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| 3 | dating is easier for women is a mythVery rare nowadays. Outliers are jus that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | dating is easier for women is a mythLack looks* usually. And refuse to date down? Reread what they said. They cannot possibly date down. There is nothing lower. Incels may have physical equals but their SMV so to speak is never equal. Plenty of incels try to go for their physical equals but are often rejected. Any ugly man can attest to the fact that unattractive women hate ugly men more than any other. And will often go out of their way to humiliate and brutally tear down guys during a rejection. It's like they take it as a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | dating is easier for women is a mythIt is easier. Limiting yourself to specific kinds of guys is a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater?I would. It's not my business. Nor am I in a position to be picky and throw people away. I don't have a partner anyway so I wouldn't lose anything personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Dating a man that is a starfish - how common is this?She confirmed in another reply aha. The memes write themselves at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If A Man Can Get A Younger Partner By Dumping His Older One Then He ShouldIt's simple. Double standard. Nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 20 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?It's the same old tired argument. It's the same as if someone said "I saw an article about a guy who survived being hit by a train. Therefore being killed by a train is impossible or at the very least, a choice. I believe that surviving being hit by a train is the most common outcome based on this anomaly" Likewise with their warped perception on the stats of it. It would be like: "I interviewed 50 people who have been hit by trains and 100% of them survived" would be the same as "I spoke to 50 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Mental health issues between men and womenVoluntarily sure. Most men who are removed from the dating pool are removed through no choice of their own. Although it usually seems to be a case of just not wanting to settle for the options currently available | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Mental health issues between men and womenPlenty of people nowadays start dating online though. it would be true in a lot of cases. I've seen it happen plenty of times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Mental health issues between men and womenDoesn't have to be a dating app. Most people have an account on some form of social media. The same rules apply on other such sites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Mental health issues between men and womenEh, just create a fake account with a good looking dude and watch how quickly those women who don't want to date, suddenly want too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization?Yes jfl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's morally ok for a 30+ year old guy to have a casual sexual relationship with an 18 year old girl?Depends on the people I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 5 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?It depends how physically attractive he is. Good looking = confident, headstrong, knows what he wants, seizing the opportunity, dream come true Ugly = thirsty, creepy, overbearing, overconfident, doesn't respect boundaries, desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | what would be being ur reaction if you was DATING some one and you was finding out they was SECRETLY being interest in the pillo sphere like red and blue and purple pill?Propose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 12 | who is this 'Chad' bogeyman guys have invented?Not really a boogeyman. A chad is just a very attractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Isn't hypergamy a good thing from an evolutionary perspective?The bottom 4 fifths wouldnt die out anyway tbh. Speaking genetics and ignoring anomalies/issues during pregnancy, women with bad genetics can still have children with ease, their sons would inherit those traits. So you'd never be able to get rid of genetically poor males anyway. Humans are the rulers of the world now anyway though. We don't really have to selectively breed to survive among the dangers of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysIt's just wrong that they don't. People are so stupid tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat a life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysThey have to lie about it to reinforce their just world fallacy. Also to admit that average/ugly guys are treated like shit and gaslighted would also mean that they have to take responsibility for partaking in it. Which they ofc don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysPeople are illogical af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysits brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are loserstbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersTbh, the world has screwed us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:25 PM |
| 5 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysIt's typical as fuck. People are stupid though I swear. Literally just proving the point. But yeah I've seen similar things too. I've seen people call celebrities and politicians they dont agree with "incels"... When they're literally married with kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:15 PM |
| 5 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysIts honestly brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 3 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysBeing sexless is horrible tbh. Anyone who thinks its not a big deal is fooling themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:53 AM |
| 4 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysAhh yeah those people too. Seems once some of them hit a certain age, their libido just dries up. Plus I guess many of them have had the experience too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 19 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysSociety seems to hate men nowadays too. Lots of stuff shows that many younger boys feel alienated by the world due to the constant influx of anti-male messages everywhere. They're treated like perpetrators despite having done nothing. Like, what a world to come into. One that offers you no chance at love, one that shows you no compassion, one that expects you to slave away at a job where youre treated like a drone, just to have loads of your money taxed and put towards people who dont even see y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:20 AM |
| 13 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysGood to hear from you again btw. It's been a while ngl. But yeah it's ridiculous. Honestly I do liken it to emotional and mental abuse. Selling guys these lies when they're young restricts their focus and prevents them from putting in effort into aspects of themselves that are crucial for getting a partner etc. People wait till guys end puberty, and have missed out on the time in their lives when their bodies will be the most receptive to change, then gaslight and blame them. I imagine there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersThe notion that men have become losers or whatnot is backwards. Men have been placed outside the realm for succeeding. Standards that most men could never meet. And if they did start meeting them, the criteria would rise again until most men weren't winners. It's a vicious circle. I don't blame the increasing number of guys who are dropping out of trying to date, trying to get an education or trying to get a job. Too much is expected of many of them with no reward in sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:29 AM |
| 31 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysPersonality only matters imo for the success of long term relationships. But it has near zero bearing on attraction. Guys with dogshit personalities are given sex and relationships non-stop. Guess which other trait these guys also tend to share 🤔 hint: it's visual. I don't get why hot guys with bad personalities are "able to hide it and manipulate people". But ugly guys don't possess said ability and are told that "people can sense it". The inconsistency and gaslighting is so painfully obvious. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:26 AM |
| 9 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersThe criteria and bar for what makes a man a "winner" is ever increasing tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:02 AM |
| 18 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysPeople that say that sex doesn't matter are either asexual, or are in a privileged enough position to not have to worry about getting it. Most often the latter. Basically women, and good looking men. The only other category is guys who are trying their hardest to delude themselves that it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:49 AM |
| 16 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysShows that sex is just social currency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:45 AM |
| 58 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says"personality is all that matters" is the biggest and one of the most harmful lies men are told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:44 AM |
| 22 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysIt's comical isn't it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:43 AM |
| 40 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysTrue tbh. Happens all the time. Even when there's no indication that a guy is incel. Most people don't even know what it means. Or rather they purposely dismiss what it means because using a false definition enables them to keep ahold of their prejudices and target hate towards people, including those who do no wrong, while considering it justified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?ofc standards have gotten higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I find an attractive guy in college who doesn't engage in casual sex?you dont tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Aha I definitely wish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Tbh. People assume too often that such guys are partnered with the women they're out in public with. It often not the case. It's brutal though tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?I mean, It kind of is pointless most of the time. They just can't relate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Bare in mind that a man walking around with a woman isn't necessarily with him. do what I do, strike up conversation with these guys. You often find that the girl they're with is actually just a relative or friend. Not a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:24 PM |
| 7 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Im sure plenty of short guys would say otherwise. Hell, i've had plenty of women even tell me that shorter women tend to want taller guys more than average height women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards.People that say stuff like this likely dont realise just how low most mens standards actually are tbh. I've heard all this before. People will tell me I need to lower my standards... I have pretty much two standards. >be female >be legal So unless they're suggesting I become a priest there's not much else I can do. But of course then I get told "you need to raise your standards no one likes desperation"... Which is a fallacious argument because people have no way of knowing that my standards are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | men want a hot girl and women want a wealthy man but how much of that is fantasy?Wealth is becoming less important imo. Or atleast, the level of wealth a man has to have is becoming much higher. Looks still come out ontop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life?What's a sex life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?If only that were the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Imaginary women. I speak from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically?I dont see it as unreasonable. It's better for both parties imo. The man would likely just be pained by the experience, if not at first, eventually when seeing her with another guy. And women seem offput knowing that their friends see them that way. It can just make things messy and dramatic and its no good for either of them if its clearly not maintainable. I dont see what the issue would be. They're not entitled to friendship. A calm and good ending of a friendship would be a lot better than t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Are most modern women's standards for men too high? Why or why not?Guess it depends who you ask and the context. But they are certainly high. Its becoming increasingly harder for increasingly larger amounts of men to be sexually/romantically successful as a result of such standards for sure. I've also noticed that mate selection seems to have worked its way into just regular frienships or basic interactions with others in society. A lot of people nowadays have this attitude of "if youre not 'fuckable', you're not worth a moment of my time" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Why is this even a question? Of course I would. This is a fine trade. And pretty much a win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menId rather get attention i didn't care for than none at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyId say going to a prostitute is more akin to masturbation using another person's body. Sex, with or without contraception, with someone who actually wanted too, where there was lust and desire, maybe even passion. I wouldn't consider that to just be masturbation. Unfortunately I'll never know the feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 06:15 PM |
| 6 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?That I'll never experience one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot sure tbh aha. I just drink whatevers Infront of me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhiskey and beer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo need. Just sat at home getting drunk. Typical rotting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not a yank either tbh. And there's nothing else to do tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's Sunday and I'm just rotting again. Life is just shitty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnother Sunday rot session | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?Obvious answer is usually no. Most men are easy to please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.It's a flagrant lie told so that they don't come across as shallow I imagine. But yeah being nice has very little to do in the mate selection process. It helps with longevity and healthy relationships I guess, but it's not going to help you initiate a relationship at all. The way you look mostly determines how people percieve you anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | What trust issues do you have when it comes to women?I don't trust anyone. Humans are horrible, and I'm pretty much guaranteed that if a woman showed any interest in me, she wouldn't once she saw what I looked like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | After careful examination status is the most important a guy can have with women.Being a short ugly is suifuel as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | After careful examination status is the most important a guy can have with women.Wish I was handsome statusmaxxed guy tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | After careful examination status is the most important a guy can have with women.Looks aid in gaining status too tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Unfortunately not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.They're the same bar in my case tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Even with these conditions met, a relationship is an impossibility for me. Hell, being treated like a human is often just not on the cards. I visually offend people so unfortunately for me, that offence is reciprocated with malice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:17 PM |
| 7 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Borderline impossible to get any relationship at all without looks. Nevermind LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 0 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.I wish personality trumped looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGigasme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 11:41 AM |
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