FreeProgress499 Archive

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9	FDS is NOT categorically against OLD. I met my BF on OLD and, 5 months in, he seems fantastic! (Always vetting, of course, but so far, so good.) I met my ex IRL, we worked close by one another and kept running into one another. He was definitely NV but I was younger and more naive and let him get away with, well, pretty much everything. The point is, HV, NV and LV are everywhere. NV and LV are way more common, and will outnumber the HV no matter what the setting. OLD definitely has some HV, you just have to sift through all of the c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 05:52 AM
9	Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time. Okay, my last comment was a little trite, and was meant to be. But he’s been batting 100 so far, and I want to see what happens next. It is what it is. Either things go well and he stays engaged in my life, or he doesn’t and I move on. Honestly, I’m looking for someone to make my life better. I spent forever with someone who dragged me down. It took a long time to get out of that and then another few years to heal from it. And it turns out that single life was sooooo much better than life with t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/21 05:37 AM
7	Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time. Part of me agrees with you. The other part just wants to do this! I’ve only had sex with one other man (my ex of 20 years, split nearly 4 years ago, stayed single for 3.5 years to heal) and it was never good. I’ve heard good things about this whole sex deal, lol, and I want to see what the hype is all about!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/21 04:30 AM
39	Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time. Thank you for the reminder! I’ve been exclusive with a man for almost 4 months now, we’ll be having sex very soon (it’s getting physically tough to wait any longer!) and he’s respected all of my boundaries so far, hasn’t pressured me at all, never lovebombed, and has been nothing but consistent, kind and generous. We’ll see if things change once the sex has been had!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 06:47 PM
15	Why Being Called "Wife Material" or "Girlfriend Material" Isn't Always a Compliment, Especially If It's Said To You By An LVM - A lot of the times, they are projecting qualities like unwarranted excessive deference, humility, obedience, bangmaid duties onto their "ideal" wife or girlfriend Me too. And I’m not even that tall - 5’7”!!! But definitely quiet, introverted, with an air of confidence. Which apparently makes me intimidating as fuck. And I’m completely fine with that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 04:25 AM
40	When evaluating a man, don't just look at how you perceive his behaviour. Also look at the factual realities of your life before/after he came into it. Thank you so much for this post! This is so helpful for me! I spent 20 years in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship and was so beat down that it took until he started physically abusing my dog before I started to gather the strength to leave. I’ve now been single for 3.5 years and recently started dating a seemingly great guy. But I have trouble with believing in myself. How do I know if he’s going to be abusive down the road? How do I know if I will recognize any little day-to-day b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 02:43 AM
5	The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair) Thanks for the update! I was wondering about this process. And thanks for all you and the mods do to keep us safe ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 09:21 PM
16	When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guys I’ve always dated younger, but only by 3-5 years. I just found more in common and better connections with younger men. Older guys don’t have as much energy as I do and, to be honest, they’re generally pretty boring, just wanting to sit around all day, while I’d rather be out hiking and exploring. The guy I’m currently dating is 38 and I’m 47. I found this site right around the same time we started dating and he’s ticking way more boxes than anyone I’ve dated previously. I was a bit nervous about…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 12:14 AM
34	The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪 The vibrator always hits the spot. The man … does not	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 04:59 AM