Fran2795 Archive

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5	Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats? I agree with this, my brother's cat is not allowed to be on any surface (table or counter) and he knows this, he's also not allowed to go into the kitchen and thus stands at the door waiting for the person to come back (if he happens to be following you). It was easier to teach him because the kitchen has a door that is kept closed when no one is at home, but the cat knows and he also knows who he can try to ignore thise boundaries (he tried to go onto the table once when I was having breakfast,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 05:31 PM
6	Just a reminder ladies 😘 The velcro rollers work, but not on their own. I also have very straight hair and avoid using heat to keep it as healthy as possible. When I want to have curls, I use Sublimia DD cream (on wet hair), argan oil (on dry hair) and then TRESemmé extra firm control hair mousse just before putting on the rollers. Keep them on the whole night or at least 5 hours and I will have perfect curls until I wash my hair again. The size of the rollers is also important, I use big rollers for more open curls, an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 05:31 PM
273	Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤 He made a comment somewhere saying that he was entitled to choose where the money was going just because they are together (not married, not engaged, just together) 🙄 The audacity is limitless	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 09:04 PM
43	Leave at the first lie, no matter how small or "innocent" My best friend is a common friend I had with my ex and I've been talking to said friend practically every day for years. Once, my best friend and other of my exes friend invited him to play some boardgames and chat and he used me as an excuse to not go, he said we were helping another friend of mine to move out. Obviously my best friend new immediately the ex was lying, as I would have told him, even in passing, of something like that. I ended up telling him to never use me as an excuse again, t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 04:07 PM
139	If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:) It works wonders. Yesterday they legalized abortion in Argentina, a discussion that is still going on here in Chile, and I took the opportunity to talk about it with the man I'm seeing. Ladies, he did not dissapoint. He doesn't label himself as a feminist, but is clear about women's rights and has a clear point of view if asked about it. I've known him for 7 years and we've superficially talked about these topics, but to have a discussion with him in which I know clearly where he stands, and to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 01:12 AM
122	I didn't see this posted here yet. This felt powerful! Women in Chile and Latin America in general are fed up with the patriarchy. Women are raped and killed at stupid rates just because by their boyfriends, exes, husbands, and men they don't even know. This performanece was originally supposed to be a small theatre play but because of the social revolution here, they changed it, took the main points of what they wanted to communicate and transformed it into what can be seen on the video. It became viral instantly, and it did so because every single…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 01:58 AM
9	Anyone else have this view on having children? Yes, I think like that too. I've come to the conclusion that if I ever have children, I'd rather adopt, specially because the foster system in my country is hell for the kids. If I could spare at least one of them living through that, I would.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 09:57 PM
40	Is this where the "PickMe" epithet hails from? I laughed so hard I pulled a muscle in my neck. She did, they had like two kids and then he emotionally cheated and died in a car accident trying to go back to her. Now she is doing far better without her husband (although is emphasized from time to time that he was the love of her life)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 01:26 AM
30	Just to remind all the ladies here on who to avoid. Remember, people(men) who constantly take from you are just using you. People who do these things don't actually care about you, they just care about what you can do for them. Their attention is conditional on how much they can get from you. "Their attention is conditional on how much they can get from you" --> 100% true. My ex stopped giving a shit when the pandemic started and we had to shift to a LDR, it was as if I didn't matter because we couldn't have sex anymore. It took me a bit, but I finally cut him out of my life and now I couldn't be happier, as I'm leveling up and found someone (been friends many years with him) who actually is a HVM. Don't ever settle girls, and block from your life at the first red flag, I know I shou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 01:49 AM
9	Never, never, never explain. Only angry. No explain. Thank you so much! In the past I would've explained myself to no end, but now and thanks to FDS I know I don't have to do that, nor I'm willing to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/20 04:27 PM
39	Never, never, never explain. Only angry. No explain. I needed to see this. Today I'm telling my (male) therapist I won't keep going to therapy with him and I'm telling myself over and over again that I don't need to explain to him why. The most I'm willing to "explain" is to say I'm no longer comfortable with him, and that's it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/20 01:43 PM
8	Woman's self defense I did Krav Maga for a couple of months and I loved it, they teach you how to actually defend yourself if someone attacks you and they even encourage you to go for the most vulnerable parts. The place where I trained, the instructor always emphasized that we weren't supposed to win a fight, but get rid of our attacker and run, and gave us the tools to do it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/20 08:41 PM
8	Taking too long to call/see you If he called you only because you told him you lost interest in him because of that, it' a bad bad sign. He's not doing it because he wants, but rather because you indirectly told him to. I had this issue with my ex and it was draining. Nothing of what he did was his idea, and as a result there was no meaning to his actions. Better to be alone than with someone like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 01:38 PM
8	Another cautionary tale of the dangers of choosing a LVM: they will not hesitate to hurt you to sexually please themselves, even when you might be literally dying Thanks for the heads up! I had some x-rays taken and is not supposed to be broken, in fact, I was told it was just sprained. I was supposed to recover a while ago and it doesn't happen, my family doctor thinks is actually dislocated and I'll go to a specialist at the end of the month.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 05:48 PM
139	Another cautionary tale of the dangers of choosing a LVM: they will not hesitate to hurt you to sexually please themselves, even when you might be literally dying They really do care more about their sexual pleasure than anything else. I have a coxis injury that has taken forever to heal (will go to the doctor soon) and while I was with my ex he insisted on having sex and was bumed out when I said no too much. He knew that sex worsened my injury, and still expected me to gladly say yes, when I was clearly in a lot of pain and emotional stress. I'm ashamed to say that I gave in far too many times, but NEVER AGAIN will I date a LVM like him, or any other ki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 01:50 PM