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Men didn’t sign up for the responsibility either, and men don’t know which women are interested or not until they approach, unfortunately someone needs to approach if a relationship is to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:16 PM
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The only other thing i would say then is stop looking like a nerd, dress in good well fitting clothes, even if u don’t want to, if you don’t have wide shoulders already then go to gym and focus on wide shoulders, get a good haircut, for your voice train ur neck it might make ur voice deeper, hold eye contact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:05 PM
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U know I’m talking more about communication than an indication of character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:35 PM
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They date the minority of women but somehow never seem to be lacking in women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:32 PM
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I had primary and secondary friends who I played in the playground with and played video games with but after I quit video games and moved schools to college we drifted away, luckily I was able to make a good social circle at sixth form with people with more similar personalities who are likely to be my friends for life if not a long time. Not being able to compete in sports due to coordination issues kept me behind icl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:26 PM
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Cause the dynamics are that men approach and chase women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:21 PM
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How do you make yourself interested in people if u naturally aren’t. Cause I tried and I haven’t got far
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:20 PM
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It would seem irresponsible in the past but in todays age it is easier to end up isolated so I think the rules have changed so people should be putting active work into their social life by orientating things like their career
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:18 PM
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Not even just attempting to make women, attempting to make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:15 PM
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People are not accepting of every new person, just new people who are like them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:11 PM
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For example immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 PM
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If u have anxiety take cbd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:06 PM
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If they have something in common
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:06 PM
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so do you not think it is possible for 2 socio-economic groups who tend to go to different schools, live in different areas, have different jobs to have differences in social norms? what do you think about some working class people struggling to fit in in middle class workplaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:53 PM
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what do you mean by positive outcomes? the thing is your not going to be interested as a person in all the women you approach tho, im not the type of person that is generally interested in people and i found its way easier to approach women when i actually find them interesting compared to just attractive, it doesnt even feel like i am trying, but unfortunately this is a very rare occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:23 PM
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this largely depends on the culture/environment you are in as well, there are many places and demographics where the women are open to cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:13 PM
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i have seen it but usually the guy was moving too thirsty, it was entirely the guys fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:11 PM
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its a balancing act, you still need to try hard enough to make things happen as the guy, it also depends on the women, some are more proactive while others expect the guy to be proactive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:09 PM
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Not necessarily, I’m working class been around working and middle class people and I like how working class people are more brutally honest whilst I always felt middle class people were overly fake nice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:47 PM
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Sex is necessary for well being unless ur asexual or a monk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:44 PM
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as i said there are places but im too young, if i go there, and i do go to some of this places, i wont find people my age except in cinema or shops, also my city is too expensive for young people to be going out much anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:08 PM
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depends where you are im young, 20, so no young women at my gym or cafe, most people where i live are 25-40, they move here after uni
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:51 PM
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its not hard if your approaching women just to make small talk, if your goal is to get results date/hookup then it is hard because thats when you have to really think about how you make her feel and where you are taking the conversation to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:48 PM
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its talking about the reason you approached the women in the first place, probably easier to come from a more honest place, talking about the weather is an easy way to dead the conversation before its even taken off, i dont care about women's fashion so any compliment there is gonna be hard to make, my go to is usually asking where shes from, then what she does for fun, and if she doesnt do anything interesting ill pivot to my hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:58 AM
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statistically 50% of guys will be below average, how do they develop that mega-captivating personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:44 AM
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not every guy is able to attend co-ed hangouts where they can meet some new people regularly, as an introvert i still prefer clubs since you can play the numbers game and try for many girls, and the club is always open, a lot of the parties i go to are dissappointing, theres always more single guys than single girls, a lot of the introverted girls are not interested in dating or men or are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:42 AM
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the reason why guys talk about the women's body since it is a topic that is not immediately boring, it is hard to come up with a good topic to talk to a someone you dont know about that is interesting while not being too unusual or niche of a topic, unless you are naturally good at that or have practice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:35 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:21 PM
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life is tough then, im from a western coutnry but my parents are immigrants, they never drank much and a lot of my friends are muslim so they dont drink, or they are health conscious people like me but ill have to make this sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:46 PM
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how is telling people they arent decent people because they have issues help them solve their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:16 PM
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if you are a guy who struggles to get into a relationship you dont deserve it because you must have a moral deficit, however women seem to also not be perfect themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:12 PM
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that doesnt really reduce the gravity of your statement in anyway if you think about it, this sentiment being held by society is why it is no suprise that people are depressed and offing themselves cause they cant get a relationship if you put yourself in their shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:03 PM
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im not normal if i dont wanna drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:00 PM
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theres a difference in being trying to be happy alone and trying to be happy when you believe you will forever be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:59 PM
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i think guys have to get the balance right because yes while that is a cunt move, a lot of women want guys to take it slowly to get to know her before she commits to dates, thats why guys take it slowly as well, especially young guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:27 PM
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i know female friends who told me they were cold approached and said it was creepy, but they are literally like "He asked me whats my name and do you wanna get drinks", they dont talk about anything the guy does to be considered creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:22 PM
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this is why i have started drinking even though i enjoy nights better when i dont drinks, its almost like im forced to drink cause women do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:03 PM
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bro if a guy was typing the sort of stuff you were typing people will be like "this is why u cant get sex/relationship, your a bad person, go therapy"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:58 PM
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"if it was a decent person, he/she would have had a relationship by now"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:40 PM
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if it was a decent person, he/she would have had a relationship by now then people ask why people place so much value into being in relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:39 PM
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being a virgin isnt a big deal ... if you are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:37 PM
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" if men en masse stopped asking women out" is like saying "if everyone stopped using non-electric cars and turned vegetarian climate change would be solved", you cant suggest an idealistic solution to a real problem. also without romance life is empty for a lot of people, even if the rest of your life is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:37 PM
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A starving person cannot choose what they eat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:15 PM
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im talking real life not tv shows, growing up u knew it was always the attractive guys getting girls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:14 AM
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im not arguing that holding more power means there is prejudice, i am arguing that prejudice towards men is possible and can be seen in certain places where people have the power to get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:14 AM
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great looks can also take people far, and from a young age guys see other guys with great looks getting far
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:08 AM
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it would work for men thats why
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:00 AM
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it doesnt only happen to women, its happened to me as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:57 AM
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if u want to solve this u need to reverse sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:52 AM
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u should blame sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:50 AM
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so you think guys are unhappy with you but ur projecting the unhappiness u have with yourself, this is a psycological issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:45 AM
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there are spaces where women hold more power
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:40 AM
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it shows that the dating scene is skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:38 AM
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u dont need oppression tho, you just need women to hold more power in certain spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:34 AM
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maybe thats just the guys you choose to surrouund yourself with, also u dont know what people say behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:29 AM
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not only asking someone out, but progressing the relationship by creating romantic and sexual attraction is a one sided job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:24 AM
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Idk how any of this is considered effort, building a relationship with someone u enjoy spending time with is not effort, women spend time on their appearances anyway whether they are trying to attract someone or not, the socialising point is valid but if guys are making all the moves idk how women are putting in any effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:33 PM
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What effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:14 PM
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Lizzo is not really a normal women and she would still probably get something in a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:06 PM
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all these awkward and insecure girls actively avoid being around men so they can never be approached, they have never tried making themselves available they are too shy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:04 PM
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I think op should have worded his title as “how u approach” then “what you do”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:02 PM
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Academic accomplishments have no social status or attraction benefits these days
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:00 PM
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They don’t need to, u just want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:47 AM
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Nah some women are shy and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:40 AM
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Survivors bias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:31 AM
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Most young women aren’t ugly, if u ain’t ugly your getting asked out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:24 AM
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If a women is bald she can wear wig as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:22 AM
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In those times men were more valuable cause they could do physical labour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:21 AM
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Yes I think it’s the bare minimum that’s why saying workout is not good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:19 AM
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I’m at uni and a lot of the girls in my circle saying they don’t want boyfriends cause it will distract them. Most of them are single but get asked out. And the sex part is obvious since any women can get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:41 PM
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Not 10 women but multiple women, and some people have time not everyone has 9-5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:37 PM
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toxic guys date all women, thats how women turn into victims of abuse, and you'll be hard pressed to find a young guy these days that doesnt go gym, i am saying this as someone who bangs gym, it barely means anything these days cause everyone is doing it the competition is high
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:19 PM
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if the women dont have compatible partners but then the men also does not have compatible partners, only difference is that the burden is on the man to become compatible to the women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:15 PM
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depends on your age and background
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:04 PM
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you can live at your parents or off social benefits, depending on the country ur from, then you can do what u want rather than live an empty life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:58 PM
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natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:52 PM
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the only thing guys have it easier with is noses, guys can have any nose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:51 PM
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men are unadapted for the modern world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:50 PM
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men are attracted to her because she is attractive, not necessarily because shes posting thist traps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:49 PM
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they are mostly choosing not to have sex tho, and choosing to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:42 PM
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lack of intimacy is different to lack of money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:41 PM
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but if a guy is not successful at dating it is his fault
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:37 PM
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its more like if you meet this criteria you are guaranteed success
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:31 PM
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theres no alternative advice that works these days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:30 PM
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guys date girls like this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:23 PM
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every guy works out these days and many toxic guys have no trouble dating, so this is flimsy advice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:21 PM
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i know guys like that and the guys who are able to date multiple women have to be the opposite of losers to pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:18 PM
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women rather be single than date a man who struggles or did struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:17 PM
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if he thinks ur beautiful with the product hes gonna think ur beautiful without the product
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:13 PM
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no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:11 PM
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