FreeMRausch Archive

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1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Depends on the lengths they go. I taught English in Russia for a year and there were definitely some male teachers i knew in different places who were taking advantage of their American or British status, and relative greater wealth, over there. An American or British man in his 30s who struggled to get action in the West could easily go to a poor Southeast Asian country like Thailand or Vietnam or the Phillipines and be living a hoe phase. Western men have more power in non Western countries wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 10:58 AM
1	I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false. Or the man taking advantage of his American status and marries a foreign woman from a country where being a traditional older man with his shit in order is more valued......Theres a reason why older white man and younger Asian woman from South Asia or Southeast Asia is common. Dudes aren't conventionally attractive here but there they are and its easier to have much more wealth and status internationally dating 2nd and 3rd world.... I know some relationships like that and the women feel they won…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 06:41 AM
1	Women who had a promiscuous past in their 20s and now are no longer that was in your 30s... are you more reserved about sex with your current partner? I know a Ukrainian woman who went through a phase similar to what OP stated. Girl immigrated here with her parents and sister some years ago. Her parents have always been very controlling (fathers owns a business, has money and ties to an influential Ukrainian church in their ethnic community here). Basically gave her curfews in college (she lived at home as parents requested it) made her go to church every Sunday, could not have a non Ukrainian boyfriend, etc. Well, soon as the girl got some fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 08:20 PM
3	Women who had a promiscuous past in their 20s and now are no longer that was in your 30s... are you more reserved about sex with your current partner? I know a Ukrainian woman who went through a phase similar to what OP stated. Girl immigrated here with her parents and sister some years ago. Her parents have always been very controlling (fathers owns a business, has money and ties to an influential Ukrainian church in their ethnic community here). Basically gave her curfews in college (she lived at home as parents requested it) made her go to church every Sunday, could not have a non Ukrainian boyfriend, etc. Well, soon as the girl got some fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 08:19 PM
6	Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men? And lose more respect if a guy finds out a woman did certain sexual acts with a random guy but refused to do them for the guy who has invested much more in a caring relationship with her.... Why i made sure to marry someone who treated me better than all their exes. If the investment is bigger on my end, better be on their end was my logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 02:50 PM
1	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. My wife didn't marry me for my looks either. Thought I looked goofy and odd at first. What won her over was how nice and honest i was with her at the beginning about wanting a serious relationship (she's from Russia and culture places more emphasis on it and I did alot of the traditional chivalry stuff), the great deal of things we have in common, and the fact i am really driven about my career (social studies education) and have always worked hard. She wanted someone with intelligence to have c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 09:51 AM
–	If you’re unhappy with the state of western women why not travel or move to another country and date the women there? I was never one to call a religious woman a prude or pay them dust. As someone who wanted to get a really serious relationship right out of high school at 18, who wanted to be a traditional nice guy for a woman (i always worked multiple jobs in college and had a car and cash), i found at university that most of the traditional American girls I met were already taken (not many at a major liberal university). I am really good friends with two who married their high school sweethearts (only guys th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:11 PM
–	If you’re unhappy with the state of western women why not travel or move to another country and date the women there? Worked for myself as well. Married an Asian Russian woman from Siberia who was studying in the US. The difference between her and her friends born and raised in Southeastern Siberia, Russia versus American women is night and day in many cases. More feminine than American women, value monogamous long term relationships more, more intellectual and cultured, more into serious nice guys, more mature at a younger age, less spoiled, etc. If I had been single when I was teaching English in Siberia, I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 09:57 AM
6	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble As a teacher, i can lose a job, or not get a future job, if my name simply appears in a background check due to a public incident like that. Don't have to be convicted guilty of anything. Simply being in an incident can lead some to think, "don't want to hire that guy getting himself into violent situations". Know someone accused of a drug crime, never convicted, but because their name shows up in a news article on a background check, didn't get one job they wanted. As someone not a paid profess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 11:27 PM
12	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble Other issue is you getting involved could have led to some sort of assault charge or violent conduct charge which could involve heavy legal fees fighting it, time off from work, and possibly losing your job (if I am accused of a crime and it goes out publically, i can lose my job as a teacher, even if innocent). Being a white knight isn't worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:02 PM
2	Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex. If a guy is in desperate need of sex (and having regular sex is considered healthy biologically, whereas lacking it can lead to health problems comparatively) and a woman denies him, then according to your logic, the woman is being selfish and toxic for not helping a guy in need. If a guy needs sex, and needs to be helped badly in that way to help his mental and physical health, then a woman shouldn't deny that according to your logic as he needs help. Thats what nice guys in American history go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:10 PM
3	Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex. Its basic human entitlement to expect someone to help someone else, and according to many feminists, entitlement is bad (or at least guys wanting anything, feminists seem to still feel entitled to guys money (see calls to force men to pay women more) and bodily help despite being strong independent women ). No one is entitled to help from anyone else, or anything. A baby is not entitled to a woman's body to avoid being aborted. A nice guy is not entitled to sex. A woman is not entitled to a guys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 01:53 PM
5	Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex. No woman is entitled to help from a guy. His body his choice. Just like no guy is entitled to a woman's body. Her body her choice. Moral consistency. Girl wants the traditional entitlement to help from a guy. Then there should be the traditional obligation of women to do shit for the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 01:28 PM
3	Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex. Kind of funny how some women feel entitled to men helping them in a time of need but then attack men who complain about not getting sex, saying "her body her choice". Seeing a guy would have to use his body to help a woman in need, "his body his choice" should also apply to be morally consistent. No one of any gender is entitled to anything from someone else. Aa a happily married dude, the best way to play the 21st century dating game is being detached and going out of your way for no one of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 01:24 PM
1	Are you fucked if you don't engage in drinking culture? Convert to a branch of Southern Baptist that doesn't drink or convert to Islam and find yourself a religious woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 07:03 PM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Yep, many people on the left (seems this individual complaining about his brother is) tend to be all "pro woman's right to choose" unless that woman decides to make an anti leftist choice. The woman, by her actions, is clearly choosing to be with a conservative traditional husband. What right do people have to attack her choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:00 AM
1	Are women capable of empathizing with men that they don't find attractive? There's another side to that issue of guys not wanting women as just friends. Some men learn the powerful lesson that unless a woman is fucking you, or is related by blood or marriage, she considers you expendable when a new guy comes along. Most women I've noticed, when a significant other comes along, tend to ditch their so called "guy friends" in favor of spending all their free time with their partner or their girlfriends due to societal gender roles/pressure. I was close friends with a coup…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 01:38 AM
3	Women blame men who get rejected for having bad attitudes to avoid appearing shallow I have seen zero men in my life get angry at a women for being blunt/honest to them as well.....The couple times I have seen men cross a line is when a woman was "playing games with them", aka using them for material favors and other favors, when they had no intention of reciprocating with the physical love the guy wanted.....If the women in those two situations had simply told the guy they were not attracted to them, and rejected the help on homework and money favors (aka if the women actually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 02:03 AM
11	Women blame men who get rejected for having bad attitudes to avoid appearing shallow When i was single, I would have loved for a woman to tell me straight up they didn't find me attractive or some similar reason to avoid going on a date instead of giving me indirect or dishonest replies meant to soften things so they could still benefit from social interactions with me. Alot of the women i went for during high school and college were in my social circle (classes, clubs, dorms, etc) and id rather have had the blunt honesty so i know i shouldn't bother with them, whether that be h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 07:55 PM
2	I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then? It depends. I know a woman who I was friends with has been with a "bad guy" for quite some time (years) and the dude has always been a criminal type/bad boy type/emotionally abusive type (drug dealer, heroin user, high school dropout, no stable job, cheater, etc) the entire time. She told me when she started dating him that she liked the fact that he was a challenge who lived the "bad boy" life, which represented freedom for her from an overcontrolling father and family that always wanted her to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 02:20 PM
1	We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other. One of the most meaningful priorities in my life is maximizing my precious limited free time on this planet to do whatever I want, without an employer or someone else, besides my wife, dictating to me how I should spend my time. Due to work demands, I currently do not have enough time to read all the books I want to read, watch all the football I want to watch (i would watch games everyday they're on in the fall/winter if I didnt have work responsibilities) do all the hiking I want, and watch al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 01:54 PM
1	Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with women In the US? Study hard at college and earn academic credentials for a white collar job or work hard at developing a trade skill and a good job, clean your shit up (no drug or alcohol problems, have a place of your own, be in shape, no criminal record) and look to Eastern Europe or Asia for a good woman who is willing to settle down. As someone who married an Asian woman from Siberia and as someone who is friends with Russian women and Asian women, if I had moved there when i was 18 and avoided th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:49 PM
1	US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44. Disliking guys for baldness isn't the same as disliking a girl for fatness. Baldness can't exactly be prevented like fatness can. For the vast majority of people, being fat is an overeating problem. Simply consume less calories and one will lose weight. One can't prevent going bald as easily. And with the fat acceptance movement existing and there being a lack of "bald people acceptance" movement, it's clear that society is allowing people a pass for bad behavior that leads to weight gain while …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 08:40 PM
8	We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other. I heard a study a long time ago that when one factors in the cost of health insurance and health care, college, food, diapers, clothes, and many other resources that go into raising a child from birth to age 22, parents will spend over $500,000 per child. A couple that decides to have 2 kids effectively set themselves back by about a million dollars by the time those kids hit age 22. Considering health insurance companies allow kids to stay on parents insurance til 26, more money is spent there.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 06:37 PM
1	Men dont respect women Yeah, gender relations can suck in a multitude of ways which is why we see ugly behavior from both sides. I raise my point because I had a very good friend in college for 2 years who was a woman who would hang out with me alot to drink beer and watch history films/discuss history and watch art house and classic films. Girl loved beer, history, and good films. Soon as she got a boyfriend, shit stopped cold pretty much. Ghosting became common and he clearly didn't trust his girlfriend drinking and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 05:32 PM
5	Men dont respect women Girls give guys good reasons to not want friendships. I was good friends with multiple women in high school and college (would go to movies together, watch sports together, drink together, go out to eat together) who would constantly ghost or become very difficult to do shit with when they got boyfriends. While guy friends would still do shit one on one or in a small group of our friends without needing their girl friend there all the time, women i was with friends with would only do shit if the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 05:19 PM
1	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? It is possible though if one sacrifices and budgets well. I did student teaching 5 days a week from Monday-Friday 630am-3pm January-May this year. Then had an evening class every Tuesday 4pm-7pm and about 15 hours of prepwork at home a week to teach those 5 or 6 classes a day. And then worked my Special Ed job every Friday 4pm-10pm Saturday 3am-10pm and Sunday 7am-7pm for months in a field where one can pick hours as residential special needs care is pretty open considering the significant needs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 06:16 PM
1	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? Depends on the internships. I am an alternative ed Social Studies teacher and anyone willing to work with either Special Needs individuals or individuals kicked out of regular school for discipline issues can easily find experience. I've worked in Special Ed for 4 years providing residential self directed services in individuals homes and my company is always hiring. Always shortages. Doing that work for 4 years , having a TA position in college for a semester, interning as a student teacher at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 05:50 PM
5	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? At the same time, there is alot of truth to hard work paying off. I know many small business tradesmen making pretty damn good money who got where they are because they worked 90 plus hours a week for years to build up a name and make their business successful. Working 7 days a week, showing up to fix shit on weekends if necessary, working 16 hour shifts, studying the trade they are in hard, giving up certain luxuries and the 4 year party filled college experience to master plumbing, electrical …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 01:13 AM
2	Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex? Immigrated here when children. So cultural influence is there but they are technically American women now and have been for years. And i knew two others who I mentioned who you ignored. I also have taught High School Seniors in the past who were dating men 10 or 15 years older than them due to their maturity. And I have my own eyes too. Look at the Matt Gaetz scandal. 38 year old guy with 17 year old woman. Clearly she found him attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:48 PM
0	Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex? My international university is a major SUNY university and they are technically Americans living in America (all had citizenship)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:40 PM
-1	Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex? Your experience is not necessarily others experience. At my international university, i knew 4 women. Two were of Eastern European origin who moved to the US who were in serious relationships with much older Eastern European men who had businesses( one guy was a trucker who owned a trucking business and was like 15 years older, was a family set up as her dad owned a shipping business). She liked the guy as he had his shit together. A woman i knew from high school was dating much older men becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:30 PM
-1	Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex? Some women legitimately have daddy fetishes and like older men for the father like/dominating older man vibe they put on. I knew many girls in college who were dating much older men and they said it had to do with their maturity, leader like personality, and ability to be essentially a rock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:23 PM
1	A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule. I found i never really run into issues by being nice and treating each individual i meet with respect, never taking anything without reciprocating, and mostly handling my own shit without putting myself into positions where someone may get any idea i used them. If everyone treated everyone nicely with full respect in public situations (no red pill manipulation culture or feminist "no one is entitled to niceness" culture), many of the mentally ill would not commit any crimes. Universal respect fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 09:21 PM
0	A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule. Or society suffers from a more extreme reaction where someone goes postal and starts shooting those that wronged them in some way (alot of the time this purely exists in the shooters own head but often, many crimes are done either out of passion not reciprocated by someone or someone being shit on by society - see connection between poverty and a rough upbringing on crime and serial killers having some sort of triggering painful experience that starts everything). The hate people give to others …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 12:56 PM
1	In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this? Not in an organized way, as i am a deist, but I am willing to go along with my partners beliefs as i do like a lot of the value systems found in some faiths, like Buddhism (half my wife's family is Buddhist and I've been to numerous temples) and certain aspects of Christianity. I just have some conservative-libertarian views when it comes to social issues in my personal life (I believe others have the freedom to do whatever as long as it respects others natural rights, which is where i am more l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 04:08 PM
0	In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this? That is a cynical way of looking at things when the reality is my wife comes from a more conservative Asian/Russian culture (she is from Eastern Siberia and half her family is Buddhist) that places more of a value on serious relationships and family, which is similar to many devout Christian women i know here (not fake ones). My wife's family is a bunch of intellectuals who make a decent living for Russia and i am not exactly rolling in the money here seeing i make roughly 29k a year in special …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 03:25 PM
0	In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this? Yeah. My point stands though. I also noticed devout Christian women tend to buy less into fawning over the dude standing there with women hanging off of them stereotype that is pushed in this discussion. I know a devout Calvinist/Protestant woman who married a serious Christian dude who was her first and only boyfriend and he is a quiet good church boy. Know a Russian Orthodox woman who married another religous American guy. And another strict American evangelical woman who did the same. All the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 02:44 PM
2	In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this? I think this works for some guys but I also know women who would have zero interest in such guys. One of the reasons why my wife was interested in me was because I did not have a swarm of women following me, so she figured I wasn't a player and was a good guy to get involved with. She has a very strong dislike for players and such guys present that image. Her sister married someone who also didn't have a swarm of girls following them for similar reasons. A couple of my wife's friends married sim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 12:40 PM
2	Do you lose friends when they get into serious relationships? As a dude, ive only had such issues really with women, which is why i have a strict no friends policy with women. In High School and undergrad, I was pretty close friends with a few women who had no issues hanging out when they were single. The minute they got a boyfriend, the so called "good friendship" got put aside, either due to jealousy on the dude's part or the girl just revealing her true nature that only the guy she is fucking matters. The minute the women would get dumped, they would tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 02:56 AM
2	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. I wouldn't say most foreign women i know hide their true desires. My wife and the friends of hers who married American guys did so partially because they did not like the traditional sexism found in many Russian and Chinese men. My wife doesn't like how many Russian guys are/were 1.) Racist towards her because she is Asian and they prefer white women 2.) Wanted a woman to have kids, which she doesn't want a kid at all 3.) Didn't share as many hobbies with her (my wife is a tomboy with her hobbie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:46 PM
5	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. That's what i noticed living in Ulan-Ude, Russia (far Eastern Siberian region) for about 6 months with my wife who had to return to her country for 2 years to fulfill the terms of her Fulbright scholarship that requires students to return home for a while, as it is a cultural exchange program. I noticed hanging out with her family and friends and teaching English there, and in St Petersburg Russia for a couple months (TEFL program) that more Russian women placed much more emphasis on marriage th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 07:43 PM
4	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. That's very interesting. It may be because I am a graduate student, and have spent a good deal of time in academia in a city, but the most common interracial couple I see is white guy Asian woman(mostly Eastern Asian). I am married to an Asian woman from Russia myself, and I know 6 other American guys married to Asian women, and only one of the guys is over 40. I know in certain areas of the country, like California and Washington State, this is much more common simply due to more Asians living …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 06:47 PM
21	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. Yep. I had issues dating American girls in undergrad because most girls i knew wanted to "have fun", aka sleep around, party, score drugs, because they had the rest of their lives where their future professions would not allow such behavior. Two women i went on a handful of dates with thought i was too serious for wanting to make the relationships more serious and too nice for not trying to sleep with them the first few dates. They still wanted me to pay for things but they didn't want monogamou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:10 PM
1	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? When were you in undergrad? I was from 2009-2014 and I noticed that the only women who really wanted serious relationships were foreign women at my university, which had a ton of international students. Along with my issues, a friend of mine was cheated on by American girl who thought he was getting too serious after a couple months and that she wanted to enjoy freedom for her 4 years before starting dental school. Enjoying herself as in partying, doing drugs, having casual hook ups/boy toys. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 06:05 PM
2	People who switched from hating the opposite gender to more balanced views, what made you change your mind ? As a guy, I actually experienced the same issues in college with the opposite sex wanting casual hook ups and not long term relationships. Went out with a couple women for a handful of dates who just wanted hook ups so I declined and said that's not what i was looking for. One woman laughed and called me gay for not taking them up on sex while drinking one night and the other said she couldn't be with a guy who wanted something serious as she wanted to just have "fun" during her undergraduate ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 07:58 AM
2	CMV: Women are almost never used for sex. As someone who is happily married and always thought casual sex without committment was pretty much using someone, I get your point about how some people act predatory. At the same time, some men would say their bodies are being used if they work hard to buy things for women who don't reciprocate in bed. One usually needs to use their body to make money so benefiting off the labor of others without giving back is seen as selfish from their point of view. Again why I hate casual relationships. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/20 01:14 PM
2	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? Definitely see the shallowness to a degree. My wife grew up in rural Siberia , Russia two hours from the border of Mongolia (she's Russian of Mongolian ancestry) and she and her friends dont understand the "I dont need no man" and lack of desire for marriage that many Western women have. When I met her at university in the US (she was on a scholarship), she told me she was shocked at all the Americans that didn't want to settle down and preferred just fucking people loosely with no committment, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 03:38 AM
6	Why are white man / ethnic woman couples so much more common than other way around? Yep, I got banned from the blue pill group for calling out a feminist who made the argument that white men dating foreign women was exploitation that helped fuel white institutional global racism and that such men were essentially disgusting perverts for not wanting Anglosphere Western women. While there is definitely some exploitation that goes on in a minority of cases, many international marriages tend to actually last very long and many of the women who choose to marry Americans don't regret…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 03:31 AM
1	Is it hard for older men, to admit that younger girls are not attracted to them? I saw it a lot while teaching English in St Petersburg, Russia. Many of the guy English teachers in various programs i interacted with as a teacher were in their late 30s/early 40s and they were going out with young Russian women in their 20s who wanted to have fun with Western men. My wife is from Ulan-Ude, Russia in Siberia ( I met her at university in the US though) and her and her friends would have no issue with an older guy if they treated them right (aka loyal, similar interests, financia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/20 02:46 AM
1	Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid. There's another angle to it too that doesn't involve a guy simply wanting sex. There's the issue that for many women, they don't seek actual solutions to the mental problems they are dealing with, but simply want to vent, which can create issues for men who want to help as most men want to "fix" problems, not simply vent about them. In my experience, some of the women I used to be friends with would come to me for advice repeatedly about the same issue that had been mentally bothering them befor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 04:05 PM
2	Why are women immediately turned off by a man who says they're are sexually inexperienced? Depends on the woman really. I had only one sexual partner before i met my current wife, having turned down other opportunities because i didnt have a serious relationship with those women, and my wife found my lack of interest in casual sex to be a plus factor. My loe sex partner count scored major points. She realized i wasnt a player type who just sought sex, shown by me making her wait many dates for anything really intimate, and that in the end, really helped me. She saw that i wasnt shallo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 12:11 AM
1	Leftists and the male sex. The real big issue regarding feminists/leftists and gender issues is blatant hypocrisy when it comes to applying their own standards and logic to women as well. For example, having taken university courses for 6 years to get a Masters in History, ive encountered far too many women of the left who believe that a guy and a girl having sex while drunk together means the guy raped the girl. When one raises the issue that they were both drunk and that by the logic of equality, the woman would be equa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 04:45 PM
1	Sleeping with 500 men is feminist, not slutty. Gene Simmons from Kiss has slept with 1000s and he is pretty celebrated partially for it. Tommy Lee and Vince Neil from Motley Crue same thing. Hell , most 80s metal bands fit into that category and it never hurt them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/19 09:21 PM
11	Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties? She may be Asian which would explain that some. My wife is 29 and Asian and doesn't look any older than 21 or 22 (she often will get asked to show id at bars while my 28 year old Caucasian male self never gets asked). I dated a Korean woman in her early 30s before i met my wife and same thing. People thought she was no older than 21.....Surprised me as all hell when I found out her real age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 01:10 AM
3	"6 figures" and no gut isn't really all that high value or impressive There's also dudes like Hugh Jackman who's married to a much older woman. It can definitely go the other way. Hell, my wife is a little over a year older than me (I'm 28 now she 29) and the woman I dated before my wife was 10 years older then me at the time (I was 22 they were 32). Some men prefer women older than them like myself as I always found older women much more interesting to talk to intellectually and emotionally and much much better lovers. The obsession with youth is nutty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 06:31 PM
1	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates My wife is Buryat but her citizenship is Russian and most of her friends are either Buryat or Russian and I haven't noticed that. Maybe Ulan-Ude and Buryatia as a whole is different in that regard seeing its not Moscow or St Petersburg so there is much less western influence. I know I pretty much am the leader in my relationship and my wife, who is much more feminine than western women I dated in the past, expects me to lead in all things that are not home based and doesn't really criticize me m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 09:31 PM
1	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates Not what I noticed when I lived over there in Siberia for a while. Women were much more feminine, particularly compared to western women. They dressed up nicer, wore more make up, carried themselves in a more feminine manner, tended to want more serious relationships earlier in their lives at where as many western women don't want to settle til their late 20s or later on average, and seemed more willing to do the traditional feminine jobs many women hate (cooking, cleaning, etc ) without a compl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 09:16 PM
-1	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates I have a friend in Russia who is a woman who is in a course with other women that teaches them how to pick up men and be good wives. Basically teaches a woman to be soft spoken, don't argue with a man too much, know how to cook, clean, have good sex etc, dress really well and so on. Basically traditional feminine behavior. We don't have the same thing here as gender roles have been fucked for a while where much more power has shifted to women so guys have to resort to similar desperation here. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 05:09 AM
3	Why do some men think niceness is supposed to illicit a sexual response? In western societies niceness doesn't work as much but I found, being married to a lovely woman from Siberia and having friends who are from various eastern countries, that niceness goes much further with women from those regions. It was the fact that I was very nice and driven and made it clear that I would be a gentleman who could take care of her that really helped win my wife over to me, along with common hobbies/interests. If I didn't do the whole buying the flowers, holding the door, payin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 04:59 AM
2	Making men fall in love - Your moves? My wife kind of did the same with me. While I was never fat, I used to dress terribly and lacked "style" and certain social graces. However, she appreciated how nice and direct I was in wanting her in a relationship with all the nice acts I did and she liked how we shared a lot of the same interests, that I am driven in my particular career field, and that I work very hard to provide a future so she decided to accept me as a project to improve. My wife definitely is the better looking of the two…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 04:37 PM
1	CMV: Women need to start approaching or stop complaining, and here's why I can see how our feminist influenced culture can make guys feel that approaching a woman can be very problematic. The Me Too hysteria and how simple flirting and persistence can lead to a guy earning the reputation of a "creep" deserving of being called a sexual predator is a definite thing. The whole attitude guys must take the first no, no matter what, from more combative minded western women who don't want to settle down, instead of being persistent and breaking past the shit tests is a defi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 03:53 PM