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Okay, well to be fair, I spent a lot of time in East Africa growing up --Africom dad-- and spend lots of time there now (I've grown fond of the place). So I have to say I have absolutely seen people out in the field working on these things, many of whom have described themselves as feminist (men and women). I'm of the same mind as the WAF ladies --I live in the West and I have what I want, so I'm fine. But, that said, I've met women who didn't know their pelvis wasn't supposed to hurt, due to co…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 09:34 PM
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I was an esthetician before my baby, so let me give you some tips: First the holy grain - Not all skin is the same. Some women need more moisture, some women need to exfoliate more often, some women need toner some should never use toner. So first get an idea of what your skin is like. Further, take note of where you live and what is around you. If you live in the city, cleaning your skin changes compared to living in the country. Same goes for the amount of makeup you wear. If it's fairly norma…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 09:16 PM
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Not all RP men are in the process of banging sluts. Many reach the stage, although not until later, where they want a wife, family, kids the whole shebang. My husband is very RP, but I made him wait until we were exclusive and he respected me more for it, and said as much to me. The thing is, you just have to shoot for guys a bit older in general. Because younger guys are still trying to figure there shit out and it doesn't seem like you want that sort of guy, from what I can tell.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 05:12 PM
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I'm afraid though, that your reality does not jive with what a lot of the women here have experienced in their own relationships. Like sierrasecho, I've also married a good man, who owns a successful restaurant, has a staff, has a good house, is well traveled, educated and good looking. He's high value and was very much looking for a LTR when we met (he was 31 when we met). In fact, he was the one that brought up a LTR first, because he didn't want just some 'fling' with me, and I'm not a 10. Do…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 05:01 PM
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I always play deaf to vulgar cat-calls because they honestly scare me. Someone is deliberately trying to embarrass or demean while all I'm trying to do is run errands. I once had a guy call me over while I was walking my dog to ask directions, and he pulled out his penis. I quickly walked away and crossed the street and he followed me, but I just fled. It's something that has always really bothered me. But like many have said, with vulgar-aggressive cat callers, you don't know what these people …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/14 10:49 PM
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I'm not saying you should 'openly dislike' someone because they are better looking. I think it's normal to feel a twinge of worry if your husband is working closely with a gorgeous woman. I think that's fairly normal, actually. I mean, how many women here would be comfortable with a SO that photographed models for a living? Many might assume yes, but my brother in law does this for a living and he has the hardest time with girlfriends, and the insecurities this brings to the relationship. He's d…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:56 PM
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Actually in my experience with friends of mine who have suffered 'true abuse' they almost always blame themselves and make excuses for their SO. One of my friend's boyfriends used to routinely push her to the ground or slap her. Sometimes in front of people at parties, more than once I witnessed it. One time in particular, he threw a large ceramic bowl of salsa at her head (which caused a nasty lump) because she didn't make it as spicy as he wanted her to. She always, always blamed herself, and …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:45 PM
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I think you actually make a really good point here. I've had a few friends that have been in abusive relationships (verbal and physical) and NOT ONE of them would ever admit it out loud. It was like this giant elephant in the room all the time. 'Oh he got drunk and pushed me, but he didn't know what he was doing' or 'oh well, I should have known that reheating pizza instead of getting a new one would set him off'. Women I've known in properly abusive relationships almost always make excuses for …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:34 PM
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I bet he'd be perfectly happy eating cold ham sandwiches for dinner if it meant having a sex life. I just can't imagine ever getting to the point where I found sleeping with my husband 'a chore'. I get being exhausted, but you are allowed to skip out on some 'perfectly wifely duties' once and a while if it means you have energy for sex. I don't think any man I know would prefer clean and pressed pillowcases to a hot sexy romp. Sigh. Although I also wonder if she's ever had really amazing, hot se…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:18 PM
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Hah! I can relate to this in a way, because my husband has a staff and I often times find myself thinking, "oh good, the new girl isn't that pretty". I think it's just a natural sort of competition that is ingrained in all of us. That said, the two women I absolutely adore on his staff are both drop dead gorgeous ladies. That said, they just have fantastic attitude and have always championed my husband and I. You should have seen how happy they were when they found out I was pregnant. My lord. S…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:05 PM
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Sex is such a good way to mend arguments and relieve stress, I don't think that being distant or annoyed is a particularly good reason to say no to it. That said, I do get emotionally drained. With a baby still in his first year, I often find it difficult on certain days to summon up the energy to do anything properly. In those cases, we created a system of 'mutual admiration'. Basically I'll give him what he needs, and he will reciprocate that by taking a bit of time with the baby (or arranging…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 06:13 PM
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My husband quit smoking when I got pregnant, and he's got some good advice: This might sound crazy, but a doctor told it to my husband, so I trust it. Plus when he quit smoking and it worked really well! So one of the things my doctor said is that when you smoke, a small about of sucrose is put into the bloodstream. This is part of the 'smoking stops my appetite' thing. Part of the physical addiction is actually that addiction to the sugar your blood gives out. He advised my husband to drink fre…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 05:50 PM
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My father always told me that begging someone to stay with you is the worst thing you could ever do. People are free to make their choices, and the only thing you can do is respect them. Because of this, I've always found myself remaining calm and collected in a break ups. It just doesn't seem worth it to me, if they want to go, they can go. I'll keep on being exactly who I am and this is the best 'revenge' of sorts. Not that I ever craved it, but it always put a little seedling of 'Did I do the…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 03:54 PM
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Sure, but my husband had no problem with it prior to the baby. He loved that I was firm and fit, so that's why it took me by surprise that he preferred me with a bit more pudge.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 03:44 PM
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I sleep crushed up against my husband's broad chest to ensure our connection remains secure at all times. Hah. Truth is, I'm up so much taking care of a baby that we often don't sleep touching, but that's just so I don't wake him at 1am, 4am, 6am...
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 11:48 PM
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I honestly don't think most shorts compliment female figures, so I rarely wear them. That said, there are plenty of tasteful versions these days that don't go up too high. Mid-thigh preppy shorts can be pulled off by the right lady and can look nice. But yeah, generally speaking I think ladies look far better in skirts and well tailored pants compared to shorts, so I'd say unless you have that 1% body, best to skip it simply as an aesthetic choice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:05 PM
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Cleanliness in general, really. Let's forget all that hygiene nonsense, it was foisted on us by the patriarchy. Let's stew in our own filth. Not to mention, refuse to give innocent animals walks and exercise. Because of girl power! um. Yes. Girl power!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:58 PM
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Thanks for this info! I've always lifted weights to stay strong, but never really looked into the specifics of it. This is super helpful. I'm eating about 2,000 calories a day (I'm still breastfeeding occasionally so I don't eat at a deficit) but I think my body is just slowly going back to what its normal range is with the added sport. I'll try balancing it out more and see what happens.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:21 PM
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Well, then that's pretty understandable I think. If he doesn't think it will come of any use, then it's fairly logical to take it back. I know it might hurt a bit, but try not to take it personally. It's not you, it's the jacket. Maybe pick him up something else when you return it and that can help mend things between you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 06:18 AM
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That's true, I didn't tell him I was uncomfortable with my weight when he brought it up. I suppose what I was trying to gain by posting is a perspective in measuring what you're happy with vs. what you're husband is happy with. I guess advice on how to approach that dichotomy, and advice from women who traversed that disconnect and how they did it. I will approach him about it, I just could use some RPW advice so I can go into it with the best possible frame of mind.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 06:13 AM
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Well I have been focusing on toning, but I think because I'm naturally a tiny human being, it has helped weight loss. I mean, at a size 2-4 I was still toned and curvy. I know it doesn't sound like it,but I still had nice round breasts and a well shaped bottom. Less waifish more Madonna in the 1990's. Because it's a natural size for me (my body stayed there basically from puberty onward) and not a result of some crazy diet, I kinda wonder if it's even possible for me to maintain an exercise sche…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 06:08 AM
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I think the main issue for me is that because small is my natural default shape, workouts often put me back to that genetic norm. I have been doing toning and weights, in an attempt to lose weight. Pilates and all of that. And even before pregnancy I did weights often. I was deceptively strong for my size, but I very much had muscle mass. So for me, even weight training could lower my weight. And I sort of feel stuck now, if that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 06:00 AM
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It's not other people, it's really just me. I'm a small woman, 5'1 and I have a slim body shape naturally, not through dieting or attempting to keep thin. I guess I just missed my old body and was so excited about getting back to where I was before that it didn't occur to me he would prefer me this way. It's not softness that's problematic, it's that it feel foreign, if that makes sense. Like it's not really 'my' body anymore. I know logically it is, but it's such a shift from most of my adultho…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 05:55 AM
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The sport coat thing would probably hurt my feelings too. When you put a lot of thought into a gift, and it's rejected, it sucks. That said, his reasons for not wanting it could be very valid. Did you ask why or did you just drop it? Basically what I'm saying is, I get that it stung, but perhaps if you knew his reasons it would take that sting out of it. For instance, one year I bought my husband an amazing tool kit for Christmas. I was so excited for him to open it and as he did his face droppe…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 12:21 AM
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This is so true. I have a few friends who have been raped and only 1 of them ever tried to press charges because they all feared disbelief. She's hurting both men and women with this shit. Really, it's just so inexcusable.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:51 PM
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Well to be fair, I've lived in a place where polygamy is legal. Often these men didn't take on other wives for the hell of it. I mean, one wife can be hard enough. And the rules in polygamy state you have to treat all wives equally. One gets money for shopping, they all get money for shopping! It's not easy. Usually it was done for rather chivalrous reasons. I know that sounds crazy, but where I lived, I only knew 2 men with more than one wife. One took on a second because her husband had died a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:42 PM
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In the heat of the moment it was hard, so I instituted rules for before that happens. When he had an issue he brought it up in a neutral tone and I made sure I listened to it without interrupting or defending myself. Then instead of talking defensively, I thanked him for telling me and told him to let me think about it. After a few minutes it would dawn on me that he was right, That pause to think about things really helps me level out.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:30 PM
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Oh you will get grumpy. It will happen probably around 4am, when you have spit up in your hair, the little one won't stop crying, and you haven't had a proper nights sleep in about 3 weeks and you can't remember your last real shower. Oh and did I mention the storm of hormones? The fear of SIDS? You will be on edge. It is literally inevitable that you will be tiered and grumpy at some point. And that's okay, it's part of the whole experience. Because without that moment of 'holy hell, what have …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 09:59 PM
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I decided this year that when me and the husband argue, I will never stop showing him that I love him and respect him. We always handled disagreements well, but after I gave birth and my hormones were all over the place, I started really losing a firm grasp on how normal disagreements work and becoming demanding and enraged. It had a terrible effect on our relationship that I saw immediately. So instead of being defensive, I remind myself that my husband is a very reasonable man. He has my best …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:24 PM
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Oh lord. This is one of the reasons i never join in the hubby-bashing. First, I don't want to bash him, he's a great guy and even if we have a fight, it's not like my love and admiration go anywhere. Second, it makes your friends look upon your SO with disapproval, and third, it can bite you in the ass so hard. This woman's 'friend' is awful but she really did bring this upon herself. And also, if she has so many issues with his ambition and sexual performance, why is she marrying him in the fir…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:12 PM
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In my experience, men really like someone who sincerely admires them. My husband, when I met him was this sort of gruff-nononsense sort of guy that all the men in our friend circle looked up to. Plenty of girls admired him too, but they all tried the slutty dumb girl angle, and he wasn't biting. I knew I liked his style and did have an honest question about something he knew a lot about, so I simply walked up to him at a party and asked. We spend the entire night chatting, and I while I didn't f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 11:41 PM
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This might be TMI, but when you do have sex even if you're not in the mood do you enjoy it? I only say this because I've found even when I'm not 'in the mood' I can very quickly become aroused if I just give sex a go. For instance, after I had my baby at first I was just in no mood for sex. But after the doctor okay'd it, I just decided to go for it regardless of my mood in the exact moment it was initiated. 99% of the time I found myself feeling better and my sex drive increasing afterwards Is …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 07:47 PM
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Truth in this! I spent a period of time growing up in Africa thanks to my dad's career. The reality is, T-shits have flooded the African market thanks to donations from the West. It's common to see someone in rural Kenya wearing old high school shirts and sports apparel. In fact I saw one from my own high school there! And while seeing the boobs of women nursing is still fairly common at any particular venue (nutrition in kids is paramount and will take precedence in any social situation) it's v…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:41 PM
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That's a really good point! Thanks so much for saying as much. Keeping a positive attitude of 'my faith is not shaken in you' is probably far more important. Appreciate the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 10:42 PM
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I agree. I am biracial myself, and I didn't understand this comment. The rest to me are no brainers. But don't have a biracial kid? Ouch. Talk about being hit in the gut unexpectedly.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 09:24 PM
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I suppose something fairly similar, but perhaps set to a more soothing tone than a celebrating one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 09:10 PM
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I've just started posting recently too (although I've been lurking for months) and I share your sentiments. Especially when it comes to women going on and on about their SO and how speaking well of your husband comes off as a 'brag'. Shouldn't we be happy and speaking well of our partners? It's something that drives me mad sometimes. Anyway, hurray and welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:14 PM
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I'm not sure actually. I haven't had that issue. Part of it might be because as you grow older, moisture levels recede. I'm guessing you need to deep condition a lot more when you have grays because it's so porous. But I deep condition at least once a week so that might be what keeps mine at bay.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:51 PM
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Oh my mom went gray so early (21) that when I started getting grays at 26 (yes!) she was like, 'oh well you're lucky!'. The women in my family have always been blessed in regards to skin and bodies. My mom is 67 and her skin is sill gorgeous, she's also maintained her figure well through 3 children. But the grays? They are the bane of our genetics. And mine have come in with full force. I also have very dark natural hair. So first, I realized that where the gray was coming in (left side of my pa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 02:44 PM
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Congrats on the baby! I have to say, pregnancy was one of the best times for me to have defined roles in the relationship. The care and love a man shows towards his wife when she's pregnant is just awe inspiring. I was truly blessed to have the husband I do. Plus, during the first few months of motherhood, you will be overwhelmed, and that's when lists and clear methods of who-does-what really, really come in handy. One of the things I've noticed from friends is that new parents can easily resen…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 08:27 PM
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These two are rules I LIVE by. I'd also add: Treat your family like guests. We always clean for guests but make excuses when it comes to our own family. Why? You should worry about their comfort first and foremost. So clean for your own household as they were as 'important' as a guest. Because they are.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:55 PM
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This makes perfect sense. My husband is a bit of a gruff no-nonsense guy in general with other people, but with me he turns on the humor. Especially when I'm down. I remember when I was going through my 3rd month of pregnancy and everything felt awful. Morning sickness, constant fatigue and a general feeling of being miserable. Man, he turned it on every day just to make me smile. I won't ever forget that level of loyalty and love.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 03:38 PM
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And really, as long as I took care of my body and hygiene, if my husband was 'revolted' by me I would feel terrible about myself. How can you be revolted by your SO and expect a healthy relationship? Sigh.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 03:43 PM
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Exactly! While I value male insights here, I'm not sure asking us for our opinion on this matter would ever be helpful. Although we might be able to explain the female perspective (if they are interested) I can't imagine explaining how to get your wife to behave like a proper lady.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 04:32 PM
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I can see how that makes a lot of sense, actually. However, my own husband is very much in charge of his own life, very much a captain. But his mom is unbelievably doting. To the point where I, a new mother, don't even understand why she is so concerned about his daily habits. Also, at this point, that's sort of my domain, not hers. That said, when his father was around (he died when my hubby was a teenager) he was apparently quite an alpha as well. I can see how an overprotective parent would t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 08:33 PM
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Hi! 27, married with a new baby, living on the East Coast. I've mostly just been lurking. I've enjoyed the insights and advice here, as my hubby and I tend to have a very traditional relationship and it seems like very few people around me 'understand' it. As the daughter of a military family, I really like the no-bullshit attitude here. What can I say? It reminds me of home.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 08:21 PM
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I'm going to need this on a coffee mug.
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