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If you project BOSS you'll act like one. Hopefully a nice one.
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:45 PM
1

Are you afraid of her?
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:11 PM
2

I mean ... This? https://youtu.be/soxPeH6Y0uU
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:20 PM
1

Move on😎
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:08 PM
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Approaching. Or, working-out at the gym. Studying Psychology. Embracing the concept that failure is a learning exercise, not the end. Dressing like fashionable celebs. Ignoring your fears. Joining local groups. Seducing sexy women because you understand her looks mean more to the AFCs around you than they mean to you.
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:48 PM
7

Keep it up. Most women appreciate men who have the courage to approach. Plus, approaching gets you closer to getting her. Approach in 3 seconds. Compliment her. Ask questions related to the surroundings (i.e., "What brought you here?" and "What do you like about this place?") Echo her responses with your own experiences to build rapport. Tease her (about being short or tall or overdressed or underdressed or being a nerd or being a hipster, ECT.) Tell her she's okay because she's with you (builds…
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:41 PM
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If you do not know how to approach, you fail. Approaching is the 3-Second Rule. If you know HOW to approach, seduction is easier.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:14 AM
1

You need to master game, then approach.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:11 AM
1

I wonder what you're saying to them.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:04 AM
1

Here's some strong game from Mystery & Discovery: https://youtu.be/ngPB-JNn7vU
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:08 PM
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Here's some strong, foundational content on game from Todd V: https://youtu.be/nJMtHxgub2o
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:39 PM
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Here's some good content from Todd V: https://youtu.be/HJeVz8dfN-k
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:03 PM
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Sure do😎 https://www.seduction.com/blog/trance-words-anchoring/
/r/seduction06/12/19 07:52 PM
1

Advice: the Three-Second Rule exists to counter AA. Use it😎 https://puamore.com/wiki/3-second-rule/
/r/seduction22/11/19 01:07 AM
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Keep sarging, my dude😎
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:05 PM
1

Asking someone out is NOT sexual harassment. If she says no and you keep approaching her, THAT is harrassment.
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:11 PM
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Go for it. So many posts here are about missed opportunity. Just do it. All she can do is text "no" - then you move on to the next person.
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:58 AM
4

One of the best teachers of game😎
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:39 PM
1

Bad wing. If he can't espouse real game and he's ugly - tough😗
/r/seduction19/11/19 09:03 PM
0

Brad Pitt, one of the most popular, most handsome celebrities gets rejected. https://time.com/5478745/amy-adams-brad-pitt/ Just shake rejection off and keep gaming😎
/r/seduction19/11/19 07:42 PM
1

Great content😎
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:25 PM
0

Ah. With women. Okay.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:20 PM
1

Didn't think Autism affected reading. Now I know. But if you have problems with reading and comprehension, of what value is this discourse?
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:09 PM
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I had a political conversation once in Berkeley with a guy who interrupted it to inform me he was autistic. I asked him how autism influenced the discussion. So. I'm asking you: how does you being Autistic influence this discussion?
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:03 PM
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LoL😂 Keep. Doing. That.
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:54 PM
2

Dude. Ride YouTube until the Illuminati shut down communication there.
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:43 PM
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You do not need to be the d*ck he was. You can use seduction to secure the woman of your dreams free of what you might call "predatory". Read and follow Todd V on YouTube. He has found his SO. He's there to help you find yours😉
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:40 PM
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Very nice report😎
/r/seduction17/11/19 08:54 PM
1

Yikes😨 Yeah. Very wrong and cringy.
/r/seduction17/11/19 06:02 PM
0

Great content!
/r/seduction17/11/19 02:04 PM
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So you care what people think. That's an infield weakness that will cripple you. And it's BS. There's nothing wrong with men approaching women. Just keep it civil.
/r/seduction17/11/19 12:45 AM
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Good stuff here😎
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:30 PM
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Do you have actual stats or are you spitballing? Because it looks like you're suggesting looks are pretty much everything😒 And you really don't understand the impact proper seduction technique has.
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:14 PM
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Outstanding content😎
/r/seduction16/11/19 03:32 PM
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When she said that you should've asked what "slow" means. Hours? Days? Weeks? Months? Years? It's a shit test. Find something else to do - and then, she'll come around.
/r/seduction16/11/19 02:52 AM
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Great content😎
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:03 AM
1

Todd V is great😎
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:22 PM
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You don't understand that game isn't the ring of Gyges😂 It isn't magic that gives you power over women. And women aren't beer cans that men just pop open. Forming relationships is more complex than that. That's what mastering game does: it helps you quickly form relationships with women who are open to relationships.
/r/seduction15/11/19 09:34 PM
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Nice content😎
/r/seduction15/11/19 09:05 PM
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Mastering game doesn't guarantee success. Pretty sure no pua has promised that. Game does increase your chances though, the same way we can get better at most things by studying successful principles others reveal to us. I make women laugh, first and foremost, because humor usually helps people relax. Then I flirt some so she knows I want her. Then I ask a lot of questions because it's how you get to know someone fast. Then if I feel she's open to me, I'll use a combination of Kino and Framing t…
/r/seduction15/11/19 08:40 PM
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Nah. Game is seduction although due to puas it has gained different terms. We have a lot of afcs out there who haven't mastered game and lash out. It's why they're afcs😂 Sure. You can use basic conversation to get contact info from decent-looking women, but can you make the hottest women you've ever met WANT YOU SEXUALLY? That's real seduction.
/r/seduction15/11/19 08:03 PM
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RSD was the more toxic pickup content. Especially with Tyler and everyone else with RSD that produced faked content. Todd V, who was ostracized from RSD, seems to have superior content that doesn't equate to the Date Rape pill for guys looking to attract women. Check out Todd V.
/r/seduction15/11/19 02:18 AM
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No. Stay on schedule.
/r/seduction15/11/19 02:08 AM
165

Shark mentality: always move forward😎
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:54 PM
2

TLDR: Don't be a creep😎
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:29 PM
1

Great content😎 Keep at it. You'll get 'em.
/r/seduction13/11/19 11:07 PM
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Great content😎
/r/seduction13/11/19 11:00 PM
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99% of all the women I've EVER dated I met in a public place. Sure it's uncomfortable for both men and women, but it's how most people meet.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:54 PM
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Stop masturbating and focus.
/r/seduction12/11/19 10:08 PM
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But the saying is true.
/r/seduction12/11/19 09:52 PM
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Nice guys finish last☺
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:46 PM
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You did okay. If "okay" is fuckall. Give me a field report of how you fucked a 8+. With pics/video. I'm running out tonight just for a field report for you guys. I'll have my lay tell you how it went😨
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:31 PM
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Who isn't trying to fuck this chic?
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:26 PM
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Because you aren't Game proficient. Dudes think Game is about getting numbers when it's really about getting sex. Step up.
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:23 PM
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Good luck. There are so many women wanting sex THESE DAYS.
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:20 PM
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You texted too soon. And. I don't get how modern dudes turn a female loose before getting a 💋. Kiss Close, my dudes. That creates the connection for later.
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:48 PM
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Dude. Make some jokes and get her #.
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:44 PM
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3-second rule is my warm-up. I mean. You went out to hunt pussy, right? You don't see cheetahs warming up to catch gazelles. They see them and they start running.
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:24 PM
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My focus is always how a female feels about herself. She tells me who she is and what's important. Then you listen and use it to reach her. Like a deep-spAce satellite. You tell her what she told you.
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:22 AM
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From Day 2 when you were close: Tell her about you and everything you have going on. It builds your value in her eyes. Tell her you don't normally approach females but she drew you in. Tell her what you like about her, but in a casual, non-needy way. If she responds well to that, use your close contact to move in for a 💋 she should be okay with a quick one. If not, let her know that's cool & attempt no more kisses. Just be with her. Females like that, especially if you keep it fun and non-needy.…
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:52 AM
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Tom Ford online. It's hella expensive, though. But, worth it because females will be sniffing you all night👄
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:22 AM
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Oh. Yeah, you missed your window at Day 2. The closer a woman let's you get, the more comfortable she is. You gotta take advantage of when she's open to you or she'll find another guy.
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:20 AM
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I wore ADG today. You should have multiple fragrances, but that specific Portofino drives 'em crazy😎
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:10 AM
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That's a dude😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/11/19 12:30 AM
1

Where are you that people don't speak to strangers? Mars?
/r/seduction12/11/19 12:10 AM
2

I would've made contact Day 1. That's the 3-Second Rule: you connect as fast as possible because hesitation allows you to start doubting yourself. Day 2 you established physical contact and rapport. From there you should've moved to flirtation and convincing her you are the guy she's been waiting for. If she's not interested, you'd know quickly. Seems like she was interested but you missed the window at Day 2.
/r/seduction12/11/19 12:02 AM
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I'd say BS. A nice cologne works wonders. Try Tom Ford's Neroli Portofino. Women go wild😵
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:40 PM
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Just ask her. Simple.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:02 PM
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By asking questions. She answers, you express interest I, her responses, then ask more questions. Tell her about you and the rings you do. It conveys value.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:56 PM
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You asked. I answered. Good luck😉
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:53 PM
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You asked for opinions. Now you're making excuses. AFC Mentality.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:48 PM
1

Lol I had the same thing happen to me about 25 years ago. I later realized what I'm telling you now: People have lives and it's a childish expectation to think their life stops because of you. They have friends. Relatives. Coworkers. Jobs. What if someone has a car accident and ends up hospitalized for days? Will you get angry because they failed to text you back immediately? No. You have to respect other peoples' lives or you will continue to have this problem.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:39 PM
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No. Based on what you wrote above, she was online but didn't respond to you so you got angry. She explained later she had a personal tragedy and was, later, upset at how you behaved. All in black & white. You messed up. Move on to the next female and do not get angry when they don't respond to you in the future.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:11 PM
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Dude. Getting angry when a female doesn't respond immediately to text is weak. Anything can happen. People have lives to live. You should have enough of a life where you aren't waiting for a text to validate you as a man. She cut you off because you deserved it.
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:56 PM
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Casual sex with typical females is overrated. Sex with 8+ women can be very enjoyable. Very very enjoyable😁 If you think having sex with highly attractive women is overrated, especially compared to masturbation, that's a sign of something deeper.
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:51 PM
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Use whichever process works best for you😉
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:46 PM
0

And you still have questions? Wow. Could be Game isn't for you.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:29 PM
0

LoL he's actually one of best and his process is solid. Have you read it? Followed the method?
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:18 PM
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What do you want? I visualized my "dream girl" when I was a teen and it hadn't changed much.
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:22 PM
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The bar is a strong position. Gives you a good view and keeps you center stage. Just smiling and flirting with women can open the door to more.
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:16 PM
1

Read The Mystery Method. There's also great content from Todd V on YouTube relating to texting and engaging women verbally/emotionally.
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:20 PM
1

This. Teach a nerd how to play.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:30 AM
1

Explain a real god. Thats all atheists want. Explain God in terms normal people can prove and relate to.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:28 AM
1

Explain God with no context. You say God is X with these blinds I set up. Just explain your God.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:25 AM
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I can see you failing. Let us know how you do.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:23 AM
1

Do you reAlly mean you can't see the BS of religion?
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:22 AM
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LOL😌
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:18 AM
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Or. You can be completely inconsistent and an ass to people. We don't need to talk about strong Theists. And how loud they fail.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:15 AM
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Get outside text.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:12 AM
2

Tell her you're too broke to buy anything, but you can evaluate the store's product for human utility. Dude, be honest and funny. It works.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:05 AM
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If you're really athletic, stay ahead of her while hiking and keep asking if she needs a break. Then laugh and joke with her. Athletic, outgoing women love a challenge just as much as we do. Be her challenge😉
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:47 AM
2

You seem like a text-monster. Make sure you transfer whatever you're texting into your RL dates. Be consistent.
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:45 AM
2

Learn Daygame. I always recommend The Mystery Method but UK women are different. Just be wild with them.
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:34 AM
1

Just ask her out for coffee or a meal. Simple.
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:51 PM
2

Wilt Chamberlain?😂
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:02 PM
154

Great post! Rejection is to be expected. Just keep moving😎
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:59 PM
2

'Spoze it depends where or who you learn Game from. But, the basics are universal: 3 second rule DHV Negs Create a frame Kino Close I'm older than 45 but my Game is the same as when I was 20. My targets have changed from younger women to older but, same steps😉
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:49 PM
1

Nuances like what?
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:31 PM
3

Relocate😎
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:57 PM
2

Porn star? Womens' Prison guard? Gynecologist? College Professor?
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:07 PM
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Imo, Game is universal.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:47 PM
1

Mystery solved!
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:37 PM
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His other book The Art of Seduction is waaaay more useful.
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:16 PM
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Keep calling her "ma'am" until she ask why you keep calling her "ma'am". Tell her you were raised by cowboys on the wild frontier and "ma'am and sir" is just how cowpokes like you talk😳
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:21 PM
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Fuck Tinder. Learn Daygame and eat EVERYWHERE😈
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:17 PM
1

Fairly simple stuff: find groups that interest you, join them, engage other members wit a fun persona. Be open-minded. Don't be a pushover because women are usually attracted to outgoing, fun, assertive guys.
/r/seduction07/11/19 04:47 PM
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Join groups and establish yourself as fun yet assertive.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:45 PM
0

This is idiotic. Why would you even consider such a thing?
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:05 PM
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This here. Be direct and follow through on your mutual interest. Don't waste the moment or you could lose it.
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:20 AM
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Text her. She's waiting. So many AFCs post here about failed dates and females losing interest. You have to take the lead. She's waiting for it. Women expect a guy to fully seduce her, not just "talk to her". She wants to be TAKEN. You gotta do that romantic "James Bond" sh*t. Your conversation should be teasingly sexual. Let her know you're a high-value man with other things to do, but she's special enough to draw your attention. Then make her earn you. If she likes you she will: lots of text, …
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:00 AM
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You learn a woman by talking to her. Ask her about herself. Most of them will ramble😁 But getting YOUR mindset about yourself fixed is important. Who are you? Why do you feel low self-esteem? What kind of women do you like? Why? You can't have hot women if you have low self-esteem. Women LOVE confident men.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:04 AM
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Shark mentality: Swim. Eat. Make baby sharks. They don't care what the world thinks. They have superior focus and they ALWAYS move forward. Get out of your head and into a woman's.
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:44 PM
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You want to invade the set: get a seat or standing position as close to the bar as possible. The purpose is to appear part of the set rather than outside of it. Then lower your voice so she has to lean in to hear you. A little Kino as soon as she feels comfortable. I started out doing A LOT of bars and it can be great, especially when the staff know you (as a cool person).
/r/seduction06/11/19 10:20 PM
1

You're willing to trash a friendship because she won't f*ck you? That's shallow😗 Keep your friendship and find other women. That's what High-Value men do.
/r/seduction06/11/19 08:18 PM
1

Keep asking questions about HER.
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:34 PM
1

Crash & 🔥😂😂😂
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:58 PM
1

This. And if all you want is a FWB, she seems ideal.
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:51 PM
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This. High-value men keep it moving because they always have other things to do. Fixating on a female you barely know is weak.
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:35 PM
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LoL. Sexy women would ignore that fat dude if he wasn't wealthy😂😂😂
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:40 PM
1

So would do you to say? Keeping the conversation going is crucial.
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:35 PM
1

That "Hi" approach you just wrote is perfect. Keep it simple. What do you say after the intro?
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:10 PM
4

Stop texting her. Simple.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:27 PM
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You're just here to be negative then? With that attitude it's easy to see why you experience problems with women.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:07 PM
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There are - unless you're in some sh*t-splat small town - attractive women everywhere. You hunt for them in stores, the gym, clubs. You gotta be hungry for gorgeous chicks. Like it's a hobby😎
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:41 PM
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If you get BS from females, you invite bs. Tell them they are full of sh*t. Because it's what I do. Tell her she's BS. Walk away and embrace her reaction.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:36 AM
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I hunt 8+. I need attractive females to even be interested. Average females do nothing for me. Best advice I can offer is go after 8+. Any guy can get 7-. Go after the best looking females. They produce the better looking kids and create the more productive social experience. My 1st EX. I think the sub is about advice. Talk to her about her. Women like to talk about themselves. Easy win.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:05 AM
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Yeah. Todd V gets you where you want to be. My thing is if you follow Todd V and fail you were weak. Todd takes the Mystery Method and makes it clean. So, you can be in a relationship and still pull females and not feel like sh*t. I ran into that - pulling females and eventually feeling like sh*t. Led to a very long absence from game. Todd got me back in the game, but from a more conservative angle. I'm tall and handsome so females offer me p*ssy. Todd helps short ugly guys get laid.
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:45 AM
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Just approaching is a DHV😀 You show her you value females with contact. That does a lot. Get her # and set a date. Approaching and talk gets you that easy if you go for it.
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:34 AM
3

Rock on, player. I learned to dance watching music videoes. Try it. Good dancing = good f*cking in some womens minds.
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:14 AM
1

You didn't explain how you won.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:43 PM
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You can have here if you deal control. Just engage her with questions that she enjoys.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:40 PM
1

Win!😁
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:11 PM
1

Yeah. Human experience is the reverse.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:10 PM
1

Them.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:09 PM
1

Congrats. You gained the power. Now. What will you do with it?
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:41 PM
2

Mirror. Selfie is you. Mirror is them. Hold the mirror.
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:40 PM
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Nice post😁 Fail forward, dude. Women appreciate the guys that approach. It's flattery. They were cute enough for you to talk to.
/r/seduction02/11/19 11:06 PM
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Wow@even having to ask😵
/r/seduction02/11/19 04:38 PM
3

Game-wise: The Game (Strauss) Fight Club (Palahniuk) Theory of Games and Economic Behavior (von Neumann & Morgenstern) Pimp (Beck) Interview with a Vampire (Rice)
/r/seduction02/11/19 03:51 PM
0

What real-world strategies are you looking for? I've gamed all over California, the U.S. Southeast, Thailand, Singapore and many other places. For decades (as in, long before being a PUA was a thing).
/r/seduction02/11/19 03:02 PM
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Whatever the reason, get over your fear and approach. What are those people going to do - laugh you to death? Pretty sure they could give a sh*t about you. So why bother with what they think?
/r/seduction02/11/19 12:08 AM
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Yeah & since I'm a huge introvert that hates relationships of any kind, "let's get this intro over with" is a perfect set for me. Maybe not everyone but AA is born from fear of rejection. If you expect rejection, the fear is gone.
/r/seduction02/11/19 12:05 AM
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Yeah. WTF is an incel but an AFC? I've met homeless dudes that look like crackheads and THEY had girlfriends. Usually AA keeps fellas lonely. Just say "Hi, you look sexy". Is it that hard?😕
/r/seduction02/11/19 12:02 AM
1

Read the Mystery Method. Teaches you how to open sets with multiple females.
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:32 PM
3

Approach anxiety. Lots of males deal with it. Crash & Burn might work: just approach expecting failure. It can get you out of your head and into real conversation. Expect "she has a bf' or 'she's queer' or 'she's too busy'. Frees you up.
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:22 PM
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It's not complicated. It's a process.
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:30 PM
1

Go crazy.
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:28 PM
1

Become the Alpha.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:17 AM
1

This. Simple formula.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:16 AM
2

Beast mode. Try talking about her.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:14 AM
1

Talk to her about her.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:13 AM
1

LoL😂
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:13 AM
1

Get them talking about them. Simple.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:12 AM
1

Todd V is the pua prophet. Follow?
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:11 AM
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You need 2 control that narrative. She's boring because you say so, not because she is. It's all about being an Alpha. "The World Is Mine and You Need To Fit Where I Say."
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:10 AM
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You should approach women KNOWING you'll fail. I mean, are you only approaching when you think you'll win?😕 Approach 9s-10s like a boss. They may laugh and point at you. Laugh and point back. Then go pull other women. Your determination to approach is far more powerful than their disdain. This is Alpha Male territory. Do you want to establish yourself as an Alpha - or be Beta Man?
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:53 PM
0

Do not text her back. Pursue new women & stay busy with them. If she texts again, you're busy with a "female friend" & you'll text her later. Don't fall for sht tests. Please. Are you a man, or her slave?
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:46 PM
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Bullsht. You can be boring and dull and STILL pull women if you understand seduction. It's in the conversation. I know because I do it. I express boredom to women and they chase, because I first expressed interest. Tug of War. Get her talking about herself and she'll tell you how to have her.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:43 PM
0

Women will dance with you just because. Not because they like you. You need to create conversation after the dance. Get her talking about herself. Simple. Hubris is the bait humans use to trap themselves.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:39 PM
1

Talk to her about her. People are experts about themselves. You feed off her self-centered convo to get where you want. She'll tell you what to do.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:36 PM
2

You need to be casually interested in HER. Let her talk about HER and feed off the words. Always talk about her. Easy.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:35 PM
2

Stop giving a fk about your appearance. You didn't when you had it together, right? In your head things have changed, but it's just YOU that changed. The game remains the same.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:32 PM
3

It's always a bad-ass that makes a girl's heart beat faster
/r/seduction26/10/19 01:48 PM
3

Being selective demonstrates higher value, which women do and like. When you express interest but then move on, it makes them chase. It makes you the prize, not her. Which is ideal.
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:11 PM
1

That is a fun way to do it😎
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:08 PM
1

Eh. I gave friends who are true Alphas. Their a different breed. In PUA terms, they're Naturals.
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:31 PM
1

Check out Todd V as well.
/r/seduction25/10/19 01:19 PM
-3

That's how nearly every modern female describes herself😂 There are male alphas, not female.
/r/seduction25/10/19 12:25 PM
2

Todd V's excellent. Maybe the only pua that rivals Mystery.
/r/seduction25/10/19 12:11 PM
2

WTF is an alpha female?
/r/seduction25/10/19 12:08 PM
1

Todd is one of the best instructors. Been following him for years. Really great explanations of what game is and how to master it. Check out his YouTube (Todd V Dating & Ask Todd V).
/r/seduction25/10/19 01:31 AM
1

Fight Club.
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:44 PM
2

Just be casual. Ask her about her day, how she feels, joke with her. Avoid dating and sex until she goes there. If she's interested, she will go there.
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:36 PM
0

Follow your instincts because you're closer to it than me. Best shot: text her asking her wassup.
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:33 PM
1

Keep it moving. Too many women out there.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:39 AM
1

Saw this movie. "Now imagine your fear as pain. Now imagine your pain as a glowing ball. A glowing ball of healing white light. Now, step into your cave" ...😂
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:41 PM
3

The Game by Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction23/10/19 02:27 PM
1

Being friends = your friends getting laid. Be an Alpha and start getting laid. Right now, you're a nice wingman. Push more for sexual interest.
/r/seduction20/10/19 08:44 PM
2

Find the "high end" clubs where 8+ females go and establish yourself there. She'll show up.
/r/seduction20/10/19 08:22 PM
2

My dude. THE MOMENT😨 You missed it. Call her #.
/r/seduction20/10/19 07:23 PM
2

Def a Giver. It's all about connection.
/r/seduction19/10/19 11:14 PM
5

Ask her about "her". People love to talk about themselves because it's an expert topic. Just laugh and agree and build rapport by connecting yourself to her story.
/r/seduction19/10/19 11:03 PM
1

HOW you say. It's all about how you met her, how you include the setting in your approach, and how you react to her response. How.
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:14 AM
5

In your mind you're thinking "I want her". Do not approach like that. Instead, open in a casual way you would talk to a female friend you have zero interest in. You can joke with her, tease her and have a "normal" conversation that's free if your expectations. Only difference is you need to express sexual interest without appearing needy. Go get 'em!
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:55 AM
1

Foreverrrr
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:51 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:10 AM
1

Her. People love to talk about themselves. Byron once wrote "Fill a woman with love of herself and all that flows over will be yours."
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:04 AM
0

The Mystery Method is good, but nobody gets "every" girl😉
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:02 AM
1

Great idea. You should approach when you feel comfortable.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:09 PM
1

You're allowing that past trauma to taint your present. It happens to a lot of people. Just revisit the event, make your peace with it (usually you'll need to forgive someone or yourself or both) - then discard the memory. Move on, remembering how much you enjoyed meeting women previously. You don't stop doing something you enjoy because of one bad experience. Be like a shark and keeping moving😎
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:07 PM
1

You can just be silly on the dance floor. Warn her in advance that the last time you danced in public people stopped dancing around you and stared in disgust. Then dance silly. Twerk it out. Have fun. It's your fun, not hers.
/r/seduction13/10/19 12:28 AM
1

He might suck. When they tell me that I go into how cool BFs are. How a BF is there for her emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and physically. How he complements her by being what she wants and needs. How much easier things get when someone has your back, even when you're wrong. Then, if she says ANYTHING negative about him, I eat his lunch. She'll tell you what's missing, if you set the table. Or, she's happy and you move on.
/r/seduction13/10/19 12:06 AM
3

Fluff is casual conversation. Do that a lot.
/r/seduction12/10/19 03:17 AM
6

Lead with questions about what's important to her. It's not about you, it's her initially. Tease her telling her nothing she finds important is greater than what you can bring to her life. Act like you forgot all that sh*t. Make her explain why what's important is really important. Explain your feelings. Set a date.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:58 AM
1

Don't dump the sub. You can find inspiration here. The hidden humor in most posts keeps me in the streets. Remember all information has value: it's what you do or don't do.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:52 AM
2

Exactly that. If you're attractive and confident, women will throw you a lot of shine. This allows you to pick your spot with the females you want. Be picky. This is classic DHV. They need to get approved to be with you rather than you begging for their attention. Feel me?
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:49 AM
2

Both. You need to be "nice" and "a leader of men". Depends on the situation.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:45 AM
2

They're aggressive. Let them know "No" and keep moving on females, unless you are semi.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:43 AM
1

Demonstrate Higher Value.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:30 AM
1

She isn't a 9-10 and says no? Move on. Real PUAs only pursue 9s & 10s. If a scrub female is friending you - "Okay. Thanks." Next dime.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:28 AM
2

Then ask her can you two hookup. If she says no, move on because she's playing you for attention. Some people you need to ignore.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:25 AM
1

You aren't closing for numbers. You need to close for sex. Let her know that and reject any attempt to give a number. "F*ck your #. Does nothing for me. I want you and I need to know right now how you feel about it." She wants sex like you do. She just needs to know you really want her without being creepy.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:09 AM
3

You should go, then leave because you have blahblahblah going on somewhere else. You DHV by having other things to do than her lame events. You only get her by showing her you have better things to do.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:04 AM
1

How do you know my life😶 Once she's into you, a dirty pad is the least of her worries. She's concerned about you killing her, so if you're nice, a filthy room is nothing. Keep in mind transients have girlfriends. Sex is sick.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:59 AM
1

How do you know she's into you?
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:56 AM
3

Be nice and push fluff. If you stay fluffy long enough, she'll kick into something pseudo-sexual just to see if you're awake. Go sexual then. Set the date & time.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:55 AM
-1

She's magnifying her relationship. It's a sh*t-test sometimes and her way of demonstrating his value because she knows he's either weak or violent sometimes. Find a new female.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:52 AM
3

Start with Kino. Joke with her a lot. Challenge her to kiss you - because she wants to.
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:47 AM
1

If you don't work-out, do it. Builds your health and confidence. Dress like hot guys dress. Check out mags like the Rake and GQ. When you dress well, women take notice. Use lotion and cologne because women enjoy those things on a man. These things transform your appearance for the better. It's called game for a reason: just play. You win some, you lose some. Don't take it so serious. I've been rejected multiple times in a night but still had a fun time because I realize it's not about her - it's…
/r/seduction11/10/19 05:02 PM
2

Yeah. Make sure you mind your priorities. Dating should never be as important as what's really important.
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:28 PM
2

Go get 'em, dude😎 Wings are fun to have but as long as you're positive and there to have fun, the night is yours.
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:06 PM
1

Mystery Method is ice-cold: it gives you a process which allows you to engage hot women AND rarely be at a loss for words AND because it's a process you stay out of your own head which can ruin a conversation.
/r/seduction11/10/19 03:49 PM
2

Street game is fun and the easiest way to meet the ladies.
/r/seduction11/10/19 03:34 PM
1

So self-doubt that emerged from dwelling on an old relationship interfered with a possible new relationship. Look at what you're doing to yourself. Get out of the past. It's only value is teaching us what to do and what not to do. Then you move on. Get that shark-mentality and keep moving😎
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:58 PM
2

Move on, my dude. The next time you won't freeze because you know how bad it makes you feel. But you cannot dwell on the past.
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:30 PM
1

Be prepared to swipe right a lot. Get your text game up. Never, ever be desperate.
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:17 PM
1

Art of Seduction is all you need but, Strauss' The Game is imo the best look into the world of elite PUAs.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:55 PM
18

Perfect post. A female can have zero attraction to you initially, but once she gets to know you, things can get hot very quickly. Been there, done it.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:43 PM
17

Cool that you approached! But, that open seems like an invitation to the friend zone. I prefer a female knowing I'm sexually attracted to her up front. But if your goal is friendship then keep up the good work.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:39 PM
1

Just laugh really loud at her when she shifts her headphones. Tell her she's dated for even using headphones. Silly 4 food.
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:10 AM
1

Yeah. Same sense. You talk 2 them & it gets weird. It-s like - can U see or can U see? Just make her feel cool. Making the woman feel comfortable us a strong key.
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:07 AM
2

A PUA would say U broke the 3-second rule. I say U failed to approach. Why?
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:30 PM
1

Have a meet with her and her friends that hate you. Find a point of agreement by complimenting her friends and finding what they might like about you. Be compromising. Let them win so you can win.
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:29 PM
1

What are you saying to them? Handsome guys don't need to say a lot. You have to be making yourself unattractive with your conversation.
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:26 PM
0

Ask her about her life. Likes. Dislikes. Hobbies.
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:23 PM
2

Don't post. You're busy. If she posts, respond with humor. Simple.
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:21 PM
2

Just use poetry to talk to her real nature. Do you know what REAL is?
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:44 AM
1

Females are circular v. The male linear. Words capture a lot of females. If you learn poetry, females will fall into where you are.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:43 AM
1

Confidence in game is a false flag. You can be pure sh*t mentally and emotionally and still pull. I've been homeless and pulled a space to stay. You're assuming females place super-high value on status. They don't. A successful female will raise an unsuccessful male because she likes him. Seen it. Game trumps status. You can work at Wal-Mart as a cashier and pull a millionaire lawyer. IF --- you know game.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:04 AM
3

Flattery. Females eat it like fire eats wood. You make her feel special and she'll reciprocate.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:58 AM
2

This is me. Always had great success with females because I'm tall, semi-handsome and clever with words - but - never really interested in anything othet than pulling females for fun. Just keep approaching. I hit them in stores. A lot. Act like I can't do without them and she's so fine and I normally don't do this but --- You can build a wild circle of horny 8+ females that can never have you. It's fun just having them chase.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:54 AM
1

I listen. A lot. She'll tell you what kind of sex she likes, when she likes it and how you can get in. Just listen. I only fk with her to continue that conversation.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:41 AM
1

"Hey, I'll be at ____ on Thursday. When can you drop by?"
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:39 AM
1

Engage enough to make her laugh and pause, because you DON'T need her, you just WANT her. Let her know you want her and explain why she should want you. Then, get her data for future conflict. "I don't want your number to convince you that you want me. I need it so you can see for yourself I'm your best option. Neither of us is trying to waste time with the wrong person. I just need to make sure you aren't that wrong person - just like you."
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:37 AM
2

Flirting is cool. Flirting after she passed is harrassment.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:30 AM
3

Fast benefits where U want 2 go. I mean. You're identifying the sh*t-test but failing. That's a sad anomaly. You should've fkd her a while ago, but you're over-analyzing it. Females are NOT Quantum Physics. They're horny animals just like males. When she hints at GO, just go.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:29 AM
2

Metaphors and allegory. Females respond to words, especially cleverly-crafted words. Like poetry. I kill 'em with poetry. Quote Byron and Maya Angelou. Empower her freedom to take sexual action with the word-song of poets. Never seen it fail. EVER.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:24 AM
1

Daygame is the REAL hunt. She's doing her thing going home or school or work or some store and boom you appear. It's SO easy for her to flake you with a bf she doesn't have. Unless: Be engaging. Compliment her a lot but also neg her best aspects. Make her feel beautiful and ugly simultaneously. It throws her off and makes you interesting because "How did he make me feel like this?!?" Daygame is exchanging #s/fb/IG and running with it later. Great way to grab 9s and 10s on the street but you have…
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:13 AM
2

23. That's a magic #. You should be getting much *ss. Looks like your 'social issues' are fkn witcha. Relax. When you talk to females you need the mentality that YOU have all the value. Rock Star sh*t. Tease her. Touch her when you talk and when you talk make sure it's about YOU and what you're doing. Her world should be small and yours much larger. Females calculate your worth in your words. If you act like a boss, she'll go to work for you. Seems you're more interested in talking than fkn.
/r/seduction03/10/19 12:04 AM
1

Why R U holding back?
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:50 PM
2

Careful. Roomates' friend sex can be odd. Just ask permission and see what happens. Better than banging and having to deal with a nightmare.
/r/seduction29/09/19 01:25 AM
0

Say she's fresh from the gym because women like to advertise they're in the gym by wearing tights. Say "Hey". She says "Hi". You tell her those tights can mess with her circulation keeping all that fat in place. She will laugh. Trust. Tell her wearing baggy denims to the gym might work better. Then laugh. Ask her what gym she's at. Ask her how the staff us treating her. Ask her why she started working out and then tell her she's failing: She still has a gut. Still has feet too big. She'll laugh.…
/r/seduction29/09/19 01:15 AM
1

Imagine something: Imagine women enjoy sex just as much if not more than you do. Because it's true. At least from my perspective of communicating with women. She's waiting for "Mr. Right" (friendly, funny, masculine, unafraid) to come along and sweep her off her feet. Women get approached a lot daily by dudes who just get it wrong. YOU can gain her interest by being a silly fool who isn't afraid of her saying "I have a BF". She can be married to the guy that owns your bank and STILL f**k you. I …
/r/seduction29/09/19 12:16 AM
5

Awesome and enlightening😳
/r/seduction28/09/19 03:13 PM
2

OR, U can use your sensitivity to enhance your level of tact. Sensitivity helps U 'read people'. It's a natural survival instinct that exists to protect U. Normally, sensitive people that trust their instincts are pretty good at avoiding harm. U can 'weaponize' your sensitivity to make yourself a better communicator because U mind your environment, as it applies to people. Trust your instincts. Be direct. Connect with people based on how U 'read them'. Understand if a situation 'feels wrong' wal…
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:18 AM
1

Do U mean a female gave you clear sexual advances then said 'No'? "Lead On" can be different things for different people.
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:58 AM
127

Yeah. The thing is interpretation. Maybe she's just really enthusiastic and physical but DOES NOT want sex. I've experienced that. Better to express your sexual interest and gauge her response before moving forward.
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:56 AM
2

Creepy is The Way.
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:52 AM
2

U said U have hobbies and U joke with friends. So U have humor and interests other than school. Add that to the conversation. While how we joke with friends isn't always how we joke with strangers, most people really enjoy being around humorous people. It helps them relax. Also on your hobbies, express them in a casual way to build character. People gravitate to others with sincere passions that often transform into hobbies. U never know when U meet someone they might share your passionate inter…
/r/seduction28/09/19 12:50 AM
5

Just approach. Get her to buy U a drink. Rule is: approach the sexiest women first. Learn to work groups (make them all seem sexy but not as sexy as the 1 U want). Be funny and carefree. You'll B fine.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:17 AM
2

Or you aren't paying attention. You're suffering from low self esteem. Kill it. Just approach. Some say no. Okay. Some will say yes. Stop being afraid to talk to women. Be bold. They love that - even if they say no.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:13 AM
1

U need 2 ask her out. Engage. Women like aggressive men - not the subtle stuff she has to figure out. Be direct. Then, let us know.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:10 AM
2

Easy. Just ask her out. Gotta B aggressive. They like that. If she declinessss --- next girl.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:07 AM
3

How ugly are you? I mean if females laugh at you walking by, you might not be cut out for dating.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:03 AM
-7

Drop her. Casual. Just start seeing other females with 0 notice. How does this not help U? A true player is never stuck with 1. U got her. Get something better.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:59 AM
1

You should have been better, game-wise. When she asks a Q, you need to answer with what she didn't expect. You win with unpredictable game.
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:54 PM
2

Amen. You catch sight of her and refuse to follow. Do it. I've followed her into stores. Refusing to look. Bump into her and ask if she knows where she's going. Then point and walk away. Kinda. Romance is a crazy "hit and miss". Too determined to leave and too determined to stay. "Tell me again - where we going?" She'll tell you.
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:44 PM
1

Identify the Devil.
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:55 PM
1

Yeah. I'd move on. Probably chase something I recognized as better than her. I like value. But, you look like something deeper. Go get her, boy. You might regret not going after her for the rest of your life. I have 2-3 like that, but, moving on is my thing. Your post is inspiring.
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:43 PM
1

Ignore her. She's using you for validation that she "really is attractive". If you vanish, she has to either find someone else or produce for you. Either way, standing at a distance focused on another woman, you can let it play out: you can choose if she returns. Never get hooked on 1 female. There's too many available and "next best" is right around the corner.
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:31 PM
1

I have done just that. But everyone can't and I'd suggest do not unless you've established she's worth it. I prefer intelligent, influential women with a good degree of status that makes the effort worthwhile. Not sure if your ladyfriend was that creature but if you think she's worth pursuing, break your schedule to have her. Chances are she was waiting for you before. The ultimate sh*t test is "Will he come for me?" It's long game: what do you want, ultimately?
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:19 PM
1

Dude, you should've banged her when she started talking sex, since you have real interest. You missed your window: women prefer relationships v. the solitary existence men enjoy. When she's suddenly saying 'GO!' you can't hesitate. Go. Fornicate. Unless she's an 8+, I'd move on: because she knows she can friend-zone you at will. You've been very nice, though.
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:59 PM
-4

Asking for the a** is flirty. Asking for a number of anything less is FNG-level. If she's an 8+, the phone book is asking for her details. Ask for a date/sex so she knows you aren't some nerd trying to build a portfolio. But. I mean --- get her Instagram, buddy. Then imagine who she's with tonight.
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:52 PM
2

My Tip: I approach with "FAIL" mentality. Crash and Burn ethic. "She's going 2 say no. Okay, whatever." Success rate is way over 50%! Just go. You'd be surprised how often you get her.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:53 AM
2

Confidence like that is key.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:49 AM
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