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| 39 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk” | Debate | Free_Inspection_8990 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:03 AM |
| 2 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to die | Debate | Free_Inspection_8990 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:27 AM |
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| 2 | Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea.Wait, so I want you to say it with me. A woman who currently feels bad over modern beauty standards is just in a state of “building character” yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 12:05 AM |
| – | Male Attraction is Treated as Normal and Women's Attraction is Seen as Shallow or BadAlmost exactly the same way male preferences do. Men overwhelmingly value youth, demure, shy, attractive women. Women generally select for taller, assertive, older and initiative in men. This creates the cycle where guys can push push push and claim plausible deniability where the women chosen have been socialised to not speak up whether for safety or to voice their desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Male Attraction is Treated as Normal and Women's Attraction is Seen as Shallow or BadBro, we haven’t even BEGAN (because you guys refuse to) the conversation on how women’s dating preferences more than likely leads to and perpetuates rape culture. We’ve done to death side eying men that even brush the subject of youth or fertility. This argument purely lacks perspective that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.I’m almost certain every single one of those men have had more sex than any man on this forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:10 AM |
| 3 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.Yo dipshit, if your claim is ALL men’s dating profiles are the problem. It’s easier to prove if you (a woman) can prove one case where you seamlessly integrate your awesome personality into a male profile with great success. Instead of putting the onus on all men to disprove you no? Hey, there’s a sick YouTube series for kids called “crash course philosophy.” They super duper talk slow with pictures and stuff. Look up an episode called the “problem of induction” and you might be caught up to spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Bro that body count is hardly 50 for 13 years?!? Holy fuck incels are like no threat at all bahahahhahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Well probably not because you sound insane with comments like this. Do you seriously believe feminists aligned rhetoric isn’t about “settling the score” or punching up? No actually fuck you… you already know this. Can you define for me racism please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.Can you specifically point to the part in ops post where he was promised a bride from his grandma or the promise at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here.I’m also curious for anything substantive from this rant too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.My point is you cannot tell that when you look at somebody/initial chemistry holy fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.It’s basic, basic level sophistry as a way to personally insult whoever comments. I don’t know how I get baited every time but people like her need men and women to hate each other for existential reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.You’re actually retarded and here’s why. In what situation during initial attraction, can a man prove to a woman that he’s doing the fucking dishes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.You truly don’t understand… which is strange considering how active you are here. The point is not that everyone only wants to be Chad. It’s that suddenly all the rhetoric about danger and being entitled to women suddenly gets very quiet when the man in question is attractive to the specific woman. Here I’ll help walk you through it even because fuck me you need it. Why is it that we normalise men approaching women for really no other reason than looks, while simultaneously chastising men for fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Cheating on your partner is more "toxic" than posting uncouth things onlineHowever the patterns of behaviours that cheaters undertake are completely random and are unable to be seen through? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Cheating on your partner is more "toxic" than posting uncouth things onlineBut the post is literally comparing the two. Are you just chiming in this post saying “both are bad?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureIt would benefit you so so much if while you’re here, you learn the difference between descriptive and proscriptive statements in ethics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Media couldn’t have lied to you if you can’t name the media that you consumed.Sure but I want the flip side from you Lilith. Since it’s a fact that young women have self esteem/body issues, I want you to name the EXACT sources of media that perpetuate this and in what way? Do you understand how much of a loser request this is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 4 | r/Bumble proves men do, in fact, have optionsPost the stats or stfu you float around this sub saying numbers never support rp. Well here’s your chance champ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:06 AM |
| 4 | The rise of semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences have been a disaster for gender relations.That’s a Jordan Peterson ass answer and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:41 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?You have to realise you are extrodinary as a person then right? People probably should’nt be expected to do it alone for nearly a decade because of sexuality so I do applaud you but it seems like survivorship bias imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:02 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Says the woman…. With a 6’4 husband. Yeah, you came to those preferences all by your lonesome? Do you shave your legs? Groom to female “standards” before you leave the house? Why????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:00 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Right, because women aren’t under constant pressure to perform femininity in public life. What a retard comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 02:58 AM |
| 6 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.My man is e thugging hard on this thread without a shred of irony that he can’t maintain eye contact with a server when collecting his online order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 03:04 AM |
| 7 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Without even scrolling this thread I can see people picking OP apart based on “in discussions of modern dating.” But I see an angle with this regarding general empathy. I think in general men who lament their lives either romantically or in lack of emotional support all come from a similar place in which no real empathy gets extended to them. So in that case I can see jaded men turning the other cheek to the issues that women face. Saying that though. The “women dont owe men.” Argument which is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | A guy can be attractive to women regardless of whether he’s actually a good person.That’s nice but you would never extend this charity to men who consume porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextYou’re doing the Jordan Peterson rhetoric. You smuggle oughts into descriptive facts so I’ll ask you. Are you simply describing the phenomena or are you saying unwanted rejects who make misogynistic comments should be called virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextIf I call a minority an N word. Am I being bigoted or just inferring they would be insecure with the slur? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextWasn’t your claim “nobody says this?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextAnd another <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextI mean it’s not mainstream but here’s a couple <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Feminists complaining about issues like women being objectified, or approached by men is always the most frustrating thing ever, due to their cognitive dissonance in their expectations for men in society.See this is actually the issue at hand here. You’re quick to denounce male sexual abuse preferences (which you’re right. It is gross that men look for young, “fertile” women. This is a thread about female sexual preferences. Which we can’t seem to have a discussion about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 2 | How does feminism fight "the redpill"?Holy shit you hit my young 20’s nail on the head. I’m actually saving this because it’s succinct and gets to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Misandry exists.Do you think that’s equal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI’m so over this minority report logic that incels just don’t have a target to rape. Low status men just didn’t patriarchy enough. Apply this to any other oppressive structure and this falls apart. We’re all the Germans who lived near death camps just not Nazi enough? Are you implying that low status Germans at the time had secret desires to burn Jews? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieYoung people can also be victims. And would be represented as the same demographic when victimised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieYou are literally the personification of this phenomenon. You consistently come into these discussions and try to turn it and reframe any discussion into a bitter man’s ballad so you can argue the one logic tree you only know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieAnd I’m sorry you faced that (I’m not) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieOoo unlucky. When am I being bullied by girls? Again this Freudian like excitement to share deep psychological wounds is fascinating to me. Tell me about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieThey try to be at least the ones that didn’t internalise (the agreeable, feminine coded types) progressive messaging to not make women uncomfortable. And I never said you must be a criminal. I said there’s an inherent contradiction at play here that somehow when women pick men to interact with who are higher status in a patriarchy. They somehow dont expect that same guy to use the exact same tricks that got him to the point he’s at in the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Thanks, I would be hard pressed to find a progressive who would find that response acceptable if the misogynist simply carried on with his behaviour. You would expect me to escalate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:28 PM |
| – | The phrase "men are afraid of other men" is just a feminist way of calling men bitches or pussies.Yeah it sucks when your bigotry gets analogised to racial bigots. Feels uncomfortable doesn’t it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieConfirmation bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:26 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI want specifics before I engage with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:25 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieYou’re really trying to hammer the point home I was bullied in h/s… do… you wanna talk about your experiences? Methinks thy doth project too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:25 PM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieSure I’ll make sure to comment the exact same thing when a woman complains about poor male behavior and I hope you’re right next to me in agreement! I look forward to being your ally! Hope that helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:24 AM |
| 0 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to die<image> Isn’t this you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:09 AM |
| – | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI wouldn’t expect you to understand analogies or comparisons. My point is that when these discussions come up people like you like to come in and make the conversation about how attractive=asshole and that if the womenz would just whittle old me they’d not be assaulted. This is a strawman. Just like how men have been forced to instrospect their sexual preferences. It’s time we do the same for women. But we get a little uncomfortable when that’s the case don’t we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieIn local male dominated patriarchal hierarchies. Simply the men with the highest correlation of masculine behaviors that our patriarchy rewards. Traits like assertiveness, confidence, wit, aggression. But you already know this. We live in a system that allows and rewards these bahaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:56 AM |
| 0 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI hope you maintain this energy when a woman shares a story of being scared to walk alone at night because of an entitled man and I just say “entitled assholes gonna asshole!” And totally not make a broader social critique on how men as a class act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:49 AM |
| -1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI’m not talking about the Donald trumps or the Jeffrey Epsteins I’ll give an example rn as I’m at work. I have a service manager in my automotive workshop that got moved here from another site because his wife caught him fucking a secretary in his office. Since being here and everybody here knowing exactly what he’s done. He’s still managed to snag an intimate relationship or two from the young women here. This is beyond a joke. I have a second story I blew up a friend group over. Dude 28 years … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:22 AM |
| 4 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI never claimed otherwise. Not the argument at hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieRelatively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 2 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieThis is a total ass pull number. I’m almost certain the incel body count since Elliot Roger hasn’t even hit triple digits yet. This is entirely dwarfed by the harm that assertive, confident, high status, men commit to women annually. I really don’t think people who can’t maintain eye contact are that much of a threat. But I get why they’re the focus. It’s an easy thing to point to because their rhetoric is so corrosive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 0 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieI need to be convinced these high status chauvinists are actually moral people so I think I’m right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:41 AM |
| -1 | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to diewell then I have some disagreements to get through don’t I? If you can lend any specifics I can answer them also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”When did I say attractive men? Talk about making up stories god you're deeply unserious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Because as a human being with a range of memories and logical thinking, I can holistically look at the messaging progressives/feminists have been sending to especially lower value men as of late. Let's begin shall we? Firstly the complete destruction of male spaces and the scorn that existing male spaces have today. Now don't get me wrong, there was a problem of misogyny and racism in the good ol "gentlemen's clubs" but any space that gets primarily filled with men get side eyed almost immediate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I'm almost certain I make the distinction in my OP. I said since women claim that rejecting men romantically is a non zero percentage chance (Some even saying it's a sizable chance) that men escalate the situation physically. I'm making the inference that a random stranger man who challenges a chauvinists ego in a non romantic setting has an even higher chance to be at least threatened with violence. I haven't seen anyone dispute this and the only take away I'm seeing from disagreements here is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Sure, I will believe you but you have to be honest here and say that this response is exceptional? If I would poll your peers I think I can safely say I wouldn't get double digit percentage positive responses. I can defintely appreciate you individually having that opnion and I believe that you do and I commend you on that because I think that's actually the way forward. But to your progressive compatriots, This is unacceptable and I know it. Again an edit as I formulate more thoughts after hitt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”So if a man went up to you and asked. "I don't have any racist/sexist friends and I don't laugh when I hear sexist jokes. Is this sufficient to fight against patriarchy?" You would answer yes? Sorry to edit also I wanna add. You would not only answer yes, but not caveat and say there's always more you can do. Just a flat, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”True, I am trying to learn intersectionality and how bastardised that term was used in the 2010's when SJW's learned it first downstream from academics. It's actually a fascinating concept that yeah you're right, there are wayy more localized factors concerning men than just their gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”My next post will be how the meme of "how men as a class didn't contribute massive amounts of emotional labour to assist women during the sexual revolution and the following strides to womens equality" needs to die. Stay tuned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:52 PM |
| 4 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”It's not just that. It's to brow beat low socioeconomic men or low value men on the hierarchy to threaten misogynists with implicit threats of violence when you confront them. If they turn violent on the low status man that's good. Ideally the mysogynist and the low status male destroy each other so the woman doesn't have to deal with either in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Is that a problem? Should I dumb my language down because I'm lower socioeconomically? I apologise that I won't stoop myself down to the level of thug headed violence for a cause that simultaneously paints me as a monster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Sure, I'm happy to admit I'm scared of being the subject of ire, possible threats of violence and an Australian issue (I don't know if it's an issue elsewhere) is that it's so important to give the impression that you're laid back, to do so otherwise is a case of tall poppy syndrome. You will be ridiculed almost immediately and outgrouped. Annnnndd still be in the middle of culture war bullshit where you get it from both sides. Because you're not powerful or super duper masculine, you're an easy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Yeah. I guess. Sowwy 4 being sooo week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I didn't say rejecting a woman and I apologise if that's the meaning you took away. I meant I have seen women say that it's a gamble rejecting a man because he can escalate physically. I'm making the inference that since I, a man am challenging his ego in a non romantic way. I'm wayyyy more likely to get the shit kicked out of me or at least used a threat to keep me quiet. How do I know this? Because I have experienced it when I disagree with sovereign citizens about the plight of our indigenous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I appreciate this response and candor and theres some points that ideally I would agree with but respectfully, I believe you are doing a massive motte and bailey argument here (please let me know where I'm wrong specifically you seem a cut above some other comments and I'm happy to put the effort into a back and forth). Firstly, If we were to poll progressives/feminists the question: "Do you believe men who do not stand up to public displays of misogyny but will confide in their best friend in p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:21 AM |
| 8 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Your attempts to emasculate me using feminine language is crystal clear and I will not allow it to define my masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:44 AM |
| 8 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”It’s because it’s by design. The end goal is to commit violence to misogynists and if a few low value men get hurt/killed doing the “right thing” it’s actually good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I agree with the statement you’ve tagged me in. But I haven’t read the rest of the exchange to agree with either side. I will say tho that me refusing the role of protector thrust upon me by men and then copping it from progressive/feminists by not standing up to locker room talk only for those same people to have plausable deniability claiming men are doing this to me is kinda wild. “Patriarchy is forcing you into regressive violent male roles.” “I know… I reject them.” “Why aren’t you standing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Yeah I’d say so. Men are scary especially when ego is threatened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I don’t think I’ve ever claimed that women have an imperative to protect men in the case of misandry but you’d know more than me. What are the consequences if you do stand up against progressives? Are we saying that misandrists and misogynists have the same capacity of harm when you stand up against them? I don’t believe so. Also yeah. Men are scary I don’t dispute that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”O…k sure 👍 I’ll make sure to let everyone know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”I have not claimed once men are leaders or protectors. They are people under a system with fears, hopes, desires. I will edit it’s kinda ironic me as a today living male, rejecting the role of protector/leader and provider is getting downvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Fair. Different cultures have different expectations to male interactions I can agree with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Progressives/feminists are more than happy to wield the toxic parts of patriarchy when telling “good men” to stand up to “locker room talk”Sure, what part of the violence do you not jive with? The claim that male underlying violence is inherent in male to male conflict or that progressives secretly acknowledge and have that expectation too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:21 AM |
| – | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalThey probably feel uneasy because your rhetoric is a 1 to 1 mirror of post 9/11 American conservatives talking about Islamic terrorism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:31 AM |
| – | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalI mean in AUS we have clementine ford. She was paid for and endorsed by the Melbourne council, published books, regular columnist for Sydney newspapers. Stated and I quote: “I don’t think Coronavirus is killing men quite quick enough.” Pushed back on criticism calling people who took offense “fragile”. Now I know it doesn’t fulfill your little criteria of outright stating men are not equal to women but lucky for us we have…… Inferences! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:19 AM |
| – | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalSure as soon as you recognise the cobalt in your phone gets mined by children in the global south too. It turns out, most if not all of us are intertwined in systems that exploits others. Tell me. Should I martyr myself in my blue collar workplace when one of the techs makes an off colour sexist joke? Where’s the line? Do I threaten them with violence? Or do I just say “not funny bro” and that apparently fixes all social ills instead of labelling me a freak within the ingroup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:23 AM |
| – | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalWhich are feminists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 11:16 PM |
| 7 | The phrase "men are afraid of other men" is just a feminist way of calling men bitches or pussies.I don’t think general consensus is a perfect barometer for how you are perceived socially. Were young black men who got lynched being creepy to women? Another one off the top of my head was general us sentiment after 9/11. Id be very uncomfortable telling an Arab man. “If everyone thinks you’re a terrorist, you probably give terrorist vibes.” But that’s just me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:42 AM |
| -1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.Women can fight against body image issues, assertiveness in corporate environments, maybe even nut up in intimate situations with guys? Wait no those are socialised into women and it’s societies job to help unlearn those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:28 AM |
| 0 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsOk. 👍 the fact that women at all select those men are a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:21 AM |
| 0 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsSo you’re telling me in a patriarchal society the people who are selected and generally the top of hierarchies in a patriarchal system aren’t committing toxic masculinity? That’s a tough sell for you and your beliefs but I’m curious how you’ll spin yourself out of that. And yes when you claim I’m conflating the two types of men. I’m only doing that because online progressives beat me to it. It’s actually that self evident I legit don’t know how you can disagree but sure. Sure do background check… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 09:39 PM |
| -2 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsI get the point of the question so I’m happy to answer but you and the other “blue pillers” are being obtuse and you know it. Generally (and I’d actually love for you to contest this) men who have trouble dating are assumed to have a moral failing. It’s also true that for the last few decades. Men’s sexual preferences have been heavily scrutinised as problematic and promoting rape culture ( which I agree with. Men overwhelmingly select for young, agreeable women.) it’s also true that women are o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 06:34 AM |
| – | Are Hyperbole, sarcasm, and the need to be clever killing the gender conversationHa this is funny and we can wrap up the thread there. The means in which to persuade a specific set of people your view.” Something like that Aristotle said I haven’t read the art of rhetoric for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Do black men have a higher test count than white men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.No the argument is maybe, just maybe pump the brakes a little bit on the hyperbolic, radicalising rhetoric you and other women engage with on this platform that’s making younger women hate young men. It’s literally the exact same thing as the alt righters in the 2010s. You and them are the same rhetorically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.Which men? Why are you saying “men”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men.I’m almost certain black people have a higher test count so even using your logic the race comparison to your bigotry holds up. Look man I get it, the desire to shit on undesirable people while feeling morally superior feels good. Alt righters did it with 13/50 in the 2010s, now progressives like you are doing it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?True. I’m not scared of admitting when I’m emotional. Are you able to answer my question now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes”No it’s more abstract/cerebral than that and I’ll try building a syllogism to help. 1/ patriarchy exists 2/ men typically are hierarchal and will adjust behaviours depending where they sit on the hierarchy. 3/there literally exists no way to be at the top of this hierarchy without exhibiting some level of toxic behaviour as per premise 1. 4/these same hi status men have committed this toxicity first to other males in the hierarchy/around it 5/women absolutely gravitate towards behaviours like “c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Oh okay then. If I don’t know it can’t be real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Wait hang on. The prevailing narrative beforehand when policing and destroying men’s spaces was that even ideas and free discussions that are “problematic” eventually manifest into action. So before I have a go at your question. Are you willing to acknowledge that the prior reasoning is bs? If not why are we now giving a pass to these predominantly female spaces? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:47 AM |
| 16 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Yet im supposed to be hyper vigilant against misogyny to the point i can get physically harmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Didn’t you ask later in the thread for specifics? So is there hate or not? I’m confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Why do some feminists, especially on Reddit, so vehemently deny they don't hate men but do nothing to stop and even justify hateful comments of men in their subreddits?Can you answer if you’d get a little raw if people started asking women if they’d rather a bear or black man. Emphasis on the black? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:33 AM |
| – | The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussionsI agree that overall the “choose better” crowd will not be satisfied with any choice women make due to a contempt like feeling. But it’s quite the inference to claim that they mean “choose me.” How can you make that connection may I ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 11:54 PM |
| 8 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesSo you're here being a reactionary definitionally to a group you yourself admit have worthless opinions? Math aint working out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:02 AM |
| 5 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesI appreciate your candor and you make good points but as I said in another comment this is where it gets hard for me personally. Not you specifically but people who share your beliefs will quickly say "There's no ethical consumption under capitalism" and completely waive their responsibility in creating/maintaining supply chains that reeks of oppression and exploitation. Yet as you said in a previous comment "I will remain vigilant at male behaviour as long as 1 in 20 cases of "locker room talk"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 02:53 AM |
| 6 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYou're being obtuse and I'll help spell it out with some socratic method. Do you believe at least in the last 15 years and online (same as this space you're visiting now), that there has been a push/demand for men to police the behaviours of other men in relation to how the talk about/treat women? If so where do you think this came from? The answer is from negative experiences women face while dating. Now I find it especially ironic these same progressive spaces say stuff like "no ethical consum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Refusing to work on social skills is a sign of laziness.How can you be such a progressive you start sounding like my boomer uncle who I had arguments over finding a job when I was 19. "Man it's kinda hard to find work when you keep getting relegated to automated email responses and such." "Mate, walk into the main building, hat in hand. Ask to speak to the owner, look him in the eye and give him a firm handshake. Boom, you have a job." Like unironically you sound like this.... Which is either indicative of your views deep down or my theory keeps prov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 02:45 AM |
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