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I don’t really have a plan. Still unplugging myself
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 05:14 AM
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OYS #3 Stats 36YO, Married 4 years, Height 6'0", Weight 174.8lb Mission Live a life of freedom and fulfillment Objectives - Establish consistent lifting training schedule - Establish a basic and consistent frame Reading - Sidebar (The Rational Male, Year One), finally - Elon Musk, Walter Isaacson Background My wife cheated on me during our engagement and for the first year of our marriage. My life is the nightmare that you all wake up from in a cold sweat. Yes, I know this is fucked and I don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 07:22 PM
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You’re right on all counts I think
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/23 07:28 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/23 07:26 PM
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I haven’t stayed because I thought staying would be easy, or because leaving would be hard. I can always leave whenever I want if I feel like leaving. That said, the reason im staying has never been very clear in my mind, so that’s a shakey foundation that I need to better understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 03:25 PM
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I think to get angry I need to first respect myself and believe I deserve happiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 03:10 PM
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As in I should mind-game my wife into doing more than equal housework and finances?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 08:14 PM
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I’ve lost over 50lb via fasting. Really worked well in the early days! Weight loss is 95% diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 06:52 PM
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Good questions, I dont have a great answer for why I’m still here. I want the marriage to work out even though this happened. We don’t have kids and aren’t planning any either. As for whether I respect myself? No I don’t think that I do. A lot of my self esteem has been incoming from external factors, instead of self respect. I’m working on rebuilding myself and maybe that means leaving the marriage in the long run. Did she ever respect me? Clearly not.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 06:40 PM
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OYS #2 Stats 36YO, Married 4 years Height 6'0", Weight 181lb Mission Live a full life. Objectives Start lifting weights Establish a basic and consistent frame Restore consistent fasting schedule Reading NMMNG, 2nd time Elon Musk, Walter Isaacson Background My wife cheated on me during our engagement and for the first year of our marriage. She confessed it to me about two years ago. After a period of unproductive distress, I've spent the last two years rebuilding myself physically and mentally. M…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 05:30 PM
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Me
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/23 06:03 AM
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She has fucked me off and on in the way I want, but not consistently. This recent bitch fest of mine was for a dry spell of a few weeks. Fair points regarding the mindset shift. Agreed that this is probably the worst case you can imagine. Trying not to let my own anger and resentment self-sabotage me more than it has. I don’t believe I have “owned my shit” ever truly, just sad attempts at it. Posting here is to keep me accountable. Thanks for your comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 05:20 PM
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Is that like a hard rule? Ultimately it’s my decision. You’ve got me thinking though. I will set a deadline and make a plan to leave if things don’t improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 03:31 PM
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If you're anything like me, you should try intermittent fasting for weight loss. Keep eating lots of protein and lifting and you won't lose muscle mass. It's incredible how much better I'm able to control my diet when I only have a window to feed myself. It's scary, but it's not hard. You'll see results and it takes less discipline than calorie counting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 01:00 AM
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OYS #1 Stats 36YO, Married 4 years Height 6'0", Weight 174lb Mission Live a life worth leading. Objectives Love myself just as I am Get back to lifting Enter into a basic frame, one I can build on Reading NMMNG, 2nd time Background I've always been a "Nice Guy" relying on manipulative convert contracts to try to get my unsaid needs met. I've contorted myself into all kinds of ridiculous and demeaning positions in order to try and get the "life" that I "want". My wife cheated on me during our eng…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 12:55 AM
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