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| 432 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brand | Lifestyle | FreedomWooden8605 | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 07:46 PM |
| 5 | My cold approach journey fiasco | FreedomWooden8605 | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 06:02 PM | |
| 0 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating? | Inner Game | FreedomWooden8605 | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:07 PM |
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| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandnot evading taxes ;) jokes apart, haah! jt is my brand, i does not have to ve yours. But it should definitely be mysterious to women :) whats your instagram. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 06:44 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandThey can, but you need the right questions. Ask them which ones they like more for a post for example. And show them diffrent options to pick from. If you give one photo and ask for analysis, they may try to be nice. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game?Your environment ends up making you. Being wealthy opens doors, you can learn, you can travel, you can have the right connections, get access to the right social circles. Mere exposure and familiarity are way more powerful when it comes to mating. If you don't understand this you are lost. That's why cold approach only gives you average girls. The really high quality ones are already in social circles with high quality guys. Plus, let's be honest, this is 2025 - the game has changed, you need to… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandlol - Some of those photos were taken my GF. Just because I am a good photographer does not mean I don't enjoy the experiences. Actually it just takes a few minutes to capture good photos once you know what you are doing. I am SCARY for most women, that's true! but I am just the perfect 10 for the right ones who appreciate my brand - luxury, personal growth, wealth and art. Your comment proves my thesis as I filter out you as the wrong girl for me ;) | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandI am a keynote speaker and negotiation coach, what about you? Whats your Insta? | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandBecause women analyse the photos logically instead of emotionally. They will think “oh , he is not looking at the camera… he is not smiling, bad!” the reality: “she sees a guy i the middle of a jam seasion well dressed and confident , not smiling… ‘hot guy’ ” | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandNo man, not all , take a look at my page, I m doing personal brand since one year, and I am 34. :) | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:41 PM |
| 0 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandit’s an interesting paradox. but as long as you who online what actually happened, you will only profit from it. It also attracts new friends and even biz opportunities | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandI never said that. For sure there are. What you are saying does not contradct what I am saying. Also quality matters. Women paying dudes… cool, not the ones I want to have. The real 10s are not going fororetty faces, they go for emotion, experience a and power. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandThe photo needs to evoke emotions. Use composition techniques, such as rule of thirds. Showcase your lifestyle, and your journey. Learn the fashion that works for you and your personality. Are you in instagram? Let’s chat there. You can literally copy my posts. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandVery good ones, feel free to DM me in instagram, or here. I also run ads and organise events using instagram. it has been quite powerful. Now I am in a relationship. But I relaised the content does the work for me. I am able to invite girls on dates, and events. Even just using DMs, or Ads. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandThat's not what they want my man. Let's get real. They want fashion, status, adventure, fun, personality and a fit body. And share the same values for something long term. I have friend whos are "eye candies" and they are not going on dates 5-6 times a week, and other guys with systems consistently crushing it. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:49 AM |
| 2 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandPhotofeeler is by far the worst way to discover your best photos. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandThanks, anyone can be more attractive. It's about cinematic photography, story telling. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:47 AM |
| 3 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandHate me: Personal Branding is the easiest win. And your competition is already doing. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:46 AM |
| 3 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandvery good insight, it's about getting good at content creation. If businesses rely on content, why should you not add that to your "toolbox"? You need photos that evoke emotions. And hate me for saying that, but social media works for getting you results. Because it's the funnel. Some guys talked, keep her attracted by meeting her... yes, I do both, I keep her attracted online and offline. Remember the competition is real. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandThink like a business person here. It's a lot of work to get your first sale. But once you have a system.... bummmm things can flow. Let the content do the work for you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:44 AM |
| 2 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brand10s are not in dating apps. But they are in instagram. And while you may have results with the photos you use, they can definitely be more quality results when the photos are cinematic and branded. If you are happy and don't wanna try, it's of course all good. All I m saying is "experiment" | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 10:42 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandI can share them, I have some examples. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandthere you go my man! Many men are already good products! They just need to work on their "Markeing" - that's where personal brand comes in. Keep crushing. What's your Insta? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 08:52 PM |
| 2 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandWhat do you mean by verification images? I usually text women all the same lines in dating apps, as my strategy is to get them in my instagram ASAP. Let the content do the work | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 08:10 PM |
| 13 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandIt's upfront work though ;) once the brand is in place you can collect the results. ;) | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 08:09 PM |
| 2 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)that’s not true, while confidence is attractive, the most powerful way to attract women is status. | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?It can be other things ! Do you have your life built? Are you financially independent? Do you have solid passions ? Are you building your business ? do you live alone ? or with your parents. The opposite happens too, girls don't find me attractive at the beginning ... when they see my lifestyle they get attracted. Food for thought. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Thanks for sharing this! Do you have any tips or strategies in finding purpose? Fulfilling life in that way? How to find true purpose and true confidence? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?How did you come to this realization? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Guys, don’t hate anyone. Hate just makes things worse. Be as compassionate as possible. Take care of yourself, wish freedom to everyone. The feelings you cultivate are very important for you, not only for others. I learned in practice:) | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoDon’t hate anyone, don’t hate women. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoA friend of mine, Took pics of myself | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoYou love Berlin, right? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoI have dated the most beautiful women. I am not ugly. Something else is the blocker | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The JanitorWhere are you going next in life? What projects inspire you? What are your passions? Your job is fine. It’s cool. It gives you money, it’s interesting. But are you living your dream job? And dream hobbies? If you are in the path of living your biggest passions (for example founding a band, getting a degree, etc), women will find you attractive Women like “progress” | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 11 | she has a boyfriend, she’s dating me, but at the end she said noWhy don’t you look for a girl without a boyfriend? It will be easier and more smooth | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoSometimes I feel like I am free of girls, especially when I am finding happiness on other things, like work, dancing Salsa, playing music, working out, etc. My life is cool, I am starting to truly believe I am better off without a girl, and most girls don’t deserve a guy like me. Most people live boring lives… I can travel anytime I want I am young, healthy I have friends you probably will never have: artists, dancers, singers, business people Whatever the reason is for girls to not be attracted… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Sometimes I feel like I am free of it, especially when I am finding happiness on other things, like work, dancing Salsa, playing music, working out, etc. My life is cool, I am starting to truly believe I am better off without a girl, and most girls don’t deserve a guy like me. Most people live boring lifes… I can travel anytime I want I am young, healthy I have friends you probably will never have, artists, dancers, singers, business people Whatever the reason is for girls to not be attracted to… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itWork, office, or some girl I barely talked to, and usually I am focusing on another girl(chasing a girl I think it’s hot), and then boommmm, a even hotter girl is super into me 🤣 Then I just lead, everything just flows. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 0 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?I don’t think everyone lies, I have hanged out with guys that have results | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 0 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itMaybe you don’t give a shit about women | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:32 PM |
| 0 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itI am still not convinced | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Really? What is your career? And Is that new attitude attracting girls too? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itHow old are you? Maybe look for a coach or mentor as soon as possible, at least you can skip the mistakes faster | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itWhat is your structure of game? Well, I don’t speak German. Maybe that has an impact. Also Germans are socially awkward, and prefer dating from their social circles. How does your approaches go? How many do you do before getting laid? YeHhhh, when I least expect a girl shows in my way and even helps me to pick her up. I wanted to have control over my dating life, that’s why I started doing it. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itI live in Germany, I am 1,80m, fit, and pretty good in life. I prefer keeping myself private. I am a handsome man. By accident have gotten hot girlfriends, never had to do any effort to get those. So, it seems those things just happen It seems like going out to meet women is a huge mistake | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoNo, I shouldn’t, I don’t like those. And this is not a healthy lifestyle | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Can you give me a concrete example? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Let's change some paradigmsThanks for sharing so much information! Did you have any mentor? Coach or book, program that helped you in your journey? What resources can I get to keep up? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?That’s what I meant, everyone talks about man to woman, nobody gives the f*** context! How to make man to woman in the first interaction, that could be 10-20 min, maybe more if an instant date. For most women it’s too soon, they need time and mental preparation. That’s more appropriate for a date. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?If you can give concrete examples of man to woman that would be way better. Yes I escalate, but not in the first 10 min of conversation in the middle of a Mall. 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiasco✅ ok, it seems a little too soon to be sexual, I barely know her. I will try it. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoIn a few minutes of conversation in a park 🤣? I don’t go to clubs and night venues. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 22 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itWhat I have been told again and again is that you should not do it for results, or sex or anything, just for the fun, like going to an amusement park. If that really how you go about it, then it’s worth. If not, then don’t do it. Important point: I am not good with women, but this is what everyone tells me. I have done more than 700 approaches, and even coaching and everything you can possibly imagine. No results | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 02:36 PM |
| 11 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?I am in a worse position than you man, 700 approaches, no results. I came to hate women. I still did not give up. How do you make it man to woman? Maybe this is also missing for me. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoI don’t care about money it just keeps coming, and I have a lot, maybe that’s why your friend does it well with girls. He does not really do anything, it just happens | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoI have a lot female friends, I don’t wanna fuck them, they are great girls, but not attractive, I need some more attractive female friends 😂 Yeah, yeah, I am very social by the way, I am mot an extreme case, my problem is in my dating life. Everything is fine. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoNo, I don’t want prostitutes. You are right. I will see if I can just chat with them, and on purpose leave the interaction without anything. Maybe having fun is what I need. I have to admit I am a goal oriented person, it’s difficult to just have a chat for the sake of nothing. But ok, I will try my best. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Let's change some paradigmsYeah, I don’t have approach anxiety, I have approach hate. 😊 Ok, I will see if I can get this to work. I will also have a break from talking to women. Maybe it helps to stop thinking about this for a while…. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoI tried, but usually gets nowhere. I may be doing something wrong. Sure! In the Salsa parties yes, I chat a bit with girls, but there is never any interest from any girls. They don’t engage in the conversation. Maybe it’s because I just want to fuck them? Or I want something from them, perhaps there is a way to start not wanting anything. But the problem is: why would I even talk to them? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Let's change some paradigmsWas this what changed your results? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoOk, the man is out just to have fun, and that’s it. Let’s see if I can find a way to have fun when I am out. The thing is I am a NOT a night person(I don’t wanna be), I just go out during the day for the approaches, the rest is just working out, doing Yoga, dancing Salsa. Where are you guys going to meet girls? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoI do the qualifications, sorry I forgot to add that. Do you have examples of flirting, sexualization? And maybe some further qualification? How can I make it man to woman then? I need some concrete examples | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:10 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoI don’t really have patience with women… what’s the point of flirting ? I wanna learn how he actually enjoys just flirting… this could be the solution, learning to enjoy the process. I honestly prefer to just learn a new song or learn to dance more and better than talking to girls, or going on dates. Women are too complicated, I want a way of stop wanting them 😅 | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoI have tried all types of openers: direct, indirect, semi direct. I usually do: 1. Open good vibe, smiling, confident, good fashion, good body language 2. Assumption, cold read, tease 3. Get to know questions about each other 4. After the hook, continue connecting, discover something we can do together, coffee or drinks 5. Ok, “we can’t do it now, so let’s do it later, or another day, what’s your number ”, sometimes they offer their number 6. We can do it now -> instant date 7. Ghosting, flakes,… | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:26 AM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoIt seems lime he is doing something very different! What’s one thing he is doing differently that you noticed? What’s his mindset? How old are you? And thanks for sharing! | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:06 AM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoI live in Berlin, Germany. Who is a good coach? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Let's change some paradigmsHow do you implement this change? How can you actually do it? While interacting with a girl? Can you give me an example? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoSome guys say they do have success, and despite the ups and downs are able to get dates and even girlfriends. So, that’s why I still did not give up. Almost everybody says: make your life interesting, good and work on yourself. Isn’t my life interesting, stable and cool? I don’t think becoming a millionaire is the way. I also don’t have that goal, it will take too long. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoWhat’s your story? For how long are you doing approaches? You never got any results? What’s your plan now? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoWhat’s the best way to contact you? Email? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoCan you send me your post? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | My cold approach journey fiascoYes, I d like help, what’s the best way to be in touch? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:57 AM |
| 0 | My cold approach journey fiascoSure, some fat and old girls 35-40 years old that are boring as hell want to go on dates on me | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoNo matches, I even hired a professional photographer | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoDo you think there is a solution, or I need to find a way out? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | My cold approach journey fiascoDay game 80% Night game 20% | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Losing motivation to cold approachCold approach does not work for a lot of guys, I have tried everything possible. I am just shit with girls. I did coaching and everything, it does not works. Yes, I YOU have a LOT to lose. Your time, your energy, your emotions. If this shit is not working for you, stop. You are probably shit guy like me and you should accept that | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:52 AM |
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