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I pretty much agree with all of this, with a caveat about oneitis. It's definitely bad when a man has an all consuming crush on a woman especially if it's unrequited. I've been there and it's a horrible time waste. The feeling that you'll never find someone else like them is also anxiety inducing. But I've had that term applied in areas that I think are bad for men. I once asked some advice about a secondary I had. I'm married, and I had a secondary that was flaky on meeting up. I was told that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:51 PM
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I didn't play that series. I know skyrim had a reputation of "repeat the same small task, become a matter level doer" so make a few thousand iron knives and you become an expert in fashioning breast plates. Is fallout the same?
/r/MGTOW06/05/16 12:32 PM
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as long as you carefully watch and investigate which women you won't trust, and don't assume all women are bad, you agree with some TRP ideas on casual dating or behavioral interactions? Also, I think TRP uses too broad a stroke when giving this casual dating and behavioral interaction advice. This is because they are giving advice to men who don't understand social interactions well. So they just say "do this always" and put it entirely on the woman to push back when it's too much. I feel that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:08 PM
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The most concerning thing to me is the way it is designed to prey on low self-esteem men, similar in many ways to how cults prey on new members, and pull them into a negative way of thinking that can be harmful or at least self-limiting. When you look at subreddits like /r/exredpill, you'll see many men who are having trouble adjusting after coming out of the toxicity. Some of them have still have big issues in trusting women. TRP has grains of truth in it. There are things they say that I certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:10 PM
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I thought this was /r/skyrim for a moment and there was an agricultural skill patch.
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 01:57 PM
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I'll sub to ppc, but I don't really care for circlejerk subs so I'll see how it goes. For the socializing, constraining it to the shit posting corner (under the shrimps) seems like it would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 01:41 AM
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I don't think this is the case. The advice talked about here is given to a forever alone type that would be great with just being able to get their unrequited crush to pick them. If it was actually good advice on how to get a relationship, and they were getting relationships and keeping them, red pill wouldn't exist. The thing is that the advice given often is what the advice giver thinks will make the receiver happiest. People know that generally if you make huge personality changes and pretend…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 08:50 AM
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I'm surprised he has such a following. He used to troll the bitcoin subreddits extremely badly and was considered a total joke. Then I saw one of his feminism videos (where he takes a feminist video and pauses it to inject commentary) and thought it was good, a lot better than I expected from the troll of years ago. I think in these type of prepared rebuttals to insane femblrism, he does well.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 08:24 AM
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I love you too, bro.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 04:44 AM
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Could be, though I was thinking this one. The hair tufts match better on yours tho.
/r/MGTOW01/05/16 02:56 AM
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Ultimately, this is just not a topic for debate. Unless you're Roosh V, you aren't going to realistically be adding that women shouldn't have the right to vote, that husbands should be allowed to beat and rape their wives, that women shouldn't have access and control over their reproduction (some goat herder religions might argue aspects of this), that rape and sexual assault should be limited to forced PiC sex. The answer to "Is feminism good for the world?" Is resoundingly "yes". Thinking othe…
/r/MensRights01/05/16 01:16 AM
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I only watched the introductory statements and half of her first rebuttal, and I could tell he was trashed.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 12:44 AM
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I think transgender women are on the other side of that argument, where AMABs are scamming their way into women's restrooms to catch a glimpse of old ladies pooping. But it's never about what could happen in the men's room.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 08:42 PM
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It goes even further than this though. The fact is that women feel a violation even if the guy is titilated by them. So if inside the guys mind he feels something positive about being in the bathroom with the woman, they feel it's an infraction. Actual contact doesn't need to happen.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 08:38 PM
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So, I didn't say wealthy, I said rich. I chose that because I am by most measures rich, but I really don't consider myself wealthy. I go to Ruth's Chris twice a year, and to McDonald's at least once a month. My rich friends all go to McDonald's now and then. I think your idea of what rich people do is probably way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:13 PM
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This kind of seems like saying that McDonald's is higher value than Ruth's Chris because more people are served each year and even rich people get mcnuggets more often than cracked lobster. In some ways, it's true, but in most ways, it's a completely useless viewpoint. Very few are going to buy into that metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 05:15 PM
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I think the idea is that a 5 guy can get a 5 girl if they make an equitable trade, which included he needs for commitment. Put plainly, the 5 guy can get a 5 gf, but not a 5 hook up. That is because 7-9 guys will be dipping into the 5 girls for a hookup. They may even do a long term nsa deal, but without at least the hope of a real relationship, the 5 guy is not getting a 5 girl to just agree to some boning. This does a little depend on if you are separating RMV from SMV, but if SMV is your only…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 05:03 PM
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I think I read once the rate at which men are raising another man's child is something like 10%. While that's surprisingly high, it sucks that the other 9 out of ten couples would need to bear the cost of the testing. In addition, there are cases like myself where it's medically impossible for it to be anything but mine, because it was through ivf. We have a sonogram of the embryo at 32 cells being injected into the uterus. There are cases of mix ups from ivf comics, but that should be handled b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 03:27 PM
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Damn son. You put the Miggy Curse on him.
/r/MGTOW29/04/16 03:08 AM
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That's called serial monogamy, and it does have problems. I was like this before I went polyamorous, and yeah it was unsatisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:31 PM
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I define it as the person being personally satisfied with the intimacy they have in their life. It's hard to know from your descriptions who that would be, but Fred seems the most likely. I personally am not satisfied with monogamy, but I'd say the majority of people are. I've been Chad and it can be great when you have the right plate set, but it's frustrating to me replacing them and it feels like you are chasing a feeling often (aka chasing Amy, but "Amy" can be a plate set) and I also feel m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:04 PM
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"Almost seven per cent of women said they had been sexually abused by a fellow inmate, while more men said they had been assaulted by staff."
/r/MGTOW26/04/16 02:52 PM
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It's bugging me that this article and post do the same thing that feminists do to pump up stats: conflating sexual assault with rape. The article only has numbers on sexual assault, but it turns into "brutal rape" in the title here. It's not fine when they do it and it's not fine when it's done here.
/r/MGTOW26/04/16 02:50 PM
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SMP: sure I'll take this analogy. This is like "the invisible hand of the free market". It's just a way of thinking about people meeting, having sex, and relationships. However, if you apply too much theory, then you will get divorced from reality in ways that can give you bad strategy, similar to if you actually assume all people in the economic market are perfectly rational actors with perfect (or even symmetric) information. It's good for a thought experiment, but when you consider that most …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:01 AM
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"Swole Chad" gets hit with this stuff every now and then but it washes across him like they were reciting advanced string theory. He doesn't just not give a shit, he doesn't understand a single word they are saying. Because they thrive on the drama of the engagement and the feeling of making others feel inferior, they gain nothing and quickly tire of that game. On top of that, I'm not "swole Chad" but I'm pretty widely told I'm "gorgeous" and "hot" and have women on social media hitting me up in…
/r/MGTOW20/04/16 07:18 PM
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If we are going with averages, it's certainly true. People who actively think about sexuality have a more liberal approach to it. The mistake is thinking that because they are more slutty, you are going to score. There's a reason why single bisexual women are called "unicorns".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:33 PM
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So not really changing your view, so I'll post here. But really all analogies are always flawed at some level, because they aren't the actual thing. I think the problem here is more you taking it too seriously. The analogy has a core point that makes sense, even with the issues, and that's how your are supposed to approach an analogy: looking what you can gain from it, not picking it apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:34 PM
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Because unlike women, we wont form blind alliances simply because we share common things like logic and having penises. I find this statement funny considering how every "woman only" alliance on survivor has completely failed.
/r/MGTOW18/04/16 09:20 PM
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Everyone is too invested in saying they are right. MRAs think they can make a difference and that if you're a man and not an MRA, then you are wasting potential. TRP and MGTOW think the effort for social change is individually not worth it and don't care to be roped into MRA politics. Then TRP wants their dicks wet with a subversive contract of evaluating masculinity (or alfalfaness) by how many holes you stick it in and MGTOW has no fucks to give. PUA is just a bunch of scam artists and their m…
/r/MGTOW18/04/16 09:18 PM
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To be clear, I don't mean morally wrong, just skillfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:33 PM
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In TRP terms, I think ugly guys who don't show value well probably see it. I think the reason I don't see it is because I know well how to build the attraction, how to move up the kino ladder, so that when it comes around to that time, they are inside begging for sex and it's really no surprise at all that "events start moving toward sex". Fundamentally, I think if you are seeing it, you are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 05:33 PM
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I get the concept, I just don't see it in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 04:35 PM
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Egalitarianism is just a catch all phrase. I have no problem saying I can act as an egalitarian feminist in the same way as I have no problem with saying I can act as an intersectional MRA. Egalitarian feminism is about equal rights but with a focus on issues pertaining to women, so barriers to women in STEM is a legitimate egalitarian feminist issue, especially since more people in STEM helps society in general. On the other side, responsible men getting shafted on custody is a legitimate inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 09:18 PM
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I am a little sick of it. My wife is fairly disabled, and so a lot of raising our child has fallen on me, especially the stuff that involves physicality. Then I myself had a large medical incident and now I'm disabled, but my disability still lets me take on a lot of the caring for our child (my problems are in the cerebellum, which is part mental part physical). My wife certainly recognizes what I do but the assumption of people from the outside is that she does it all. when we are in public an…
/r/MensRights17/04/16 03:12 AM
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Imagine a friend of yours comes up to you and is all excited and saying "Bongo, I've found this new philosophy on life that explains everything." And you're interested so you ask them for details. "You see, all my life I was raised with the idea that the only good sex partners were on Mars. Movies like Earth Girls Are Easy made me think that women on Earth weren't able to be partners." You strain out an 'okay...' not sure where this is going because you don't understand where this started. "Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 03:03 AM
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So, I agree with your title, but your post body makes no sense to me. Even in the red pill framework, if you're picking a captain, make sure you pick a good captain. Yes, if you pick badly, your ship will end up on the shoals of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 02:56 AM
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I don't think anyone involved would comfortably identify as MRA Well, define "involved" because I feel I'm involved and I'd comfortably identify as an MRA (though I think it's more clear to use "intersectional MRA" in the same way as it's better to say "egalitarian feminist"). I however did not wrap myself in MRA communities. I saw them and rejected being associated with the people, not the ideals. Red pill, I learned about it to argue against it in subs like this or ppd, mostly because I see it…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/16 12:07 PM
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This isn't really relevant to this group. For one thing, TRPers are not MRAs. Second, while I agree with the author that there is a lot, maybe even a majority of MRAs that are anti-feminist, you can find significant intersectional MRAs that are for egalitarian feminism (though not femblrism), like /r/MensLib
/r/ExRedPill16/04/16 06:19 AM
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and as an aside, how creepy does that sound, right? Not "may I see your hand" but "I want your wrist" I do this often when I'm doing D/s power exchange. Maybe it is creepy to the wrong person, but to a submissive mind, telling them that you want something and allowing them to fulfill it, gives them a huge rush to the point that stacking a lot of these requests together can induce an endogenous high (called "subspace"). Of course, when I date, I prescreen for submissive nature, so when we get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:44 AM
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However, there is no such thing as change, because time is an illusion This is a serious breakdown in your reasoning. Time is literally the measurement of the rate of change. Even if you accept that the "dimension" of time is illusory, the illusion is perceptible because of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 02:33 AM
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This isn't accurate. Jenny doesn't get "a mysterious virus" (which is only implied to be HIV) until after Forrest Jr is born. In the movie, she has a relapse in her intervenous drug addiction that is (again) implied to be the cause of her contracting the virus. In the movie, Forrest Gump only has sex with her once, which is when Forrest Jr was conceived. It's still a fucked up story, but I think this was part of what made the movie great.
/r/MGTOW14/04/16 02:14 AM
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Hmm, I looked through your submitted tab and didn't find it. Edit: nm. You meant comment, not post.
/r/MensRights13/04/16 03:47 AM
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Yes. Uh huh. Yup. Yes. Mmm-hmm. Yup. What the fuck?
/r/MGTOW13/04/16 01:57 AM
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"just be yourself" is terrible advice for young males This is terrible advice if your goal is to bang a heroic amount of HB10s, but for finding a life partner and living a happy life, it's actually pretty good for most people. But most people do not end up thinking living in a parent's basement with no hygiene and video games as your only activity is a great idea. For the most part, though, the advice is given so that young men don't compromise their identity to get a girl because people feel th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 10:28 PM
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Google glass an an iWatch are expensive, but wearing them won't get you laid. This doesn't really pass a sniff test.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 12:52 AM
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I think a major problem is that you are coming from a position of "men and women are about the same, so what are the relative differences... Oh women are better on these things" but a typical RP cover comes from a background of believing the Women Are Wonderful lie so they grew up believing that no women cheated and they are all angelic and empathetic to a fault and loving and perfect. So any evidence that even one woman spreads her legs after drinking a bunch of liquor is evidence that not all …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 11:27 PM
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Seriously you should read the stories over there. Where do you think that relationship is going? Are you going to marry her and then never have sex the rest of your life? You might think you can handle it nite but that subreddit has person upon person who thought they could handle it out that it would turn around and now they are bitter, old, and in a financially tricky situation. It's perfectly valid to find a new relationship when the sex dies in your current one.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/16 01:00 AM
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Although this is tongue in cheek, being a rapist probably won't net you more because you'll be sent to a same sex facility. If you are homosexual, then I can see this being true, but there are other downsides to being incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 07:55 PM
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Eight months so far. She's already lost sexual interest (she never wants to talk about it anymore). Are you married? Have kids? No, then dump her. Need more motivation, go ask on /r/deadbedrooms
/r/ExRedPill28/03/16 07:49 PM
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Pretty much. Because Disney movies never covered Snow White asking for hard anal, RP can't understand how to negotiate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 07:21 PM
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I really don't feel this is gendered. You really need to watch people's actions before trusting their words, regardless of if they are a man or a woman. It makes no sense to trust someone innately without them pricing they are trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 12:29 AM
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I agree that it's not good to have any person on a pedestal, but the way RP approaches these two topics in particular, the end result is that "men should not love women." This also comes up with "no oneitis" and also "men love women and children, women only love children" memes, the latter saying it's bad to love a woman because since they can't love you, if you do then they will control you. So, like with all things RP, it's reasonable on its face to not think of a woman as a perfect goddess an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 11:35 PM
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So, I want to be clear that I'm not talking about TBP, because it is an angry reaction sub and the people there are idiots (and pretty much what you are saying). I'm talking about the concept of "being RP or being BP." As I understand it, a lot of RP people deride the TRP subreddit as well because the subscribers are largely ignorant of the sidebar material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:12 PM
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What I don't really understand is what RP expects BP to be like. It's like they expect them to be the brainwashed over-feminized men who believe that Women Are Wonderful that they were before they turned to RP. But those kinds of people are not the norm either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:53 PM
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Purple isn't a choice. It's red or blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:23 PM
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Oh absolutely. I'm not a socially retarded aspie, so I can see that the red pill is full of shit. It's not all false, though. Like any good cult, it starts with crumbs of reality. It's just that they take it into crazy town.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:14 PM
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I'm a BP man and I do BDSM play in the bedroom as a dominant only (I have trauma from when I was younger that makes a submissive role not palatable to me). This includes setting rules, and administering punishment to submissives that have poor compliance, and instructing my partners in how to please me. Sex itself is generally pretty primal with me controlling the actions. In my regular life, I'm very assertive and use light domination often to affect a positive outcome for myself. I really don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 07:43 PM
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Meh, a luxury of being an older man is not really caring if people think you are creepy or not and there certainly isn't any shortage of women in their 20s wanting to be with a guy near 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 07:26 PM
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I'm going to post in the shit posting corner since it's a question for RP and I'm BP. I've been off and on dating a rich woman. I like dating her because she books expensive hotels fur us to fuck around in and treats me well. It's just something she likes to do and it's nice to be treated. However, this has no bearing on my actual attraction for her. The fact that she booked a penthouse room for us does not make me hard for her, her nice as and her ability to act as a submissive is what turns me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:16 PM
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Society determines the trend, not the individual. You example about gay men is like asking why there are chubby chasers. Different people have their own individual likes. But overall, a majority trend does emerge. And it's different in different societies, so there is something more at play than an innate natural preference. As far as SI putting fat women on the covers, SI choses the women they do because of social norms, but this is a case of art imitating life imitating art imitating life. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:27 PM
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I recently dated a woman 15 years younger than me. I was amazed as how fast she could move, could walk far etc. When you get older, your body does get worse. You don't want to do as much or you want to take more rests while doing things. On top of that, some people get jaded as they get older, and don't care to do the things they've done before while a younger woman approaches experiences like they are new, which is very fun to see these things through their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 02:33 PM
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The main thing is that this isn't "pay", it's prize money, and prize money is only a part of the motivating factor in most competitive sports. I'd venture male players get a lot more when you factor in endorsements and appearances.
/r/MensRights21/03/16 05:45 PM
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Well, I was using the setup in the post, where Jack approaches the women in descending order. Doing this will guarantee the best result, but it can only be done if you are approaching and choosing the order (and you assume that looks can give you an accurate ordering). It's true that there is nothing truly stopping Jill from approaching, but there are social norms against it. You are talking about was ought to be, but the post is discussing what is. On top of that, I've been approached by women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:30 PM
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anyone paying attention to him will see the game he's playing I went through a phase where I used to pick up and sleep with women from bars for a while. I used to worry about this, that if I get shot down, all the women in the bar would magically know. But the truth is that the music is so loud that no one else has any idea what you are talking about, and if you keep your body posture happy-go-lucky when you leave the woman and don't push to the point where it's a scene, then you'll never get an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:20 PM
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One of my thoughts is that there is a risk for Jill that Jack doesn't have. It's the same thing as when they pick contestants on The Voice or any other system where you pick what you think might be the best from a stream of instances: you might pick something and have something better come later. There are actually algorithms designed to maximize your expected value if you know the size of the stream (iirc, it's pick the heightest of the first ln instances then the first one that beats that). Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 02:27 PM
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Hypergamy and Polygamy: "Girls prefer quality in guys, and have good standards, and if they find a higher quality man, they will trash their commitment for even a one night stand, especially while on vacation." AFBB: "Girls prefer the muscular, handsome, charming guy for a one night stand or just fooling around, but go for the stable, secure, dad type for marriage. I mean, it's better to have lots of fun before you settle down. Once you settle down with that guy, don't fuck him and still look fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:57 AM
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I didn't think they were common in this sub. Asktrp, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 02:22 PM
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Seems pretty flawed that she didn't go through with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:49 PM
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I personally found it was way better in my 30s than in my 20s. First of all, the women in their 20s will date you, and some of them even have a preference for that kind of age gap. On top of that while a lot of the good looking women have disappeared (either paired up or peared out), the same is true for guys. Plus if you really have your shit together, then it's a huge advantage, as a lot of women are tired of dating guys that panned out to assistant manager at McDonald's, and they aren't naive…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 03:26 PM
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A crotch rocket death trap? Good luck, OP.
/r/MGTOW13/03/16 03:17 PM
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I think it generally depends on the woman. I think for an ultrarick celebrity, it can be liberating, especially Kim Kardashian. She's basically had her naked form released against her will and that can be pretty traumatizing. Other celebrities are in constant fear of having a nip slip or brittany getting out of a car moment. So, releasing the photos on your own terms can be very liberating. For one thing, it devalues the concept of the photos so that you aren't going to be hounded as much. For o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 07:49 PM
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considering my comment is a refutation of the statement that PUA doesn't work, I think you didn't understand what I wrote at all. The basic post was 1) it's sexist to assume when don't care about personality. 2) I developed my own style and saw some of that in the online PUA material. I also saw a lot of snake oil. It's easy to distinguish when you know from experience what works. 3) even as an attractive guy, if I didn't talk to women or worried too much about taking action, nothing would happe…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/16 02:53 PM
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Yeah, I understand that you think it's that way, and maybe some people are like that, but one other thing is that blue isn't really a thing. It just means not red. There's no bluepill doctrine and the bluepill subreddit was made just to make fun of redpillers. Most people on the "other" side aren't even close to that, they just don't buy into the idea that women are mental teenagers and have no agency. It's not tumblrism to think that people who believe in those things that have gone off the dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 12:53 AM
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I think a lot of it is that it becomes obvious after a time that people are RP because of shitty events in their past (typically upbringing) and there's really little point in trying to argue against a person who has that kind of conviction. It's kind of like trying to argue a Christian out of being Christian on the internet. Then combine that with that blue pill is not an ideology but just what normal people think, and you don't have the same conviction or caring about the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 04:31 PM
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So, first of all, I'm pretty sure you will find people objecting to those programs. The more specific they are, the greater the objection. For example the subsidized meals is a lot more controversial than public education in general. So let's just talk about public education for a second. People don't have this same objection because most people have already benefited from public education. Even if you don't have kids, you probably went to public school yourself. There's also this larger concept…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:53 PM
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That sounds made up. There's nothing that shows that children of ivf patients have trouble conceiving or have evolutionary problems. Besides, it fails the definition. If everyone used ivf, it doesn't mean everyone has to use ivf, so the majority would be genetically viable, just like now. I dunno, this whole list seems specious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:40 PM
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Why wouldn't they be well adjusted and thriving from ivf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 09:53 PM
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It's important to note that your link doesn't claim that pink was the color for boys, just that "before this, pink and blue did not hold any gender specific connotations and there are numerous examples of men wearing pink outfits and girls wearing blue" (emphasis added). And this is totally unsurprising as in those days orchard for the children were largely driven by the parents and marketing and research were extremely nascent. This actually bolsters the argument even more because it used to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 11:51 AM
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Well, to me it is blatantly obvious that our romantic standards are based on this fairy tale ideal. I think it's hard to know if our romantic standards are based on these fairy tales or the fairy tales that survived the oral tradition appeal to our basic desires for romantic standards. It's like girls toys being pink, I used to think that made girls like pink more, but in attempting to raise my daughter with more gender neutrality, it's become clear that companies make the toys pink because that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 09:08 PM
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I once caught a raccoon and, even though I sang beautifully, all it did was shit on my laundry. Turns out All Woodland Creatures Are Like That.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 08:45 PM
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It kind of depends. I feel that if you exclusively have an interest in American football (something considered "manly") then that's also bad. It's not because it's nerdy, it's because people like to have common ground. So, you can really like a music scene, or a genre of films and then maybe find a girl who also is into that and you can talk about Tarantino's style over the ages. If you don't have common interests, then what are you going to talk about? So, really, it's not about worth. Your hob…
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 09:50 PM
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I need to do to guarantee So, first of all, there is no guarantee. I'm good looking, wealthy, confident, have interesting stories about my life around the world, and have a kit if experience with women. When I was first starting out dating, I'd pretty much put it to one in fifty dates working out on both sides. I've gotten better at "prescreening" in text before a date to where I feel it's more like one in three. So, just get it out of your head that you can guarantee anything or in the off chan…
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 07:44 PM
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Hm, I think that most women have lots and lots of men they can pick from, though. And when he doesn't behave to your liking you can guilt-trip him or make false rape accusations, abuse him as you like without any social repercussions. So, this is pretty concerning that you have this attitude about women. It's like a woman having the attitude that if a date goes bad with a man, he can just beat or rape her and then deny it happened or that she wanted it and have few social repercussions. The fact…
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 05:00 PM
2

There are certainly more options than "gorgeous" and "so ugly you can't get it up." Although, that other guy was suggesting you date an acid burn victim. While there's nothing inherently wrong with that, I agree that dating someone you aren't attracted to at all isn't a good idea
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 04:42 PM
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Good sex is partly mediated through looks. If there is a correlation, I've found it's inverse.
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 04:11 PM
3

I feel like the role women take in society makes it easy for them - just use your body to lure any guy in, there's no shyness that has to be overcome and stuff... I, on the other hand, have to be good looking AND perfectly sociable AND have the exact hobbies that match her taste So let me ask you, do you really think most men would just accept a woman because she's attractive? I'm nut taking about for a night of sex,I mean a relationship, living with her for potentially the rest of his life when…
/r/ExRedPill29/02/16 04:09 PM
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Hippies eat meat, so I don't get what you're taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:16 AM
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I think the problem is that it's not clear what your definition of degenerate is. It just looks like you compiled a list of things you think are weird. I personally can't think of a definition of degeneracy that includes vegetarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:15 AM
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I've noticed this idea as well. It's very frustrating to me because I've been raped, and I'm rather glad I'm alive.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 02:15 AM
0

The south
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 06:12 PM
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My comments are part of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 05:29 PM
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This version is a little hostile, which might not be good fur a work environment. The first one at least feigns a little empathy.
/r/MGTOW26/02/16 05:06 PM
2

My wife still puts on full makeup when we go to the grocery store. He statement is that she doesn't want to run into someone from my work (It dies happen often) and then make me look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:52 PM
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They are specific questions, but the thread if topic is rejecting guys at camping festivals because of your period. While it's clear that you haven't rejected a guy due to your period, I would say your experience is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:45 PM
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Did you ever have sex with someone (presumably a long term partner you went to the festivals with) while on your period at one of these?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:24 PM
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The smaller ones I am not going to name because of personal identity, but the largest is Burning Man. If you want a shower, you or your camp needs to set it up and deal with the grey water. (Usually through evaporation). There are many regionals based on that event with the same trouble. Bonnaroo is another where you don't really have your own shower, but there is a shower vendor. Still you need to go from your tent to vendor row all bloodied up... It's enough to give a pause. Perhaps you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 02:12 PM
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Something I've observed is that Peele ego take to TRP have, before it, an extreme of the nature of women, the Women Are Wonderful effect. So TRP needs to replace that extreme view with another. If you have a more normal upbringing/view of women. The other thing is that TRP kind of tells men that they have been shit. So, telling them this while simultaneously saying that all women are shit too makes it easier to take the news that eating cheetos in a basement isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 08:27 AM
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I find this to be pretty accurate to my experience. Actual Manson does talk a little but about this in Models. Basically he says you need to show vulnerability to attract a woman. Showing her that you desire her is a form of vulnerability, and it sets a lot of women at ease. TRP is obsessed with the 9 or 10 party/club women who get constantly hit on and think they have golden vaginas. These would actually be the female equivalent of bad boy Chad. So TRP does give great advice in how to hook up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 06:00 AM
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For what it's worth, it's pretty common at camping festivals (where there's no showers, etc) for women on their period to reject guys during the festival because of it. It doesn't really make sense in normal life, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 01:49 AM
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I think it's good to be aware of this because if you aren't, then you could be tricked into allowing the discussion to be shifted. So instead of playing word games, you can focus on the actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 03:35 PM
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I'm not an entomologist and I'm not really qualified to answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 03:16 PM
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This has nothing to do with the pills. If this kind of thing interests you, look at /r/tumblrinaction. Basically, if "they" want to redefine racism as what was called "institutional racism" then I'm fine with that. The basic idea is that if a black person says to me "I'm going to string you up, whitey" then I'm afraid in the moment, but if I say "I'm going to string you up, nigger" to a black person, then my statement has more impact because of the history of violence towards blacks. I'm not jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:30 PM
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I'm going to vote no. Just because a person is beneath you, doesn't mean they aren't good for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 05:13 AM
3

I thought "Reddit jail" was hilarious. "Oh no. I can't earn my karma. How am I going to keep my roof over my head"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:41 PM
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Yes, I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:52 PM
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Models has sections explicitly denouncing Red Pill "truths. Narcissistic men usually do this by conjuring up all sorts of false beliefs about the inferiority or difference of women — how women are incapable of rationality, how they’re “hypergamous,” how they manipulate men, how women are destined to be dominated and controlled. It’s all bullshit, but these men use it as a justification for their overcompensation to put them at ease in their own self-absorption. Models is definitely an alternativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:41 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. But as a resource for young men who don't understand how to date, I think it's a good start and hopefully they will move on from there to be more integrated. I do find that blue pillers lose sight of how divorced from normal social interaction the typical red pill acolyte is, and that they really do need some kind of help. I'm not really in three mind set of writing a help book, so I think referring to Models is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:26 PM
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I meant as an alternative to red pill. Overall, the book is kind of explaining male/female interactions to a social retard, which is essentially what red pill novices need. It's not very useful to people who have actual social experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:56 PM
2

What is wrong with Mark Manson's Models?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 04:05 PM
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The robots of reddit are in full force today, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:42 PM
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So your analogy doesn't make a lot of sense. She didn't leave her husband, she was cheating on him. If you got a second job and then when you decided you wanted to quit your second job, that new employer said they would tell your other employer you were stealing so you'd be fired from your first job too, then that would be extortion and it wouldn't be moral either. As a person in that position, I'd say the best thing would be to find a whole new third job, but really that action is outside of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 11:20 PM
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I think you have enough typos in your comment that I'm not sure what you are saying. But it was part of your job description, so why did you leave your old job?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:39 PM
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Maybe because I live in the south, but it's pretty common here for the cops to pick the guy up and related him the next day. So, the woman needs to be willing to spend the night packing her shit up and going to a half way house to be safe. It's even more difficult if there are kids involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:24 PM
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I was wondering about OPs stance on blackmail. I know a woman who was blackmailed into staying in a relationship for over a year and a half by her lover who threatened to tell her husband about them. I just feel like after that, any time they got together, it was like rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:20 PM
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I'm not an entomologist, so I don't really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:19 PM
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Women don't have rights over their reproduction, they have rights over their body. A fetus is adoriegn person inside their body that us taking from the woman. If the woman didn't consider to this, it's perfectly reasonable that she can have that person surgically removed. This usually kills the fetus, but oh well. If it could survive on it's own, it's welcome to do so. That's the moral agreement, the law is even more restrictive, because if the woman decides after 24 weeks that she didn't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 04:14 PM
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I think it's very sexist to say that game doesn't work at all. Basically saying that is saying that women don't find personality important in any way when selecting a partner. So game works, to an extent. I guess what you are saying here us that game is not done great equalizer. You aren't going to use NLP to amass a harem of Victoria Secret models. That's certainly not true. As for your numbers, I'm a little surprised. When I was in my man slut phase (I grew out of it, it's really not all that …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/16 03:03 AM
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I'm reading through it now. I thought this was an interesting quote, especially for something red pill us supposed to laud: Narcissistic men usually do this by conjuring up all sorts of false beliefs about the inferiority or difference of women — how women are incapable of rationality, how they’re “hypergamous,” how they manipulate men, how women are destined to be dominated and controlled. It’s all bullshit, but these men use it as a justification for their overcompensation to put them at ease …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 12:06 AM
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I was getting pick up artists mixed up. Mystery. Mark Manson. A bunch of Ms
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 11:25 PM
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So, I read this ebook recommended by another comment in this thread, and it talked some about models and I'm not really sure that what I said really is the same thing. Like, I never said if you have sex in the first seven hours it's a "fools mate" (whatever that means). And I didn't talk about rehersing scripts and other nonsense. So, it just kind of seems like you are picking what you want out of Models and saying I'm saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:32 PM
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Well, that's not what those words mean, but thanks for trying, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:28 PM
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Oh, I thought that there would be someone so socially inept that they wouldn't understand that there's a middle ground, and I thought you were parodying that person. My apologies for the mistake, I often forget that red pill people generally don't understand normal adult interaction. The answer to "which is it?" is, of course, "neither, you've created a false dichotomy". Not being overt is not denying your desire for sex, it just means don't grab your cock and say "me want sucky sucky." You need…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:02 PM
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I'm guessing sarcasm? So much Poe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 05:49 PM
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One guy from blue pill said it without thinking about a loser neckbeard. I prefer to say "be true to yourself" but you are right, you need to be better. You can be into anime and star wars, etc, but don't be boring about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:31 PM
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Can't comment as I've never read models, but I do have an acquaintance with pick up. I actually found my (successful) interactions with women were largely formulaic and went online to see if anyone else noticed the same thing. So I found PUA and a lot if what they said was actually right. But a lot if it wasn't and the whole field seemed largely geared towards selling desperate men a snake oil. To be clear, no one is saying that some if the stuff in TRP isn't real. What we are saying is that not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:14 PM
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Confident but kind. Realize that you are both human, that WaW is a total fabrication, and that you both have something to bring to each other and then work with women to figure out what that is. Take initiative in meeting women and adding them out, and when you do go out with them, test the waters of attraction by touching her and going for the kiss, but if she pulls back at all, just consider it an incompatibility and move on. Be honest about your desire to have sex, but don't be overt and cras…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 02:59 PM
1

Maybe you misunderstood me. You said that all women should be AWALT because it's better for them and society. So maybe in that subreddit, they could talk about that. But I'm asking if men should be AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:31 PM
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Is that a trait that is exclusive to women? Seems like men should be AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:18 PM
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For which one? For scientology, it's that we're all reincarnated from souls that can to earth to escape the galactic overload Xenu, and that common maladies are caused by weakened souls (called body thetans) that can be "exorcized" through a costly psychic procedure that only the church can administrate. For RP, it's the AWALT/all women are emotionally stunted teenagers/divorce rape only result from marriage/no such thing as love/afbb nonsense
/r/ExRedPill05/02/16 07:59 PM
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Interesting read. I've in the past noted that TRP has similarities to scientology where it starts with some solid good advice that makes it so that the later crazy stuff is a bit more palatable. The thing is though, that because it's not really a centralized cult, exposure to the crazy can often come really early, exposing them for what they are up front.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/16 11:04 PM
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I would think it's reasonable to expect anyone who has invited you into their home for any reason (or if they are a guest in yours) If some random person invited me into their home, I would have zero expectation that they were nice. In most cases, I'd be on my guard wondering what they want from me, and I probably would not go into their home. Likewise, if I invited a random person from the street into my home, I don't think I can have any reasonable assumption about their behavior. However, onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 04:28 AM
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It's wrong to expect it. If you wanted niceness, you should have been sure he was nice before you had sex. It's totally unreasonable to, say, grab a random homeless person, fuck them, then expect them to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 04:22 AM
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Do you consider a hooker to be socializing? No, she's working. At best it's networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 03:55 PM
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And that young man's name? Oh damn, it is Albert Einstein
/r/MGTOW02/02/16 02:15 PM
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It's an example of trying to leave crazy town.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:58 PM
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People keep pointing this out, but they obviously haven't watched the video I linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:58 PM
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There are right things in scientology. That doesn't mean our soul ancestors came to earth to avoid the galactic overlord Xenu. I know I don't "try so hard to prove everything redpill says wrong" so this comes across like strawmanning. In fact, I think there are a lot if good things in trp, but it often takes the hard left into crazy town. Even it's followers have diluted the message. They used to mean All Women Are (Actually) Like That. New they mean All Women have the possibility to be Like Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:11 PM
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It's a bottoming act and has nothing to do with power exchange at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 09:17 PM
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No one was in danger. If she said no and asked to go home, of course he would have taken her home. It's just that she won't say no because of the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:47 PM
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Both the RP and BP mods are idiots and they don't give a damn about this sub, so I don't see how that would accomplish much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 12:06 AM
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So if a man says he's having a Guys Night Out, is that a shit test? What is the TRP problem with girls night out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 06:54 PM
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I'm "not red" but I think I don't get along with blue in my feeling that power imbalance is not only there, but fun to play with. I generally am a dominant in my relationships to submissives, and I do wonderful things with them. As for the other side "it must be equal". I just say the platinum rule trumps the golden one. The idea that you want it equal doesn't mean your partner wants it equal. I know women who are lost, completely and totally lost, without the guidance of a dominant. So you do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 02:10 PM
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Ok, this is kind of retarded. Next time people ask me about me, they can just go fuck themselves. It's like what the fuck did I say that made you think I was trying to change your mind on anything. Hey, /u/Methodless, your question was genuine, but go fuck yourself for asking a married man about him in a MGTOW forum. Next time pm me, dumbass.
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 02:57 AM
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No shit? Maybe read my whole comment and apply context in a way that passes the Turing test. Then it'll make sense.
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 01:43 AM
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We've I married since 2006, dating since 2003. When is it supposed to happen? Also, Florida is no fault. I divorced once before. Cost me $3500. 500 for the lawyer, $3000 because we had gained $6000 in home equity
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 01:41 AM
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Pretty much how I feel. I also see men being shitty. I actually feel AWALT is a disadvantageous idea because it makes people think that been are trust worthy in, say, terms of a business deal. But I had a contractor rip me off $10k last year. You can't just go All People Are Like That and expect to live. But you also can't go around trusting everyone implicitly based on gender. You need to figure out who the good people are and who the bad ones are.
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 12:48 AM
-2

Not for nothing, but people asked me about me. I didn't come in here saying "hey everyone be poly and the world is yours". Actually I rarely recommend poly to people because it does take stuff to handle it well. My wife accepting it wasn't luck but me having it as a standard for our relationship. Honestly I know poly people for days so it's just not rare in my lifestyle. Yet, monogamy is certainly the norm, and I think what most can handle. It just always bothers me when people say that I'm luck…
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 12:43 AM
-1

I guess it depends on AWALT. I certainly do not buy into the WaW effect. I never was raised that way, and while I believe some people think that, I just don't. I've seen women doing exactly what the worst of red pill describes. But, it's just not all women are like that. I can find these submissive partners, but it's a certain kind of woman that will go into power exchange with a married guy. I just know how to filter out the women not like that and hone in on those that are compatible to me. Bu…
/r/MGTOW17/01/16 08:55 PM
-3

I kind of thought someone might ask, and actually in a little way, I hoped someone did. So, it's a little hard to explain. If you look at my posting you'll see I argue against red pill a lot. So I'm familiar with these concepts thought there. Maybe I'm picking and choosing, but I kind of like the MGTOW philosophy. I don't believe in the AWALT stuff, or things I consider hating women for hating women's sake. But at the same time, I highly respect the idea of a man owning himself and setting his p…
/r/MGTOW17/01/16 05:57 PM
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Ambivelent is not the right word. If you are ambivalent about other men's cocks, you are a likely in the closet out of self hatred. I think you probably meant "apathetic".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 11:47 AM
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I'm one of the people who said he would date a rape victim (again). First, I'd like to officially say I would not date a dead body, so, yeah, murder is worse. However, I think everyone should have their standards. I think that the person responding to you is doing this thing I see often where they hear a person has a standard that excludes them and immediately says "well, I'm the most awesome me there is, so they must be a total schmuck to pass." I understand the appeal of that thinking, but I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 11:41 AM
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I'm married. Happily married. I'm not on the mgtow path y'all are on. But I'm stopping in to say that number 2 certainly runs deeply true. It's part of the responsibility I bare in my relationship and I accept it and deal with it in my own ways. But I can also understand the choice to eschew it.
/r/MGTOW17/01/16 10:03 AM
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I don't know where you are getting your figures from, but that's not been my experience at all. I've dated 23 women seriously in my time and 4 have claimed to be raped, plus I've had friends who were raped. Thing is: I've been raped, when I was six, a teen guy used to fuck me in the ass. But what I've seen is that most people are like me, it's an event that happened and it's in the past. It shapes some of how we approach things but it doesn't come close to defining who we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 02:35 PM
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I have and I would again. It's not really a big deal in my experience. I even dated a girl that was gang raped and hit in the head with a base ball bat twice, causing her to pass out with a concussion, and the mri showed a brain injury. She still suffered from PTSD, but was one of the more fun women I've dated in a while. The thing is, don't get too sucked into their trauma. They can handle it and they usually want to be snapped out of it, not have you cry and say you're sorry. Edit: I don't thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:40 AM
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it's described in both vague and clinical terms. What did he do, exactly? Why doesn't she say "he hit me" or "he shoves me" or whatever it was? If you believe the "Autism" diagnosis, then this really isn't all that surprising. You are trying to look at it from an NT lens. I find few NTs can actually do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:14 PM
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I buy this because I'm pretty lazy and a man. And I sit to pee. Unless it's a urinal, I'm like "why the fuck should I stand?"
/r/MGTOW14/01/16 07:26 PM
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I'm half you think that, but it's not what he said. He's pretty bad about this, giving what seems like general advice but it really only works for bf/gf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:23 AM
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So I came into this topic actually fully expecting to completely agree with you. However, the problem is you picked the wrong model. the fact is that this is not hypocritical. Because it affords the same protections to mail gigolos be they gay or straight the same as it does to females. And has the same punishments towards female Johns as it does towards Male Johns. is not hypocritical because the punishments are defined by role. And the roles are different. I personally prefer the model where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 12:08 AM
0

Nah, they're a bunch of pansy little bitches there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 07:48 PM
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Also women like it when you physically pick them up. Anyone reading this shit advice: don't do this if you aren't sure. Even if they are young, they can have medical shit that makes this very uncomfortable, and they will act like they like it at the time, but inside they will be thinking of ways to avoid you. Always be sure this a logical step in touching progression and that you know any possible issues they have. I've been a part of the security force for a lot of charitable events that are se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 06:28 PM
1

I agree with this in my experience. I've been tight and a little beefy, not like muscle bound, but certainly nice. Women would stop me in bars and have me flex while they feel the muscle and shit. But... I call them "looky loos". They aren't really interested, they just want to see a free circus side show. I get way more attention now with my dad bod (became disabled, long story) than I did then. I'm still attempting to figure it out but the overall thing I'm getting is that women just feel I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 06:22 PM
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Just to point out another difference there, when you tell the woman to lose weight, she takes great offense and often blames you for being a shit. If a guy gets that, he'll consider improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 06:19 PM
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Because in general, they aren't self reflective enough to describe it and their needs are generally more complex than men. I feel even I have complex needs but they boil down to "be good looking in some ways," "be charming," and "be available and certainly don't play hard to get because the 20 available girls in my kik will just step into your spot, and I'll let them."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 06:13 PM
5

Just to add to /u/ryeshoes, SPY is a major index fund. It is a stock you invest in that tracks the S&P500. The manager of the fund keeps it balanced in the year, and they get deep discounts on their trades, so it's a lot more easy than doing it yourself. You do pay a fee (IIRC 0.5% is extracted from the Net Asset Value on an APY), but if you did it yourself, your trade fees and frustration would be way way higher. There's one for a bunch of different things, like the Dow Jones or the Nasdaq, but…
/r/MGTOW09/01/16 06:03 PM
1

Disagree. The thread is not about asking once, it's about asking over and over. And even if Megan Fox were doing an annoying thing, it only gets forgiven so far. But something that is important is that there can be balance. There are some annoying things my wife does; she does the "are you ok" thing but instead it's "what's the matter" which is more annoying, but her mom does it to, so I realize it's a learned trait. But it's balanced by the legitimately good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 03:21 PM
1

He's not being ironic. It's just that his area is in bizzaro world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 04:57 AM
2

I want to make something very clear. There's a lot of confusion about this. I am a Dominant. I participate in a kink called Domination and submission, often referred to as D/s. And it has nothing to do with whips or chains. Whips are Sadism and Masochism, chains are Bondage. They are part of a greater set of kinks called BDSM or Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. History lesson: a long time ago there was no D/s, it was just BDSM, and the D/s elements were part of Discipline. But it's bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:10 AM
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even if it does miss the point Actually, I'm afraid you miss the point. The point is about how men feel about the rape campaign. The overall point is it's offensive and needs to be redone to achieve any goals. Women feeling bad because they feel responsibility has been put on them does not excuse making men feel badly.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 07:43 PM
1

I haven't seen that series before. I can't say that relate to Victor much, but I did understand when he said that the feeling of being on testosterone the first time was euphoric. I had a feeling of "so much makes sense, now" when I was on the treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 10:24 AM
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It used to be that a hard working steel man could provide for his family and make a good pension. Nite the factory closes and moves to Mexico because of NAFTA. Middle class back then could afford some of the new fine things in life. Walt Disney designed Disneyland to be the place that a middle class American can take his whole family too. Henry Ford paid a fair wage so his workers could afford his cars. Now, the middle class needs a credit card or auto loan for both. It's just entirely a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:14 PM
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I don't watch a lot of non-competitive reality tv (How is Survivor in the same category as Real Housewives). But I do watch one mainly because the women are so hot and they have this male womanizer that I relate to in strange ways. It's called Vanderpump Rules, and it's mostly about a restaurant owned by Lisa Vanderpump and the young dumb and full of cum wait and bar staff. In the beginning if the show, they acted a lot like TRP expects, but in later seasons, they are like "holy shit, this doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:35 PM
0

I'm keen on saying that I round to male. Meaning, if there's only two choices, I'm clearly male. But I don't produce enough testosterone as an adult and likely throughout adulthood so I don't identify well with "male". It's not full on trans, but it's certainly not cis. I don't think about sex the same way at all as most men. I'm a "demisensual greysexual" so I have no problems kissing and touching people when I know them well, but some strange planetary alignment needs to happen to for me to fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 08:26 AM
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I don't think that real people are known for their catch phrases. The closest I can think of is Donald Trump "you're fired" but that was really part of a reality tv series and Trump was really kind of playing a caricature of himself. Jeff Probst "You've got to dig deep" might be another like this. Actually I did just think of Flavor Flav "Yeah, boyieee" and Snoop's "Fo Shizzle, ma nizzle" so maybe there are some. When I think of these, though, I think of ones from characters, not real people lik…
/r/becomeaman03/01/16 09:16 AM
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Does your experience show this to still be the case? I find that really interesting because it's not what I see at all. Do you live in a particularly traditionalist or religious sub-culture? I do find this to be the case and I live in the South. The city I live in isn't rural, but it certainly isn't metropolitan either. There's a good chance that it's a mainstream view, rather than challenging or going against or balancing out the mainstream view. I don't think it's challenging, but I do think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 10:54 PM
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I know very much what you mean as I live my life the same way. I only wash my (long) hair once a week, and shower three times a week and I have no problem with oil build. But, like I said, endogenous oils are only half the problem. If I spill spaghetti sauce on me, I'm using more than water to clean it. And I still wouldn't go to nothing. I have done it in camping situations (using baby wipes for spot cleaning for a few weeks) and it's doesn't work as well as soap and water.
/r/MGTOW02/01/16 10:44 PM
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These statements aren't made in a vacuum. I'm not going rail on about privilege or gendernormativity or whatever, but generally, men do run the show in relationships and without some kind of tempering, we can go a little to far in self servicing. Doing this can make a woman feel abused, run over, and unappreciated, which can lead to them losing attraction and then the relationship is over. So these kinds of jokes occur because it's more important for the unit of marriage as a whole that the husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 06:37 PM
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I guess it comes down to this sentence: you are trying to suggest that TRPers are virgins Which I interpreted as you are trying to suggest that all TRPers are virgins But you may have meant you are trying to suggest that some TRPers are virgins And it's also clear that it's not the virginity, but the TRP that makes it fine to mock their virginity, but the virginity, the TRP, and their advocacy, which you never mentioned, so I'm going to go with, "no, no it doesn't"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 01:31 PM
1

Actually, my comment doesn't say that at all. If it did, I would agree with you on that last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:40 AM
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You don't actually need soap and shampoo to shower water is enough but using it makes you dependent This is just not true. Water and oil are not soluble to each other, so pouring water on oily skin week not remove the oil. The prior if soap is that one half of the molecule is oil soluble, the other half water soluble. So it kind if sticks into both mediums and allows the oil to be washed away. If you use less soap, your skin with produce less oil, but endogenous oil is not the only factor in bei…
/r/MGTOW02/01/16 12:54 AM
2

I once had a guy try to sell me on Amway. He told me how rich I was going to be as soon as I set up my down lines, and trained then all to pull in money for me. I'd be sitting on easy street. Thing is that he drove a 10 year out of date piece of shit car with obvious need of body work. Is it wrong to shame a person simply because they have a shitty car. I personally think so. A lot of friends in my life have had beater cars that get them from A to B and that's just give for them. Maybe no A/C in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 12:31 AM
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I have the same complaint about college aged women. I have dated some, and even right now I have a 23 year old "plate", but I do require them to be exceptional in some ways or I can't stand their petty talk about their petty lives. Generally, they aren't exceptional. That question was kind of a non-starter because I thought you were a woman who dated men. Generally women even older than 26 have no interest in seeking college aged guys because they are moron losers. In general, there's just nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 11:54 PM
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Are you relying to the right thread? Very little what you say lines up with what I said. Like, I didn't say middle aged and in college. I said college aged and middle class. Edit: when you said "Lady, throughout college, I paid for my own education." I thought you were saying you were a lady in your college age. I thought it was a little weird. I guess you thought I was a lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 10:29 PM
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I find it very weird how you can get anything you wrote out of what I said. As in, I just don't understand how you get anything you think I said from what I actually said. I never said that losers are people who take out loans. But a person who has nothing but a mountain of debt is a loser. Like I said right here, they have potential, but they are a loser. One they actualize their potential they may not be a loser anymore. That guy talking about the blog her's going to start and make so much mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:08 PM
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You know, I don't really get why you're so pissed. I said revenue and I meant revenue. When you say I don't understand basic financial concepts and terminology, it kind of shows in my comments that I do, so I don't understand where that comes from. I'm sure you're not really curious and just want to rip into me for kind of no good reason, but the profit was wildly varying from a few dozen thousand to several dozen thousand, but the revenue was consistently pretty high, so there's no easy way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 02:00 PM
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I think by age 19 you've not really had a chance to break out of the economic climate you were born into. Empirically, I've seen this disproven. Granted, it was the dot com era. Do you think that having more money makes you a better person? No, this thread is not about the quality of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:42 PM
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Do I? Do I, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:47 AM
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It's not "at a university". It's "college aged". It's a pretty important distinction when deciphering that that combination is more likely to be a loser in life. If you still don't get it, get to 40 and then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 09:32 PM
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Thems the breaks. Either that or made their own money. Do you think being poor gives you a pass for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:51 PM
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I suppose. I didn't really go into this thread to impress anyone, just to make an observation about middle class college aged losers. I found it funny how EVOO was like "we aren't losers, we're middle class and in college" like that was supposed to impress. Then everyone got all Joker's father and analytical on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 06:20 AM
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By definition, yes. They don't even need to be college aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 06:16 AM
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I'm retired, so I amuse myself in many ways. And that's not really talking shit. If I were talking shit, I'd take the time to do it right. Edit: also, I've seen this kind of meme before, that people who are successful wouldn't be on Reddit or something. Even before I was retired, I was always on something, Slashdot, then digg and fark, then here. I never understood this thinking, and just thought it was kind of dismissive "sour grapes". The only way I can reconcile it is if people think either b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:11 AM
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It's a colloquialism for male, but "dude" has different connotations than "man" in our society. I could see even see "dude" stretched to "post pubescent male", calling a kid "little dude" in a familiar manner, but no where near synonymous with "responsible adult male". Otherwise, the title "Dude, Where's My Car" falls in it's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:55 PM
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Not really. I'm pretty sure women can be middle class and college aged too. Maybe you're talking about the dude part, but 1) I'm pretty sure that oilslick only coaches males and 2) if you are a dude and not a woman, you've got bigger problems than being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:43 PM
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You're not my supervisor!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:47 PM
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Middle class and college age together. It's simply not the definition of success. They might have potential but at that moment, they are nothing. They have nothing, they know nothing, they are nothing. The majority are there on someone else's dime, be it their parents or their future self via college loans. A few in those 400 might have been winners (I knew people in college with businesses that made millions in revenue). Hell, I had a business that made hundreds of thousands in revenue and wrot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:42 PM
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middle class college dudes Aka losers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 05:08 AM
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You know, I just don't feel like the Red Pill is some kind of anti-feminism. I think you can both believe that men are privileged in society, and feel that using game gets you laid easier. They aren't exclusive concepts. Because of that, I just don't see what gender politics has to do with this debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 04:03 PM
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Pretty much this. I had a time of ultimate weakness this year, I was completely incapacitated by 5 strokes, in a hospital bed. The nurses and orderies were ignoring my statements that I was getting worse. It took my wife throwing a bitch fit to get a doctor to check on me and realize that they weren't doing a test they should have and I was hours away from dying. Oops. Point is that leading up to that, I stayed with this woman for her ability to fight for me and wade through the shit, and many t…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/15 09:56 AM
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If I could trust my parents, it might be a different equation, but they are too passive and have a "the doctor is always right" attitude. Part of picking my wife was picking her for the ability to fight for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:03 AM
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Hmm, I only know him as the black guy on family feud. I just don't care what opinions celebrities have
/r/MGTOW21/12/15 04:21 PM
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I got married literally because if the legal protections it gives my family. In fact, if I didn't get married I would be dead now (my wife was legally allowed to advocate for me when the hospital was fucking up my care)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:19 PM
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the aunt was asking the little kids a bunch of leading questions This is actually really bad and your friend should consider taking his kids to a psychiatrist immediately. She may have gaslighted them into believing something bad happened to them, which can lead to PTSD or other anxiety disorders later in life. If I found my sister-in-law doing that to my kid, I'd probably beat the fuck out of her when I got home.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 08:59 PM
3

Don't wait for the dip (there is one now btw), just dollar cost average in. If you wait for the dip, you'll just out wait yourself. This post is a little bit of trash. I can't believe people are upvoting to stay 70% in cash. If you're 70 years old, maybe, but I'm fucking in my late 30s. I need my wealth to grow.
/r/MGTOW20/12/15 04:25 PM
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Being a motherfucking sorcerer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 05:14 PM
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You can't tell whether someone's on the spectrum by how they behave on the internet I have found this to be completely false. It's actually very easy to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 05:07 PM
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Well, at least you're noticed. I'm not sure that nobodyatnight was being literal, but I've read a lot if your posts and comments and I often feel like you blame your virginity on your disability and the way women react to it. There have been times when I want to yell "you're overthinking it" and sometimes I want to meet you to coach you into leaning into your autism to make yourself mute interesting and thus desirable. I have a lot if similar symptoms as you but I use them to an extreme advantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 04:36 PM
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I'm not even who you are responding to and I know you are on that list. And yes, I knew you did say you are on the autism spectrum at least once before (I'm neurodiverse myself, so it made an impression).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 04:20 PM
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I had a woman who was an expert at hot/cold. She drove me wild and the sex was amazing. Her physicality was out of this world and her looks stunning. But on the third cold cycle, I was like "I can't take it." and bailed complety and forever (so far). It's one of few relationships I consider toxic. Thing is that I'm exactly what she wants, rich guy, dominant yet sensual, great looking, wants kids. And she still wonders why she can't keep a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:40 AM
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Yeah, it's a total shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 11:08 PM
1

There often is no plug (my brother in law is this way). In that case all you can do is make the decision to not feed them. Since you aren't feeding them, and they aren't feeding themselves, they eventually die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:37 PM
1

Guess again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:35 PM
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Way to keep it binary, shitlord. And I guess transpenises aren't real penises in your world. Go fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:39 AM
2

The defining characteristic of personhood is consciousness. Legally, this isn't true. Even brain dead people have personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:38 AM
3

This seems empirically true to me. I was in an accident which then lead to strokes and I've not been able to work out fur over a year. My strokes also make it so that I can't long term plan so I can't set a diet (well I can, but I'll forget I'm on it an hour later). As a result I've gained 30 lbs and gone from a tight body to a dad bod. With the dad bod, I get a lot more direct compliments on my online pictures and in person. I also close a lot more, but a lot of that is due to personality chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:05 AM
1

I'm not red pill, but I thought that actions were alpha, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 02:44 PM
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Not really used to the lingo the kids use these days, huh? Eyebrows not totes on fleek?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 06:27 AM
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Two main points. The problem with RP people is that they were lied to as children. I don't know why they believed the lie, but they did. They were told "when doing target practice, don't fire your gun." So they spend years at the range and watch other guys get awards for shooting and wonder why their target papers have no holes. Eventually they find trp and it says "you need to fire a bullet in order to make a hole. All targets are like that." So they start pulling the trigger. Then they call to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 03:18 AM
1

Most males produce testoserone continuously to maintain over 500 ng/dl. I went decades without this. I appoximate a male, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 08:26 PM
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Yeah, I've drank wine with her many times before and she never raped me then. Seemed safe. Hell, her husband was there and he'd crush my head if I tried to fuck her. But she feed him wine and beer and he passed out. Please what? Be clear, not a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 08:05 PM
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I wasn't in a position to consent. In fact, I had already explicitly barred it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 08:04 PM
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Has a man ever woken up from having sex while drunk and felt violated? Yes, and before going into the details let me just express fuck you for your assumption. It's sexist shit bags like you that make being a near male harder in this society. You add nothing to a gender discussion. There's a woman I've known for a long time and while sober, we discussed having sex with each other and I especially told her that I would not do it unless my wife and her husband were involved. I clearly laid out wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 07:02 PM
3

Who the fuck are you?
/r/MGTOW23/11/15 07:22 PM
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You need a good lawyer, not a cheap one I disagree with this, you only need one that is slightly better than hers. Also, be very wary of the lawyers on both sides. Their goal is not to make you happy, their goal is to pad up their expenses. Lawyers have been known to collude to keep the couples fighting to increase their bottom line. Always be aware that your lawyer might be fucking you.
/r/becomeaman19/11/15 10:29 PM
2

I've divorced once before and got very favorable terms for the divorce. The key, really, is to control the entire outcome. Lead with what is going to happen, and make very paltry offerings sound like they are amazing for her and hard on you. If she wants more, at least she's starting from a low point. Fight on things that don't matter only to concede so that you get what does matter. Be prepared, though, that if you have kids, the family court will make the decision and reverse anything you've s…
/r/becomeaman19/11/15 10:28 PM
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For what it's worth, if he wasn't in it long, then it might not have been apparent what they are about. It's like scientology, they don't spring the freaky shit on you until you are deep in it. There actually is some good stuff in TRP, it's the stuff they use to entice people into the deeper woman hate philosophy.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/15 09:44 PM
0

It still remains that you don't understand this conversation because of your condition. You need to seek help. /r/aspergers
/r/MensRights17/11/15 10:37 AM
0

I'm not talking about genetics, I'm taking about your aspergers and the fact that you don't understand what I'm saying. Also, there's a difference between being the moron in the moment and being a perpetual moron. You're just a moron in this moment.
/r/MensRights17/11/15 05:17 AM
1

People are always asking me that. Just today the lady at social security was like "Why can't you work?"
/r/MensRights17/11/15 02:30 AM
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That sounds made up and not relevant. I understand you're being autistic. I get it, I'm neuro-diverse myself. But in this case, you're being the moron. /r/aspergers
/r/MensRights17/11/15 01:58 AM
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Oops. Towards. Thanks for the link. I always wonder about some of these words my phone picks for me. I mean, Ta-ku, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 04:49 PM
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I guess so. I have a neurological condition and don't really understand what you're saying.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 04:48 PM
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It's not sex, but the attitude tuatara sex, and that attitude then gets reflected in the number of partners. Correlation but not causation. If your attitude towards sex (and related, towards intimacy) is to extreme, you might be a hard partner to be with. I say this as a man with an extreme attitude towards sex and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 02:35 PM
0

No matter what you do in a struggle with a government official, you've not only broken the law, you've committed a felony. Um, no. You can use the bureaucracy against them. It kinda strikes me ( especially from your second paragraph) that you don't have much life experience. Sad to see that.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 12:25 PM
1

Tight hold. Now what?
/r/MensRights16/11/15 12:12 PM
0

Might be your neurological condition. But to make it simple, don't break the law to attack government officials. It rarely ends well.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 01:09 AM
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Didn't seem like asking.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 01:07 AM
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I don't know about New York turtle soup, but there are many cases of people actually being prosecuted for "wire tapping" in similar situations. The fact that it's a government official makes it even more risky in this "post nine eleven world"
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:18 PM
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No one here is telling him to do that. They just say record and don't care. Maybe you can send the recording anonymously and cover your tracks, but we don't know this kid's technical ability. And if they do get an investigation opened, he would be questioned by the police and you are saying "hey, just don't crack under interrogation." I'm sure I could do that, but I don't really know if a junior in high school can. Fact is, this is just incomplete shitty advice.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:16 PM
1

Yeah, more, but not really "a lot" more. I guess I always felt my English grades were very consistent with what I expected and my math ones were all over the place (though, once I had "proved" myself to a teacher, they'd be consistently high, higher than I feel I sometimes deserved)
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:05 PM
0

In a perfect world run by autists, you are right. In reality, you are wrong.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:02 PM
1

You're not my supervisor
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:01 PM
1

Felony does not imply federal in the US.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:00 PM
2

There's a lot more subjectivity in English than Math grading. People think this but I've actually found isn't all that true. When I was going up there is this whole thing where you would have to show your work. So you could get a problem correct but incomplete so you would get one point out of three. Even if you showed a lot of work they can say that you missed steps in what you showed, and if you had a bunch of correct steps but then came to the final wrong answer, two different students could …
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:41 PM
3

I know we all want this guy to fight our personal holy war for us, but really it's not in his best interest to take this fight to her until he is graduated.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:37 PM
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I agree with waiting, though statute of limitations might apply. I took my sweet time in university
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:35 PM
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ONLY DO THIS IF YOU ARE IN A ONE PARTY STATE. OTHERWISE, IT MAY BE A FELONY, EVEN IF IT'S A PUBLIC SCHOOL CLASSROOM.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:29 PM
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ONLY DO THIS IF YOU ARE IN A ONE PARTY STATE. OTHERWISE, IT MAY BE A FELONY, EVEN IF IT'S A PUBLIC SCHOOL CLASSROOM.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:29 PM
3

I'm heavily into SSC BDSM and D/s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 03:55 PM
1

You started off good, but went into crazy town quickly. No woman should have full control over a relationship and any man who concedes it deserves the hell he'll get.
/r/MGTOW10/11/15 02:43 AM
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I overheard some twenty-nothing girls taking to each other. One of them said she just wanted a man who was "all about [her]". I really doubt if she had such a man, that she would find him attractive.
/r/MGTOW10/11/15 02:38 AM
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