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| -1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Recruitment | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Does friends with benefits ever work?My first thought was "Runescape" but I think in this case it's relationship lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:47 AM |
| 7 | I think my coworker likes me ,what do I doWise advice, hulk hogan's nut sweat! But nah for real, make sure to keep it professional in the workplace and it's cool. What you do out of hours is nobody's business. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Taking a girl from class out for ice cream. Question on how to play it?Don't go out there with a goal in mind. It's exactly how you have fun when meeting up with a mate, except you're throwing in flirty lines and remarks in there. If a cheeky comment comes to your mind, say it. One thing I read on this sub that works miracles is, if there's a quiet moment, look straight at her eyes with a little cheeky smirk. The way to do it is while looking at her, you should be thinking "I want you real bad and you know it". If she cracks a shy smile or shyly looks away, you've … | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Best way to deal with girls on their phone during dates/conversationWhat's always worked is the "really?" look. When she takes her eyes off the phone and looks at you, look her straight in the eye, glance at the phone and back at her with the "really?" look on your face, but in a playful way. More often than not she'll look like she got caught with her hand in the cookie jar. She knows very well that it's not cool to be texting while on a date so that look just reminds her. Like you said, it's probably automatic for her so it just reminds her without being aggre… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 0 | clueless on texting, general advice?Meeting up for coffee is the absolute minimum level of trust need - if she doesn't even feel safe going to get coffee with you, at a public place, either your first interaction was poor or she's got some issues. Yeah, some girls text more than others but if you're going to be texting, make sure it's extremely light hearted. Memes are great. And don't force conversations. Convos die out in texts and I see alot of my friends spending time wondering what to reply when the last text sent/received wa… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Going on my first real date tomorrow. Any tips?From very recent experience, remember that it's a date and not just a hangout. When you're having fun (at least I found) it's easy to get carried away and just focus on the fun and forget about escalation. Remember to drop the odd compliment, tease, push, pull, sex topics and most importantly, physicality. Don't need to rush or follow some rule or a ladder but just make sure that the first physical contact you have isn't when you go for a kiss or something. Just my $0.02. Learned this lesson the… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Y'all motherfuckers need to read this.Man, this is one of the most negative comments I have ever seen on reddit, let alone this sub. You had it together and I was thinking "he's got a point, I can see where he's coming from" until you "how about this" rant. What followed had so much venom I couldn't believe it. What the fuck was that all about? You read that post from the guy and all of a sudden you see his whole life story? You can see his life is shitty? Where did you get that from? You post about him and his facebook/instagram. S… | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | is inner game a 'catch22'?The fact that you mentioned specifics of "inner game" tells me you were either told/taught the wrong things or there was some misunderstanding along the way. There are no specific activities to improve inner game because everyone is different - hence, "inner". I've never touched a string and the only thing I can play in a piano is Eminem's Lose Yourself melody from the beginning of the song. I'm willing to bet that most - at least a shit ton - of people here don't have a clue how to play instrum… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 09:48 PM |
| 3 | So I made up an alter ego to aid myself in the art of game. Going to break him out tomorrow.Goes up to a girl: "You know you want me baby, you know I want you too! They call me Superman, I'm here to rescue you!" | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Is being funny a feminine thing?The thing that determines it is whether it is coming from a natural place or is it forced. If you're trying hard to be funny it's painfully obvious. Same with being unnecessarily polite. If you have a natural humor about you and you're well mannered, everyone will appreciate it not just girls. It's only feminine if you're actively trying to be funny and forcing the situation because then you're moulding yourself to her - a form of submission. Don't be funny or express an emotion for the sake of … | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 06:37 AM |
| 4 | [Looking for] A sub where everyone is trying to become the best version of themselves and supporting each other in doing so togetherIf you're looking for something that blankets all the topics you mentioned, I think this is the sub for it. While it is centred around attraction, most of the information is just how to become a better version of yourself. It covers topics from your physical health, mental health, appearance and social skills. Sounds like what you're looking for is to improve what's called "inner game" and this sub is full of good advice for that. After all, seduction starts with yourself - if you're not attract… | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 11:40 PM |
| 3 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.I used to let that game consume me, but I took time out of all gaming until I was no longer addicted. Slowly started playing some games and finally felt confident enough to go back to the most addicting one of them all lol. So far, so good. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 04:11 AM |
| 6 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.Break the chain. If you're at home it's going to be next to impossible to not play - so, just at the time you normally play FIFA, don't be at home. For me, my addiction was Runescape (don't judge, still have an account) and the schedule was wake up -> school/work -> runescape -> dinner, sleep. In order to change this, all I did was I'd hangout with a couple friends after school for a bit longer. Maybe get coffee or go to the library and get back home just at dinner. Make sure the activity you ch… | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | How to have more positive outlook on life?In that case it's also a matter of understanding the circumstances. Alot of times, people do things or own things or put themselves in situations purely for recreation. Certain things have sentimental value to people that goes beyond rationalisation. The apple tree might have been something that they are proud of and in that case they just want to see the bright side. Any negative comments - regardless of whether it's directly against the tree or anything that affects the tree - can cause them t… | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How to have more positive outlook on life?That's actually not too bad because you provided a solution as well. Negativity would have been if you just said "that's going to cause blisters". Providing a solution isn't negative, it's practical. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 12:53 AM |
| 3 | How to have more positive outlook on life?If you're talking about being positive in future situations, I might be able to give you my $0.02 but I'm not a good writer so bear with me. I had a friend who was the same - the first one to see the negative in things. Could be something as simple as the shoes someone wanted to buy or a holiday we were planning. He'd be the first one to tell you how the stitching on the shoes looked sketchy and how a tourist was killed in that destination 5 years ago. He's now fixed this and he shared with us h… | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 10:41 PM |
| 0 | How to set boundaries without coming over as jealous?Dude some people just have inside jokes that are just between them two. I get tagged on alot of posts by this girl who's taken but that's because we've got jokes that she can't tag her bf on cos he wouldn't understand. She works at the coffee shop I go to and my mate owns so I literally see her every day, at least a few times. It's inevitable that we'll have inside jokes that others don't understand and she'll tag me in posts that are relevant. She's not going for me, I don't even want to go for… | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 08:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I fix people pleasing tendencies and fix my need to have everyone like me?Fair enough, suppose he could have listed some books and/or videos on YouTube. Speaking of which, videos might be a handy resource for you - a fair bit of content and not as consuming as reading books. Can't think of any youtubers myself as it's not a topic I've had to research but I'm sure RSD might have something on this. | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How do I fix people pleasing tendencies and fix my need to have everyone like me?Fixing one's attitude takes way longer than reading a book. If you don't even have the patience to read a book, i don't like the chances of you having the patience to go through a personality change. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | When girl you recently interested in ask you to do her a favor ( something in your capability)They key would be to do it because you want to do it and not expect anything in return. I do favours to everyone, not just girls if it's within my scope. Basically I wouldn't do something for a girl I wouldn't do for one of my guy mates. In the same token, if I drive my mate home from a party after a rough night, I don't expect anything in return. Same with when I do favours for a girl. Most guys that do favours act like "ok I did this for you so you need to give me something in return", whether… | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Has a girl called you pretty? Shit Test?I got called pretty once, I didn't know how to respond since it was my first time so I just said "well that's a first but I'll take it. Thanks, you're very handsome" | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?Embrace it. I don't know that makes you think you're weird but in most cases, embracing it sort of cancels it out. That weird habit/characteristic then goes from being "weird" to being a part of your personality. Every single person does some things that can be considered "weird" - whether it be the way they dress, the music they listen to, the stereotype they don't fit, etc. For me, my mind is all over the place and I sometimes say things completely out of context. I used to think I was weird b… | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 12:04 AM |
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