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| 2 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.If you're using that as an excuse to never be a good person, that's on you. I dont need to worry abt that, nor do i endorse men engaging in toxic behaviour over it. I only endorse healthy, safe looksmxxing to fix it That's you, implying the only bad thing a guy does is not be hot. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:36 PM |
| 2 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.LOL ye pretty much. Men and Women have both been socialized to believe that men are the visual sex while women are the emotional sex. So clearly women cant be "shallow" like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:35 PM |
| 3 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.Its only ragebait if you percieve lookism as something negative rather than a completely natural, fundamental part of us. Humans are sexually driven animals and that carries implications, ascribing morals to it is a wholly emotional construct I have no issue at all with this being the way things are, what I do have an issue with is people like you equating every discussion on it as a "narrative". If beauty is important, people should focus on becoming beautiful. Its that simple, no drama about i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.Dude these people arent even open to the possibility of it being more nuanced than their perfectly binary little worldviews. Theres literally already studies that say good looking people are automatically percieved to be good people, while the opposite also holds true. Yet they walk in talkin bout whats a myth or not based off nothing but their vibes on the matter lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womendream tjat some 25y old virgin will suddenly have his pick of young girls is pure copium For sure, 99% of young people who never work on themselves, end up never working on themselves as they get older. Or in other words if you weren't working on yourself at 20 you probably wont at 25 and therefore nothing will change for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.Idk if convenience is a metric worth considering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:53 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemTbh i thought thinking of attraction as a spectrum was purely an online thing where discourse forgets reality and turns conceptual. Irl I considered attraction to be very binary, youre either hot or not. You either think theyre cute or not. Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:20 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemThe places you frequent will attract a certain type of person. Regardless, as far as stats go, obesity is at 60%+ and climbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:19 AM |
| – | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.Subscribing to hook up culture, using online dating apps to find people to sleep with rather than to find relationships, having ONS, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 05:45 PM |
| – | If you are fine with having casual sex, then claiming “I feel love through sex” is a lie. You just want sex and wont admit it.Most people dont partake in casual sex though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemAs people look better, standards also get higher. The average man today may be good looking compared to a bloke in the 60s, thats it. I think we haven't overestimated how much looks matter ENOUGH, tbh. If every man was told to looksmaxx, Id bet this problem would disappear, or at least, be limited to people who refuse to self improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 07:19 PM |
| 6 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionuhhh youre asking for a lot of stars to align for you for that to happen mate haha Not every 40 yr old can cop someone in their 20s, but sure, technically that route is there as unfeasible as it may be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:42 AM |
| – | We need to stop pretending female sexuality is any more complex than it actually isI wonder if its worth thinking about - the fact that the same guy that might do well irl, doesn't online. I think the internet in general showcases peoples true selves, and that extends towards preferences, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:23 PM |
| 7 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionfor sure, i mean theres always the chance you can get lucky with a single childless woman but yeah, at 40 youre pretty much outta options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:35 AM |
| 3 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionEh he could 100% be right about being more attractibe at 35 than he was at 20, if you live life right, no alcohol no smokes sunscreen and eating good and work out, you may be indistinguishable from a guy in his early 20s, except youd look better from being so fit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 11:48 PM |
| 28 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionYeah if theres potential. There isn't really any potential once you're in your 40s, its practically non existent. Changing your whole life at that point wont truly matter in this specific regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 11:42 PM |
| – | Please stop telling men they are single because they lack a social life or have bad social skillsWhen he says lacking he's talking abt character/personality traits. The idea that a bum ass loser can get play if hes hot is wholly denied with total aggression in most popular reddit spaces. What the commenter youre arguing with is saying is that redditors will do anything but admit that yeah its a persons looks holding them back. Because admitting that would mean they admit incels are right about the bp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 01:44 PM |
| 5 | It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid.I think if society was brutally upfront about how much looks matter we'd have less incels. From what I've seen of lonely men seeking advice, they never really get told actionable advice that concerns their looks. I think thats a problem. This is just the tip of the iceberg though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 09:11 PM |
| 4 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withbut for me if I was told from next week the only thing in life to do was have sex … that would sound awful and not because I don’t like sex. This isn't a good analogy, its not consistent with your overall point? You listed hobbies, they can be fulfilling, but theyre icing on the cake. Human connection trumps all, and sex is the strongest expression of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:56 AM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeThat doesnt answer anything in detail. Data suggests a correlation between a high number of past partners and infidelity and data also suggests a greater risk of divorce amongst couples who married very young. So basically, "pair bonding" doesnt actually mean anything for a lifetime of happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:52 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeHave you ever been on a caloric deficit? If you have/ever go on one, you'll notice while it takes time to lose weight - weeks - it will only take 2-3 days of bad eating, or even eating more than your caloric deficit, to gain. Now consider someone whos just trying to get by, swarmed by stress and daily life. Counting calories is the last thing on their mind. As we get older we start to have families and kids + work really sends our health in a spiral. And generally speaking we get more tired as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:00 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeIf pair ponding doesnt offer a lifetime guarantee on desirability, then whats the appeal? Because thats the appeal for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:23 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeWeight gain is the number one real culprit and it doesnt really take that much time tbh. Most people arent using sunscreen, using tret and living healthy. Thats why most people age poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:22 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primePair bonding is real but then again so are the divorce stats for couples who marry very young. What gives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:17 PM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsHaving things in common w/a particular age doesnt really mean anything for dating bro, that barrier you jus described is really really low 😂 and while im not saying you are, your comment reads neckbeardy and youre gonna lose your audience as soon as they read anime and video games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:28 AM |
| 9 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Do you seriously have this much faith in broader social media. Do you genuinely believe people online don't butcher and misrepresent sentiments on tiktok and ig and twitter lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 34 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.This is obvious and goes without saying, the rhetoric thats been spreading misrepresents the fact as a general preference (happier single) and leaves the "compared to someone they dont wanna be with" part unsaid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Some things are in control, the most important things are not* I say this as a relatively tall guy :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)how does knowing how to talk well, listening and remembering, complimenting, = "dont be introverted"? im introverted and i do all of these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)Im interested in the hobbies bit. What hobbies signal fun to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)whats fun to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs.Based af, i shower after shitting. Dunno how most people just carry on with their day...even fuck after shitting...🤢🤢🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Men want women to have LOW standards, not consistent standards.Anecdotes aside, humans are animals and driven by sexual attraction. That much is non negotiable fact. I don't really believe people when they act like sexual attraction can be mutable because I don't think that aligns with biology and its more likely they dont understand themselves as well as theyd like to think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | If pair bond does not exist, then how do such concepts exist?As for everything else “well it could just mean” Yeah but they don’t say that, so they? What they preach is an extreme of what actually happens but it happens nonetheless. So youve gotta be careful when you try to dismantle these kinds of rhetoric. Like i said your example of how high value comes from frieght...like dude, thats just playing obtuse at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | If pair bond does not exist, then how do such concepts exist?Well written and informative comment but just to play devils advocate I gotta say just because you can explain away a concepts roots doesnt mean they dont serve a practical purpose under a different context. Alpha/beta could just refer to how some people attract the attention of a group by possessing qualities people find alluring. like it doesnt need to be based 1:1 on wolves lmao but you can still see this happen irl. People naturally gravitate towards a particular type and its always easy to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 04:21 PM |
| 2 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.lol yeah everyone can see how little you care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.You should address his comment, e.g. if hes wrong or not. I'm not on either side but youre not helping your case rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 11:39 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menReal human being And a real hero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneThe people saying muscles matter and the people saying muscles dont matter arent the same people Theres gonna be a million ideas floating around, follow the ones that reflec reality Aka looks and personality are complimentary traits and you cant have one without the other for a sustainable relationship And you definitely cant have a casual dating life with no looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.What should undesirables do if not work on themselves to become desirable lol Theres countless accounts on people talking about how their treatment by people changed once they packed on muscle, or any other criteria that satisfies conventional thresholds Monk mode from what i know is just focusing on yourself until you think youre worthy of a partner, most people just cant actually get anywhere because they cant commit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:52 AM |
| 11 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitisnt it sad how your happiness can be defined by how much you know. those stuck in their bubbles not knowing how much better it can be will settle, and tbh, they ARE happy, but if they knew about what lies beyond, all of a sudden the happiness is lost and it becomes a chase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.there is a beautiful video on yt that i was reminded of by your comment. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3AK7prt-UI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:07 AM |
| 2 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Are you asking for yourself? I feel like you are. Happy to chat with you if you like. But generally speaking, shit like bad skin, bad teeth, and weight, are all fixable. Skeletal issues like weak chins and jaws can be fixed by implants. I mean I can go on but this isnt exactly hidden knowledge right? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 06:15 AM |
| 0 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Which is most people. Most people have fixable flaws. I said surgery for the ones who dont have fixable flaws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 02:37 AM |
| 3 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Its really not that hard to become attractive if you are able bodied. Youll never be able to fix things like height (i dont consider surgery here a valid route) and skeletal things but as far as flesh and face if nothing works you can still get surgery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”You said nobody is owed anything and people are still pushing for society to guarantee some things to people I am asking exactly who I want to ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”do you think healthcare shouldnt be guaranteed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 05:31 AM |
| 0 | This place does not match up with realityTheres as many truths as there are people, and I think online spaces tend to attract the discussion of truths that arent socially acceptable to discuss irl, even if a lot of people acknowledge them deep down. In that regard, this place can offer unique facets of reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want themMost people aren't attractive, yet most people are in relationships. What makes you think that its likely the majority are with exactly who theyd want aa opposed to the majority taking what they can get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want themI think it does indicate settling when the topics are men complaining about being left single due to their shortcomings. It is by far the most common response - just go outside, youll see all kinds of guys and women together. Theyre not wrong - you can indeed just go outside and observe exactly that. It just doesnt mean its automatically a good thing. What makes you think most arent settling in 2025 btw? People arent getting any more attractive. if anything people are getting worse, the obesity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want themYeah but then you see people mention how they see all kinds of guys with women when they go outside. In general I think more women choose to stay single than men, but as far as settling goes, its pretty close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want themPeople should rather stay single* Applies to both men and women - seems like the majority settle for various reasons. people are scared of loneliness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 06:43 PM |
| 27 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.Its both, society absolutely has a role in this. I mean "Men are more visual, women are more emotional" is one of the most parroted sentiments Ive ever seen in gender discussions. The idea that looks just dont matter as much to women is damn near cultural and has been for possibly decades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Aint nobody clickin yo shit lil bro lol, stop tryin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:55 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Looks like I struck a nerve. Put on some sunscreen before you burn yourself on that edge <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:53 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Yeah its fine by me too haha. Have a good one lil guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:50 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Yes, I thought it was obvious that Ive been in agreement since the beginning 😂 just letting you know since you misunderstood me the first time. Precisely the same as the aforementioned traits and qualities which you seem to have understood and digsted just fine. If youre saying white people outperform non white people in the west, yes, its a natural consequence of white people being the vast majority. Not something to fall under objective beauty, though. Just a matter of numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:44 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Yeah as a guy you have a whole lot of odds stacked against you. Nothing so detrimental that it makes things impossible, but so much of it is out of your control. Height, frame, hairloss (semi controllable - taking medds is still a gamble in my eyes) vs women just needing to lose weight lol And i KNOW this comes off as distasteful but the point is its not the same challenges at all, it boils down to uncontrollable vs controllable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:41 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Whites beat people from the sub-continent. Clarification? Subjective opinions only really enter the equation when you discuss Monica Bellucci vs Sophia Loren or Brad Pitt vs Pierce Brosnan. This is essentially what I mean. Beauty is subjective but its not "somebody's 10 will be somebodys 4, somebodys 4 will be somebodys 10" the margins are thinner. Here, I agree even though it's rather unrelated to my post Needs to be said because too many still suffer from realizing they fell for thinking looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:39 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.True, beauty is subjective within objective parameters. No one will ever find a weak chinned, big nosed, crooked toothed, bald, short guy attractive. But it doesnt even need to be that extreme. It takes far less to not meet the threshold, which is why everyone man or woman should worship their body and do it right by working on it forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:27 AM |
| 0 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)The thing is you realize how empty the experience was after post nut clarity. That should stop you to realize youre throwing a lot of money away for something that isnt real. It would be less pathetic for someone to buy a sex doll tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:38 PM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menMost people dont desire average *anything* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)This dude has never had post nut clarity apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:51 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normFor sure its not that black and white, but for all practical purposes, the perception wont be shaken off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:52 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normOf course, one proves that youre wanted and the other proves thst you had no option but to pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Because it's written for men and to appease male egos around penis size among the pornbrained. Most men aren't hung tho. This doesn't make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:52 PM |
| 16 | What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size?Stop being dramatic you sound like a fuckin wuss with your little vomit emojis and whinging. Women do get dick pics all the time it's a pretty fair assumption. Just say ok and move on lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menAt the same time being open to someone thats contrasts with you a little isnt a bad idea. I mean its a spectrum right, im an indoors guy and like my space, fuckin hate crowds. But im open to people who are the opposite of that because it could mean they drag my ass out and i get to experience new things and maybe grow as a person. What I WOULDNT do is act like im part of niche lifestyles like goth or emo or punk, like i enjoy moshpits, etc, but thats specific af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAndor is truly peak star wars imo cant wait for season 2. I havent felt this riled up for the "cause" since AoT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleWouldnt there be some kind of "fix" if men stopped bein simps and started swiping more selectively themselves Is the unbalance not created by men making most women on the apps feeling like theyve got the luxury of being selective due to the insane number of swipes coming their way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIts funny because getting sex is easy, most people do it, whether theyre junkies, overweight, or short. Its not exactly equal to being accepted into Harvard or something. Basically someone who dumpster dived qualifies based on your logic which is actually an L compared to someone who wouldn't and is therefore a virgin But yeah not wrong on the second paragraph | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 09:02 AM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youI'm not moving any goalposts, as I said I'm happy to go fetch some lol. Was just surprised a few threads would be enough to sway your mind. Are all your convictions that malleable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:26 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youYou want specific examples? Lol I don't mind finding some later. I just don't think why an example matters. Obviously its not like it never ever absolutely ever happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:13 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youNeither of us have enough time to validate if 90% of reddit is out of touch but not sure why you'd bet against it. Anyway, r/inceltear and r/inceltears are good starting points if you wanna see virtue signalling and comments on how looks are important get downvoted. You will find the inverse as well, but its not common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:07 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youOne thing I've noticed is that a lot of women seemingly depend on makeup ("men want no makeup until we wear no makeup") meanwhile the male counterparts seem to be doing just fine without it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:13 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youliterally 90% of reddit and a fair few irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:11 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youAre you saying its an empty comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:08 PM |
| – | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youlooksmaxxing should be every humans religion. Not for attention or validation but out of respect to the vessel youve been gifted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | If the average man is in a relationship and has the opportunity to cheat with an attractive women he should do itThere is no argument out there that can make this acceptable. To reduce yourself to your base instincts and impulses is so pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves.what’s wrong with that? You don't see how that isn't normal? That's not very mentally well adjusted bro lol. Healthy people dont ACTUALLY risk therapy and trauma and abuse because of the hoWellnot consciously no. Which means when it is happening it's coming from a place that isn't healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?maybe you're searching in the wrong places. Fair argument but we live in a digital era as you said soon after. You can't change a changing world to accommodate you but maybe you can adapt to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?Honestly I am with your sentiment but I don't agree that there's a significant overlap or even a small overlap between people who did everything and people who are unsuccessful with dating The number of people with a 6 pack is already only around 10-15%, the lower estimate of which is actually smaller than the number of men that are 6ft or above That doesn't mean I think success is a matter of when, not if. Certainly some men can do everything possible short of plastic surgery and still fail...b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:25 PM |
| – | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?Interesting that you could give bad teeth a pass. Its one of the very first things people notice on a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 11:56 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwhy is it that men look just fine without makeup but women without makeup are made to look like some shriveled up prune lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:04 PM |
| 3 | "social skills" = superficially charmingI was just talking about this to a friend like 1 minute before I saw this, wow lol. Yeah I feel the exact same. Just a detachment and thinking Id be fake af trying to make friends because I seem to like the idea of friends more than actually having friends. But maybe I just dont have the energy in general and theres something more at play. I dont think Im a idgaf kind of person. Id hope so anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?For the vast majority of people thats when it happens though? Im not disgusted by sweat, im disgusted by a body that has racked up DAY old sweat while their genitals and thighs have been kissing toilet seats and toilet bowl air Youre free to fuck however you want whenever you want, im not here to tell you what to do 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?No it isnt plenty. Youve been racking up sweat all day, your body has been producing odor all day. Youve had various bathroom breaks. Im not touching someone who climbs into bed like that, its disrespectful to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?I don't know what you're here for but my point was that if you dont shower before sex thats disgusting. Is there anything more you'd like to add lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?I wasn't saying you should shower as a substitute for douching for anal 😂 I was saying you should shower before sex whether youre doing anal or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?Where do you think anal takes place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearancethe avg joe cant self improve himself upto being 6'4 tall but do you really think its a worthless pursuit in general lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictNow this, I can fully get behind. Wholly agreed here. I never used rehabilitation in my original comment because I didn't even think it possible, I still don't - but I still hope it can be done. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictNow this, I can fully get behind. Wholly agreed here. I never used rehabilitation in my original comment because I didn't even think it possible, I still don't - but I still hope it can be done. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictI don't trust any ideals based on extremism regardless of the underlying intent. What you're doing is making an enotional plea - its dangerous, and it has historically caused a great number of suffering and death. If you ignore nuance and refuse to accept how protecting some of the young means endangering the rest, then your ideals are bogus and don't serve a safe, practical purpose. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictMate are you seriously gonna suggest theres less accountability for cold blooded murder because the law has guidelines on who isnt eligible to consume certain content? Do you realize that on that list the 18+ media consumption is still good to go under the approval/supervision of an adult? Drugs like alcohol are prohibited because they can hurt the developing brain...its not an arbitrary line. Are you sure you're informed enough to have this discussion? I dont mean this in a disrespectful way I … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictMate are you seriously gonna suggest theres less accountability for cold blooded murder because the law has guidelines on who isnt eligible to consume certain content? Do you realize that on that list the 18+ media consumption is still good to go under the approval/supervision of an adult? Drugs like alcohol are prohibited because they can hurt the developing brain...its not an arbitrary line. Are you sure you're informed enough to have this discussion? I dont mean this in a disrespectful way I … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictI mean at least for this specific case, she wasn't actually insane. Pretty sure all murderers are fucked in the head to an extent though - but they're not as bad as literal clinical insanity. I'll be honest its hard to sympathize with this kid, as far as the facts go she isnt insane, and I have no idea how you have the room in your heart to talk about human dignity when it comes to a 15 year old (which is old enough to know right and wrong, jesus....) shooting her mom in the face and then trying… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictWoah this has nothing to do with some sick idea of justice. I just think its fucked up to have insane inmates confined to a cell while theyre drugged up all day...for the rest of their life. That is not living. They may be breathing, but that is not LIVING. I'm actually really surprised how some of you can't see the point I'm making | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictI'm using assisted suicide as an example of emotions dictating how people get treated, and how this is no different. I wasn't changing the context lol | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictI guess we will have to agree to disagree then. Such emotional pleas are what kept assisted suicide out of reach for those who suffered as well. If genocide is wrong (and it is, obviously) then so is prolonging the suffering of people who are reduced to fucking houseflies that bump from one corner of a cell to another for the rest of their lives. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/24 08:00 PM |
| 2 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictIs your counter the slippery slope argument? Or do you have an actual argument for why this is worse than incapacitating the mentally insane via drugs, cutting them off from contact with other humans, and the entire world, for the rest of their LIFE? I'm not trying to be provocative, I'm happy to be shown why my pov is wrong. But I'm not interested in slippery slope arguments because I already agree that in practice the slippery slope has proven to take effect across history. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/24 07:34 PM |
| 6 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictI mean i think its more unethical to just keep those undesirables alive, its not even about punishing them its just keeping them out of society to keep it safe isnt it? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/24 06:24 PM |
| 4 | 15yo girl who killed mum sobs over guilty verdictWhats the point of keeping someone like that alive? I mean they're not even living - just existing - and draining resources | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Look up chin implants before and after or jaw surgery before and after What do you think beauty is its just harmony, you figure out whats disrupting yours, whats causing an imbalance whether thats a nose thats too big, a chin thats recessed, a jaw that has no presence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?I dont condone plastic surgery cuz it can destroy people with extreme body dysmorphia, but bro theres no way youre so ugly that plastic surgery cant save you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?if lifting down to 12% bodyfat cant save you then only plastic surgery will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"I feel like its wrong to date just for experience tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:38 AM |
| 0 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.You guys? we're the richest people in usa and have the most real estate in uk and are the most educated in aus lmao Bro gets his idea of indians off memes, the definition of a terminally online loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Cracker wants to talk empiricism when he can't argue my logic lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the timeIs there any way yall would be on dating apps or is that the wrong avenue to search lol I wont lie i trashed the idea of relationships throughout my teens cuz i was butt ugly and then I had an online relationship for 4 years but now Im moving towards becoming someone i can learn to respect, i dont hate how i look as much as i used to and feel like i should go for irl now. Only issue is im turning 24 soon, still in uni and yeah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Yeah bro chadfishing proved looks reign supreme, but I still think that good women with class wouldnt fall for the 10/10 nazi. I dont see bad men gettin hot women regardless as an L when gettin those women for anything but a lay is not a W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:52 AM |
| 0 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.In the west white people make up the majority, so thats the dating pool. it also means there are more examples of better looking white people when the population is bigger, and so we see more good looking white people more often. Living in Australia Ive seen my extended fam marry white women, and their family friends marry white women too, while theres only one indian woman who married white herself. Chad is their own race | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What Lets You Trust a Man?Can beliefs be seperate from the person themselves? People excercise their beliefs by voting for what they think will bring a society that aligns with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Embracing the Redpill is like stepping out of a sunlit dream into the cold light of dayart often aims to reflect facets of reality, and much wisdom is conveyed through it. but yes, using children's content shouldnt be one's reference point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Do women look down upon their husbands/bflooks are subjective within tiers. for example, a guy thats within the range of objective beauty of below average would get subjective receptions where some may think hes average. a guy thats within the range of objective average may get subjective reception that lands him ugly or cute. guys in the range of objective above average may get called hot or meh. guys who are unquestionably model material may face this to, albeit at sparser rates. at the extremes, its less subjective, some traits are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?regardless of diet one should be showering before sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?good for you bro! I had the goal of retiring by 35 but unfortunately i fell into a pit and dunked on uni for 3 years. Im 23 now and just about to complete my first year (finally) can i ask you details on the figures youve achieved and how? im currently in cs but the market has gone shite and well, most people who know, know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?describe your glow up. did you get your money up? you got abs now? clear skin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:48 AM |
| – | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.This sounds like such an impossible thing to experience cuz my uni is a commuting college and a minority dorm at campus... 23 about to finish my first year in my degree here btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Is having an income greater than minimum wage a prerequisite to dating past age 22? Or even past age 23?ive realized i probably shouldve done something about mental health before i turned 23 because its only then i finally got serious with uni. i wont be graduating until 25.5/26 and that means i wont exactly have my shit together for a few more years, rip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | How can you tell between "High Value Women" and "Low value Women"?its ok to shower in the morning as long as you also shower at night. I hate to use the term unironically, but sliding into bed with someone whos spent an entire day accumulating BO and sweat and gone to the toilet several times is the biggest ick. The fact that its so normal for most people to LIVE like that is crazy to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 05:12 PM |
| 31 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooA distinction between settling and compromising defs gotta be made during these debates, one is sad and the other is part of life and normal and often healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average men100% for both genders! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menEh idk bro they cant all be joking. I think its a big wide world and with 8 billion people walking it there's gonna be people that forego all decency, principles and self respect for a chance at some unicorn dick/pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menIm not a blackpill guy and actually don't give weight to the experiment im about to cite, but im curious on what you think of the "Atomic blackpill" experiment where profiles were made of very good looking men that featured "convicted domestic abuser/rapist and even pedo" in their bio which was then brought up in chat as well - there were many examples of women dismissing that by unironically saying everyone makes mistakes now my take is that there will always be trashy women who will be despera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menYou got unlucky in the fat distribution area bro. I haven't seen you so could also be body dysmorphia. Most people observe a noticeable facial difference around 15% bf tho...so unless you've made it that far, no point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Looksmaxxing when applied correctly can alter the trajectory of a bro's life. Sorry if you've done it all and still end up disappointed - I hope you find what you're looking for. And I mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menWhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.if men are settling just for the sake of having someone that's their pathetic choice lol. Same with women. Such arrangements breed resentment and invite infidelity. Compromise attraction for companionship and you will suffer. Regarding the double standards, all I have to say is men should looksmax and if they then cannot couple up with their looksmatch then they should keep trying but never settle. Damn how long it takes, do it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Attraction is out of your control, you can't protest your way into getting a woman wet for you. If you're mid you're not gonna get the women you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:50 PM |
| -1 | Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less soThats apples and oranges imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menOh of course. The benefits of working out are not limited by sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with the upper bound of self improvementYes there is a cap to it and everyone will reach different peaks but at least you can take it easy knowing you did your best. No more late night thoughts on what aspect of you is holding you back, what more you can work on, if you just fix this one last thing etc That being said I dont really understand your point on natural beauty - people born beautiful have to put in work too, but instead of reaching a goal theyre maintaining what theyve got. People born around and below average have to get t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?This is false security ngl, getting a gf is easy. Getting the gf you WANT, now that is hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Self improvement is quite limited for menI was replying to the comment above me which was replying to you - but what I meant is that being successful isnt enough when youre around average looking because money and status arent biological drivers for innate desire in the way being hot would be. So it may be easy for a successful doctor with wealth to get partnered up, but if hes average looking then its easy to see what drew someone to him, and im not sure if thats a happy story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Self improvement is quite limited for menIn the back of every mid guys mind is a voice asking them what someone sees in them, while knowing it cant be their looks. the voice is self sabotaging and self destructive but not exactly wrong. Everyone fears being settled for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menbro is strong but cmon look at that gut. you think this is what women picture when you say muscular guy. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:55 PM |
| 7 | Self improvement is quite limited for menlol legit. A hot guy with a mid body will beat a mid guy with a hot body but to say its merely a bonus without understanding the effect of working out on the face is crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Self improvement is quite limited for menWomen rarely judge other women as sub 5. They do, and harshly, just not out in the open. The toxic positivity goes hard among many women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menYour BMI IS your face. Men at a lower bmi (at least 15%) have an entirely different face from what they'd have at regular builds. Defined bone structure, something most men do not possess. A muscular body, something most me do not possess. I think you do not understand this insanely significant byproduct of working out. Other things you can account for are hair teeth and skin. Having straight healthy teeth, clear skin, and good hair are all things most men do not possess. You can't grow a square… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:49 PM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Most people do not percieve fat as strong. I am sure you are strong, but it does not compare to having a low fat percentage because that reveals the best your face has to offer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.oh god. Thanks for pointing out my error | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.As respectfully as possible, I ask if youre saying your husband isnt your best? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How much slack do you cut your spouse/SO vs other people?As a lot of people have said the question could be defined better, but outside of the obvious I'm going to answer with day to day shit in which case I have a very low tolerance for all things hygiene related. I consider myself extremely reasonable so I don't compromise when it comes to things that make me straight up uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | When I am in love with a woman, I find both her and everyone with similar physical features and mannerisms to her become more attractive to me, while women with opposite or significantly different features become less attractive. Does this happen to other people?May I ask what you do for a living? Also, agreed on the american perception. Im aussie but I have my own pov given our less remarkable wages when compared to the same american professions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | When I am in love with a woman, I find both her and everyone with similar physical features and mannerisms to her become more attractive to me, while women with opposite or significantly different features become less attractive. Does this happen to other people?Most people stop living life that way after a while. I imagine a big chunk of people simply cannot afford this lifestyle, tbf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Yea breh tired of seeing a 100 paragraph long essays on why shits fucked when its just men being losers pedestalizing pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellAt the same time theres a small but legitimate trend that goes about talking how todays middle aged people look so young...a testament to what using sunscreen, working out, keeping drugs (especially alcohol and smoking) to a minimum can achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:05 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellIm 23 but think you can still be great looking in your mid 30s and beyond. The fact is, most people youll see irl will always be the product of a lifetime of shitty habits, diet, and self care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.One of the only times ive seen the problem be addressed at its core this succintly lol, its all because of men and their spinelessness that things are the way they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.you have a kind outlook, its sad but true though that most men and women only look down and snicker at the audacity of being asked out by someone below their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.That was my point bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.not sure if i can pull that off as an indian bro lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.it's the biggest shot in the foot you can do to yourself Kinda like balding guys trusting men when they say just shave it all off bro? Because 99% of dudes don't have the bone structure to pull a bald head off. Some of the most iconic figures of masculinity throughout history were known for their long hair, if you can pull it off then you shouldn't fall for some bitchboy cope like this lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:41 PM |
| 33 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.I got reddit when i was like 16, and this is one of the first times ive ever thought holy shit what a stupid fucking post. What is bro cooking lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:32 PM |
| – | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?Oh yea ill agree muscle cant make up for an ugly face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:58 PM |
| – | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?Then it must mean you're not toned and fit yourself in which case your body type is equally useless to the subset of men that care about being fit and prefer fit women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?100%, its why I want someone who goes to the gym herself lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?You don't need to be a woman to call out a generalized claim over a niche perception lol. I even agreed Mr. Olympia types aren't as desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?I didn't say they alobe would help, I said its not useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?Artificial muscles? Im not talking about steroid users. My sentiment easily applies to natties. I'm with you there, roided out mr olympias arent something most women want, but I disagree that building natural muscle when you have a shit frame is useless. "Bulks on a small frame" is also a bit of an unpopular perception, in my experience (its the first im hearing of described as such) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?unless your frame is abnormal tier muscles can taper and accentuate your body. For example guys with smaller wrists can pull off the illusion that they have bigger arms as the muscles taper down from the arm to forearm. You will probably never have the same presence as the naturally broad shouldered but to say its useless is a huge exaggeration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?I understood the point, I was just playin lol. Yeah these days it doesn't take much to break into the upper echelons when most people are obese or on their way to getting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?shit bro, thats what constitutes stacy nowadays? didn't know i only needed a 6 pack and a degree to be chad. Im on my way to being halfway there already! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Men do peak in their 30s, just like TRP says - Just not with the women they wantIf ugly to mid guys start working on themselves they won't magically get all the women they desire but isnt it still a step towards the goal if looking better and having your shit together makes you attractive which therefore gets your foot in the door | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Nearly half (44%) of Gen Z young men haven't dated in their teenage yearslol im one of those people who texts more than talk in person. I have a thriving group of online friends ive known for 5 years now and we talk everyday. some of them are uni grads and working adults, theyre not bums. i feel like i can be myself online ngl, theres more of me thats revealed via text because being who you are irl is idk more risky? especially if youve had shit self esteem all your life which ive had | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 05:07 PM |
| – | Regarding the 80/20 rule. I personally don’t see more than 1 in 5 young men walking around in relationshipsTheres confirmation bias plaguing op's perception but not about the point on gaming and I disagree that gamers are a small let alone vanishing population. If anything gamers across both sexes and all ages are higher and growing more now than ever. Wants/desires also don't mean anything if theres no self esteem or motivation present to fulfill them. Depression and mental illness is also at an all time high ofc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Perspective on autistic dating, from an autistic woman"Shallowness" is a human construct to villify human *nature*. Deep down we're animals no matter what. Now can people still use looks to judge people for all kinds of things and be vain little cunts, absolutely, but attraction is biological. Why don't you just looksmax bro. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sex😂😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sexThe point is you're just capping and bullshitting jere, and stop coping You didn't get enjoyment lmao. You just got baseless validation 🤦😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 11 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sexProbs got more hamburgers in your tummy than neurons in your head IMO lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sexShe not outperforming shit bro look at her post history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sex"Have been together for years" but has posted on r/marryrich mere months ago asking how to spot wealthy guys and if you should marry rich and take half your shit. Coping is you thinkin you some shit cuz desperate men that saw you as a hole to get a quick nut out of, no one is braggin about takin you, you're just an embarrassing friday night experience everyone who had the displeasure of having is taking to their grave 😭😭😭 Pipe down you big mac | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:59 PM |
| 12 | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sexhttps://reddit.com/r/MarryRich/s/aKuTZzTfEu LMAO don't engage with this chick. Sounds like a mouth breather that has convinced herself she's a prize when she probs a hard 5.5 on a good day 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel knowing you were truly unable to unlock your partner’s desire for you versus previous ex’s/flings?Thats not rlly the point tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV Most People in this subreddit don‘t understand that there are 2 forms off status, and just one off those 2 improves you‘re SMV.A bank account will never make her wet bro. She will wanna fuck you but only because theres something very valuable to gain. Its completely transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Why did y'all breakup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 06:25 AM |
| 3 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Interesting and actually a scary realization. It seems the world is becoming a lot lonelier than anyone could've expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men committing to LTR are in a huge disadvantage if the LTR endsNgl I'm not sure if that's a minority of the population, the average frequency of sex between married couples is about once a week. But obviously thats still more than the avg single individual by miles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:56 PM |
| 3 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.But the reality is, about half (maybe slightly more) of all men are never going to find a long term female companion Most men are married/in relationships tho, no? However I'd agree most people in general, across the board will never find a happily ever after. People settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 01:52 PM |
| 0 | The more attractive you are the easier time you'll have with the opposite sex!No amount of money, power, status, etc, can really ever change or fill the hole for the happiness that attractive men get for free Eh you can just get plastic surgery 😂 its not as mystical as you make it out to be, people end up living the lives they've wanted after getting surgery all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 12:45 PM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I looked at both of your links. What are your thoughts on the sample sizes (especially the one using asian models) and the age of the study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)Would you really want a woman you like to see you doing that? Ngl I don't think putting in effort into your appearance would necessarily be looked down upon. Now if you spend an unnaturally long time then it can become weird, but yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Yes, It mainly is the fact that asian demographics are not equal in terms of height and build to white and black men, on average. I think it's easy to reduce them as lower in the "heirarchy of races" when data on how tall and fit asians fare is pretty much non existent since they represent such a minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?While Indian men are for sure the most undesirable male group on OLD, it's not like other asian men were exactly winning for the data to get skewed. That being said I'd like a source so I can be corrected if I'm wrong. Also would appreciate a source on the asian celebrity & models having a harder time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the claim: proximity makes women vulnerable to cheatingI would never said I’d never cheat because I don’t believe in that sort of extreme prediction While I agree this honesty is good in practicality, it's scary isn't it? How can someone trust someone that doesn't even trust themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What are reasons besides abuse and infidelity would you divorce?Love is a choice, though. Attraction is 100% not, but love is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:42 AM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I'm skeptical regarding point 1 tbh, unless we're talking about bottom 20% of folk. Most people don't have chiseled jawlines but most people also don't have recessed jawlines. The point seems hard to agree with if it only applies to a specific demographic of men, when most men can probably see a noticeable difference if they put in the effort needed. If you ask me it's like asking why don't most women lose weight even though you can say everyone knows just that alone can do so much for an overwe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?If it's not enough even after exhausting all those routes of improvement then fuck the person has gotta be a hard 2, the type of unattractive that makes people stop and stare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Honestly hard to say because getting jacked and reaching crazy body fat percentages will define your face to an extent unlike any other, but ultimately if you possess features such as recessed jaw and chin, shitty teeth, etc Then yeah muscles can't compensate for that. Most people have less than ideal teeth and less than ideal bone structure, but for the drop dead average bloke I think looksmaxxing can change their life to a noticeable extent. And for the real uggers it can at the very least bri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:54 AM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?The statistics hardly account for fit, muscular and intelligent men if such traits are in the overwhelming minority, though. I don't think that makes for a good argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:49 AM |
| 0 | The Level that women are attracted to clout, fame, “status” etc is EXAGGERATEDA random internet user thinking a married women would get on her knees for drugs, money, status, car etc behind or even in front of her husband is most naive thing I've seen today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | The Level that women are attracted to clout, fame, “status” etc is EXAGGERATEDSome of these cunts and how they deal in their absolutes is too fuckin much man 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio broke up with his 25-year-old girlfriend, and you can expect WAATGM to be right there laughing at women complain about the age gap with his next girlfriend.That's Wonderful, have a joyous life ahead 😀 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Leonardo DiCaprio broke up with his 25-year-old girlfriend, and you can expect WAATGM to be right there laughing at women complain about the age gap with his next girlfriend.Not tryna throw dirt on your choices but aren't you concerned about the future with a 28 yr old age gap? Do you think about how he'll be gone decades before you while youre still relatively young? And that growing old together wouldn't be possible? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/22 08:21 AM |
| 5 | What’s it like being invisible as a man?The good ending | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Complicating these things to bring out a grey area where there is none doesn't make you clever lol, it's as simple as not facilitating an act that actively hurts someone. I promise there are better things to get "philosophical" about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?Sounds like you're goin to interviews instead of dates bro lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?I assumed you understood it just fine, but clearly you need someone to say it louder because you're still acting as if it defines relationship prospects. In practice it's not like people are gonna ask if your parents are happily together on the first date or even feature it as a requirement - in practice you'd be hard pressed to find people who actually make a conscious effort to learn whether someone they're interested in comes from a broken home. And if they do find out, you having your shit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Bro wants to talk about reality after suggesting the reason comp sci nerds arent percieved as attractive compared to mechanics is because staying upto date on java isnt enough, because you know, hunter gatherer times and maturity or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Are you cooked? This kind of conceptual thinking doesn't go behind what women are drawn to. Drawing parallels to hunter gatherer times? What? Most people don't even know that software engineering involves indefinite mastering of the craft because the field is ever changing. There's an appeal when it comes to people who know what they're doing, but this is definitely one of the more unhinged ideas I've read on here this week in ppd lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:38 PM |
| 10 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?The reasoning behind that advice is that parental stability is an indicator for how their children may turn out. Why do you think you're guaranteed to repeat your parents' faults? You can always overcome them by realizing them and learning from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Are men who want masculine/dominant girls weak?You're making this complicated, the person clearly said inflicting pain on partners who consent to it. There are a variety of things that can go in the bedroom between two consenting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themHe said I looked younger than his 16 year old daughter and then he asked me out. Hahahaha thats creepy tbh 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | 4 Attractive Variables for Men - PLZ MAKE YOUR ANSWERS SUPER SIMPLE FOR OVERTHINKING PPD MENWhat does status mean to you? Actually, in general I'm unsure what status refers to because I often see money and status as one or interchangeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?You gotta send me a link to this cloning service | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?You're just deflecting whether it's consciously or not. Assume the man you're most attracted to ever, and then he has an EXACT clone, down to the neuron (so personality is the exact same too) Copy A has a bigger dick than copy B. Which one will you choose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Going to the gym won't really change muchIts literally the simplest thing in the world. Diet+ Exercise. At 21 I want to turn my life around from being a skinny fat couch indulger but fuck i just can't figure out the diet bit. Just frustrates me how im supposed to fit like 150g of protein in a day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionEveryone that’s not on dope is always improving themselves How do you define improving oneself? The vast majority are complacent with how their life is. Most people aren't familiar with all the concepts discussed here, most men believe "it's all about personality" when there's a lot more nuance. Most people don't pursue a higher education and most people definitely aren't in the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women of PPD ratingThis take is so rarely seen, and it makes me glad everytime someone mentions it because it makes perfect sense despite many not considering it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thingOh I believe the sentiment for how important connection is. I thought you were saying working on yourself is rather fruitless, but yes, I get what you mean now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | You have to actually be genuinely sexy to be lusted after in your LTR, its not common in average relationships and that isnt a bad thingFor men, this is nowhere near sufficient to attract women Why do you think so? Most people aren't lean with a 6 pack, groom well, or have good hygiene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean when you refer to the average guy?I think there's still some nuance though. A feeling of it being too good to be true? I generally want to be optimistic, but it seems that for some people, no matter what they do, they can't seem to break out of the invisible zone. Kinda scary when you see those examples. Regardless, if the pool of attractive people is small, and the pool of average and below average make up the majority that also seem to be complacent with it, one has no excuse to not try and leave to a better party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you mean when you refer to the average guy?that's your totally avg, smv = 5 guy Lol. I'm not sure if this rating holds up in the real world, but if this is how most people think of as average, things like height aside...it's ridiculously easy to become above average 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Sorry, what was that about thin lips? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Women dont value fittest as much as status and height. I agree, there's no denying that. However I also don't think you're at a point where women actually notice. Surprisingly, the consensus I've gathered on the value of male fitness in this sub has been positive; none of that "you think women care but only guys will compliment you" rhetoric that Ive seen rather often elsewhere 🤣 But i lift for myself too so not gonna stop Godspeed amigo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Damn, uncontrollable factors aside, it goes to show it really isn't rhat hard to go from invisible to visible as a man, if only because the vast majority of men allow it by staying mediocre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?I took a look. A lotta data I'm too tired to infer anything from, but is it safe to say a guy with a 6 pack is 1/10 guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?How many men and women, out of 10, do you think are very fit, strong and healthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereAn older dude trying to enter a relationship with a younger woman of legal age is 100% predatory and creepy, anyone who disagrees has no real understanding of differences in maturity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notYes, the point is exactly that it is subjective and that these days everyone is being compared against completely unrealistic, often completely doctored, beauty standards. I don't think a celebrity being rated a 5 = the threshold to be considered average is to be a standard celebrity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notI feel like that is purely a cynical outlook in this context, it mainly just reaffirms that beauty is subjective which isn't a notion deemed silly by many in this sub in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notYou're takin the wrong message from comments like these, if anything you should be hopeful because if people say that people widely agreed upon to be very attractive are average/meh to them then the opposite holds just as much validity aka an average fella could be seen as chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away?You think you can constrain it behind the doors of the courtroom, and as a good parent you can try your best. But the sadness and bitterness bleeds out in other ways. It just does. And your children WILL breathe it in. Trust me I'm not a stranger to it as a kid who had a broken home growing up. It's in the air, there's no avoiding it, and when one party wants to fight, it's for the best if at least the other party walks away instead of turning it into a years long ordeal. Even if you manage the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away?How are you doing now mate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:59 AM |
| 7 | [Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away?You're not smart at all tbh, you haven't addressed the point of trauma it inflicts on the child to see their parents fight in court for years. You think they understand the intricacies? All they know is that mom and dad are fighting. Your issue is your approach is inherently selfish, you're all about "fighting" for "your" kid, nevermind whether if that's the best for your kid or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Society has failed (Men).Right, simps fuckin destroyed the dating market not women wtf 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 3 | If a women has only her body, then men will only want her body. If a man has only his money, a women will only want him for his money.as when you get older it's impossible to keep up with looks This is why you start in your 20s. Skincare, supplements like retinol, and a whole bounty of practices that help slow down the process. You'll be sittin pretty in your late years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:47 AM |
| 7 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?Bro don't you know, every single cute girl you've seen has already been banged by chad, bro cmon get with the program pls bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:02 AM |
| 6 | How did you ruin the Holidays? Mega-ThreadWhy? Because daddy has no girlfriend wasting his money and can afford this kind of shit. The poor kids can play UNO with their parents. If you need a lack of a partner to be able to finance nice tech for kids, you aren't exactly rich enough to call kids who spend time with their fam poor, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Body odor, more than personality, is a huge factor for genetic attraction between people (from BBC)And a diet that doesn't fuck your odor up, like a strong amount of garlic and onions, etc. Fuck I need to move on from curry 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Race is also hugely important. Women definitely have racial preferences in dating. After a certain point, all races are equal because certain traits override everything else. Feel free to share what you think, I'm interested to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeThat's not what I said - I don't deny you saw what you saw, I was saying a one time experience doesn't define the whole community lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeI go on that sub sometimes. Most guys there just want someone, no list of criteria or standards, just someone. Haven't seen shit you're talking about there ever lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?I'm sorry mate I don't follow 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?I visit this sub from time to time just to observe the discourse. If you reject pill philosophies, what do you seek in this sub, seeing that most discourse is based upon what you think is childish rhetoric? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 4 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Just from reading around here I see the general attributes for a hmv are money and fitness - and that these things will attract hvw. So what's wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22781083/ https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00926230252851203 Idk where your confidence is coming from, but it sure as fuck isn't from experience. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?What a load of shite, especially points 1-3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Facial attraction is the single most confusing and understudied category for a reason.The ultimate determining factor will always be harmony, people can have wide chins and jaws but look goofy because it simply doesn't mesh well with the rest of their face. It's not as black and white as meeting all the criteria in a checklist based off hollywood stars tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 10:09 AM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Definitely not dumb shit like "brush your teeth", but "take a shower", and "get a haircut" go deeper than most people realize imo. I feel like the problem is that "just shower and get a haircut bro" is a meme because people simply don't realize the extent of those actions, how broad they are. No, if you JUST shower and get a haircut you obviously won't make MUCH of a difference, and you're a fuckin idiot if you thought that was enough to be your salvation. You gotta get haircuts and styles that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardBut the vast majority of men do not diet, go to the gym 5 times a week, or dress nice. Only a small percentage do some of them and only an even smaller percentage do all 3. Where and how have you studied such a small sample to make your conclusion? Imo doing all 3 as an average man does boost you up the ladder a fair bit because you become unlike the majority around you. Just wondering if you're a typical defeatist or actually have something of substance to say about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?The stem experience is dogshit when it comes to relationships and even friendships - but I still think it's worth it. I can work a lil harder to attain opportunities if it means I'll be earning a ton of money for going through hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?I already made a point on strict preferences using skin colour as an example - and besides, these preferences can and do get overrided depending on what else is on the table lol. One factor usually isn't a deal breaker in practice, in the face of various attractive factors, because attraction is fluid. If your concluding statement is "race just gets special treatment" you didn't really digest anything I said amigo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?I guess you just got unlucky lol, I know indian mates from the mainland who don't want kids. But I'm also from gen X (20 yr old) so there are bound to be changes and a movement that shifts away from tradition and all that. Based off your story I guess I can't blame you, if you kept encountering the same kind of incompatibility all the time from a particular group of people, you don't really have much reason to keep looking there. But yeah, stuff like this doesn't apply anymore, or not in my expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Hey I'm glad you're living the life, but throwing a blanket over non white men featuring toxic traits based off a few online anecdotal experiences is just silly lol You don't have a sweet white man because you were smart, you have a sweet white man because you let online discourse on a platform that attracts extremist mentalities validate a narrative (or create the one you're preaching) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Look, I'm not denying your experiences, nor am I denying a correlation exists between people from heavily patriarchal cultures and misogynistic worldviews. The problem is viewing the world with that lens, it's not doing you good the same way it wouldn't do someone viewing black men as potential thugs any good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Is it really racist to prefer men who don't slut-shame? Is it really "racism" to prefer men who are likeliest to be childfree? I mean, you have to be close minded as fuck to assume ethnic = slut shamer I don't know any guys or girls who have this worldview, and Idk what generation you're from, but that ain't it bro lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Yes, agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Thing is I doubt such severe preferences are even something that play into practice, in reality a boatload of other features, if good enough, can and will override the one characteristic you're against, so there's no point arguing about it 😂 Treating a race as if all of its people look/behave/feature characteristics that are all the same is ignorant and stupid as fuck no doubt, but I wouldn't go as far as saying it's racist. At most it's rooted in a racist manner of thinking however, because if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?I wouldn't go as far as declaring racial preferences as racist... However you're making a false equivalency. All people of the opposite sex have characteristics of the opposite sex, barring transgender folk who have undergone sexual reassignment surgery. However all people of x race do not possess the characteristics of x race, races are not homogeneous. There's a wide array of differences in each racial group and there will be thousands and thousands of people in every race that will tick off y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?On jah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?Man I was literally the only guy I knew in hs who fawned over thighs and now social media is full of it, which is good because hey as you said, you hated yours when younger just like so many other women and now they're seen as desirable, everyone wins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?and it seemed to me everyone was obsessed with boob, not butt. I thought I was the only one who thought this. When I was a teen I was a fuck ton more into tits and legs, and now you see a trend of people worshipping thighs As I got older I liked ass too but its interesting to think about whether that was societal/cultural or just me developing taste P.s. - I'm 20, for reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: Fat girls, what was your reaction when you finally realized that looks matter?Many women =/= all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Guy that responded is a heroDont take it to heart, reddit will downvote regardless of your edits. In fact some cunts will see a comment getting downvoted and will downvote as well just for the heck of it lmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/09/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Online dating While Minority? You're gonna have a bad time, part 3: Black and Asian men with a college degree are excluded more than Whites without; Asian women are more responsive to White men than to Asian men (Lin & Lundquist, 2013)I have an indian friend who just turned 18, who is 5'7-8, and isnt lean. Hes actually kinda chubby but hes working on it. He got matches on tinder with heaps of white girls, some of them which were really hot. We live in Aus, tho. I think Aus is much more accepting, and based on what Ive seen in high school here, a racial disadvantage is nowhere to be found. | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Girls are way to easy manDoesnt matter, wasnt the point. Youre either lying or are fucking whack bitches raised by whack parents in a whack town coz no way does this shit work in places that have deceny. What a shit person you are lmao. Nibba still a kid and joining shit like MGTOW, sad af | /r/MGTOW | 24/02/18 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Girls are way to easy manYeah, this the shit Id expect to hear from some cnt whos never been in a real fight. | /r/MGTOW | 22/02/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Girls are way to easy manDumb nibba hasnt even seen me yet and thinks he can take me. Hahaha we got a mix of r/iamverybadass in this shit too | /r/MGTOW | 22/02/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls are way to easy manHahahaha this bich is 16 and bitchin bout being mr.stealyourgirl, shut yo dumbass up | /r/MGTOW | 22/02/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | This Female Muslim tutor was charged with sexually assaulting a teen studentI assumed you were being sarcastic because of your last two points in your og message. Regardless of wether the calender system was different asking a muslim isnt fair as the answer will ofc be biased imo. Also, you said "this was a few years ago" also questioning credibility. Lmao jus the way you said it made it sound sarcastic to me lol | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/12/17 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Women claims this guy got her pregnantEXACTLY what I was gonn comment lmao. Holy shit jus what is that... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/12/17 11:55 PM |
| 2 | This Female Muslim tutor was charged with sexually assaulting a teen studentYoure being sarcastic ye? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/12/17 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Girl tries to kiss guy, but gets deniedIf u dont mind could you tell me what it was? I really wanna know!! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/12/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Judge rejects probation in college false rape caseYeah wtf | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | [IMPORTANT PPD ANNOUNCEMENT] Introducing /r/racistPassDeniedEh wish the r was capital as well but whatever | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Science: Indians with big cocks don't exist.Hahahahahahahahahahahaha oh man biches would be surprised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Woman rapes middle schooler, no jail timeI wonder what feminists these days (the tumblr type ones) and sjws have ti say about this incident | /r/PussyPass | 30/09/17 06:59 AM |
| 7 | DeniedI dont know why you getting downvoted. Obviously that guy hasn't had the best luck. Thats just life tho lmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Boom-roasted.I laughed at the post, was like ooh thats savage, but ye youve git a fair point | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/17 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Judge Judy Destroys 3 Feminists - Judge Vs FeministThanks g hav a nice one tc | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/17 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Girl splashes guy with water. Guy dumps bucket on herThis is such a beautifully reasonable response. Srs lmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/17 09:51 AM |
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