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I grew up playing very little sports. I despised organized sports because I wasn't much of a team player (too introverted) and didn't enjoy competition much. My family only ever exposed me to team sports which sorta tarnished my view of athleticism for a long time. I always focused on my intellectual development by reading and exploring the environment. In my adulthood my exploratory tendencies drove me towards more advanced hiking trips -> scrambling -> rock climbing and finally alpinism/mounta…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:03 PM
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I strive to be a boring mf on text and a guy who they love to hangout with in person. Why tf would I want to have a wet text convo when I can have her wet in person.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:47 AM
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Yeah I haven't really engaged with any anti-natalist materials (formal or informal) since reading Benatar's book for a philosophy class during university. He made a very compelling argument. Thanks for the protip, I definitely don't give much weight to the opinions or arguments of anonymous strangers on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 07:06 PM
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Found David Benatar. You're definitely right. I mean I'm also okay with not having kids. It's a 'want' not a 'need'. I've got lots of other shit to live for.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 03:23 PM
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I've been in two 2-year realtionships in my life. These women became so insufferable by the end, for all the reasons you stated, that I dumped them when I hit the absolute end of my rope after trying everything. I really never understood why that happened until I came here. There's part of me that always wanted to have a family, but I just don't see that happening anymore. Now I just have meaningless sex with women I don't really care about because I know they'll turn into man eaters given enoug…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 03:51 AM
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So how much longer till you get past the rage phase? Only simps face the reality of feminism and get mad because of their pathetic entitlement and obsession with pussy (that they can't get). There's no better life than the life of a man. Seriously. The world literally belongs to you if you accept your gifts from god and take ultimate responsibility for your actions and your life. Everything you get in life you will a have built or achieved. Many women can't say the same because a lot of shit is …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:47 PM
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I mean some girls are into texting because they're really into you. They reply fast and with decently engaged responses. I play along when this happens because I can be funny and sexualize in text before even meeting. Other girls I go into texting for logistics mode if they take long to answer and aren't as engaged. You should be able to adjust your strategies on an ongoing basic according to the situation. This is usually understated in TRP and you shouldn't see things so black and white.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:06 PM
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Here's how I beat my instagram addiction. I deleted any non-friend accounts I was following (drop from following 900 pages to 300). I changed my phone screen to black and white. Boom now instagram is boring as shit to browse and only really good for messaging.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:21 PM
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Fair enough man, good luck
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:07 PM
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If you have a good job keep grinding and making good financial choices but take all your vacation time and enjoy your weekends. The two aren't mutually exclusive. "Live in the moment and let loose" these are brainwashing buzzwords to make you a consumerist cuck who desiccates his wallet and sacrifices his physical health to make economic gains for the wealthy. Your friend is trying to drag you down onto his self-gratifying hedonistic level because he sees you moving ahead and has a crab bucket m…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:11 PM
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Man the fact that you wrote a treatise about one girl here to consult askTRP as well as your personal group of 14 mates. How many fucking opinions do you need? You need to get control of yourself and have some outcome independence. I didn't even read your whole thing but you penpal-ed any chance of you fucking that girl into oblivion. Sorry to be harsh but it's almost certainly over dawg. See if those plans pan out, but they probably won't. be ready to move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:01 PM
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I agree with this guy. Through your actions you basically said to her "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" and most women are looking for something and hate being treated as disposable, especially near the start. In my experience, making it explicit that you only want to fuck her with no strings attached rarely works.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:45 PM
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I think the biggest problem is that people take the material as scripture and go into information overload. You need to be socially calibrated enough to deploy mixed alpha and Niceguy sexual strategies. Deploying a 100% TRP recommended strategy will only work if you are very alpha to begin with, and if you're here on reddit looking for advice I guarantee you aren't. pure RP dating advice isn't going to work that well for you if you're an averageish guy just starting out who hasn't changed your p…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:09 PM
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I think one of the most underrated virtues in life is being able to let things go.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:42 AM
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Personally I live with 3 roommates and bring girls home once in a while. I just own it and I always get props the next day lol
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:12 AM
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I mean she lives with her parents, she won't think it's weird that you have roommates since it's one step up from her situation. And you can definitely keep it at a regular volume for the roommates, no need to be obnoxiously loud if you invite her to watch a movie or something.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:11 AM
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I agree with most of this post. I consider myself pretty well socially calibrated and the IRL conversation skills of the average person (let's include many guys too) are appallingly low. People aren't just bored, they are boring (as fuck). If your life was worth anything you wouldn't need to constantly be distracted my social media, fact. The average person is completely hollowed out. I consider it a crisis. There's no way in hell I'm going to increase my social media presence or join tiktok jus…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 05:41 PM
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I don't closely track my macros, but I often drink a butter coffee in the morning (aka "bulletproof coffee") and that's quite a bit of fat. It's generally a 2:1 unsalted organic butter to coconut oil ratio blended and it reportedly gives a no-crash caffeine buzz. Anecdotally, I feel a lot more awake the days I have this instead of a black coffee. Also I eat a sliced ambrosia apple with natural peanut butter drizzled on it usually twice a day.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:44 PM
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The cure to baldness is to become a fucking legend.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:36 AM
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Also white knight beta losers are usually the first ones to rip on big truck guys. What does that tell you?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:38 PM
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It's part of the grand narrative that masculinity is bad. I wouldn't sweat it, it's called a narrative for a reason. Watch what women do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:37 PM
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(M25) In my one experience with a cougar (38) the sex was really good. Also she was very easy going (+ virtually no shit testing) and I really enjoyed her company because of it. We saw each other for about 3 months at which point I moved away. In all honesty it was some of the best sex I ever had, she really knew what she was doing and had the craziest libido of anyone I've ever been with.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:36 PM
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I would have told her it was some bomb ass head and if she wanted to fuck she should have skipped the premium blowjob. Her loss. I bet if you said something like that she'd wanna come back for the rest.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:59 PM
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Exactly why using short-medium term success is the best way to guide your life forward in such an uncertain world. It's also more sustainable in terms of morale and life-satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 11:22 PM
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As I understand it you're trying to say this hypothetical person has a detailed plan to achieve a long-term end goals (top down approach) but what you've just described is a decision-path based on short and medium term personal successes that redirect the person towards long-term success. Example: this person works harder and gets paid more money (medium-term success). This hypothetical person has no plan at all. You may have missed the point.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 11:17 PM
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It's okay man college relationships generally don't last. Your life is an upwards trajectory since you're still super young. Don't look back!
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:33 PM
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I have a male-only chat group with some buddies where we compare game and field notes. One of the resounding philosophies is to have a natural conversation piece for when you bring women over. Two examples: one guys has a houseplant setup and another has a synthesizer setup in his living room/entranceway. Every time either has a woman over it's a natural 1st conversation and shows they have cool hobbies and interests (mission).
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:05 PM
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It's the reason for the season. Summer is the anti-SAD
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:51 PM
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Can confirm. Especially, if you were quickly increasing your weight before lockdown (I was +10 lbs in two months) tendons haven't strengthened to compensate. I absolutely fucked my tendons in my feet by increasing running too fast initially. I had a few 1 week breaks to try to resolve it and eventually I bought a road bike because I was loosing my mind. I also got a jumprope and will try to focus more on warmup and dynamic stretching before conditioning activities.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 03:43 PM
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Just focus on having at least 1 lb of protein for every pound you weigh Shit bruh! Good thing I got a Costco card!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 03:18 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. My older brother and I did so much fun shit together away from my parents through adolescence and early adulthood. It's hard to articulate just how life changing it was but man I can honestly say looking back all that camping and hiking together really was more formative than anything else that happened during that time in my life. It's all you can do really, is just connect with him, you won't be able to "help" him
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:30 PM
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Boomer men truly are the lost generation
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:48 PM
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I guarantee you she gets diarrhea sometimes, just like the rest of us
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:51 AM
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First you want it, then you don't want it! Make up your mind ladies! lol
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:21 PM
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I'd really like to know who the guest was on that episode. Anyone know?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:16 PM
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If that's the case you might be in the clinically depressed group, not the normal-life-isn't-constant-euphoria depressed group. But I'm tempted to say you're falling for the koolaid about what society tells you should make you happy. Getting straight As was supposed to make you happy, society told you that. But then you got the A's and you realized they are literally just letters and nothing changed in that moment. Post-secondary education is mostly a racket where unaccountable hyper-specialized…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:09 AM
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Dude your theory is spot on. Also: There are no shortage of men that have swallowed the current narrative that it's wrong to be a dominant man. These men turn into cucks that enable the cycle. We've also got Alphas that are just pumping and dumping women and creating a surge of damaged goods. 95% of women are in an impossible position now because of feminism stratifying males and fucking up incentives so badly. Alphas get so much pussy and ruin women by pump-n-dumping and they have no reason to …
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:35 PM
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That's a good starting point in terms of weight and height. You shouldn't have too much trouble. Make sure to mix in some cardio too since the zombie apocalypse is coming. Personally I was doing the "Bulldozer 3 day split" before lockdown and that gave me plenty of extra time to rock climb, run and road bike to cross train as well. Good luck dude!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:09 PM
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I'm definitely not the guy to define the difference. That's a question for psychology, psychiatry and philosophy. Just to be extra clear: I still think a lot of people have mental illnesses that warrant treatment, whether by counselling or pharmaceuticals. But you can be sure a lot of people are getting happy pills for relatively minor bouts of depression that are caused by the normal trials and tribulations of life.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:01 PM
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Some people actually have true mental health issues. But 90% of women are ruining their lives/mental health by financially overextending themselves with student debt for fake degrees and vanity trips for instagram content. They spend too much time obsessing over social media, self image and take pills for everything. Unpopular opinion: most people have episodes of "depression" because life is hard. That's just a universal fact. This doesn't require medication. I requires you to make better choic…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:22 PM
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I knew a guy in high school who was fat as fuck. Like 6'4ish well over 300lbs at 18, a total whale. This guy was super nice with a great sense of humour but obviously wasn't getting any pussy. Now at 24 I watched his transformation on facebook over the course of about a 1.5 years to around 200lbs. Amazingly, he said the first 6 months he didn't even hit the gym, he just stopped drinking liquid calories and whenever he was craving junk food he'd go for a walk. That alone got him down too about 25…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:08 PM
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Username checks out
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:32 AM
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also good luck man. You have some good awareness of what you need to work on and congrats on loosing so much weight!
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:05 PM
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You sound a little high strung. You'll come into being an interesting person as you get a little older. Keep busy and develop some hobbies/interests. I personally had a lot of the same issues as you and one thing that helped me a lot was cutting down majorly on porn/masturbation. I just feel a lot more clear in my thoughts and socialization becomes a lot easier. You have a little more fire under your ass if you aren't sexually satiated artificially. Also damn at 6'4" you could slay. Keep working…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:03 PM
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Glad to know she's a conservative christian
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:25 PM
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Though there's all these behaviours that TRP posits are required to get girls, you need to have a mixed approach that works for you naturally. Emphasis on naturally because women can smell fake persona a mile away. Unless you're an abject loser, being natural can actually go much further than that TRP alpha behaviours with *some* women. As much as everyone wants to be a super alpha, that won't make you score 100% of the time. A lot of women have either been burned repeatedly by Chads or have act…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:03 PM
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I was thinking this exactly
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:25 PM
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This is the way
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:24 PM
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As they say: "The squeaky wheel gets fucked without a dome, has a kid and gets child support"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:23 PM
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Your relationship with your brother shouldn't matter since you're going to honour his wishes to split the money. Clarify this with your brother if it becomes a sticking point. My parents recently put me down as the controlling party for their do-not-resuscitate order. I'm the middle child. They flat out said us kids that my older brother would pull the pin too easily and my sister couldn't do it and they'd suffer lol
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:53 PM
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Jesus women really have nothing better to do. Women gossip so much and nobody takes what they say seriously. I'd just ignore and let it blow over. Continue not talking to this bitch, you're doing good.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:44 PM
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You're not going to change his mind, so why bother. You'll just make yourself look bad. Enjoy the wedding, meet some women there.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:16 PM
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I've tried to broach the subject without specifically mentioning TRP because of the automatic negative perception it generates. Usually I get back some virtue singling white knight bullshit even if we're just talking between men. That's an ideologically-socialized automatic response. I get that you want your friends to succeed but it's a huge waste of time. Just worry about you and lead by example, if they wanna learn they'll approach you.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:56 PM
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It reminds her of her daddy
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:16 PM
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This guy is absolutely correct. I've observed this behaviour many times and it happened to me once. It's quite a baffling waste of time just to build a psychological loophole so the woman feels like she came out on top.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:00 PM
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Logically it makes no sense that this is bothering you under current circumstances. You claim to be on a "spiritual path" and not an "attracting women path" but under lockdown this is the default mode.. yet you're bothered by this. See what I mean? You need to realize that being spiritual outwardly is mental masturbation. Your spiritual beliefs are personal, and unless you're part of an ACTUAL institutional religion, you don't need to share those with other people. Most women are postmodernist-a…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:36 PM
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It's hard the see the world in disarray and stand by your principles but we can and we must. It's how we become the best version of ourselves.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:21 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being a good person and acknowledging peoples boundaries, but don't do it because your afraid of that shit test, do it because your a genuinely good and respectable dude. Bear in mind the "creep/predator" thing is a super shit test. It plays to one of the greatest fears of modern men: false rape accusations. You are rightfully afraid of that, but don't internalize the hamster logic of the shit test. You're not actually a creep/predator unless you are.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:16 PM
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95% of the time this is a bad idea. The one time I cohabitated with an LTR the relationship went to shit immediately. Completely different person, annoying/complainy af, infrequent starfish sex, starting petty fights and super messy. Within 7 months the relationship was done and I was bag holding the apartment and we lost the full deposit for a convoluted reason the essentially came down the my landlord hating us because of my ex. You live and you learn. On the plus side that absolute shitshow c…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:58 PM
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According to the instructions, my TP value is 420.69. How does that compare to you guys?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 09:59 PM
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You're living in a contradiction that dominates people who are new to redpill. 1) You still derive your self worth from female validation but 2) RP has shown you all the fucked up ways men are treated and viewed by women. You're living in the nihilism/rage phase. You need to properly internalize the pill and focus on self improvement in order to drop the external validation complex. Your self improvement starts with replacing alcohol with positive addictions (gym) and hobbies. All the self pity …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:36 PM
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I was never getting what I wanted, or even knowing what I wanted, because I was a passive NiceGuy who drank the koolaid and used covert contracts. It was getting kinda traumatic how much things were always going the wrong way and I was getting walked all over by women who I considered to be on my level or lower. What I didn't understand was that I was operating in a self-conflicting way by following what I was socialized (by women) to do. The "realization" that I think crystallizes all RP knowle…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:20 PM
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Yup that's the game plan. Just gotta not get fat in the next 2 months haha
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:41 PM
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I've asked a few of these girls to meet at a park where we can chill without being too close and they all say no or don't answer. I've been thinking a lot about that female disgust-reflex post from about a week ago on the main page. You should read that if you wanna know why women aren't meeting up. Honestly, I don't see any of these matches translating to much after covid. I figure women will be in a thoty mode but they'll probably have to jettison the 10 billion tinder matches they accumulated…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:10 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:28 PM
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Can't believe the increase in Tinder activity... normally I'm like 1 match per 10 right swipes. Now it's every second one. I've even had girls initiating asking me to video chat.... no fuck off. The thotery this summer is going to be all time, assuming covid thing is done by then. 2020 could be the biggest cleanup of our lives.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:20 PM
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Why would a NoFaper jerk off every 10 days? They advocate total long term abstinence. 3x per week seems reasonable, I'm pretty much the same.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:27 PM
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I did have sex a handful of times during that period, just no PMO dude
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:23 PM
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This wasn't a NoFap post. This study is interesting to me because of a possible implication for increased gains and higher T which would improve mood. Also I'm not addicted to porn or a NoFap guy either. What I'd be interested to know is where other guys find the balance between being super thirsty all the time and having no sexual energy for real women. Based on your comment I'm guessing you jerk off to porn everyday?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:20 PM
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I recently did the 100 days no PMO thing and it was good but not life changing. I definitely felt better with more energy but in the end I decided that the frustration wasn't worth it. Im trying to develop a more balanced approach. I posted here because NoFap is a cesspool. I thought TRP might have some insight about where to find the balance between being super thirsty all the time and having no sexual energy for real women. You make an interesting point, I hadn't really considered that the peo…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:14 PM
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Yeah man trying to pull 10 days is tough, I don't know if I could regulate like that even if I decide to try
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:01 PM
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Haha noted
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:00 PM
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Yeah I said neutral stance, not take his side. "He has treated me with the silent treatment, now it's my turn" probably not the best course of action, tit for tat doesn't work between men with egos. You're just perpetuating the infantile game your father is playing. I know it's hard to take an L tho, I'm sympathetic. That sucks that you're treated differently, you might be right about him not being your dad. You could be an affair or swinger baby.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:59 PM
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In the meantime you can keep busy to stay out of the house. More boxing, working out, study at libraries/cafes or hangout with buddies. If you're outdoorsy (I'm guessing you are if you're nordic) camping, nordic skiing or hiking trips can get you out of town for the weekend. I'll play the devils advocate here even tho your father is abusive. Don't make your father feel like you're taking moms side, even tho it's in the family you should consider their divorce none of your business now since you'…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:41 PM
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Jerk off once every 10 days, no porn
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:45 PM
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This is a fuckin whack ass story. I don't really know what to say. Sounds like you're holding out for a free house... he's never actually gonna do that btw. Hurry up and finish high school and apply to a college or university somewhere else so you can live in residence. Sounds like he might pay for residence/tuition to get rid of you. Also why tf you still in high school at 19, get your shit together. Become your own man like you were intended to. Become better than your father, most men of our …
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:11 PM
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I grew up in a household with a beta father who took so much shit and always deferred to my mom. Also my mom was the main breadwinner (by a lot) and they kept their money separate, because my dad is very financially irresponsible. Gives you an idea of the household I grew up in. Essentially my mom was the man of the house and my male role models were friends dads and my grandpa. I think when I was younger it predisposed me to be a woman pleaser/niceguy syndrome. I'm sort of beyond that now but i…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:37 AM
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If the girl isn't doing anything for that 30 seconds, honestly most girls aren't. I just grab their wrist and put their hand on my cawk signalling them to do something in the interim and also being assertive. That helps to reduce the lapse. For this to work your condom drawer has to be within reach
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:53 PM
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At 33 he could come back. This guy should divorce, lift, take the rp and start slaying. But we won't because he's a supersimp
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:41 AM
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lift, this guy was the anti-dread
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:39 AM
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If you're going to break up with her anyways you should emotionally detach and start getting a plate roster ready then maybe you'll get laid with them big kiddies a few times before she cucks you. Also could be a super-shit test with a last minute back-out. Also lol about having kids with her, do not fuck with financially or otherwise retarded women. It'll ruin your financial life when you're with her and ultimately you will be cleaned upon divorce.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:10 PM
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I tried the 90 day thing and by then end I was having a pretty hard time doing normal shit and finding purpose in my responsibilities. Before I was jerking off too much and I definitely think it was making me less socially motivated and adept with women. I do think it helped me stop using porn. Now I jerk off like once a week or whenever I feel like it but without porn. One side effect that probably relates to increased dopamine sensitivity is that I basically became addicted to working out like…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:35 AM
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Also saying she's special for you sounds kinda oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:28 AM
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Dated a girl like this before RP. The girl refused to make positive short term changes and exhibited long term self-destructive tendencies. I broke up with her and she started doing well for about 3 months, I was actually kind of proud of her. It was post-relationship momentum that didn't last. We still talk once in a while and she's literally gone nowhere, probably even backwards. Turning down good paying jobs, claiming she's planning to apply to med school (lol I think she watched greys anatom…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:26 AM
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If you don't know anything about personal finance or investing make your financial literacy a priority. Lots of good books and resources out there.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 08:20 PM
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Take the contract with more money but don't change your current lifestyle/expenses. Save and invest the difference. If you're 21 and start a solid investment portfolio at this age the compounding returns could make you very well off later in life. Couldn't do yourself a better favour.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 08:19 PM
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I never expect to be socially enriched when I go on dates with women. My standard format is to just ask questions that keep them talking about themselves and listen for 1) something that can be the next question if she finishes her story/topic and 2) an opportunity to interject and crack a joke/tease her. Second part is really important because it make you seem less autistic than a guy who just asks questions. On the question of discussion topics it's really specific to the girl. College girls c…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:58 PM
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Hot singles are literally DYING to meet you
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:36 PM
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You don't need a job. I make 2000$ a week using this one simple trick...
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:45 PM
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You got issues bro. I don't give flying fuck what you think and your comment added 0 value to this thread but I'll take a minute to answer it anyway I have no idea what alt right catch phrases you're talking about. I mean I call the guy a commie but he's like a thoroughbred hammer and sickle communist. His assigned readings are pure communist gibberish with nothing I would even closely describe as moderate. Based on your comment, it doesn't really seem like you're RP. Your assumptions about my i…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:29 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I'm familiar with Machiavelli but have never read it. Stroking this guys ego is definitely a public disservice but maybe I'll have to do it to get by.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:24 AM
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Good to know people do this and succeed, I'm in a technical field and already have pretty good work experience so maybe calling it is a good option. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:22 AM
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Yeah I was actually thinking this might have to be my approach. The funny thing is I've been saying since day one that this guy is a perfect caricature of a disheveled nutty professor. It's only lately that he's been very difficult as I move into my research.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:19 AM
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I know man the timing in life is shit. Since I'm still new to RP, life choices made by my previous beta self continue to haunt me. Shouldn't be long before all that crap is behind me.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:25 PM
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It's not linear like that. If he eats clean, keeps up his current lvl of activity and stays in a reasonable calorie surplus he's not going to put on 312lbs but he can put on a lot of muscle. The point is that if you wanna look good and feel good with a high activity lifestyle you need to satiate yourself. He's not a comp body builder. There's not need for a cut now or anytime soon. You want gains? You gotta eat or you're wasting your time in the gym.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:01 PM
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This reads like a dude who wants a 6 pack but just started going to the gym. 6 packs are cool, but they're hidden, go for big upper body and legs if you wanna get pussy. By the time you can show a girl your sick abs she's already in your bedroom and you're stripping off clothes. I would recommend maintaining a calorie surplus until February 2026. That sounds like a joke but it's not. If you're 18 and hit the gym 5/6 times a week you don't need to worry about fat or body fat %, your metabolism wi…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:02 PM
11

Social circle game can be more problematic than worthwhile in college. People aren't very mature yet and sleeping within your social circle can cause you to be pushed out eventually due to grievances. I would recommend expanding your social circle and sleep on the periphery. I did this successfully in college via an outdoors club, within which I had a core group of m/f friends who I didn't sleep with. My IDGAF attitude made me magnetic enough to become core to a subgroup of friends (I avoiding j…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:45 PM
1

I am 100% in agreement that lifestyle choices combat this. So many people lead disgusting, depressing and distracted lives that I'm kind not surprised that people spiral downward. On a personal note, I can't believe how unrelatable 90% of my previous friends and acquaintances have become for me since I've become RP and NoFap. It's like people aren't even operating on the same plane of existence anymore. It's a little bit disorienting but I'm still happy about it and charging on.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:15 AM
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I always kinda wondered about this. The fact the depression and anxiety are only really a thing in the developed world is totally fucked. I kind of suspect that it's just that life is rough, even in this part of the world, but people are so pampered and propagandized that they think something is wrong with them if they're sad or going through a rough patch. I feel like this especially applies to "anxiety" which is really just either a fear of social judgement or fear of mortality. People really …
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:59 PM
3

Step 1: STD test Step 2: Learn for this (red flags) Step 3: Get over it, move on
/r/askTRP17/02/20 08:34 PM
3

~gets high off poison water~
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:45 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised is you're watching porn/jerking off too much. If it's not that work on your mission and go monk mode.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:53 AM
1

Another cause of these imbalances believe it or not is always having a wallet in your back pocket. Sitting down with one hip slightly raised over the long term can cause the hips to go out of line. The fatter your wallet, the bigger the problem.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 05:29 AM
2

That closing statement got me fired up!
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:22 PM
5

Spend my whole childhood listening to my obese, passive, absent father scream/cheers at the tv like a maniac. He would watch every sport, at least 4 hours a night and more on weekends. Most pathetic shit, even saw that as a 10 year old lol. I only watch MMA, and only since I became RP. ACTIVITY is my life, not watching other people do sports. LIFT, LEARN, PURSUE MISSION. No time left over to fantasize about slurping your sports idols ballz. I don't a give a fuck about much anymore but this is th…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 05:47 AM
3

Let her take the trip with her pathetic beta orbiter. Not worth it. Take your money and go on your own trip!
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:18 PM
2

Cold approach not necessary. You need to apply isolation and kino/escalation
/r/askTRP02/02/20 04:32 PM
4

You gotta own it, none of that rim around the back shit
/r/askTRP02/02/20 04:19 PM
4

You posted this on TRP so in gonna give you RP. You need to get your shit together and stop trying to change your parents or caring what they do. You're wasting your time on them. Accept the fact that your parents rightfully see you as a loser and won't give your resources. Focus on you. Get off the drugs. You're using that dumb ass car story as an excuse. Since you have so much free time (no job), take online courses in programming and then you can work temp contracts for western firms that pay…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 11:16 PM
3

Seems like you've already got intellectual and artsy outlets covered, explore manual creation. If you have garage space, fine carpentry or working on restoring a classic car would be cool. If you wanna really have fun get an old car with a decent body (to avoid body work) but needs some engine work. Or build a kit car.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 11:04 PM
1

Social media was invented by Mark Zuckerberg, for Mark Zuckerberg
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:43 AM
8

TQQQ baby, go big or go home
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:48 PM
3

I have this too sometimes, when I got over it psychologically and became more red pilled (gave less fucks about what people think) things did improve. It all depends on the conditions leading up to the lay -> which determine your stress level -> which can cause you to be limp. I'd say usually a little bit of alcohol can help, if this is strictly stress/psychological. For example, two drinks can really boost your libido and simultaneously give you an excuse if this does happen, which take some st…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:19 PM
21

Im wheezing hahahaha
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:32 PM
2

Ps if you turn your life around right now at the age of 18 and become a man. The compounding returns on dedication to self improvement, learning and not giving a fuck what people think or say to you will make you a rock star by 30. Some of us didn't get an early start, do it NOW
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:13 PM
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Get off porn 100%, jerk off way less or NoFap. I'd keep netflix but reduce usage way down. Best to do this is never watch a series/tv show, movies only. I say keep it because Netflix is good for chilling with chicks once in a while. Join a club, for me in university it was outdoors club but you can literally join anything. Going to the gym is fine and can be social but if you are craving social interaction join a team sport or start rock climbing. One of the golden rules of male-friendship is th…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:10 PM
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This hit me, I had the most risk averse, passive resentful doormat of a father who talked to the tv more than me or my siblings. It took me a fucking long time to unplug from that garbage and it's been a hard ongoing journey transforming myself into an alpha internally and externally. For me it all started with a beta-induced relationship failure, after which I started exploring philosophies of radial responsibility, self-improvement and masculinity. Everyday life get better. Cheers mate
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 08:05 PM
8

Multiple times a day I tell myself "dedication, not motivation". For me this is a powerful affirmation that dedication is a state of being woven into who I am, motivation is just some fleeting thing you feel on the good days. Motivation is hands down the pussy ass doormat version or dedication.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:20 PM
9

Confidence isn't something you acquire. Confidence is being okay with who you are and showing that you are outcome independent. I'm sort of an awkward shy guy but I play it to my advantage because I'm smart and I take care of myself which makes me handsome. Lots of women like hot-shot-exude-confidence kind of guys (Chad archetype). Think of the dumbass cocky marketing consultant ads you see all the time (Tai Lopez etc). But the even more generally liked (or revered) man is the James Bond/Donald …
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:46 AM
1

Honestly I didn't even read your post, but I'll give you an answer. You're cripplingly afraid of rejection. Think of every time you've been rejected in your life up till now, girls, jobs, assignments, offers etc. You're still here and you're doing fine. Plus, you forgot about those rejections until right now. The point is that it doesn't fucking matter. You're much better at socializing than you think, you DONT NEED A PLAN. Just approach with a hi + a simple question then from there your primal …
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:09 PM
6

Honestly, if you don't care about that chick (you said she's just for practice) you should leave her and go monk mode for 2-3 months. That'll get you sorted. It's fucking hard but focus on GOOD dopamine hits like positive irl social interactions, hitting the gym and eating healthy delicious food. Avoid bad dopamine hits like junk good, cheat days, instagram or dating apps. I say dating apps because they give you easy validation when you get a match, the same way getting likes on instagram does. …
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:32 PM
1

Came here to write this. Go to trade school or take an ~employable~ university certificate or degree, get a loan if you have to. If you're interested in video games maybe you could do something in the computer field. You will NEVER get ahead working in a restaurant.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:48 AM
7

I mean I get where you're coming from about treating everyone with equal respect, outwardly. But on an internal basis I completely disagree. We're just animals on a savannah. Even if you're a respectful woke guy, people will try to shit on you and disrespect you. Hold others to standards on the basis of how you consider yourself (hopefully high value). You're being egoist about how nice and egalitarian you are. It's basically impossible that you treat everyone the same. Your baseline can be to t…
/r/seduction15/01/20 10:33 PM
2

I think that our behaviour and thought patterns can often be tied to a person. If during that relationship you were still blue pill, you might still have blue pill traits and behaviours as it relates to that person. I have one ex (my last LTR before I took the RP) with which the relationship essentially degraded because I was so blue pill and couldn't stand up for myself. We split up with no hard feelings and in retrospect that was important to me changing my ways. Although I'm fairly red pill w…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:32 PM
1

This gave me a good chuckle. I meet this really cool girl at the climbing gym and didn't end up getting her number in time before she left. I felt like I fucked up but whatever, sometimes it's good to just get some experience in casual conversation with a stranger. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.
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