they stay in shape and are otherwise average or somewh…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:50 PM
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I figured it was pretty typical of female "logic" to be less rational and more emotional.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 02:05 AM
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Find another venue then. If you have the time then just go to places where you're likely to meet people: a local music scene, an outside coffee place, club, etc.
/r/seduction24/10/16 11:45 PM
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Cognitive dissonance is powerful, you don't believe what you don't want to even think about. Used to fall for it myself; I had genuine concern that a friend of mine was in an abusive relationship based on some bruises and welts she showed off at every party or so, turned out that was just her thing. Sidenote: same girl literally cheated on this dude behind a single door at the same party. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:35 PM
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I'm not sure if I'd call it a wet dream, but rape fantasies are among the most common fetishes for women. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201001/womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean According to this link its as high as 40%, and that's just the ones who admit to it openly. I think that they don't fully comprehend their desires and so misattribute it to a "rape fantasy"; in reality, I think its that they want to be wholly under the power of an "alpha", and want to…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:45 PM
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Jesus, how entitled do you have to be to try this? Given the difference in how men vs women assess SMV it may as well be the same as a guy lying about owning a "company", or being an "entrepreneur" just because he's a fucking telemarketer.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:26 PM
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Pass. You can probably do better judging from the sounds of things.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:21 PM
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I actually intend on becoming a teacher unless some better opportunity presents itself. While I'd like to earn a better wage than that, I do really value the power of being a role model. I think boys have gradually had their role models taken away. I can't even count how many times I've had the conversation where I talk about this issue and the response is "WELL WHY CANT BOYS LOOK UP TO WOMEN!?". The point is that they shouldn't. People naturally respond best to the people who seem the most simi…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 12:34 AM
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The difference between neolithic (or even earlier) societies and those that came after is the change from nomadic societies to agricultural societies. It wasn't until humans developed farming and animal husbandry that a stable existence and saving wealth was possible. Once you see the one "alpha" who stands out for gathering the most resources there's a different dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:06 PM
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More or less accurate, I agree with much of that sentiment. As much as I resent the peacocking, preppy pretense of "fashion" its a necessity to communicate status and wealth. I have never worn a scarf because I find them useless, even in Canada I'd rather have a coat with a better collar. When I see puffed up guys walking the streets with their three or even four layer intricate outer-wear outfits in 20 degree weather it amazes me. But being able to afford an outfit that costs close to 600 dolla…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:48 PM
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Its not a reason to drop weight training. In fact, I'd say its actually yet another reason. Working out among other things does: A) Helps you lose weight and put on muscle B) Develops strong discipline C) Improves your mental health D) Makes you more physically attractive E) Makes you stronger, i.e. higher status when competing against others in a relevant activity. F) Now it also makes women "feel safe". You shouldn't take women at their word and assume that their "feeling safe" should mean tha…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:35 PM
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Good start. I would definitely suggest a linear progression routine. Situps aren't great for your back and if you only do one kind of push ups they'll develop your muscles in a somewhat imbalanced way. Or just go ham and get a pull up bar and do dips + an ab roller. Might work out that way fine. The good thing about a gym though is that you know exactly how much you're doing and are able to progressively overload your system, the measured stress you put it under grows muscles more easily.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:00 PM
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I don't necessarily subscribe to a "cut-off" point. If you're looks are genuinely starting to bother you then that's the time to make an effort whether in diet or in routine. If it detracts from your focus and you aren't happy with it then its not particularly worth while to persevere through. I think generally the 20% mark is a good point as many here say. Any more than that and you'll be visibly flabbier as it worsens. I've not been lean since I started working out a bit over one year 1/2 ago …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:58 PM
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Good luck dude. You still have most of your life ahead of you there's no reason to say "don't be me" because you have an opportunity to change what that means. If you think not its just a god damn excuse. I'll not marginalize whatever mental disorder you have, but there's still a way to alleviate some of what you've stated, and some ways to at least be comfortable with yourself. You're far from alone, I've lived a cushier life by comparison but liberating your thought is half the battle. There a…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:14 AM
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In my opinion you should follow a beginner routine and work on getting generalized strength. Starting Strength Very simple and quick work outs, you work three big compound movements for your A and B work outs and go 3-4 times a week. Put weight up every single work out and you should have progress going for a good while. Once you've gotten to the point of 1/2/3/4 lifts you'll have a great strength base with which to do a more advanced hypertrophy routine. May hear about being "aesthetic" but hav…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:58 AM
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