FrederickOllinger Archive

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35	Is waiting several days or a week to call or text a girl after a first date in order to avoid seeming needy a red pill idea? Also, everyone on the Earth knows that this is a tactic. So if you start to use manipulation tactics on people, they are not going to want to spend time with you. Being needy is bad, but someone who is truly not needy has no fear of how someone else sees them. Thus, waiting a few days feels even more needy than texting them right away that you're happy to have met them and excited to see them again.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/24 07:35 PM
53	Is waiting several days or a week to call or text a girl after a first date in order to avoid seeming needy a red pill idea? If you're excited about them, you should text them when you feel like it. Within reason, of course. People have lives, and it pays to respect other people's time. That said, a text right after meeting someone shows genuine interest which is a good thing when you want to start a romantic relationship with someone. Why should someone be interested in you, if you make it seem like you are not interested in them?	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/24 07:33 PM
1	Girl I had been crushing on rejected me, hooked up with a much better looking guy and is now talking to me again wanting to reconnect? I'm not sure what the confusion is. If you do not like her why are you thinking about her? Just tell her that you're not interested, block her and go out and meet someone else.	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/24 06:30 PM
12	Is this a red pill tactic men use? Yes. It's called a take-away, a manipulation tactic. In sales it's called bait and switch. Do not go on a date if this is the tactic. Coffee dates are great, but if the initial offer was dinner and that's what you agreed to then bail if that changes.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/24 02:10 AM
3	Is cold approach success a myth? Even as a child, I was naturally drawn to other people, and I found that I just spontaneously talked to people who were around. Perhaps this is based on being raised in the South where this is more normal? I remember having an autograph book which I would get adults' autographs. When I got older, when my parents wanted alone time, they would kick me out of the house and tell me to "make some friends". Thus, the idea of going and meeting people has been part of my life forever. I don't think in t…	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/22 11:49 PM
1	How to deal and remove Red Pill Rage from my head and life? How has your experience with this book been? The book has been extremely useful in teaching me to change my thought processes from negative to positive. It's very empowering to learn that you don't have to accept your thoughts as reality. After I recovered, I have not ever been back to these depths of despair again.	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/21 03:28 AM
3	How to deal and remove Red Pill Rage from my head and life? I'll share some general techniques that have helped for me, but I'd be interested in more details on what you are actually unhappy about. Acknowledge my feelings and do not fight nor hate them. This is discussed in Being Peace which I found great for detox of any kind of negative emotion. If you hate your anger, you hate part of yourself because when you are angry, you are anger. So don't hate it. Don't deny it. Sit and feel it. It's just a feeling which has no power that you don't give it. Co…	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/21 09:39 PM
1	If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive? yes	/r/seduction	29/09/21 04:06 PM
3	[deleted by user] First of all just being there helps a lot. Going to the same venue weekend after weekend will make you feel comfortable there. That's a good start. Going out alone has helped me a lot. Attitude is that everyone is a potential friend. Talk to everyone. Be interested in them and positive. Don't debate nor talk about controversial topics. Keep it light. You will gain a bunch of positive reference experiences which will teach you that you can easily make friends no matter where you are, and that the…	/r/seduction	27/09/21 06:33 PM
0	Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her? Did you ever try being honest with people? I find that things are not as bad we make them out to be in our heads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 07:29 AM