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What are you not understanding here? You are asking for something that is impossible, I don't have an encyclopedia saved of every bad comment I've seen on the internet, do you? Can you show me any examples? Why do you refuse to share any examples like I've asked you to? Is it because you understand it's a stupid and impossible ask? Is it that you're pretending to be stupid to troll me right now? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:43 PM
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Ah now you see how ridiculous the ask for examples is here. Glad I could educate you on this matter. Now go forth as a more intelligent human being thanks to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:37 PM
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Ok good talk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:24 PM
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10 seconds to google what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:06 PM
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How about you stop making so many wild assumptions about my life and what I think, when you're so consistently wrong every single time. It's frankly embarrassing and you should stop assuming things and just ask questions like a normal person in a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:51 PM
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Oh, any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:50 PM
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What this whole anti-performative male thing does is really show the true motivations of these people who were talking all about positive masculinity and how men should change to be better. The performative male hate comes from a segment of those people and it shows that they weren't ever interested in men actually getting better and becoming better people. They just used it as a way to hate on men, and now that these men are doing exactly what these people said they should do, these people now …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 04:40 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:24 PM
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Why didn't you ask the other guy for examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:24 PM
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I have seen plenty of women being violent. Sorry but some of us do actually go outside and experience the world, where we see that women are people just like men. Fully capable of violence and willing to do it if they can get away with it, hint they always get away with it. Don't act like you know my life better than me and maybe you should do some deeper thinking about why fictional stories are written with the types of characters they are written with. Also remember that fiction is not reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:20 PM
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Weird, I've genuinely NEVER seen women calling women who sleep with a minor a pedophile. Not one time, it's always the women acting like the boy is in charge of the adult woman and manipulated her into raping him. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:18 PM
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However in most posts/reels about a female teacher sleeping with a minor, comments from men are "I wish that was me" "so lucky", while women's comments are "she's an abuser" Weird, I see the opposite. No, women hitting is not normalized It is normalized actually. You should try going outside or engaging with tv, movies, books, etc. at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:38 PM
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Well if she isn't "panting" after you like she says in the comment, then you're in this kind of relationship. I think the issue is guys getting into relationships with the first woman who shows lukewarm interest because he hasn't experienced a woman who truly wants him and what that feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:34 PM
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Come on, if you're gonna abuse your mod powers maybe make it a little bit more subtle than instantly flagging the two comments I made to you at the same time as you edited this comment to be even more uncivil towards me. u/GridReXX are you going to flag your own previous uncivil comments full of disingenuously antagonistic ad homs or are you above the rules of the subreddit? Look at your comment right now, it's way more uncivil and full of way more ad homs than anything I've ever written on this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:56 AM
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So even where I can empathise with them there’s no blocker there due to their maleness I don't understand what you mean by blocker here. But that sounds like you are disgusted by male sexuality. Sounds like a tough way to live and I hope you can work through this issue. I hope you can learn to have a more neutral stance towards male sexuality, it is half the world after all you're gonna have to engage with it in some way. I would hate to be so disgusted by something so prevalent in life, I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:52 AM
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That's nice, but entirely unrelated to my comment. I guess you are just disgusted by male sexuality as a concept. I would recommend talking to a mental health professional about this issue. Seems like a very difficult way to live, especially if you're a heterosexual or bisexual woman. Hope you can get through this rough patch in life, does not seem easy to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:49 AM
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That's not at all what I asked but that's fine. This response alone shows you do not have any empathy for men. Thank you for being honest with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:46 AM
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So a man having sexual desires makes it impossible for you to empathize with him? Are you asexual or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:35 PM
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Can you post a link to the most recent time you've shown empathy to a man here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:34 PM
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Many would yes, go figure people being treated like human beings with basic kindness helps them to treat others that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:33 PM
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Can you post a link to the most recent time you've shown empathy to a man on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:33 PM
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Why do you ignore the women who support the teacher and the men who hate the teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:31 PM
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Per someone else’s earlier commment, men who can’t get relationships who want to and know they woukd be great partners DO get empathy from women Can you post a link to the most recent time you showed empathy to this kind of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:30 PM
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You sound incredibly anxious and paranoid, to a wildly unhealthy degree. You're assuming every man is ted bundy and actively out to get you. You should talk to a mental health professional about this issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:29 PM
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Alright dude, I think you got some issues to work out on your own. Maybe if you meet a bisexual woman your mind will change, idk. Just seems like a really weird hang up about something that is effectively a meaningless distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:11 AM
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No because you still blamed men here: What has been far more harmful have been men, including red pillers for a long time, who like to yell slurs at me for not conforming to what they think I should be. I want to see the most recent comment where you said a woman or women ever did anything bad to a man or men and you only blame the woman or women. No "but a man/men are worse" included. If you aren't going to do this then don't reply. I'm done with this trolling bullshit on this subreddit, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:09 PM
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No that isn't what I asked for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:04 PM
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How does being bisexual meaningfully change a woman? She is still attracted to men, a lesbian is not. So they are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:04 PM
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Can you show me the most recent comment you made where you said any woman ever did anything bad to a man and it is completely her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:55 PM
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So what is a gender role and what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:55 PM
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What a woman being bisexual would make you not want her but you would want her if she was straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:54 PM
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You should not rely on google ai, it famously wrong more often than it is right. Just click the links and do some research
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:52 PM
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Well that's not surprising, you never believe any woman has ever done anything bad to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:50 PM
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This all sounds like gender roles and homophobia fueled paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:20 PM
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I don't believe you then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:17 PM
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Nah seriously, what stinky ass school did you go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:14 PM
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No it's a sign of insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:24 AM
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I never said this post is about giving advice. I'm saying that user specifically frequently frames her personal preferences as something all women share
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:43 PM
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in places talking to people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:54 PM
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Ok so you like a relationship where the man does the vast majority and the woman does less than the bare minimum. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:50 PM
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places
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:49 PM
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Kinda crazy how in posts like this, girls are always hating on the split of finances. I see nothing wrong with their split tbh You said this, you see nothing wrong with the overall split of what they do in their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:46 PM
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I didn't say you said that, glad we're on the same page. I'm asking you now to show me one area in their relationship where she does more than him. It's a very simple question and there should be no reason for you to misunderstand what I'm asking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:38 PM
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You have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:36 PM
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Your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:32 PM
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Right, so maybe stop giving this advice as if your personal preferences are shared by all women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:03 PM
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True but what I think what happens more often is people assume a nice man is a passive doormat. The whole people mistaking kindness for weakness thing happens way more often than what you're talking about. I speak from experience on this one, people assume my kindness is weakness all the time. It can get pretty annoying but idk why people think it's so wrong for a guy to be able to just let shit go and not make a huge issue out of minor disrespect or something. When women say we like kind guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:59 PM
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Careful, treating him the exact same way he treats others is likely to get you banned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:53 PM
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For the second time I ask you: And can you tell me where you got those quotes from in your initial comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:53 PM
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Did you? Can you show me one area where she does more than her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:49 PM
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He's not doing that. And can you tell me where you got those quotes from in your initial comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:12 AM
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Were you alive for the 2010 midterms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:10 AM
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Lol of course you see nothing wrong with it, their "split" is the guy doing all the work and sacrificing while she just gets to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:10 AM
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I feel like obsessing over rankings and your league and shit is just really unhelpful and creates mental illness in people. We all know what is conventionally attractive and what is not. The closer you are to that standard the more attractive you are. If you are far from that standard you're probably just fat and will be much more attractive if you lose the weight. It's really not that complex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:07 AM
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Why are you quoting things he didn't say? You do also realize that these could just be two different groups of women right? Like some women ignore the whole incel thing and go to coachella. Others ignore coachella and spend their time antagonizing incels they think are ideologically driven to rape and murder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:57 AM
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They do, but why would you choose to hang out with and constantly antagonize people who you think ideologically driven to rape and murder women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:55 AM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:24 PM
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I'm sorry but this is all cope for unattractive women. No men are not too intimidated to hit on a woman they're attracted to. The girl in the tik tok is not intimidating, she's obese and ugly. Her friends are horrible friends for lying to her so severely. She would have success if she got fit, it's mostly the obesity making her ugly. The youtube short is AI garbage that is just cope for incel girls. Here's the secret, guys will approach, hit on a woman, etc. if he thinks there's mutual attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:18 PM
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No they outright say the vast majority of men are actually unattractive. You gotta listen to women sometimes man, and remember they are humans too. That means they aren't perfect and do bad things all the time, just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:11 PM
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Yeah man I've read 1984, I don't need you to explain the most basic concept of the book that everyone already knows
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:10 PM
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yes they can hold two contradictory thoughts in their head. Yes but that's also a sign of insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:10 PM
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So do you think women would say a majority of men are attractive? Do you think the women here who freely say that they see maybe 1 attractive man out of every 100 men are just lying or something? This is such a weird stance for you to have because if you just listen to any woman talk about this stuff, they'll freely tell you that they think the vast majority of men are unattractive. You arrive at some form of the 80/20 rule by just listening to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:47 AM
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So are you saying women find a majority of men to be attractive or something? I'm trying to understand your point but you seem to be jumping between two contradictory viewpoints in your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:45 AM
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No any gender war was happening long before that was released. I do find it interesting that people rage so hard against using that data for making any points, but then freely admit that women find 80-90% of men to be unattractive. Really weird behavior, like do people notice they're holding two contradictory thoughts in their heads at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:44 AM
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I'm literally a bastard, never faced any stigma for it in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:32 PM
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You're the one saying dating feels like hunting. Tell me when you hunt an animal, does it want you to kill it? Does it come to you and willingly choose to be killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:30 PM
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Sidenote: when I talk about about unattractive in this post, I mean the latter. What happened to this sub citing the 80/20 study that 80% of men were labelled unattractive but 60% got messaged from women? Thing is, you can away with not being hot if your personality is good. Thing is alot of guys arent as good as they think they are. Why do you think dating someone who thinks you're unattractive is a good thing? And aren't you supposed to be opposed to red pill ideology? An example: I guarantee …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:28 PM
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So most assertive men think like a rapist hunting down their prey that is running from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:24 PM
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Yeah it feels like hunting because they're running from you like prey. Lol dating a woman who actually wants you never feels like hunting. That's deadass something only a rapist would say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:23 PM
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Why would I care about my partner's enjoyment when she doesn't care about her own enjoyment nor my enjoyment either? Did the added emphasis help you understand or do you need more help?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:23 PM
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Hey you said you're hunting women, not me. It is pretty cringe to say that I will agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:13 PM
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Why would I care about my partner's enjoyment when she doesn't care about her own enjoyment nor my enjoyment either? If she's just gonna lay back and let me use her like a fleshlight why should I try at all to make it good for her? I'm sorry but I don't put in effort to people who demand effort and never give any back in return. Like I said, if women took more initiative in sex with men then the orgasm gap would disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:12 PM
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Most of the orgasm gap is from women not communicating what they want and not taking any initiative in the sex. Most of the time she'll lay back and let the guy use her but that doesn't tell him anything you want, and frankly being such an uncooperative partner makes me care about her orgasm way less than normal. Like if she doesn't care about her orgasm or doing anything for me then why should I care about her? Why should I not just get mine and be done when I want to be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:13 PM
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If they do that then yes, but most women don't communicate what they want or need from the guy. Most of the time they just lay back and ask you to take them and do whatever you want to them. So most of the time this would be solved if she just took some initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:11 PM
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I love the irony of you insulting people for being online too much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:07 PM
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Uh that sounds like you're a rapist bro. If you need to hunt down women it seems like they don't want you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:07 PM
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Well women aren't coming onto me so what other option do I have? If I don't take the initiative I'll be single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:04 PM
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This hasn’t been my experience at all Well that's personally been my experience, caring about whether I'm making a woman uncomfortable means I don't try because women get uncomfortable for so many random reasons when a guy is making a move What I will say though, is I do act truly myself and, to a degree, I don’t care how other people take it Ah this is probably why, you already never cared if you made a woman uncomfortable. You have always followed op's advice but it's normal for you so you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:00 PM
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I have a very different interpretation of op's advice. It's not that you should keep pushing and making women uncomfortable after they've said no, it's that it's actively harmful to a man's if he tries to never make any woman uncomfortable. Because if a guy is trying to never make any woman uncomfortable then he's never taking the risk of initiating anything and likely will not have women coming onto him. He essentially becomes a sexless simp. Because a man who tries to date women will inevitabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:58 PM
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Thanks bro, you the real mvp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:36 PM
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Any general advice you'd give to a guy to make it happen in 3 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:35 PM
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Thank you, I'd disagree that it's only very few women saying they hate men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:28 PM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:26 PM
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I'm more surprised that people with a straight face are able to justify her department becoming the american gestapo and sending out masked armed bounty hunters into the streets of LA to kidnap anyone with the wrong skin color. With people defending that is it really hard to imagine people defending killing one dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:25 PM
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Bro I gotta get the link to the original post, I need to see the full drama when it's that juicy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:21 PM
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You literally did the exact thing you criticized in the post you made. Classic troll, all you can do is lie and deflect when you get caught. Why is your posting history hidden though? Is it because you're a lying troll and don't want to be caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:08 PM
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That's a nice non-sequitur. Now will you answer my question, you would assume a man who says he hates most women would hate most women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:07 PM
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RP shit has been discussed for ages, especially in comedy Yeah because the red pill is a fucking joke dude. People don't talk about this irl in any serious manner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:06 PM
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So why are you here? Why do you post on forums dedicated to dating if you hate dating and have totally given up? At this point you're just giving yourself psychic damage as a hobby. If you actually gave up you wouldn't be here. So you either try or you actually give up and go do anything other than focusing on dating. You gotta pick one, you can't sit on this fence forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:03 PM
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Ok so what, you're just gonna give up without even trying? Your face will look better if you are physically fit. An attractive body can make up for an unattractive height. I really don't understand why you would spend time talking about dating dynamics and shit if you just totally gave up and have no hope for yourself due to the two things you hyperfixate on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:21 PM
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Yeah you're right, why would someone want the person they're dating to show actual desire for them and want to spend time with them? Why would someone not want to date a person who expects them to jump through all kinds of hoops and will do nothing in return? I swear to god some of you people here have the most atrocious examples of relationships in your lives and it heavily skews what you think is reasonable. A good relationship is where both people treat the other like "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:20 PM
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What part of my comment are you not understanding? I'm just pointing out that in one sentence you said it's ALWAYS dumb to suggest "just become gay" and then in the very next sentence gave an example of when you would suggest a guy should "just become gay". Do you really not understand what I'm pointing out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:17 PM
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Really? So you didn't make this post criticizing men who say "that never happens"? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1nf15nj/why_do_men_gaslight_women_here/ I get that you think hiding your posting history makes it so people can't find what you post, but when you make this an hour before the og comment it's really easy to find your post. Get some op sec if you're gonna be such a dedicated troll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:15 PM
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So you just showed up to her place unannounced and uninvited assuming you were gonna fuck her right then and there?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:12 PM
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I doubt it, the vast majority of men don't say any red pill shit at all. This stuff is incredibly uncommon and usually just an online thing. Kinda like how on martial arts youtube people in the comments have all kinds of disrespectful "advice" to give to masters but irl people have a very reasonable understanding of their knowledge of martial arts and fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:11 PM
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Right so you don't think it's ALWAYS dumb to suggest "just become gay" as a solution. Hopefully the added emphasis helps you understand what my comment was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:09 PM
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It does, because they say they hate the rest. You would assume a man who says he hates most women would hate most women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:08 PM
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That's a nice essay you wrote but I don't see how it has anything to do with my comment. It's just the classic deflection of when a woman says something hateful it's just a little joke not to be taken seriously, but when a man says something hateful it's supposed to be taken extremely seriously and all men are responsible for that guy. How do you people not get exhausted from constantly infantilizing women? But yes I think everyone knows they don't believe it, unless they're bush era republicans…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:06 PM
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Well my experience both online and offline is the exact opposite of yours. Idk what you want from me at this point. Like I've never heard anyone say that anyone is a bitch or a slut or anything like that at any job I've worked at. Maybe you just live in an exceptionally shitty area or something, but you aren't gonna convince that what I've experienced didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:27 PM
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Nah bro, pregnancy is real. I would never fuck a woman I would hate to have a kid with. Just setting yourself up for failure and a bad life at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:24 PM
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So you don't always think it's dumb to suggest "just become gay" as a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:23 PM
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Except they do, they just say shit like their partner is "one of the good ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:22 PM
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Women absolutely date men they hate. Didn't you just make a post criticizing when men do this exact thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:21 PM
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Nah, they share that they are dating men while hating men. Usually they claim to have found "one of the good ones" and say shit like "I'd be celibate forever if my boyfriend/husband died"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:20 PM
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Well to start with, the whole "nobody does that" comment in a thread where people are doing that is classic reddit shit. People wildly exaggerate to the point of obviously being wrong constantly on this website and idk why they do it, makes conversation very difficult with such extreme black and white thinking. But another aspect is that you seem to be expecting men to be a monolith and what's likely happening is that these are different men with different opinions, morals, politics, etc. engagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:19 PM
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I'm talking about real life here. But you also don't see women constantly slut shaming women online too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:15 PM
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You didn't, this is truly your final chance to show me where I denied being lead on and friendzoned by that girl. It's ok dude, you can just say you were mistaken and were wrong. Be an adult dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:35 PM
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Or you could just leave me alone and stop insulting me with every comment. Why don't you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:28 PM
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I love how people say something really stupid and wrong and then act like I'm out of line for pointing it out and not tolerating the constant disrespect from everybody here. Whatever, you're right because I have self respect I must be some horrible person and the only way for me to successfully date is to tolerate constant disrespect from the women I'm dating. Yeah great idea you got there pal 🙄 And if you make one more bullshit snarky reply I'm blocking you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:20 PM
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Sounds like the friendzone in denial. You have one last chance before I block you, where is the denial?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:15 PM
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I love how people say something really stupid and wrong and then act like I'm out of line for pointing it out and not tolerating the constant disrespect from everybody here. Whatever, you're right because I have self respect I must be some horrible person and the only way for me to successfully date is to tolerate constant disrespect from the women I'm dating. Yeah great idea you got there pal 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:13 PM
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No you're just disrespecting me and I'm not gonna tolerate it. I will treat you the way you treat me. If you are nice to me I'll be nice to you, if you're rude to me I'll be rude to you. You decide how this conversation goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:11 PM
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I am being polite, at least as polite as you are being. But you're also lying about thinking buscemi is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:10 PM
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Ok so with the girl in college who lead me on the hardest we would grind all night at the club, she would be touchy in general, I did the classic college move of a piggy back ride for her on the way home, we cuddled on her couch, then went to bed together only for me to be rejected when I make a move. If that ain't leading someone on then idk what is. Why are so belligerent right now? Why are you just assuming I'm lying or stupid? What the fuck is wrong with you dude? You do this all day every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:09 PM
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Now if this one girl did all those things with you, then yeah, it sounds like she's either crazy or intentionally leading you on. Yeah she did do that and more, you miss about griding all night in the club? There was also her being touchy in general, doing the classic college move of a piggy back ride for her, cuddling on her couch, then going to bed together only to be rejected when I make a move. If that ain't leading someone on then idk what is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:07 PM
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My issue in dating is that I don't tolerate disrespect? Cool, I'd rather be single forever than be with a disrespectful bitch of a partner. Why would anyone want that kind of partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:05 PM
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I rarely see women calling other women sluts Oh well I rarely see men calling women sluts. So who's anecdotal experience do we believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:02 PM
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You are completely wrong about me and what I'm talking about. Maybe next time ask questions instead of making incorrect assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:01 PM
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Notice how I never mentioned reddit myself. I get it you're a bot and your comprehension abilities need to be tweaked. Better get on that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:00 PM
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How do they generate value all by themselves? What does a ceo actually do that is 700x more valuable than say the janitors that keep their workplaces clean and healthy to be in for 8 hours every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:59 PM
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Fine ask her out then. Just don't look for clues Oh this isn't a snippy little retort? Ok sure pal whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:58 PM
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I don't need to ask, you would just share it like people do when they have conversations. But you still haven't shared that info. Because you know I'm right and you don't want your lie to be exposed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:56 PM
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Dog it was in the new york times multiple times. I'm sure you're lying about missing this since you're older than 9 years old (I hope), but I'm not sure why you would lie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:55 PM
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Woah, why you getting so snappy now? You're not a man who dates women, I am. You do not know what is actually a good or bad way to ask out women, I do more than you through experience. What's with getting so shitty with me because I used my lived experience that you can't possibly have to improve your advice? Hell, in your snappy little response you're accusing me of saying things I never even said. Calm down lady, take a deep breath and count to 10 before responding
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:54 PM
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Sometimes the bitch is just crazy bro. Trust me I got a lot of fake interest in my life, literally grinding in the club and going back home together only to be rejected and told she only sees me as a friend. But you're not the crazy one here, those are signs of romantic and sexual interest and she's just playing with you for her own sick entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:50 PM
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Really? Because I've had countless women act in the exact ways listed and when I thought they were attracted to me and asked them out I got rejected and told they only saw me as a friend. But of course I'm such a great guy who would make another woman so happy some day. I think you just don't understand what it's like to not be attractive bro, women play these mind games all the time with guys that aren't attractive, especially young women. Now a woman who's interested does show it, if she's int…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:47 PM
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Talking about your feelings for a woman is a great way to get yourself rejected. You gotta just ask her on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:44 PM
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Now you're just lying. I know this because you refuse to say what men you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:42 PM
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Sure it's not literally 100% liking conventionally attractive men, it's just the vast majority. After all, that's why they're called conventionally attractive. But you should she how women freaked out when a couple men on twitter said margot robbie is mid. Women think men have a universal standard of attractiveness far more than men think that about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:38 PM
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Idk why they lie but they do. You remember the mass lies about how the dad bod was super hot right? Happened around 2016-2018. For some reason women en masse were just straight up lying about this. I was in college at the time with a dad bod getting rejected by the women saying they loved the dad bod. I'll give you one guess at the body type they all did like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:36 PM
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Lol played out exactly as you predicted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:04 AM
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But my comment is neither of those things. So why won't you engage with it? Seems like someone made this post with an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:03 AM
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Well, idk what to tell you then. I guess I just live an unbelievable life huh? But this was also when the national media was gaslighting everyone about women finding dad bods hot too so maybe it was just the times. And I think this also highlights where some of the anger from guys here comes from. We are the same kind of person, but because you are a woman dating was a breeze for you and because I'm a man dating is nearly impossible for me. Shit it can be hard for me not to get salty when I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:59 AM
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it is, no matter how much you cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:10 AM
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I do actually, what are you gonna do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:09 AM
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It's actually insane that you think I'm saying you should tell guys to get plastic surgery. Frankly I've encountered one guy who was truly too ugly in the face to date, and he was very deformed. For most men, it is that they are fat or too skinny and need to build a lean muscular body to be attractive and have success. Like I'm certainly not ugly in the face, my physical problem was being fat, yet nobody ever gave me that advice and in fact when I told anyone I was going to lose fat to be more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:08 AM
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Because the very next thing you said is completely irrelevant and just you pushing your own hateful little agenda. Bro I know you, I know how you act. I'm treating you the way you treat everyone else. Don't like it? Change your behavior and I'll change mine. Engage with others in good faith and I'll do the same for you, but until then you can just cry about it more I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:06 AM
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Why do you defend genocidal bigoted statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:04 AM
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In all the ways that people mistreat others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:04 AM
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u/wayna00 It's interesting to see which comments you choose to reply to and which ones you choose to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:01 AM
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Hey you should say "men" instead of "males", like how you use "women" instead of "females"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:58 AM
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No that's not true, you're just making things up to use as shit talking ammunition against men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:57 AM
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Why didn't you ask the first guy for proof that this friend he's talking about is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:57 AM
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Lotion does all of that for a fraction of the cost. All you need is lotion, any other skin care product is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:50 AM
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Who told you that? "by anyone outside of my family" I pray to god that one day the users of this subreddit will learn to read 🙏 I am 30 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:42 AM
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I don't know, what year did it last happen in? What groups protested? Why can't I find anything on google about these protests?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:53 AM
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You got scammed then baby
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:44 AM
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Yes I think when people say we should kill an entire gender then they think we should kill an entire gender. Can you say that you would support men saying we should kill all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:44 AM
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I'm always curious why people do this. Bodybuilders are already such a tiny fringe minority and once you get to the pro level it's less than 1% of people who exercise that look like that. So why does everyone assume that's what a person who works out or has muscle looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:43 AM
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No, stay on your fucking meds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:42 AM
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Nah she only showers like once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:41 AM
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Bro you just admitted that women find most men to be unattractive and are only attracted to a minority of men. You just admitted that the 80/20 thing is reality. It's in plain english for everyone to see. Stop your pathetic attempts at gaslighting and trolling, it's fucking sad and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:40 AM
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How could you possibly think Trump was the less crazy option? Were you paying attention from 2016-2020? The dude was already riddled with dementia in 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:38 AM
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For real, like I already know my problems come from my material conditions, what the fuck is some homework sheets gonna do to solve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:37 AM
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Is she ever gonna get me flowers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:36 AM
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Yeah that's why you recommended this product nobody ever heard of and is at least $40 for a tiny bottle. Listen dude, use lotion and you'll be fine. You don't need anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:35 AM
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Answer my question bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:34 AM
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Women not being attracted to a man does not mean she thinks they're horribly ugly Can you quote where I ever said that? Women only finding a small percentage of men attractive does not mean they find the same small percentage of men attractive. I'm glad you agree now with the 80/20 rule. Man arguing with you people is so easy, makes me feel really smart with how quickly I can change the minds of you people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:33 AM
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Of course you would disagree, you're a shill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:32 AM
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So calling for a genocide is just a "mean hashtag" that nobody should take seriously at all? Damn you have a really horribly low opinion of women dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:29 AM
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Why is the 80/20 thing dumb when women openly say how most of the men they see are horribly ugly and they are only attracted to like 1 man they see per year? Are you saying it's dumb to listen to and believe women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:29 AM
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Bro onlyfans is like gig work or streaming. The vast majority ain't even making $500 a month. It's only the top 1% that make any kind of good money and they did it mostly through being lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:27 AM
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So you would be cool with men spending an entire year demonizing women as less human and more dangerous than the most dangerous wild animals and using a misreading of statistics to justify these "jokes"? You'd also be cool with men having an app where they upload women's pictures, names, phone numbers, and home addresses while gossiping about how terrible they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:25 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:24 AM
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Women are mistreating men and boys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:23 AM
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I'm a man, and I have never been told I am special in any way by anyone outside of my family. I was constantly told throughout my life that girls and women are special.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:22 AM
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What is the most recent act of political activism feminists in america have taken to try end the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:21 AM
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After debating and observing some of the posts on here, I gotta say that it's actually scary seeing all these conspiracy theories made by men against women The fact that you can't see the insanity from women to men here also, is a serious issue. Like the women here regularly say how all men are horrible monsters who only exist to make women's lives worse in every way, and you think that's a reasonable thing to believe? But to answer your question at the end, the manosphere is attractive to these…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:20 AM
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If your skincare routine is more than washing your face and using lotion, you are getting scammed by the cosmetic industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:15 AM
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Ok but when the guy is asking for advice on how to be attractive, why do you give advice that does not actually address his issue in any way? How do you think that's helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:14 AM
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And how many executive like that exist in new york city? 12? How many of them actually date frumpy do nothing bitches? 0. What are the odds this guy knows any of these executives? 0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:05 AM
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No men don't claim that, a handful of deranged weirdos on the internet claim that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:04 AM
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Right and I'm saying you're wrong because men are more single than women are. If being in a relationship makes women's lives worse, why are they choosing to be in relationships more than men are? It's a very simple question, and it's shocking that you straight up can't answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:26 PM
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I think he made up his friend tbh. Dude is probably a teenager who doesn't actually understand how much money he's talking about and how that effects an adult's life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:07 PM
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Ok but if they're so satisfied being single, why are they in relationships more than men are? If women were truly happier single, wouldn't they just stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:04 PM
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But doesn't the data show women are in relationships and dating more than men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:58 PM
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Do you think MGTOW men are perfectly fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:58 PM
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The workers hundreds of years ago built society, the 1% capitalist oligarchs controlled and continue to control the society the workers built. Who do you think built society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:57 PM
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Hey man, women aren't a monolith. If you go outside and interact with the world, you will find there are plenty of women who's lives revolve around men. Especially when they're younger, like most of the users of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:55 PM
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I'm a socialist, so yes I've always felt that way would you logically and rationally find being beholden to someone else bearing this burden to be the better position? No I wouldn't, but I also refuse to be with a woman who wants to just stay at home and have me take care of her and have all the burden of providing money fall on my shoulders alone. Now my job does give me a sense of purpose, but it's a very specific field that lets me aid in political action and get paid for it. Working for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:51 PM
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Well dating is gendered, sorry but that's just the reality of it. Different expectations and rules for different genders. For example, I am naturally a more go with the flow chill kinda guy. Also tend to be shy with new people and open up kinda slow over time. This makes dating for me extremely hard but it would not have nearly the same level of negative impact on my dating life if the gendered expectations were different. But now as a straight man I am expected to be a very outgoing, charismati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:13 PM
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Oh but that's not the topic, if you read the title of the post it says "Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?" which as you can see is not about men putting in no effort, but about men in general tending to put in less effort. Is english your first language? Duolingo is free and could help you with learning english
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:53 PM
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Ok, next time you should mention that so we can avoid situations like this. Because in the english language when you say "they" in response to someone talking about men in general, that means you're also talking about the same group as them. But you weren't doing that, you were changing the group you're talking about, so you should mention that next time to have a better conversation and so people can better understand your points Hope that helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:49 PM
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Then copy and paste it here. Saying you answered it somewhere else is just contentless rhetoric and a super lazy way to deflect a conversation. It would be better to just not reply at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:45 PM
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So when you said "they" and were hating on those men, you were talking about an incredibly small niche minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:01 PM
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I think you need to log off and go outside more if you think the users of niche incel forums are representative of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:55 PM
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Have you told your friend he's a fucking sucker getting taken for a ride by some do nothing bitch? Dude could absolutely find a better woman tomorrow, especially since you're in new york city
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:53 PM
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A loving relationship with someone who acts like an equal partner and shows her affection to her partner freely. I find that the "squeeze" is that I am demanded to do so much more for someone who would never even think of doing half of that for me and certainly wouldn't be an equal and affectionate partner. Lots of people wanting to take it all without giving anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:51 PM
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No just acknowledge reality that most women like conventionally attractive men. You ain't seeing men talking all about how they don't actually think fit women with big boobs and ass are not hot actually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:47 PM
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Have you been living under a rock for the past 30+ years of american society? You miss all the man hating disguised as progressive feminism or something? You miss all the me too era shit about how boys need to be taught to not be rapists, how women will pretend to like a guy to be safe so a guy has no way of knowing if she's actually consenting? You miss all the decades of women rampantly hating men and feeling like being attracted to men is a curse? You miss all the talk of schrodingers rapist …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:44 PM
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From the leagues themselves. Where did your numbers come from, I ask for the second time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:45 PM
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This is an argument from young anxious men for generations. It's also exactly what the more radical feminists have been saying for generations. Some of them are even influential figures and attain positions of power and influence over the movement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:54 AM
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You didn't read bell hooks? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:52 AM
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Well nobody says pride is for helping straight people, yet feminists say that only feminism is needed to solve men's gendered issues. So the comparison is wrong and if you really were a feminist you would know the answer to your question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:51 AM
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Where the fuck did you get those horribly wrong numbers from? For the major men's sports in america (nfl, nba, mlb, nhl) the players generally get around 50% of league revenue paid to them. For the wnba they get less than 10% of league revenue paid to them. Female athletes are not asking to be paid the same as men in terms of dollars, their demanding the same percentage of league revenue paid out to the players in women's sports leagues as they are in men's sports leagues. Why do you think that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:50 AM
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Where the fuck did you go to school? Nobody at Michigan was smelly like that, literally nobody that I ever met. Sounds like you just went to school in an especially stinky area
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:46 AM
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Where's your evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:50 AM
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Hey you started being rude first, maybe read your comment I replied to one more time, bot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:49 AM
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Well I'm very much not in college anymore but I was a music major. Maybe the rest of the world isn't your weird smelly computer science program
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:47 AM
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No, tons of women do actually "looks don't matter, it's all about a man's personality". Why do you feel the need to pretend this never happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:53 AM
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Clearly you don't or you live in an alternate reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:53 AM
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So why do you get so mad when men say "not all men" to "men are..." statements? Also try reading the whole 1 sentence comment before replying. You'll notice that the "just as much as men" part shows that I am not talking about all women. Rather that an equal number of women and men view sex as a reward. Seriously, try reading before replying it'll really help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:51 AM
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The comment you linked is siting at +4 though. So is your issue that you didn't get enough upvotes for giving basic redpill advice that directly contradicts your idea that women all have wildly different types of men they're attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:49 AM
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Wow you are really offended at that fact that 99.999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of adult men shower and clean their clothes regularly. Sorry that your delusional sexist beliefs are delusional but they do not reflect reality. Be so fucking real with me right now, do you honestly think I don't shower regularly and wear cologne (note: in english we say …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:46 AM
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Lol, sure you'd be this combative and rude in person. Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:44 AM
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But it is an attack, bffr. You just admitted it. So why did you lie and play dumb in your previous comments if you knew you were insulting him from the start?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:44 AM
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Depends on your social circle, but it's not uncommon in college setting to have a few guys who stink a whole room Lol no, in my whole time at college I never even crossed with a guy who smelled that bad. Where the fuck did you go where people didn't know how to shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:43 AM
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Did I say all women think this way or that you specifically think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:12 PM
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Everywhere, try engaging with culture or going outside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:11 PM
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So what do you think your true face looks like with how you interact with others on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:10 PM
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Yet women deny caring about the physical appearance of the men they date and have sex with. You might need to take this one up with women rather than acting like men are causing this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:09 PM
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No it's more that they're mad women lie about liking attractive people. Try reading the post again I think missed some parts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:08 PM
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So where's the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:04 PM
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Come on, how many men do you really think just never take showers? Why do you people think that's good helpful advice to give men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:03 PM
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When I hear “Alot of women are bitches” I dont go “SO THINK WOMEN ARE BITCHES?!” You react like that all the time, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:00 PM
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Women talk about sex being a reward all the time. It's ok dude, women are human beings they do bad things sometimes and it's ok to acknowledge that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:59 PM
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Hey, it wasn't men telling me women love fat guys for my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:57 PM
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Nah, women view sex as a reward just as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:56 PM
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You attacked him by calling him pathetic. Come on, have a least a little bit of memory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:54 PM
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So you attack him for dating a 29 year old woman, but you want him to keep dating that woman anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:30 AM
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Post the link, I don't believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:16 AM
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It is mean to insult this random guy so harshly. You do this all the time, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:15 AM
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Do the women going for these men meet all of your qualifications too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:11 AM
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Then show us the not suspicious stats that disprove those stats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:10 AM
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What specifically would make this study credible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:09 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1n6xvvu/comment/nc3hh7h/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:09 AM
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Can you show the most recent time you said a woman was wrong about anything on this subreddit? I would find the comment myself but all of your posts are hidden....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:08 AM
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What if he's physically not attractive? Or his left wing and feminist personality make women think he's a doormat "nice guy"? Why do you need to be so mean to people all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:08 AM
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Ok so what could that thing be?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:07 AM
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What about his personality is so unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:06 AM
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Yeah the real issue is the left wing/feminist dating advice for men makes them into a nice person to be around but completely kills all sexuality in him. Go figure, teaching heterosexual men to act like they're creepy rapists for being born that way is not a good recipe for a successful and good dating and sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:04 AM
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Don't be sorry, don't back down now, stand by what you said. You said all a man had to do was go out somewhere and talk to women and he'd be able to find a sexual partner. But now you've completely flipped and it turns out that wasn't even true for your own life, you've had sex with 1 more woman than I have lol. So why did you feel to lie in order to brag about having oh so much sex (that you actually didn't have) on this anonymous forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:56 AM
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I'm not ignoring what you're saying, I'm supporting what you said and applying it equally to both genders. Why is that so upsetting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:53 AM
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Right so women do this stuff for men and male attention. Thank you for conceding this point, idk why you keep replying when we've already settled this and we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:56 PM
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It is absolutely an abnormal age to lose your virginity and you kinda acknowledged that in your initial bragging comment. Like you were saying that if you were a guy who couldn't just go out and talk to women and have sex because of that then there's something wrong with you. That was the message of your initial comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:55 PM
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Nah sorry I think women are equal adults with free will and are responsible for their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:54 PM
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Welcome to being an equal adult, this is the reality of every man you met out on a ladies night, except he also has to buy the $20 drinks for any women he wants to talk to. Maybe lose the blue pill flair if you think being an equal adult is bad for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:48 PM
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That was the whole premise of your other comment but ok, pretend like we can't all see your comments right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:47 PM
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Ok thank you for admitting women wear makeup and revealing clothing for men and male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:46 PM
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Yeah dude you're just attractive, what you're describing is just the dating life of an attractive person. I am not so lucky. Getting a girl interested in me was always a herculean task, despite having the exact personality that makes the blue pill types say you drown in pussy, yet it never happened to me. Took me until I was 22 to finally have sex at all. Sorry pal, but you're an attractive guy. You are speaking privilege that you are blind to, you should factor this into the advice you give goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:27 PM
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Wow why would you be so mean to me? Why do you want to hurt my feelings? At least you learned that women slut shame more than men do, I'm glad I could teach you something even if you are very rude and mean about learning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:23 PM
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Oh so the women saying they do it for men are lying? You also think the women who demand men pay for dates because they spent money on makeup and clothes are stupid, since they obviously didn't do that stuff for any man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:21 PM
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So you don't even believe the thing you said in your own post. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:19 AM
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The same kinda age range for me, this was not all we did. Idk what you're talking about. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:19 AM
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This sub has a tendency to make me feel the same way about women when I'm on here too long. Maybe this is a sign for you to take a break ms top 1% commenter. Would probably be very beneficial for you mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:16 AM
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Wait you're 30? I'm also 30 and it was never that easy for me or any of the guys I knew to have sex with women. Trust me 10 years ago I was partying hard, going out every single weekend. Talked to plenty of women at parties, bars, and clubs along with my friends. We did not have the level of success you are claiming people had
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:14 AM
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If we're talking about 2015 then yous are wrong, horribly wrong. It was not so easy to just go to a party, talk to a couple women, and then go have sex with one of them. If a guy could do that 10 years ago he was very hot and/or charismatic and was an extreme outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:13 AM
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Where do you look for your insights on male issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:11 AM
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Most slut shaming of women is done by other women, not by men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:10 AM
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Then go pick the simps and leave everyone else alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:09 AM
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Bruh when are we gonna ask women to do any work for men in the dating world? I'm so fucking tired of these constant for more and more and more and more and more and more and more from me while I am hated for expecting anything in return for all this work the endless demands for more work. And I see you are apparently a woman and talking about the "bare minimum" that men refuse to do. But do you do any of this bare minimum for men? Are you taking the lead in all of the social interactions? Are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:09 AM
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Oh so women do wear make up and revealing for men and male attention? Glad we finally got that one sorted out. But real talk, I would prefer it to just be cheaper. I don't want looks obsessed gold digging consumer who doesn't do anything with her life. I want an actual human being who has opinions and interests that aren't just preening and spending money. No woman wants a guy who's interests are just himself and spending money, why would we expect any man to want a woman like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:03 AM
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Prove that you do, show me a comment of you telling a woman to choose to be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:13 PM
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And the woman did too right? She wouldn't need an abortion since she let a man creampie her without a condom right? And after all we all know that birth control never fails, every pregnancy is a free choice that everyone makes and never involves any contraception
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:07 PM
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So women have the same rights as men in some states and that's now oppression and a loss of their human rights? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:06 PM
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Oh yeah, 12 women are with fat guys, must be the new beauty for men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:57 PM
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Why don't you tell the women here to just be gay when they complain about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:52 PM
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Men can't get pregnant wdym “stick to my guns” i’ve been making the same argument since the first time i commented on this post You just said that men have reproductive rights that women do not. You just admitted that you do not believe that. Like I said, stick to your guns or don't talk at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:02 PM
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So you agree men don't have reproductive rights and women do not lack any reproductive rights. Thanks for playing kid, maybe next time you'll stick to your guns a little longer. Make it a bit of challenge to beat you next time because this is just too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:45 PM
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Hey at least you're almost honest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:27 PM
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Just seems like you're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:32 PM
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I report so many unhinged comments that all violate the civility rule. Nothing ever happens until I directly message the mods with a link to the reported comments. They always say they can't see the report that I made and maybe 30% of the time they actually do anything about the rule breaking comments
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:05 PM
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Yes and women don't need abortions to be legal because they have the right to avoid being creampied by men. Problem solved, you should go speak in front congress since you just solved the whole abortion issue in america
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:04 PM
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So if there's evidence that there was sexual contact between a man and a woman, the woman shows signs of getting her ass beat, and the man says he beat the woman to stop her from raping him, and the woman says the man beat her as he was trying to rape her, which one would you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:03 PM
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And so we don't need abortions because if a woman doesn't want to get pregnant she can just keep her legs closed instead of welcoming sperm inside of her pussy. BOOM! Groundbreaking right? Amazingly it's true! You have full control over procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:01 PM
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So you just support slavery at this point. This subreddit is so fucking crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:00 PM
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What reproductive rights do men have? Which of those rights that men have do women not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:59 PM
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What is it about this subreddit that turns women, especially blue pill women, into Rush Limbaugh? You do know that sexuality isn't a choice right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:57 PM
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That is not true at all lol. The vast majority of women are not attracted to heavier men. idk why you people feel the need to keep repeating this lie that tons of women love fat guys but it's just not true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:56 PM
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You did certainly imply that when you said the inability to be friends after relates to deeper psychological issues. Come on dude, we all speak English here, your comments are posted to a public forum that everyone here can see. At least stand by what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:55 PM
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You say that but after looking through your profile I can't find any comments where you tell a woman to get over whatever has her upset
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:54 PM
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Women accuse their male partners of cheating 100 times more than any man asks for a paternity test
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:14 PM
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So how should a man protect himself from paternity fraud? Why does the concept of a paternity test make you so fucking mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:13 PM
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You don't have romantic feelings and can't understand the concept of romance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:08 PM
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You don't do that with your friends though. What you CAN do matters far less than what you DO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:07 PM
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Nice completely irrelevant comment. Next time try quoting things that I actually said in any of my comments. You really owned that strawman you made up in your head though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:01 PM
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Why would a woman pick some average guy for a relationship when there's so many guys better than him? Are you saying that women settle into relationships with guys they're not attracted to or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:00 PM
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Why did you give it as your first piece of advice if we're not supposed to follow it? You just like lying and trolling or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:58 PM
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So you still think men can choose to be gay. Ok Rush Limbaugh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:57 PM
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Just say you hate men dude, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:40 AM
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Oh it's not false, you're just essentially saying that an average guy shouldn't even try to have sex with women because he's never going to be her top choice. Black pill all day right here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:37 AM
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Then you are blind because women do it all the time. In my life as a man, after like 7th grade the only people who insulted me for my struggles with dating and sex, have been exclusively women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:32 AM
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That depends, for these men's entire lives did people tell them that they aren't wet after being in the rain and they're a incel (i.e. sexist domestic terrorist) dumbass if they think they're wet from the rain? Because then yes men would need to be told that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:31 AM
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How much do you think it costs to buy a fucking section in the club? Honestly with such a bad suggestion you have to be a child right? No way an adult who's ever been to a club would think this is a reasonable suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:28 AM
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Very black pill of you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:27 AM
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Quite the black pilled comment right here. No matter what good traits a guy has there's some guy out there who's better than him in those exact ways. Following your advice, a guy will never have sex because there's no reason a woman should have sex with him over one of the millions of men who are better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:27 AM
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So what should straight men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:25 AM
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“Women want to fuck guys they find hot”. Its that simple. Now compare this to the thesis of your post: Women like men for their personality, looks, and/or money. If none of those appeal to women, then you’re fucked. Do you understand the contradiction or do you need me to hold your hand through basic logical thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:08 AM
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Weird for a man to say that there are no good men out there. But it also makes sense why you hide your posting history 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:31 PM
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Oh hey, I'm the example. What do you want to know? u/LillthOfBabylon did you want examples or not? You replied to other comments I made in response to you but ignored this one. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:30 PM
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Or different men just have different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:29 PM
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Wow so in only 3 hours you've completely changed your position. You should make a note of that in your main post since it is a debate post after all, and you just conceded your position in this debate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:29 PM
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How did you show your generosity to those men who you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:58 PM
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If one dinner is this much of a concern for a guy he shouldn’t be out dating he should be out earning. And if one dinner is this much of a concern for a woman she shouldn't be out dating she should be out earning, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:56 PM
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I feel that, the genuine willingness is the important part after all. I just wanted to point out the humor in it. Hope no disrespect was felt or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:53 PM
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Ok, let's say I plan the whole date and pay for everything. What nice things are the woman doing for me on this date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:50 PM
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Nah 50/50 looks like a red flag to people because those people are selfish toxic users who just want a bang-daddy to take of them like a dependent on his taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:49 PM
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So what did you do on that date to show him you were raised right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:46 PM
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Have you never treated anyone? Ever? I think it's more that he's never been treated by a woman ever. Something that is decently common if you're a man who dates women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:42 PM
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Where is your list?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:41 PM
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How do those shit tests help the woman though? Plenty of men pass those tests and are still shitty parents. Hell this isn't even getting into the question of if women who pass the op's test are even good mothers. You just assume that every woman is a good mom and every man is a bad dad. You gotta sort out your sexist beliefs bro, especially when they are derogatory to your gender, if you're gonna be sexist you should at least build yourself up instead of tearing yourself down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:39 PM
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Idk, get to know them and observe their behavior. Why do you need a man to tell you what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:36 PM
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I think you have a good idea about dating, I definitely would have appreciated it too. But I gotta say there is some humor in you marrying the guy who didn't let you pay for the date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:36 PM
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All but one of the feminist women I've gone out with have required that I plan and pay for every date we had. Feminist women still hold tight to this privilege in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:34 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/06/190621140343.htm#:~:text=Summary%3A,of%20personality%20traits%20as%20well This is a man on the street tik tok interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:33 PM
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Sure, but that begs the question of why does she never get the first one? Why can't she see if I get the next one and risk her time and money on a date was never going to go anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:31 PM
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So you just waste your time and energy on this scam for them, huh weird. You're one of the most active users of this subreddit, maybe take your own advice dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:30 PM
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So why are you still here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:45 PM
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That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:44 PM
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What's the insult? There's no insult there what are you talking about? I've been in personal conversation with some of the mods here and they've been very clear that what you quoted does not constitute an insult. No. And I already implied why that’s moot to the crux of the OP. Well let's directly state what we think rather than implying it. Why are you bringing up pregnancy when you understand the vast majority of heterosexual relationships have no pregnancies at any point in the entire relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:38 AM
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I surround myself with young progressive women in a large city. But I'm glad you think that most women are not decent people. I wouldn't go that far, but hey you do you baby girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:36 AM
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Take your own advice then, stop dating men. Nobody will miss you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:35 AM
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I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:35 AM
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You first lady, what's the quantity on the women you know with graduate degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:34 AM
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So you just say things to say them. Cool, now did you have children with every man you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:41 PM
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Did your week long suspension finally end or something? I can't even see your comment since it got removed anyway. What do you think we were talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:38 PM
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Every woman I've ever met with a graduate degree still wanted a man to make more than her in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:36 PM
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And where can I find these women who insist on 50/50? I think it's been years since I met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:35 PM
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You don't know what the word gold digger means then if you think having a 6 figure job and expecting the same from your partner qualifies. But my question is would you have dated that guy if he was not rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:35 PM
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Yes but what do you offer in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:33 PM
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You could say something like "well we can fix that" and invite her out for drinks this weekend or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:29 PM
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Setting aside the inhuman insanity of treating your relationship like a business, did you have children with every man you dated? Because if you didn't have kids with the men you dated why does pregnancy matter at all in choosing to date these guys? Seems like all this is just worrying about nothing and trying to justify your shallow, selfish, and god-digging standards for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:23 PM
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Your posting history shows that this is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:20 PM
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Do you think you understand men's experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:30 AM
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Gamergate happened like 13 years ago and barely had any impact on our society. You have to move on at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:29 AM
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Cool, then you should take it very seriously when women insult men on the internet too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:29 AM
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She wasn't doxxed, as far as I understand it, and harassment on the internet is not dangerous. Or if it is then I'm the most threatened and in danger man of all time. I've been harassed so many times I lost count, but I just had to man up and take it without bitching about it. But I know you brought up the tea app to argue against me, since you hate doxxing so much what do you think of the tea app and these doxxing and gossip networks women have on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:36 PM
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Yeah you didn't list anything dangerous though. People talk shit about me on this subreddit, does that mean I am in danger too? I also never said it was nothing, please quote and link the comment where you think I did that. But I was wrong about nothing, the only you talked about one guy posting a fake prostitute add about you and another harassing you on the internet. If that's what you consider dangerous then you live an extremely safe, sheltered, and privileged life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:28 PM
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Why do you think the only options are "horrible" and "pleasant"? You do realize there's an infinite range of possibilities between those two points right? Obviously it was bad, but I thought you were getting actually assaulted or something with how you were talking. It'd be like if I talked up how much of a victim of serious sexual assault I am and then my only examples were getting my ass grabbed a few times by random women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:28 PM
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Oh so if a man complains about the women here being mean to him you'll treat that as a major serious issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:27 PM
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So what horrible things happened to you exactly? Because right now it's just a couple trolls being annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:31 PM
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You still got scammed so hard bro, you paid 2 years of a median american salary for a one day event you hated. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:31 PM
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A woman can choose to support a man and support her own kids, but a man will not do the same unless he is told to by someone else A woman would absolutely choose to not support her man and support her own kids, wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:26 PM
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$100,000 for a wedding? Holy shit you are too rich and got scammed so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:25 PM
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Male attention isn't a threat to you, especially over the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:24 PM
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That's wrong, you should read up on your history. A lot more women involved than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:54 PM
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But women don't do better than men when socializing because they don't have better outcomes than men. So either women are better socializers and there is a male loneliness epidemic, or women are not better than men at socializing and there's a general loneliness epidemic. It can not be both at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:08 AM
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But there were women involved, you admitted it in a different reply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:07 AM
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I did read what you said, that's why I perfectly refuted your points. Just because you can't refute mine doesn't mean I didn't read your comment. Just admit when you're done instead floundering and trying to attack me instead of my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:45 PM
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Yeah that tracks mostly with me too, food service especially but never had the "we all date the same girl" experience. I do think the ease of finding people is going to make the median number of partners increase closer to 15 than the 7 it was last time I saw it. Like I have not had a very good love life but I'm already around the median number of partners myself. If you're trying to have some hookups in college, especially a large university like I went to, then you really can get some numbers …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:36 PM
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I'd say living life shows me that most young single women are engaging in some kind casual sex and dating. I find the people who need to rely on statistics (and their often incorrect understanding of those stats) to understand the world, have far less understanding of the world. Some things you just gotta go outside and experience for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:32 PM
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So women are not better at forming relationships than men are, you're just as bad as us
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:30 PM
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You literally just said that bro, check the quoted part of my comment. Also your analogy is bad, if you're getting beat on the court then you are worse at basketball than those that are beating you, doesn't matter how gifted you are. So to say that women are better at forming social bonds then that means they need to have more and/or better relationships than men, because if they don't then they're not better at it. It's very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:30 PM
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So you're not heterosexual then. Thanks for the information, now go fuck some lady and leave men alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:28 PM
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Women did participate though...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:26 PM
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And was it men as a whole making those decisions or the tiny minority of the wealthiest individuals in society, who happened to be mostly men, making those decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:25 PM
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You can be better at forming friendships and still not have established meaningful friendships. So they're better at making friendships than men but end up having the same amount and quality of friendships as men? How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:19 PM
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Yeah but what number of those queer women are still dating men? Because there's way more she/thems than he/thems and those women are technically queer even if the rest of their life is that of a normal heterosexual woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:16 PM
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so that means 65% of single women aren’t looking for anything and goes against what you’re saying about women not being happier single. No this is just a classic misunderstanding of statistics. He's not saying of those who are single a higher percentage of men than women are not looking for a relationship. He's saying there are more men who are single than there are women who are single meaning women are not more happy to be single than men because more women are in relationships than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:15 PM
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Personally I've known many women who are interested in hooking up, especially when I was in college. Most women I've met were very much not interested in taking care of their needs by themselves, to their own detriment I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:12 PM
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What do you gain by insulting me? Does it make you feel better about yourself or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:36 PM
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I didn't admit anything, but I've noticed you still can't answer my very simple question Oh you did actually admit that when you showed that you understood the context of my statement after acting like you didn't. It's ok I know how you trolls are and you are being reported with each trolling comment. What blame needs to be shifted? Damn that short memory loss really hitting hard huh? But women who shift blame when they do bad things are to blame for shifting the blame. There can you understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:35 PM
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You're welcome kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:38 PM
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If you only offer then no, but if you always do it then maybe, if you always do it because she's a weak woman who can't do it then yes. Glad I could educate you. Need any other lessons from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:35 PM
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Neither have you considering you had to completely ignore my examples to complain about how privileged I am. So the whole homeschool no friends trauma dump was from your actual life? Sorry, but that sounds like depression and anti-social personality disorder not actual loneliness Along with actually knowing people with real lonliness, I and many other women have met guys who claim to be lonely to get pity but theyre really just horny and scummy. Ok I don't care, why does that mean that every man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:34 PM
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Idk, take a guess let's see what you come up with and I'll let you know if it's benevolent sexism or just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:12 PM
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An example could be that the man handles financial stuff because the woman is too stupid to understand that. Or he always drives because women are horrible drivers. Shit like that. The thing is that benevolent sexists are also more likely to be hostile sexists as well, so women get this seemingly preferential treatment that's based on a lack of respect for women, and then get shocked when the sexism becomes hostile later down the line. I would advise women to look for egalitarian men, but that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:53 PM
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Idk you might need to spend some more time on r/guycry. I've seen plenty of posts there where the man is genuinely and respectfully sharing his feelings about not being successful in dating and his post gets swarmed by a horde of women viciously attacking him and trying to tear him down like he's some kind of deranged incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:51 PM
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Idk, studies have shown that benevolent sexists do best with women and benevolent sexists are more likely to also be hostilely sexist than men who are egalitarian. Seems like sexism is not the disqualification from dating that you think it is A solid video discussing this if you want a source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ma12cr-93M
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:48 PM
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Nobody's yelling here, I'm just being direct. Sorry if that offends you but I'm not gonna change. But this trickle truth is a sign that someone is lying so I don't believe you actually asked him out on the first date. It just gets annoying when men are held to such a higher standard than the women themselves and then we get insulted and berated for doing some of what the woman insulting men refuses to ever do. Again I'm not yelling at anyone, I'm being direct. But if talking to me is such a wast…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:47 PM
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So if a man still has to ask a woman out after he has already signaled interest, that means she doesn't like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:44 PM
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Reminder about rule 2 pal, would hate to see you get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:43 PM
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That's it? Then she passed as a man because she looked like a man to whoever met her irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:32 PM
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You did, what do you think "voices in his head" means dude? Come on I know you hide your comments so you can troll here but come on, don't be like this. Let's at least remember the last two comments in the conversation. Let's have better memory than an ai chat bot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:31 PM
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Ok so tell me what passing as a man would be then. Tell me your wisdom about what it means to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:30 PM
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Why didn't you mention this earlier? But if that's all you did that's still less than the bare minimum. Just tell me, is there any possible world where you ask him on the first date? Because it seems like there isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:30 PM
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Ok so now that you admit you were lying and trolling by pretending to not remember what I was referring to by "women who do this" will you answer my question or continue to break the rules and be a bad faith troll? I'm starting to see why u/soloandthewookie was banned from reddit as a whole if this is how you act. I'm saying that the women who are to blame for blame shifting, are the women who engage in blame shifting behavior. Do you understand what I am saying now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:28 PM
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You're also describing yourself as the dry texter but it's funny that you ignored the rest of my comment because you don't do those things and you'd have to admit that you are very lazy in dating and rely on everyone else to do more than the absolute barest of minimum behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:25 PM
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When I ask you to define a lot I'm asking you for the number of women who are doing this thing. When you say 42 women out of billions are doing this then that is by definition the opposite of a lot. Do you need me to explain anything else? Or are you just here to troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:24 PM
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No "we" didn't have to do it, HE had to do it. You just admitted that if he didn't do those things then you would have done nothing as well. So who approached who really fucking matters because there is no world in any universe where YOU approach HIM and do all that shit to actually start dating. You're in a 5 year relationship that never would have happened if he didn't do the work to make it happen. It invalidates those feelings because it makes me question how much you actually like the guy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:22 PM
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Calling someone insane is uncivil dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:18 PM
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Sounds like a pretty useless and disingenuous stat to cite then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:17 PM
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So I'm glad that you've lived such a blessed life that you've never been lonely for even one second. But as someone who has felt lonely I'm telling you that I have genuinely felt lonely due to a lack of romantic relationships in my life. What gives you the right to tell me what I've felt in my life? What gives you the right to act like an expert on my life when you know literally nothing about me? Maybe your obsession with "true loneliness" is a complete waste of your time since you don't unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:17 PM
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Idk, if you listen to women it's clearly a feeling of disgust rather than simple disinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:15 PM
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Yeah a spectrum where the vast majority are considered disgustingly ugly. What a great distribution we've got from these "heterosexual" women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:15 PM
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How would you know if it's convincing or not? You're not a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:14 PM
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I actually talk to them, ask for their number, set up a date, lead the social interactions leading up to and on the date, pay for the date, etc. You know more than the absolute least amount you can possibly do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:13 PM
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It's clearly not working for her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:12 PM
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Reminder to follow rule 2, incivility is a bannable offence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:04 AM
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Can you learn to follow the second rule of this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:01 AM
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Buddy what did the comment you initially replied to say? Show me that you can remember anything and can read
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:00 AM
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Oh but you're wrong, everyone else can still feel lonely even with platonic support because of a lack of romantic relationships. Have you considered that you are the outlier on this one if you've genuinely never felt lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:59 AM
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So you would still be with your current partner if he never asked you on a date, never flirted with you, and just smiled a couple times at you to indicate his interest in dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:58 AM
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That's it? That's not even the bare minimum, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:57 AM
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Oh so you're just trolling, that's against the rules and can get you banned btw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:56 AM
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That's just wild then, I can't understand being heterosexual and being disgusted by practically every member of the gender I'm supposedly attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:55 AM
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Define "a lot"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:23 PM
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This comment right here sounds like a heated person's comment, just stop replying if it's such a problem for you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:23 PM
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She presented herself as a man and did it convincingly to the point others treated her like a man. She got a glimpse into a man's experience, but also I'm a man saying her perceptions were accurate. Why not listen to me, a man about what it's like to be a man? Why do you need to be so rude and mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:22 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:18 PM
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Ok dude, sure this is the behavior who isn't heated at all. Idk man, maybe make the post you want to see if nobody else will. Be the change you want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:17 PM
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lol cloutsexual is a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:15 PM
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Well you're not a man so you don't know what it's like to be a man. Her experiment was pretty similar to my experience as a man and if you approach her experiment with an open mind it can be a great learning experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:14 PM
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I've never heard anybody claim that Norah Vincent committed suicide because her time spent as a man was too harsh. Personally I've seen it a lot of times on this subreddit specifically. It's fucking disgusting that people use her tragic suicide as a way to try win some meaningless shit flinging contest on the internet, but it does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:13 PM
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You're half right, her suicide had nothing to do with her experiment and it's disgusting that there's guys on the internet using her tragic death as a way to score points in some meaningless shit flinging contest. But she did talk about real struggles that men deal with (alongside real positives too). If people approach her experiment with an open mind and genuine curiosity it can be very great and fulfilling learning experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:11 PM
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Personally yes I do care about confidence in women. I would not enjoy being with an insecure woman who needs me to consistently build up her self-confidence. If I have to do all this work to improve who I naturally am just to have a chance at dating, then I expect the same out of the women I date. I'm not becoming a fit, socially active, confidence, charismatic with a good career and fulfilling passions and hobbies just to date some insecure do nothing bitch (to borrow a great line from Ronda Ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:09 PM
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Women who do that. Sorry to burst your bubble but women are people and equal adults to men. Women are responsible for their actions just as men are responsible for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:06 PM
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It does though, it's just a type of loneliness, why do you think there's only one hyper specific type of loneliness that can exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:05 PM
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Why do you think individual men posting things on the internet are representative of men as a whole? Do you think the women who make posts saying kill all men are representative of how all women think about men, yourself included?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:04 PM
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So how do you show your true desire for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:02 PM
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No they don't, if you talk to women you'll find that 99% will never do anything to initiate a romantic or sexual relationship with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:01 PM
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People with very little experience tend to fixate on the earliest stages of a relationship and think they mean a lot more than they do. Sure but at the same time, "the journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step" is ancient wisdom that has survived for thousands of years for a reason. The first step is always the most important because without that first step you never get anywhere. I'd say it's pretty foolish to say the earliest stages of a relationship are not the most important, because w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:00 PM
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So are women actually heterosexual or what? Because the way women generally talk it seems like y'all just aren't ever truly heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:57 PM
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Sorry but it's just an objective fact that people treat you better when you're beautiful than when you're not. That's what people mean when they say those people are living life on easy mode, it's not a difficult concept to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:56 PM
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They obviously do but that's not the topic of conversation. You're pre-heated coming into this conversation, chill out dude. Stop grinding that axe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:53 PM
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Right so the average woman is about the same size as demetrius johnson, who is 5'3" and 155 lbs, but competed in mma at 125-135 lbs. That's why I used him as an example, if he can overcome a 100 lbs weight disadvantage against an equally skilled opponent, then why couldn't a woman do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:05 PM
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So the other woman just lied then? Why should I trust any of these stats if people can't stop lying about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:01 PM
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So are you gonna answer the question or are you just looking to argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:00 PM
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Yes, so why do you imply that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:00 PM
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It seems like you are struggling with understanding the context of my comment. When have you ever told a woman to lose her entitled attitude regarding dating? That's my question. I don't see anyone saying that to women IN THIS CONTEXT. Maybe you can share some examples for us all to see, if you've seen it happen IN THIS CONTEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:34 AM
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Do you think that is a good thing to do that you enjoy being told? Did I ask about what men say or what that one individual commenter says?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:53 PM
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Did you reply to the right comment? Because I don't see how this is anything but a non-sequitur and the type of contentless rhetoric that is against the rules of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:47 PM
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So it's literally only sex and nothing else? Damn, how can a bisexual person have friends then, especially when they're in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:30 PM
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So you lived through the iraq and afghanistan wars and saw the reporting that said exactly what I said. Why act ignorant about what we both saw in the news every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:28 PM
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When was the last time you told a woman to lose her entitlement? This feels like something that is exclusively told to men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:27 PM
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I need to see source for your stat because yesterday it was 1 in 6 women being raped in their lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:19 PM
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But men are murdered at a rate about 4 times higher than woman and most people who kill children are women. So how does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:18 PM
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Why are you harassing me on comments that have nothing to do with you? Do you think women are less capable than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:14 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:37 AM
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So why are they two different categories if they're the same thing? Why is the charge for attempted murder different from a completed murder if they're the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:37 AM
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It would because you just presented the 1 in 4 figure as the be all end all, but it's actually that 1 in 6 women will get raped in their lifetime, not the 1 in 4 you cited earlier. You don't have any concerns about disingenuous statements about society as a whole? Because I do and I don't trust people that need to obfuscate their stats, or just straight up lie, to push their agenda. The truth should be all you need, just citing the number of women who have been raped should be good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:09 AM
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Because our society conditions men to believe it is never acceptable to harm a woman under any circumstances, and some men hold onto that conditioned belief as adults. That is to say, in western culture men are acceptable targets of violence and women are not. You ever notice how the news will report something like "150 people killed in a military strike, including 30 women and children"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:00 AM
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So the number goes from 1 in 4 to 1 in 6 and that doesn't make you question the study you cited?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:58 AM
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Also here is a very recent example of you mocking and ridiculing men for feeling lonely despite no man bringing it up to disrespect women https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1mqacb2/comment/n8pzqpr/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:57 AM
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That fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:55 AM
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Share a deeper intimacy as life partners, for starters. What do you think is the difference between a romantic and platonic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:55 AM
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So when did these numbers change from 1 out of 5 or 6 women? Why are they conflating attempts and completed assaults when those are two very different things and likely skew the data? Why do they also split the "raped" and "made to penetrate" categories for men? Seems like they started with conclusions and presented the findings to support the conclusion they started with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:49 AM
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So how did demetrius johnson beat a fellow bjj brown belt with much more bjj competition experience and who was 100 lbs bigger than him? Or do you think that's only something a 155 lbs man can do and a 155 lbs woman of equal skill would be unable to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:48 AM
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So you do think men are a monolithic hivemind, but only on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:47 AM
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<image> Actually I just decided to share the screenshot anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:04 PM
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So why can't I see your comments? I can share a screenshot if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:03 PM
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Do you think more men or more women are training martial arts and lifting weights in our society?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:57 PM
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Demetrius Johnson competed at 155 lbs in a world bjj tournament and he submitted a 250 lbs man who was the same belt rank in bjj and definitely more experienced in bjj competition. Size matters, but technique and strategy matters a lot more. You can defend yourself effectively against about 90% of people with a strong leg kick, or basic bjj escapes if you are on the ground. People don't know how to defend this stuff, especially leg kicks, even if they have some martial arts training. Take advant…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:56 PM
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Well since you just hid your posting history I'll need you to uncheck that box on your profile settings so your comments are visible again. You need to set the "comments and activity" setting under the "profile" tab of your user settings to "show all" so that I can provide you with the examples you are asking for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:51 PM
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“I’m a very well trained martial artist” mmhmm o guess they didn’t teach you in your martial arts class that you’re to use your skills for good and to protect others then. When did I say I would not protect people? What style of martial arts? I've trained japanese jiu jitsu, karate, boxing, kickboxing, mauy thai, brazilian jiu jitsu, judo, and wrestling. What about you? Bro I’m not trying to enforce toxic masculinity Read the first paragraph of your previous comment then get back to me. Am I bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:49 PM
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No he doesn't but you would still mock and ridicule him. You do it here all the time, your comment history is public
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:43 PM
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So why are you so afraid still? You can defend yourself so what is there to be so afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:36 PM
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So what's the issue? If you know how to fight and you're strong, then what are you afraid of? I certainly feel far less fear than others because I'm a big guy that's a very good martial artist. But maybe lose the disrespect in your next comment though, it's really unnecessary and makes conversation much more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:35 PM
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Ok you didn't address my question and that's a nice little rant you went on. But I'm sorry your pathetic at attempt at enforcing toxic masculinity isn't gonna work on me. I'm a very well trained martial artist, don't worry about me. Are you being intentionally obtuse or are we pretending some long standing patriarchal society deemed women the weaker sex rhat needs protection? Did I determine that? No, so why am I being blamed and help responsible for it? Was it women who perpetuated laws/rules s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:33 PM
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Sounds like you should learn how to defend yourself and do some weight lifting right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:30 PM
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Do you think men are more likely to accurately report threats to their physical safety, particularly involving the lighter forms of sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:29 PM
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Ok you are worried, does that mean it will happen? Have you learned how to defend yourself at all in case it does happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:28 PM
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I need to see those stats for myself, those are some wild numbers and I suspect they have very interesting definitions and conflations of variables to arrive at a dishonest statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:27 PM
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I live in LA, it's pretty damn safe here bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:27 PM
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Why do you think men are a monolithic hivemind?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:26 PM
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Are men safer than women in these places though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:26 PM
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But would you actually empathize and listen to a man who said he was afraid of violence? Because judging from your posting history I think you would just mock and ridicule him in his moment of vulnerability. It's what you do here all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:25 PM
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Men have themselves the role of protector to protect women against other men. Ironic. What do you mean by this? Because I never gave myself that role
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:24 PM
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So who is assaulting these men at a rate of 80% then? A combination of men and women. Do you really think women are never violent or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:23 PM
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Have you tried learning martial arts and lifting weights so you can properly defend yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:22 PM
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I think 1 in 3 is for rape, physical violence and stalking Gonna need a source for this number because literally every time someone brings it up it changes drastically but always seems to measure the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:21 PM
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Women already are violent bro, they're people after all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:20 PM
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Right, but every stat about this shows that the vast majority of women will never even be a victim of an attempted sexual assault, let alone a completed one. The fear is exaggerated, people fear a lot of things but that doesn't mean the fears are always reasonable or representative of real risk. I can be afraid of heights but that doesn't mean I'm going to die if I go to the top floor of a sky scraper and look out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:20 PM
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Being disrespectful is definitely asshole selfish behavior. Your entire 7 year posting history is nothing but constant disrespect. What does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:17 PM
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Why do you think romance is just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:13 PM
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