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When you have autism, it's easier to flirt with autistic or neurodivergent women in the same way that it is easier for neurotypical men to flirt with neurotypical women. It's often about the environment you do your approaches. Try finding hobbys that have a high density of neurodivergent people like nerd culture, LARP, DnD etc. A lot of the time neurodivergent people are open to a wide range of experiences provided people are open and honest about intentions early on. Neurodivergent people are l…
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:08 PM
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My SO was a friend of a friend. Met and introduced via a hobby group. You want someone who puts time and effort into you, find a person who puts time and effort into what they do.
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:43 PM
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Dating apps aren't great for anything beyond hookups. As for wife material, you have to know what specifically you mean when you say that. You have to know what traits you are looking for because that will correlate to where you look. If you think nuclear family with the cooking and baking and down to earth nurturing vibe, you won't find her amongst high earners or big parties or dating sites, look for family friends, people from families you admire, down to earth level types. People who like an…
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:35 PM
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In all honesty, most people doing online dating aren't looking for LTRs. It is incredibly difficult going from a complete stranger who is attractive to fitting each other into one another's lives.
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:51 PM
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It's not a constant reminder that is needed. It's literally just acknowledging that attraction for men and women stem from different things. If you don't have the time to make contact once or twice during a whole week of time, then the seduction and dating game isn't going to be difficult. Seduction is either the really fast paced game of people who go out looking for someone for that night or else it's knowing how to talk to women to keep them interested and that's at the very least a little mo…
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:10 AM
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Hmmm it's a slightly negative tone. Like "too busy to even message" gives off uninterested vibes but like "oh yeah, just remembered this girl was an option. Maybe try more "damn, hope your week has been less hectic than mine. Been a madhouse. Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow, I really think you'll like xyz date/meetup thing" It appeals to emotional connectivity and sensitivity rather than logistical thinking. It's kind of " oh damn, he works so hard but seems real sweet and thoughtful"
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:09 PM
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Damn dude. You live and learn. At least you didn't forget and ask her out again XD. Is cool tho just drop her a message like: "we still on for tomorrow? Depending on what you were planning to do maybe note something you think she would like. Like if you are getting food mention a menu item you think she'd like or whaevs. If she ignores then you have your answer. But speaking as a person in an HR job a seriously good rule of thumb is "If an job recruiter would show more interest, there is somethi…
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:03 PM
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Dude, guys are turned on by visuals, women are typically more turned on by emotional connection and like having that emotional spark. Whether you want to date this woman or just hookup, a week is a long time. When/if you see her next, you're still gonna be like "damn she's hot!" And be interested/more interested. Whereas for her you showed initial interest and then had absolutely no communication for a week and expect her interest to still be there. Sure for some girls it might be, but not for e…
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:56 PM
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Okay, first off, I get that it's frustrating but if you start thinking negative thoughts about women as a group like that, that's going to have an impact on your interactions. Next, the fact that you are in your words, a kissless, hugless virgin but you want to jump straight into magically having a girlfriend is holding you back. That description suggests you haven't spent much time just interacting with women and girls as friends or people in general without specifically seeking out and jumping…
/r/seduction28/05/22 10:00 AM
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Also dude, If you are in your 40s, you should be looking at women, not girls. Calling them girls will make you seem like a creep. Maybe your problem is you genuinely believe so many women want you but you don't want them. Why don't you want them, do you see common trends between the people who supposedly want you vs what you actually want, cause it sounds like maybe you have unrealistic expectations and a huge ego.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:21 PM
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No problem
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:21 PM
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There are options: You have the fuck buddies set up where while the two of you (or three of you if you can find a threesome set up) exclusively fuck each other for a set amount of time to try different things. Try weird positions, try fantasies and role plays but at least you keep it a little more stable cause you can get to know one another's bodies and what is liked/disliked etc. If you become interested in someone else or just get bored and want something different it's a mutual break. You ge…
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:12 PM
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So like, nothing is wrong with what you want, it is what it is. You have identified a key challenge to that lifestyle though, opportunities for that sort of thing are rare. From a woman's perspective, the overarching reason most women don't go for flings and such is because all of the major risks fall far more heavily on women. No contraception is 100% pregnancy proof so if she gets pregnant, it's on her to deal with, baby or abortion it will leave a lasting impact. Morning after pills are horri…
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:35 PM
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So I think some of the problems here are that firstly, you seem to be spending a lot of time trying to Google techniques and like waiting way way to long to express an interest. So firstly, if you are like matching with someone and then spending a month chatting to them before even suggesting meeting, you are going to give off some mixed messages about if you are interested in dating or just friendship. Don't get me wrong some people like a slow build but intimacy and attraction get built in per…
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:26 PM
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My dude, Botswana does have Internet. Like the bigger problem is electricity but Internet is a thing
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:14 AM
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Umm... dude... this has nothing to do with liking or disliking muscles. It's about you ripping your shirt off in front of a random stranger and flexing. That's weird. Have you ever watched The Good Place with the demon that keeps pulling off his shirt and working out? That's you. Wear a muscle shirt if you want to show off, leave the whole chest for the viewing of people who take your shirt off for you.
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:33 PM
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Dude. Nothing you have said suggests "mixed signals" she sounds just like a friend/flatmate. Also, seducing/flirting with/having sex with yout flatmate is a really REALLY REALLY bad idea. Not worth the drama.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:58 PM
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Not sure how old you are but given the Insta and social media anxiety I'm guessing pretty young so here's what I learned in my media communications and culture degree. People project their deeper anxieties onto people's actions on social media rather than thinking about things logically. Insta stories are viewable via facebook whereas messages are not so while she can quickly view what people are up to with little time, energy or thought via a story, DMs require going into Insta, deciding you ha…
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:06 PM
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So, you don't seem boring at all, it's more your hobbies seem fairly antisocial. All of them are fairly standalone activities or things where the activity rather than the company is the focus. However, yeah, Covid fucked up dating but you sound like you have a lot to offer. I would just recommend widening your social circle a bit idk? Certainly not boring tho.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:53 PM
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Girls may end up dating someone who turns out to be a dickhead, but it is a very niche breed of masochist who meets a person actively being a dickhead as a first impression and goes: "damn, I'd tap that"
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:36 PM
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Depends on what you mean by demonstrating authority. If you are trying to demonstrate authority over the girl, you are probably not going to get a good response. If you are trying to come accross as assertive, independent and with good leadership qualities then it's confident body language, active listening and contributing in the conversation. Trying to act authoratative over a woman you are trying to attract should be left for mutually agreed role play or she'll think you are a dickhead.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:23 AM
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It sounds like you are going after people you have nothing in common with. When you approach women and they reject you it isn't them sitting back and judging you or determining your worth, it is that in a lot of ways dating has changed, women are terrified of accepting drinks from strangers. Think about it, women are now taught about the risks of giving out phone numbers and social media regarding data security. You aren't having fun because it isn't actually all that fun to just randomly have d…
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:38 AM
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I would agree with you on this, if you come across as well adjusted and down to earth, social media isn't needed. It's more guys who don't come across as well adjusted who then have social media that is one picture of them hiding their face and 3 followers or something that makes a girl go and nope right out.
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:25 PM
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As a woman, I wouldn't ever give out my social media to someone I didn't at least like a little bit, social media opens you up to so much more data security and stalker risks than a phone number. However, giving a phone number is kind of code for: I want to date/go out, it is a direct contact. If you ask for a girl's number and she suggests social media instead it could mean she is scared of what would happen if she just said no and so is giving some contact, a way for you to prove you aren't a …
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:21 PM
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It's also a case of a girl can go: right, this guy clearly is socially well adjusted with a wide network of friends and acquaintances so won't put all of his emotional needs on me to fill, he clearly isn't a serial killer as this social media shows he actively interacts with people on here regularly. And in my experience a girl can go to her friends and be like, here is a clear picture of the person I am meeting up with, in case of emergencies this is what he looks like. It is less about perciev…
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:15 PM
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Reddit won't really be able to answer you on this, just ask if she would like to go out again.
/r/seduction28/03/21 01:03 PM
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Cold approach only really works if you already know how to charm and be the sort of person who can both have a good night and give a good night to someone else. Like if you get taught how to cold approach and then a girl agrees to sleep with you or go on a date with you etc you kind of need to know where to go from there. Having a goal of actively talking to more people is one thing but like that only gets you to a certain point. You need to be confident and comfortable with yourself and sharing…
/r/seduction27/03/21 11:39 AM
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Yeah generally speaking tracksuits are considered like VERY low maintenance. Like aure if you are just at home or doing exercise but most girls I know actually get more weirded out by guys who wear tracksuits all the time than any kind of body insecurity. Obviously you should be comfortable, if you really don't like jeans try getting some slacks like workwear.
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:35 PM
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I mean... quite frankly this post is frikken hilarious and you sound like a genuinely fun guy. So you know that's a plus I guess. I don't really know too much about tinder but maybe idk if you know where she works specifically print out this post and just add a note saying you find her cute but don't want to be a creep and ask if she would consider grabbing drinks at some point, tack the note to her desk and ask for a return answer by email or something idk. Have you ever caught her looking at y…
/r/seduction19/03/21 06:51 PM
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It's about accepting that some women will say no and you have to respect her choices.
/r/seduction20/12/20 02:58 PM
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Right so thing is, in any environment where you are employing someone, you are in a position of power and as such, legally you open yourself up to a shit storm of moral and legal issues. Like try and think about it from the opposite side. The creative industry is insecure work at the best of times. Imagine getting a job, knowing you only ever get hired because of your looks. Now imagine you get this job and the person who controls your paycheck starts flirting with you. Sure, in a perfect world,…
/r/seduction20/12/20 02:54 PM
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From a chemical/ scientific standpoint, it really depends on the woman's natural scent. Typically musky scents are too strong and instead are put into male cologne and such, but very sweet, very floral scents can often be overpowering. A slite spicey note tends to make things less of an innocent smell and more of an inticing smell but really it's about going around and actually finding a perfume that suits you personally. Scent is also more of a combination thing so your shampoo and soap and bod…
/r/seduction31/10/20 09:55 AM
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So just a thing, it is impossible to sustain faith continuously at the same level, people have insecurities and doubts so faith and trust and stuff ebbs and waves. What you should instead look for is someone who communicates, someone who faces problems. Cheating is what people do when they want to avoid conflict, people who take the easy route, people who will put themselves and their own needs and wants above their partner's. So look for someone who communicates, and make yourself open to commu…
/r/seduction29/10/20 08:29 PM
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Sometimes it does but sometimes it is just person specific. For example some people literally ALWAYS do "xx" at the ends of texts and then add more xs if they want to convey more sentiment. A lot of guys use the wink face for everything even when it isn't flirting. Etc. Basically best to try get some idea as to if that is just normal for them or if it's specific to you. For example I know a guy who heart reacts and laugh emojis a hell of a lot when messaging me but has made it fairly clear he do…
/r/seduction24/10/20 11:27 AM
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As a woman I would say it isn't that woman love confident guys and hate unconfident ones. It is a case of communication. A woman can't actually know what you want, what your likes and interests are and importantly if you are actually interested in them or just sex if there isn't clear communication. Cocky guys are confident but project the image of wanting sex and nothing else, which is fine for someone looking for that but is offputting to a person looking for a relationship. In the same way, s…
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:19 AM
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How about you just play the sport fairly, don't patronise other participants or get scary levels of aggressive. Generally speaking, unless the girl you like is just as interested in sports as you are she is not going to care. "Alpha traits" are BS nonsence. Just be a good sportsperson, in general because it makes you a decent person rather than doing it as a carefully constructed act to get in someone's pants. Honestly if it is a serious game treat it seriously and have good sportsmanship. If it…
/r/seduction15/10/20 09:28 PM
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Basically, as with any kind of relationship you communicate from the start. You just say like: "I'm not looking for anything exclusive for x reasons" before feelings get involved. Same goes for if you are interested in open relationships or exclusive but casual. It is a conversation rather than a statement. For example, to some people FWB are non-exclusive while for others it's like this is the only person you can have sex with, but neither person is interested in a relationship.
/r/seduction11/10/20 06:13 PM
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Rejection is about it not being the right fit, not about your appearance. 9 times out of 10 it is legit just about wrong time wrong place.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:14 PM
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From a woman's perspective this post makes some good points but also a few weird ones. It's completely accurate in the whole "don't be scared of rejection, why would you care if the girl isn't interested" bit. One of a woman's biggest fears is always going to be a man who retaliates or makes her feel like shit for a rejection and honestly, reasons for a rwjection can vary from her liking someone and wanting to pit her focus on that to her feeling like she is just not in the right place to date a…
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:19 AM
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A good baseline is the context. Firstly, are you in an environment where flirting is appropriate. If you approach a girl while she is at the gym or an exercise class, most of the time she will likely find it creepy cause she is there to work out and will feel like you have been watching/staring. Similarly approaching a girl who is alone or busy is very intimidating. And also, if she is at work, particularly customer service rolls, she is by the nature of her job forced to be nice and so you won'…
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:30 AM
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This sort of thing kind of suggests a desperate lack of intimacy in your life, like you lack deep and meaningful relationships in your life and so you have come to rely entirely on base level physical attraction to get a release of endorphins. Basically, focus on deepening and expanding your existing friend circle, maybe talk to a therapist as well just to make sure your feelings aren't accidentally being expressed noticeably in a way that might ruin your chances of developing relationships. May…
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:16 PM
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