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For what it’s worth, even with interest rates as high as they are right now, a house is still the cheapest source of capital by a mile. If can refinance and take your half of the money out too and invest it in something that earns more than your mortgage rate, you’d be generate more money…just saying. But for the love of God get an atty-today! But ask some questions about responsiveness, technology (do they zoom or just call), etc. mine is the fucking worst ever and I went with the big name guys…
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 12:30 PM
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You don’t have a lawyer? GET ONE! Don’t pay alimony unless you have to. Not sure about the law in CO, but where I live the person wanting the alimony has to NEED it. So even if you make a lot more, if she doesn’t need it, she may not get it. Don’t let her pretend like she’s a lawyer and dictate this to you. Know your rights.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 02:08 AM
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You’re going to have to give her half the equity anyway…just saying.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 08:00 PM
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Then family law wouldn’t exist and those pig fucking leaches would have to find real jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 02:12 PM
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She either didn’t lawyer up or had a shitty one. Good for you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 02:37 AM
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It makes me feel incredibly stupid and angry at the same time!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 02:36 AM
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In FL, after 17 years, you could have to pay alimony for life. But, the wife has to have a need. Mine did not so no alimony. I am paying her a shit ton more, but as long as there’s no alimony, I’m good. Agreed with what everyone here says, stop thinking of her as your wife. She clearly doesn’t give a fuck about you. Fuck her. No offense because I feel for you, but take your balls back out of her purse. You’ll need them.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:17 AM
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If only it were that easy. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:12 AM
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The divorce process is horrible and long but your life sounds dreadful. It takes two to tango bro and you’re on the dance floor alone. File tomorrow and get it over with. Being single again is awesome.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 09:24 PM
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She lives 3 hours away with 50/50? Revenge #1-have your lawyer make her move closer or do all the driving for pick up and drop off. Not sure where you are, but in FL, you are not allowed to live more than 50 miles apart.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 10:59 AM
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Let me tell you what you already know-ITS OVER. I’d smack you if I knew who you were 😂.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 10:18 PM
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Most are dogs on the apps, but there are a few good ones. Date as much as you but drop the dogs as soon as your BS detector goes off. And at least you’ll get laid while you figure it out 😀.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 10:10 PM
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You will ruin a child if you bring it into that environment. You’ll fail as a father before you begin. Find a better mate if you want to have a kid, but lose this bitch regardless.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 02:39 PM
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Don’t tell her, just file and let the courts tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 01:45 PM
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If youve put this much thought into it, it’s already over. The finances are painful as hell, expect 50/50 plus alimony if you make more money. It is legalized robbery. But if can come to terms with that, it might be worth it. I’ve had a great couple of years since my ball and chain moved out! Speaking of which-do NOT move out. Make her. If you really want to prep, make her get a job if she doesn’t already. You want the finances to look equal.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 07:51 PM
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Got it, sorry man. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 01:05 PM
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Then just have her drop them off and you do the same. When you pick up, pull up and honk the horn.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 12:15 PM
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Got to be honest, sounds like you might be holding on. Remember you’re not married anymore and that door swings both ways. So show up to exchange with a hot blonde under your arm. That would be more fun.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:48 AM
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You’re not very smart are you? You do know that anyone can click on your profile and see you mr other posts, right? I especially like your post of you naked in a tub asking if anyone wants to cum on you. Super classy! I am reporting you to our admin. Bye.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:01 AM
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Ok, that’s different. It is 100 over. Her attorney did not request you not call her. She requested her attorney tell you that. Time to put on the big boy pants. Love and learn. My marriage was full of mistakes and regrets too. You just have to move on and learn for the mistakes in your next relationship. Which there will be one, if not more. I am way more happy now that I was in a loveless, sexless, confrontational marriage. Life’s too short my man. Move the fuck on!
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 02:56 PM
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Trust is gained in drips, and lost in buckets. It’s over. As hard as that is to come to terms with, you probably have to move on. Maybe tuck your tail between your legs and apologize profusely? Show her this post - do NOT let her copy it or send it to her, but maybe let her read it. You probably were more honest on here than you ever have been with her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 02:04 PM
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Be careful at mediation. Someone else said it already, they want a deal done, not necessarily a fair deal. We went to mediation and the mediator kept presenting a bullshit offer and almost pushing us to agree to it. We had no time to review the data, run numbers or anything. So after 8 hours, I said fuck it, no deal and we ended. That was 9 months and $30k in attorney fees ago. We are still in the process and finally getting close to a settlement. So there’s risk. You can take a shitty deal and …
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 01:20 AM
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So she didnt have a lawyer, right?
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 05:47 PM
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Don’t do that. What if she gets hit by a bus next month?
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 05:09 PM
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Go to meetup.com and find groups in your area and get that dating profile going on the apps. There are 9 turds for every 1 good lady in the dating pool today. So it’s a numbers game. Get a bunch of irons in the fire and get out there. It’s weird at first, but worth it. Just don’t get anyone pregnant!
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 02:19 PM
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Exact same boat, but my wife left me after 17 years of marriage and two kids. Best favor anyone has ever done for me. Amazing GF, sex, fun, trips…and if I decide I dont like this one anymore, I’ll do it again with another. But I do love this one. The dating scene is CRAZY today so be ready. It is YOUR life my man-up to you if want to spend it miserable or happy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 03:32 AM
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You should split assets AND liabilities.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 03:24 AM
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So kiss her ass for 6 months and file for it to be permanent.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 03:08 AM
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If she has a lawyer, she’ll never go for this. All of my great ideas to settle fairly got squashed by the lawyer. You’ll give her half of everything, and have to sell or refi cash out for her half. Sell it. If the market tanks, you have a 750k mortgage for a property worth $400.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 01:25 AM
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Uh hello!!! If she has unlimited resources, “lose” your job and make her pay you alimony! Check with your lawyer first.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 01:17 AM
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I gotta ask bro, why do you care? Fuck her, have fun with your new one. Every second you waste on trash you will never get back.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/22 12:18 PM
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Dont try to rationalize the irrational. It happened, your marriage is over, move on. You’ll mind fuck yourself if you can’t just accept that. Life’s short, hit the reset button and get on with it. Find some new pussy immediately, and you’ll see there is life after death. It was better for me than drinking. Oh, don’t drink-it will make it worse. I can say I was devastated at first and after a year since filing, I am still not divorced, but I am happy again.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 02:40 AM
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I read stories like this all the time. How is this shit legal?!? It’s fucking legalized robbery. Makes me so mad! Please tell us she’s dumb and hasn’t found a job yet.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 11:03 PM
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Be careful with new gf. She’s already bossing you around and your not even married to her 😀!
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 12:41 PM
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I am $35k in and over a year with no progress. I finally took the reins and have been negotiating with my wife and telling my attorney what to do. They’re a fucking joke. And have fun on your statements every months when you get charges for color xerox copies. What the fuck is that?
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 11:25 AM
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Disagree. Life is way too short. Roll the dice again when you feel like it and see what happens.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 12:23 PM
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Ha ha. They all seem reasonable until they talk to a lawyer. Get ready to bend over. The sooner you come to terms with the fact that you’re going to get fucked, and the future you thought you’d have is gone, the better. Or stay married.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 03:42 PM
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You are going to have to give her half of the retirement accounts and likely spousal support if she doesn’t work. Probably best to stay married, but get yourself a girlfriend!
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 01:04 PM
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Sign up for tinder, lower your standards and go get laid. Just use protection! Meetup.com is also good to find groups that do activities you enjoy. But do something to to make you not feel alone. Women are really easy these days.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 01:38 AM
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Tax benefits.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 12:17 PM
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You reap what you sow bro. Fuck her. She should have thought about the consequences 8 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 03:31 AM
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Try to get her help first. I was on the other side of that and my wife bailed me, and called me a drunk when I need her help the most. There is an awesome sub called r/stopdrinking. It has help me tremendously. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 02:38 AM
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It gets way better. First, how did you get divorced in seven months? I am 12 months into a divorce with nothing to really split other than our assets, along with $30,000 to my attorney, and nothing to show for it so far. But you will be just fine. I am guessing before you guys filed for divorce your relationship wasn’t exactly great, right? So you were basically living in a loveless, sexless, unhappy prison. Bro, you just got paroled! This is your second lease at life, what you do with it it’s u…
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/22 11:28 AM
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Everything’s been said here. With respect, take your balls out of her purse and cut off ALL non-essential communication.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 11:18 AM
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Seriously, bye Felicia.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 11:11 AM
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There is nothing wrong with dating based on income. I’ve dated and dental hygienist and am now with a chiropractor. Trust me, when you date someone with their own money on par with yours, it’s WAY better. I don’t feel like a piggy bank helping out a charity case. We can have fun and not worry about who pays for what. Sorry but that’s the honest truth.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 10:54 AM
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Hang in their and keep trying. The day you give up is the day she truly wins.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 11:22 AM
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All you have to do is sign a prenup with clear terms before you get married. I thought about asking but did t want to offend my fiancé at the time. In reality, if she decided to walk away because if it, it would have save me a ton of money and headaches. Families are amazing, you’re proof of that. But when things go south, it gets ugly. Don’t ever forget why you wanted one In The first place and stay true to you. You mom gets drunk and parties? Film her and show that too the court? Can’t brainwa…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 11:18 AM
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He’s 15.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 11:14 AM
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Bro, you won. I am trying to get there. 11 months in and $30k to lawyers so far and we are nowhere. Anyone else have attorneys that sucks ass? Mine can’t recall the basic details of my case and all the paperwork I get is completely wrong and full of errors and typos. So I have to constantly fix shot and send it back for them to redo-which I pay for.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 12:43 PM
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2/2/3 is what I am in now and it’s a constant back and forth. Moving to a week on week off soon. If she thinks 50/50 is to much on the kids, ask her for 70/30, where you get them the majority. She’s trying to limit her child support to you. Plain and simple.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 11:45 AM
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You’re overthinking it, but don’t fuck yourself. I am going through it too and make good money. At the end of the day give her half and move on. If you fight it or have shitty lawyers like I do, they will milk you and you’ll wind up at trial where the judge will give her half anyway. I am 11 months in at $30k in fees with nothing to show for it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:09 AM
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Ah I never heard of this concept and not sure I’d respect myself if I had to pay outside of a normal date. Isnt the hunt part of the fun. Echo what others have said, women are pretty easy nowadays. Took me a month on tinder and bumble, but found current girl on match and have dating over a year. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/22 10:51 PM
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Dating apps have ruined…dating. These women are trash-what can do for them, what can you offer them? It’s become transactional. I learned it’s a numbers game. Go on as many dates as you can, and talk to women in stores, on the street. Join a group through meetup, and hope there’s a good looking woman in there. Good luck, but I agree with the vasectomy comment. Best thing I’ve done and keeps you from getting trapped with trash.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 02:05 PM
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FYI, inheritance is not considered a marital asset in my state of FL.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 12:55 PM
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Dude, you WAY over shared with her. Always ask yourself two questions when you think you need to share something. 1. What positive outcome will occur as a result of me sharing? I’ll spare you the suspense-the answer is almost always nothing. 2. What negative outcome can occur as a result?
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/22 05:28 PM
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Easier said than done, but move on man. You’re miserable now, how much worse could it be if you just said fuck it, and moved on? Guarantee once you shed that bullshit you will feel a ton better.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 01:58 PM
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There is no we afford two houses. If you’re the bread winner, YOU will be paying for two houses. Financially, people with money get FUCKED in divorce. It’s legalized robbery. I can’t believe these laws exist. 50/50-go fuck yourself!
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:29 AM
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If you’re worried about financial ruin, stay married. Because unless you have a prenup, you will wind up having to give her half of everything. House, retirement, savings/checking, brokerage. That’s is reality and unavoidable if she lawyers up. Not to mention child support and probably alimony every month. If you make good money and she’s just a housewife, that could be thousands per month. Does she work? If your young enough, you’ll bounce back. But if it’s inevitable, rip the band aid off so y…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/22 10:04 AM
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They saying goes when you walk into a room of needy people, look for the sucker. And if you can’t find him, it’s you! Fuck her bro. Have some dignity, and I mean that with respect.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 11:38 PM
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Can you get the marriage annulled if she thinks you should’ve never been married in the first place?
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 12:56 PM
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My attorney sent them a request to set dates for depositions, or pre trial discovery. This is moving along one way or another.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 11:15 AM
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Because it will be an opportunity for her to take advantage of you. Send some flowers instead if you want to pay your respects.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 07:00 PM
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Block her ass! And why would you go to a funeral for her parents? Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 01:08 PM
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Um, no. Fuck no, unless you want to get fucked!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 01:16 AM
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Be careful-your kids just committed a felony. Accessing another persons digital mail is illegal. Good information for you to have, but you can NEVER admit this to her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 05:20 PM
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Do not move out. Make her move out, get a job and pay her own rent. Because when (not if) this winds up in divorce, you will owe her a fucking fortune if she doesn’t have income. Right now you are paying for one family one house. If she does t work, expect to at least double that expense, not to mention you will have to give her half of all your investments, retirement, etc. dont fight that feeling; it took me a while to come to grips with it but thats a fact! You absolutely must stay in the hou…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 02:28 PM
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I got some shit yesterday because I was reading a thread in this sub and a woman kept commenting. When I told her to leave unless she had a penis, some doucher started in, calling names, sexist, you name it. Once I pointed out it was a forum for Divorce_Men, not Divorce_non-binary, he shut up. Does it really have to be that hard?
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 11:30 AM
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Update: I’ve asked my attorney to schedule pretrial discovery with her, and have letter drafted that we are prepping for trial once we receive their response to our counter, assuming it is going to be ridiculous. Again, thank you all! I’ve known this had to be done, but my attorneys haven’t explicitly recommended this (I wonder why?), so it’s great to hear it from multiple other people.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:47 PM
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Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:44 PM
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Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:41 PM
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Not sure it will fit, but I’ll give it a shot! Love on these forums when someone turns the discussion into something physical and/or starts cussing. Now there’s a sign of intellect. You may want to write this one down, “It’s better to keep your mouth shut and seem a fool, than open it and remove all doubt.” Run along now…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 12:14 PM
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Wow, thanks to everyone for the helpful advice. We have not had pretrial discovery yet. I’ve been advised to but put it off to try and work out a settlement. I understand now though the pressure that can add.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 11:25 AM
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Good for you!
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 11:08 AM
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Toxic BS? So sorry snowflake. This is supposed to be a forum for men to seek help from other men in their same situation. The name of the sub is Divorce_Men. Should that say Divorce_non binary or some shit? You’re clueless.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 11:08 AM
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Does that gnaw at you, or are you ok with leaving all that in the past and moving on. I do t care if I “win” because I realize we already both lost. I just don’t want to get worked over after all the shit I did for this woman for 17 years.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 02:44 AM
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You missed the point. This is a Mens group.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 02:42 AM
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Didnt help that my first attorney went on maternity leave about 5 months in. We’ve done mediation, got a ridiculous settlement offer that we made an equally ridiculous counter offer to and now we are waiting. I am impatient because I have somethings I want to do and need to know what capital I have left and I’ve been in a relationship that I am tired of keeping secret. Note: this was after the split and no way tied to the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 02:18 AM
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We agree 50/50 on our kids and went to mediation in Dec. it was horrible. The mediator through their list of 30 things at us and wanted us to make a decision without verifying anything. Then at the end, my ex says she wants to sell the house and split the proceeds after we had always agreed one of us who stay for our schools and neighborhood. So that derailed the mediation. 2 years though, geez, what’s your hold up?
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 02:13 AM
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💯! She’s been shitting on him so bad for years that he thinks he’s the problem. Fuck her. And I have had more sex in the two years of being single than I probably had in my entire 17 year marriage. Truth.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:24 AM
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And getting laid twice a year? My wife left and it’s been one of the best things that’s ever happened to me. A loveless marriage is slow torture. File as soon as you can! Every nickel you make until the filing date she’ll come after.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:02 AM
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Yeah, bye. Unless you have a penis.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 01:00 AM
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She kidnapped your son, plain and simple. Call the police. If she doesn’t work, she can’t afford to fight it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 11:56 AM
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FUCK HER DUDE, put on your big boy pants and thank your lucky stars at least you found out. Next…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 08:06 PM
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I feel for you man. Not saying it can’t work, but you both are on limited time on this rock. Maybe it’s time to grab the stick? By that, I mean take control of the situation and move on. Certainly if she has. It took me a while too, but I am a lot happier now than I was trying to fix something that couldn’t be fixed. And don’t beat yourself up either. Nobody’s perfect and she isn’t an angel I’m sure.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 11:54 AM
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If you know it’s over, FILE! I dont know GA law, but in FL, assets are divided from the value at the date of filing. Mine moved out after 17 years in Aug 2020, but didnt file until a year later. So during that year, all the money I saved she wants half of. I assumed, foolishly, that once we split our joint accounts when we moved out that was it. Nope, it’s from the date of filing. So if it’s beyond repair, the sooner the better. Good luck-I’m 10 months and $26k of attorneys fees in with no end i…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 02:59 PM
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Sounds like you just need to get the monkey off your back. Tinder and Bumble. Lower your standards if that’s what your after until you get few under your belt. My wife left two years ago and I have never been “busier.”
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 12:50 AM
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It’s therapeutic. My wife moved out and about a month later I was back in it! After another girl a few months later, I got snipped! Best decision I ever made.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 03:45 AM
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