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For real, and honestly the people who will truly give a fuck about you are the top 2-3% since they tend to be the most secure in themselves. I bet op is surrounded by losers who are fucking with his world view, happens to most of us including myself
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:24 PM
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For real, all the alpha posturers on here make these threads a shock but honestly are my favorite ones since there seems to be more authenticity/vulnerability to them while still remaining focused on the goal of masculinity/success. Plus good mental health is key to a strong frame
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 08:50 PM
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It’s one of many forms of self development. I know a few dudes who can approach and fuck hotties which earns respect, but then I find out they’re stuck in a job as a waiter, are a shitty person/have nothing else going for them and suddenly I only want to be around them if they’re my wingman
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:30 PM
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I’m pretty good looking like a 7 and game isn’t all that bad (it’s all night game for me) it’s just not consistent like a lot of approaches I’m doing well but there’s always just one thing I do that fucks it all up. Like I asked a 8/10 for her number the other night and she straight up told me too early, so I left. Or another latina who literally told me she thought I was beautiful and loved me after I got her number I was going on a date but I realized I set it up too long after we met and she …
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:24 PM
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That’s insane luck, like a 1 in 1000 chance in happening. Right now I’m like 300 approaches in the past few months and gotten a few days and close to banging a slut in a ons but logistics failed. Definitely takes a shit ton of skill to develop
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:53 PM
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This is great advice as well as getting rejected more and failing and fucking up more and more and more but also always be improving at every angle
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:35 AM
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Out of curiosity why don’t you drink? Being open to just a few drinks occasionally will open up a lot of doors for you socially. Smoking and social media aren’t as important but will do the same on a smaller scale
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:05 AM
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Lolz so easy, she had initial high attraction and then comes to see you bar tending? She probably didn’t respond that night cause she was too busy masturbating to u
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:40 PM
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Yeah man it’ll happen naturally as you move forward and grow in all areas. It was easy to cut my dad off when he was belittling me, meanwhile everyone else in my life including men who are wayyy more respectable and accomplished than him are giving me respect and love
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:44 PM
1

Yeah if it sounds like it’s definitely worth trying then. Not much to lose and a lot to gain
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:23 AM
22

Maybe u don’t accept yourself and who you are, so you have trouble accepting women?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:05 AM
2

It makes you more comfortable as a beginner and can help you out mentally on a dry spell. But also signals something is up and needs to be worked on if you’re paying for it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:02 AM
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Yes it’s 1000% better, I had a lot of negative experiences w roommates though. But when I live alone, I have way more freedom, feel more peaceful and authentic/grounded - no roommate voices or troubles are in my head. Definitely have been more productive and grown way more thanks to being in a one bedroom. If you’re feeling lonely in a one bedroom, it just means you need to go out/find more hobbies
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:01 AM
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Yeah this is called holding people accountable, it’s what the best leaders I’ve seen are capable of doing. Just gotta do it with emotional intelligence or it can be perceived the wrong way and be counter productive for everyone. Reading the book “crucial conversations” goes over this in detail and lays out how to master this skill
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 04:49 AM
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Yeah energy vampires, so easy to spot once you experience them a few times. Super fake personalities and if you get to know them, they have shitty inner worlds filled with trauma and being stuck at the bottom of the barrel, so they extract other people’s (usually naive men) positive energy to feel happy for a couple of seconds. It’s like a hit of cocaine for them
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:59 PM
1

Don’t be jealous
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:59 PM
2

I did last night, she actually made me dance w her and kept screaming omg I’m so drunk and was making out w me and making me grab her hot friends ass and making her dance with me. I told them I was on drugs but was only like 3 shots in lmfao
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:49 PM
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Find a drunk ass girl who is on the verge of black out that is dancing very sloppy but provocatively. Just walk up to her, give her a seductive look up and down, and grab her hips. Enjoy
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:37 AM
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Being super confident and self assured works great in night game. One of my friends was a full on psychopath who literally didn’t have the ability to give a fuck (when he tried to give a fuck it was like the opposite of seeing a beta male trying to act confident - both being extremely incongruent). He pulled 9’s and 10’s consistently in the clubs from how much his confidence stood out and would rub off on everyone around him, but being his everyday friend was super toxic and draining. Constantly…
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:11 AM
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We’ll see if you still think family is everything when you become older, more successful, and confident and yet they still try to drag you down to the old you. Eventually you’ll realize if your family treats you like shit, they’re just as bad as fake friends since both are trying to sabotage you for their own personal agenda.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:05 AM
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Glad it seems to be working but still fucked up that your family is supposed to be helping you build confidence and self respect and instead you have to fight for it. I tried that same approach but my parents default mode is to treat me like a little kid. Have issues with blaming myself for it too but working through it and finally internalizing that it was them that fucked up
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:03 AM
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Bruh psychologists are notorious for gaslighting, I’ve had a ton of experience w being diagnosed and believing it with the psychologists intention of keeping me dependent on them. Only way a diagnosis is real is if you have a brain scan showing it
/r/seduction17/06/21 02:47 PM
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Yeah man for me that bullshit includes getting rid of my family. They “love” me but perceive me as a weak little kid - I’m the youngest in the entire family generation but have been developing myself for years- have a great body, career, skills, learned charisma (can’t utilize it anymore when my self esteem is low though) All the subtle condescension and implications that something is wrong with my / that I’m a flawed and lesser than human messes with my head - even if I had talks w them straigh…
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:54 AM
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Just take classes dude, it’s the best way to remove the shame you feel in your body unless you go out with friends who know how to dance
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:48 AM
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As a brown guy this is 1000% true, we have a shit ton of weaknesses but also a lot of strength. A lot of people have not experienced the pain/rejection we have gone through and don’t have the emotional resilience we do as well as the skills/knowledge we had to acquire to adapt
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:29 AM
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You’re not autistic dude you just aren’t socialized properly and are facing the consequences of learning late. Get that label out of your head or you’ll remain stuck for years
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:27 AM
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You’re the one who stopped joking by taking my response serious and pulling up some statistics lmao, if you read the op I’m looking for ways to party weekly and stay healthy
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:11 PM
1

How many people consume alcohol compared to coke ?
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:29 PM
1

So is a heart attack
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:05 PM
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Same here
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:41 PM
0

I do still don’t work
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:40 PM
1

If you feel the need to say someone has big issues for telling a story related to their question then you have bigger issues my friend
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:28 PM
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Teach me
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:22 AM
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You’re right - you shouldn’t compare yourself to other people. There’s different kinds of way charisma manifests, you can be in a shitty mood and still be charismatic. The one common thing everyone with charisma has is insanely strong inner game
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:11 AM
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Put it in there for me mr sperm master
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:05 AM
3

It’s mindset issues/scarcity mindset. Realize that the only competition is you, not them. Only reason why you don’t have what they have is because you haven’t worked for it and done your best
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:55 PM
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I’ve been doing vodka with energy drinks like bangs, sugar free Red Bull,rockstar they’re all 0 cal plus have caffiene
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:16 PM
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So much envy, u mad your a butt hurt beta who hates himself while that dude is living the life and fucking fine ass bitches that would never give u the time of the day lmfao
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:10 PM
1

What the fuck
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:13 PM
2

I tried doing sober partying, it’s super weird. Feel extrrmely tensed up and as soon as a negative thought pops in my head, it shows in my body language. Whereas being drunk gets me loose and not care about how I’m thinking
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:49 PM
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I tried vodka + sugar free Red Bull’s. Like 150 cals a drink and 5 with a few shots was enough to get my drunk as hell but it still fucked up my physique
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:48 PM
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I was in shock when she called me that lmao apparently it’s a normie term now. Was def a nice ego boost Edit: just looked at your post history - no wonder why you don’t believe it 😂
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:47 PM
2

Yeah need more details, could either be bad work culture or you having bad social skills and needing good social skills for the higher projects
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:55 PM
2

That’s a dumb comparison, if op came on here trying to learn how to do his project better then it would make sense, but he’s trying to learn the power dynamics to help with his career, which is classic trp stuff
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:36 AM
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Bro what? “Never turn our conversation to sex due to potential hr issues” but you asked her out? That sounds like your problem, you’re actually just scared and had a moment of courage to ask her out. She saw through it all and turned you down
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:18 AM
3

Imo career related stuff is tied to smv so it’s trp, OP is your performance bad compared to your coworkers? Either way wouldn’t stress too much about it. If you get fired, there’s tons of jobs out there that are probably even better than what you’re at right now
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:12 AM
3

Strong this, exactly what came to my mind as soon as I read the op from previous experience of having a low self esteem and a high self esteem plate at the same time. Plus the damaged girls will sabotage themselves and start shit testing you as hard as they can / treat you like shit to push you away since deep down they think they don’t deserve you
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:10 AM
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My dad is insanely toxic and everyone has seen how abusive he is. I punched him and they were all on my side, he still has to give me financial support too but I get it through contacting my mom. That’s the only contact I do with my family now since they arent working on their own issues that they bring on to me. My advice is it probably is a good idea. Think about it: if you’re dad was healthy and loving, would the thought of cutting him out ever cross your mind?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:43 PM
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Yeah man I’ve been going balls deep in therapy, even went NC on my family and made some progress but it’s still not working. Still going through failure after failure. But goes to show you can put a shit ton of effort and still not succeed.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:34 PM
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Such bullshit dude. You just don’t hear about the ones who apply themselves and not make it. I personally have been on the grind for 5-6 years and am still stuck as a loser because of mental health/self sabotage issues
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:19 PM
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