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Saying that women dont seek as much casual sex because of greater risks and less satisfaction but also trying to argue how much of an privilege it is. FDS moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:18 PM
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midwestofuhunter is coping too much. No. being fat is not atractive. Her therapist is brainwashing her into thinking men just dont want to admit it but only does it because she is fat herself. lillythofbabylon just has shitty posts. Some I agree with but most are kinda dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:09 PM
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This is so cringy and stupid. If you really have nothing better to do pls reconsider life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:57 PM
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Why are you intentionally rude? Helps no one and shows a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:52 PM
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You cant be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:06 PM
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Have you ever heard of hormones, culture and social upbringing? Because thats your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:55 PM
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Because parasuicodal attempts are not only the biggest predictor of a following suicide they obviously show that these women are not okay at all. Women have far more suicidal thoughts in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:09 AM
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I mean you can just look things up this discussion is way to boring to get personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:50 AM
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Previous suicide attempts are the biggest predictors of an actual suicide in women so I am not sure what to do with this regarding my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:46 PM
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Do you have anything to back up that claim? Because from I have gathered the reason men die more often is because feels more like a slow spiral downwards which enables them to plan their suicide while women are more impulsive in that regard and just take pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:14 PM
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You confuse your statistics. Men are far more likely to die in an attempt but women carry out more. Men use methods which secure death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:09 AM
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Sure if you include some symptons of general male behaviour you will get the result you are searching for. Women are more neurotic overall, have far lower self esteem especially until their 30's, feel both positive and negative emotions more, attempt suicide far more often etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:18 AM
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The copium hits even harder when they make fun of onlyfans models but fail to see that she earns a shit ton of money with the 'fake and weird' body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:13 AM
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Your relationship might be great and all but the last sentence really is a big yikes for me tbh. Are you a russian prison guard or someones significant other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:55 AM
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Dont get me wrong ofc it is stupid I am very much aware of that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:18 PM
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You can accept my explenation or not I wont argue further than that. I am not talking about the other communities either. Again we can SEE that it has changed there is nothing to argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:05 PM
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Redpill is a community you cant tell me it isnt. Redpill is not a method like science which dont change meaning. Even as an ideology/believe/idea it will change with time. It happened with every ideology from fascism to democracy. Mussolinis original fascism is different than the thing it will ber known for. Same with marxism. You will have to specify if you really want to make your argument work. Literature does the same. "Redpilled defined after _____"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:18 PM
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Thats not how groups work. I assume you are american and I also assume that you know something about the history of the republicans. They changed so much that they are the opposite of what they were in some ways. That said the redpill community is heavily focusing on improving their value and pseudo science. Everyone can see what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:04 PM
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Thats your definition of redpill. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:06 PM
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Social issues such as anxiety. I would gladly help her through that. Overly attached. I think its cute and I am definitely a teamplayer. Some kind of physical disability. Its a downside for sure but I will admit I get an ego boost everytime I think about having a SO that I can help/protect in some form. Alcohol in moderate consumption. Anything else is a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:05 PM
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Obviously hypergamy is real. There is a lot of literature on this and the explaination is rock solid. Women invest more in offspring and therefore have higher standards which make up for the risk. The dynamic at play here is a simple power play dynamic. You move to HIS desk, you approach HIM, HE awaits you. Thats why I dislike approaching. Its an gesture of her having power over you while you have to hope for her agree to an conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:03 PM
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Its more about the people who are inside the community rather than the label they put on themselfs. In theory redpill is about self improvement and social aspects which explain what women generally find attractive. This sounds good. However I have watched some Alexander Grace videos and a lot of times he is wrong but even worse after watching him I get tons of trashy "Why men dont want to marry anymore", "Women are getting desperate", "Modern women are delusional", "Woman settling for Beta after…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:56 PM
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Probably nothing. Women hold the majority of debt and many pick degrees which are useless. The gap between the subjects each gender picks is likely to widen again (gender equality paradox) because things like houswifery is getting more popular again. However I would like to see a change in the underlying issue. Women get better grades for the same amount of work and school isnt fitting towards male nature since we are less agreeable/submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:26 AM
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Looks like a strawman for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:17 PM
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Thats what I have heard too. The vasalgel 'surgery' is cheap and companies will a lose a lot of money if it gets approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:27 PM
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The pill for men was invented but had so bad effects on the male body that it didnt got to the market. So what else is there for men besides condoms? I would to see vasalgel to come to market but right now there arent good alternatives. Complaining about it wont achieve much just like comaplining that a cure for all STDs doesnt exist. Many people especially women point out the negatives of pregnancy and many of them are correct. However currently you have all the control whether you want to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:21 PM
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That guy would have followed you anyway. Avoiding normal men wont help you be more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:29 AM
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Sure if you have been assaulted you will be more aware. That does not the change the statistics whatsoever. You see this always come up here, No hookups because the fear of being murdered. Eventhough the homicide rate where I live is 0.7 per 100.000. You can do the math yourself how many people are murderers. All I am saying is that people are highly irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:20 PM
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Its a matter of statistics more than anything else. Your perceipton of danger does not change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:06 PM
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I think the risk you mentioned is greatly exaggerated just like the 'men murder risk'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:57 PM
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Yep but women on here said "what do I get out of it?" - the answer is that you make someone happier which might not benefit you but I am sure you would give someones belongings to the police even if it doesnt benefit you. Downvoting is not allowed btw. see rule 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:13 PM
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Well yeah, but some people, believe or not, like to make someones day better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:48 PM
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Its insane how some women think just having 1 foot out the door will get them rApEd. Its delusional but kinda funny. Btw. the reason people give compliments is to make someone feel good. If you dont find value in that you are probably a trashy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:48 AM
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Nah that sounds like an 1984 speedrun if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:53 PM
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Its the healthiest lifestyle for children and society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:11 PM
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A guy who is mainly into video games or other hobbies which dont allow conversation with people without knowledge on that topic. Someone who goes camping will experience things he can talk about with people who dont go camping. You also should have knowledge on a wide variety of topics so reading books is good. Trying different things in general are great. Getting a masters degree for example or volunteering are easier than 'just' getting a better job. Being liked by a wide variety of people is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:30 AM
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Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:32 PM
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Eventhough anger is one of the 'accepted' emotions of a man that doesnt mean that you should practice it. Most of your dating issues are not because of your average looks but rather because you are both boring and generic. Proper hygiene like keeping your skin moistourized and using more than 1 product in the shower is neither feminine nor debateable. Misogyny isnt cool. Crime is mostly a male issue. MGTOW is a revenge fantasy. Nobody cares in actuality so pls stop genaralize men by saying the '…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:12 PM
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FDS is a sub that mainly focuses on shitting on men while being filled with bottom of the barrel women with mental health issues who dont see the connection between spreading misandry and being surprised at the misoginy aimed at them. Porn is mildly harmful media. It worsens your sex life and relationship quality but whether people who consume it view women as less is still discussed. Obviously porn is far less harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:28 AM
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Damn 20+ hours seems to be a common appearance. For me its 4 hours for workout, 6 minute cold showers everyday, maybe 30-40 minutes of grooming, and 15 minutes for oils/skincare. About 7 hours total lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:48 PM
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Keep the cringey fetishes outside of this sub. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:25 AM
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I wouldn't be so one sided on this but at the core I think both have lost. The happiness and life satisfaction of women have decreased over the decades faster than mens and mental illnesses are out of proportion too. Rights are as worthless as money if it doesn't improve your mental well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:14 PM
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I don't agree with 4 and 8. Bald men aren't seen as unattractive past a certain age and the oval face shape is literally the most attractive face shape statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:49 AM
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Look at table 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:09 AM
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What is it that you dont understand? Again its a tiny fraction if you look at that graph. Dont compare them 1 on 1. Combine them and then compare it to BBW. There are also tons of studies that prove that fat people, especially fat women, are seen as unattractive. Here an example. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1038/oby.2005.168 On a 1-6 scale healthy women managed to place at 1.27 while obese women come in at 4.28(!). Even women in a wheelchair were more attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:39 AM
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BBW is a tiny fraction of the industry. The porn industry would have developed in that area but that isnt the case. Simply because we like the things that are harder to achieve. For example for a period of time where pineapples were hard to get they were valued a lot and the scottish even build a temple designed like a pineapple but when they became more more available the people didnt want them anymore. Its the same with weight. Its easy to be fat so its undesireable. Just look at the pornhub s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:48 AM
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No its pretty easy to debunk by just saying that the porn industry would fill that demand but we arent seing any of this in the slightest. Its anonymus too so your argument doesnt work. Even things like cuckolding are relatively big just to prove my point. However the explaination why we find certain things attractive is more interesting imo. Usually societies beauty standards come from a point of privilege or investment/work in looks. Fat women are often seen as attractive in poor countries and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:32 AM
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Its the best way we have for asexual people. That stuff turns your dick faster into a dead fish than any porn on earth could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:47 AM
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Would not recommend that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:56 PM
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Don't put yourselfs in boxes or desperately try to fit in just so you can slab a label on yourself. PPD is usually a good place for a person that doesn't belong in a certain group. However on the argument that you had I must say that you come accross as somewhat delusional. I am not trying to be rude but obviously you 'market value' drops with every partner you have had after the 3rd one. Its the same with sex work. There aren't really many quality men out there who would date such a person and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:18 PM
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Be yourself is bad advice if your personality is trash thats also kind of what they are getting at. So its still bad advice except when you are already good enough which is not the case for the people how seek this advice anyway. I agree with the premise though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:05 PM
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Bad take. Its an misogynistic culture combined with a religion that shits on women. I agree that its absolutely disguisting what is and will happen to these women now and I am fully supportive of giving afghan women refuge and not afghan men. However they are not submissive by choice while western should tend to be somewhat submissive because thats attractive to most men. By that I also dont talk about literally slave submissiveness - just tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:03 AM
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If you try to hit on my SO with that intention I will certainly beat you up hard. Have some morals and leave relationships alone. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:23 PM
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The perceipton of being less dangerous is already enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:46 PM
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A couple things are wrong here. Dimorphism involves more than facial structure. Wide shoulders are highly attractive and I havent found any evidence that supports the opposite but only in favour. Masculine faces have some negative attributes associated with them so highly masculine faces are considered unattractive by a lot of women. Interestingly societies that are safer like Germany favour masculine men more than poorer ones. When it comes to testosteron the evidence is very clear that the big…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:02 PM
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-12 but irl I am definitely right leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:36 PM
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There are several methods to change your eye color permamently. It is pointless though because eventhough blue eyes are considered most attractive one study shows that it doesnt impact overall attractiveness even when the participantes say they look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:44 PM
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"I increased my income, build muscle and tried to develop more strategies to get laid." but also "Women are miserable without marriage! I don't need a woman I am a free man!" Sounds a bit like I am pandering here but the coping from some people is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:03 PM
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Same theories exist with dual mating strategies. Having a baby that could come from multiple or different partners decreases infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:38 PM
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Concealed ovulation didn't develop for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:03 PM
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The theory goes more like this: Since women have developed hidden ovulation unlike most other species they are trying to get a safe beta provider but cheat on them with an apha male to get higher value children. This is true as far as we know because women prefer a more masculine men during periods where they can receive a child while prefering more femninin guys the rest of the time. However I think that 'theory' isn't true for a lot of people including me. Men have a higher coolidge effect whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:20 PM
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Are we arguing whether men should shower now? Ofc you have to stay clean that's the most basic thing in dating or life in general. No one likes when the person you are dating has a smell to him/her and you simply can't afford that as a man. The majority of people don't smoke and even if they do it's just not true. My father is a chain smoker and even I could tell if my brother showered or not. The argument is weirdly specific anyway. Also women are often fine even fucking at public toilets, so g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:22 PM
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Yes but not female friends at the moment. That will likely change next year though when I move to a city because I am going to do stuff like climbing a friend of mine and she will likely bring friends with her. Parties and clubbing are my worst nightmare so that isn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:26 PM
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Male, 21, INTJ-A and sometimes INTP-A There aren't any pills I agree with today but when I learned about this kind of stuff I would say red pill followed up by blackpill which changed within 2 weeks to my current status of every pill is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:09 PM
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You only hear the bad stories and not the good ones. Only 12% of married couples are unsatisfied with their sex lifes and I don't think many of the satisfied couples make a big effort to keep novelty. It really shouldn't be a big problem if you keep in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:05 PM
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If you were to ask a feminist whether the higher crime rates of men were due to biology they would most likely say that they are naturally more violent while asking the same question about gender roles like women being the main housekeepers they would argue that it's a social construct. These debates are all about power dynamics nowadays and not about healthy gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:37 PM
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I kind of agree but not fully. Generally speaking women want a good, confident, attractive, exciting men. You can get around very well if you have 3 of these traits so being good/nice isn't necessary but it certainly is a bonus. No man should betray social values to get laid because in my eyes that just makes them a looser even if they get laid because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:04 PM
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Between 35-40 there are more men in relationships than women simply because they see younger women which inflates the number of women in relationships betweem 18-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:00 PM
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The vast majority of people seek monogamy - both men and women. However men seek more novelty than women (coolidge effect) and have more relaxed views of poly relationships. With that in mind I'd say women are more monogamous which I think is better. [Source 1] [Source 2] [Study 1] Before someone else points at the study that indicates that women get bored of the same partner faster I'd like to point out that reading the whole study explains the phenomenon by showing that the cause is mental hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:53 PM
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The examples you give are close minded and only apply in PPD. Men have more testosteron and therefore higher risk taking. Overall men do far more stupid stuff like setting things on fire or doing random dangerous stuff. I am not sure though if its a good thing to be more wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:59 PM
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I say 'most' intentionally. And it would be 3rd place after physical and emotional compatiblity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:55 PM
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Why is everyone so focused on alpha and high value? It's just an important part of attraction. Climbing the ranks will give you opportunities. Why is women’s income not taken into account in their “value” ? It seems to that if you find a woman that makes good money, sign a prenup,there will be less chance of “divorce rape”. I have never been attracted to women with a big career in mind just like most other men. I simply don't care if you have a degree or make 200k. It would also be a bit artific…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:15 PM
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I am sorry to inform you that I forgot to put on the attachement thing for my trimmer which I realized too late (this is already the fixed version my beard is usually fuller). During my little photoshoot I also saw that I am once again a bit of a fatty. Fun fact: Tomorrow is the first day in a long time where I have to look good 🤡 Had a comfy sleep though (｡◕‿◕｡)/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:46 AM
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Women are much more agreeable, have lower confidence, have more tend and befriend behaviour, are unhappy in relationships where she earns more, are happier in traditional submissive roles, have more submissive sexual fantasies, less aggressive, point anger onto themselfs rather than others unlike men do etc. etc. All these factors are submissive by nature. I am generalizing but every argument I have listed here have major differences betweem the sexes. Being more submissive is not better or wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:38 PM
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You don't specifically need a Katana for that. A anime body pillow will be enough just like any other object from japan beta normies would consider cringe. The fedora is a staple. Stay in front of a mirror and chant "I am a lonely wolf, I don't care what society thinks of me!" 3 times to summon Keanu Reeves or Elon Musk who then procced to buy you an island.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:25 PM
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lol "sigma males". Are you aware that a part of the sigma male mentality is that he does not know and does not care that he's a silent "alpha". Besides these stupid words and categories the so called sigma males are basically 16 year old boys who are introverted and think they are silent alphas because they read through Berserk once while coming of as edgy losers in school. Small rant aside some want do want machos, some want needy guys and others like their boyfriend to be more emotional. Yes n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:53 PM
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Need to phrase it differently. A common barrier in the US is 6ft and here it's 5'11 eventhough we are taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:28 PM
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1) No I don't believe in it 2) Because most poeple don't like to hurt other people around them. If it's a stranger it is also likely that they don't think about what they are saying and just do it anyway because they heard it multiple times now without questioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:19 PM
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And finally someone who doesn't say 'western' dating culture as if europe and the US are the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:32 PM
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Looks like shit if I am completely honest. It seems like everything over there is about looks or status symbols. Dating itself doesn't look natural there while people here are more like friends who get into relationships. The most common height barrier here in germany is 5'11 (180 cm) which is less than in the US (6ft barrier) eventhough it's literally average height in germany. Overall it's just less toxic and more fun/chill from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:31 PM
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Monogamous relationships are more sexually satisfied than all other forms of relationships or non-relationships. HVW and HVM both cheat less. A lot of cheating by HVW comes either from self esteem issues or lack of caring from your So and both are addressed in some way by being good looking. There are also statistics for that but these are the reasons that make sense to me. Both HVM and HVW can't be decribed as high value if they cheat. Are LTRs hard to maintain? sure but that doesn't mean it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:44 PM
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I wonder why I haven't thought of it yet because I often hear from women that they find it weird/awkward that so many men masturbate to still images. You might be on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:39 PM
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Not lucky. Just look for quality friends that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:46 AM
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The charts make sense to some extends but for me Sarah Roemer is way higher on the list while some 9.5 don't even make it to bottom 40% tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:32 PM
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Attraction doesn't work that way. If he's good looking, he's good looking - which is good. Appearance impacts way more than attracting women it also helps with being treated more respectfully and is a huge bonus when applying for jobs, flats etc. The halo effect is strong in this world make sure to abuse it as much as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:34 PM
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This is a no-brainer but if a girl ever talks about FDS. RUN. She is now chasing unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:50 PM
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From my experience the irl women don't shit on men. I've only had good experiences in that regard on got some compliments for loosing weight at that time. Ofc on the internet it's a different story but I am thankfull that normal women aren't like that. Overall compliments to men from both men and women should be embraced more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:12 PM
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If you average in genetics it's definitely not hard to get into relationships. I am not sure about hookups because I don't do them so no experience. It might be harder if you pursue a single woman at a time but the numbers of online dating make for it. If you had a 20% to get into a relationship with a girl you were dating that you know from irl with a dating pool of 5 women the chances are lower than having a 5% chance with a pool of 30 women - you know the drill. The average dating value in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:26 AM
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Just in general I advise to you use sources that can be taken serious and not news sites with few anecdotes from one sided publishers. Some/most of the articles are literally just wrong or don't put things into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:38 PM
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Do know, however, that women wear make up for themselves and not for others. Everytime when this gets discussed people come to the conclusion that it is for men. Why do you want to look good? To feel better/confident! Why does it make you feel better/confident? Because I like to be better looking! Would you put makeup on when you live alone in the woods? Ehm.. noooo!! So you only put it on when other people can see you? Yes. So you are influenced by other people to wear makeup? Ehm... I guess.. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:49 PM
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Both men and women aren't the same quality as they were 40 years ago but mainly men get blamed which I don't think is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:08 AM
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I challenge the idea that men just want sex one first dates and most people marry within their own league so education matters to some extend but it's rather correlation than causation. It isn't a bad thing to be the best thing she can get as long as she has value to her that would attract good men. For the most part this subreddit does not influence the way I date or have a relationship outside of some few important basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:28 PM
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Looking through several subs regarding this topic is a bit awkward. FAW for example got privated because the women that posted there got too much attention (lol) and sites like https://thepinkpill.co/ are good for some laughs. There is no average woman that is invisible. I feel bad for the truly ugly women because if you fail at the one most important thing to men and not being at fault simply sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:30 PM
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Thats's just why you should have standards. I don't date if the bill isn't split. Move on if she doesn't like it. It's literally just about not being a piece of shit I don't think it's that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:26 PM
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Some people like to have value so they can respect themselfs. Lying to get laid is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:23 PM
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TRP tactics are manipulative to a large extend which isn't beneficial to dating in general. If the only thing you want to get out of a woman is sex be honest about it and if you don't meet the standrads of most women go see a sexworker. Have your own standards while not giving in to penis induced manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:27 PM
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Still waiting for Vasalgel ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:29 PM
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I looked through most of these studies before most of the methods they use is flawed in my opinion. You can't really decide whether someone is attractive when the pictures they use look like an MMO character creation screen without, like mentioned, even showing the jaw. Most of the studies that say feminin faces are more attractive are supporting AF/BB behaviour. Masculine men for genes and feminin guys for relationships to get cheated on (hidden ovulation). The same way women say they would wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:07 PM
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Women who earn more are also cheat more on their SO... It goes for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:08 PM
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That's not the full story. Women want 'alpha' genes and a relationship with them for the most part but won't get them to commit to her so she settles for a beta that provides for her. However these are extremes and don't reflect reality all that much. It's the same way with categorizing social behaviour since the majority of people are neither introverted nor extroverted but somewhere in the middle. I have both alpha and beta traits (I really don't like using these terms). Tbh though if you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:17 PM
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Women shitting on men is one of the oldest tropes out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:10 AM
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Good. If that were the case women would have sex with animals left and right. Just kidding but not really the study is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:35 PM
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German women are a bit masculine and less family oriented compared to other european countries. French and scandinavian women are better in that regard which makes them my favourites. Russians are too materialistic imo but certainly beautiful. There are women that I wouldn't date like most asians due to cultural differences and american women because from everything I hear and read there are basically no redeeming qualities that sets them apart in a good way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 04:27 PM
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Open marriages fail 92% percent of the time. It's the worst constellation you can have for a marriage. I don't know any guy with some self worth that would enter such relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:36 PM
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I want to marry but still have to disagree here. The law doesn't say that the man has to pay but women actively choose men who earn more than them even if it's just a little bit. If you go into the dating market looking for marriage and only try to marry women who earn more than you do you won't get married at all. There are some families where the woman earns more but neither are happy about this since women tend to lie about their partners income if they earn less than her (can't remember the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:01 PM
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You definitely need some help. I hope you can pull it together!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:49 AM
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The differencepreference for height in a relationship is lower. Outside 25 cm seem to bemost attractive. Kissing is kinda awkward when you are almost a foot apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:14 PM
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You can't be serious about that pig woman story. Like.. how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:20 PM
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"We show that sexual conflict at the level of preferences is translated into choice: women were most likely to choose a speed-dater 25 cm taller than themselves, whereas men were most likely to choose women only 7 cm shorter than themselves. As a consequence, matches were most likely at an intermediate height difference (19 cm) that differed significantly from the preferred height difference of both sexes. "
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:42 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0003347213001590 The 12 cm seem to be the average height difference and was then called the ideal height difference. If you look around usually studies are mentioned that say 4-6 inches is the best difference. Another study says its best when the man is 1.09 times higher than his SO. The stats are all over the place but usually 10-15 cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:21 PM
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You didn't seem to bother much about gaining healthy 9 kg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:47 PM
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I don't believe you look chubby at a bmi of 17. Do you have some kind of mental health issue with your weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:56 PM
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How skinny is too skinny? Victorias secret models have no effect on me due to their skinniness. They are not extreme but still to thin for me. A BMI under 20 just isn't for me. Is there such thing as too skinny? Yes. Can a woman be too big for a relationship, but small enough that you'd still have sex with her? Or vice versa? I don't do casual sex so that would be out the question. I would not have sex with a person that is too fat/thin for me let alone have a relationship with her. Overall, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:13 AM
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The perfect height difference in a relationship is 12 cm while women found men who are 25 cm taller most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:10 AM
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The perfect height difference in a relationship is 12 cm while women found men who are 25 cm taller most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:09 AM
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That would be an interesting experience for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:28 PM
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If we count subconscious pills I'd go with yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:26 PM
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By bluepill I meant people who are aware of the pills. I prefer bluepill people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:10 PM
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Agree but I am thinking of a person that is aware of the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:40 PM
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There isn't really social pressure for a woman to be alpha so it doesn't matter. Besides that early humans where practicing infanticide so I think there is some biology at play why we look down at men who raises a child of a different guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:31 PM
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Would anyone here date someone that is red/blue/purplepilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:05 PM
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Honestly I think it won't raise standards that much since attraction is biological and women prefer men compared to their height and not of other men as far as I can tell. Being 25 cm taller than her is the sweetspot for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:01 PM
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Women do have higher standards simply because pregnancy was dangerous back then so they should tend to be more selective. Why do some women think the bar for men is low? Honestly because they are just ignorant. The bar for looks on it's own is higher and then you have to pass other qualities aswell. Maybe these kind of women are just bitter towards men idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:10 PM
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I find it weird that some guys would be agrressive in their bio. Personally I think both parties should make an effort to look presentable. Clothes for men can look good very easily and with the lack of options you can't really choose poorly if you spend more than 2 braincells on it. The body however is a different story altogether. It's hard to achieve bulk naturally which some women just don't get their head around. Loosing weight is far far easier then to become visibly bulky. Some people can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:02 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:42 PM
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I use the same source. I said 'pretty much' intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:15 PM
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Thats actually only true for women who are 40+ and have children or are divorced. Pretty much the same amout of men and women between 18-39 are looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:21 PM
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I am fully aware of the difference. https://www.welt.de/wirtschaft/article197954721/Geburtenrate-Frauen-wuenschen-sich-mehr-Kinder-als-sie-bekommen.html The article I saw mentioned 1.89 and this one 1.83.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:17 PM
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No new information for me. Just saying that there is potential growth that has been happening for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:03 PM
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There is still is a lot of potential because stastically german women want about 1.9 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:42 AM
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With cycles I don't talk about every 20 years. Look at the different eras.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:40 AM
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Jiggly. Looks great while walking and feels better too. No one would choose firm over soft on boobs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:10 AM
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There have always been progressive and conservative periods in all cultures and they change place on a regular basis. The consistency of this throughout history makes me believe that conservatism will be practiced more somewhere in the future. Stay at home mothers are increasing for example. Here in germany the birth rates have been the highest since 1973, marriage rates are up and divorce is decreasing. The government can't really do anything and probably shouldn't. Life satisfaction and well b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:49 PM
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If we are going into the tens of thousands of dollar category just go buy a prostitute/escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:11 PM
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Not redpill. I just think selling sex is skanky behaviour and tbh I find women who are do such things just disguisting in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:40 PM
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1) I wouldn't say overrated because I think it is great but people without experience just can't see the downsides. Recently I watched an interview with a 21 year old virgin and he has this weird concept that sex is pure love and people who have casual sex take advantage of women thinking that women just want love and are uninterested in sex. Angelic creatures if you like. So yeah a guy/girl without experience are reading too much into it. 2) I wasn't in love and had no interest in women due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:03 PM
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I'd go with A She is probably low n count and marriage is something I am going for but ideally I'd like to have some form affection by my SO. Person A also pays on dates which is a sign of interest so I wouldn't worry much during dating. I assume she has normal libido. Person B is literally just about sex which is nice and all but during dating I'd have no idea whether shes playing me when we don't have sex because she doesn't pay but if we have sex early (which would be the case) I would have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:35 PM
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Your data would suggest low hypergamy but it's not true when it comes to income. Income =/= Education. "One of the reasons why education predicts relationship formation is that it has a huge role in determining who you come into contact with, and thus who you get into relationships with. So aside from whatever role education has on your individual attractiveness, it plays a role in the kind of people you're likely to form relationships and the class you're likely to exist within in society." I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:52 AM
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Have to disagree on some parts. I am from germany and the gender balance in university is 50/50 here and has been for 20 years now. Don't know where they get the data from. In 2020 we had 52% male students. I also think that hypergamy has to fall logically because women started without much resources. Education is also not the best indicator of ones romantic attractiveness. Education is probably one of the least important behind looks, personality, wealth, status, intelligence. Women are still g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:35 AM
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Apparently being unmarried, white, 6'1 and not obsese puts me in 1.3%. That will likely drop to 0.14% late 20s early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:42 AM
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Your evidence that women are more into poly is kind of weak. Here's some data: [Survey 1] [Survey 2] [Study 1] [Study 2]. There is also a study that says women get bored of monogamy faster but they also say the differences is largely due to mental health issues. I also think women cheat less in optimal relationsip. Looking through some information on cheating women tend to plan cheating because there is something wrong in the relationship and men are more impulsive driven. That ofc doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:26 AM
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What exactly do you like about dating in germany if I may ask? Didn't think it would be much different in scotland.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:43 PM
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For me it's normal to have a little chat about sex beforehand. Depending on the conversation I would say that I set something up or they come out that they would want to in some form. Have a sample size of 4 so not the most accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:03 PM
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Don't do it often since I am currently not dating. The times that it happened I just said that we weren't compatiable and that's about it. Sleeping with someone and then leave knowing they want to have a relationship is kinda shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:32 PM
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Short list of reasons that sound reasonable to me: Porn often leads to erectile dysfunction Women are insecure about their looks and comapre themselfs to pornstars Some porn is simply degrading In relationships the focus should be on your SO It ioncreases the risk of cheating by 80-300% depending on source Some guys think porn is real sex for some reason The porn industry is full of scam Women like a monopoly on sex i.e. they hate competition People can get addicted to it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:50 PM
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Wait. Are people able to read minds and have virgin X rays nowadays? Because I can't tell if my friends are looking or not if they don't tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:40 PM
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I acutally can't believe a woman here said that it doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:54 PM
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Pushing too hard is just weird in general. If you say that you want to wait that's enough for me to stop pushing. I just need a sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:50 PM
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It's faster. Men are equally allowed to use strategies that benefit them not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:45 PM
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I kind of disagree. I push for sex and if they give in I'll move on. That's the more optimal option imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:03 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:05 AM
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Between the ages 18-39, 61% of women and 67% of men are looking for a relationship. Depending on prior maritial studies women are looking less for relationships than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:10 PM
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I am 21. We are not talking about attractive men here so I don't see why you would bring that up. You also seem overly defensive about gaming. It's a boring activity. Doesn't matter if you spend 2 hours a day on it. It's still boring. Porn makes your dick soft. The regular guys are NOT struggling due to their genes. How many people that you know are actually interesting to talk to? Not many in my case. The average guy is perfectly able to get into relationships. Half of men my age are single and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:35 PM
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Average genetic looks puts you in front of average since the average guy doesn't do much of an effort to be attractive. Literally just being thin puts you ahead. I often hear that incels are soicially awkward and that might be true but it's probably not only due lack of socialization but also because they have absolutely nothing to hold a conversation with. Instead of gaming 8 hours a day go read a book. Currently I read 'Psychology of Crowds' and with that book alone you can talk about this top…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:29 PM
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First time I expected and hoped the link would be a Rick Roll. Regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:12 AM
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Get that Beta Billy mentality out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:59 AM
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Even if she tries to get proper bacteria in her intestines?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:55 PM
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Take care of your body and don't be an emotional cripple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:43 PM
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The guy doesn't look feminin at all and definitely looks better imo. I can break it down if wanted. The girl needs to loose some weight so I can't judge if it her genes are bad tbh but I think potential is there. That being said there is no reason to change anything if it works for both. Looksmatches should not be a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:23 PM
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I get why they don't like porn but why quit fapping altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:26 PM
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We have been together since 5th grade and our personalities match very well together. We became friends while I was fat. I usually hang out with the same 4 people and I'd say all of them have some problems regarding their looks. None of them have problems getting girlfriends as far as I am aware and I have been approached during school time eventhough I was clearly overweight. No one in my group is below 6' though (I am 6'1). I'd agree that people hang out with people who are in most ways simila…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:01 PM
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Looks is definitely not the only thing for LTRs or marriage. I think it's really close minded to think personality doesn't matter if you reach the looks threshhold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:28 PM
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Women: Average height Blond to brownish hair. Normal length White ethinicity Wears glasses Skinny/normal Flat ass/chest Would approach - why not? Don't know if I would have sex with her I am not a fan of casual sex Men: Average height Brown hair. Short to medium length White Normal frame with a small beer belly. Unathletic boring body Would be uglier than me but better looking than most of my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:18 AM
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It changed in a similar way to you. I have become a bit more bluepilled but in the sense of statistics not being so one sided as TRP would claim. Sometimes I pick up some depressing information on here that I didn't know of before. For example mothers look daughters more in they eyes and interact with them more. The socialization differences begin from birth by your own mother. It changes my view on men a bit because I was and still am expecting some stoicism from men but less now due to increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:12 AM
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I disagree with a lot that TRP says but showing emotions to women truly does turn them off. On other subs you sometimes hear that men want their own emotional therapist in a relationship and they are annoyed by it. No. Men just want to share their emotions sometimes and the little bit we share is enough to get them annoyed. Crybabies are highly unattractive for everyone. Personally I deal with my emotions via dreams/dream diaries and the interpretation of them. Sometimes they are highly accurate…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:58 AM
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I hate feminism whole heartedly. Don't get me wrong I am for equal rights and opportunities but feminism is warping the perception of women on what is right or good for them even when the opposite is true. Laws are being made that turn men into second class citizens. All I want is an equal playfield and open discussions so women can choose without the manipulation from both sides. If we look into the data we can see that the traditional lifestyle was especially beneficial to women in terms of ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:53 PM
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https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Transgender-exclusion-from-the-world-of-dating%3A-of-Blair-Hoskin/960e40dd99828ca62c1a1dcecf26d0937127a96c https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Transgender-exclusion-from-the-world-of-dating%3A-of-Blair-Hoskin/960e40dd99828ca62c1a1dcecf26d0937127a96c/figure/0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:48 PM
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If I remember correctly 97% of people wouldn't date a trans person and I assume it's somewhat similar with nonbinary folk but less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:21 PM
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Only 4% of mammals and 27% of primates are monogamous. Saying a species is not monogamous because many other aren't is not an argument. Barely anything walks on 2 feet and therefore humans aren't meant to walk on 2 feet. You see where the logic falls flat. In the early days, a few men used to reproduce with most women. 8000 years ago 1 man reproduced for every 17 women. Due to agriculture and nothing more. The ratio has only been seen in that small time period and for obvious reasons. Here are r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:01 PM
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You shouldn't. Don't work on anger issues I guess. Self improvement is important. Very important. Yes but not the root why he won't have access to sex or LTRs What else are they supposed to say if looks ARE important and confidence is too. Being honest shatters your confidence, which you need everything off if you are actually looks-unfortunate. Just be honest no need to be rude to someone if you tell him that he/she ain't chad/stacy. They are most likely aware of that my friend certainly is. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:57 AM
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I didn't really have good access to the internet until I was 14 so everything I had came from female friends, movies and all other the other media that teaches blue pill. And let me tell you that it can't get more bluepilled than germany. My female friends repeated the same stuff to my other male friend who was looking for something by saying the usual "you shouldn't change for someone else", "be more confident", "looks is not thaaaat important", "I think you look great!!" etc. just virtue signa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:10 AM
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I will make it quick: https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/5e816dd0-1ffd-0132-4e38-0ebc4eccb42f.jpg?w=760&h=735&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/6739b310-1ffd-0132-08bb-0eae5eefacd9.jpg?w=760&h=708&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 Technically I was a bit wrong too but the main argument stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:53 PM
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"Real life doesn't support this. Women want someone their own age." Read again that's exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:53 PM
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Every statistic on sexual dimorphism agrees that masculine men are most attractive. It's not about believing anything it's a well researched topic. Stastistically speaking women prefer a man 2-3 years older than her regardless of his age. A 53 year old man is most attractive to a 50 year old woman while all men regardless of age agree that the most attractive women are 20-24 year old. I can send the graphs if you want but I hope you just take it as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:23 PM
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I have literally worked in that field all your points are simply wrong. Almost all the parts were too heavy to lift so there was always something to carry it around without much effort. The machines were designed to be assembled with the equipment. Stop being dishonest if have no idea what you are talking about. "There is more then just bags to carry…you are going to cut up 1200 lb rail into itty bitty pieces in a always balcony location where you cannot use that safety equipment." We are talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:03 PM
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This is so pointless since I have already explained multiple times that I am talking about PERCENTAGES. Stop trying to make anything different else out of it. Idc that the variance for height between men and women is the same while it's different in IQ since the only thing I am saying is that the top percentage of height and IQ favours men. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:28 PM
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"I already did. It is proven that women are weaker then men." You didn't stop being dishonest. "And not even the majority of men can do this work. Yet you think anyone can easily?" I never said anyone can do the work easily. Speak for yourself. "Who said anything about women not being able to do stem? I didn’t. I said STEM requires the person to be intelligent. I was noting that most people cannot do stem." Which makes the point you are trying to make here pointless. "And even then, they need ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:14 PM
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It's about the same as height because of percentages. Yes men are taller and therefore have a higher chance of being the gender with the tallest person. Men also have a far higher percentage of smart people and therefore have a higher chance of having the smartest person. Both are differently distributed - both statistics are skewed. With a sample size of more than 7 billion people the it is stastically almost impossible that a woman is the smartest person. If you want to argue with me whether t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:51 PM
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You didn't get it. Straight from wikipedia: "Some studies have identified the degree of IQ variance as a difference between males and females. Males tend to show greater variability on many traits; for example having both highest and lowest scores on tests of cognitive abilities." Or in pictures https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Gaussian-distribution-of-IQ-of-men-s-162-and-women-s-132_fig1_344751288 It's highly unlikely that a women has the highest IQ and it's the same with height. And yes IQ …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:31 PM
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Give me detailed examples what women aren't capable of. There are above average intelligence women out there too and eventhough they aren't in the top percentages due to the different iq distributions it doesn't mean they can't do STEM at all. Physical labor can be mechanized or split up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:09 PM
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It's a mathematical rule. It's the same with height. The tallest person on earth will always be male eventhough it could be a woman in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:03 PM
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The more freedom women have the more they will choose what suits their biology better. That's how I would conclude things. What you say is in line with all the studies I've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:14 AM
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Almost everyone can do everything that the other gender is capable of. No one can reproduce without a combination of a man and a woman. It's simple and the constant "I don't need women!" and vice versa is both boring and cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:06 AM
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Wanted to post the usual 'muscles are attractive studies' but luckily you mentioned at the end that muscles overall are attractive. The ripped guys are out of reach for the average men though since working out 4 times a week won't turn you into Henry Caville so no one should fear getting too muscular - if that is even a thing. Men and women are not thaaat far apart when it comes to muscle size attractiveness [Study 1] but women vary a bit more than men do and they like muscles slightly smaller. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:38 AM
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I disagree with some points made here. Even if women had the same rights all along they wouldn't contribute 50% in innovation/science/philosophy not because men are better but due to the nature of these things and our biology. The smartest person on earth will always be a man - the stupidest too. Only a handfull of people move our society forwards and these top percent are mostly men. Math will only become more important and men are better at it or at least better when it's important ie advances…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:12 AM
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that's what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:22 AM
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The study that everyone gets the information from clearly states that the main factor is mental health issues. Women have far more mental health issues thus 25% of women have decreased interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:33 PM
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I have seen the data the 17 to 1 ratio was a small period in human history where agricultur developed so it certainly isn't genetic especially when we look at several studies that prove that it was more like 1.1 - 2 women reproducing per man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:14 PM
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Probably because things like cuddling are more equal and inoffensive while sex is a form of validation for men. This sub also focuses a lot on casual dating/sex where romance has little place. Discussions like yesterday about your favourite romance fantasies are definitely overlooked here. These topics also seem to be filled less with toxicity and more positive about our interactions with the opposite gender so I'd like to see more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:08 PM
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Agree with OP. Somehow some people claim women go on cock carousel while also saying that they are monogamous by nature. Choose one please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:13 PM
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I disagree. Women put a lot of effort in the one thing that gets them attention - Looks. They don't have to invest as much in personality because that isn't efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:37 PM
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I agree but with biology I meant something in the line of monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:12 PM
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Since she is a replicant all the personality she had was implanted. She can't have her own personality from the start she has to build one on her own. Ofc this is only specific to blade runner I do want a woman who I can have deep conversations with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:30 AM
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At the beginning she can't have a deep personality in that story she wouldn't work as a character.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:46 AM
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Not yet. I really need to though because Blade runner is one of my favourites. From the movie alone I don't think it's that bad. Giving her a real personality from the start would kinda ruin it because she thought she had one but it was fake all along. " He was into adult diaper infantasizing porn btw." Srsly how does that shit even develop?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:49 AM
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I disagree. Her entire identity was turned upside down when she realized that she is a replicant which made her question herself in the most fundemental way. The only thing she knew was real are her feelings. She is not a doll but a breathing entity that wanted to be human and treated as such which was the whole point of the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:39 AM
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I read through poly and casual relationships from time to time and the glorification of it is something I will never understand. They don't increase happiness, satisfaction inside the relationship or sexual satisfaction - it's the opposite. The vast majority of men want one exclusive parter just like women. Should you try it? Honestly idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:28 AM
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At least we can expect some form of make up so it is a lie that everyone knows so it doesn't do much. However padding that makes your ass bigger gets my blood boiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:53 AM
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Yes she was a replicant. Didn't stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:19 AM
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From my experience when I watched porn there is a small stimuli which leads me to getting horny and then watching porn. That should be about the same for women if they were as visual. It's speculation ofc since men truly have a higher libido. I have also seen porn specific for women that is verbal only (men moaning and stuff) which isn't really a thing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:33 PM
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In reality men watch more porn and check out women more than women do men. Women look at other women also but for things like clothing/style. If were that easily aroused many of the sexual problems wouldn't exist. It doesn't hold up to reality. Women don't get wet looking at apes fucking eventhough certain parts in their brain tells them that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:44 PM
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For me it's like Blade Runner where Deckard falls in love with Rachael but their love is both forbidden and with core issues but he does not care and runs away with her leaving everything behind. It's basic but imo one of the most masculine tropes in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:37 PM
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Obviously everyone is free to do what they want but I would be lying if I say that I won't think less of you if you open the relationship. They don't work stastically. 92% of open marriages fail and open relationships don't increase sexual satisfaction. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:02 PM
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Eh, that collides with the different behaviour of actual people though. If we were going by their methods women would also get horny looking at animals that have sex which doesn't really hold up. Maybe the methodology is flawed - maybe not. I just don't think the results are accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:45 PM
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There were matriachal societies and they failed. Historically speaking female leaders are not more peaceful. A society with only women won't produce leadership/purpose/direction/action. Physical crime would be far lower. A society that lacks one gender will certainly be inferior to a mixed society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:17 PM
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You seem really ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:03 PM
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I have read the study and the biggest factor were mental health issues and not biology itself. Women have more mental health issues and that's why 25% of women loose interest in sex overall or in the same partner. Also the coolidge effect is far bigger in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:19 PM
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Exactly. The one study that shows that women get bored of the same partner quicker also shows that the main factor is mental health. Women have way more mental health issues and therefore also lower interest in sex overall or the same partner. Lack of effort kills libido too since women usually need peace in a relationship to have satisfying sex and men often ignore problems inside the relationship. Most of the problems are both mental and avoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:16 PM
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Yeah I think both attitudes towards problem solving are valid. I like women who make people realize and explore their problems just as much as men who try to get things done. A combination of both would be great. Hating on expessing empathy while complaining about society not caring about men is nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:45 PM
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Just do it. It takes literally just a minute to apply and wash off some time later. Women need to take care of it more than men due to thinner skin but men should do it too imo. I have used moisturizer before but there are some chemicals that especially men should avoid so I switched to Jojoba oil for the skin/hair and rosemary oil for my hair. Doesn't cost much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:29 AM
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In OPs study it also says that women are looking more for quality than quantity relationships. It would be interesting to know how much of an impact the different social circles make because studies always mention how women don't need a man for emotional labor because women build support groups for themselfs contrary to what men do due to stigmatization. I am not sure what the second link is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:52 PM
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If we are going by OPs studies/graphs than the difference between men and women is minuscule for the most part. That's the same result from the study I have mentioned. One of the only bigger differences is social standing where men think to loose more status but I am not sure if social status equates to self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:20 PM
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Well link it then we are talking about the study 2017 study from the UK if I am not mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:46 PM
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Well yeah but the ones who play feminist to get their dicks wet are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:41 PM
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Same source as yours. There really is only one study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:40 PM
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I think the description of a male feminist is a bit overblown. It basically assumes he has a deep mind and great personality by default. It's more blurry anyway since I like most of thoose things and I am against almost all things feminism pushes these days. I personally don't know any and I don't know whether they have success or not but the ones who are feminist only to get women are one of the most pathetic men out there from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:35 PM
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Women say more often that they are happy being single but it didn't impact overall well being. It most likely has something to do with the support network women have which men lack due to stigmatization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:02 AM
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It's basically a men hating sub with bad advice. I don't care if you spread misandry/misogony online as long as sites like Reddit treat every gender equal and ban fair. That being said FDS should have been banned long ago since similar subreddits for men would be banned in an instant. FDS is also full bs science that goes against nature. When I went thtough their Wiki somewhere it said that women have multiple men who give them resources without sex in return and that's how nature works. It's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:41 AM
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1.3 women per men in europe, 1.4 in africa and 1.1 in asia. Somewhere in here it claims that there twice as many women alive at certain periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:52 PM
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I don't know why you all get this wrong. We are currently talking about old men killing themselfs in high numbers despite rating highest in happiness. I DO have data that shows that they are quite happy but I DON'T have data on why so many old men kill themselfs. The only thing I can give here is speculation which I NEVER called statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:11 PM
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Stop being a smartass and provide something if you want to take part here. EDIT: Can't see the difference between sarcasm and normal statements anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:26 PM
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You have a source for your theory? "we don't have further information on this" It wouldn't be speculation if I had data. I haven't looked too hard but this seems to point to both genders generally following the same happiness pattern with males just shifted down a little. USA also has females increasing more later in life than males but I doubt that's significant. The differences aren't huge in all the things we discuss here therefore the data can fluctuate. The usual trend in these statistics i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:25 PM
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That's their choice. I don't think you realize how ridiculous this claim is for a lot of men. Yes? Are you saying you believe "being impacted" means someone other than the person deciding on their actions is responsible for those actions? We are a product of our environment. You can't blame a man for being insecure when everyone is making fun of his noose for example the same way you can't blame a man who becomes more competetive to impress women. Have I see something positive about women from y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:03 PM
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Stastically men are getting happier as they age but at the same time suicide rates are much higher. I clearly state that we don't have further information on this so the only thing I can do is specualte. I speculate that the unhappiness in thoose who aren't happy is much higher than when younger that's about it. Nothing misogynistic about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:46 PM
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Yes it is. Ask my family. Ask my friends who don't invite me to couples game night. Purely anecdotal. Which is also true for men. Men usually don't form this type of intimacy. Who else would be responsible for men's behavior? Mens and women is impacted by the opposite gender to a large extend. This is what I prefer. I don't like your comment structure either. Looks more like a chat than anything else. Doesn't help with understanding or seperating topics. what? OK I guess I can't converse with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:43 PM
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I am aware of that. We can't look deeper into it though but I assume that the older men who are feeling bad are feeling really really bad ie no one who is there for them and the rest is feeling good overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:11 PM
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Boys will be boys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:09 PM
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Usually we call these support groups "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:02 PM
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As someone who didn't lose their virginity until 24, women also face this pressure. Cmon be honest. Are we really arguing that women have similar pressure? Just like women and their value being determined by getting married and having a good husband. Not getting married isn't looked down uppon today. Now ask a guy who is a virgin in his 30s. Women still have emotional needs. Which can be fullfilled by her friends to a large extend. Just because men are unwilling to meet those needs doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:01 PM
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Somewhere it says that it's measured in generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:39 PM
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It's from the same dataset. And generally women are happier single as they age That's wrong according to our data. Only 32% said they where happy compared to 61%. The 'very' might have been added in the article. The wording is important here. Women also are in fewer relationships later on reflecting their unhappiness. women tend to not remarry when spouses pass away versus men who remarry very quickly That is kind of a stretch to compare because of factors like children. I don't think we can put…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:36 PM
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If you think that women are unhappier if they marry and live short lifes you are wrong. The myth has been going around too much tbh. [Study 1] [Study 2] [Study 3] [Study 4] So.. the exact same situation women face. Not true. Men have the pressure to loose their virginity and their value is often determined on how many women he can pull. A girl doesn't need a guy to fullfill her emotional needs because usually women form friend circles around that - men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:27 PM
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Yes, because my study is 5 years newer and like 100x larger. A master of dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:23 PM
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I have looked over this recently and the difference is not big. 49% of men are happy alone compared to 61% of women. It didn't mention the age though which is important because men get happier the older they get contrary to women how get less satisfied. I'd argue that men would be happier alone if there wouldn't be pressure to get validation/status by having a girlfriend or by having friends who take care of your emotional needs instead of a SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:12 PM
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I am not sure where you want this to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:39 PM
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I never denied hypergamy nor does the study. According to the study women had a 10-40% higher chance of reproducing depending on the region.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:37 PM
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Are you just ignoring the study I linked? And I don't want to insult your intelligence but I don't think either of us understands the study you linked. Reading into some other studies sex ratios (there where twice as many women as men apparently) had something to do with it to but breeding ratios don't go beyond 2 to 1. Your ratios might work in context of agriculture but not outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:35 PM
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Women are hypergamous and the study I linked clearly says it too. However the proof for the 80/20 rule in dating is thin because data from Tinder is about as inacurrate as you can get. The 80/20 rule does not apply in real life and I debated it too often to not be annoyed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:57 PM
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It's hard to get into but the takeaway is that in europe for example 1.3 women where passing on their genes compared to 1 man thus having a 30% higher chance which goes against 80/20. Your source makes only sense in the context of agriculture and doesn't reflect on human behaviour as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:53 PM
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No. Depending on where you are from women have a 10% to 40% bigger chance of passing on their genes. That is not the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:47 PM
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No. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:13 PM
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I've been lurking a ton in pinkpill circles for the last days which leaves me with mixed feelings about sexualization. Some would love attention - others don't. I try to keep it down and might as well hang this drawing on my wall that someone linked in the comment section some time ago. Great picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:48 PM
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I am totally happy with being single eventhough it is not the ideal I aim for. Most of the dreams I have for my life never revolve around women or relationships so I don't think I am coping either. Living for women is quite a sad thing ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:11 PM
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Who in hell would get their dating advice from Reddit anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:07 PM
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That one time a girl gave me these Milka chocolate hearts on valentines day and I had to think for like 10 seconds straight after questioning whether she's actually interested or if it's just something people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:50 PM
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It's not enough to influence the stastistics then. Bigger cities have more women in them too so it would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:37 PM
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Germany, 21M. Some people here are aware of Incels, PickUp artists and the pills but not as much as in america from what I can see. The blue pill is dominant here. Dating overall is more relaxed and is more like becoming friends and then after some time you get together or not which is somewhat different to the US where people seem to be more focused on getting together. I am 21 though so my experience isn't plentiful. Women don't have the same mythical standards compared to the US. 40% of germa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:24 AM
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Women having shorter lifespanes due to marriage is wrong. They aren't unhappy either. [Study 1] [Study 2] [Study 3] [Study 4] Whether you want to marry or not is up to you but it does NOT impact you negatively as long as you have a good or decent marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:13 AM
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We have to remember that we are invading our friends privacy too if your SO is allowed to read the chat. From that standpoint it would be a no. Also there functions on smartphones that allow changing profiles easily without looking at it so your SO wouldn't be able to look at what you are doing either way. If it weren't for thoose two things I would allow it because there is nothing on my phone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:44 AM
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You are a fat woman with mental health issues and I assume you are liberal too. The jokes write themselfs. Obviously you are trying to make this into an men = bad discussion so I will leave you and your fragility alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:23 PM
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Thanks for adding to the discussion. You greatly helped taking this debate to the next level!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:04 PM
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Stigmatization and Ideology [Study 1] Decline of happiness in women [Study 2] Women are happier tradtional [Study 3] [Study 4] [Study 5] [Study 6] [Study 7] [Study 8] The study with the shitty methodology [Study 9]
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:41 PM
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Some people seem to be coping when they say it's because conservatives report mental illness less. I've read through a couple of studies on stigmatization and it's true that conservatives are more likely to stigmatize mental illness but a) the results were far too close to explain a 100% differnce in mental illness b) other conservatives stigmatizing it doesn't mean that you yourself don't report it. White liberal are most affected btw. Also moderates report almost as much as liberals so it make…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:41 PM
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Sexually satisfied women cheat more often and people in happy/satisfying relationships cheat too - even with uglier people. Some humans simply are morally bankrupt so you should not put the blame on yourself when you didn't do anything wrong or search for reasons. Break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:14 PM
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Really depends on the thing we are talking about. I am definitely not going to shave my beard for some random women but if she prefers me wearing a black shirt instead of orange then I am fine with it becaus I just don't care. I kind of changed my career for women but it was 50/50 anyway between the military and IT Management. Basically I only change things where I am not interested in (clothes) or when I am fine with other options. If she doesn't like what I eat, what friends I have, my hobbies…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:05 PM
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I had the thought multiple times. Sometimes I prefer the average girl because it seems(!) like they are more loyal -> Studies show the opposite, attractive women cheat less. They also get less attention which can be nice. Maybe she invests more into her personality if she's lacking in the looks department. Outside of that I can't think of any benefits. For LTR I am totally fine with an average women, other factors play a bigger role tbh. Attractiveness is always a bonus but not something I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:47 AM
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There is a healthy middle ground. I don't know where you live but 6 figures always sound to me like manager, small business owner, lawyer etc. All of these jobs are either a bit masculine in nature or uninteresting. The amount of men who you deem as dateable is shrinking with higher income too. Depending on what other factors you want in a man (height, income, looks, hobbies/common interests, life goals, political views, porn consumption) your dating pool is probably less than 1% of all men. It …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 01:40 PM
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Comforting my friends/Building better relationships with them. I read some bad stuff here sometimes so I am more aware of the problems that my friends have and look behind the mask they put on. One of them is constantly in relationships with skanky women who break up with him and I need to teach him how to select better women and that having a girlfriend is not a win at face value. For some reason some people around me believe that having a girlfriend just for the reason to have a girlfriend is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:51 AM
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Why should they bother though? In america it seems like 50% of men get ignored solely because of their genetics, then there is a layer of guys that have potential but choose to be low value (Fat, Lazy, Low earning) so they won't get much attention and then there are HVM that have all the options. I can consider myself as one of the men in the last group. I love to cook, practice Muay Thai, I am disciplined, no baggage, perfect height, good looking, healthy family/childhood, great career prospect…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 09:24 AM
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Trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:50 PM
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This was discussed multiple times now. Masculine faces/body shape and muscles are far more attractive regardless of which study you read (in terms of sexual attractiveness). Anecdotes don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:28 AM
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Honestly I think some are ugly but that's due to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:02 PM
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Didn't participate in weekly discussions. Still miss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:54 PM
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Most opinions here are pointless since we find people at a certain age uglier dependinh on age. Why do women at the age of 40 find men more attractive when they are a couple years older than them while basically all men regardless of age find 20-24 year old women most attractive. It doesn't matter whether you as a 20 yo woman find 50 yo old men unattractive since stastically speaking your opinion is going to change. What also doesn't matter is if men or women 'age better' because all what matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:23 AM
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The second. I only care about people who are close to me because I can make a change and I prefer women with that line of thinking too. All things combined I just want her to be happy and not waste time on a culture in africa that is not going to change while she loses assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:00 AM
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I never thought about it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:10 AM
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That's what I heard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:21 PM
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From my perspective it would be ideal if she takes my name but I wouldn't change mine. Some people put their names together which sounds awful and if both keep them it's a bit awkward because its not really 'uniting'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:15 PM
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If pegging a man is considered gay, is pegging between women heterosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:10 PM
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Let them have their standards but complain afterwards that the top 10% guys are not willing to be exclusive to you. Modern standards don't help anyone. Women as a whole won't get what they want and neither do men. Whether its ego, entitlement or any other word you want to use is not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:06 PM
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I was talking about calling people out in general. Your action was healthy and justifed. GJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:13 PM
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Men fall in love faster and fall out of love slower. Men usually don't have the social circle that can support them which is why the damage might be permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:10 PM
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Morals are for both genders. Some men lie about wanting a relationship and some women lead guys on and exploit them. Simps could easily avoid this situation by demanding sex or by not being stupid enough to send money for free. If your friends are morally corrupt you should call them out or avoid them alltogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:05 PM
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No need to take it personal. What you say simply doesn't meet my experience. If you are feminin that's great but it doesn't mean other women who prioritze work/education are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:19 PM
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That's just sounds biased tbh. I have my own experience as a guy who looks for a partner and women who choose to have big careers come across as masculine among other things. It's unattractive imo but you can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:36 PM
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Again you are missing the point. There shouldn't be misogyni/misandry on this sub. You will meet more misogyni the more misandry you spread. It isn't complicated. I know women who are actually strong and they don't need to give in to their hate because they have self control. I'll end it here keep acting against your own interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:30 PM
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You jump immediately to the conclusion that I have to be an incel. My flair is obviously a joke. You can call me whatever you want the problem is that you aren't going to achieve anything here if you act that way. It's in your own interest. You can play tough women in echochambers like FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:18 PM
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I agree with most things you said here but why do you have to ruin your own comment with misandry? Women are catching up fast in gaming and were always in the anime community so why coin it as male problem? "Then, when women adapt like we always do, bemoan the state of society." How can anyone take you serious with a giant bias like that. Get a grip on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:04 PM
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From my point of view it's just that career women have no desireable traits. They are overly masculine, bossy, have no time, are stressed out and other things that may get in the way of a healthy relationship. I am not threatend but won't date you. Idk why so many women blame everything on male insecurities it just seems like it's pulled out of thin air to hide your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:46 PM
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I don't see that behaviour from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:18 AM
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I assume most of the mods are male so I'll nominate u/NarniaFox and u/SmurfESmerferson Both are chill, active, reasonable and I haven't seen toxic behaviour from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:39 AM
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This is about the perfect women but I hope people don't expect her to do the 75% in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:07 PM
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Mentally: I enjoy feminin women only. All the stereotypical things like nurturing, supporting, friendly, a bit submissive but not too much, cares about others etc. She should be 100% loyal just like me and take care of herself both mentally, physically and in appearance. She should be a good communicator because my emotional intelligence is only slightly higher than a brick. Reasonably high intelligence is also important. And obviously we need to have to right chemistry too. I am not conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:58 PM
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https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/5e816dd0-1ffd-0132-4e38-0ebc4eccb42f.jpg?w=760&h=735&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/6739b310-1ffd-0132-08bb-0eae5eefacd9.jpg?w=760&h=708&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:23 AM
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Ofc they are objective measurements for beauty. There is a whole section of science that back it up. Whether most couples are lookmatched is up for debate I do think though that it's true for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:51 AM
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The pressure might be more on men but I acknowledge that women are often disappointed (not necessarely because of him) and have a harder time to be pleased. I've read that women don't enjoy casual sex as much because some guys don't care about her or their prior experience isn't helping since women vary more. The blame game is stupid anyway just do your best and don't take shit from people that put the blame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:44 PM
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Why do you think the divorce rate for lesbians is similar to that of heterosexual marriages? Oh and I would make a nice dinner or something Thank you cards seem silly but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:31 AM
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You are dishonest again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:06 AM
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Men get happier with age and the opposite is true for women. Men and women are roughly equal when it comes to being happy as a single (women are slightly happier alone). The reason might be something else like kids or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:55 AM
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Idk I never found the models to be pleasant to look at. They are beautiful but the complete opposite of what I find sexy. The models will be perfectly fine finding new jobs. Eventhough I don't know much about the brand I am sure the customers don't want the 0 size anymore and neither do I. Theres nothing more annoying than cooking for a Girl that's on some stupid 1200 kcal diet. Anyway you might be interpreting too much into this since the culture might have been changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:43 AM
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Yes that's what most men think. Stastistically speaking women too. We can also see it on the ladyboner sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:12 AM
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You are not though in this scenario. We are talking average men and women. You just assume women are better from the start confirming your own believes. What is this discussion even? Is it not logical to you that getting both rejected from McDonald's and Apple is worse than only being rejected by Apple? Cmon. You wouldn't choose being homeless over the McDonald's job. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:32 PM
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Again. The one wanted you and the other doesn't. Now throw a need for intimacy into the mix. Ill end it here since tbh this time it's just so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:17 PM
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At this point I am just going to repeat myself. Rejecting people because they don't meet your standards is a hundred times better than getting rejected because you weren't good enough. Tell me would you feel better when you got rejected from a job interview because you weren't good enough or would you feel better when the company is in your eyes not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:13 PM
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I don't think the pandemic and the few female leaders are representative of anything. From history we also see that female are as violent as men or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:17 PM
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Equal Opportunities does not mean equal power. Young women may earn more in the US(!) but also have higher debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:35 PM
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I've seen conflicting data on women in manager positions. There is a lot of bs science going like in a swedish study that claims women are better leaders but the methods they used are laughable - a questionaire about what is important in teams. The best studies have looked at the industry itself and found no difference in effectiveness and was later revisited to confirm the findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:09 PM
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Some things here need to be clarified. Even though we have (mostly) achieved gender equality in America and the average woman is just as powerful as the average man, society's gender roles and messaging is still the same. The word powerful doesn't really fit in here. Women certainly have the same materialistic chances but they still lack behind in mental areas such as confidence, self esteem, stress management and don't persue positions of power as often. Young women are graduating from college …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:03 PM
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The black guy next him could really good too if he lost some weight. Maybe a 6-7 if that means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:30 PM
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We are strictly talking about men just wanting sex and not relationships while there is a whole line of average men who would love to be with an average women. Sure hes not as attractive but shes still has the choice to go with thoose guys. You are right we need to be realistic and for me that just means that women should expect to be dumped when the guy is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:16 AM
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Imo it isn't men looking better with age but rather women decreasing in beauty https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/5e816dd0-1ffd-0132-4e38-0ebc4eccb42f.jpg?w=760&h=735&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/6739b310-1ffd-0132-08bb-0eae5eefacd9.jpg?w=760&h=708&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:59 AM
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I don't think you understand how lonely men feel about this. It's not even a debate. To be completely honest with you I don't want to make women look bad here but you really need to stop playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:18 AM
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Better than the mentioned alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:11 AM
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I know how it feels to have options because I have been in that position. 3 girls at roughly the same time wanted to be with me and it still boosts my confidence to this day. They didn't really know me so it wasn't for my personality. Its basically the meme "Money doesn't matter - rich people, beauty doesn't matter - beautiful people, Options don't matter - People with options"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:29 AM
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The fact that some people actually try their hardest to claim that having many options is as good as having none is just baffling. It doesn't matter whether the options are bad THERE ARE PEOPLE LONGING FOR YOU. If you have no options, no one is interested in you which basically says that you are genetic waste. I am not ashamed to say that I'd like to have people see worth in me. Both scenarios won't result in relationships but 1 pushes self esteem unlike the other (I hope people can figure out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:11 AM
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Murder, gettting robbed, beaten up by drunk people. That kind of stuff. In the EU 32% of women experience and men 27%. The difference isn't big.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:35 AM
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He doesn't look flat at all and pictures from the side don't show it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:33 PM
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Call me stupid but I just put a ruler against my screen. On my screen the mouth is about 5.7 cm while the noose is 3.7 cm (1.6 * 3.7 = 5.76 <-- Theoretically perect ratio) EDIT: I didn't do the math before but I knew it must be right because it looks good. EDIT 2: 1.6 is generally speaking the most attractive mouth to noose ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:55 PM
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Theres are difference between what they say the sub is about and what the sub is actually about. On first glance it about strategies to secure a HVM that has a fitting personality without many risks for you. However if you look at it for 10 mins and scroll down you will see that its just a big circle jerk with nicely sprinkled misandry all over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:36 PM
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The potato on 4 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:55 PM
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Bullying is mostly evolutionary I don't think that's better here (at least from personal experience). I would recommend norway or finland the most. Gl with that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:48 PM
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Every attractive face has the same qualities. I'll use Chris Hemsworth as an example for men. His face is nearly perfect. Proportions are on point since his face follows both the rule of thirds and fifths. I had to learn them because I wanted to get into drawing people. Hes not balding and the hairline has a rectangular shape --> good upper third His eyebrows are reasonably strong for a blonde guy and pointed downwards but all in all nothing special. His eyes are sharp, blue and hooded with a do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:35 PM
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Found 3 by searching for "face rating 1-10" but will only post 2 since the third is from Incel Wiki: https://dlr.tooleybucultraleggera.pw/img/801621.jpg https://external-preview.redd.it/9zUyLq2WUFY96rCakPwphW_Vmz8Yy0O9ttM7qByqfk0.png?auto=webp&s=f79be5d6d881585712c055a6e5187f791bfe011c
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:03 PM
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The guy looks more like a 8 to me because his right side is hanging a bit or in other words his face is asymmetric. 10/10 lower face though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:52 PM
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Yeah, true. Children don't make people happier in the US but they do in norway, finland etc. since they have a more forgiving system. Poor people get more children but also are the least happiest. The happiest are traditional middle income families followed by high earning families where both parents work. We all know about the healthcare problems but what weirded me out too was that you pay so much for college because we GET money for studying (~1100$ per month) and pay half back after some tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:17 PM
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How are we germans doing? Are we really that cold? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:02 PM
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I make the call since its either the childless women or nothing. Settling is not an option and I am not low value either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:36 PM
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I'd love to be the protector but it does seem like women choose psychopaths themselfs -> Study
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:58 PM
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What upsides are there from an LTR perspective. Whether I get the choice or not is irrelevant - I make the call.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:52 PM
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This 100%. US culture overall is just so different. I am from germany and its always awkward when people talk about marriage being worse than ever while here in germany marriage rates go up and divorce goes down. Our birth rates are the highest since 1973, women and men are split 50/50 in university (didn't change in 20 years), height requirements are lower eventhough we are taller and the women here seem really grounded compared to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:47 PM
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? It isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:56 PM
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These are factors I was thinking about: Women espicially when they are young are way more insecure than men Women have less testosteron making them more cautious/less reckless Women handle stress worse than men They are way weaker physically Everyone hears about female victims ie they are overrepresented Women overthink more They are more emotional (the difference becomes greater with equality interestingly)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:11 PM
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(Single/Childless) I wouldn't consider single mothers. Personally I want 3 children myself and I am probably not going to achieve that because she has already done her duty and most likely doesn't want more kids. Besides that its a just a huge red flag of a family not working out and her making stupid decisions. I am aware that its not always her fault but I can't know for sure. There are just downsides and no upsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:04 PM
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Theres more to it than them being more emotional but yes its just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:58 AM
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The whole topic of men technically being at a greater risk of danger but women being more fearful. I thought it was stupid how women feel threatend eventhough statistics point in a different direction. What won me over is that I don't and can't know how a woman feels due to different hormones, brain structure and abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:39 AM
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I am obviously not talking about prostitution. You really should rephrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:17 AM
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"As society progresses, women weither continue sucking dick like the -whores they are " Dude the fk is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:33 AM
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Ngl he sounds angry. At other people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:19 PM
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Both want massculine leaders but RPW seem to be bridge builders unlike FDS. Some here say that they are pick mes which could be true but I don't think so. FDS is more popular because it's easy with a grain of misandry to seal the deal. I've commented that RPW becomes more like FDS but with some introspect it's an unfair statement. A lot of RPW seem great and healthy for society - unlike FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:28 AM
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Doesn't matter if you agree with it or not. It's easier to skip the denial phase and accept that different genders have different strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:18 AM
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Spreading misandry. As always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:12 AM
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Misogyny is so lazy. A woman can be a whole terrorist. So long as she's hot, it can't be that bad. Remember this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:09 AM
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Bruh I thought I get an ego boost here with my 6'1. Mission failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:37 AM
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Its study 4 from the comment above. The other studies help with context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:48 AM
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Republicans seem to be more in touch with their biology. The men more masculine the women more feminin. Its not only the US btw. there is a study where conservative women where happier eventhough they had objectively worse conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:35 AM
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I disagree but I am not in the position to say that you are wrong since I only have my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:09 AM
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Honestly I don't even think that's the case but you can be somewhat right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:03 AM
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Y'all say that but the fun stops when you have a long beard as a southern looking guy and try to cross a border in 2015 when you forgot your passport/ID. 2/10 experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:02 AM
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I hate basically every development in the direction of tech/AI porn. VR headset with physical feedback, AI girlfriends and now faces on other peoples bodies - in porn. Can't blame women who hate porn tbh. Obviously they try to get you attached to fake intimacy which might satisfy some people but the real deal is just way better and everyone knows it (can change though).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:46 PM
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Ofc chad. We are talking traits tough. Lightly bearded, masculine face, muscles etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:14 PM
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Because women have a higher risk evolutionary and therefore indicate low quality when the n-count increses. Men don't share these risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:24 PM
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cmon that is just a shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:46 AM
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Yes thats why I go there sometimes. However it has increasingly become more toxic - it wasn't like that. A post 3 days describes how men are all liers and only want sex with stacy. Thats an extreme but other posts have the same flair. We will see in 2 years. EDIT: Yeah I am a bit unfair here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:34 AM
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A man or girl gives more value to something when they invest in it. If you approach he will value you less than if he approaches. Studies have proven that but I didn't save them but its psychology 101. It goes against my interests to say this but the more you let someone else do things for you (letting him pay on dates for example) the more success will you have in keeping him around. EDIT: But dont complain if the guys that come to you dont suit your taste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:55 AM
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I disagree that any gender looks better than the other. Womens beauty is simply gloryfied by culture and media due to the fact that men get aroused more visually. Its true that women check each other out but from what I have read its because of competition. We also shouldn't forget that the average female body does not look like a pornstars body. The boobs are often smaller and have weird shapes or are asymmetrical which totally fine and natural. From my experience though I was a bit disappointe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:44 AM
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I honestly like the thought of being the protector thats why I am going for Muay Thai. The providing thing is different though because the only scenario where I would like to provide is a traditional family. If she earns money I won't provide for her. Period. EDIT: I am a very prideful person which is why the things have to go my way no matter my market value which is why I don't take part in some traditional things like paying for both on dates because it makes me feel I should be happy to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:33 AM
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I was lurking on r/redpillwomen the other day and they are becoming more like FDS than I want to. Sometimes I would go there to refuel a positive mindset on women but that goes down the shitter there too sometimes. RPW becomes bitter too and now I have to look somewhere else like the real life but my introvert ass doesn't like that. I'll give RPW 2 years until they are like FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:26 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:00 AM
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"Date around, figure out what they like, try new things, experience new places, enjoy the single life etc etc" Exactly finding a HVM. If you sleeping around as "enjoying so single life" then I disagree. "Yea so the difference isn't that big." Maybe if we strictly use one study on one topic. We would need to factor other things in like children, domestic work, work in the economy, political views to gain a bigger difference. "I don't think it's possible to seperate nature and nurture in this way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:56 AM
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"If by "secure HVM" you mean in a relationship I don't think it matters that its not a marriage. The reason marriages before 25 fail is not because they are started before 25, they fail because people change a lot in their early 20s and are in a very transient state of life. Realistically, all relationships started before 25 are more likely to fail, and they probably fail more readily if they are not marriages." What else is she supposed to do though. "A lot of the studies on this topic don't as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:57 PM
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I already looked it up its 4-5 years. If the chance of men dying skyrockets compared to men it wouldnt be just 4-5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:47 PM
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No. Men are happier though later on and the life expectancy difference really isn't that big. Idc about not being able to live 4 years longer in a wheelchair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:01 PM
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That is stastically wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:55 PM
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I am not arguing in favour of marrying early but rather securing a HVM (I don't think the number of subjects is representative btw). I also won't dictate someones life goals but certainly will speak my mind on what is likely to be fullfilling. The difference in happiness between unmarried and married is not huge to begin with. That's where I need to see some data not because I disagree with you but rather because the studies I've read implicate bigger differences. There are plenty of women who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:34 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effects_of_human_sexual_promiscuity But at least their self esteem stays intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:17 PM
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Last comment if you don't make any effort. You do realize that the study you linked does not provide a objective measure of happiness right? It describes how men and women use the scales differently and uses measures to equalize them thus objectifying them. Besides that there is an entire fking field dedicated to the science of happiness and you literally denounce the whole existence of it. It was a off-topic study that you hoped I wouldn’t read. It actually even proved me right at points lol. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:05 PM
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I am done here. Read the fking thing or fk off I am not doing this anymore. Besides it takes an entire gym of mental gymnastics to think someone rating themselfs 2/10 and someone else 8/10 in certain aspects of life satisfaction is worthless data.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:38 PM
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I JUST LINKED A STUDY TO IT SMARTASS. How lazy are the people on here I am not linking them for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:30 PM
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But they are. Who? They are not only filled with bias, but current perception and subjective views on happiness distort the data. Bruh lets ignore entire studies on objectifying happiness and just pretend it subjective so it cant be measured. That some blue pill bs right there. Bring something of value or I'll move on, ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:15 PM
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There are ways to go around and take into account [Study]. The surveys are far from worthless. Don't pretend that humans don't understand how satisfied they are. There are many reasons why poorer countries can be more happy than rich ones like healthy families/communities, less social media, traditional/natural lifestyles, having something fundemental to work for, less stress etc. you get the idea. It's true though that people appreciate more when they are poor. Homeless people give more money c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:02 PM
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There are no benefits if you don't find them satisfying (career woman). It doesn't mean shit if you are better off later if you are still unhappy. A good house/car is worthless when you are depressed. If women go the marriage way through the early benefits it a win for men too so she's not better off compared to guys. Again success is absolutely meaningless compared to happiness. You don't say "I wish I had 1 more Porsche" in your death bed. Happiness is THE thing in life and poor people that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:54 PM
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That's why we talk in statistics. Rich people are generally way happier in life and happiness is pretty much the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:48 PM
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That's not the point. The point is that women in marriages live longer contrary to what feminists or FDS says. Causation/Correlation does not matter here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:23 AM
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I am aware of the study. It also says that married women die sooner and married men later. If you look for it will be hard to find and all that comes up are bad news articles. From all the information I have it's simply wrong. From the statistics I posted above we know that women who are housewives are the happiest. We also know that traditional women are happier too. [Study 1] [Study 2] [Study 3] [Study 4] Republicans are also way happier than democrats. Married women life longer too just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:01 AM
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Just wanted to give some extra information. The problem with women who see their value in their young years is that if they life the sexual lifestyle they are likely to develop disorders, get STDs, depression, drug addiction etc. so the best way for a women is to have a low n-count and find a high value men from the start and not wait until late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:46 AM
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Career women are also not happier than the average women. [Study 1] [Study 2] [Study 3] Women get unhappier when they age and the opposite is true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:16 AM
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Eh, I think women have it far better/easier from 0-35 but it changes later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:26 AM
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Tbh I don't know either. A part of me just wishes to forget all the statistics/studies which would lower my disappointment in life but without them it will bite you later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:21 PM
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"Men are so loving, caring, gentle, tender, funny, protective, sweet, romantic. Men can run up a mountain on 0 sleep and be just fine. It’s wonderful and so much fun. " Thank you for making my day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:16 PM
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A women does not swipe left on him because he watches porn or does gaming. She can't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:25 AM
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Birth rates in germany are slowly rising so I don't think it's all about financial reasons. Poor people get more children anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:39 PM
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It's smart but I don't know what you are going at. If you use FDS please stay wherever you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:16 AM
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Quit FDS and I will make a welcome party
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:25 AM
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Women favour big cities which also tend to be less conservative which means less marriages. That's how I would explain it. Interestingly studies show that when women are rarer and have more power in the dating market cheating is occuring less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:57 AM
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Western is a bit off since here in germany university is a well balanced 50/50. This depends on data but for 2020 there are 52,2% male and 47,8% female students. It also didn't change much in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:43 AM
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I think the traditional benefits women since more conservative areas are much happier than liberal ones. Women who invest a lot of time in their careers are also very unhappy especially when childless after the age of 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:35 AM
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Responsibility =/= Power
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:20 AM
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I don't like the vibe of this post. Both mother and father are equally important to raise a healthy child which imo means that both are equally responsible. A women invests more in terms of pregnancy but she also benefits from, like you've said, having options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:46 AM
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Sure porn expands the horizon but at what cost and what is even the purpose when vanilla is totally fullfilling if you don't discover porn. When I quit porn I suddenly started thinking about kissing and holding my partner instead of raw penetration which seems far more healthier. It literally makes me more passionate. A man shouldn't fall for the excuse trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:52 PM
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May I introduce myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:43 PM
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Seeing how many women here advocate for this sub makes me wanna poke my eyes out. Go on FDS search by hot and tell me this isn't just femcels who hate on men. Seriously there are so many excuses people try to make it's not funny anymore. Look through and tell me where the advise is and what young women will be thinking about men as a whole: 1 2 3 4 5 6 etc. etc. For the queens out there. No you are not making the rules for the top percentages of men. They have good options while you have many ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:30 PM
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I don't like women who will sleep with me early too. Not because of the love stuff but because it indicates that shes a quality woman. However I can see where some are coming from though. If shes not willing to sleep with you she might be keeping you warm and a low n count woman who is willing to have sex with you might sound like a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:16 AM
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No. Women use makeup anyway and it has nothing to do with dating. Maybe she uses more but that's normally not more attractive than the regular amount. That's just a stupid argument. "Hey, so there is a small chance that you will rape me so can you pay pls? Thx." Not true anymore. Men and women earn the same when every aspect is equalized. Women tend to choose less paying jobs more often but why does he have to pay for your life decisions? If men didn't ask women out humankind would literally die…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:41 AM
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It is risky for men because it's trendy for women to go on dates with men just for getting free food in a nice place. That's about it. Always split is my advice. I wouldn't be able to tell if you are serious or not and that is why paying for dates is more like a monkey dance instead of courtship nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:10 AM
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I am confused. The first 2 paragraphs strike me as marriage material but the the third one is one of the biggest red flags for me tbh. If you told me that I have to pay for the dates while being completely independent I wish I had lost some more weight to run faster. Further dates simply wouldn't occure. It would all be great if we were married and were living the traditional lifestyle but during dating - just no. I pay for myself and you do for yourself. Every other realistic scenario is waay t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:31 AM
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Yes. I will certainly earn enough to support a family easily and the traditional lifestyle is the only situation where I would consider marriage at all. Also stastically speaking women are happier in these relationships but it doesn't seem to impact happiness of men all that much. I still take that as a win. Obviously the woman I would marry has to be of high value in non material aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:57 PM
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It don't like how people act like women have risen to greatness since it just wrong. Happiness and life satisfaction of women has decreased not increased and depression is skyrocketing. The older a women gets the more shes unsatisfied with her life while the opposite seems to be true for men. Confidence stayed the same and is on par with 3rd world countries unlike western men who are more confident than 3rd world men. Sure like any other young women you want to be childfree, independent etc. but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:00 AM
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Go outside and take a walk. Seriously do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:45 PM
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Here in germany birth rates are increase overall. Migrants might play a role but the trend can be seen over decades and the amount of migrants from non european couintries is exaggerated. I don't think it will decrease much in the future but it might be different in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:28 PM
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Excuse my language but this is just another stupid 'blame men' post. Standards for men have increased and since it gets harder to get sex or even a relationship many will use porn more. Video gaming is increasing fast in women too but it doesn't seem to be a problem for some reaon. In some markets there are more female gamers than male. The core pc commnuity still consists of men though. Women have gotten in many ways unmarriageable due to increased cheating, unrealistic standards, lack of basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:57 PM
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Masturbation itself is not harmful from what I've read so far but combining it with porn doesn't help you in any way and turns your dick into a dead fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:23 AM
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It doesn't matter if I prove my point or not you don't recognize them and others told me the same thing about you. Never have you tried to argue fairly and that's why I leave it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:47 PM
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I don't think it's realistic since men of all ages prefer women around 20. Women also don't really date younger men since they don't as much resources and men 1-2 older than them are more attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:26 AM
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Stop clowning around. There are studies in the blog that you refuse to look at because your ego can't handle it. Your own sources show increases in cheating with n count and we both agree that marriage isn't the best data anyway. There are so many other studies that prove my point when you Google anything except "multiple partners don't increase likelyhood of cheating". Use neutral phrases and you will see. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:57 AM
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Who talks about marriage? I talk about women being more single than men after the age of 35-40 onwards since men date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:52 AM
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You are not even going to try right? Doesn't fit your opinion right? Anyway its a consensus anyway so I won't discuss this further since you are not willing to be anything else than a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:39 AM
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Your source its 10 for GB. Saying 10-20 is the average is even wrong by your own stats. NZ is an outlier. "There is no statistically significant difference after 3, no." Wrong. Again. https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/excerpts-relating-n-count-likelihood-of-infidelity.354060 "Well of course i did. The majority of men who harp on N are deeply insecure. I'm still not convinced that you're not." okay cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:35 AM
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Because LTR and marriage is entirely different. Your data shows increases in cheating too but when kids come into play which is certainly the case in most marriages the likelyhood of getting cheated on will decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:16 AM
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I know the exact data for my country so its not like asia changes anything. "What is?" Cheating increases with body count. Yes even after 3. Just Google sexual history cheating and there should be plenty. "If you're not the insecure type, good for you, but you gotta recognize that's super frequent nonetheless." You called me insecure so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:12 AM
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So you are just gonna use marriage data for everything. Sounds like conformation bias to me. We will see when I am back home tomorrow I don't have my sources on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:08 AM
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Stats show otherwise. But whatever this isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:04 AM
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It lierally says thrice the global average. In germany its 8. "And go find the IF Studies thing, it had no statistically significant difference between 3 partners and 100 partners in terms of cheating." Thats a whole lot of bs yet again. It's not even controversial and basiacally consensus. I really need to see that study. Ofc plenty of guys have such insecurities but pointing at me with that kind of stuff is kind of cringe ngl. Its not about the release. Its about tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:02 AM
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The 13% is correct but I can't exactly remember where the starting point is. I think it was 5 but I won't claim that. "Oh that aint true at all. It's a huge insecurity guys have that other guys had bigger dicks, lasted longer, were hotter, etc." Well thats a whole of bs so idk can't take that serious tbh. Oxytocin is crucial for bonding in general not just for couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:50 PM
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Obviously it's relative to age. 3 is fine with 21 and 6 with 30. Men have around 8 partners in their lifes while women a bit under 7. It's somewhere in the middle since it has to be balanced. She doesn't need to be a virgin. It has absolutely nothing to do with me not being as good as previous partners. If I remember correctly the chance of getting cheated on increases by 13% per additional partner. No thank you. If she has cheated in the past she is more than likely to have a high n count which…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:33 PM
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You are free to your opinion it just seems to be easier for me to just ask about n count adjust it a bit higher and then go from there. As long as you don't betray multiple sex partners as an issue women are mostly honest about the sexual past. "Right, but that's not relevant to our conversation" ik. Just want to throw it out there so I don't get it as a redponse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:17 PM
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Not the topic. You.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:00 PM
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If you avoid high n count women it certainly helps. And again. It doesn't matter if the issues are caused by sleeping around nor does it matter when high n count women tend to have mental health issues. No you can't tell everything with n count but from what I can tell it's the best indicator for successfull relationships generally speaking. Obviously when the chemistry isn't there you won't get together anyway. Sure if the body count is low and she has other problems then avoid that too that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:48 PM
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No it's not stupid. It doesn't matter where the problems come from if you want a relationship. The problems exist which is highly unattractive and its not your responsibility to deal with or risk your own mental health if you enter a relationship with a women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:35 PM
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Women with high n count have many of these issues. Whether its causation or correlation doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:14 PM
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Idc about looking bad tbh we already had a discussion about a similar topic and you didn't provide any data while arguing that all my sources didn't prove anything eventhough they fitted perfectly. Women with high n count are more often mentally instable, unhappy, cheat more often and have more STD's. I'll pass and do should other men who want to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:12 PM
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Yes. And I am saying that the SMV flips at the age 35-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:08 PM
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I am not there atm obviously. Besides that I know you are dishonest when it comes to debates anyway so I won't bother remembering this conversation. Just deal with common sense and you will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:11 PM
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I have sources on my pc for that but I don't think I need to explain that a part of someone elses personality will likely be a part of them in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:06 PM
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For what
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:53 PM
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Not happening anytime soon luckily. It's the best predictor what the future of this person will look like in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:48 PM
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No. It's age ranges. 45-55 for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:12 PM
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Women are unhappier than they were 40-50 years ago and it's still declining. The comments here don't give me a reason to believe that it will stop lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:49 AM
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Data shows that there are more single women than men after 35-40. Women in their 20s have the blessing to date older men but the curse that these men won't date them when they are about to be 40. Anecdotes don't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:16 AM
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Nah, I don't think so. Especially when it comes to social media and online dating women use a lot more filters and take more pictures than a guy. That's not even mentioning makeup, fake nail, fake eyelashes, push up bras, butt pads etc. etc. This isn't scientific but look at stars/popular women without makeup. It looks bad. Obviously the standards shift when everyone is doing it so these women aren't ugly but will be perceived this way. Take away all the support wheels and women look just as pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:30 AM
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All the studie I have been through conclude that muscle are an attractive dimorphic trait that indicate good abilities and better access to resources. At least when it comes to short term relationships. Women might be a bit mislead when it comes muscles since from what I can tell they have bad references. I often hear that too much muscle is not good but they think about is Schwarzenegger in his prime while a natty gym rat would never be considered too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:20 AM
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Does any of the links show the pictures of the men they’te talking about? All of them do. It's easy to find them. For all I know, the masculine faces weren’t that masculine. You don't seem to understand what makes faces masculine. You can clearly see differences in eyebrows and 'sharpness' of the face. you guys do a horrible job presenting something subjective as something objective. You are in the worst possible position to say that. There isn't any evidence provided by you except for the ridic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:48 PM
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Women find them attractive. And they're internationally popular and internationally considered attractive. I'll just shake my head and move on from this. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914007132#:\~:text=Sexual%20dimorphism%20is%20widely%20recognized,attractive%20(Rhodes%2C%202006). "In male faces we found both male and female participants preferred masculine faces to androgynous faces in high attractiveness, but mixed results in low attractiveness. In female faces…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:48 PM
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You should look into studies on sexual dimorphism. They generally support that masculine faces are more attractive but feminine faces look more trustworthy. Women also prefer masculine faces when they are able to get pregnant while feminine males do reasonably well during non reproductive phases. It's basic alpha fucks beta buxx theory. A feminine guy would do much worse than a masculine guy on any dating site. Kpop, Prince, and David Bowie Really? Are we going to use celebreties for reference n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:37 PM
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Extroversion (16), Emotional stability (87), Agreeableness (0), Conscientiousness (62), Intellect/Imagination (70)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:57 PM
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Most people dont put much effort into themselfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:51 AM
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The things you have listed can be simply avoided by not being braindead. 'Chad' life is easier than average Joe and exponentially better than the ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:37 PM
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So we agree that the 80/20 has no good basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:43 PM
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Unpopular opinion but I think no matter the religion they often create 'bad' behaviour. The christians I have seen are pretty much as beta as you can get. Most of them even speak in this high pitch proud feminist voice that makes me really uncomfortable. Muslims might not be beta but from what I know of their religion is that it is full of trash attitudes towards all kinds of people. Buddhists seem more normal but also asexual. Don't know them tbh. All of them are bluepilled though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:41 PM
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That would not have been an option for me but might be for a different person. At that point women expect decent sex and the risk of him being a looser isn't the only thing on her mind. There are some escorts that offer girlfriend sex and that's what I would recommend. The usual prostitute won't help you she will just make you cum as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:33 PM
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I heard stories about that too and thats why I am highly concerned about dating dog owners. My dog tries to hump and lick me too which is not pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:13 PM
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"In a relationship" (!)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:11 PM
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You do realize that the 80/20 dating rule comes from the exact same source?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:07 PM
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I don't like the concept of casual sex and I highly prefer women who are the same in that regard. In a relationship though we can basically do anything that doesn't involve shit, animals, a 3rd person etc. But my question is- does a woman doing certain sex acts really change your opinion of her? If so, in what way? Not really if it isn't something completely degenerate. The usual bdsm stuff, roleplaying etc. is all good fun. Do you ever lose respect for a woman, and start seeing her as "un-wifea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:30 PM
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The problem is that we don't have serious information that confirms the progress of unnatural standards. If we only use Tinder data we set ourselfs up for failure by design. We know that women are attracted to much more men than the 20% because they were having children with them. Besides all the statistics people like to pass around it's best to go out and look what couples look like in the real world. I honestly believe that some guys here are unsocialized and found the whole gender discussion…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:41 PM
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I am literally making fun of the thing you posted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:16 PM
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Whatever you are taking. Stop taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:16 PM
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No the 80/20 dating rule is far from realistic. It came from an OkCupid blog and was followed up by this: https://archive.is/ZJymw I could end it here but people like to bring up Tinder. A dating app where 45% of the population use it mainly for confidence boosts and only 30% of the people actually meet the people they have matches with. Hypergamy is real (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339) but nowhere near the 80/20 rule. From the breeding ratio we see that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:09 PM
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I'll just copy paste what I've written before. I (6'1) have tried many things and ended up reading a lot of studies. The best way to do it (at least for me) is short term fasting. Don't eat for 3 days then eat normally for a day and start fasting again. During the first 3-4 days of fasting your metabolism is increased but will slow down after the 4th day if you don't eat. I lost 77 pounds (35 kg) in half a year doing a more mild version of the fast (eating every 3rd day instead of every 4th or 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:51 AM
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I've read the article already. There might be something lost in translation. their higher level of education, greater willingness to be mobile and ambitious, as well as a preference for urban lifestyles Men and women here are 53/47 (2020) when it comes to university but men are more present both in basic education and as doctors. Women have a lower threshhold when it comes to moving somewhere Like the translation says women prefer the urban lifestyle more than men do From a regional perspective,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 10:19 AM
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Colonialism, slavery, wars etc. crumbled western society by making them feel ashamed/guilty and it eventually resulted in hatred of authority and value systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:14 PM
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Because PPD doesn't have many set rules or clear black/white answers when it comes to what the 'truth' is and people tend to not like that. Redpill is just easy. It's cult like. It's attracts angry men. PPD is the only community I like to talk about this kind of stuff because there is new stuff sometimes and not the same "Men are polygamous and women are monogamous" crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:34 PM
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In my humble opinion the biggest problem is individualism. Apathy is a side effect of systemic individualism. Positive attributes like honor, sacrifice, discipline, generosity etc. seem to appear more in collective societies which the west once was until guilt came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:22 PM
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No thank you I am fine using this subreddit. The people here seem more grounded than redpill megaminds and incels. From my experience with redpill there is a huge conformation bias going on which makes arguing impossible. You can't debate the 80/20 rule for example because for redpill it's the ultimate truth and disproving it is like talking to a wall. Also redpill has waay to many men in it which makes talking about gender issues one sided. No worries megamind you too are brave and stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:14 PM
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Cherrypicking. Ofc there are male dominated jobs that require a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:04 PM
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Might be the case in the US but here in Germany cities tend to have far more women. Heidelberg seems to be heaven with 150 women per 100 men. I am not sure why it would be different for the US. Immigration maybe? http://www.daburna.de/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/deutschlandkarte\_sexualproportion\_20bis24jaehrige.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:11 PM
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The schooling system is better suited for women Women get better grades for the same work Society pushes women into getting better education Typically masculine jobs don't need a college degree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:53 PM
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There are also much more women in big cities than men. As a man you can do some simple things to climb the ranks in the dating market as long as you are not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:09 PM
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Yes it is blue pilled. Show me any red pill guys or people who spend time in general with evolution that there is eternal love for everyone. Blue pillers are shaped by media - like movies. What do movies often potray? THE ONE LOVE. The ones that believe women should remain chaste and stick to one parent are on the other side. I mean, first thing you brought up was pair bonding lol. I have no idea what you are trying to say. There is no argument on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:04 PM
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It's an obvious yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:44 PM
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If we accepted, or had accepted that love doesn't last forever, and love and relationships are liquid, there wouldn't be such a problem or stigma around women's sexual parents, or casual sex in general. Evolutionary psychology disagrees. Women who sleep around are low quality. *Insert lock - key metaphore* There will always be stigma and from the statistics I have seen it's a good thing. If relationships become this fluid, high numbers of sexual parents are bound to happen. We can't predict sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:40 PM
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There are many factors that are evolutionary. Women tend to sleep with other men because it protects their children. A man won't kill children when they could be his. Eventhough killing children isnt really a thing in humans it is still something that gets passed on. However imo the vast majority of boredom might just be different life goals or better options for women. They are not only pickier but also more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:25 AM
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Isn't that how it is today? I barely meet people who think that a life long partner is ideal. The people who believe in eternal love are likely narcissistic (they believe more in perfect love than others) or highly blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:12 PM
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There was a comment I saw that said that women might get less interested faster because she subconciously think he is infertile. This is not based on anything but I honestly think it has some impact. Our reward system tells us that we reproduce successfully which is why we stay together. If it weren't for reproduction there wouldn't be couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:58 PM
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That's the question. There are also monogamy gene string some people have while others don't but I need to read into it a bit more. I won't disregard life long monogamy but it's clear that most humans are capable of serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:48 PM
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Women fall out of love faster than men due to higher reproductive risks and tend to get sexually bored faster than a guy. This doesn't mean that women are less monogamous though since there are clear indicators like concealed ovulation and lust for sex during reproductive periods that are designed for couples to form. In real life it is probably due to getting either lazy (getting fat etc.) or focusing too much on her i.e getting clingy. I once heard that women are like cats because if you avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:44 PM
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I wouldn't say it's not in our nature because it is for some people. If humans weren't monogamous there wouldn't be concealed ovulation or lust for sex during non reproductive periods (unlike other animals).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:29 PM
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Sounds like an incel rage post. Ofc there are honest women but it also depends on the topic. Women are more agreeable than men which is part of their feminity which causes virtue signaling for example. It's not due to being a bad person. If you ask a average woman about her sexual preferences she will lie here and there but don't lie otherwise. Maybe look up statistics for this because from what I have seen men tell bigger lies and just as often as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:13 AM
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(Not redpilled) I just think they look skanky. It's not like I find them unattractive but they have some implications which I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:01 PM
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What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:07 AM
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Idk how many of the below average looking guys are 8/10. So yeah go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:17 AM
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Happier in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:22 PM
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You know thats due to cultural changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:05 PM
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Women get too much attention online I don't think they write to people they aren't interested in. But it still sounds... off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:02 PM
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Statistics show otherwise. The majority of people are both satisfied with their relationship and their sex life. Millenials (they do the most online dating) are the most satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:59 PM
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I wish this would be the only problem. The data from okcupid they base the 80/20 dating rule on also shows that 65% of the first messages from women goes to the 'unattractive' 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:26 PM
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I am begging you READ THE THING. I am not going to explain the graphs to another person. The mythical 80% aren't as heavily impacted as implied. You count the above average 13% as the average and leave it the below average guys that are average. Read your information properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:20 PM
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First off - (https://archive.is/ZJymw) Second - it's not 12% who are average you just didn't want to include the average dudes from the 81%. It doesn't work out either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:58 PM
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I am just waiting for Incel clowns claiming a 95/10 rule or something like that. Snap back to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:30 PM
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We are both Poly and monogamous. Acting like monogamy is unnatural is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:48 PM
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That doesn't make sense in monogamous civilisations. Also it shows what women naturally want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:15 PM
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Congrats, this isn't about you. Thank you. It's not like I talked about myself or anything. Even at that your dinner is still covering for 2 people. Also women themselves will frequently state that paying for a girls dinner in no way guarantee sex, you may pay for 2-3 dinners with no sex and considering the fact that 1/3 of women admit to using men for food when it comes to dates, it would be wise for men to skip all the BS and just get guaranteed sex somewhere else. People who look for relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:05 PM
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So would getting strung along, ghosted, flaked on and rejected, all of which you can expect to happen while dating in the modern era but many men still go along with it. Western men will say prostitution will harm their dignity just to go home by themselves and furiously beat off by to videos of other men sleeping with prostitues. Doesn't apply to me. The average cost of a date worldwide in 2019 is $113, remember due to gender roles in most cases men will be expected to foot that bill, the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:57 AM
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The problem is that it's just wrong. The strongest evidence there is for this rule comes from OkCupied and was followed up by this: https://archive.is/ZJymw 20% of guys have always had. 80% of sex. No: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:41 AM
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Sry but I didn't read it all since to me it's clear that prostitution would only harm my dignity and self respect. Sure, you spend money on both occasitions, however the date can (and should) be fun and might lead to a relationship. Escort dates might be fun too but the money you spend on them is waaay more and having sex without some kind of feelings is a no for me anyway. Some might need to pay for sex due to disabilities, bad physical attributes or just being plain ugly. That's the only scena…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:21 PM
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I want a comparison where women don't use makeup and take 17 pics from favourable positions. Besides that there are many reasons why the 80/20 rule can't be applied in dating but I don't want to start a war again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:56 PM
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Morally - No. Eventhough I can't find decent studies for this it is likely than men are hardwired for protection. From shootings we can see that men cover their girlfriends and I don't think it's something they actively thought about. It might be entirely different if a man has time to think about it but it's not an instinct at that point. It also doesn't seem like women outside of your sphere get protected much since she won't carry your child. Besides white knight cucks ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:16 PM
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Because there is value. It's good information since it matches reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:41 AM
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Bro, I am still talking about that 80% of women that supposedly only want the top 20%. Idc about the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:39 AM
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I agree that it will get worse to some degree but not as bad as many here claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:36 AM
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I wouldnt marry someone who doesnt find me attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:29 AM
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yes. But men and women have the same IQ overall. The only study that claims women are little bit smarter comes from flint if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:27 AM
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I have given other reasons why the 80/20 is not a thing. I am not aware if they tried to hide I can find them easily. They seem kind of open about it like here: https://theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:38 PM
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Send them to me here if you have a point. From what I know the people who go there are pitty addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:57 PM
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It says that women are 'only' 30% more likely to pass on their genes in europe. That doesn't follow 80/20 at all. You can even calculate the male and female message rate (https://archive.is/ZJymw/64f2f39d99df54ed33275bce7ea9cbee51a86350.png) it's pretty accurate. I won't go into Incel circles. Pretty sure you get on some list for that. If you don't want to (or can't) make your point here the discussion is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:52 PM
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This is women telling us what they want: The stats show otherwise. Evolution says it too (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339) They don't want the 80% of men that they classify as unattractive. Do women have to resort to messaging the 80% of men they don't want? Maybe, but that doesn't mean women want those men. If they don't want the man they wouldn't write them. If women get so much unwanted attention they wouldn't bother writing men they don't want. Saying wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:33 PM
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There might be a misconception. Women do indeed only find 20% attractive. What I am saying is that 80% do not only want the top 20% but men below that too. So? They might message unattractive men, but they don't want to. Compare the attractiveness distributions: They message them eventhough they don't want to? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:46 PM
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Most of the messages by women were sent to below average guys. Not because they are below average. ofc the better looking men have better chances like the other graphs show. About 65% of the messages where sent to the below average 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:24 PM
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It doesn't seem like you bothered reading through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:08 PM
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It's not what the statistics show. It might work for things like penise sizes but human have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:02 PM
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Look at the other graphs too. There is no sign that 80% women only go for the top 20% even when they message first. Human evolution tells the rest of the story: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339 Women have it way easier. Obviously. But that doesn't mean that they are as hypergamous as people here make it out to be. Average women do get into relationships with average guys and are happy with them (https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/64-percent-of-americans-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah, it's annyoing. The information is right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:47 PM
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Okay, you don't know how to read graphs. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:44 PM
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Why are so many incapable of reading graphs correctly? Seriously. Tell me what you see on this graph: https://archive.is/ZJymw/6229307830f9be60fa2dbdc9cf2aaeb5b8acc40b.png
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:23 PM
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The 80/20 rule is just a short hand for the Pareto distribution, which reflects tons of natural and human phenomena. Wealth distribution being the the original application. In the US, the top 20% of the population own 80% of financial assets (pre-great recession) being one example. I think now it’s closer to 90%. In other particular cases it may be 70/30, or 90/10. I am aware of some ratios that seem to repeat in nature. Whether or not it applies to dating is debatable, but no question there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:51 PM
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Are you serious or unable to read graphs? Read the thing and look at the graphs. Can't be too hard. Besides where is your source to your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:12 AM
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You can't just say that. Prove it. No one here actually makes an effort to show actual data that debunks me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:00 AM
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I do agree that maybe 30% of men are generally not attractive in any way but 80/20 is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:59 AM
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You clearly did not click on my link. Stop being lazy. Women find only 20% above average but it didn't stop them from messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:56 AM
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The crappy 80/20 rule pops up way too often. I have said it often and say it once more: The rule has never existed in human history, it doesn't exist in the current dating market and it's not even a thing in online dating. The rule comes from OkCupied and has been debunked by OkCupied too (https://archive.is/ZJymw). Dating won't be that bad in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:29 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:17 AM
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Ugly women won't get approached much. Average women will be probably more approached when a guy is interested in a relationship and not a ONS. Above average women might be considered great for ONS's but not so great for relationships. I have no idea if it's true but that would be my assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:27 PM
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The only statistic I've seen on this is where it was measured on Twitter which says 66% of slut shaming comes from women and I can't imagine it being different for body shaming due to cattiness. There are also indicators such as mothers body shaming more than fathers and that insecure people (women have a worse body image of themself than men) weaponize their insecurity which leads them to criticize others. It also matches my experience in group which consisted of girls. EDIT: It seems like wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:18 PM
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Red pill supporter sounds like a cult. I like some of the theories from red pill and the self improvement part but that's basically it. The subreddit doesn't do much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:58 PM
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I have sympathy for everyone that has legitimate problems. However she needs to get out there from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:03 PM
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Yeah but I am too lazy to go search for sources. It's an effect of testosteron.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:00 PM
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Men like risk more than women. That's why I think that men will always be on the top even if women would invest better overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:16 PM
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Hate is a strong word. I don't hate it. There are just some aspects like hypergamy that make it a bit uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:00 PM
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As I said, microneedling with 1mm needles should prevent a lot of hair loss. If you experience hair loss use minoxidil on the head area you used the needle on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:01 PM
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Balding is not that bad if you have a masculine frame/face that supports the look like Joe Rogan and the Rock. You can compensate by staying slim because later on people get fat and that on it's own balances things out. You can prevent balding from happening for the most part by microneedling with minoxidil. Luckily my father still has a full head of hair at the age of 54.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:34 PM
2

I am not that kind of guy that needs support wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:41 PM
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Depends. As far as I am aware here in Germany women cheat more often but it also depends on the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:00 PM
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Fine, I'll change the word anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:44 AM
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Why should I bother then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:40 AM
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I can't find a study in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:35 AM
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There are some evolutionary theories but honestly I think it's easier for men to keep being interested because we are visual and don't get bored by the partner being uninteresting - unlike women. Also women are happiest in long term relationships and also more sexually satisfied than in open relationships. So the boredom doesn't seem to do a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:23 AM
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No way. I am going to watch that twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:10 AM
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Thats obviously not what I am talking about. They both have strategies to maximize dating success for their gender. Your view of TRP seems a bit distorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:15 PM
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The only reason FDS doen't like TRP is because it's the same as FDS but for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:23 PM
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Yes, the usual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:11 PM
2

Yeah, I looked at his profile. Just confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:09 PM
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Alphas don't need a big dick. If you need a big dick to impress then you aren't alpha. The alpha male thing is way to overblown anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:03 PM
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You can be assured it's not because of your dick. You try to become alpha, yet you have the biggest insecurities about having an AVERAGE dick. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:55 PM
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I think that goes both ways though with MGTOW and other groups. Doesn't sound healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:50 PM
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Can the PUA pls fk off? It's already cringy to call yourself an alpha in front of someone but they are actively ruining the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:49 PM
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Dude you talk waaay to much about your dick. It doesn't matter in the greater scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:45 PM
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I don't think so but if he is a troll he seems really dedicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:42 PM
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Why would you call me a cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:38 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:24 AM
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Evolution THEORYs are just that THEORYs. You don’t ignore modern observations just because it doesn’t fit a theory. Wtf is this. This "it's just a theory" argument is just not good. Gravity is a theory, the earth is round is a theory. You can't tell me that it makes the slightest sense to have a sexual strategy that literally makes you depressed. It's ridiculous. It also says a high portion of Muslims. They are basically the same thing. I was talking about conservative America. Muslims are relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:30 AM
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What never made sense to me is when women get fat in a relationship -> gets dumped -> blames how shallow he is -> glow up phase to get the next guy. How about staying fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:30 AM
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(Male) Lack of cockiness. Too much is bad but most guys don't even try to get on a sexual level before it's too late. Not caring about your looks. This includes cloths, grooming, working out, cleanliness etc. Expecting a woman to do the first step in something. It probably won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:32 PM
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(Your first point) gendered sexual strategy’s are not supposed to be “healthy”. The idea is to devise a way that you can get your cake and eat it too. That doesn't make sense. Which evolutionary therory would support that a viable sexual strategy results in things like depression? Women are supposed to be picky and shouldn't sleep around as much. For women it would be fucking chad then using beta because chad won’t be there for you when you are old and need people you can trust to care for you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:11 PM
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That goes to show that women AFTER they’ve lived their lives being fucked by chad, then realise they cant live that life forever because then they will be alone in life. Thank you for proving your own argument wrong. " She gained the ability to exercise her sexuality." - is not healthy after all. Of course they will be unhappy. It would be a different story if young women were affected. They would need to be managers for study first which I doubt at that age. Also you are leaving out that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:04 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/312666769_Why_Managerial_Women_are_Less_Happy_Than_Managerial_Men " We do not find empirical support for the selectivity of female managers with respect to gendered preferences (H2). However, we can show how women’s different biology, their terminable fecundity, has a selective affect as it begins to impact the subjective well-being of childless female managers negatively around the age of 35 (H1). This is the time when managerial careers usually take off.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:29 PM
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Here's some proof that liberation didn't help happiness in women: https://de.scribd.com/doc/294258071/A-Cross-Country-Investigation-of-the-Determinants-of-the-Happiness-Gender-Gap https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-014-9577-5?error=cookies_not_supported&code=0b9b0692-6538-4caf-b09e-52f203b6f5ef https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00148-009-0257-4?error=cookies_not_supported&code=89b10fd8-aa2d-4935-a338-53ef603759f3 The conclusion: In summary, the data that we have reviewed s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:49 PM
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I don't think it's an issue. If you drop a guy with some chemical and force his dick inside you anyone will agree that it was rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:33 PM
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Here are 2 other sources indicating happiness of women: http://faculty.baruch.cuny.edu/rvalente/files/careerwomen.pdf https://www.researchgate.net/publication/312666769_Why_Managerial_Women_are_Less_Happy_Than_Managerial_Men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:03 PM
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Have you read what I've send you? " Yet, my analysis suggests that much of the gap is due to men and women using the life satisfaction response scale differently, that the true marginal gender effect is much smaller, and that on average, women have lower life satisfaction than men do. "
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:59 PM
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None of your information contradicts mine from what I can tell. https://blogs.worldbank.org/impactevaluations/are-women-really-happier-men-around-world-guest-post-mallory-montgomery I don't know if this source is worth anything I just want to throw it out there. EDIT: Here's the full thing: https://dornsife.usc.edu/assets/sites/1011/docs/mallory_montgomery_JMP_-_gender_happiness_gap_-_nov_10.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:10 PM
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If you want to enter the world of creeps go for it. But be realistic that you most likely won't pull any high numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:27 PM
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Not really. The mouth and nose is easy. Same with brow bridge, face width, eye ratios, eye tilt, mid face measurements, lower face measurements (Just google the things). When you measure your forehead start at the eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:24 PM
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The only thing I know is that it certainly didn't help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:16 PM
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"No you can’t control yourselves otherwise sexusl harassment wouldt be a thing." "But let’s not pretend it’s like women are out on the streeets harassing men, come on now " "The stats say otherwise, don’t act like men are not the inniators of aggression. " " Even when considered men are still sexually harassed/raped much more by men than women " "But it’s totally disingenuous to act like sexual harassment and assault don’t happen to women more. " If you want me to take you serious then you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:08 PM
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The stats say otherwise, don’t act like men are not the inniators of aggression. I don't say that men are less aggressive. However you sound like a feminist that tries to glorify women. Women often retaliate. In relationships? No. Women hit men much more often than men do. But if you like at life threatening dv men are much more often the perps. Look at the deaths for Christ sake. Again it's due to physical capabilities. Even when considered men are still sexually harassed/raped much more by men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:55 PM
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what's the reason then? I think the truth is: small penis BUT women lie and say other shit. No it's not realistic. Sure, some will break up with you for having a small penis but the average penis is plenty to work with. interesting, any ways to measure that myself to know where I fit? Ehm, just take a ruler and measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:51 PM
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Apperently sexual assault is not uncivilized enough for you so you have to get back to rape which is done more by men because we simply can do it. If women could do it more - they would. Btw. there is so much more to it like women attacking men more often in relationships both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:44 PM
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That contradicts my study. We know for a fact that men receive happiness from employment and success in their career. For women it's different: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/312666769_Why_Managerial_Women_are_Less_Happy_Than_Managerial_Men/download Read the Pdf. Women are not designed for such work and it doesn't fit their biology - at all. If you want to claim it's due to less socializing, sure but that just proves my point. From all sides you tell to women they need to be something …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:42 PM
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Where is the statistical relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:17 PM
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You don't need a big dick when you are relatively fit and the vast majority of breakups aren't due to a small penis. The ideal face is symmetric and has several important proportions like the mouth being about 1.6 times wider than the nose or the forehead should be about a third of your faces length.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:17 PM
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I don't think so. There are statistics that show that men in their 60's have a lot of changing partners but sex drive overall is lower due to testosteron dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:14 PM
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You do realize that in europe 32% of the victims of sexual assault are female and 27% are male?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:12 PM
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Is it even controversial on this sub? I thought we are on the same page when it comes to women having an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:10 PM
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There are some universally attractive traits like height, healthy skin, proportional face, frame, status, money. Not all women like a man with a lot of money but the majority will find it somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:09 PM
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Men prefer a bit of makeup and there is no denying that. Makeup around the eyes and lips make you look more fertile while healthy skin indicates a healthy human. If they say they prefer women without makeup they have absolutely no clue if he sees a woman with makeup on or off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:04 PM
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Humans aren't polygamous or monogamous by nature. We are mixed. Some people are genetically more long term oriented while other may favour short term relationships. Polygamy will be more accepted in the future but it won't be as widespread as many here will make you believe. Some say the top 20% will get 80% of the women which is by all statistics incredibly wrong. https://archive.is/ZJymw The original source of the 80/20 rule comes from OkCupied and gets debunked by not only the same platform b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:59 PM
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https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969#:~:text=Relative%20declines%20in%20female%20happiness,subjective%20well%2Dbeing%20for%20men (Download Pdf) https://www.omicsonline.org/open-access-pdfs-outside/the-relationship-between-multiple-sexual-partners-and-mental-health-in-adolescent-females-2161-0711.1000256.pdf Obviously a lot of men are bitter about their lack of sex and some of them will never get a taste but I need data on that. However it seems modern women will be worse off when it comes to happi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:37 PM
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Sounds perfectly healthy. Obviously there are traditional men out there but I don't know if you want one. I am not necessarily sure why it seems so hard for you to find a partner though since if you are mildly attractive you should have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:32 PM
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Depends. I have seen women lust over 30-39 year olds while making fun of 50 year old men. Imo men in their 30's have realistic chances with 20 year old women due to peak of looks and status. Poor Johnny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:21 PM
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Face 30 Height/Frame 25 Weight 15 Money 10 (Highly depends on HER social class) Dick size 10 (Overrated) Style/Game 10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:17 PM
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Divorce benefits women due to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:07 PM
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That's exactly why you don't listen to women in these topics. They won't say yes to traditional lifestyles eventhough they would benefit from it. Women are irrational - without trying to sound sexist https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969#:~:text=Relative%20declines%20in%20female%20happiness,subjective%20well%2Dbeing%20for%20men. Download the Pdf and read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:06 PM
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So what you are saying is men can’t control themselves We can control ourselves but we still want to have sex with you. Most of us at least. and we shouldn’t treat them with respect? What? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:01 PM
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PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:47 PM
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Back in the days, a woman had no real choice when it came to supporting herself. She had to find a husband and she had to keep him happy, even at the expense of her own happiness. That's wrong womens happiness has declined since the breakup of social roles. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Robert-Willis-9/publication/265230842/figure/fig2/AS:295962883969030@1447574458497/Happiness-by-Gender-over-Time-in-the-US-GSS.png Other statistics show the same. If a husband wanted sex from his wife, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:23 PM
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Some people are social parasytes without self respect. That's about it. Why should any guy change this setup when he gets both pussy and money/things anyway when he doesn't care about masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:02 PM
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Assuming a woman is genuine about what she says is strike 1. Asking them once more is strike 2. Obviously they want attention of the guys who are 'worth it'. Saying they wearing it for themselfs is just wrong. Why would you feel better about yourself when you look better? Because other people judge you - not because you want to look good for yourself. Going out with sexy stuff and complaining is like going in a warzone and complaining about loosing a leg or going to the northpool and freezing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:58 PM
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"If she knows" we are talking about 'friends' here. She doesn't know nor does any other woman that thinks they are 'just friends'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:39 PM
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Why would you change your relationship when it works for you? There are always outliers. There will be probably guys saying "Well aCtUaLLy you are just waiting for top 20% chad to come along" but it's bs tbh. Keep going whatever you got going on rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:29 PM
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It's not about women manipulating men and more about men just wanting to fuck her. They don't have to be orbiters or simps. They simply want to spread their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:23 PM
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That's not the issue though: https://www.bleske-rechek.com/April%20Website%20Files/Bleske-Rechek%20et%20al.%202012%20Benefit%20or%20Burden.pdf It's not the women that have a problem with male friends it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:03 PM
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Far from reality. Women still have higher SMV than men later on but less than in their 20's. It doesn't even come close to balancing the low standards a man has.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:28 AM
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It's a world I'd like to live in. It's just changing supply and demand in favour for men so I am for it. Obviously it's delusional and I don't know if there are downsides but I can't imagine it being worse for men than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:25 AM
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Any man shouldn't trust women espically today. No one should rely on a woman in any life situation. You are temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:22 AM
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If you want a cuck go for it. Personally I wouldn't waste my time on children that aren't mine. A bluepilled guy is probably the best you can get as a women. They are like dough, lack in critical thinking and blame themself more than others if you go out and cheat on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:18 AM
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Yes but only outside of LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:11 AM
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Yeah I need to find the pictures to see whats up with shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:40 AM
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https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fa0022902
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:08 PM
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Sorry but that's just not true. You are expected to get whatever you want when it comes to dating which makes rejections too hard to handle for your self esteem. Also I don't think women have it in their genes anyway. We see it everywhere from initiating sex, the first kiss etc. At least be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:32 PM
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Teaching your son about dating should be common sense at this point. However this probably won't help your 5'5 son with autism and cuck chin. For everyone else it's a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:27 PM
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Yep. Not solvable. If they blame you for not fucking them while you try to empathize they seem like pieces of shit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:55 PM
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That's actually quite wholesome and I didn't expect to see such a thing on PPD. If that what you say is true I wish you the best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:53 PM
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Why would set your standards low? Are you talking about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:42 PM
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If you overdo it with hard to get you will run into trouble. High value guys won't put up with this kind of bs. However if you do it right he will be probably more attached to you because humans put more value on things depending how much effort they have to put in. It's manipulative though which is why I don't like this approach. Simping can look needy which has several bad implications. Obviously as a guy I like women who invest more into a man than the other women. It's more comfortable for u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:36 PM
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I don't think it's an issue that can be resolved. Some men are not able to get sex or a girlfriend and it won't change. Sympathy in terms of listening to them or socializing in general would probably help some but when the only thing you need is someone who is attracted to you and it's not going to happen the problem is not solvable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:26 PM
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Small reminder that happiness is the least attractive expression a man can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:20 PM
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I don't care about her income/status or anything like that. In terms of dating down in looks I don't think that's true due to makeup. We have all seen what women naturally look like and I don't find them objectively more attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:41 PM
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Have you looked at Natalie Dormer without makeup? Looks like Greta Thunberg after doing crack for 3 years. Good skin though. The average face does not use makeup. That's where you get tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 06:06 PM
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That's what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:14 PM
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Because it harms men in a fundamental way and women probably too. Not caring about men killing themself because they have to be better than their match is kind of shitty ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:50 AM
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I don't think you have any idea how stagnant the economy of Japan is. It hasn't increased since 1995 unlike other western countries. Social isolation is far worse in Japan. Low birth rates - same here. Working culture - again no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:46 PM
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People find average faces attractive. Average nose, average mouth, average eyes etc. Beauty can absolutely be measured using the faces of all people combined and taking the avergae size of everything. Everything 'abnormal' like big nose decreases attractivenss. We all have preferences though. For me a girl with blues eyes and brown/black hair automatically gets 2 points extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:55 PM
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Nah, it won't be that bad in the west. Japan is fked beyond repair. Stagnating Economy, social isolation, low birth rates, working culture etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:47 PM
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I wonder how women would do without makeup. Besides that I don't really see ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:32 PM
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It's fine to a certain extent. I am into IT, Muay Thai and probably motorcycling/climbing in the future. All of these hobies have few women in them so I need to balance it out. Maybe cooking classes (I like cooking anyway) and dance classes (Can't go wrong). I have given up gaming completely for a couple of reasons but the most important is to get an advantage in the dating market. Idc that much whether I have a beard or not so I just follow statistics which beard is most attractive. I also hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:50 AM
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We don't really have that kind of problem here in germany since it's 50/50 in university and far more doctors are male than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:22 PM
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From my experience it was the women who were more rude towards crying men. Guys don't seem to care that much about victims which is also bad but I'd prefer passive over active. It's the same with me. I don't do anything about a guy crying and don't bother with it too much. When I was with girls during break time that one russian girl made sure to put 'weaker' man down behind their back while the other girls were just joining in when she starts. Ofc you will have your school bullies. They will do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:25 PM
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I don't have friends that cheat nor do I want them to be my friends. If one of them cheats I don't want to do anything with him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:11 PM
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It's the same with height. When a man wants a girl smaller than him they say it's because he is insecure. However if a woman wants a taller man it's perfectly normal. Honestly like many other things on this subreddit it's just a double standard as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:09 PM
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I think there are 3 important reasons: Many men are not aware of the problems their gender is facing because no one talks about them outside the manosphere. They might be aware of the problems but don't support other men because it hurts their chances with women (I don't think a women would date a guy that talks about these problems) or feel like the public doesn't support them, which is most likely the case. The vast majority of the media is left wing. Left wing and men's rigths don't mix since…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:12 PM
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Thats no joke. If you make yourself look like legal age and you hookup with a 22 year old dude you shouldn't call him a pedophile. In case of men attracted to 8 year olds. Thats the scum you really wanna hate on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:05 AM
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I don't think pedophiles have a big significance statistically speaking. They are rare. Besides that it might be evolutionary. https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/5e816dd0-1ffd-0132-4e38-0ebc4eccb42f.jpg?w=760&h=735&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/92/6739b310-1ffd-0132-08bb-0eae5eefacd9.jpg?w=760&h=708&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 It would help when 15 year olds would stop wearing push up bras and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 01:07 AM
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It probably gets better easier when you get older but I couldn't take the pressure anymore and ended the friendship. Immaturity might be the cause idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:26 AM
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Had these types of idea. For example with a witcher setting (or any other medival setting) with a god figure as a king which is a robot and a desert where people can't get through and ofc someone then finds artifact of our civilisation after passing the desert and the machines which defend the outer world. I hope it doesn't end up in a red pill manifesto (it will have the spirit though).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:18 AM
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Exactly. But someone has probably done it already....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:08 AM
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I see a pattern in the comments. Women - yes, ofc my friends would never have sex with me Men - Nope, can't be friends My best friend was a girl and she would probably say yes too. Little did she know I always wanted to have sex with her. My answer is also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:06 AM
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I often have daydreams about building a global cybersystem that destroys any kind of civilisation that evolves further than 1910 europe for example to protect humanity from itself. Obviously it needs to repair itself and has to be able to see the whole world via satellites. Idk maybe I am just a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:59 PM
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Mental health issues increase mostly in women. Social media certainly has an impact espicially on young women. I'd say pressure on women in the working force or other things heavily damage female psyche too. We don't really see a damaging effect on men eventhough we are hit with the same pictures of often unattainable male bodies and wealth. We are already taught everywhere that looks shouldn't matter and shallow people aren't worth it etc. It doesn't work because we know for a fact how importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:54 PM
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So you say that it makes more sense that the women is open and the man restricted? Otherwise anything you say doesn't add up. You need to illustrate your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:24 PM
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Yeah, this conversation was more comfortable than the last one I had. Good luck in the future because personally eventhough I don't believe in 80/20 I will do anything to get into the 20% and I think I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:12 PM
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Why should the man have more than 1 women when a women is more likely to get bored with a single partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:03 PM
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It doesn't make sense though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:54 PM
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Open relationships aren't more successfull in any way compared to monogamy. https://qz.com/1001468/research-finds-that-open-relationships-arent-more-sexually-satisfying-than-monogamy/ Open marriages are even worse and fail 92% of the time. Generally speaking a man has an easier time distuingishing between sex and love but that doesn't mean he has to go outside and find another women. It's also proven that men are attracted longer to the same partner than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:43 PM
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I'd argue most. if it was mainly evolution, the stark cross-cultural differences would be less significant. We can agree to disagree. From the information I've gotten some ethnics are genetically different. doing something about gynocentrism in society. also raising more awareness perhaps. I haven't heard anyone but myself talk about the inherent hypocrisy behind hypergamy. also as mentioned, it's mainly not just female nature. I am against modern feminism too. I am fine with hypergamy probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:32 PM
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Yes and no since girls romanced with me and I did not with them. The only girl I approached posted our WhatsApp history in the class group so yeah (9th grade I think). Yes because I missed the easiest opportunities and/or my standards were too high. I am not that mad about it. It's fine. 21, Germany Male
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:30 PM
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- I disagree that the extent of women's high standards are caused by nature. notice how male virginity rates were not nearly as high a few decades ago? I think the increase of gynocentrism/female pedestalisation (exacerbated by social media) led women in western countries to have high standards due to valuing themselves highly. I agree that it's partially nature, but predominantly not. Notice how much easier it is to get matches in south-east asian countries compared to western countries? If it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:26 PM
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We have crazy high taxes, prices here though. I am likely to earn 100k € by the age 35 if I am mildly competent which would be also enough in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:36 PM
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I have seen many people espicially women embrace the idea that crying/vulnerability is strength. I disagree. Crying is okay when your mother dies or your team wins in sports. Outside of that it is not a sign of strength if you are too weak to hold back your tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:53 PM
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I (german) am open to a traditional lifestyle. The career I take allows me to support a big family and I'd like to have the mother to take care of my kids. No need for her to have a job. And career women are out of the question for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:24 PM
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I wonder why people are still surprised. Ass has been more popular than boobs for a couple years now which makes me, as an ass cultist, glad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:43 PM
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women have just as many opportunities as men, and yet it's men that have to put in the work to 'be better'? That's evolution for ya. why should men conform to women's hypocritical standards? You don't have to but if you wanna succeed from an evolutionary standpoint, that's just something you gotta do. hypergamy is immoral as it is hypocritically setting higher standards on others than what you live up to yourself. It's nature. I don't like it either. that is not something men should be subjected…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:29 PM
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You should ask someone who actually cries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:29 AM
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big If. a few decades ago maybe, but not anymore. women are actually getting out of uni with less degrees, and the wage gap is a myth. That's not what I am trying to say. Men need to better. When men as a whole are better than women, women will be able to date up. what do you mean by 'higher chance of reproduction'? Women are 10-40% more likely to pass on their genes. This depends on the demographic. true, but many more women choose to share a man compared to men who share a woman. I think this …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:41 AM
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Sadly I think it's true for some women. One of my friends started crying in class because his girlfriend left him. I was sitting in the back and the girls in the middle. Some were confused but that one girl clearly had a disgusted expression on her. It makes so to some degree. Women want a confident leader - generally speaking. Whining is a sign of vulnerability and weakness or is considered like that. Personally I am never go to cry in front of my gf if I can avoid it at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:55 PM
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not completely sure what you mean by this. If men are overall better educated, earn more, have higher status etc. there will be always a women for guys because they can date up. Obviously I don't take looks in consideration here but you should get the idea. https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3232078 “The most surprising finding was that women are overall more comfortable with the idea of non-monogamy than men,” -lee Cunff That doesn't go against anything I've said earlier. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:40 PM
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I 'missed out' too but it was my fault. I was bluepilled but that wasn't the problem since girls had romantic interest in me. My first 'relationship' was when I was around 16-17 but I never wanted it in the first place and was pressured into it. It was a typical situation of every girl being super excited because a new couple has formed - you know the drill. After that, maybe 1 year later, a girl has given me chocolate hearts on valentines day and I never acted on it. Honestly I am kind of dumb.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:08 PM
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I used it as a figure of speech. I'm trying to say they hold all the power in sexual selection. men compete for women, and women sit back and choose. Basically right, I don't want to nitpick. women are hypergamous. they seek to 'date up'. it's statistically impossible for most women to be hypergamous and monogamous at the same time. It do see an statistical error in it. As long as the average man has more value than the average woman there will always be the opportunity to date up with a single …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:55 PM
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I leave surgery out of here because you can do it with most stuff on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:56 PM
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If you're an average girl and want to find a male sex partner, you can easily do it within 24 hours without having to even leave your house. If you're an average guy? you can spend days/weeks not even getting a match. women's standards are just that high. Google what a monopoly is. If I take for face value what you said men have a monopoly too since they are needed for sex too. The demand for women is just higher. In the US, online is the no.1 way that relationships started. this was before covi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:55 PM
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Kind of true but not really. You can't influence height if you are already grown and were destined to be small however frame can be changed if you aren't fully developed through sports, higher T levels and you can make yourself look bigger by building muscle especially in the delt area. Dick size is changable too to some degree. If you missed out on testosteron during you developing years you are likely to have a small penis. Penis extender are more effective if you have a smaller penis and can …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:20 PM
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I never comment on TRP, many are way to extreme in their views of attraction and often just preach whatever makes women look bad. It annoys me that they try to betray men as only polygamous and women as monogamous. It's not reflected in the data, only tendencies. I don't think I need to list many examples here they are just too extreme in their view of evolution and don't think for themselfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:07 PM
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In don't believe in casual sex due to statistical and social problems. Statisticly speaking casual sex heavily damages pair bonding abilities and increases chances of cheating. Besides the risk of STD's mental health can be negatively impacted too: https://www.omicsonline.org/open-access-pdfs-outside/the-relationship-between-multiple-sexual-partners-and-mental-health-in-adolescent-females-2161-0711.1000256.pdf On social side monogomy benefits people who otherwise have less chances in the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:57 PM
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I wouldn't call it compromises since the vast majority of women are happy in their relationship and most don't cheat on their partner. It's in line with breeding data. The 20%, like celebrities, are indeed idealized. I say about 30% can't get laid or get into relationships due to unchagable traits. Outside of that it's very much possible to get into satisfying relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:03 PM
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It's not about relationships. It's about breeding. Beta buxx don't breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:51 PM
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This thread isn't a personal thread about me. it's in regards to men in general. I don't know where you live to have been approached 3 times like that, or what circumstances led to that, but it is NOT the norm for the majority of men. Probably not the norm no. the 80/20 rule is real. There is no evidence to support this but there is evidence that it isn't true. even if it's not those exact figures, there is no denying that women hold a monopoly on the sexual marketplace and have much higher stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:48 PM
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I don't question hypergamy of women and polygomy of men. The only environment where the 80/20 COULD be true is hookups on Tinder. Outside of that it breaks every statistic I have seen and doesn't match the experience from me or my friends. Offline it's more like 80/50 tbh and I don't think humans can re program themselfs to only go for the high tier men. Guys, from what I can tell, don't put much effort in either. Hit the gym already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:52 PM
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There is no study on every aspect of dating or behaviour of men/women so you need to think for yourself what makes sense and combine several studies to reach a conclusion. PPD/Redpill is dangerous and toxic if you don't find nuance. I don't listen to what women or men say. It's often just misinformed, morally forced or out of anger. Whenever I look for useful statistics, studies or information in general I try my best to implement them in my daily life but not care further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:09 PM
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The 80/20 is bs. It never existed. If you claim this is true I'll give you the advice to go outside and watch couples. It isn't even close to being statisticly realistic. Women are hypergamous that's correct but not as much as people here make it out to be. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002929710000339 "Taken at their face value of 1.1–1.4 females per male, our β estimates do not indicate a great level of polygamy but rather conform to the image of our species as monogamist…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:45 PM
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I agree with the sentiment that if a guy puts a decent amount of effort in himself he will have good chances as long as his genes are worth it. What women consider as their standards are changing. We can see in the current dating market that it shifts trowards more primitive things like looks. 60 years ago values seemed to be more important than now. Unless you date a FDS/AskWomen chick. They demand everything but aren't representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:09 PM
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In germany it's 6,8 for women and 7,9 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:01 PM
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I understand what you saying and a victim complex is extremely unhealthy. However when all you know from parenting and media is that you have to have a good personality to get laid and other things don't matter that much you can't blame people for feeling being lied to. They were lies covered behind virtue signaling. I try my best to talk to other guys about evolutionary psychology before it's too late and they become incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:54 PM
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So you agree that the effect is indeed true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:09 PM
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Women can have easy sex. That's about it. It is not indicativeof other aspects of SMV. I always find it funny if stories where men ask their partner for an open relationship. In every story the guy ends up regretting it. I wonder why. Polygamy benefits men more than women in a relationship. You imply that women will have more sexual partners but they won't because sex drive is lower or the need for it. If you are a 3/10 guy sure the women will benefit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:07 PM
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Literally the 3rd link. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/331639154_Catching_up_with_wonderful_women_The_women-are-wonderful_effect_is_smaller_in_more_gender_egalitarian_societies https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1471-6402.1991.tb00792.x Lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:02 PM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=women+are+wonderful+effect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:56 PM
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Strength is far from irrelevant. Strength also increases SMV. Besides that many people here claim that womens SMV is waaay higher than mens which I don't agree with. It's noticeably higher but men are not hopeless in any way. The average woman is slightly better than the average man, but society keeps telling women their at a disadvantage because the average woman hasn’t eclipsed the top % of men. I wouldn't say women are better. That's just s trange way top put it. Women do have it easier than …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:53 PM
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Delusional. Women-are-wonderful effect maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:47 PM
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So being dark triad, in your view, does not actually make you more attractive to women? Dark triad is an indicator of success. Success is attractive to women. I actually agree with you btw, even your study alludes to the idea that it is personality traits that are correlated with cluster B such as risk taking behaviour (novelty seeking), low agreeableness, low neuroticism, and leadership are the qualities they are actually looking for, no psychopathy or narcissism. Women won't look for psychpath…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:45 PM
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I am giving up at this point. You refuse to accept my sources and the reason behind my arguments. No point in talking to you further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:24 PM
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It depends. For reproduction personality doesn't matter much outside of confidence and probably leadership skills. If you are in the position of beta buxx personality comes more into play. I am arguing that attractiveness is more important overall. Guy with 10/10 personality and 10/10 attractiveness > guy with 1/10 personality and 10/10 attractiveness > guy with 10/10 personality and 1/10 attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:59 PM
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The world health organization is a joke. Besides that I already said they want it to be reclassified. It could be, and it could not be, there are many other possible explanations and you can't assume any individual explanation to be correct without testing it. 39%(!). You can only go so far with proving. It all comes together perfectly. The men in group B might just want children more often, the specific type of women they attract might want children more often, they might just be more irrespons…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:41 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232725935_Fitness_costs_and_benefits_of_personality_disorder_traits "These findings help explain the commonness of some extreme personality traits in humans, and suggest that they should be seen as evolutionary strategies rather than as diseases." Your source goes in with the expectation of it being a disorder and it's seen as one while many say it should change. "Not a matter of opinion" No, you've given me proof that selfish people have more children. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:00 PM
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No, I don't know if it's still classified as a dissorder but many all the studies I have been through say that this has to be re evaluated as a strategy to mate. I have just given you prove that literally psychopaths attract women to mate with. The whole dark triad thing doesn't come out of nowhere. https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html I am too lazy to search for the study itself that's your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:19 PM
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It's not a mental disorder. It's an evolutionary strategy. If you don't accept the source there is not point in discussing this further. Women overall aren't as attracted to personality as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:48 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232725935_Fitness_costs_and_benefits_of_personality_disorder_traits There were more studies but I'll have to find them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:35 PM
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There is plenty of evidence on the halo effect. Also psychopaths, narcissists or people with anti-social behaviour get more children on average than the nicer guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:21 PM
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This debate is very bluepiled and not based on anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:03 PM
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They don't see it as a 1/10 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:40 PM
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I assume this is a troll post. Men and women are different. Men have advantages like strength, better stress management, more confidence etc. while women have higher SMV, more emotional intelligence, better immune system etc. Both are equally smart. Comparing both won't change it and only increases anger between both genders. We complement each other, if we didn't evolution would have wiped us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:39 PM
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Yes. If we speak about the same girl however it will happen the way I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:18 PM
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There are no statistics on this. I said before that if you are aa 5/10 you should get into relationships. Here's the thing though a 1/10 in looks and 10/10 personality won't get into relationships while a 10/10 looks guy with a 1/10 personality will. Halo-effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:57 PM
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That isn't very convincing. You don't need to be a 8/10 guy but if you are not attractive in the slightest you won't get into a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:34 PM
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Looks rule above anything else. Personality outsoide of confidence and leader skills are not that important for reproduction thus not that important to a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:10 PM
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Certainly. Women have half the upper body strength and 70% of the leg strength. He could beat her up easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:07 PM
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Listen. I am sure you had a hard time and so on but your name and thoughts make it look like that your kind of delusional when it comes to dating. I said it before but 3 girls approached me when I was fat, ungroomed, long hair with bad clothes. They were all 5-7's and one girl loved me. They didn't settle for me. Nor did the girl from my relatively ugly friend. If you are a 5, 6, 7 etc. there is absolutely no reason why you can't get into a relationship. The 80/20 rule has never been seen in rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:46 AM
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I have been approached by 3 girls so far as an average, fat (back then) dude with bad clothes and ungroomed beard. They were 5-7's (all thin). One girl loved me. Did they 'settle' for me? no. Women usually date up, but the 80/20 rule is kind of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:44 AM
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Honestly I think it's pity addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:12 AM
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That just depends on how good looking and how awkward you are. You will get away with some stuff if you are handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:41 AM
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Yes, I don't know why it's so popular you don't see it anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:40 AM
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Yeah, these guys don't seem to be bright. If they know you are engaged it's not your fault if they orbit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:53 PM
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don't think it can be chalked up to more lethal methods. people who really want to kill themselves are more likely to do their research and use reliable methods. It doesn't take much research to know that taking some pills is highly unlikely to kill you. It seems like that may be more of a cry for help rather than an actual suicide attempt, atleast in most cases. many men simply do not see any help out there. This isn't based on anything. also the 80/20 rule sure does exist, although it's fairly…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:50 PM
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It's not that easy though. You are conciously creating problems for other people. That is and I am willing to repeat myself, trashy human behaviour. You are leading them on. They can't know for sure. If there are clear signs it's that you don't want anything from them, then yeah it's their fault. Outside of that - it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:35 PM
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Most people are reading too much into male suicide. More women than men try to kill themselves but men take harder methods thus more male suicide. The 80/20 isn't much of a factor even in dating life. The matter of fact is that even the guys outside the infamous 20% get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:27 PM
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Overly Critical/Aggressive Begs for sympathy Thinking she's a catch Doesn't like kids/animals Doesn't take care of herself Mainly has male friends hating on men Only talks about her career and independence Stuff like that you will get a feeling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:38 PM
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You can't know for sure. You will need to learn about them/talk with them. It should be clear after some time wether she is a good girl. The 'best' red flag to figure things out is if shes complaining/spoiled/always unhappy. There is a big difference between a women that complains about how much her feet hurt and someone that jokes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:09 PM
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Good/healthy/interesting hobbies in general. Bookclubs, all kinds of sports like football (soccer), archery, climbing etc. Basically if you have an interesting hobby and you join a group where most people are women you are going to find something worthy. I can't think of a particular place where the 'good' women tend to go and where you can make connections. In museums women should be of higher quality but it doesn't seem to be the best place to find connections. I might be wrong though I haven'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:52 PM
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You are more likely to find a low quality women on Tinder, parties/clubs, bars than in hiking, cooking, dancing groups. That would be my basic advice but ofc there are also bad women in hiking groups but they are much rarer there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:35 PM
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I say the same about feminism. Feminism has pushed too far and didn't achieve anything of value. Sure, women can have a greater impact on society now and overall have a lot more freedom in sex life, workplaces etc. However women overall have never been so depressed/unhappy which is far worse than a lack of freedom since happiness is THE thing a human should aim for. Blaming everything on social media doesn't work either. Many men who aren't even aware of mgtow etc. don't want to marry anymore wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:29 PM
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I don't think it's common during marriage neither do I believe that sex dolls are a big thing in general. If someone buys one it might just be a lack of sex since sex quantity decreases after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:06 PM
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Typical halo-effect. Attractive men will look less creepy eventhough another uglier guy does the same thing. That doesn't mean however that handsome men can't come across as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:04 PM
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There is not what the data shows. Although there is a difference it is not that significant. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool "Not significant" Because, like the study I linked to shows, "high tier"varies to the needs of every particular female. Not really. Every women wants a healthy, strong, confident leader. Period. If you want to debate how much empathy for example a man should have, sure this can vary from women to women but that's not the sellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:23 PM
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We need to distuingish between women with values and thoose who don't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:19 PM
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Nah bro, it's uncomfortable. Do I fear to get raped? no. Does a women have to fear rape in a club? no. Groping on streets isn't that common from what I am aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:18 PM
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Personally I just like the aesthetic (not the piercings though). They don't spark me as unfeminin either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:10 PM
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No, I am trying to get their till next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:06 PM
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Women are far more likely to reproduce and have added more to the gene pool. It makes total sense from an evolutionary perspective. Why should go women for their equal when they can easily be impregnated by a high tier guy instead of the low value man. Women are the bottleneck to birth, not men. Besides that we see it in other animals too. Women have also developed hidden ovulation to cheat on their safe partner to mate with most valuable men in the group. The brutal truth is that men have to ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:04 PM
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I don't think FWB is realistic to most people either. Just saying that its sex without the romance stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:11 AM
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"Lmao just stop liking me", "I give you small signs of hope but its your fault that you orbit me" similarly stupid things to say: "Just don't be depressed" "just buy a house"(to a homeless person)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:07 AM
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Well that just makes a shitty person tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:11 AM
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The women here don't seem like people who would do that willingly. I also doubt that the average women has multiple guys at once, only thoose who aim for it or the ones with the best looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:45 PM
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I hope other men will follow you. Can't wait to swim in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:51 PM
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If society continues like this some kind of distribution of sex will happen. Anti-social, angry virgins are dangerous and will increase in numbers. It might be that the government pays for A.I, Robots or just prostitutes who will do the job. My pessimistic 2 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:42 PM
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Your call. You know more about that stuff than I do and the topic isn't really that interesting to me. I just think most of the hair dyeing thing is not that important and I will leave it at that since you can spend your money whereever you want. Also you are attracting weird partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:50 PM
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I’m a natural blonde who has dated a significant portion of natural blonde fetishists. I’m aware they exist How would you know? Serious question That aside, blondes actually go gray and white Your grey/white might be blond to me. Honestly when you are not 40+ you hair won't look grey/white if you don't have the genes for it. color it fantasy That's exactly the point. Weirdly colored hair like that prove my point. You can't deny that pink dyed hair is unattractive to most men. Call it expression …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:06 PM
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You guys are selecting for colored hair, even if not consciously You are free to think that. Your money. The only thing that gives you an advantage is healthy, long hair with the prefered hair color. If the guy of interested likes the darker brown, sure go for it but other guys might have liked the lighter hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:40 PM
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The stats are a goldmine, thx for that. Yes I think it kinda proves the point of women having higher standards without meeting them themselfs. It might not be apples to apples but I don't see why the stats couldn't be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:15 PM
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Never spoke about all men. I like women with brown hair. I don't notice the different shades of brown at all. Obviously sometimes I talk with friends about women and no one (I mean it) cares about nails, slightly darker hair or some like that. Makeup looks nice though if done right. You might have a different view on this just because you are a women. Men expect high heels from strippers might be culture and the fact that they make the butt look better. To be fair the polls I have my information…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:04 PM
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Statisticly speaking looks are as important to women as men. Besides that I have to shave my back, chest/stomach, balls/dick, groom my beard and trim my pubic hair. Men also need to go to the barber much more often. The expensive procedures you have mentioned are not neccessary at all and I feel like only women notice them. You will rarely find a guy that cares about - I certainly don't. Most men prefer flats over high heels. I do too. EDIT: No hate btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:12 PM
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Am I? I just feel like the post is written with a bit of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:57 PM
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I mean that men like you and me have lower expectations than women have on us. If you look at transgender they often go from a 5 to 6.5 or something just because we see women as more valuable than men. I hope you get what I am saying. Also my own theory is that because men have a higher genetic variance we might actually be uglier becaue average faces are the most attractive and we differ more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:33 PM
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If I had the makeup, money to spend on good clothes, variety of clothes and lower expectations of me I would be beatiful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:24 PM
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Male sperm count, testosteron etc. is dropping because of Chemicals, Plastics and a lack of physical activities and not with self esteem, confidence etc. Male homosexuality is now accepted by society and probably won't increase further in big numbers. Whether sexuality can be choosen is up for debate. Western men are also more confident that men from other countries while the confidence of women stays the same. Men in poorer countries are as confident as their women and western women. Statisticl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:22 PM
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Complaining won't do anything. All the romance stuff is just an extension of courtship behaviour which is done by men to impress women so they mate with them in LTR's. So it's not surprising eventhough it's not that natural. I think being gay would make me happier too but I don't have any control over this. Or just stay away from LTR's with women and just do friends with benefits stuff or hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:58 PM
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Men find smiling highly attractive and I think it's happy women in general. Intelligence is also key however some studies found that being too smart creates the opposite reaction. Values like no hookups, likes children/family, being a friendly person, thoose are generally important. Feminine things like nurturing. Self respect/worth without being a "queen" Thoose characteristics seem to be universially attractive to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:15 AM
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Here's how I see it: A man usually has to make the first step by walking up to the women of desire He will most likely ask for her number and ask her out or text her On the date it is likely that he will have to pay for the food Men are expected to initiate the first kiss (I can't find the statistic on that but it was very clear) Men are also expected to initiate sex I don't see where women are putting more effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:47 PM
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Urinating while standing. I never do it because I don't come into these situations. However I am sure in atleast one moment of my life I will thank god for my genitals. Better aging. Too young for that but it better kick in later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:39 PM
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Society and my parents never taught me how to communicate so I just do what I think fits. To male friends I tend to speak very harsh and so do they. Women on the other hand get treated politely just like any stranger of any gender. I prefer the first variant though because its kind of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:37 AM
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We can have that, you just need learn it. The orgasm(s) feel the same too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:19 AM
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"She's different I swear!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:44 PM
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