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There is a method called "5 seconds" (even a book is named that, that's where the principle comes from) when you start counting down from 5, 4, 3 ... for whatever could cause some anxiety and just do it. Even during the countdown you've already started making that approach, open up the study books, start doing XYZ and when you hit 0, you are already there and will do the task that you challenged yourself to do. You only focus on the countdown, don't think about anything else.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 03:26 AM
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Shit, this post hit me the wrong (right) way. I was learned that secrets are a currency, and I was/am good at getting people to talk. This always ends up that people feel backstabbed by me/group when we exchange the information for someone else's secrets. I live on a small island, people love secrets. I've really tried to stop gathering information from my environment, but it's hard to unlearn this social programming. I've become better but still like 60-70% works in the same old way, especially…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:09 AM
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Well, I'm definitely not for slapping kids or anything like that. But what does control most of the humans today?Fear, that's right.If you've done anything REALLY wrong, a slap is maybe deserved to teach a lesson. I remember as young when I stole a boat to go fishing without saying anything to my parents, they found me and my friend (like 7-8 years old and it was a small storm outside and no "life jacket") out at the water, when we got in. Jesus Christ, got the worst bitch slap of my mother.I ne…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 06:24 AM
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Not sure if you follow his email list, but he was "disappointed" that he didn't use the word fit instead of thin, but he was in a "writing rage" when it happend, but shit happens and you only get one chance. We understand the point he ment. He wrote a long email to all his followers with what he meant with all the points. ​
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 08:51 AM
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I don't know what you do with your money, but maybe put it somewhere so it gives you passive income + it will "cripple" your mind to think you have less money than you have (good feeling if the shit hit the fan), so you won't go to the lazy side.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 03:40 AM
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Question: If the paradox of choice makes us more miserable, girls have more choices than men, but the men are still more miserable/depressed. How come? Have the girls found a way to never "choose" anything, just have the constant validation and men choose many/often that mostly result in a rejection?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 04:23 AM
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Shit... This really stuck to me. I've always been a master to continue a conversation, but it's because I do all the things above and it has landed me in Friendzone a COUPLE of times. Sure I've still fucked some because of it. I've noticed that girls like it in the beginning first/the second week, it really hooks them because they feel that you're master of social life but after two weeks/first sex they get tired of it and it's kinda needy. What do you think? (haha, nr. 5)
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 07:30 AM
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To all the readers, if you want to fuck. Then approach, you can never be too experienced to date. If you want to see your dick every evening, alone in your apartment, well don't approach. But sure, don't be a creep about it. An approach doesn't have to be "Come home to my apartment lady and you will see my fun parts". Instead peak her interests with an approach, talk about random shit/the passion you both have.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 07:19 AM
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A thing that always stuck to me is when you see in movies a bad/smart character answer a question with a story or just start randoming telling a story with a purpose. For example, "The Blacklist" Raymond always tells a story before coming to a conclusion and sometimes you don't even know the answer. Probably hard as fuck to do IRL, but would probably doing a lot for you socialy. Especially if you can capture yourself in the end.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 03:36 AM
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Shit, this really hit me. Started dating a girl like 2 months ago, we met 4 times and i fell so fucking hard. I've been reading/study TRP for almost 10 years. Know the ground rule is not to let in, but fuck, shit happens. I KNEW that i wrote to much on Facebook to her, I KNEW that i pushed to much to meet her (Rear of the year ;) ) , I know how much I failed. But the blue pill Fraita had a super strong urgent to write, see if she was online e.t.c. Every time my phone went of, my first reaction w…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 03:54 AM
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Sounds like you could've told her anything about sex or kissing to make her continue the escalation. "You look like a good kisser" "I don't trust your innocent face for one second, I know you are hiding something" then lean in. "There is something I've to try" lean in. But yeah, this situations sucks really hard. Had a girl (almost "the one") who still talked to me even though I've done some stupid shit in the "flirt-area". One night it ended up we both cried over being "special" in a bad way. W…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 06:17 AM
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You should check up Goldmund Unleashed, an introvert type with a strong aura and very crafty with words and like to observe, what people would say, the uninteresting. Have a fun way to tell stories and how to use the "introvertism" as a strength. Give him a try and comment what you think.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 02:16 AM
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Good post! I was thinking about the books, I've read maybe 50-100 through my life. It was more fiction the facts. Then i went to College and learned that I can listen to the teacher and remember very much, so i skipped the books/writings all together and just sat in front row and listened. Today i use audiobooks instead ordinary books, so i can listen everywhere I go and i must say. With every book, i go through (it's most facts, biographies e.t.c.) i learn something new i want to spread around …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 04:50 AM
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I can't find the answer to my question, Is there an app that count in hours instead of days to get reminded of our short life?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 04:09 AM
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Förstod precis allt ;)! Good luck with your Swedish lessons, really have challenge myself to learn a new language too.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 09:03 AM
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When the streets are crowded and people are walking like fucktards, big horizontal lines, starring into their phone and don't see a shit etc in the opposite direction of you. How do you, in a "bossy" way, go around this? I've read that you should just stop in your ways, so they either bump straight into you or "budge" around you. Any other tips? What I do know, is I go like a "flow". Always have my head high and straight forward (i'm 6'2 and pretty wide shoulders as an old elit swimmer), but tur…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 02:44 AM
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The link you sent, dosen't seem to work. Sure it's correctly spelled?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 02:29 AM
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Ever since new year, I've been going with a routine in the morning. (Monk mode) Made me so happy and it even go so far that I've want to go to bed early at the evening, so I can wake up again and feeling badass. PS. I've always been a morning person, so it can be a reason why it works so efficient for me. My routine so far: 1) My alarm will go off 03:30. Often I'm already awake (I'm that kind of person that has an "alarmclock" in my mind, so I can most likley wake up at the same time everyday, i…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:30 AM
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Great post! I've just fell in this kind of downard spiral. I've never had problem with stutter and not more then anyone else, problem with articulate words. But latley i've started to stutter like hell and just "slum" the word out. Don't know really why or what is happening, before I was a social creature and now I don't want to hang with people at all. I just think they are just slowing me down. And another thing, is it wise to go in with an open mind and ask friends what the "worst" traits I h…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:48 PM
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Since new year (not planned, just snapped somthing in me) I've been living on like 4 and half of this rules. Somehow I've not been happier, like I'm now, since I went into this monk mode. Feels like I have a destination, even though I have troubles like anyone else. EDIT: And you/Arnold are right, spread TRP wisedom to someone else it's amazing, even though they only listen with one ear. It's one thing to read and try to understand. But when you try to spread it you really have to think how to t…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:23 PM
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I somehow got to think about the ending of Batman, the dark knight rises. ----SPOILER---- When Alfred goes to France just to see Bruce sitting their with a hot chick. And their glace meet eachother and Bruce bring forth a small smile and SLOWLY (important) turn his head (down in this case, but to the sides would be better) like he is acknowledged the person. Or like Leo in Django Unchained, https://giphy.com/gifs/ILW1fbJHW0Ndm Like that, but SLOWLY like an acknowledged
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:51 AM
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Grew up with "2" moms and two girl cousins. (same age and 5 years older) No i didn't have two moms, they are twins and none of them have a male in their life since 20 years back. So they decided to move in togheter for economic reasons. I can talk to any girl (dosen't matter HB-rank) "good" if you ask a beta-guy. But I've probably got friendzoned like 20, if not more, times in my life... Even had guys tell me that they are jealous of my socialskills with hot bitches, but they've not been in my s…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:28 AM
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Thanks for the comment! I can really imagine how I would say somthing like that (sideway grin and look them in the eye with a playful/evil smile), I guess you really need to have such a strong frame that they wont "counter punch" it. Especially for someone like me that not yet master this. Thanks! Will save this comment also EDIT: And I promised my self today that I will also start with some kind of martial arts, so I also feel confident if somthing would escalate when being an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 02:50 PM
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I must say... Wow! Thank you for the insightful comment, really made me think back to old scenarios and how some of the stuff you said probably could have changed the outcome. And also how I should change my thinking today, I already felt more powerful when I was sitting on the bus and adept the mentality (sure, it's a smal start. But if I keep doing it everyday it can probably change some stuff :) ) I'm going to save this comment so I can read it when I feel "low" on confidence. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 02:43 PM
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Well, it's not necissarly shouting arguments. It can just be that me and the opponent have very diffrent opinions. But I cant go through life skipping arguments, decision making etc. And It dosent infuse much confident if I cant stand my ground. A girl would totally roll me over EDIT: I got good attributes to be leader of some kind (bussines, social hierarchy etc). And its hard not to get challenged as a leader. For years I've always been the guy that swoops into new groups, get high social hier…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:31 AM
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My weakest attribute is that I've got weak frame and can't control my "emotions" (?). Just an example is when some one is yelling, questioning my decision/view or I get in some lively argumentation. I start looking down to the floor because I get watery/tears in my eyes? I don't necessarily feel threatend and could proably stand my ground because of the logic, but when my eyes start feeling teary/watery I can't proceed arguing because it looks like I cry. Does anyone have/had same problem? How t…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 07:00 AM
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Sort of in same situation as you about the father and I've lived with 4 (!) girls (sisters & mom) until I moved. Been lurking on TRP-bloggs back and forth for almost 7-8 year, Christian McQueen (google it) was my "intro" to TRP. He got podcast, books and active programs. If you sign up for his podcast (7$/month, some free episodes) you also get to know a lot of diffrent TRP-people around the world, much interviews like Rollo, Illimitableman, Goldmund, Tanner Guzy, The Privateman (RIP) e.t.c.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:19 AM
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Really like the way you simplify the message, do you have an app for Iphone too?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 05:44 AM
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I'm not here to hammer you, but the site for "WHY ROLE-PLAYING ON DATES IS AMAZING!" can be much more attractive if you make the text bigger and the sentences more like book-length, it's easier to scroll down while reading then to the sides. It's far to wide to read atm, I tried five times to read it but I get so frustrated. Otherwise I think you are right about the dating, I can just picture when a boring guy takes a girl to a dinnerdate (haha) and ask question after question. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 05:35 AM
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Don't get all the "hate" you get, especially with the HB 10, lets just say "Get your self to be the Chad that everyone wants to be". The monk mode is about improving your self, and you seem really dedicated to it :)! Good for you and I like the way you link all the books and other posts. I'm somewhat similar situation with the monk mode. Not that hardcore though, but I like my situation. Not been happier in many years, best of all was to ditch all the energy vampires! Good luck in your journey
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 02:38 PM
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I've not yet got to read to 48 laws of power. But I've read some on illimitablemen blogg and saw that nice animated youtube clip about it. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=670ZGMBjrPI) It's really inspiring and true I've slowly dropped most of my "friends" because of their weak thinking and try to improve my lifestyle as much as I can. Saw you are on a similar path :)
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:29 PM
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For me it's hard to compare how it's in other rich countrys when I've not lived or been to any that are much diffrent som the Scandinavia countrys. But like this video when three women cops can't take down an immigrant and think this is the overall rule for our cops. It's like we Swedish (we know it's not true), think that every USA cop is fat, cant run and will stay at the closest donuts shop during a chase. Hard to say what is what when media is painting everything in their like. But yeah, Swe…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:09 PM
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Well... I guess we could discuss why I put it out there, but that's another topic and we could probably go on forever. But I think it's a defense mechanism to have to justify my self in our "political correct" society. But you are right that everyone (including you?) have that kind of response. It's like no one votes for SD (Swedish democrats) but they still are the second (?) biggest party.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:02 PM
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I live in the second biggest city of Sweden (Gothenburg), close to the central city. The thing is I don't notice the migrants that much, sure I see them. But often they stay for them self or in their own groups and don't engage that much when they are in the city. Though there is a area, cirka 20 min from city that is called Biskopsgarden. The police won't even enter the place because it's to dangerous, they only go in when some gangmember kills a 8 year old with a grenade (http://www.dailymail.…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:54 AM
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I've come to realise that womens gossip/shaming e.t.c. tend to draw my energy. Not that they shame/gossip about me, just the way they talk to eachother/me. It's fun to see how low self estem they have so they have to make the impression that they are "above" the person they shame/gossip about. I started at college fall of 2015, start to spend time with four girls and one guy. Not to have sex, I just thought they were fun and made the days at school go faster. At the end of 2016 I was so annoyed …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 07:40 PM
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I like that you bring up the "party part". I actually did that, party hard as hell every summer from when I was 15, since the first time I got drunk I loved it! (alcoholism runs in my finnish family). Today, at 22 years old, I got problem with my mind, hard to remember stuff/faces/facts, it's a mess in my head. I guess it's a result from my blackout (only way I knew to drink) drinking since 15. I remember storys/facts e.t.c. but when I try to talk about them I just mess the storys together and c…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:48 AM
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Well I think OP wants to say with this that you really have to think, not one or twice, atleast five times, before you do business with your family/friends. Just go and watch the movie, for example, "war dogs" and you get a sense of why it can get really complicated when you are in business with family/friend.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 04:18 PM
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I've been looking at krav maga for a while (never moved my ass to the classes though), what do you think about that?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 05:41 AM
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Just an little anecdote I was wondering, can this backfire as hell and make the girl want to stay even more? I think I read somewhere that some girls (redflag) wants BP-guys. So they can take care, control and know where they have their "little" boy. More insecure and vulnerable, the better! I guess the RP can just take another road if the "beta smokescreen" dosen't work, but I was aiming for the guys that maybe don't know any other strategi to get a girl out of their lives without drama. EDIT: …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 05:21 AM
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