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FreeRadical5/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:27 PM
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Creepy=sexual interest from undesirable match for women, nothing less, nothing more. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to calibrate all the minutiae of how we naturally act when we consider ourselves worthy vs unworthy.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 11:22 PM
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That's certainly a little malicious. Would you ever say that to another guy after a girl clearly picks you over him? Requires a certain level of arrogance and narcism.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 11:01 PM
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I am pretty much exactly like you except probably a more watered down version. What really helped me was doing a sales job. It taught me a shit load of soft skills while at the same time constant practice with approaching and asserting yourself. Lastly, you also have to ask yourself what is your goal. Is it to become the absolute hardest person in the room? Why? So the "mature" girl in the room who can't get turned on until she is bound up and beaten will peg you as the type of guy that will do …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 06:57 PM
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Have seen that as well. Honestly I do not blame them. If I had the option to sleep with an endless supply of women way out of my league, the only problem I would be dealing with is how to fuck one more than one a day till my dick was old and decrepit.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 06:39 PM
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Yes, I am a pretty good looking guy. But they aren't frequent and the hotter they are, the less effort they put in. Overall it's a terrible experience.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 02:34 AM
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I gotta admit, something has definitely changed. I've been back on the market after a 6 year relationship and the game has completely changed. I feel like a disconnected boomer using an out of date playbook that worked perfectly in 2015. Women (at least the attractive ones) just aren't really looking for commitment. A lot of them seem to have completely embraced the short term nature of modern dating. They are much more shameless, forward, sexual and unforgiving than I remember them ever being. …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 12:45 AM
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Positive emotional connection is the goal. I'm just describing the reality of most dates.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/21 08:42 PM
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You should because I thought you had a point till I read his post. Is a connection you build over a date where some bitch is out to have her night out any better than one you build where you socialize and fuck her for money?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/21 08:36 PM
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Exactly, blame the customer, not the supplier. /s
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 05:31 PM
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That level of high quality is completely unattainable for most men unfortunately. It is the equivalent of telling an average everyday girl to become a 10/10 super star that billionaires are fighting over. Not helpful in any way.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 05:15 AM
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Sorry that wasn't the point I was trying to make. I'm not in Asia. Just wanted to shed light on the real dynamic going on behind expats raving about Asia. Let me reword: It isn't as great of a place for Asian guys as it is for white guys. For Asian guys it's like being a white guy in a Western country.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah but as a white guy it is playing on easy mode there. That's what all the expats raving about Asian women don't realize. The women aren't any better. You just got +2 for being white. Of course your experience is better being perceived as a 9 than a 7.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 02:51 PM
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Ironically as an Asian, Asians don't do very well in Asia. A huge part of the appeal to expats to Asia is then cashing in on the local Western worship.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 02:34 PM
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It is.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 02:32 PM
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In my experience women tend to want sex more with a guy that they have already fucked and consider an alpha. When it comes to drive to fuck new guys, their sex drive is much much lower. This is pretty much the opposite of man's sex drive. Most of us go crazy over the potential of tapping a new ass where as with enough availability even a gorgeous girl becomes rather boring. Overall though there is enough evidence there in terms of studies and basic biology to be sure that overall men do have a h…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 03:30 PM
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TLDR - go to parties and bring girls so people like you? Wow, revolutionary. If that's all he said sure but unlike you he gave specific examples of how he accomplished that with just a few words and tricks. Which I suspect is more value than you have provided in your entire life.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 12:39 AM
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The day you realize how much of your worth you are putting in the hands of people who give 0 shits about you, you'll realize how fucked up you were and what you were missing.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 03:36 PM
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Some seriously overpriced corn.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 10:03 PM
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That's true but then why bother getting laid at all? At that point whatever you do doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 09:44 PM
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Not sure about that. Approach anxiety is a form of performance anxiety, they only way to get over which is exposure and yes outcome independence. The most confident that I've ever been in my life is when I was happily in a relationship and my sex drive died due to some health issues. Suddenly drop dead gorgeous women were just like everyone else. No impact on me. Conversations suddenly became a piece of cake. But as long as you care about pussy and wanting to fuck it, it will come back.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 09:34 PM
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Dude would be on the curb getting roughed up by bouncers for getting "handsy".
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 04:03 PM
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While non popular hot girls definitely come with less bullshit and there are opportunities to be found in non traditional avenues, these opportunities have been massively reduced by the spread and normalization of low effort online dating. Any non hideous girl regardless of a total lack of any other skill or value can just go online and get herself a cock buffet of the highest quality. Because horny men are willing to fuck anything.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 03:12 AM
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You see, a lot of men are cool, calm, and collected around women they're not attracted to, but once they start liking her, they get nervous, needy, and start to become an orbiter. After many many years of telling myself that, I realized that hot women really do act different as well. You see they aren't blind to quality either. If you consider them "hot", unless you have very low standards, she likely has sexual access to much higher quality men and will not be chasing you regardless of how you …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 06:42 PM
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As another INTJ, it's great that you are realizing this now. Social skills are the primary weakness of our personality type, other things come rather easily. Personally I got so frustrated with this that I left my software dev job and went into sales for a few years. Unfortunately social skills are literally the most important thing when it comes to your love and social life... Which in turn also being paramount to your career progress. To give you an example, my sales experience allowed me to g…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 05:06 PM
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There is also something to be said for the authenticity of sex with an ugly woman. It can let you try thing you never will with someone you hold a modicum of respect for. No need or desire for pretense, simply going through the physical motions that feel the best like receiving a rim job or ass to mouth or just fucking the throat with no intention of reciprocating and out.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 01:29 AM
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Yes, it made them self conscious about what they know to be their primary source of value: sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 07:14 PM
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I accidentally did this when I started taking SSRIs that made it impossible to cum. It absolutely destroyed the girls I dated during that time. They offered anything you can think of from endless blowjobs to anal to public sex to threesome. You can tell it struck them on their very core.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 06:50 PM
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As sad as that is, a lot of these "well raised" women have the worst most toxic cold and selfish personalities. There is nothing more repulsive personality wise than a pretty rich popular white girl who had the world handed to her and as a consequence acts like she is worthy of worship.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 10:26 PM
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You are being delusional if you don't acknowledge the clearly evident rise in social media induced narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 10:21 PM
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Might be using the wrong app for your area. Also most people are in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:49 PM
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There is almost no normal girl left that isn't using online dating.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 12:57 PM
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I've felt both sides of this coin. Went from deep overwhelming emotions in my early 20s to feeling next to nothing in my 30s now. I'm overall much more content but sometimes it genuinely makes me feel concerned that I won't react to even blood relatives dying. There is something wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 02:05 PM
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It's funny, just by reading your reply I thought, this reads like a butthurt girl. And viola!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 02:24 PM
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My statement was that you cannot always succeed. You disagreed. I provided a situation where there is no winning. The point is always acting super confident like you can always succeed when life is filled with situations where succeeding is not possible requires irrational arrogance. It is attractive but still irrational.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 02:28 PM
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So you simply cannot imagine a situation where you cannot succeed? If so you are failing at imagination. Try confidenting your way out of a police officer choking you to death. If only mr floyd was more alpha.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 02:12 PM
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that you can succeed in any situation Because that is delusional. There are real trade offs in life and impossible situations where you can not succeed. Only way to have that kind of confidence is irrational arrogance. Actually Rollo even wrote about this in depth years ago: https://therationalmale.com/2013/08/05/dominance/
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 01:57 PM
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I think you two are talking about different types of confidence. One stemming from proven competence which is very situational and one stemming mostly from irrational arrogance. Both are real but only the later helps in most social situations and therefore with women. Have you ever had a coworker who is absolutely dog shit at their job but loves to talk a big game? Usually confidence like that gets them absolutely no where at work but works wonder with women. Or someone who is an absolute rockst…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 01:16 PM
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All that is a result of a much lower sex drive leading to a reality where sex is always available for women. I never understood women till I had a massive crash in my testosterone level and my sex drive died. Man it was night and day. Suddenly everything women did started making sense. Sex suddenly didn't feel like the primary purpose of life anymore. It's impossible for someone to imagine the other side until they've personally experienced it. It's like trying to explain someone who is permanen…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:01 PM
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Still orders of magnitude higher than women's test level. If your point is that men used to be even hornier, then yes I agree. Doesn't change the current dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 02:59 PM
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And it's of no significance what you as an individual claim you'll do. In aggregate there is no denying men have a much higher demand for sex especially with new partners and that is why we have to put up with the bullshit we do when it comes to women.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 02:00 PM
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You saying not true doesn't change basic biological facts. Men still have a much higher sex drive. That's the root cause of why males fight over women and not vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 01:20 PM
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And that'll never happen because ultimately it is because of higher sex drive due to testosterone. Men having no standards is a feature of all nearly mammals actually.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 12:59 PM
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What are you trans phobic now? Fucking sexist pig.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:57 PM
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You're asking for too much.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 02:34 PM
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Ahaha, can't blame her on that one. That man is an animal.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 11:02 PM
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It seems you have difficulty reading. Don't have that issue, but you probably can't imagine it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:42 PM
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Sorry, never had that issue.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:39 PM
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Really? Do whores actually turn down clients due to dirty homes?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:36 PM
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This is by far the best advice I've seen here in years. It also naturally trains you in how to approach people and a plan for what to do with them... Which makes doing the same thing with girls much easier and also gives you a ton of social proof that would make you seem attractive right away.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 04:58 PM
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For someone familiar with economics why are you so reluctant to apply principals of supply and demand here. Pussy has priced itself out of reach of the 90% of the market because the 10% is apparently meeting all the supply. If that were no longer the case, price would come down till supply and demand are met again. I don't see any catalyst of such price change in the favor of men right now. Easy access via tinder only makes the sharing of alphas more efficient.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:41 AM
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Hard disagree. There is always going to be a surplus supply of men wanting new sex partners compared to women. Simple fact of biology that applies to not just humans but most mammals. Due to this simple fact, pussy will always be in high demand and intense competition among men to get it. Only way to fix that is something that massively disrupts the male demand for casual sex or the female supply for casual sex. Sex bots or very realistic VR for men might do it but I don't see it happening soon.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:25 AM
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What the hell is this trickery... It actually seems to work.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 04:44 PM
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Typical primitive ape response.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 03:29 PM
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I think you'll find heavy illogical resistance to this idea here. The type of people that are attracted to red pill heavily believe their decisions can change everything about their lives. This is a hard pill to swallow for that mindset. Only those ultimately interested in the truth above all else will be able to accept the real limitations implied by this idea.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 03:27 PM
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Why are you best friends with your grand pa?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 07:42 PM
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There latter as in those who mention is first don't like it but those that don't bring it up do? What's even your rationale for this?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 02:51 PM
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In fact, only fans is some of the most honest money those girls will ever earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:12 PM
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Oh I'm not triggered at all. I'm actually happy you have a bigger goal than yourself. I'm just telling you to kindly fuck off with telling others what their goal should be. Every man should decide that for himself. Red pill isn't supposed to replace regular societal brainwashing with another version of it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 06:27 PM
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Sounds like a great goal for yourself if you like it. But please fuck off with the "main goal should be". Not our responsibility to fix the world.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:52 PM
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I've found older women that have their careers figured out to be much more ruthless when it comes to sussing out weakness in men.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 05:54 PM
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Getting a polyamorous woman to go exclusive with you is kind of like winning in the special Olympics. Even if you win, you're still a retard.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 12:28 AM
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Noticed this personally when growing out a beard. I have very "pretty" features and consistently get called good looking by men but rarely find hot women receptive. Grew out a beard and suddenly a completely different and more attractive type of women were attracted to me. Pulled more pussy in a few months than I had in years. But personally I never felt as good looking. The complements also went down. This is when it really became clear to me that good looks and attractive/sexual to women are d…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 07:39 PM
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Honestly if I can't even share things that are on my mind, what good is a connection anyway? It would be much simpler to just see a prostitute in that case.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 05:22 AM
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Leftists would be more likely to be outraged at this saying men's issues are getting more coverage than women's. Not that that's the case but that's the typical leftist mentality. Ideology over reality.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 03:10 PM
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Alright so I am a biochem major and have studied hormones in detail, also personally a a long time fan of keto. But I think that line of reasoning is not valid or rather "too high" is much higher than 30g per day implies. It has been demonstrated that you can lose weight on a diet of simple carbs, e.g. the "Twinkie diet". No way in hell this guy was maintaining low insulin levels while eating Twinkies, Doritos and Oreo for months. Also your typical person is rather consistently eating carbs to t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:34 PM
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You'd be pleasantly surprised by how well your body adapts to long periods of no food, even the hunger goes away.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:44 PM
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Nah, only works if you grow the tree too.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:47 PM
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Dude, thank you for writing this and providing detailed convenient options. I'm in a official paid diet program right now and nothing they're provided so far is even close to as useful as the info you provided here. You are awesome.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 03:59 PM
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Sorry that's just not accurate. As someone who has been in highly paid prestigious positions, no one other than your colleagues give a God damn shit. These inventors, CEOs and VPs are some of the loneliest losers you'll ever meet. Looks aren't the only thing for men but they're still very important. Women aren't incentivized because they're playing the same game with cheat codes.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:50 PM
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While I appreciate the spirit, this is nothing but feel good bullshit. Nothing is stopping women from achieving the same success. In fact many of them so. Emma Watson isn't average. Serena Williams isn't average. You'll likely never amount to anything close to them. The challenges are still there. They just play with massive advantages in the same game.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 03:34 PM
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Eating pussy grosses me the fuck out. And by the time you get to that stage the power dynamic has flipped anyway and she's given it up to you. Nothing to gain by slobbering on a hairy slimy salt mine.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 03:18 PM
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So robbery is beta? I'm sorry, please get this moralizing shit out of here. Not because I disagree but because it is false. You can be the nastiest person around and still be the alpha, in fact that's very often the case.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 02:50 PM
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Women can keep her looks... and the best example you come up with is mid 30s lol. You do realize most people are just getting married then and have a possible 50-60 years ahead with that person? So even by your admission, looks should not be a focus.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 09:35 PM
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Obesity, sedantary lifestyle and junk food based diet seem like major contributors.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 03:38 PM
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So you'll settle for being beta bucks for a girl if she was hot...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 08:40 PM
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You do realize, human history is full of absolute perversion since the dawn of time. And really, if you think all women are more attractive trans, you got to do some googling my friend.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 03:07 PM
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I'd say it's none of the above. From my experience, the longer a relationship goes the more you get used to the other person and the less exciting and bland the sex gets. Marriage is typically the longest of relationships.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 09:41 PM
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Actually there a lot of ppl that would. Trans porn and prostitution is really widespread already.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:54 PM
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It doesn't though, m2f trans which is the majority of them adds direct competition against biological women.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:38 PM
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That's how you get a dead doctor.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:55 PM
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If your mission in life is making society better and that's what makes you happy than good for you. However that has little to do with self improvement. It is the same sort of reasoning that gets good man trapped into shitty marriages working for other's interests. It is as blue pill as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 05:32 PM
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The legacy bullshit is just another deep blue pill. Don't piss away your only life working on things you'll never get to enjoy or even know about. That has to be the most destructive mindset you can apopt. But breaking instant gratification, addictive, fake dopamine seeking behavior can definitely do wonders by saving your inner reward mechanism for beneficial endeavors.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:29 PM
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It is very clearly the former. That's why they used to be happier. Otherwise it would've always been the same.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:19 AM
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I absolutely hate Islam as well but it is not the only problem in the world. Over population will still exist without Islam.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:47 AM
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You must be white. Trust me it is quite a different experience when they aren't putting you on a pedestal for being white.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:28 PM
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I actually just discovered this and went back to high caloric intake and working out hard core. I haven't had my testosterone tested since but based on symptoms I'm certain it has gone through the roof. Haven't felt like this in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 02:46 PM
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This is ironic because trying to lose weight is what dropped my T levels off a cliff (confirmed by blood tests). Low T levels are strongly linked to large caloric deficits: https://www.anabolicmen.com/caloric-intake-testosterone/
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 04:37 AM
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You could say the same about women but guys don't seem to care either. You can't negotiate desire.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:00 AM
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Enjoy it. I had a ridiculously high sex drive my entire life. Only in my late 20s but it dropped off a cliff in the last year. At first I really enjoyed not thinking about sex all the time, not being phased by the hottest of girls, being able to focus fully on other interests, etc. But now I am starting to miss it. It has taken a certain spark out of my life that I used to drive myself. It forced me certain goals and pleasures on me with a clarity that is a distant memory now. Overall I am proba…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:38 AM
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How is that an argument? That's exactly what he said.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 01:38 PM
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What doesn't make sense to me is why is there such an overabundance of INTJ's on the internet? The vast majority of the time MBTI is mentioned, it is someone proclaiming they are INTJ. Supposedly we're only 2% of the population!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:20 PM
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More importantly did your dick hole suck up some shit from her asshole?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:51 AM
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The percentile system would make the fat dumpy looking cafeteria lady at my work a HB9. Welcome to software development!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 06:44 PM
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Great post, we need more content like this. It's fascinating that I have arrived at pretty much exactly the same conclusions and very similar lifestyle after 4-5 years of TRP. Perhaps this is the ultimate destination of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:43 PM
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That book contains life changing wisdom. I read it over and over year after year and it is the one thing I would credit as a massive contributor to my very successful life.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 11:55 PM
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Unhappiness, lack of satisfaction, absence of any kind of real internal reward.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:19 AM
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Is it better to have things handed to you or to be self-sufficient at great personal effort? so you would prefer to be a fat slob? See those are vastly different and inherently more subjective questions with no right answer. What you and I would prefer depends heavily on our own identification and what we've grown to value. But easier is a simpler question which is what I was referring to. Having to put more work in to get to the same end result is pretty much the definition of having it harder.…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:15 PM
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Neither has is better or easier. Is there some magical force that ensures that perfect equality between the experiences of the two genders is enforced? That sounds really implausible and something that a feminist would say. Most likely, one of the genders does have it easier than the other and we all know it is women. The very fact that sex with high value men is so insignificant to women is because it is handed to them on a platter. If you were to put men in a world where sex with anyone they w…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:36 PM
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No, men will fuck anything: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=144527901
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:22 PM
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SF... Professional circles Couldn't scream betabucks any louder
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 01:53 PM
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Would you rather be a senile billionaire, or someone who thousands of people miss because you left s positive impact on them and the world Honestly, the more I think about it the more meaningless the latter option seems. Not only will I not be around to give a damn, being "someone who thousands of people miss" is just a positive spin on "care way too much about what other people think". Apparently the number 1 regret! Besides this is a false dichotomy, I would rather die with 0 networth, having …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:53 PM
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Yeah, people will elect Donald Trump as the president or something.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:31 AM
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Try not to miss the point. You don't have to experience something personally for it to be true.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 01:49 AM
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I haven't personally been attacked by ISIS either, they must be harmless. Wtf kind of retarded logic is that?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:29 PM
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In other words, moaning loudly is a massive shit test. Now I get why I always found them so annoying.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:18 AM
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"Seducing a high smv man" requires nothing other than not being fat, putting basic make up on and existing. They already know how to do all that. Keeping a high SMV man on the other hand is a much more difficult task and there is no lack of discussions and complaining about "fuckbois", "players", "jerks" and "why do they always leave".
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:56 PM
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You don't see discussion about strategies to give money away either. Difficulty level: 0.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:53 PM
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Couldn't have said it better. The persona is repulsive but the performance is not. I wouldn't be surprised if she's actually an awesome person since she's sharp enough to make fun of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:32 PM
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May be I am brain damaged or something but I found her somewhat funny. Annoying style at times but the material was good and refreshingly honest.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 07:20 PM
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Where do you faggots come from?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:35 PM
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That simplification strips away a lot of valuable details of the matter. Posts like this provide a lot of value even though it isn't new information.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 03:51 PM
2

Willing to put money that's the real answer.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 03:39 PM
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Nah bro, they'll come find you in your apartment when you're really an alpha. /s
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 03:38 PM
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Fair enough, I'll agree with that. But I have to point out that these organizations are also pussy deserts. Especially the more competitive ones. With the gender ratio being so skewed, even the 3s and 4s start to think they're God's gift to mankind. Your social skills are also suffering from all the isolated mental work and stress. Other than the money it is an all around raw deal. I have a strong opinion on this bcz I ended up switching due to these reasons and predictably my life improved in a…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 12:58 PM
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There are alphas around though. I ended up switching over to sales. There is lots of sales reps in these same organizations making half the salary but the confidence and muscle mass of the entire software development team combined. There is no shortage of these real life alphas who would seem inferior on paper but pull like crazy due to their social skills and exposure. The bouncers, bar tenders and servers that these "SWE" often look down on are still the ones regularly fucking the majority of …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:56 AM
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If you are an alpha SWE at a airbnb / uber tier successful startup or even a big 4, it's so fucking easy to stand out from the crowd. Working as an SWE. There is nothing alpha about even the VPs in this field. You are living in a fantasy world.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:26 AM
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Solid advice. I've noticed the biggest improvements to my life came from doing activities I would never do based on personal preference.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:10 PM
1

I will never be the kind of person that makes 17 phone calls in one day, "making deals" all morning. Don't be so sure of that. I am a massive introvert who switched to Sales recently. I have only been doing this for less than a year and I've been ranked as one of the best in my organization. The reason you already know... I compulsively self analyze and fine tune my performance to perfection. Turns out social skills are also something introverts can master better than extroverts. I look at extro…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:53 PM
1

We can fix it for ourselves but we will never fix the entire market. If you are gonna blame anyone as a collective, blame those with the power (women) instead of the beggars (men).
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:14 AM
2

Oh nooo, don't criticize the womenzz!! GTFO whiteknight.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:50 AM
1

Sounds a lot like a white knighting instinct. Don't be a beta bitch. It gets you no where.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:18 AM
1

Why are you so angry at the dude? This is what they deserve for pushing SJW bullshit. This is justice. Don't be a white knight.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:53 PM
4

Which is completely fine with me.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:17 PM
2

I am from there you fucking moron.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:53 PM
2

He is not. I am from South Asia and trust me... feminism has deeply infiltrated the well to do part of society. The moment humans get comfort they amplify their natural instinct... protect and serve women at men's expense. I.e. feminism.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:21 PM
1

Like India?.... SJW/Feminism is a uniquely white affliction. You know absolutely nothing about India except what CNN shows do you? That place is rapidly going from stone age to rabid feminism.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:18 PM
1

Been where you are except I have a lot of close relatives in these traditional marriages so I've had time to really think about them. Traditional marriages are really not that great of a deal for men. The women are not expected to help out financially at all. And supporting a family on 1 income can be quite demanding. THeir sex lives are really constricted... it goes beyond the lackluster duty sex that beta husbands get. I've heard blow jobs and pretty much anything except once a month missionar…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:00 PM
1

Agreed. I used to be one of these people. Had immense difficulty communicating with almost anyone till my mid 20s. Perfect GPA in engineering, labeled a "genius" by everyone around me, etc. However it wasn't the intelligence holding me back. It was the lack of social skills. After putting in years forcing myself in very social positions (literally switched my career to accomplish this), I now find it extremely easy to communicate with anyone. The lower intelligence people are perhaps the easiest…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:36 PM
1

or thinks that is somehow easy to gain a 6-figure job in the corporate world Currently hold such a position. Got here by actually doing something very similar to what the OP is suggesting. I used to bust my ass doing the hardest things that were not being rewarded. Switched to a much easier role for a slight pay cut and put all of my extra time and energy on myself. Doing the bare minimum at work and developing new skills. Within a year I transformed every aspect of my life and in part due to th…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:34 PM
2

And I bet he is fat but around the same ballpark as her.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 04:38 AM
48

Hah, I forgot to take that into account. I gaurantee he's no more than 200lb.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:09 AM
14

He's not a powerlifter. Obese.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 02:23 AM
1

I don't know ANYONE who can't go on trips, drive a nice car or eat out... where do I find these low quality broke men where I would have a natural advantage?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 12:29 AM
2

Thanks for the reply. I agree it probably isn't optimal for turning her on but don't you think that leaves a very big limitation on the type of relationship one could have? Do you think it's possible to maintain attraction while having real conversations where you discuss important things and decisions in your life (which necessarily includes explanation and defending at some point)? May be I am just emotionally needy but a relationship, where I can't have these deep conversations and actually g…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:46 AM
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Is explaining always bad? I'm genuinely interested in OPs opinion. I feel a compulsive need to discuss my world views with my ltr and generally anyone close to me. That's what makes conversations and relationships meaningful and entertaining to me. The discussions often involves explaining and defending my position repeatedly. However it isn't coming from a position of weakness or need to get her approval... I have held on to extremely unpopular opinion my entire life despite severe opposition f…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 08:37 PM
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That's called banter. He was trying to make conversation not attacking you. Try being a little less insecure.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 08:09 PM
2

150K salary is a huge difference from 1 million networth. If there is any place in North America where the bar for significant SMV boost is as low as 150K income I'd love to know. I guess what I am asking is, what really is the threshold for SMV boost from money in most of NA. From my experience its not anything you can get to from a salary.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 05:18 PM
2

So your argument is that there are no inefficiencies in the sex market? That is false.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 05:10 PM
2

Is SMV boost from money even a thing other than 1million plus networth? I've seen no impact on my success with women as my income improved to top 5%.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 05:07 PM
5

I wouldn't be surprised if half the "Trump isn't fit" posts in here are paid CTR shills. Concern trolling at it's best. You, of all people, should know.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 01:55 AM
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That's not an example. That sounds more like "I got nothing but I've already bought into the narrative" denial.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:52 PM
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Please provide a real instance. I'm actually interested. "Trump said mean things" is not enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:28 PM
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I understand the mentality of these people... That's what my family consists of. Muslims are simple gullible people whose critical thinking capabilities have been further compromised by their illogical beliefs and the resulting constant cognitive dissonance they have to deal with. They are really easy prey to the "look at that racist redneck man" narrative that the media portrays of Trump and generally too fucking dumb and delusional to do their own research. Consider them as useless as women wh…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 08:48 PM
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Who said anything about encapsulation yourself in your apartment or office? You're right social skills are a massive part of success and that is what a lot of the "self improvement" I was referring to was about. Public speaking (toastmasters), group sports, other games etc where all activities explicitly aimed at honing social skills. Hell I actually ended up switching to sales just to get on the fast track to develop the persona I wanted. None of this however involved dicking around trying to m…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:33 PM
10

Venues where I met most of my friends: work, work gym, work cafeteria, volleyball team (open to anyone... lots of those in every city/sport), toastmasters, new work (important... switching jobs will increase your social circle drastically), new work games room, past roommates. What kind of self-improvement made people want to be around you Frankly speaking people are shallow as fuck. Guys and girls alike worship high SMV. I went from around a 7 to a 9 due to lifting, dressing nice, trendy hair s…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:33 AM
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I am going to fully disagree with this one. If you are focusing on your life and your own interests, friends will come as a side benefit. I have always been a loner and till my mid 20s I will admit I was actually lonely. But then I went hard core self improvement mode. The more I improved the more people gravitated towards me. Suddenly every wanted me to come to their parties. Naturally with choice I started to became more selective and only associated with the best people I met. Every year or s…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:19 AM
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It doesn't necessarily. Being a massive introvert I have never kept a social circle. However I still manage to do really well with women. Social circle seems more of an hindrance from my POV. I literally walk up to the girls I want, make small talk and ask them out. Keeping friends and hosting parties just to have a chance at asking someone out seems like a massive waste of time and energy... Not to mention it reeks of desperation.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 04:47 PM
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I think that is another procrastination tactic. Social circle is such a loose term that it can always be used to feel bad and not good enough. You don't need a social circle to sleep with a girl. You absolutely do need social skills. Social circle is often a side effect.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 09:04 PM
8

"winter rocks... Florida..". Lol. Tell me that when it's negative fucking 20 centigrade outside for 2 months straight. Fucking frozen wasteland up here.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 08:38 PM
1

The problem is global. Third world countries reproduce like rabbits and first world countries consume like there is no limit. Both factors are contributing but the fact is we are still consuming way beyond the world can support and still growing dangerously fast. The best solution that doesn't require brutal war and suffering would be to stop fucking reproducing mindlessly... Everywhere. Humans are in no danger of going extinct.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 07:56 PM
1

I agree but denying overpopulation exists is just factually wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:21 PM
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A basic understanding of ecology will change your mind. The world is already well over it's carrying capacity. We are consuming well over the replacement rate for many many natural resources.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 12:51 PM
1

That's actually really interesting. I'm in a closely related position now (although more heavy on development). I'd classify this as one of the more balanced and better paying tech jobs. The stress level is much lower than a pure dev position at Google or Amazon.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 01:41 AM
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Yeah depends on what you do... I'm talking about development. Which by nature is hard work. Some positions in tech are much easier. What do you do?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:10 PM
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I already left a tech position and improved my life so I know for a fact that was the issue. Hamstering is when people refuse to acknowledge reality out of fear. Like admitting that your well paying job might be holding you back.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:23 PM
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These jobs regular go well over 8 hours. Account for commute time, time to eat and maintaining a basic life... It really doesn't leave much time or energy. Add in the time pressure and mental stress that is proven to lower testosterone and you have a recipe for a sedentary life. There is a reason why developers are almost never ripped. All the energy is spent else where.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:17 PM
2

Because some high paying jobs build your SMV while other take away from it (due to stress, sedentary lifestyle, mental impact etc)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:48 PM
2

Did you move to Seattle? From where? What do you think accounts for the difference?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:39 PM
6

Am I the guy you're talking about? I turned down a 140k software development job from Google to take on a much easier position that paid around half. That was a few years ago. It has been to this date the best decision I've ever made. The next few years that followed turned out to be the best of my life in complete contrast to the ones before. For the first time in my life I was successful at building muscles, enjoying life, being social, friendly, cool and as a result consistently getting new p…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:32 PM
10

I'd rather sleep with Ariana Grande than Selena Gomez but both would get me hard at the slightest touch.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:04 PM
1

You didn't answer his question... I want to know.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 09:31 PM
1

Because we already live in a world that blames men for every failure of women.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:06 AM
2

I would've read it. It's guaranteed to have been more interesting than the other posts I'll read instead.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:13 AM
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Yes, hate the men for letting women become shitty human beings. How about some fucking accountability for women for a change? This is nothing but white knighting in another form.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:04 AM
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Not agreeing to a shitty deal only reflects positively on my ability to lead.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 02:52 AM
4

Keep grinding and keep this world turning boys. The future is in our hardworking fist. No thanks. I will do only what improves my life. Fix the system and reward the right behavior if you want me to work.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:01 PM
1

As a "great man" who has also been Chad to many... There definitely is a conflict at work here. The Chad persona demands not giving a fuck about many things that a "great man" must care about... That includes career, development of really hard intellectual skills (I.e. maintaining top tier coding skills), eating super clean, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:24 PM
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If your mother gladly and enthusiastically wants to fuck you, you've got bigger issue than I'm equipped to handle. But wanting to improve your life... I provide that service to everyone close to me reflexively and expect the same in return.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:16 AM
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How about a gf that gladly and enthusiastically fucks you as much as you want AND constantly tries to improve your life?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:45 PM
2

I think we have a mutual friend.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 06:16 PM
2

Very good question. If you could stop having even realistic expectations, that would be quickest way to euphoria. Personally, I've found that near impossible to do. The brain very quickly gets used to reality and adjust expectations upwards. However accepting reality as it is and keeping expectations in line, is completely possible and in fact self reinforcing. That includes accepting the failures, the shortages, the desires as well as the accomplishments. This leads to a very fulfilled and cont…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:07 PM
2

You are correct that this is the very basis behind why men are treated much worse by society. However that doesn't mean we shouldn't try to improve on it. We can and we did... It was called monogamous marriage. There might be other solutions ahead.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:57 PM
9

This is going to be an unpopular opinion but in my experience (and after leading a very accomplished life), accomplishments have very little to do with happiness. Often the unhappiest people are the most accomplished. Happiness comes from reality being better than expectations.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:55 AM
2

Holy shit, first time I read a sensible explanation for this practice in old Indian culture. It's constantly used to display "hateful irrational misogyny" and it was hard framing it any other way.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:18 PM
1

The more sexually explicit your profile, the lower the SMV (self perceived) of the girls who'd respond. Because they're already filtered for seeking you as an alpha only. I've played around with this enough. I very straight forward sexual profile for me gets very easy lays albeit from no more than 5-6/10 women. I well rounded profile gets girls as high as 8-9s responding but it's clear they're looking for more than sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:18 PM
81

How did you find out the actual length? :/
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:02 PM
8

I would buy that like everyone else but my personal experience makes me think the harm is greatly exaggerated. I (a straight male) was sexually molested as a kid from the age of 5-12 by male teachers in a school in a third world shithole. You would think that kind of chronic abuse would absolutely wreck someone based on the paranoia around the subject. But I have absolutely no psychological issues anymore. Within years of getting an opportunity (by getting out of the shithole), I was thriving in…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 01:10 AM
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Knowing this consciously and acting it convincingly are very different things. The reason is that at any moment in time we are communicating hundreds of signs... the vast majority of them subconsciously. Those signs will betray you. You and others will notice the incongruence and no one will buy it. These signs include how you place your hands, your arms, positioning of your back, shoulders, positioning of your neck, tilt of your face, dozens of facial muscles, dozens just around the eyes, tone …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 11:00 PM
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I wonder if the real reason behind the pedophilia hysteria is also linked to fear of competition.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 10:43 PM
1

If you're fucking a girl way below your SMV, sure she'll take whatever you'll give her. But for any one even close, week long silence is a tried and tested way of getting rid of em.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:12 PM
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I don't know what world you're living in but a week means you're dead to her.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:34 PM
5

Nicely said. Or in this case forever trying to build a bigger fort.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 02:56 PM
5

I hate to knock your inspiration but I've been down this path for several years now. I've made more progress in the last few years than most people do in a life time. I got to the point where fucking hot girls wasn't doing anything either. The only thing that got me excited was more sources to better myself, garner more influence etc. Eventually I realized that all of that was nothing but unbound greed. I haven't had some great epiphany. I've just gotten used to what the vast majority hope to ac…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:34 PM
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He wants to be super important.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:20 PM
2

Please tell me this guy doesn't have 2 RP points.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:28 PM
1

Now that is myopic. Life can be really good for a much longer time.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:24 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your brother. It doesn't have to be so extreme. While I'm saying all this, my current saving rate is still over 50% (started off at 10% few years ago... So it's really cause I make much more than I have desire to spend). But going to either extreme is a bad strategy. Goal should be to maximize overall happiness in life... Even if that means not being the best saver early in life.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:21 PM
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I think to have this realization you have to go from absolutely restraining yourself to letting go a bit over time. That way you get to experience exactly the amount of joy you get back and the delusion of being a really happy 45yo bcz he can finally have everything he wanted now is destroyed. Thankfully I experienced all that in my 20s already. If there is one thing I wish I could do, that is send myself some money in the past.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:16 PM
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Basically even in that society, women still have an easier and more protected life overall. The "women have it so bad in Islamic third world countries" narrative is completely false. If women have it bad, men always have it worse. You interested in any specifics?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:16 AM
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All things being equal That's the thing... they never are. The attitude premium of a 10 compared to a 7 or 8 is ridiculously high.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:14 AM
8

Got to agree. Absolute quality is a real thing. Been in a situation where I was fucking an hb5 on the regular and I became really sad deep down. We still fucked a lot because I am a horndog but I never quite enjoyed it fully. There was always a reminded of a mild level of disgust towards her and disappointment with myself for fucking her. In an LTR now with a much more attractive girl, sex is completely different... the way I grab her, the way I appreciate the warmth of her pussy, the way I reli…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:11 AM
1

There is another very important element to this that you should do some deep thinking about. Your desires and ability to enjoy things really goes down with age. In my late 20s and I am already enjoying things SUBSTANTIALLY less than I did in my early 20s. Not even things that I have had a lot of... even completely new and exciting experiences are becoming "meh"ish and overall I am a fairly happy person. E.g. I bought a sport bike 2 years ago... this is something I never thought I would own 6-7 y…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 12:58 AM
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No that's actually not the case. Society still violently enforces marriage there (and believe it or not... monogamy). Chad would be killed in a few days if he tried to sleep with someone's daughter, sister or wife... along with the girl involved. Society really does work very differently there. And no Pakistan is not Arabic, more Indian.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:07 PM
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Girl from Pakistan As someone who has spent over a decade in Pakistan, don't believe everything you read. Even there women live a privileged life in comparison to men. Life is just rough and primitive all around over there.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:27 AM
3

This was a few years ago... I had given up on online due to the emotional toll it took on me at the time. I didn't have the mental frame to not let an ugly 5/10 reject me and not let it impact me. Eventually I did end up going back and killing it there. Still I needed a lighter load to give me the energy to improve in other areas.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 10:01 PM
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Thank god someone finally said it. This is a really toxic myth that needs to be squashed because it leads to massive disappointments. I worked like a fucking mad man on myself, before I turned 25 I had a successful career pulling near 6 figures, noticeable results from lifting, great sense of style, am a naturally good looking dude, etc. The one thing I did not work on was increasing my exposure to women. On a near daily basis I got asked "why don't you get women FreeRadical5"?? It made no sense…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 04:29 PM
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The number is determined by the collective opinion of all men and women.. I.e. the market.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:43 PM
1

I understand what you're saying. It would feel like a huge downgrade. But it's because they got a massive underserved advantage to begin with that they got used to.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:40 PM
1

20 years fucking different hb8s while I laugh at the fat below average hb4s which are really my level. Eventually having to finally marry the hb4 so I can get half her net worth. You're right, I'm the real victim here. How terrible. Poor me.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:51 PM
1

Oh no, they won't get the absolute best in life for being useless fat cunts. How terrible must it be.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:20 PM
2

It's possible to have a mission being completely nihilistic. I do. Everything I do is eventually to obtain the maximum possible amount of pleasure. This is why I work out and stay in tip top shape. This is why I work like a mad dog on my career... To reach higher and higher rewards. To an outside observer my drive to achieve and excel puts most "on a mission to better humanity" types to shame. Because actually it's much easier to be passionate about yourself than some ideal or unrelated people.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 05:21 PM
3

Who cares? Why does that matter?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:30 AM
3

Nothing wrong with nihilism.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:44 PM
1

Learned it, aced it. Didn't get to use it for a decade now. Forgot it. Overall not a good return on that investment.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:55 PM
1

I'm pretty sure I'm a 7 right now based on the girls I'm pulling. That's a bad measure with the rampant widespread hypergamy of women.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 05:42 PM
2

May be towards 9-10 things change but 5-6s aren't interested in male 7s. There is plenty of horny 8 and 9 guys willing to fuck them. They only consider the 7s for relationships. I believe that is the demographic that the original quote is referring to: 5-8 girls fucking 8-10 men trying to get commitment(2< SMV difference). And 5-8 men getting in relationships with (~-1 SMV difference) these girls whenever they get a chance at one tired of being pumped and dumped.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 03:02 PM
4

Personally I prefer to eat a nice rack of ribs instead of god damn milk. But you can't really do that to these cows.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 10:24 PM
15

Pink nipples are the best dude. Try your own sometime.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:15 AM
1

See my reply to RP-Doctor. They aren't getting anything but the thirsty validation and unutilized availability to women still impacts how women behave.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:38 AM
1

You don't seem to understand how the market works. E.g. even at the peak of a economic boom there is unemployment, however once the rate of unemployment drop below a certain threshold things really start tipping in the favor of job seekers. The bottom 5% may never have jobs but once they stop impacting the market with their willingness to take any shitty job (i.e. thirsty single guys in our scenario) it has a massive impact on everyone else. Even the guys at the very top benefit.. in fact they p…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:37 AM
5

A sex toy isnt going to make you feel sexy or protect you and pay your bills Precisely. Women's pickiness and excessive demands will be their own undoing when it comes to sex bots.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 04:25 PM
11

Don't need most men to have a massive impact on the market. Even the removal of bottom 10 percent will start to turn things around in the relationship market.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 10:44 PM
6

Women still really want validation however. That service provided by beta men will be severely reduced.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 10:41 PM
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There is already a plethra of men who refuse to do much to get women... lose weight, get out of the house, socialize etc. Quality sex bots will take this trend to an unprecedented level.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 10:24 PM
5

What I may lack in looks and youth The decline should've been negligible so far if you've been taking care of your health. You have to realize, women dig mature "handsome" looks much more than youthful fresh cuteness. That's a trait men value much much more heavily for obvious biological reasons. As a guy in his late 20s who has always been complimented on his looks, people closest to me (family, parents, etc) seem to think I used to look cuter but the attention from girls in their prime (18-25)…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:38 AM
1

Yeah I was talking about others not you.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:49 PM
1

Gotta love all these people with no background in the field giving us their expert opinion :p
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:16 PM
2

Not at all. There is a major shortage right now that isn't about to change soon. There is A LOT left to be automated and automation itself needs constant maintenance. This is the reason behind my high pay. And as someone with many years of experience in this, things aren't moving as fast as it appears on the outside. The process is inherently inefficient the bigger the system gets (geometric growth in complexity and therefore the man power needed to design it and maintain it). I can say with 100…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 03:06 PM
5

There will be a general disdain for the efficiency by those who are not benefiting from it. It will not amount to much. Complainers will remain losers. Majority will retool themselves to take advantage of the automation and humanity as a whole will move on to tackle bigger challenges. This is not a new process. It has been going on for thousands of years. It's just speeding up exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:35 PM
4

20s. But the pay is so good (and my lifestyle frugal enough) that I will be financially independent in less than a decade.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:25 PM
12

As an automation engineer, I can assure you I have nothing to worry about in my lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:07 PM
5

Bit extreme ... I see my current gf once a week (we're in the same city) and would run into serious timing issues with the rest of my life if I saw her more.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:24 AM
7

That's 5 more than what you get for a suicide bombing. How did you negotiate that?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 01:29 AM
4

Fair enough but it's still not a viable alternative back on Asia. I don't speak the language either. I understand whining gets you no where but can we at least acknowledge that race can be a major handicap?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 04:16 PM
8

I'm one of those guys you're talking about (although, I've worked my ass off on building my SMV so I don't do so bad here in the west either but much worse than I should be able to). Going back to my home country isn't an option... It's a very conservative area. There is no open dating market, people just get married for life. Also leaving family and everyone I know behind for a shot at possibly being more wanted seems extreme and desperate.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:13 PM
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There is a difference between seeking attention and being loud though. A lot of chads are very loud and outgoing when they want to be. So don't use this to justify socially retarded shy behavior. That is decidedly low SMV.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:38 PM
4

No, the system is unfair and we fully encourage ranting about it. Stop trying to dictate what should be acceptable to say. On the other hand the only thing one can control is what they do about it, bitching gets you no where. And that's what they're told.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:31 PM
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I'd argue the opposite. I had a habit of overcommitting and overloading myself and as a result always being terribly busy. Then every now and then when I'd get my shit barely under control, people would assume that I was free and give me more or get resentful. Starting last year when I started a new job I completely changed that up. I would do the bare minimum possible and spend majority of my time at work researching, reading, shopping, socializing, working out etc. Then every now and then when…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:59 PM
12

Who said anything about providing?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 09:59 PM
7

I agree about okcupid... Fucking full of sjws and fatties. Yet, I met 2 out of 3 of my ltrs (both hands down the highest quality girls I've been with) on there. Both of them weren't there for very long so I think that's where I lucked out.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 08:42 PM
2

Please, just shut the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 08:34 PM
5

You won't win, but you will hold your ground. I don't know what most people are talking about. I literally can't remember the last time I lost an argument against a girl. Their arguments are absolutely choke full of fallacies and logical inconsistencies. Focus on those and make them apparent by analogies and exaggerations while using humor to ease the tension... win every argument. Every single LTR of mine has whined at some point that I win every argument. I've actually had a lawyer ex tell me …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:49 AM
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This doesn't prove it though. They seem extremely cunning, amoral and ruthless if anything.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 08:33 PM
4

This could not happen sooner. Donated 50.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 02:06 PM
7

You didn't even address his question.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:38 PM
2

I have but nothing convincing. He makes solid points.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:14 PM
2

There is actually a lot of scientific evidence behind everything OP said. Watch this it covers everything: https://youtu.be/dBnniua6-oM PS. Am a biochemist with a personal obsession with diet and health.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 03:16 AM
1

Give me the worst cities for game in the US, and I guarantee you that there's a 10% of men there who have figured out how to crack it. Harder cities can mean "stronger AF/BB dynamic and higher cutoff" which translates to "guys on the alpha end hog way more of the choice pussy". Couldn't have put it better. There are women in every city. The difference is their AF/BB preferences based on their socioeconomic status. As someone who would barely make the top 10%, personally I'd rather move to a plac…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 03:04 AM
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I don't know what world you're living in but men already are women's slaves for all intent and purposes. They also happily carry out violence against other men on behalf of the government. Men have no collective self preservation instincts.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:20 PM
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You couldn't have posted this at a more opportune time for me. I am in a great relationship but I have slowly regressed to the more maternal love side of things and as a result I can clearly see the increasing mood swings and emotional instability. Time to fix this fucking dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 03:05 AM
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All hail the new post by our leader!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 03:06 AM
2

Currently in a relationship with a girl that was a plate for ~8 months. She won me over by consistently making it a more fun experience to be around her than any other girl (I had 6 overlapping plates during this time). Eventually I just didn't see a point in pursuing other girls anymore. But you're right, chances of this strategy working out are very low. I have more feelings for my used gloves than an average plate. Edit: would love some input by the people down voting this comment. Is it beca…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 04:36 AM
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I'd honestly rather take a regular slut than an RP woman ... They just seem like regular sluts but entitled enough to think they deserve an alpha and are openly willing to manipulate to get him. Always struck me as a disgusting mindset.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:25 AM
11

I honestly find that more satisfying than scoring a new girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:50 AM
2

Have personally started a prior relationship on this premise. It is a terrible idea. She will more than likely begin to resent you for the implicit pressure if this was your thought and you'd never see the improvements you thought you were going to. It's a sad situation to be in.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:31 AM
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I'd remain a virgin if I followed that rule. Being seen fucking on a jumbo-tron is fucking terrifying even if it is with Megan Fox.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:20 AM
3

Want kids one day. Don't want lumps from build up of sperm where my severed vas deferens would end.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:39 AM
2

Don't be silly. Laws are there to protect women, not oppress them.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:10 AM
1

Yes let's replace a concrete, interesting and useful example with a vague as fuck cliché idea. /s
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:00 AM
1

It's that dimwits can get stuck on semantics and argue that bachelor tax will never happen cause it's so unfair!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:10 PM
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No point being direct when they're already achieving the same result without resistance and open criticism and dialog.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:08 PM
1

It already exists in the form of child tax benefit in Canada for a long time now and is steadily increasing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:01 PM
1

Absent his $$$ would he be able to lead anyone? If yes then he's alpha otherwise I highly doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:25 AM
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This is the wrong mindset to have. It'd be more effective to dig deeper and realize you have nothing to prove to anyone and opt out from that endless pursuit. Easier said than done but that is the ultimate path to happiness. All other rewards are temporary.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:21 PM
-8

It's when you walk around mainly relying on your hamstrings to propel you forward and look like a faggot as a result.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 06:46 PM
2

So what's the lesson here? Always be decades beyond others in experience and skills? Gee how useful, I'll get right on that. This is absolutely retarded and obvious.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:24 AM
2

Wow, this is an incredibly insightful post. You should consider posting it in it's own thread.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 06:25 PM
2

You just solved a big mystery for me. I've been wondering just how was I able to have dirty chats with so many girls at 14yo with absolutely no knowledge or skills? If that was available today I'd be drowning in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:26 AM
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I have naturally been doing that for years. The key is I do exactly what your instincts say and it just ends up that way. I think it is encoded in our genetics. TRP would blast me if they saw some of my text messages. E.g. "I hate to say it but I really fucking miss you <3" kind of shit. On the other hand I am also the guy that would go silent for days when I'm taken with other interests or straight up tell her to shut the fuck up and get the fuck out of my life and actually be willing to walk a…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:09 PM
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Don't be silly, we all know there are minor misunderstandings between women all the time. No need to bring the law in the middle of two women. That's their business you homophobic misogynistic bigot!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 08:30 PM
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I used to see my mother that way till I looked more closely at our interactions. Even your mom will only maintain the relationship positively if it is beneficial to her. A net negative and you're out. Britfault's law.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:16 PM
2

Does that work for non white men who don't experience the huge SMV boost being the super rare exotic white guy in a white worshipping Asian culture?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 09:20 PM
11

He has some good posts here and there but most of his theories are on really flaky ground. It borders on embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 06:11 AM
6

Anything is possible if you're willing to lower your standards enough. Likely for a worthy target? No.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:33 PM
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I can understand the confusion. Think of it from the girl's perspective. Chad can be much more charming in person than Billy. She has no way of telling what his long term intentions are and even then she got every reason to write off her suspicions. Men would act exactly the same if a 10 and a 5 were competing for our dick.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:40 PM
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It's because men are perceived as dogs and women not. Well it isn't wrong. Even with an RP lens. Men are much more likely to fuck anything. Higher sex drive, biological imperative and all that.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 03:07 AM
1

Highly doubt you would change my mind about things I've been working on for the last decade but sure, go ahead.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:28 PM
1

In my view, we should have girls to code and guys to plan/strategize/lead. Coding is my least favorite part of development, I'd rather set some people on course and keep playing with bigger ideas. That is honestly the dumbest shit I've ever heard. You sound like someone who is really bad at coding trying to make himself feel better about being interested in "bigger ideas". Turns out almost all of the "big" ideas of right now were ENVISIONED by "coders" (e.g. google, facebook, basis of windows). …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:09 PM
1

Your college had a ballet "department"?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:03 PM
2

Really digging this vibe compared to the usual insecure self-loathing tone that people here seem to be obsessed with.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:02 PM
1

I've eaten strict keto for 4 months at times. 0 wheat along with any other carbs. It did not change my political views.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 10:47 PM
2

which implies that way more than 10% are actually cheating It really doesn't. If anything it implies it is way less.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:46 AM
1

I think we aren't being fair to the men in these situations. The wives are shitty to the men because over years they have learned how to control and manipulate them. They do as much as they can get away with and it is precisely calculated and calibrated. The son on the other hand is a new threat, they have neither learned his capabilities nor developed ammunition against him. Furthermore society has not provided the wives tools to manipulate the son the way it has for the husband. In other words…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:42 AM
2

Oh no, I've had star fish that insisted on being star fish. Its only with very inexperienced and conservative girls though.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:25 AM
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I was going to agree but then I realized that no girl has EVER talked to me about sex that did not want me that way. Just don't become enough of a bitch that a girl is telling you about fucking other guys. Otherwise this advice is golden.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:10 PM
3

Actually its more than that. Placebo is actually effective at treating physical illnesses. It has profound effects on your immune system. The mechanism is a complete mystery.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 06:05 PM
4

If you're looking from the side however it is one step left, two step right. How about we stick to a frame that makes sense?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:42 PM
5

Tell her that you think she finds you unattractive About as bad as bad advice gets.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 07:13 PM
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Dude, I want some of your drugs.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 07:08 PM
3

While I agree with everything you're saying, it would make more sense if you replace the word "extreme" with "illogical". Average RedPiller's view of gender would be considered extreme by the vast majority of the population. What makes them extreme is the extreme deviation from the norm. That is the commonly accepted meaning of the word.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 06:54 PM
1

I have to disagree. I'm surrounded by too many people that think they're destined for greatness. Most are simply lacking in qualities that'd enable them to command such respect. They come off looking insecure and delusional. The more intelligent and socially aware peers openly make fun of them for their delusions. This trick might work with women if you're actually convinced of your greatness (though I haven't seen such a case). It simply does not work with men.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:02 PM
0

For once I got to disagree with you. Sure not much would change for the short term sex market for most men. However the relationship value of men would go through the roof overnight due to the mismatched supply and demand since it is mostly a 1-1 relationship still. And we all know how much women value commitment.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:24 AM
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Not just their own but by extension other girl's value as well. It's surprisingly how tilted their rating scale is in favor of women yet men almost always agree on within 1 point of each other. Sometimes I feel they're using an inverse logarithmic scale for guys. Anything but the absolute hottest man gets mind bogglingly low numbers.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:15 PM
1

You didn't misread. That's what I said. The girls usually just offer exclusivity after that. If you don't offer it in return, most will still stay and now you have that deal.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 08:06 PM
2

Their smv certainly plays a huge role. Personally if the girl is lower than an 8 I highly doubt I'd be able to settle for that. Above that level, other hot girls on the street start to lose their impact on me. But more importantly ones you develop a deep enough connection it does offer significant protection against wanting other hot girls. Time spent with that person becomes so enjoyable that a minor improvement in smv just doesn't tempt me anymore.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:13 PM
1

For most of them I didn't really care. For the girls that I liked enough to care, it was offered long before I requested it. All I did is casually mention "you should never assume exclusivity unless it's explicitly stated" from the beginning. That puts the ball in their court to negotiate for it if they want. And they often don't even try.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:07 PM
3

Agreed. Just shared my story to say that sometimes a relationship is a conscious choice despite having all the knowledge and options. I can force myself to keep her as a plate and continue my previous lifestyle but honestly I am just enjoying life much more now. Of course this too may be a phase.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 05:40 AM
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It probably is, but what is the harm in that? I am under no illusion that she is different from other girls. I know this sweet little angle of mine will become a cold apathetic cunt if a much higher SMV guy starts to look like a real option over me. However if indulging in this infatuation for now is bringing me happiness, why not? I know this might get my heart broken eventually but it seems a price worth paying to experience this. I have accepted her nature and love as being conditional on my …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 05:38 AM
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I've been a regular here over 2 years, this is a throwaway account. No of course I won't marry her, that is out of the question. I honestly didn't see myself getting in a relationship for a good 2 years while I was regularly spinning plates. And yes most of my plates did agree to being exclusive and ok with me seeing other girls including this one. I surprised both myself and this girl when I wanted to start a exclusive relationship with her. Scoring new girls and fucking them till they eventual…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 09:39 PM
16

I recently got in a relationship with a girl who was fucking me for months exclusively while she knew I was fucking other girls. At any time I had at least 3 plates for over a year. Yet it started to feel very meaningless to fuck other girls because I just had a better time hanging out with that one girl. Every single time. The breaking point came when I scored a new 8.5/10 plate and fucked her on the very first time I met her. With my dick inside her, all I felt inside was general apathy. So I …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:04 PM
2

Correct, the way she cuts off and hides her arms in every pic is a dead give away.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:18 AM
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That's a very good way of looking at it. In that case the best way to succeed at the festival would've been to hide in a corner, cause they were all uninterested. Lol, just kidding... I know what you mean. I took it too serious ... and worse with low success rate targets. I googled him, guy has almost a book worth of stuff out there. Looks promising, thanks.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:31 PM
2

Quality posts, thank you!
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:35 PM
1

You are right, a lot of my unhappiness and the resulting approval seeking behavior is coming from focusing on external reward. I have been in a much happier and "outcome independent" state before mentally but I've been working tirelessly on external self improvement for the wrong reasons. And it's brought me back to a shitty mental state. Do you have any other suggestion for how to maintain that mental state? So far the best I got it I read "Power of Now" and try to live in the present. As for a…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:19 PM
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Quality post. I got that exact same deal offered to me by my first LTR at 21.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:42 PM
1

That's true I was. Are you saying the correct course of behavior would've been to not try at all? I was trying to keep it very casual and not give them all of my attention (thus the being social with others part). It didn't seem like anything was gonna happen unless I took action. And yeah I guess seeking validation is still something I haven't gotten rid of completely. Those few rejection took my state of mind to a worse place than I'd like. I have not learned to detach my feelings from social …
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:26 PM
3

That's not my job. I was volunteering. I was there for the sole purpose of picking women up. Did you even read the tl;dr?
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:39 PM
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If the law cared about unequal treatment, it wouldn't become so fucked up to begin with. You have way too much faith in the system.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:18 AM
1

I am not calling anyone else gay, I just realized that I am not either. As much as I liked sucking dick, it simply did not turn me on enough. I don't know what more proof I can give :p
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 10:15 PM
2

Well since you are too shy to admit it I will satisfy your curiosity anyway. It's surprisingly fun. Granted basic hygiene, it is clean (not flooding with liquids like a vagina), non smelly and a rather natural fit inside a mouth. One thing that caught me off guard was how warm it was and the amount of pleasure you can see you're giving another person is also a big plus. Overall though, it would be a lot better if I was actually gay and attracted to guys but unfortunately I am not lol. That lead …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 05:00 PM
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I have made the mistake of testing this out with a LTR. I do not recommend it. I could feel how repulsed she was for a looong time and it never really recovered. I just wanted to see what sucking a dick felt like, ya know?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 05:56 AM
5

What opportunity cost? Chicks absolutely love signs of violence. It's literally makeup for men.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:19 AM
2

obviously getting ko'd Been knocked out by a punch to the side of my head before. It doesn't hurt either bcz you don't remember anything.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:18 AM
2

Been with female escorts before as well and it was nothing like it. And to be honest she wasn't very good at the mental aspect. She was just physically amazing... perfect bf% and distribution, unbelievably soft skin (I have never felt anything like it EVER... it had a different feel to it).
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:25 AM
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I fucked a transexual escort a few months ago out of curosity. It was even hotter in reality than in my imagination. She was more feminine than 99% percent of the female population in almost every way. Granted she started taking estrogen in early teens and was asian so fairly feminine to begin with. But things that surprised me were just how soft the skin was and how sexually charged all her moves were... haven't had anything like it. I am somewhat bi but this did not have a gay feel to it in th…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:31 AM
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