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I'm ugly and this is exactly why I don't talk to women IRL. Women all act the same. I hope you find the tall hot stud you are waiting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:09 PM
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It's ok. Women just don't care about men's feelings. Thanks anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:00 PM
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I can think of one way but I'm not really sure u would want to hear or do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:09 PM
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Women literally control sex and it's sad but as you point out there is nothing we can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:57 PM
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Oops sorry dude No, women do we, just play their game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:56 PM
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Of course but since all of you only want tall hot studs I'm never going to be on that list for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:54 PM
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Yes because we know what you really want and it isn't making men happy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:50 PM
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Well you could do something to help me feel like a man if you wanted. Regardless thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:49 PM
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I know they don't care because they don't like making men happy. So I make myself happy. What I don't do is ask them about anything because that's a guarantee they blow you off ( unless you are a tall hot stud of course )
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:47 PM
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Men solicit sex because if they say nice things and ask about them, women simply ghost you because that means you're boring. So you do it for that 5% chance that she's into making a man happy because if you don't you have a 0% chance to message her any longer. It's happened to me am uncountable number of times. I know how the game is played now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
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Are you in the States ? I'm curious ? I'm in Arizona. No I'm NOT going to hit on you, promise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:59 PM
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I am an adult and I have chosen to be alone versus being with someone I do not find attractive.There are many many men who feel like me. The difference is now every attractive woman has hundreds of men to pick from, all of which are more attractive than me. So I'm at the bottom of their queue. It's the apps themselves that have destroyed any chance I ever had to find a woman because every woman who goes online gets hundreds of messages ( even unattractive ones, lets be honest ) and THEY get to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:51 PM
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I'm going to be blunt. Women only care about looks. Period. Everything else is secondary. I don't have looks, or money, or power, or height, or all that self confidence, women feel they absolutely need from a man. So men like me ? Worthless and invisible. Meaningless and boring. No woman will ever touch you or desire you or imagine you naked or want to help you feel wanted when you are ugly. Thats life and there will never be anything I can do about it. And every woman refuses to tell men the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:28 AM
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I have heard things like this many many times. Yes it's very easy to blame me ( or any other ugly guy ) for being too ugly to get a message from any woman online. I know omg how dare we message ANYONE? I think women blame men who don't behave the way they want, don't go out and get a professional photographer to take their pics in a vain attempt to get even slightly more attractive, who don't write 500 word profiles that no one reads anyway because ur too ugly, and it is really easy to dump on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:49 AM
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Yes of course it's 100% my fault. It couldn't possibly have anything to do with women only wanting tall hot studs. Thank you for pointing out my flaws though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:33 AM
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When ur ugly like I am all you know is rejection and failure socially. No amount of discussion will change my life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
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Pointless to care about how women treat unattractive men Can't fix the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:22 PM
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Well I can't afford to care about women's dislike of men who aren't tall and hot. You just learn there is nothing you can do and deal with it best you can. I hope you find that tall hot stud all women want I can take care of my own needs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:38 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:56 PM
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You go online you get more messages in a day than I get in a year But it's my fault cause I'm unattractive right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:53 PM
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Thousand women. Imagine how you would feel if you got rejected a thousand times in a row You have no idea what life is like for unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:44 PM
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I'm at a football game Lot better than begging women for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:37 PM
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I have no looks I receive no messages I get completely ignored online. All I know is what I have experienced. Over a thousand rejections. So looks are everything to women as far as I am concerned so what if I can't prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:33 PM
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I hope you find your Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:20 PM
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Yes tall hot studs and no one else Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:18 PM
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Thank you for being honest that all women care about is looks ! Finally someone tells the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:17 PM
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No when you blow nice guys off because they aren't tall hot studs and then lie about why that's what bothers me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:07 PM
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Lol pathetic dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:02 PM
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But do you ever think about the men you reject solely for their looks ? No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:01 PM
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Oh ur a dude Go ahead and kiss women's ass Not interested in your idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:58 PM
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Umm because ur lying I see the truth EVERY DAY ONLINE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:57 PM
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Oops I misspoke Women only want hot studs period. I'm fine taking care of my own needs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:54 PM
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I already told you the truth about how women really want from guys. Everything else they say is just lying. If ur a dude you are pathetic If ur a woman just enjoy the tall hot studs while you can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:53 PM
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That's because women's advice is to kiss their ass and do everything we are told to do JUST TO GET ONE MESSAGE. Not interested in ass kissing girls to make them feel good as they blow you off for the tall hot studs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:47 PM
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Yes we know what you really think because we see what you really do. Which is to blow off any man who is unattractive for the tall hot studs you really want. We see what you really do. And we act accordingly. Don't blame us for calling you out for your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:36 PM
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I have been taught that I'm ugly and worthless by the many hundreds of women online that have rejected me. So now I know that women only want tall hot studs. I'm glad to know how things really are with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 PM
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Yes exactly true but no woman will ever be honest about what they really want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:04 PM
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I have been taught that women enjoy rejecting unattractive men and enjoy blaming men for their rejections. Also, that women are all holding out for tall hot studs and that unattractive men are a waste of their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:31 PM
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Yes I know you don't really care either. Not a problem at all. I hope you find that tall hot stud you really want ( like every woman really wants )
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:35 AM
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I stopped looking and stopped trying to find someone because it's just been a massive waste of time. Women simply do not want or care about unattractive short men. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:00 AM
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Any self confidence I had has long been destroyed by women who ignore me because im unattractive and short and basically meaningless to them. I can't remember when I ever felt self confidence because of how women have treated me. Strangely, I have lots of self confidence in my job abilities. But women have taken my self confidence away socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:37 PM
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I absolutely do nor agree. Self confidence is by definition thinking you are smarter or better or faster or have a bigger dick than everyone else. Self confidence is more bad than good but women love men with lots of misdirected self confidence and that's why unattractive short men like me get ignored and stupidly self confident men get hundreds of messages online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:26 PM
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OK that's fine but I made my case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:06 PM
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Confidence means you think you are right even if you are wrong. It means you don't listen to anyone else's opinions. Women like it but it's not a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:18 PM
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Being a jerk towards women is what they secretly desire since they don't like men who do what they are told to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:13 PM
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I'm talking about me lol not the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:00 PM
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No I made no errors. I was talking about a man who actually has a gf. For him, it's better to beg. For me, there is no one to beg, maybe it would be better if I did have a gf to beg, but not really all that likely for me since women only care about looks and I don't have the looks women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:16 PM
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I don't have a partner or a gf or anything of the kind. I'm unattractive and completely invisible to women so I watch porn to take care of my needs. I just don't want to, or need to, beg a woman for help in any way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:53 PM
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It's better to beg then watch porn. Especially for unattractive men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:30 PM
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I don't care when someone lies to me either. I'm unattractive and women prove it to me literally every single day online. The reality of life when you are an unattractive man is that you are ignored by every woman online. I feel bad because women have taught me to feel bad. Thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:40 PM
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Oh well hi dude And the answer to your question is simple. Not a single message in over a year after messaging over a thousand different women. That's my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:25 PM
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I feel ugly because women completely ignore me on dating apps. I feel ugly because women only care about looks,height, and self confidence. Everything else is absolutely meaningless. I haven't received a message from literally anyone online in over a year. Why ? I know why. So do you. You need to take responsibility for ignoring every man who isn't hot and tall enough for you. But you won't because you think it's all our fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:20 PM
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Men would be happy if someone actually noticed them and messaged them and cared about their problems. Instead, women only care about looks, height, and massive self confidence. I see reality as an unattractive man every day. It's women who have made men feel worthless and ugly. Not just me, hundreds of thousands of men just like me. So you can just hold out for the top 90% of the tall hot studs you all want while we men with none of the above get zero attention. Ever. Sure it's totally our fault…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 PM
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I am absolutely positive you have no idea what you are talking about. I'm an average man in terms of looks and I have been a subscriber to both Bumble and Match.com on and off for two years. In that time, I have received a total of 2 messages from women. TWO. Out of well over a THOUSAND messages or right swipes. Looks and height are the ONLY THING that women care about, and every day I am proven correct. There is nothing lacking in me, there is nothing wrong with me at all. It is because women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:56 AM
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That's truly fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:21 PM
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And why do you feel bad? I am ugly and no one cares about ugly older men. I am used to being ignored tbh I haven't received an online message on either of my dating apps for over a year, you just get used to being invisible. The actual part of this that bothers me is that every woman online that I talk to says it's all my fault. I mean ..really ? Is it really my fault I'm ugly ? Or is it my fault that I reach out to women who don't want me to bother them ? I'm a problem I don't fit in and I neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:23 AM
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Not hypothetical at all Women are always looking for tall hot studs until they find one of their own. If you are an average guy, you have no chance to keep a pretty girl for long. You will be replaced whenever she wants. But you as an average man ? Forget it you are meaningless to 80% of women and you have to deal with it the best you can. We know the truth. I'm simply sharing it with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:11 PM
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Um women only care about looks and height, probably not so much money since they have their own money. I prove literally every day online that women don't care about ANYTHING but looks and height because I haven't received a message from anyone in 6 months. Not only that, they don't read my profile. They just left swipe me and boom gone. It's YOU who know nothing about women or your just yet another liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:49 PM
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Women are holding out for the tall hot studs so yes, women are attracted to men. Just not average or unattractive men. They will dump you, yes your average looking man, in a heartbeat, if a tall hot stud messages them. Be ready for the inevitable if you hit on a hot girl unless you are in the top 20%. Yep they are attracted to men for sure just not you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:38 PM
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Oops sorry dude my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:36 PM
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Yes you all want tall hot handsome studs and then you lie about it. We know what you want. Here's my profile in Bumble it's perfect : " Hi I'm Freddy I'm old,short, and unattractive ! That's 0 for three and in baseball terms I struck out and I strike out every day ! Not really sure why I go online to meet women since you all want what I don't have but my guess is I need to at least try so I can say I'm trying. " What do you think ? Pretty realistic huh !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:29 PM
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The last woman I asked out told me to F..k off Pretty direct ya think ? She loved every second of dumping on me because im unattractive and so do most women. I simply stopped talking to women from that point forward ( except at work or when I have to ask things) Thanks for being so honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:15 AM
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How would I know? Just hot tall studs who make me look like something the kitty dragged in and left on the carpet and who get hundreds of messages a week while I get zero
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:31 PM
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And it goes almost without saying, men get used to taking care of their own needs because women are just too busy chasing the top 20% guys. That's our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:00 PM
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Join the single and lonely club like short, unattractive men have already. I'm average looking at best, short for sure, rejected daily by every woman, I'm a charter member of the single lonely club. Women can have a guy pay attention to them any time they want. All they have to do is put up a profile and wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:52 PM
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Yes they absolutely can have just about any man except the guys who already have lots of girls already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:01 PM
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But women who ARE on the apps ? They only care about men's looks, height, money, and size. Personality? Couldn't care less about it unless you are hot and tall. Compassion? Means zero. Kindness ? Same thing. Literally the only guys who get any attention on apps are the top 20%. Every other guy gets ignored and blown off. Yet, strangely enough, women absolutely love to blame men for the problem they created. What a wonderful world it is for short unattractive men ! Thanks ladies !!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:59 PM
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I'm also a father so it's basically me AND my son AND my pets of course I have no information about you, don't mean to pry, it's none of my business of course I don't even know if you are a woman tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:30 PM
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I'm an accountant..well until July I was an accountant Are you in the U.S ? I'm in AZ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:13 PM
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Well I'm impressed with your intelligence I'm not hitting on you don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:07 PM
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You write like a graduate in psychology Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:04 PM
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I think I go to Bumble and Match.com because I'm looking for proof of my hypothesis that women don't care about anything but height and looks. I think that's the best explanation of what I do that I can offer at this point in my life. I do try, women do not. I message them, I swipe right on them, they look at my pics, they don't reply. That's why I'm so cynical about this whole process. It's been eye opening and yes I certainly could just stop since no woman cares about ugly guys, but unlike wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:52 PM
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It's ok it's been like this for as long as I can remember. I'm never going to have a relationship. I have no choice in the matter, just like the OP. You write well. I don't. I have 2 dogs and lots of fish and they can serve as my friends and companions. Except the fish are in a tank and I can't pet them lol I lose hot studs win
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:14 AM
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I think looks are all that matters to women and it's hard to deal with it. So I take care of my own needs and there is nothing I can do to change my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:08 AM
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I know I'm ugly women prove it every day lol I don't believe women who tell me my situation is traceable to my supposedly poor attitude. The attitude I have was caused by them. Being blamed for my failures with women is idiotic. And trust me I have been blamed for being too picky and not having a good profile and not having better pics. Like any of those things matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:38 PM
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Well it's simply because other men who are ugly like me might not realize they have no chance with women and they need to know the truth. I haven't had a date in 20 years. I cannot possibly believe that women care about anything but looks and height and size ( let's not forget about finances of course that's kind of important to women too) So my goal is to inform men, like me, who have yet to learn the truth, that it's not their fault they are destined to stay single. Besides, I do get one messa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:40 PM
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Look all women care about is height, looks, and size. Personality means zero unless you have those 3 things. I swipe on 50 women a day, I expect one message a month because I have none of those things. So far, I'm 100% correct in my assumptions. If I do what you say, I get one message every 6 months if I'm lucky. Be realistic for us ugly guys who used to have a chance but no longer because women all want tall hot studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:20 PM
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That would be fabulous but it's never happened to me like ever. I'm invisible to women because I'm short and unattractive. And looks are all women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:25 AM
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Oh my so nasty I'm so shocked lol Buh bye
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:31 AM
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I take care of myself and I don't need or want anyone to take care of me. It's women who desperately want to run our lives and we won't let them. That is the true goal of feminists. To emasculate and put men down to make themselves feel better about themselves. You are simply another feminist. Lots of them everywhere now, even among the male population. I will never allow a feminist to run, and ruin, my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:25 AM
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You are a feminist that enjoys dumping on men because that's what the feminist agenda is about. You are another feminist who really want men to kiss your butt and make you feel good. You have things backwards like all feminists. It's women who provide nothing to most relationships because they want to run men's lives, make them do everything they are told to do, offer sex only when you want it with no concern for the man's needs, spend your time online looking for only the really hot tall studs …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:26 PM
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I stand by what I said. They look at profiles only if they think he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:13 AM
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Not helpful but hey have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:17 PM
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I can only see how men like me are treated, or ignored, I can't know how women are treated online. I am just reporting to those women who show interest in men's feelings ( not a lot of them but there are some), how it feels to be ignored and rejected. Ultimately it doesn't matter why. Rejection isn't fun but you learn to live with it. Or it learns to live with you ? I don't live alone I have 2 wonderful pets and I feed stray cats and feed wild birds. They make me happy in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:39 AM
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I tried that, it lead to more rejection because im unattractive. You learn to live life alone. I don't want a woman who thinks I'm ugly just to have someone in my life. I have pets who adore me though. So it's all ok. Congratulations on your success though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:34 AM
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Men like women who are attractive and we are not going to pretend otherwise. Women like men who are attractive and they pretend that they prefer men's personalities and that looks are not important. Omg really ? Looks are the only thing you think about when you swipe left or right on a guy. Women don't even read their profiles. Just not important unless he's attractive. So I'm telling you what you already know to be the truth. Don't blame me for your problems finding the hot stud of your dreams.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:12 PM
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Online women ignore men who aren't attractive. Period. That's reality and it's fine, the problem is based on the fact that you blame men for: Not having good pics ( you get to define what is good ) Not having a good profile ( women's profiles are usually one paragraph, so much better right ?) Not having good conversation skills ( like your skills are so much better? ) Talking about sex too soon ( you decide what is too soon and what isn't) This problem is one that women created and we men know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:42 PM
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In my personal experience, online women basically swipe left on nearly every man they see unless he's tall, handsome and buff. Everyone else ? Meaningless in every way. They don't even take the time to read your profile. It's all designed to make women feel good about ignoring men who aren't studs and that's the fault of the programmers for the dating app websites. And any average looking ( or unattractive like me) guys would be better served by just deleting every dating app and leaving them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:44 PM
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I wrote it so a woman could respond to it, none did though. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:57 PM
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Yes that's what I said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:29 AM
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I have been told, endlessly, that I am at fault for not getting dates, for not getting sex,and for not finding the women that would be perfect for me in the dating world of apps. It's been brought to my attention that I need to change, I need better pics, I need to exercise more, and that everything related to my dating failures is unequivocally 100% my fault. Yet, not one single woman who has swiped left on me, on my pics, has ever thought to imagine that it is just as much their fault that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:24 AM
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Only handsome guys meet women online. No such luck for ugly men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:53 AM
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I know no guy that has ever met anyone online. Does that count too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:50 AM
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They have it so easy all they have to do is go online and they have 50 guys messaging them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:49 AM
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I know and it's because we make them think they are much more important than they actually are. It's kind of our fault in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:47 AM
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I swipe right on 8 women a day on Bumble and I have yet to receive a single reply. Over a year now. Kind of hard to keep trying when everyone thinks your ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:44 PM
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