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Just had a 5.5 hour "nap" on the couch. It's 1am and I am wide awake. Completely fucked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:49 PM
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My best mate is married to my ex's best mate. They hate her, even though me and her are friends and did not end on bad terms. It's... complex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:41 PM
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Depends where you live, I guess. Places where women automatically get allocated a portion of the man's net worth - you're fucked. Other places - not so big a deal. I recommend not living in the former, but also recognise that some don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:04 PM
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I wouldn't go that far. I view marriage much the same as women do: while it works, it works. If it no longer serves you, then leave it. Not a huge deal. We're not living in nineteen canteen anymore - ending a marriage isn't some huge sacrilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:58 PM
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Hope you're doing alright bruv 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:57 PM
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If she can't handle me at my falling whilst drunk in the shower, she doesn't deserve me at my falling whilst drunk down the stairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:54 PM
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Ah, right. I thought you meant "normal" fat i.e. BMI around 30. If we're talking BMI 40+ then no, that's freakish. He'll be perceived worse every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:23 PM
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The first, but only because of "smelly". Bad hygiene trumps all. If it was fat/slovenly but with height/good face, he'd be perceived in a more positive light than the short/ugly fellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:17 PM
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Q4A: For the men: You meet a woman and hit it off. In the early stages of dating, you find out that her most recent ex was a married man. She knew he was married when they got together, and she was essentially his sidepiece. Initially, she did not care that he was married. But as things progressed, she developed feelings for him. When he refused to leave his wife, she ended things. Would you continue seeing this woman? For the women: If the man in this scenario was your friend/brother, what woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:32 AM
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A lot during the week when I'm bored at work - maybe 1 or 2 hours a day. Hardly any time at the weekend - 15 minutes a day maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:57 PM
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When women leave a little dribble of liquid in the bottom of cans, and then the good man throws the can in the recycling bin without checking, and then the good man's recycling bin has sticky cola bin juice at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:35 PM
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Dunno if that's anything to be envious of. I don't think our partner pickers are very well attuned when we're that young. If I was forced to be married to any of the women I was with in my early 20s, I'd likely have topped myself by now. Just hang in there and have fun for now. Plenty of time to settle down later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:25 PM
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Married. It's about a 50/50 split between in relationship and single on here, afaik.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:13 PM
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0 seconds. If it's not easy at the start, it will never be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:22 PM
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Roses are useless while hotdogs taste good. Becky is winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:21 PM
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It actually might do the opposite. From what I gather from what you've said they dislike you because you're sneaky and circumspect. This is a show of trust, honesty, loyalty to your man. They might balk at first, but imo this is a good opportunity for image rehab.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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In the interest of transparency, might be a good idea to show him. When I started seeing my wife, a woman I had been with previously started sending her some mental messages on her social media pages. I think I'd have been quite miffed if she hadn't shown me them. Hiding things just causes drama in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:23 PM
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No gym for face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:01 PM
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Don't leave us hanging. What did it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:00 PM
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I personally couldn't give a fuck what she does once I'm dead. I'm worm food - doesn't matter to me any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:55 PM
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I don’t know a single man (that isn’t gay) that isn’t obsessed with like cars and football, cause all their friends are too. There’s also a disturbing amount of men with the exact same humour that only consists of slurs and rape jokes. Wow. Off-topic, but reading this is absolutely wild to me. Obviously I've met guys like that, but they're few and far between, and usually marginalised or isolated weirdos whom no one wants to be around. Sometimes reading Reddit makes you realise how different you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:28 AM
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Many here don't interact with people who look like that IRL. Instead, they base their opinions on stereotypes they've acquired from the media they consume. Which are, of course, overwhelmingly negative. It's just another symptom of the average Redditor's insularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:58 PM
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Nah, this isn't a gendered thing. I've known lots of women who can't live on their budget, and are bitter about it. People in general are pretty terrible at managing their finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:02 PM
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Where's the app that does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:56 PM
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That's me. Take the Thatcherpill. Send 'em down the coal mines, or to the Falklands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:54 PM
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That's a strange way to describe mutual flirting. But if that's how you view the regular back and forth of a blossoming romance - then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:12 PM
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Tbf it's very common. But it's (obviously) not something that all women desire or look for. To insist they do is some kind of borderline fetish masochism, or self-flagellation. In my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:54 PM
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Nah, I totally disagree. A woman sitting there like a cabbage is a total turnoff. I'd have interpreted that as disinterest. Need a bit of push and pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:52 PM
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How did I miss that part! 😂 It all moves so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:28 PM
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He said he wasn't sure if he could trust her with committment yet, so she fucked another dude, they had a big blowout then made up and went away on holiday together for a few weeks. They're engaged now and eloping in secret in a month or so, I believe. None of their friends and family know. It's the second wildest drama on PPD right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:16 PM
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If that's what you want to do, then go for it. No point resisting your own impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 PM
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She's conflating two different issues, which is where the confusion is arising. By "rape kids for a living", she's talking about organised grooming gangs in the UK. Sentencing of these individuals is lax because it's a cultural/racial minefield that the authorities would rather avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:51 PM
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It's because you're fundamentally broken inside. Some people just are. What's happened now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:40 PM
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That's the problem with the globalised nature of online dating discussion. Third world ideas permeate the discourse, and then inexperienced and naive westerners who have lived their entire lives online adopt those ideas as their own, because they think it's the norm. See also: current beta buxxing moral panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:02 PM
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Do you think he does Twilight binge watches in the oval office?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:48 PM
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I can think of one, but he's in to muscular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:44 PM
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That's the spirit. Back on the horse!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:38 PM
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What's the plan now? Back to the drawing board (r4r)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:36 PM
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Do what you want, man. It's your life. Don't need anyone's permission or approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:45 AM
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Most of the commenters were not in the western world. Where's the .gif of Jose Mourinho saying "if I speak, I'm in big trouble."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:11 AM
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Tbh that's remedied quite simply too - either don't live in a country where your spouse can seize your assets, get a prenup, or... both! Or neither. No one is obligated to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:00 PM
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We're licking piss when we do down on them too. There's no last laugh here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:59 PM
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It's weird to put arbitrary time limits on these things. Especially one so short as 2 years. And I say this as someone who proposed after 18 months. I think everyone should be free to do what they want, but if the relationship was a good one then I reckon there's a high chance that she'll come to regret it in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:40 PM
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I prefer fluidity between the roles. My wife would probably be seen as "masculine" by those on here - she runs her own business, is outspoken, strong willpower etc. But at home she (and these are her words, not mine) "turns her brain off" and relies on me to take care of her. She's certainly capable of making decisions and caring for herself, but prefers the experience of being (incoming cringe) "babied" in private. This is the preferred situation for me too. I respect how bold and focused (masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:30 PM
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Oooft yeah stick with Nespresso in that case!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:19 PM
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The good thing is: no one has a gun to your head making you do this. It's your life, so spend it however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:09 PM
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We had the same dilemma and eventually got an espresso machine by Salter. It makes good espresso and has the steamer thing for other coffees too. Sturdy - mostly metal rather than plastic. And won't break the bank. If you have that brand where you are, I recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:08 PM
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Looks like he chose the budget model and outfitted it with the "wine mum book club 2021 estate car on school run" skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:07 PM
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Ah, right. India. Got it. Never mind then. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:01 PM
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Right, but a young adult waiting to inherit his family's wealth is generally seen as a bit pathetic by women. Gotta do something for yourself in the meantime. Because what you're describing right now (unless I'm missing something) is a recipe for: easy time with women 18-22, hard time with women 23-40, easy time with women 40+ when you fully inherit. I'm only giving advice as someone a good bit older. "I am the idiot son" tends not to work with women past a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:53 PM
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In that case, my opinion is that while you're young you should use your parents' money to have as much sex as possible without worrying about it being "special". Because in 3-4 years, "mum and dad are rich" will no longer be attractive to women. So use it while you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:41 PM
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How are you rich at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:33 PM
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He's 29 and she's 25, for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:19 PM
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I think you get off on the power more than you admit tbh. Because cumming in prozzies is probably much cheaper and less time consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:36 PM
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Does this make you feel powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:31 PM
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Were you always like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:31 PM
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Yours won't. Or rather, he'll get over it quickly. And it'll make things more exciting for you. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:48 PM
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Husbands of decent wives wouldn't need to freak out in the first place, but I guess that ship has sailed long ago. You're already living in the mud, so might as well make mud pies. At the very least, it will be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:36 PM
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100% do it. Husband will love that. Then fuck the colleague regardless of how he reacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:31 PM
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Maybe if you show him some of the sexts he'll understand better. Might even bring you guys closer together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:26 PM
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When I met my missus she had taken in a friend who was fleeing an abusive relationship. This woman smoked constantly, every day. One joint for every hour she was awake, pretty much. Couldn't get a job because it would cut in to weed time, and couldn't be be arsed to do anything including feeding herself or washing. Would get insanely grumpy and fly in to rages if she couldn't get a hold of green. Can't tell me that's not addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:15 PM
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I reckon so!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:33 PM
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Always goth, alt, rockabilly type women. Childhood crushes included Faith from Buffy, Dita Von Teese, and Fairuza Balk in The Waterboy. Straight fringe with black/ginger hair has always been my weakness. Tried broadening my horizons a few times throughout my life, but it never truly worked out. I guess I am "typesexual".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:20 PM
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Happy birthday Hannah 🐰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:49 PM
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Not turned on, no. Not for me, at least. Others may be different. Turned on = sexually aroused. A woman could be a total bastard, but hot. But if we're talking about pursuing a relationship or falling in love? Yeah, absolutely. Kindness is one of the things that can make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:34 PM
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What type is he? And what type is the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:13 PM
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Tell the affair guy that you wish he looked more like your husband. For a laugh. It'll fuck with his mind. Increase the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:06 PM
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Agreed. There has to be more to it to get no attention whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:35 PM
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100% agree. 200lbs is BIG.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:22 PM
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Yeah, it's not about being incapable of drawing male attention - she definitely could find someone. It's just going to be more difficult for her to do so than a woman who is 5'5" and 140lbs. Hence why she's writing to agony aunts for help, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:21 PM
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0 dedicated lesbian bars where I live. Kinda shocked at that tbh, as it's widely considered one of the most gay-friendly countries in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:09 PM
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This may be a male gaze/female gaze difference, but Ashley Graham's body is not attractive to me at all. And 5'11" is generally not considered to be an ideal height for a woman, regardless of weight. However, you are correct - having a large build is not necessarily a death sentence. Large women find partners all the time. Same for tall women. I'm sure there will be other factors at play. Unfortunately, without a picture there's no real way to tell, as far as that is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:53 AM
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That's still very, very large. A female powerlifter at that weight would be considered at the upper end of the super heavyweight class. If you look at the women in this weight category, their bodies are quite far from the stereotypical feminine ideal. It's obviously going to be harder for someone built like that to attract a partner. And that's if we believe her to be extremely fit at that weight...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:32 AM
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5'11" and 195lbs. There's your problem right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:21 AM
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What people are doing now doesn't change the music of the bands I like though. The genres I listen to were most active from the late 70s through to early 90s. Iggy Pop's music is still gonna be Iggy Pop's music regardless of whatever your modern they/them Starbucks barista "punks" are up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:22 AM
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Absolutely not. Full of middle class left wing wet wipes these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 AM
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Hardcore punk, post-punk, and new wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:00 AM
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Good for you, man. This is the way I have always done it and it worked out great for me. Rules are meant to be broken. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:59 PM
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I couldn't really say man. That's not really my type. They might be different - I don't really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:57 PM
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Ahhh, right. I'd call those "highbrow" hobbies rather than "nerdy", personally. And yes, they're very attractive imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:46 PM
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You'd better do something to make it more dramatic, and quick! People are losing interest already. This was a nothingburger update. We want Jerry Springer stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:14 PM
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Ah, right. Time to get on Tinder and start up the second affair in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:11 PM
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Hope you're good, RS. Stay safe, and all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:01 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:58 PM
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You're definitely going to divorce. Just get the prenup so both of you are safe. It takes no time at all to draw up, and takes all worries off the table for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:52 PM
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So a few weeks ago when he was hesitant to commit based on your past actions, you "punished" him by sleeping with someone else. Given such a recent history of instability and emotional decision making, don't you think it might be prudential to have a prenup put in place in the event that the marriage goes south and you decide to "punish" him by going after his family's assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:25 PM
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Questions about the financial side of the marriage: If I remember correctly, you live off familial wealth and he is in training to become a doctor, is that correct? So are you going to get a prenup drawn up before the elopement?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:03 PM
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Might as well escalate to physical consummation ASAP. Got nothing to lose, so go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:35 AM
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Hahahaha what the fuck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:51 AM
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Best of luck man, sounds like you're moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:35 AM
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Fair enough! Did you and your gf finally split up then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:27 AM
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Congratulations. How did it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:20 AM
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Ngl it is quite funny. But when the novelty wears off, it gives Indian call centre scammer vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:11 AM
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From what I saw, it's incredibly basic stuff. "Wyd" then the chat turns sexual. Essentially it's lowkey sexting, but she asks for donations whenever they escalate the intensity. A relationship was not on the cards for me, personally. But I'm sure loads of people would not have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:59 AM
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Big turn on. Intelligence is great. Although nerdy hobbies maybe not so much. Wouldn't fuck with a woman who likes anime, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:38 AM
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Answering for when I was single: 1) About 5%. 2) 100%. Never been rejected or declined. 3) Based on the above (not a massive attraction rate but excellent success rate), I'd say extremely well. 4) They make it super obvious. Go out of their way to be around you, touch you, laugh at everything you say, stand close to you, stare at you. There's just an overall vibe of positivity and interest in you, plus constant attempts to be physically close to you. It's pretty unmistakeable, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:35 AM
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I used to see someone who did it. Just solo content at the time, but she has progressed to hardcore these days. Which is madness in my eyes, but each to their own I suppose. The problem is the chatting with the subs, not the nudie pictures and vids. With OF you have to engage with your fanbase, because the dudes are paying for the parasocial pseudo-girlfriend experience. If you actually want a relationship with someone, this would likely become an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:29 AM
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Nah. What's done is done. I can't control him or her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:21 AM
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If you're happy, you're happy. And that's great. I have my own fucked up ingrained perceptions and work ethic attitudes to contend with, which have clearly shaped my views on things like this in favour of the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:48 PM
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I knew you wouldn't be. You always keep it real 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:30 PM
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I'm going to be honest, but I don't want you to take it in an unkind way. Because I don't mean it like that in the slightest - it's just my opinion: I don't count "hobby jobs" are real work. Again, just me personally. No one needs to agree. In fact, feel free to think I'm an idiot for holding that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:27 PM
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You're ill so you get a pass. Everyone else needs to graft though, in my view. I'm very much a "bootstrap" type person. But as I said - no one needs to justify themselves to me. This is just my own personal standards, and I barely expect anyone else to understand, never mind agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:19 PM
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I'm definitely not the target demographic for this question since I'm a man and don't enjoy the "trad" dynamic. But may I speculate how I'd feel if I was in that situation? Personally, I think I'd struggle to maintain respect for the partner if they were a provider through inheritance anyway. It's just the antithesis of everything I believe in. I think inheritance/familial wealth is great - but I also think that it should be used to give future generations a leg up to develop and expand their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:12 PM
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I mean you definitely can keep the matches on! No real need to unmatch. I just felt it was a bit cluttered and pointless to do so. Didn't see any reason to keep someone on my match list if, realistically, I wasn't going to talk to/pursue anything with them. Plenty people do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:07 PM
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Mostly good, in my opinion. The only thing that raises any further discussion, for me personally, is the "providing for" stuff. I come from a place where it is common for women to work, have careers, ambitions, their own money etc. So the "man as provider" thing isn't as big of an institution here, and kinda has connotations of financial dependence (which is not viewed positively). Each to their own though. If that's what you're looking for, then go for it. There are tons of people who like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:40 PM
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Here's how I did it: Age - superfluous because the app only shows you people within the age range you've set, so that'll automatically be fine. Swipe based on looks judged by the first one, two, maybe three at a push pictures. Once matched, have a deeper look at the profile. Height - women tend not to put their height down anyway, so 90% of the time that field is blank. Education/line of work - again, women tend not to fill out this information on their profiles. Something you have to talk to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:29 PM
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Yeah they defo do. But surely people can differentiate between a girl who is newly 18 and a woman in her late 20s/early 30s? Bit of rudimentary critical thinking needs to be applied there, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:53 PM
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Not shitting on your theory - because your opinion is your opinion - but my experience has been the opposite. "Older" women generally don't have any issues with our age gap. 8 years is "so what????" to them. It's the teenage blue haired club that have the biggest problem with it. "I've just turned 19 and I'm going to lecture you on how the world works" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:18 PM
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Not a normal physiological response to staying up a bit later than normal, especially at 7pm. With respect and kindness, I suggest a trip to the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:55 AM
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You're 100% spot on with that. It's only the bored and terminally online who make a fuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:30 AM
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35 and 27. Is that #problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:14 AM
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The whole debacle epitomises "money can't buy taste".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:09 AM
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This is the actions of someone with a very sad and lonely life, in my opinion. It's even worse because none of her "friends" in attendance told her how embarrassing this is. A public humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:05 AM
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Fuck her, obviously. She's capable of making her own decisions in life. Friend can toughen up and get over it. It would never work out with him if she preferred me anyway, so imo there's no point in being polite about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:47 AM
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They're really weird about it. I'm 39 and my wife is 31. On my old account I once had an American woman losing her shit at me because "what does a grown assman of 39 have in common with a literal child" etc etc. I'm being hyperbolic with the "literal child" line, but you know the sort of stuff that was being said. Power dynamic, her brain has only just developed, manipulation, abuse. All that bollocks. It's bizarre. If you told an adult woman IRL that she's too young to consent, she'd probably l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:40 AM
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Nope. In fact, I don't think I've ever met a "whole" or "healed" person in my entire life. Everyone's got their issues. It's how the individual deals with them that matters more, imo. For us: I have OCD. I've kept it under control with therapy and medication for my entire life. It's very manageable, but it's never going to go away. And my wife has ADHD. Again, not something that's ever going to magically go away. But despite both being "unhealed" of these issues, we've managed to have a remarkab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:24 AM
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...80% of 21 is exactly 16.8. Rounds to 17. One of those comments where you should have Googled before typing, eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:17 AM
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Yes, I suppose it's a risk. But that's the way I'd play it, I think. I prefer taking the chance to win big over playing it safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:39 PM
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My preferred analogy is blackjack. Only an idiot hits on a hand of 20, even although hitting at 20 is technically "settling" because it's not a perfect hand. 80% is like hitting on a hand of 16/17, I guess. I'd probably hit with that hand. So yes, I'd view 80% as an unacceptable compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:05 PM
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Hmmmm, I dunno. I thought American laws were pretty much: if you pull a gun, you have to be justified in using it? I just don't think even the threat of lethality is warranted here. Knocking the guy out? Absolutely. But it's not something anyone should lose their life over, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:45 PM
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Hard for me to say when guns aren't a thing where I'm from. Killing over this seems too severe, to me. My forehead connecting with the bridge of his nose? Justified. Although wtf is the wife doing letting it get that far in the first place? Relationship is on the rocks anyway imo if that is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:38 PM
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Ah, so gay men are good men. You're going to summon RedSand if you keep talking like this!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:47 PM
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There must be some objective way to judge it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:36 PM
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How does one know whether they are a good man or a bad man? What are the metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:30 PM
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As a baseline, people here are quite horrible. There are some decent folk, but it's mainly a place for hurt people to scream in to the ether, and for the thick-skinned to popcorn munch at their antics. There are probably better subs for actual support. I haven't ever saw anyone "get better", or even improve in any tangible way, on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah, that's going to be difficult. Only solution is to push yourself out of your comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:58 PM
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When you say introverted, do you mean "low capacity social battery" or do you mean "shy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:49 PM
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That's interesting. If you could choose, where would you ideal life partner be from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:48 PM
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My wife is similar to this, I'd say. Driven, goal-oriented, emotionally stable, trains in a combat sport. Not as extreme as the hypothetical example he's given, but at least halfway there. She's the only person I've ever met in life whom I genuinely respect. I like a bit of masculinity in a woman, provided its also tempered with a softer side.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:46 PM
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Fair enough - comes with the territory, I suppose. Do you think all this "practicing" on women from SEA might help you acquire a decent partner from your homeland in future, if you return there?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:38 PM
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What's the longterm plan then, once you've sampled all the venereal diseases that these countries have to offer? Will you marry one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:25 PM
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I'd work a lot more, and spend a lot more. I'd spend recklessly, and allow myself to be a full blown alcoholic. First big expense would be to start collecting and riding motorcycles again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:01 PM
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You're already broken beyond repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:12 PM
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Gotcha. Might as well start another then! Go hog wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:05 PM
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I see, I see. This your first affair, or are you a veteran?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:59 PM
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So, I remember you saying that when your husband found out about your affair, you told him that it was a result of him not putting in enough effort. He agreed to put in more effort, and if I recall correctly, you said that he did. Taking you out on dates, being romantic towards you etc. Is that still the case? Or has his effort slipped? Trying to figure out the reason for you soft contemplating a second affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:47 PM
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Yeah, I sympathise. It's gotta be difficult for women wanting to break in to the trades. When I was looking up the stats there (2-3% female workforce across the trades), I saw an article written by a female plumber about the prejudice and assumptions with which she has to contend. It's shit. No doubt it's an uphill battle, but at the same time we've normalised sex work before we've normalised having a female spark or roofer. Isn't that a bit fucked up? Surely I'm not the only one who sees how re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:40 AM
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True, but I looked up the stats for the country in which I live and it's still fairly woeful. 2-3% across the trades. These are good jobs, well paid. No reason more women shouldn't become qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:19 AM
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Women are disproportionally unrepresented in the trades, yes. It's always struck me as a strange gap in feminism that there hasn't been a bigger push for women to become trained in skilled manual labour jobs. Can't help feel that this post is lowkey pornbrained though. Very few tradesmen are going to want sex from a strange woman as payment. These men have wives and families. They're just going to sue her for non-payment, if it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:43 AM
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Yes, understandable!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:12 AM
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Oh shit, I'm an idiot. I slept terribly last night and read that entirely wrong due to tiredness. No, never. I'd consider that to be a bit weird tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:04 AM
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Hahaha, I'm not being sarcastic. Answering genuinely. Oral then kissing during the actual sex is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:50 AM
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Hundreds of times, maybe thousands. Very normal to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:35 AM
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I'm not saying that every bad experience I had in a relationship was related to intelligence/education. I am saying that I have had specific bad experiences related to differing levels of intelligence/education in prior relationships, and wished to avoid repeating history. For example, the woman I was seeing at the start of COVID relayed to me how her hairdresser had figured out that the virus was caused by 5G towers. When I said that I didn't think a hairdresser was medically qualified, she sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:58 AM
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Two extreme fringe positions as a starter, with the intent for people to explore the grey in between those parameters. I was trying not to handhold the discussion!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:27 AM
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License to be in bed at 8pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:54 PM
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A lot of it is cut with fentanyl these days, but no "true" opiates as they're too expensive. Most common here is talcum powder, which is supposedly mega carcinogenic anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:53 PM
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Nah, Scotland. Opposite ends of the world, but similar cultures I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:59 PM
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I totally agree. But the discussions about it are fun to read, so y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:21 PM
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Hahah, it is actually such a big problem here among young people! I live in a country that is the number one consumer of cocaine outside of Colombia. It's basically the trendy drug to do here. It's so bad, and only got worse since I was dating. Because our drug laws are very lax, it's really not seen as a big deal at all. People get bags as readily as they drink alcohol - in fact, the two go hand in hand. Last work Xmas party I was at, I was the only one not on the nosebeers. Which is ridiculous…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:17 PM
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Of course. And I have a hidden agenda here, as I said to L&L during his meltdown, and that is: I believe that posters here are prone to polarised, black and white thinking. Imo, the grey areas are where the interesting discussions take place. The thread usually forms in to two extreme camps of "any concern about BC is unacceptable", and "virgin or bust". Which are both unrealistic stances. I'm curious to see how willing people are to examine their own positions and wade in to the grey. Because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:49 PM
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100% true. But that gives some credence to the idea that there is some correlation between underlying issues and extreme behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:01 PM
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Yep, this is the grey area that my question is intended to explore. Even for me nearing 40, there are only 2 people I know who have this amount of bodies - one is a sex addict whose wife dumped him for seeing escorts during her pregnancy, and one is a literal porn actress. It's a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:47 PM
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Completely agree tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:37 PM
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Sure. Bad experiences dating women who didn't have a tertiary level of education. And yes, I know having a degree or having been to university doesn't necessarily make a person smart. But it's a good guideline when you're looking for the ballpark of "people who have had roughly similar experiences in life as your own".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:20 PM
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alcoholics Gen Z becoming based? Love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:15 PM
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Not many. Maybe back in the day when RP was an offshoot of PUA - yes, there's a case for it. But modern RP guys are just autists silently lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:14 PM
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I am married, so can I share my list of what I was looking for when I was dating with the intent of marriage instead? I actually wrote them down in a Whatsapp note at the time. Attractive. Fit. Between 26-32 years old. Loyal. Nice. Undergraduate degree minimum. Doesn't live with parents (preferably homeowner). Has a job she cares about. Doesn't have or want kids. Likes cats. Doesn't do cocaine. Doesn't mind me drinking socially. Doesn't mind that I have a munewari/doesn't want me to stop getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:10 PM
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I'll be honest, I didn't fully read everything you said because I'm not really interested in the big essay - more focused on seeing how black and white/lacking nuance the opinions of people from both sides of this "issue" are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:02 PM
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I get you, and I mostly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:28 PM
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I disagree that the average person is quite as fearless as you purport to be though. I'm significantly more of a risk-taker than almost everyone I know, but your stance is extreme even to me. So to sum up your viewpoint: for you, there is absolutely no number of prior partners that would give you concern for a person's future fidelity - is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:27 PM
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I guess I don't subscribe to the idea that ALL insecurities are negative/indicators of poor character/whatever. I think insecurity has its place, as long as it is tempered with a healthy dose of reality. It's not all or nothing, for me. There's a very big difference in my mind between someone who has had 50 partners, and someone who has had 500. That may be insecurity - granted - but personally I don't view it as an unreasonable one. I'm interested in where each individual draws the line with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:08 PM
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I imagine in most cases it's a fidelity concern. I personally find it ridiculous if someone thinks a partner count within the normal range is a red flag for infidelity. But on the other hand, I wouldn't blame anyone for thinking that someone with a body count of 400 might find it difficult to stay faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:55 PM
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This may be news to you, but some women actually have autonomy and goals of their own, and those may not align with yours, or those of the mainstream. Her attitude to life was "I'm here for a good time, not a long time" and she made that very clear from the start, so I doubt she wanted or expected commitment from me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:38 PM
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Q4A: Do you think there's a reasonable middle ground to body count concern, or is ANY concern over body count deemed to be unacceptable/unattractive/insecure? For example, would the man who takes pause upon finding out that his partner's body count is in the triple digits be viewed just as unfavourably as the man who demands virginity or nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:27 PM
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If my wife died and the salary, lifestyle, and opportunity to acquire massive amounts of power was really good then I'd definitely consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:04 PM
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I do not support sex work, including OF. I think it creates a culture of addiction, disrespect, and objectification. And I cannot support that. I am a bit of a hypocrite as I did date an OF model a few years ago, however I neither expected nor wanted committment from her. We had a nice time together, but that's as far as it could go. Ultimately I was more of a relationship/marriage minded person, and I could not see myself taking it to the next level with her. And yes, that was because of the OF…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:59 PM
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Valid as fuck, I'm perpetually in the same boat. My mates of 20 years don't even reply when I suggest going for a pint in the group chat. Then they whine and complain that they never leave their houses or socialise. Figure that one out. I just go for the pint myself and talk to randoms. I suggest doing the same. It's fun. Men have been doing it for decades. I think it's our collective lot in life to reach the point where we get sick of doss cunts and just start doing shit on our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:27 AM
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What are you sad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:16 AM
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Hands down one of the stupidest things anyone has ever done, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:47 AM
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She sounds ideal. "Wild phase" gives a bit of pause for concern, but provided it was just normal stuff like going a bit overboard with the booze and staying out late (and not anything serious like prostitution, porn, gangbangs, drug use "worse" than coke, crime worse than simple assault or theft), it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:40 AM
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And I get down on my knees and thank God for it every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:33 PM
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You'll have a great time - Warsaw is such a clean and safe city. The cathedral with the crypt full of tombs is an amazing visit, as is Oskar Schindler's factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:37 PM
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Kraków, Warsaw, Gdansk, and Wrocław. Poland is the most beautiful country I've been to, and has the most beautiful women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:23 PM
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Just increased my body count by 2 🪵
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:05 PM
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That's hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:45 PM
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Hold on, hold on. Your ex catfished you; your (then) boyfriend found out about it; he split up with you. Am I understanding correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:41 PM
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What precipitated the breakup?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:34 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:25 PM
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You're Rosey Butterflies, right? I've been away - update me with the current lore please. Are you still with the boyfriend? Are you still sexting Holiday Investigator?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:24 PM
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In return you get: a bad attitude and a free subscription to her OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:51 PM
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The unannounced pop-in???? Psycho behaviour mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:14 PM
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Despite my minor aversion to these apps in general, that is very cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:31 PM
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For me: Used one with an ex because her job involved visiting people's homes. Her coworkers had some horrific experiences, so she was vigilant about always having a record of where she was and when. Other than that, I'm not a fan. I don't like the idea of being tracked myself, and wouldn't enjoy a relationship dynamic where I felt I had to monitor my partner's movements (with the exception of safety reasons, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:20 PM
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Q4A: What are your opinions on the use of phone tracking apps in relationships, and the people who use them. Smart? Insecure? Weird? Practical? Do you or have you used an app like this to monitor your partner's location? How would you react if your partner asked you to install such an app on your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:06 PM
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Michael Jacksonmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:26 PM
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Tbf, given what you've shared about your marriage, that low response rate is what I'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:55 PM
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Q4A: In the average (happy) relationship, how many bids for attention should be expected per day, per partner? Furthermore, how many of these bids should be accepted in order to maintain relationship satisfaction? 100, with a response rate of 90%? Or is 100 per day cloying? 10, with a response rate of 90%? Etc etc. Feel free to describe how it works in your relationship/your ideal relationship. Apologies for the super-clinical wording. Trying not to impart any of my own opinion in to the questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:07 PM
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All I think is that you've probably got heavy autism. That's as deep as it goes for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:22 AM
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If you need me to explain, you wouldn't understand anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:17 AM
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? What a bizarre thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:13 AM
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I identify as an attack helicopter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:59 AM
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I'm covered head to toe and I'm happily married. Whereas everyone on here is terrified of tattoos and is socially anxious/neurotic/depressed. So don't think this checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:54 AM
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Totally agree. There's no shame in it. If a relationship isn't serving you any more, there's no point staying in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:41 PM
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Seems a common attitude among the women on here. Not what I see from my female mates IRL, mind you. No judgement from me. If yer happy, yer happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:24 PM
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I agree with that too tbh. I'll rephrase: I didn't prioritise finding ANY relationship. I prioritised finding the right relationship. And I don't think that's a shameful thing. I'm a loverboy and it was important to me, so I set a goal and saw it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:18 PM
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In a way. I still had a good time dating in my early 20s when I was broke and near homeless, so it wasn't a dealbreaker. But money definitely makes everything in life easier. Can focus on dating better when you're not worrying about income.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:03 PM
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Different strokes for different folks, I guess. My friends are fine, but I'd feed them to a meat grinder for my wife, if I was forced to make choice. The connection we have doesn't compare. Family, for me... less said the better lol. Personally, my priorities/motivation in life are: caring for my cats > making my wife happy > paying off and maintaining my house > drinking tasty beers >>>>>>>>>> everything else. So I totally get romance being a primary life drive, as it is one of mine. Do you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:01 PM
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Always did well. Happily married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:49 PM
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Mixed messages on here man. I earn more than that and a few days ago another poster was telling me that I'm dirt poor... Don't really know what to say tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:47 PM
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~£70k to give them a comfortable upper-middle class upbringing, where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:35 PM
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Does your opinion change if "motivated by genitals" is altered to "motivated by love"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:30 PM
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Shite answer from me, but it totally depends on your lifestyle, goals, and how much time/effort you're willing to sacrifice. Everyone is happy at different levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:28 PM
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No disagreements from me there. People view things too black and white. Sticking on a hand of 20 in Blackjack is technically settling, but only an idiot would hit at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:13 PM
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I think that's a bit different though. I don't think that's true attraction. What you described is settling. Which I don't doubt some women do. But I think a fair amount genuinely get the fanny flutters for guys most others would say "...really?" about. Human taste is a strange thing. I've liked some weird looking women in my time. I think Anya Taylor-Joy looks hotter with the alien surgery, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:04 PM
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My looks could be described as 90s football hooligan crossed with Russian convict. But my wife sees me as a handsome Disney prince, despite the fact that people clutch their handbags close to their chests and lock their car doors when I'm around. So yeah, she's deluded and I'm not complaining. I'm an ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:04 PM
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Tbf I don't think the ones with husband goggles are the same ones who are in dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:46 PM
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I think it's cute. The fact that they're convinced their soyjack lookalike is celebrity level hot should be lifefuel for struggling doomers, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:41 PM
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I'm not discounting your experience man - that's frustrating. It's been the exact opposite for me. When I was single, I'd just go on Tinder and match/chat away. Some of those women turned out to be demons in human skin, some turned out to be great. I kept at it until I found one I could love. Easy peasy (from my POV). But with mates? Fuck me... when I was younger I used to be the life of the party, phone never stopped buzzing. These days I can't even get my pals to come to the football with me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:02 PM
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Fucking hell, where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:47 PM
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I think it was The Atlantic, yes! Good article, worth a read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:58 PM
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That's actually an area where I cut everyone some slack. It's really hard to make friends these days. I'd argue harder than finding love. I read an article about it recently - basically the death of the third space coupled with the rise of social media has fucked us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:49 PM
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To be fair I'm not saying every dude on here acts like this, but I've saw it enough to notice a trend. More than a few self-professed alpha geniuses here are underqualified NEETs who are terminally unsuccessful in love. Yet they deride men who study, work, and have relationships as being "cucked by the system 😎" because they're not bedrotting and watching anime all day (which is clearly la dolce vita).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:11 PM
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No. If you're so superior to everyone else, you should be able to figure it out. It's Dunning-Kruger or whatever it's called.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:04 PM
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My wife says she is "obsessed" with me, and it's nice. Best relationship dynamic I've ever had (obviously, hence why we got married). However, it's not this: Saved q tips, hair and nail clippings That's psychotic. I don't think many women want that either. Even the unhinged ones on Tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:02 PM
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Met my wife on Tinder. Neither of us had a bio - just pics and the tags/basic info filled out. Matched because we liked what we saw, and I messaged because our hobby and lifestyle tags were extremely similar. I'm obviously biased, but I think it's a good way to do it. Better than "looking for the Pam to my Jim"/"if you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best" anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:15 PM
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All generic. Swipe based on looks, then discover personality through actually talking with her. No point in even reading the profile. Not these womens' fault - I know it's difficult to come up with something that doesn't sound cringe or cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:06 PM
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I'll answer in his defence here as an "actually goes outside normie" - I have dated two women like this, so they do exist outside of Tiktok. One had a breakdown and called me a fggot because I cancelled a date due to the death of one of my cats, and the other ended things after I revealed that I had OCD and treated it with medication and therapy (which she deemed "feminine"). Neither were trauma-dumpy situations; just "yo I need to deal with this/this is how things are, just letting you know" ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:35 PM
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Yes, I prefer a more feminine body type. Tall is a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:55 PM
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Because 14 year olds are not sexually attractive to a psychologically normal modern man. When I was a kid, you'd see builders and boy racers whistling at/jeering at prepubescent or barely pubescent girls. Every woman my age has had this experience, and I saw it a million times myself back in the day. Rarely happens now, according to my friends' daughters. Personally, I don't think it's just down to social attitudes changing - I think the male taste has largely matured as well. I'm not your class…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:52 PM
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I don't think as much as either of those numbers. It's 14 in China, and yet most people still adhere to age appropriate pairings. I'm going to say 1%. But if you also remove the social stigma as well as the law, I'd raise it to 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:41 PM
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But lol... you are the weak... Bro sentencing himself to perish 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:48 PM
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Sydney Sweeney makes room 1 the winner for me. Woman on bottom of that column is also extremely attractive. Room 3 is runner up because of Elizabeth Olsen and Megan Fox. Room 2 on bottom, as I can't really see Anne Hathaway in a sexual manner, and I have no idea who the other two are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:58 PM
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Well yeah, it's sadact behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:13 PM
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That's hilarious, but also quite scary. I had a similar experience on my old account (although not with Sharp - tbf she's always been sound to me) where one of the regular female posters accused me of lying about being married, then accused me of hiring actors to pose for a fake picture when I showed her my wedding photos. Much like you, I was active on the other Discord, and pretty much every regular has saw dozens of pictures of me. So it's a pretty odd accusation, but there ya go. Do you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:45 PM
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It's not that they hate men per se; it's more that they've been mistreated by the men in their lives, but lack the confidence to confront their abusers directly. They act they way the do towards men online as a sort of revenge by proxy, from a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:55 PM
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Find women who are attracted to you and sleep with 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:03 AM
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Oh, I see. Just casual dating then? In that case: not that hard, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:54 AM
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Got ya. My opinion is: 3 is like a full time job, and it's inconceivable to me that anyone would have the time for 5. So I'd say your goal ranges from moderately/severely time-consuming but doable at one end, to extremely difficult at the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:50 AM
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Right, but what constitutes promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:37 AM
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What constitutes a fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:17 AM
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What happened here? As far as I can see, Sharp Engineering accused you of lying about having a partner, you posted pics of you guys together, and then she had a meltdown and deleted her account? Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:09 AM
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What I find ironic is the demeaning language they use as well. It's always "getting pussy", and "getting bitches" with these people. Stereotypical "bro talk" that would get you a slap round the chops from your mates if you actually spoke that way, and would give any women in the vicinity the instant ick if they heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:53 AM
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Snort 'em like Keith Richards did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:01 PM
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Wouldn't be a dealbreaker unless they kept the ex's ashes on the mantelpiece or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:14 PM
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Handsome? 100% no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:58 PM
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Never had a negative experience asking women out, as I am good at reading the room and can tell when a woman is attracted to me or not. If I got the sense that they weren't, then I wouldn't make a move. However, when working as barstaff I had plenty of negative experiences with women who mistakenly thought I was flirting with them (n.b. I was not - I was in a happy monogamous relationship while I was working bar). Those women could be quite brutal and nasty. But that's just drunk people in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:31 PM
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They should go back home and donate/fight for their homelands then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:23 PM
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Too rich to care or "please donate £3 today". Which is it, Syria?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:57 PM
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She implied that she may kill herself, then stopped posting. Sooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:50 PM
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I'm in the minority who would find this affectation to be endearing. I'm not talking like Cary Grant to match it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:32 PM
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First Honour mode run I made it to the Spectator. Tried again, and fucked it up at the first wee brain guys after the Nautiloid crashes. Over it for now. We've downloaded Divinity Original Sin 2, which is the game that Larian made right before BG3. Similar mechanics, and people say it is just as good. Made a list of best games for couples to play together, so wife and I are planning to do a co-op campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:47 AM
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Thank you for the comprehensive reply. I ask the same question every time someone on here mentions submission, and this is the first time someone has actually been able to give a detailed and sensible response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:05 AM
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Wow, that's all news to me. Didn't know that the sizes weren't equivalent either. Thanks for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:18 AM
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It's just, you've got everyone who reads this assuming you're obese now. I err... wouldn't have done that to myself, personally. Because I'm not a glutton for punishment. Even although it's only from retards on Reddit. But each to their own, if you feel like you got something out of this then great!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:04 PM
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Fair enough. Different culture and upbringings I guess - where I'm from it's perceived as uncouth to view yourself as flawless. But if you like the way you look, then I guess that is the important thing. So whatever weight you are: that's great, good for you. Although imo posting something like this and then dodging any questions is a recipe for disaster, as it's going to make people assume the worst about you. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:43 PM
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I don't really believe in objective ratings in general tbh, especially at the extreme ends. But I do find it fascinating to see/hear the measurements of people who believe themselves to be physically perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:23 PM
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You don't size trousers/jeans by waist in the USA? We do here; 30 long, 32 short, 34 regular etc. That's wild. How do you guys do it? Just S, M, L? Anyway, it's not about my approval - it's an AMA about being a 10, I thought? I am curious how much a 10 weighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:12 PM
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Fair enough. Waist/dress size then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:04 PM
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What's your weight and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:56 PM
2

What would you say are examples of submissive behaviour? Is it just housewife stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:07 PM
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Nah that's valid. Not an excuse, but it's a valid explanation. Rock and hard place. Best of luck when you move back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:07 PM
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Mean this in the kindest way possible: I've noticed a lot of people who struggle with relationships are NEETs. Ever thought that not working, contributing to society, spreading your wings and flying the nest might a contributing factor here? Work matures you. I dunno, like if I was single and heard someone a NEET it'd give me the ick no matter how hot or nice they were. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:54 PM
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Can I be honest without you taking offence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:45 PM
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No, I need tangible reciprocity or I lose interest very quickly. No scented candles might be a bonus though. Depends on the scent. Good with tobacco, patchouli, pine etc. Miss me with the floral ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:46 PM
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No issues with it. I did the same for 8 years. Had 3 cats and 1 dog with my ex. I took the two cats that were "mine", she took "her" dog and our "shared" cat. He (the cat) came to mine when she went away on holiday, and we halfed in for his medical bills as he had a number of complex needs that were quite expensive. I guess the difference is that we didn't have a messy breakup. 9 years together and it had just ran its course. No drama. Some girlfriends interpreted this as evidence of lingering f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:49 PM
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This is so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:37 PM
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Brutal and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:34 PM
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Screenshot the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:31 PM
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Not stressed at all when her parents visit. They are much less stressful than my own. A cakewalk in comparison, in fact. I get along great with my brother in law, so he's no trouble either. Her grandmother is the only exception - she doesn't like me and makes constant negative comments about me. But that's okay. Big boy and can handle it etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:19 PM
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Where I live, this is seen as being different from regular prostitution, and I find the disparity in perceptions to be quite bizarre. Amsterdam is only a short flight away, and it's viewed as quite normal for guys to have visited prostitutes whilst there on lads' holidays and stag weekends. Obviously I have no idea what goes on in others' relationships, but I've always got the impression that women here view shagging an Amsterdam red light district prozzy as "lol when in Rome I suppose", but wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:32 AM
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39 year old heterosexual man and I get it. Mads is it. Guy who you'd be able to have 10 pints and a laugh with. Split a pack of 20 fags with. Peak male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:55 PM
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Right, but this immature attitude is why you're single at your big age. This is stuff people do when they're 17-19 and then grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:54 PM
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He wanted to see how you'd behave when you aren't tied to him through obligation. You showed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:52 AM
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Whatever works for you guys. But where I live it would just be seen as odd. It's normal for women to have high paying jobs and pay their own way socially here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:06 AM
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They can??? I can't! Didn't think women could either. Never heard of anyone having a full 100% non-stimulation orgasm tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:55 PM
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No fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:04 PM
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What's your opinion on the matter? You're always coming up with the questions, but no one ever says "wbu?" I got you bro. Wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:04 PM
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Yeah, sure. It's like: she's an adult with (presumably) her own job and money. I can't see any reason why she'd need charity from her friends. Different story if she said "listen, I'm struggling for money right now, can you guys cover me for the night?", but that doesn't seem to be the situation here. This would be interpreted as begging, where I come from. And would be viewed quite shamefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:23 PM
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That's why I said "the right one". If someone is making your life harder, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. All I can speak to is my own experience: Bad partner = life is shit. No partner = life is fine. Meh partner = life is fine. Good partner = life is great. But if others don't feel the same, that's their business. I am not gonna police others' emotions, y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:12 PM
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No, that's extremely weird. In my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:07 PM
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As much as one needs a mobile phone, or the Internet. It's not an absolute necessity, but life is better when you have it. I'm sure there are many who feel that they have no need for a romantic companion, but in my opinion life is sweeter when you have (the right) one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:57 PM
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I have no qualms with others PPBing for love or even sex. But imo this is humiliation. It's branding. With a cheap tshirt instead of heated a metal rod, but similar psychology. I know they're just whores, and only after your money. But at the same time, they aren't the ones that hurt you in your home country... Slippery slope towards sadism, in my opinion. But do what you want, I don't really care. Just a perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:25 PM
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What is more arousing: the sex or humiliating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:16 PM
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I must know. Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:40 PM
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Riley Reid? I thought she got married and retired. Has her marriage fell apart already?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:27 PM
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I guess I fundamentally disagree with that, for the reason that if the vast majority of people around you have easy access to something, then it is no longer a privilege. So essentially, I don't really subscribe to the lib-left idea that we're all living lives of privilege. Certainly, my life is more privileged than an individual born in Sierra Leone, for example. But the citizens of Sierra Leone are not my immediate peers; my own countrymen are. And in comparison to most of them, I am not parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:10 PM
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There was one, but I think it's way out of date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:54 PM
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I'd say there's a massive gulf between "this is a privilege" and "I am entitled to this". And sex/romance lies somewhere in that gulf, imv.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:25 PM
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I wouldn't really call driving a privilege, personally. Ditto for Internet, mobile phones etc. These things are accessible to ~97% of the population in the country where I live. Regardless of class, wealth, or social status. Privilege, as I see it, has to mark one out as significantly advantaged compared to the rest of their peers. So being born in to wealth, being particularly attractive, being extraordinarily intelligent etc. For me, in order to be privileged one must be an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:23 PM
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I wouldn't say so, since most people are able to access these things. A privilege, by necessity, should be a rarity. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:07 PM
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Insane take, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:01 PM
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Before Christ woman. Haven't found the Lord yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:32 PM
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Alt is alternative. Means a woman with goth, mod, rockabilly, indie hipster etc style. Very unattractive, apparently 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:22 PM
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Alt girls always getting lumped in with the fatties and undesirables on PPD 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:12 PM
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Hahaha, I'm just a man who really enjoys patios and other paved garden recreation areas! 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:19 AM
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Interesting. I have no attachment to definitions (hence why I prefer the purple/no pill flair), but my impression was: Old school RP = be masculine/confident. Modern RP = pick up artist style psychological tricks. Blue pill = just be a morally good person. Black pill = only looks matter, nothing else. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:09 AM
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Yeah, I get that. But my recommendation is to shift your focus from the macro (marriage as an institution) to the micro (your personal situation). It's like the difference between nihilism and existentialism. Nihilism = life has no inherent meaning, therefore there's no point in doing anything. Existentialism = life has no inherent meaning, therefore I am free to choose my own meaning. Marriage as an institution is failing, but that doesn't mean individual marriages can't be happy and successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:24 AM
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I don't get what the debate here is. Yeah, most people are social cowards who prefer to smooth things over than actually hold people accountable. Because god forbid anyone feel awkward. But so what? Just focus on your own marriage, and laugh at these fucknuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:18 AM
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It's already too late for anyone who talks about their sex life with coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:15 AM
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I'm a mix of pills, but some on here have described me as old school RP because I believe extreme self-confidence and complete lack of inhibition can beat out most other shortcomings. And there's your answer: extreme self-confidence and complete lack of inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:10 AM
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Bottom right with the wee puppy guy. Free cremation urn!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:12 PM
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Correct my sloppy measurements with a spirit level? That's very diligent of you 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:04 PM
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So, slavery. If slavery was legal, I'd use the slave as an extra pair of hands on all the DIY projects I need to get done in exchange for her manumission. We can redo the garage roof, insulate the attic, build a sunroom, and plane the tops of the interior doors. If she hands me all the correct tools when I ask for them, she can go free when we finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:57 PM
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That's fucking hilarious. I'd have called her Ofdonald 1000 times in the first hour alone. She'd be off quicker than the Roadrunner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:56 PM
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Not a woman, obviously. But I've done this for years. My hair is dark brown and my eyebrows are mid-blond. I dye 'em to the same colour as my hair every few months because it looks better when they match. I'm sure the women here will tell you that's an ick/red flag, but IRL none have ever had a negative reaction. Most in-depth interaction I've had around it was - they find my Just For Men in the bathroom cabinet, ask what it's for. I say making my eyebrows the same colour as my hair. They say "o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:06 PM
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Very well handled. Fully agree that people IRL tend not to act like those on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:00 PM
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Fair enough - I was just asking. Honest explanation, which I appreciate. I hate the way people do that though. It's so childish, and makes me think much less of them. Regardless of gender. But I suppose that's just the way people prefer to interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:55 PM
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Yeah, I know all about that kind of thing. My wife is Slavic and has bright red hair, so her school experience involved people drawing swastikas on her locker and attempting to set her hair on fire with lighters while they walked behind her in corridors. Unlike you I guess, she avoids places like this. Because her experiences taught her how nasty people can be, and she wants no part of that. But that's beside the point - I was just asking because you seemed to be saying that no one has ever insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:33 PM
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Cool, cool. Absolute last question, I promise: Have you ever said something and realised it was stupid, but then felt you had to double down in order to save face?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:05 PM
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Ohhh I dunno about that. Since my (temporary) return, I've noticed a LOT more female incels here than there used to be. Maybe it's just an anomaly this week though. Agree on the Redsand diaryposting though. I respect his dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:34 AM
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Fair enough. If you're happy as you are then more power to you. We're not all built to be social.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:19 AM
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Sounds like the little man is going to have a sister pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:16 AM
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Hwat? This sub is about 50% men whining about being single, 30% women whining about being single, and 20% actual discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:13 AM
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No one's ever lashed out at you unwarranted?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:10 AM
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Dunno, 34 years and still never went on a date. Wow, that's pretty extreme. Mind me asking why (if there even is a reason?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:09 AM
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Help me understand, please. I've saw men call women whores because the woman has done something to piss the guy off. And like the majority of people, I think the men who do that look pretty pathetic. I've also saw women calling men incels because the man has done something to piss her off. I also think this behaviour makes that woman look pathetic. Why are the two different?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:59 AM
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Yup, this is exactly what I'm trying to highlight. On here I've been called an incel loser virgin because I have a vasectomy. I'm currently getting told on another thread that I should be in jail because I am 39 and my wife is 31. And that's what I get when I come here to discuss the philosophy of gender in an objective manner. Guys who actually have something to complain about get much more vitriol. So it's significant that a gay man is not getting unhinged hate from deranged female posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:31 AM
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Totally valid. Not saying he's 100% right. His bias obviously colours his perspective. I'm just shocked at how reasonably he's being treated for expressing his opinions. Very different response than what he'd get if he was straight, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:17 AM
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He's a based queen. Interesting that he's saying the same stuff I've saw a lot of men get called incels on here for, yet no one has called him such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:59 AM
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Interesting. Last question: Under the rules of the state of New Femcellia - An 18 year old and a 25 year old (which most people rightfully see as a bit creepy) is absolutely fine, because it fits in with the half plus 7 rule. However, the 38 year old with a 25 year old (viewed by most people as two fully formed adults) is rape, and should be punished with a more severe sentence than murder. Am I following correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:00 AM
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So 13 years in jail for the 38 year old who sleeps with the 25 year old, yeah? Interesting, because 13 years is more than the average sentence for murder where I live (those convicted of murder serve on average 9 years in custody here). So essentially, in your ideal world a 38 year old would be better off killing a 25 year old than sleeping with them. Pretty wild stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:26 AM
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A few questions: What should be the sentence for a 38 year old who gets with a 25 year old? Jail? For how long? Should he/she be put in the sex offenders' wing? Cellmates with a guy who raped a baby, for example? Generally, criminal charges are only pursued when it is in the interest of public safety. To what extent do you believe the person in that hypothetical example is a danger to the public?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 PM
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You can be an incel and be married/in a relationship, apparently. So it stands to reason that the same logic applies to the term femcel. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:14 PM
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💪 How you been mate? What you been up to since we last spoke?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:05 AM
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Hesitant to answer considering I'm a mix of many pills, but I have been described by others on here as "old school red pill", so take that with a pinch of salt. But yes, this describes me perfectly. Never been angry about dating. Overall, I had a good time when I was doing it, and now I'm happily married. Sure - I encountered some shit people and had a couple of bad experiences, but that's just life. And FWIW, the attitudes which have caused me to be described as old school RP are: you won't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:35 AM
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Meh, depends on where you live, I suppose. Here, transitioning gender is fully funded by taxpayer money. Can't really say that society is against you when the government allocates public money for surgeries and hormones. That's the very definition of mainstream establishment support. I'm not saying men are the ultimate victims here (and I actually think looksmaxxing with surgeries is a bad idea for men, although I would be a massive hypocrite to critique anyone else considering my own "extreme" …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:43 AM
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That's a false equivalent, and you know it. Teen girls are basically groomed by society to value their looks over everything else, hence why it's acceptable and even encouraged for them to get cosmetic surgery and be extremely concerned with their looks. They have the backing of society in this matter. Whereas society shames men for being concerned with their appearance to the same extent. A man undergoing cosmetic surgery will be called insecure at best, fggot at worst by most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:11 AM
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A bit crude but really you did nothing wrong. If that's too much for him then he's a fucken square. Don't stress over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:04 AM
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I assumed you were an Arsenal fan...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:57 AM
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Right, but the topic is about traits men have that make you feel unsafe. Unsafe = someone that will cause you harm, surely. And the OP - presumably a grown adult man - says that he feels unsafe around men in leather jackets, and (again, presumably) thinks that women might feel the same way. You don't think that's... strange?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:35 PM
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Right okay, but surely you see the difference between harmlessly shocking an overly-nervous Redditor and actually being a bad person to your partner/pets/family/friends, right? I'll concede that "edgy" aesthetic can indicate that someone may have a bit of an "edge". But I really struggle to make the connection to the terror and aversion which it seems to inspire in many PPD posters. It's just not the way people I know IRL behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:13 PM
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My style is just my style. I look the way I do because (I think) it suits me. And I just find it funny that the PPD demographic (broadly speaking, men and women who struggle with relationships) find that scary/an indicator of low moral character, while "normal" people never seem to have such a reaction. I don't know if tone is perhaps getting lost via the Internet here, but what you term "getting mad" is more like "find it slightly confusing but humorous at the same time". Like your average PPD …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:55 PM
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Fair enough - you seemed to come in as big ragin' caboose there, but I see how that can be misinterpreted. I'm very direct too, so you're likely doing the same thing with me. Anyway, this doesn't really matter. All I'm saying is that I've saw lots of "women love bad boys and abusers" type comments over my time on here that, when the poster is pressed to expound upon what they mean, they reveal that their idea of "bad boy abuser" is simply someone who has a couple of tattoos and wears a leather j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:07 PM
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Woah, hold on. I never said it was all or only women. You're flying off the handle for no reason here. I said it was "PPD people", which includes men and women. The OP who said it here is a man. It's just something I've noticed. People who post here seem more likely to believe negative stereotypes about others based on their fashion choices. Compared to people I socialise with IRL, anyway. If you've got a problem with me making that observation, then that's a you problem, not a me problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:41 PM
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I guess our definitions of antisocial/intimidating are just different. Someone would have to be in a swastika-patterned morph suit and balaclava for me to find them frightening. I just can't imagine being scared of someone wearing a leather jacket. It's so innocuous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:33 PM
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Check the other person replying to me. They're a woman and they think that this style/type of fashion is indicative of poor moral character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:40 PM
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All I'm saying is that if you're struggling with something that most regular people find easy, then the problem likely isn't the fashion choices of others. Goes for men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:38 PM
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I give you the same answer I give to guys who insist that all women who have tattoos/have alt style/wear makeup/wear miniskirts/whatever are whores: The problem lies within you, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:12 PM
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A person's character is unlikely to be discernible from their aesthetic or fashion choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:46 AM
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Grease is a horror film to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:00 AM
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0 dates in 10 years despite 60 chats. The data shows that he obviously needs to change something up. But instead of doing so, he continues banging his head against a brick wall. It's like getting the "one more failed password attempt will lock you out" warning, yet continuing to enter the same PW that failed the last 4 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:25 AM
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Just commenting on something I've noticed among PPD posters: they're often frightened by people who look like the stereotypical "bad boy" you see in 80s movies. Ripped jeans, leather jackets, tattoos etc. I wonder how much of that fear is shaped by real life interaction, and how much of it is influenced by trope-laden depictions in the media. No doubt the average PPDer would avoid me like the plague, because I look like this. But in actuality, I'm mostly harmless. And the most unhinged and dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:03 AM
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These are fun. Once again, answering hypothetically/on behalf of me from an alternate universe. 1. Would you date a woman who uses cocaine at least once a month? No. Cocaine use is one of my biggest dealbreakers. 2. Would you date a woman who doesn't like drinking alcohol? As long as she doesn't mind me drinking, then sure. 3. Would you date a woman who doesn't like doing physical activity? As long as she keeps in shape, yes. Liking it is inconsequential. 4. Would you date a woman who voted for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:26 AM
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Same Sarai! I've been good. Went to Monaco for our anniversary the other week, and I'm currently on leave from work due to an injury - which is both fun and not fun. What's new with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:34 PM
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Imo it's because so many of the posters here have autism. Successful dating requires nuance, which is something most here struggle with. Hence their overreliance on facts and statistics in lieu of adaptive real life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:55 PM
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I think that's fairly obvious, yeah. They've all been damaged by some past experience (or preemptively damaged by spending their formative years online reading the traumatic experiences of others), and are stuck in a cycle of nihilism and projection as a result. Imo the next 5-10 years are going to be very lucrative for therapists who specialise in rehabilitating femcel types who finally want to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:51 PM
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Hehe I'm only temporarily visiting 👀 Maybe try of those walking pad things? They're like cheap, portable treadmills. Plonking it in front of the TV and walking once per day for the duration of an episode of Judge Judy will have the weight flying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:02 AM
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Yeah man that's really dangerously overweight. Are you actively trying to lose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:59 AM
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Hey mate. Try your local FB marketplace, particularly around areas with student accomodation. Lots of students moving out post-exams, and they often cba carting their TV back home with them. Sometimes you can bag one dirt cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:00 PM
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Forget what I said about Airdrie there btw. You're right - they're up for relegation. I am losing the plot. Too engrossed in the snooker this past month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:12 PM
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Ayr is the match on right now; 1-0 against Partick Thistle which is no mean feat consider last time they faced off PT absolutely pumped them. Airdrie most likely going up, and I reckon St. Johnstone will be going down. Tbh I think the Rodgers/Celtic pairing is a good one. His previous tenure was quite successful. Although I quietly suspect he's embarrassed by Scottish football.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:10 PM
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Watching the playoffs right now! Reckon Airdrie will win it and join the premiership this season. And obv I am convinced this will be the year of the Gers 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:42 PM
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BV! Is the new kitten fully settled in now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:41 PM
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Shart on first playthrough, Karlach on second. Was determined to do an evil run and romance Minthara but my wife beat me to it. She did Gale on her first, Astarion on her second, and so far has shagged both Minthara and The Emperor on her evil run. The Minthara sex scene is wild, btw. My jaw dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:14 PM
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