Freja_Walther Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
61	My family and morals.	OFF TOPIC	Freja_Walther	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/20 02:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	What is a redpill woman? Is it a traditional woman, or something totally different? They are not, there is Definitely a overlap, but in my experience a lot of the redpilled women still align with feminism, career women and general a modern view of the over all role as a woman. What they focus on is a male-lead relationship which is somewhat traditional. Nothing wrong in these views, but they are somewhat modern views. It's better to align what you find to be traditional and look for that. So if your idea of traditional is a Christian stay at home mom then outlign that I meet my…	/r/RedPillWives	12/08/21 01:17 PM
2	RP and Cheating During Marriage I really doubt that theory...you are really seriously saying that men who commit to marriages, are the main reason men kill themselves?	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/21 08:30 AM
7	RP and Cheating During Marriage Im sorry, I am not gonna say "thank you" to my partner for not cheating? It's a given that when you "commit" that you are commiting to one person. Meaning not cheating is not a sign of love but a rule you accept when going in to a commited relationship. By that logic we should thank men for not raping women, because in nature we would not ask for consent? We are more than our nature both men and women. And I am not gonna put men on the same standard as cavemen.	/r/RedPillWives	02/08/21 03:41 PM
12	RP and Cheating During Marriage "High value" RP men constantly talk about high value men, but they don't always get what high value mean for a woman. A cheating man, can never be high value. Never. No woman want a man there cheat unless she is in to a open relationship. Why? What can I use a man who spend money and time on another woman instead of me? Who disregard my feelings or my work? Who care so little about their child that you risk ruining their family structure? The answer is nothing, a cheating man brings NOTHING.	/r/RedPillWives	02/08/21 03:33 PM
3	RP and Cheating During Marriage So if you choose to be with a working woman, you have the right to cheat? If you don't get what you wan't from a relationship, either leave or work on it. Don't go out and cheat, ruining your childs future and in general being a bad person.	/r/RedPillWives	02/08/21 03:30 PM
1	Banned from the Christian marriage sub because I suggested someone come here. That's fair but that really not what I was talking about. You maybe find comfort here as a Christian woman, I do as well, and I know other Christian women who do too. But redpilledwomen, redpilledwives and theredpill are not Christian-focused forums. Which means things like poly, sex before marriage, kinks and fetishes and a ton of other forms of relationships are accepted and discussed here.	/r/RedPillWives	28/07/21 10:52 AM
1	Banned from the Christian marriage sub because I suggested someone come here. Well I can see what the mod wrote to her comment and what she said. So I just take the mods words for what they are. I lurk in there, but a lot of it is about sex. Which I don't care to read that much about, so you maybe be right.	/r/RedPillWives	20/07/21 02:31 PM
2	Banned from the Christian marriage sub because I suggested someone come here. I am not saying that this subreddit don't have any Christian compatibility. But saying that this subreddit have a overall focus on christian valued marriage is wrong would you not say? Saying that this sub is Christian or traditional is just not right, yeah some people are Christian and traditional, but overall, most women over here really only practice men-led relationships. Christian relationship is not only about submitting to your husband and it's deeper than just "uwu I am submissive in my …	/r/RedPillWives	20/07/21 09:09 AM
2	Banned from the Christian marriage sub because I suggested someone come here. It seems like their reasoning is that this sub don't promote Christian relationship, which I will somewhat agree in. But it sucks that they needed to go so far as ban you. Reddits are too quick to ban people and not just delete a comment they don't think fits.	/r/RedPillWives	20/07/21 08:10 AM
14	A simple PSA for all the new guys around here: finding and implementing TRP has made you above average, but you still don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. (Yes, Michael from Toronto, that includes you.) I did critise it, you are painfully aware that your wife is scared of you leaving. That you bring her discomfort for sex. They exactly what you said in your post. I said that it sound like something a low value man would do. Most men don't need to scare their partners in to sex. Not to mention how it's going to mess up your children view on relationships. If you want to fuck around, more power to you. But nothing scream bottom of the barrel trash like a person there bring their family down with …	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/21 05:55 PM
22	A simple PSA for all the new guys around here: finding and implementing TRP has made you above average, but you still don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. (Yes, Michael from Toronto, that includes you.) You are crying for a mod because I critised your post? Dang really getting those high value vibes.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/21 05:41 PM
19	A simple PSA for all the new guys around here: finding and implementing TRP has made you above average, but you still don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. (Yes, Michael from Toronto, that includes you.) "I need to put my wife through severe stress and anxiety about me leaving before she wants to have sex with me" Don't sound very high value to me.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/21 05:32 PM
1	What are your thoughts on how one should dress to attract relationship-minded men? It's funny, when it comes to showing skin my mom had some funny rules too. But it was more like, you can show breast and shoulder because it's beautiful but showing butt is bad.	/r/RedPillWives	19/05/21 05:37 PM
6	Not wanting marriage due to government I understand the concerns a lot of men have when it comes to family court, which I honestly think is his problem. A lot of conservative men feel that way. But the problem is, if anything happens, you are not protected and the same with your kids. He could be a saint and still do the right thing if anything ends, but most likely, if think gets sour, he is not. Marriage is getting less and less permanent in days age, which kind of ruin the idea of marriage. I don't put a lot of requirements on my …	/r/RedPillWives	09/05/21 08:13 AM
8	How to be more feminine No problem! Those women gives me so much inspiration, I wish I had the guts to make videos like that, so I am happy some women feel comfortable with it.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/21 11:52 AM
12	How to be more feminine Mrs Midwest: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOYm0tm472SIMVan6KSOuKg Classical Abby: (warning I guess: she is quit political too, and for some that is a turn off) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIojBPZBfU7AWx-HoVG-N3g Ebony Nikita Okeke: https://www.youtube.com/user/Ebdancelovr	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/21 11:42 AM
6	TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradCon I have to somewhat disagree here. I fully agree that just because a person doesn't follow a typical relationship, does not mean we get to kick them out or refuse them help. If they find use in some of even just 10% of the strategies here, I think it's great. "There are a few topics that are guaranteed to rile up the base. Among these (non-exhaustive): monogamy or polyamory/open relationships, married v lifetime relationship, virginity and partner count. " There is absolutely no reason to shame o…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/21 10:52 AM
6	Why do a lot of people only associate femininity with outward appearance? Jealous? Competitive behaviour? General disagreement? There are a lot of theories on why people and especially women put down feminine attributes. Some women use it to lower your value so their value compared are higher, some women have bad experiences with femininity and associate it with oppression.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 11:12 PM
5	if you had to sum up being a RPW, what would that be for you? Oooh boy, It looks like we have had some heated discussions around that subject and it seems like not everyone agrees. In my opinion, RPW is focused around creating stable relationships between the men in your life, if that is your dad, husband, son, grandpa and whatever, for me that involves creating traditional family-focused structure and living by values there support that the best way, such as self-sacrificing, motherhood, femininity, faith, and country love. But the subreddit has pinned in…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 07:45 PM
2	Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man. Well your decision is final, so there is not much I can say other than I disagree, I will take in to consideration an alternative to this kind of post, as you mention. But it seems kind of hard to put down a concrete list, because a lot of us don't even agree on what RP even is.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 04:17 PM
5	Ladies is it redpoll behaviour to threaten to destroy your mans shoes and clothes? Is redpoll like a redflag? Destroying anybody's property is a red flag, it's childish, immature, and toxic. If my man ever destroyed any of my things on purpose, he would be told to cut that shit out or leave, I do not deal with aggressive or destructive behavior like that, it's a bad base to start a family on. (I am a fairly agreeable person, so I rarely give ultimatums, but these kind of things are my few expectations personally)	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 04:08 PM
2	Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man. With all respect, ignoring negatives is destructive and unproductive. Many women in here have a kind of man they like, and they will assume that all men there follow TRP are good men. That's a problem because plenty of men in TRP practice "manipulating" women before they "manipulate you". IDK about you, but pointing out that all RP men are not good partners is important. It maybe not be supporting the men that we are pointing out but it is going to support and help our future husbands, sons, gra…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 03:55 PM
2	What mbti types attract you most? Yeah you could be a ambivert, Carl Jung coined the term introvert and extrovert, and it works like a spectrum where most people either fall more to one side, but there are people who is in the middle which is called ambivert. Maybe people who fall between 99% introvert and ambivert have a easier time finding compatibility with extroverts. It’s a very interesting subject.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 02:46 PM
1	Not all men want overly feminine women Yes I do, the reason I ask is because the user you responded too used describes as "subservient, house wife, overly preoccupied by appearance, wears heels, emotional, loves cooking and cleaning, motherly". Maybe one of those traits are a negative (overly preoccupied by appearance).The rest are traits there are super mature. Subservient is a form of self sacrifice for your family, which is a great trait for somebody whom wishes to have children.Staying at home is a good decision if you wish to ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 01:44 PM
8	What mbti types attract you most? MBTI is interesting yet a bit silly, but I think it's a fun way to maybe recognize one's flaws and strengths. My partner is a ISFJ and I am a ISTJ (I do get INTJ at times in test, but I personally don't find that to match me), we share a lot of our values and morals and are generally super compatible, I think maybe the only flaw that could be is that we both are uncomfortable with change and generally are not ones to change up patterns, so we need to be careful not hold on to bad habits and push…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 11:27 AM
1	Not all men want overly feminine women Yeah, see I don't really get that, maybe it's because where I am from only a few goes to university because we have a alternative to it there pays better and is less time consuming. The value of a degree is not as big here. But maybe if you live somewhere, where degrees is valued diffrently it's more valued when considering a partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 10:04 AM
-1	Not all men want overly feminine women What do you mean by a immature no brainers?	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 07:32 AM
4	Not all men want overly feminine women Well it really depends on who you are I guess? It’s values you know. Men with surden values choose women there match that. But education don’t make high value, it’s like a nice touch for both men and women. Education is not anti feminine tho, you can be very feminine and focus on your work. I think what a lot of people in here thinks is that the world expects everyone to focus on education now and that don’t bring happiness to all, honestly I seem tradeschool people with more between their ears …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 07:24 AM
3	Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man. If I am not wrong, there are some mods there are mods in TRP too, maybe they are a bit sensetive around critisme like the "alphas" they are. Even tho your post told it exactly how it was, most women from this server, if they saw TRP, would not be interested in any of them, because we value diffrent things 90% of the times.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 08:34 PM
3	Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man. I don't understand why this post was the deleted? You can not disagree with low value men there hold on to the redpill ideas yet are one of the reasons why relationships between men and women are so messed up? Hypocritical.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 08:15 PM
32	Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man. Man I was thinking about this a lot, I nearly just joined TRP and I thought it would be a place I could agree with but I don't agree with most of what they say. My problem is most in there only care about having sex with women, but what I care about and what I think a lot of red pilled women care about is creating stabil relationships with high value men, meaning men with good morals and values that we share. I am sorry, I know this maybe not be the traditional redpill value and philosophy, but …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 05:44 PM
17	If the redpill is so wrong, why do all the women here seem so much happier? Take a look at any relationship sub. It is disastrous. This is the only sub I see with at least decently happy women. I agree, but I can't help but notice that rp women are kind of different from at least a group of rp men. Some rp men only focus on having sex with as many women as they can, which I think is wrong for both men and women. One of the reasons people are so unhappy is that they are damaging their ideas and feelings towards their body and intimacy, which is important for making stable and happy relationships.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 05:04 PM
7	My husband has double standards for us. Agree with this. Also, using gaming as an excuse for talking to them ain't really going to add up, it's absolutely possible for him to find males to play with.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/21 11:03 AM
0	I hate myself and dont think im worthy of any man (long post) Isn't that mgtow? I though redpill and mgtow were different? After all isn't this redpillwomen?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/21 11:37 AM
1	I hate myself and dont think im worthy of any man (long post) We are sadly only people on the internet and your problem seems to be coming from something only professionals can help you with, that would be my recommendation, I assume if you are diagnosed you have had or have a connection to professionals? As a lot of other people are saying, it seems to be the best thing to do. I am coming with a little other advice, as a person who also has mental disorders I guess you could call it, It's super easy to fall in a hole there is "Nothing is wrong with me and…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/21 11:34 AM
5	What does the RPW community think about enneagram? I personally find personality test to be interesting but generally very inaccurate. It's hard to put down people's personalities in categories, especially considering that we learn and change a lot. I personally don't need a test to evaluate myself and understanding areas I can get better in, but honestly, if that's how it works for you go for it, it's great to do that. I wanted to try out Jordan Peterson's personality test but it cost money I am pretty sure and I am cheap so. The 16 personality…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/21 10:15 PM
23	Boyfriend telling about any attention he gets from women - how do I respond? You sound fairly mature about it in this post, would you think he get's upset or awkward about the way you describe it just like this? Because I think the way you come off in this post sounds very nice and I would only just say it like that. Best of luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/21 11:52 AM
2	He's hiding a child and im not prepared to leave him, just yet. Yeah having a control your income and emotions are great, but it’s bad when you use another person to gain that.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/21 08:48 PM
8	He's hiding a child and im not prepared to leave him, just yet. "My goal from the beginning was never to be his wife, it was and still is, to improve my finances through using femininity and controlling my emotions."	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/21 06:15 PM
14	He's hiding a child and im not prepared to leave him, just yet. That's one filthy way to treat another person, like lying about a child is bad. Using somebody for your personal gain like that is waaay worse.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/21 05:08 PM
2	Jealousy about female "friend" - HELP You need to ask yourself, what is YOUR boundaries. It's okay to not want your partner to have friends from the other gender, you need to be able to uphold that standard too tho, and if you are okay with female friends, find your boundaries there. You should explain to him your boundaries, and ask what his are. Because he is not your bf yet, it's the perfect time to determine if he is the right one. It's not fair to remove a person from friends he doesn't want to be removed from, but it's also fa…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/21 09:21 AM
2	I'm finally going to do a YouTube Channel on Femininity!!! #thefemininegraduate That sounds awesome, be sure to post a link when it starts, I have been considering that too. The femininty community seems to have a strong connection. I am sure it's going to be a good experience.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 09:04 AM
12	What do you do when somebody desperately copies you? Trust me when I say this, anything you do, has been done before 99% of the time. If it's copying like mocking you, that's another thing, but simply doing something or purchasing something and then having a friend to the same, they can do that, and you should be able to handle that. Have you considered it could have something to do with your own self image? Sometimes if people don't feel good enough, copying can be taken as a great insult, because you can put to much value in it.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/21 04:38 PM
5	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? There are other people than religious there doesn't support abortion. I am not a teenager either. You dismissing me because of my an age that you assumed and my religion, which, I was against abortion when I was an atheist so. It tells a lot about how you conduct conversation when people don't agree with you. Which is super immature.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 05:05 PM
6	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? I don’t consider killing a child an option. Consider just being an mature adult?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 04:09 PM
3	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? It’s not wierd, it’s the most mature thing to do.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 04:09 PM
2	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? All sex can cause you to procreate also protected sex. So when you have sex you accept the change of pregnancy. I know that I am not in a financial or emotional state yet to have kids, so I do the responsible thing and try to wait. Waiting can be hard when you have a partner but I think it’s the most healthy thing to do to avoid the pressure of a child.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 04:07 PM
12	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? Or you have a good understanding of intimacy and responsibility and choose not to have sex, because 1. It has higher risk of divorce in your future relationships and 2. It puts you in risk of pregnancy. Calling people wierd for having not having dex before marriage is kind of toxic	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 04:05 PM
8	My mom says it’s good to have sex before marriage and get tons of experience I don’t think so. I always think the man wins if you give him sex so easily. Sex is way better for a man than a woman imo. What do you think? My mom said the same and it made me so annoyed. My mom was very “free” in her sex life as a teen and she have called me wierd for not doing the same. I have had sex before marriage but I don’t plan to do it again right now atleast. But mainly because I think people should only have sex when they are ready for kids, that’s the most responsible. Sex should be great for both part but men do value it more in general. I personally think people there “need to know” before is kind of prioriting wrong. …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/21 01:55 PM
2	He says he wants a controlling girlfriend It's hard to tell when he didn't explain in more in detail. I kind of have the same wish as he has when it comes to relationship. But I think people mistake controlling from giving boundaries and values in a relationship. I would want to share boundaries and morals with my partner. So let's say, I don't agree with friends of the opposite sex. Not everyone minds it, and that is fair. But I would want my partner to put the same standard on me as I put on him, and I would want him to agree with tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/21 08:41 AM
30	Is it a warning sign for a man to be into anime? Yes lol. No but seriously, it really depends on what he is watching. I watch a lot of anime myself when I was younger, and a lot of it is suuuper degenerate. Even anime there is supposed to be sfw always have some weird sexual stuff in it. It also depends on what degree they are in to it. Do they watch it here and there? Do they have posters and figures? Do they have bodypillows and dress up like them?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/21 07:49 PM
0	Ignore the hate from other women Sorry lmao, I just seen women in here getting very puffy when I talk about the need for a degree for some reason. So I guess I was expecting a shitstorm.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 04:22 PM
0	Ignore the hate from other women You have something to say? University is not as common in Denmark. Imagine going thousands in debt for a degree you statisticly have very little chance to even using.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 04:04 PM
23	Ignore the hate from other women I fully agree, we need to expect eachother to be higher standard, and respecting the males in our lives. I just think it's ironic how she said "Woman who is not happy with themselves feel the need to put others down" Yet felt the need to call another person overweight and unattractive. Even if that's the case, that's not a very feminine way of expressing an opinion. But I assume that maybe it has been a heated moment, now when the person was cruel to OP. I realise we can all get heated and mean.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 10:13 AM
2	Ignore the hate from other women Don’t care much for university, but again you are right I really have never been in that environment. But I do live in Denmark so it’s like a university everywhere mentality wise.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 08:45 AM
11	Ignore the hate from other women wow you sound like a peach/s	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 08:40 AM
7	How do I show him I’m not a pick me type of woman? If you don’t want to come off as bending over backwards on third date why did you have sex with him on the second? Seems a bit backwards.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/21 12:27 AM
4	why are white men not dating white women anymore? (opinions wanted) Atleast somebody said it lmao.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/21 05:48 PM
3	why are white men not dating white women anymore? (opinions wanted) statistically this is just not the case, races generally date in their own race most of the time, I think it's like a 70% around that. But when it comes to interacial couples, white men more often dates asians. But more often than not, white men date white woman. It's more likely that the men you have been talking to, have tried to win points with you. I think what is getting more common for men in the west there generally have more traditionel values is dating woman from traditionel countries, …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/21 05:44 PM
1	I need help choosing between two HVM No, I am not immature. Sleeping around, lying to men, and acting like you are the price is immature. There is nothing wrong in having a degree, there is nothing wrong in taking breaks and there is nothing in being a housewife, all of those things are absolutely fine. But it is quite immature and quite illogical to take two degrees in something you don't want to use. I doubt you got those degrees for free, I happen to live in Europe, in a country in the EU. Generally, we don't give away degrees l…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/21 01:55 PM
6	I don’t know what to do anymore. I need help. Okay, it's very clear that you are in a relationship that is not working. It's clear you don't want to be in it. It's not fair for you or him that you don't stop it, he is clearly not in the mental state to see that it's going very bad. I don't think it's fair to talk like that about your partner, especially when you even mention you think he has some mental struggle. It's fair that you are hurt, but try to keep your cool, it will make it easier for you and him when you end it. It's also much sa…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/21 11:41 AM
1	Increasing RMW from natural RPW What? You called me dumb and and close minded but I’m the one putting you down? Just because you say something in a “nice” way, dosent mean that I can’t understand the context of what you are saying.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/21 11:49 AM
1	I need help choosing between two HVM When did I ever say virgin? I said sleeping around, with your mentality on it all it’s clear. A lot of RP people would say that yes the more different men you have had sex with, it lowers your value. I think it’s more so clear the way you treat it there lowers it. 1) you are having sex with two men that you have talked about marriage with, while they don’t know about each other, I’m sorry that’s disgusting behaviour. 2) everytime you have sex, protected or not protected, you have a risk on becom…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/21 11:37 AM
5	I need help choosing between two HVM If that's your opinion, why are you in rpw? Isn't that a bit of the opposite of what it's about. You riding the c carusel don't offend me, it's just a bad idea and lowers value.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/21 10:39 PM
3	I need help choosing between two HVM Well calling a spade a spade.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/21 09:58 PM
15	I need help choosing between two HVM yikes	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/21 08:49 PM
2	Increasing RMW from natural RPW Just because I don't agree with your extreme opinion, doesn't make me close-minded, I am not a slow learner either. It's easy not to back up your own argument by calling people close-minded and stupid, is it not? It's super typical for people with this kind of opinion, to think I just, forced my partner into a relationship and keep them from their friends. You are aware, if you want a successful relationship, you need to make your boundaries clear from the start right? My boyfriend, not only agr…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/21 11:12 AM
4	Increasing RMW from natural RPW No, I understand that it depends of the man and woman, what degree, where you live and so on. But putting a market value on a thing like being dateable isn't hard science. It's very circumstantial. I think a lot of your points sadly missed the mark. But again, it's your opinion. I am not going to sugar coat my opinion on your remark. It's not abusive. I am sorry, it's not. Is it wrong to not wanting your partner to hang around drug users? You can, and should be aware on who your partner hangs ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 10:23 PM
5	Increasing RMW from natural RPW See you used the phrase "enjoys", who says that a woman that has a minimum wage job don't enjoy their job? Let's say there is two identical girls at 27 there both enjoy their jobs, but one has a profession (when I say profession or career I am meaning has a degree in a competitive job area) and one has a minimum wage one. It depends on the man, but here is the reasons why I think the minimum wage one would have the same value. Depending on where you live, you have most likely paid a fair amount …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 08:35 PM
0	Increasing RMW from natural RPW You honestly, it's cool that you feel comfortable in your job. But a factory job or cleaning job can be just as meaningful and stable as an engineer. Not to mention, depending on where you live. You don't need to pay a ton of money and go in debt to work a cleaning job and supplement your partners income.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 07:28 PM
1	Hobbies & Interests? I have 3 cockatiels, I enjoy playing games with myself and my bf, cooking and I want to start a little balcony garden.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 04:02 PM
10	Wondering about what skills/abilities a woman should have. gardening, it's also frugal, sewing is a great hobby too, again, because it's frugal, to fix clothing, generally learning how to take care of clothing can save you a ton of money. Big stresses in relationships are generally finances, so budgeting is a great skill to have. A lot of people hate the "trad-wife" stereotype, even people in RPW. But I don't think there is anything wrong with liking and enjoying hobbies there falls in the category. Nesting and creative hobbies are super fun and it make…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 03:45 PM
8	Increasing RMW from natural RPW I don't know if this is a hot take or not. 90% of men don't give a rats butt about your career, it doesn't increase your market value, if anything, depending on what you studied, it lowers it. what men do care about is if you are able to sustain yourself, so not so much career more so do you have a job and are you good with your money. Depending on what kind of man you are looking for, you being willing to be a housewife is an increase. Just to make sure I make myself clear, if you have a career…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/21 02:44 PM
5	New year dinner, family conflict First of all, it's very nice to see another woman from Denmark in RPW. I thought I was a bit alone in my views. Living there myself, I can fully understand, that this sounds so expensive, I am surprised that you are expected to pay that much for a dinner that you are invited to? Have you considered saying, that if you bring something, that you want to plan and make it yourself? Then you can have a bit of control over the cost. I don't know if your brother and you have a good relationship with ea…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/20 01:17 PM
1	My family and morals. Thank you, everyone, for your answers, I got a ton of advice, and hearing all of your experience made me feel less alone in the feeling. Thank you very much, and happy new years to you all. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/20 01:02 PM
3	My family and morals. I wish I could be that firm, I really give you that. Much respect. Thank you for sharing your experience, it's nice to know I am not alone. Sometimes I wish I could just leave, just put my foot down. But despite the fights right now. My parents, toxic as they at times can be. Still raised me, and put a lot of love and care in giving me a good upbringing, even if I am different than them. I also want to be there for my sister if and when she comes out of this phase in life.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/20 12:58 PM
3	My family and morals. The thing with beliefs and morals, I don't mind them not agreeing or having different believes, I generally also not choose to discuss things like politics, childcare and religion to avoid fights, I max ask them if they want to go to church if I am home on a Sunday. My mom is nice to go with me too. Its mainly the swearing and the feeling of getting put down because of my difference. But I agree with trying to avoid the subjects. The sexual talk also makes me just feel uncomfortable you know, I …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/20 04:04 PM
1	My family and morals. Thank you so much for your reply, and thank you a lot for your honsty. It can be hard to tell if I am sensetive and not, so I am thankful you share that. I try to understand where they are coming from, I was one way, and it can be hard to see that change when they don't see me so often, so that change maybe seem "fast" even tho there has been 3 months between my last visit. I have tried to talk nicely to my sister, being kind, trying not to blame. But it seems like it fuels her actions, It feels…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/20 03:49 PM
5	Married Male Friend (early 30s M) is Not Allowed to be in Contact with Me (late 20s F) See, that stuff had not happend in my relationship. It has nothing to do with insecurity but everything to do with priority and and respect. Especially if it's an ex. But again, if your future partner is okay with that, hey what can you say, but I think it's wrong too expect your partner to be okay with that.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/20 05:49 PM
15	Married Male Friend (early 30s M) is Not Allowed to be in Contact with Me (late 20s F) That's so well put, if you have friends of the opposite sex like that, it can quickly become a "third" wheel problem. What you often hear with men there leave or cheat with their wife is things like "she has gotten so mean", obv you need to be nice to your partner, but fights are going to happen, and if you every time run over to that "other woman" even if it's only a friendship, you don't figure stuff out. Because your "female friend" is not living with you, she often becomes that "kind and sup…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/20 03:52 PM
3	Married Male Friend (early 30s M) is Not Allowed to be in Contact with Me (late 20s F) As much as I know men can be good friends, personally, it's to messy. Not to mention, in my personal relationship, if my bf has a female friend, it better be a friend of mine, and vice versa. Sadly, that's just the nature of having relationships with men while being a single woman. They are at some point get with somebody, and they should respect their wives/gfs boundaries when it comes to other women, even when those women are long time friends. See if you had a partner yourself, that would be …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/20 02:30 PM
8	My Problem With Makeup. I think a lot about the effects of beauty media on women and men. I honestly don't think it's make up that is the problem, most of us can tell if a woman has makeup on and if she has edited her picture, it can be hard to hide especially if that person has videos of themselves where editing gets harder. I think the problem for the younger generation is the value they put on looks. Of course, taking care of yourself is important, and I think makeup is appropriate to an extend. But a lot of women h…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/20 12:23 PM
80	Setting boundaries I hate and love this sentence. It's wise but gets misused too often. Don't do wife duties for girlfriend prices. There is a vast difference between doing something out of kindness and love for your partner, and your partner expecting your kind "duties". It can be hard, especially if you have traditional values because you don't want it to reflect your engagement in your future relationship. If I was you, I would clean the clothing, wait till you are feeling not as hurt. When delivering it, you t…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/20 05:25 PM
2	28F, never had a bf and am feeling defeated You are welcome, I know it can be different for everyone. But I hope you find the right one, don't give up. And thank you, I am very thankful too.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/20 04:49 PM
1	28F, never had a bf and am feeling defeated I understand that struggle so well, I am in my longest relationship right now, but my few relationships before that seems to always end with them straight up ghosting me after a few months, one of my biggest mistakes was thinking not longterm, and I began considering morals, politics, religion and I happen to have a condition you can't see but can make it hard to be around me at times, so I needed somebody there had the room for that. the best advice I can give is. Stay away from the temptation …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/20 01:52 PM
–	What's for dinner? I am staying home for new years by myself, normally I get Norway lobster tails at my parents. But I am a student, so don't have the biggest income. Any ideas for new years dinner?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/20 01:31 PM