FrequentPizza8663 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What is it like to date or have a gf? First, it's not a red flag to not have had a girlfriend or other sexual partners. Anyone who says it's a red flag is a person to be avoided. That being said, try to find a group of friends you can vibe with, go out with them, and work on meeting new poeple while you're out. If your friends are good, they'll encourage you.	/r/seduction	29/08/22 05:42 PM
2	Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on. Nope, hard pass. Keep it pushin homie, next one	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:05 PM
1	Is hiring a coach worth it? It depends. A coach can help give you an unbiased debrief after things happen and help redirect you. Any coach worth their salt will tell you their job is to support, redirect, and challenge you in ways you might not be able to challenge yourself. Outside perspective can be good, particularly if your network isn't filled with quality folks who can offer good outside perspective to help your dating game. I feel like coaches are for a certain type of person, and that's OK. Do what you will!	/r/seduction	10/06/22 03:55 PM
4	What do you do when your girlfriend talks about her problems? Ask her how you can support her. And then just listen.	/r/seduction	01/06/22 02:19 PM
2	It's real depressing how women support and praise drag queens and gay male makeup artists but men don't support female footballers or women taking up male hobbies. This is quite a sweeping generalization. Do you have evidence for this claim? Personally I like it when anyone picks up a hobby that makes them feel good and helps them be a better person	/r/seduction	20/05/22 01:06 PM
1	Dating Board of Advisors I’d be happy to be a part.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 02:25 AM
2	Lost interest after 2 dates. How to figure out what went wrong? Don't waste your time trying to figure out what went wrong. A lot of the times it's nothing you can control, and you'll save yourself a lot of heartburn if you don't think about it and just move on. Much like job interviews, the reason is often completely out of your control.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 01:10 PM
1	My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flaking Just out of curiosity, what is your reasoning for not doing facetime with a girl?	/r/seduction	17/05/22 12:39 PM
5	How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double texting Yup, you’re right! I’m the same way with girls, I’ve told the girl I didn’t want to see her again because I wasn’t feeling it. Frankly that dude needs to work on being more situationally aware, and in that case you shouldn’t even need to give feedback because it should have been obvious to him!	/r/seduction	16/05/22 06:23 PM
4	How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double texting Yeah I just am not that concerned with what others think. And I would drive myself crazy always trying to find out only to realize it had nothing to do with me. For example, a girl I went on a date with once never called me back which is fine. But I found out a couple months later that the reason she didn’t want a second date was that I reminded her too much of her ex. Like, how can I control that, right??	/r/seduction	16/05/22 06:05 PM
7	How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double texting I don't ever ask where I can improve, job or dating-wise because so much of the reasons why someone rejects you are what you can't control. Examples of why I don't ever ask: The other candidate just had more of the experience we were looking for (can't go back in time and change your experience) We just liked their interview style more (subjective) One of the interviewers didn't have a good feeling and passed on the candidate (nothing you can do about that, subjective) I've sat on interview boar…	/r/seduction	16/05/22 04:43 PM
1	Approached a girl in the gym Yeah next time maybe try to ask before you take the preworkout? Lol In all seriousness, you’ll never know till you ask. I use 3-2-1 go, then I talk very briefly and grab her number. It’s worked a couple times. Good luck dude!	/r/seduction	12/05/22 11:30 PM
1	When a girl rejects you, does this mean she thinks you're not hot enough? Oh for sure. In fact, knowing that I failed a shit test actually put my mind at ease and made me more confident in myself… first, knowing it wasn’t necessarily something I did or said in the lead up to the test, it allowed me to let go of microanalysing all my actions and focus on the next.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 12:00 AM
7	When a girl rejects you, does this mean she thinks you're not hot enough? You are 100% correct - I recently failed one of these and I resolved never to fail another one again. A girl I had recently been seeing told me, after a really great night, that she "just wants to be friends." I was caught up in wanting to keep her around, so I chased and tried to reason with her. She lost interest (which ended up being good because I actually saw how bad she was for me, despite her physical attractiveness). But now I know just to cut em loose - no time for games.	/r/seduction	10/05/22 01:29 PM
1	How do you handle rejection? Dust it off and move on. Helps to have a therapist to talk to about it, too.	/r/seduction	10/05/22 01:09 PM
1	Should I trust my gut? Sooooo. As someone who lost their virginity a little later in life, and as someone who was a reticent dater for much of his 20s, you will pay for dates that don't pan out. You will meet people that might have initial interest but don't respond affirmatively to your signals. But at the same time, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, and each shot is a chance to grow your confidence and become more experienced. Don't write it off quite yet, especially if you haven't even communicated with th…	/r/seduction	10/05/22 01:04 PM
1	Guys would accept an apology from someone who ghosted you? I am always willing to talk to someone and hear them out, but that doesn't mean everything will be hunky dorey and go back to normal. I would forgive, but I wouldn't forget and I certainly wouldn't see them romantically again.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 03:13 PM
1	Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you. I had a girl I liked and was dating casually and she was texting and communicating with me all the time. After a few dates, I escalated things and then we hooked up, and only two days later she goes “oh I don’t want a relationship I just want to be friends because I am moving away soon.” Mhm… yeah. Well, unfortunately I tried to be rational with her because I liked her and wanted to keep seeing her, but got nowhere so I just left it. Then a week later she hits me up, invited me over to her place…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 03:55 AM