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| 5 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Awareness is the first step. At least you acknowledge it. Now go fix it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys how do you get to the FaceTime stageThen literally just ask her to FaceTime lol. The same way you would ask her on a date. Schedule a time and be somewhere where you’ll have good lighting. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Guys how do you get to the FaceTime stageFaceTime is something you should do if you met on online dating before you ever meet as to not waste your time. Or after you’ve already dated and there’s some logistical issue with actually meeting up. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | How should I pull back after fucking up and giving someone undeserved girlfriend treatment?What did she want from you in exchange for sex? And the best answer especially if she is “negotiating” sex is to be firm and say that’s not something you see as something that can be bargained for. Tell her you didn’t think she was a whore who bargains sex and that’s not what you’re looking for. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Is my hot eastern European manager flirting with me?Touch is always a big sign of flirting, unless there is some context that requires touching. I can’t imagine what she would need to touch your arm so much for. Especially your bicep | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Tank tops in a clubA nice fitting muscle shirt would be better in a club setting. Save tank tops for raves/outdoor parties | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Noticing the delusion and cognitive dissonance some women have regarding their optionsIt’s like having left overs in the fridge, you never feel desperate for food. Whereas having an empty fridge you will eat anything that comes your way. It might not be your first choice, but knowing you have that backup alleviates them from ever feeling desperate and gives them an easier time saying no. When push comes to shove, they won’t starve. I mean yeah, end of the day it is an ego boost them knowing they’re wanted. It’s why women rarely exert needy behavior that most men do. Most men don’… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Noticing the delusion and cognitive dissonance some women have regarding their optionsIn a sense it is options, guys she know that want to fuck and she keeps around as a back up plan. Options is the same for men, women you keep around that you know are interested as back ups. Whether they are good options or not isn’t the discussion. Just to your point, they are in fact options even if she “doesn’t like them”. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you start a convo with a girl you haven’t talk to in whileIt’s not weird, what’s weird is not expecting a response when you make a public post. She won’t think it’s weird at all people are replying or commenting. Matter of fact, it’s what she’s expecting. Now how far it goes depends on how you carry the convo after. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you start a convo with a girl you haven’t talk to in whileLiterally reply about the post… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?At some point you gotta make the move. Boy girl thing. I don’t think it’s more so “talk” specifically. Have you made any moves on her yet? Clearly she seems to like being around you and seems like she wants you to make a move on her. Hold her hand, kiss her, etc. boy girl things. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:49 AM |
| 23 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowWhy are you coming back being hella excited about his conversation? Come back and resume yours with your girl, wtf? Reading your comments dude it’s just like bruh… get some awareness first. | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 12:53 AM |
| 6 | A confident guy shows all the signs that he likes me, but he doesn't call me out on a dateThis, and try to assure him that you’ll try to keep it civil as well. I’ve been asked out before and decided it just wasn’t worth the risk if things don’t work out. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:58 PM |
| 46 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?But still weird if that’s what you’re doing imo | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 2 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaYou’re forgetting the basic rule, don’t listen to what women say. Watch what they do. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaIt’s the simple idea of if you want someone to like you the idea is to ask them to do little favors for you. The more little favors they do for you the more they like you which is counter intuitive to what most might believe that doing things for others will make them like you. I’m not debating you about your stoic principles. I’m just sharing a psychological phenomenon. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 02:35 PM |
| 10 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaYou’re not wrong, but psychologically it’s the Benjamin Franklin effect. Doing things for others naturally creates a dissonance in our minds. We only do things for those we like, so the more we do for them our mind shifts to think we must like them. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 02:24 PM |
| 7 | Hook ups but no connectionSeduction is still a vital part of a relationship | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 06:04 PM |
| 4 | When a woman likes you, you will knowI’m in a similar situation with a girl lol. She asked to be FWB but then changed her mind and wants to date while showing me all the other guys she’s talking to. Definitely not keeper but it is fun. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | When a woman likes you, you will knowMight be different where you’re from but girls out here give out socials pretty readily. If nothing else it’s another follower for them. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 10:27 AM |
| 52 | When a woman likes you, you will knowGenerally if they don’t add you on socials but still see you, they’re most likely cheating on someone or it’s a fling to them. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong?I’d say in general, text with an objective in mind. Ie trying to learn something about her, set up a date, etc etc. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 02:49 AM |
| 6 | There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me?They won’t because you lack self esteem. But they will because there are infinitely more women than there are that type of men and not only those types of men get women. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 02:08 AM |
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