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I can understand choking to a degree but what is attractive about slapping someone
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:21 AM
14

This, but might as well keep smashing when you feel like it
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:57 PM
9

Truth or drink
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:45 AM
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I don’t want to be a jerk, but it sounds like this guy was just looking for a smash and then doesn’t have any interest regardless of the quick bust
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:28 PM
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I’d say honesty is important yeah but I’d at least leave out the part about “saw from my desk at work” instead just more of a I happened to walk by sort of thing
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:49 PM
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Don’t listen to this guy, it 100% will sound like you were stalkerish watching her. I would stop and tell her how cute or handsome her dog is and that if you can pet it and try to strike up something from there
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:53 PM
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Placebo affect is real though so let the man do whatever works for him
/r/seduction12/08/21 06:01 PM
1

Do enjoy just drinks, good suggestion was just looking for some lesser known ones maybe
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:46 PM
89

This is a 100% the answer. Watching a movie or hanging out will be cuddling for sure, but when I want to sleep I am like “get away from me, I need my space to pass out” and has nothing to do with the girl and I usually warn people about this too
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:23 PM
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Your welcome, glad I could help! I know what you mean too, it can absolutely destroy your mental state if you let it. As far as seeking a doctor.. considering this was your first time I wouldn’t yet. It’s honestly way more common in guys when they first start becoming sexually active than you would think. 1/4 or so guys have this problem at some point in life, so please do not immediately think “Oh something is completely wrong with me.” Now, if the issues persist for a long time then yes go see…
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:27 PM
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Not the easiest advice to follow but this honestly happens to me quite regularly sometimes which I should go get checked out. But some things I’ve figured out to improve it Relax. When you start thinking about “what if I lose this erection, etc.” your guaranteed to lose it. Close your eyes focus on what feels good, focus on her breath getting deeper, focus on her moaning, whatever helps If you put the condom on and then lose it… go back to what you were doing making out etc, and just leave the c…
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:05 PM
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lol I’ve done this a few times and it works oddly great. Made up a dumb story about my ancestors being psychics, do a little bit of palm reading, make some dumb jokes about it and usually goes well
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:10 PM
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lol I’ve done this a few times and it works oddly great. Made up a dumb story about my ancestors being psychics, do a little bit of palm reading, make some dumb jokes about it and usually goes well
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:10 PM
36

No, but it’s a step in the right direction and a hell of a lot more fun than awkwardly sitting around. This is a big W for someone that normally is very shy and reserved
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:40 AM
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Yeah 100% her just being batshit crazy
/r/seduction03/07/21 11:23 PM
9

That’s mad genius dude
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:56 PM
2

Only problem is viagra ain’t cheap
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:49 PM
3

So odd question, how do you go about explaining that to your partner ? I too have had some “issues” occasionally that has led to some really weird moments and never know how to address it. Like just straight up say “hey sometimes it doesn’t work” or what ?
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:51 PM
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Restraining orders
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:37 PM
3

THIS. You could be a literal 4, but if you radiate confidence you will be successful
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:34 PM
9

This guy is mostly correct, especially the treated like a celebrity get treated like a fan part. However you don’t have to completely ditch your social media. Numbers tend to do a lot better cause the Snapchat window just leaves too many variables that can lose interest super quickly (unless the girl is super upfront sexual— then Snapchat is great). Texts are simple. Set the date and then that’s your time to shine (You will still get ghosted, but that just happens sometimes so it’s whatever)
/r/seduction23/06/21 08:22 PM
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Any specific tips to incorporating that as you go ?
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:53 PM
1

She wants free drinks
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:37 PM
3

This guy gets it^ practice practice practice
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:35 PM
1

r/PTSD
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:34 PM
3

Dang that got aggressive fast. I’d say probably more like 50% max though which is totally fine. It isn’t about shot percentage, it’s about shooting as much as possible then bragging bout the epic ones haha
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:18 PM
2

Along that lines too, something that helps me is just leaning into embarrassing or awkward situations, like I make fun of MYSELF more than anyone else I know and it’s all in good fun. People see that it doesn’t bother you cause you just went with it and kind of stop
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:08 PM
3

Those are good for sure, sometimes people are just assholes, it happens (they probably got horrible self esteem or some shit going on that they be rude for no reason is what I usually try to think, so it doesn’t piss me off) Then you just let it go and move on with life
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:06 PM
1

Just be straight up yourself you want to act passionate about things your passionate about, you want to tell stories that are funny to you or moments that are important in your life you, and if you guys mesh well then you mesh well. It’s never about what you say or what you like it’s about “HOW” you go about those things
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:26 AM
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I am the opposite and my blackout episodes usually work cause we say dumb stuff my sober self wouldnt and the confidence is sky high
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:46 PM
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