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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Dating After DivorceMan. Who recommends being honest about that? Seems insane. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Going through separation, no single friends.Don’t women want to know who your friends are and think you are weird if you don’t have any? Honestly, this is one of my motivators, without having been out in the dating world yet to verify, for trying to get some new friends. I am in a situation similar to the OP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Assets and Income, grey divorceI just got divorced in a situation in which I am and was the only earner. I was in a FatFIRE situation but this took me out of it, and it's likely the presence of those assets that played a contributing role to this happening now, since she saw she could get FIRE-level assets by divorcing me. I would echo your advice and encourage men (or women, for that matter) to be very careful about being the sole breadwinner. There is an epidemic of menopausal and perimenopausal women, especially, being pus… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learned from using divorce attorney + saving money on caseThat's chump change, unfortunately. I did nearly everything myself -- asset spreadsheet, negotiation of settlement, etc., and my lawyers have billed more than $8,000. Only substantive things were two calls totaling 90 min where I asked a few questions. The rest of it was just them pushing papers around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 06:37 PM |
| 10 | I have conspiracy theory about TikTok and divorceHappened to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/25 04:38 AM |
| 6 | I knew what I signed up forI've heard this from enough sources to think there may be something to it: men, generally speaking, view something like marriage as a commitment to ride out through ups and downs. I don't want to get too far into it, but I suffered a lot of downs in my marriage, where my wife was struggling with a lot of things, let herself go, etc., and still would never have left my wife and kids. Women, by contrast, and perhaps not in all cases but more generally, are more prone to making decisions based on t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 09:52 PM |
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